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00:00:00.000 that men are respected in society by women no no by other men yeah but by

00:00:08.580 women no I think they are they are yeah I think I think that they are respected

00:00:19.020 due to the position that they hold and the amount of things that they do for

00:00:24.660 the society as a whole I think they are respected do you think most women are 1.00

00:00:29.620 aware how much men do for society as a whole no so then how are they respected

00:00:35.620 if women don't generally know that and they make up the majority of society so 1.00

00:00:39.860 55% I'd say that a lot of women do respect men I think speaking to your mic sorry I

00:00:45.520 think saying most women don't respect men is a bit of a high number to say but I

00:00:51.280 think a majority of women that want a man do respect a man there's a lot of women 1.00

00:00:57.700 not say for example for example like very heavy like feminists they don't 1.00

00:01:03.580 think that men some of them don't think men deserve there was as much respect as

00:01:08.940 do you think most women let their do you think what most women in relationships 0.98

00:01:13.720 let their husbands lead I think they should and I'm asking what they do um like

00:01:21.760 they respect him enough to trust his authority well if you're in a

00:01:24.860 relationship then yeah you should respect him no I'm not asking should I'm asking

00:01:28.700 what is I don't know I don't have the answer to that I'm not sure your general I

00:01:33.200 think yeah most people in your life you would say the woman you've never heard

00:01:37.740 anything like she wears the pants in the relationship no no no no never heard that

00:01:41.120 no okay go ahead I'm sorry do you think men are respected in society no I don't I just I'm not in

00:01:50.180 general respects yes and obviously they should be but no I going back to the

00:01:56.300 point I made earlier about women listening to other women about what it 0.99

00:02:01.480 what we think men want if we listen to men if we respected them this wouldn't be

00:02:06.420 an issue we would listen to them we wouldn't be going to other women and 0.99

00:02:09.440 appeasing and competing with them because we would know that's not even what men 0.81

00:02:13.460 want so if you respect them it comes to honoring them listening to them and

00:02:18.180 society does not reflect a general overall population that respects men

00:02:23.460 because we aren't giving men what they want men are complaining men are

00:02:26.720 desperate for women who respect them and hear them and see them and we aren't 0.99

00:02:31.460 doing that so overall we don't respect them I think majority of men are

00:02:38.580 respected in society even at situations in the gym you might go to the gym and

00:02:43.800 you're using something and a man might come over because you're a woman he kind of 1.00

00:02:46.980 thinks he can push you away or take your weight so whatever was he going to do

00:02:49.620 over man maybe in certain situations a woman would respect a man that's happened 0.56

00:02:54.660 to me yeah but I mean that's just in the gym but just in general anyway like

00:03:00.000 unless a man gives you a reason not to respect him then I think majority of the

00:03:04.180 time you would respect him so why do you think we men are trash is a common saying 0.80

00:03:07.980 and men are the problem or the issue if most women respect men why do we have 0.99

00:03:11.680 those sayings I think there's just kind of extremists that have gone through

00:03:15.180 situations where they have maybe gone through a lot of times due to their own

00:03:19.620 fault because they're not learning but and then they just take their anger out on

00:03:23.760 line making these expressions and yeah just going forward with that so you just

00:03:28.740 think it's a minority I mean I don't have that view on men because I think if 0.95

00:03:33.120 someone's trash then they're trash and that's just a personal thing and there 0.51

00:03:36.940 are quite a lot of people that say that but that's kind of what's put out to you you 0.97

00:03:40.900 don't really see the nice nice stuff sometimes I think most women respect the 1.00

00:03:44.920 average Tesco worker the average KFC where I don't know what you guys have

00:03:49.660 here the chicken the the chicken shop worker it's one thing to average or it's

00:03:56.260 one thing to respect successful men and men and you know high power positions but

00:04:00.320 do you think most women respect average men um I think most decent women do just as

00:04:05.940 respecting a person I I have an interesting story about that because

00:04:10.140 just the other day being in London not being from here I I always engage I'm

00:04:14.580 always friendly just talking to different people and I had an

00:04:17.700 interesting conversation with my uber driver the other day and he was telling

00:04:21.700 me about how he he has a nice car he has his own business and things like that but

00:04:27.000 he doesn't drive his nice car when he's doing uber right why will we put it run up

00:04:31.700 the miles on a nice car right and he has had his eye on a particular girl here in

00:04:36.320 London and he's he was telling me that that's generally the culture here when

00:04:40.040 he goes out and he's in his plane clothes and he's in his uber Prius driving

00:04:44.720 around girls aren't trying to give him play but because they had mutual friends he

00:04:48.200 ended up going out with her one night when he was he had on his Louis baton bag

00:04:51.920 and he had on he had his nice car the same girl who was ignoring him was 1.00

00:04:56.720 giving him attention and the time of day now and he literally told her you know

00:05:01.520 you ignored me the other day right and she tried to downplay it and laugh it off 0.84

00:05:04.520 like oh haha no not at all and from the males that I have encountered here I

00:05:09.920 would say it's the same in the in the US too as well from a lot of girls you see 0.98

00:05:13.460 him and he's looking bummy and he because he works sanitation or whatever the case

00:05:17.060 may be and you're like uh whatever and then when you see them in a different

00:05:20.960 setting now you want oh he has something oh he's flashy now he's this I

00:05:25.520 would absolutely say that that is the culture and I've heard it from men's mouth 1.00

00:05:28.760 that story just two days ago from my uber driver and I was like appalled I was

00:05:33.340 like are you serious he's like yeah and I told her get away like no like I have

00:05:37.160 no interest in you now you just ignored me you've been ignoring me for months and

00:05:40.540 now that we're out you see my nice car you see my Rolex you see that I have

00:05:44.160 stuff you're interested now what do you think do you think most women respect 0.69

00:05:49.780 most men I don't think they do no there's a lot of women now these days that 1.00

00:05:54.040 don't want to stand on their own two feet because of society and that's just the way

00:05:57.140 it is and I think a lot of women won't build of a man so if she sees him at his 1.00

00:06:01.520 lowest a woman doesn't want that I think that's wrong personally but yeah is that 1.00

00:06:05.840 what you did it you said you had three kids yeah I was with my ex from when I was 14

00:06:09.800 till I was 23 we just didn't work out we still get along you know we're amicable and

00:06:14.700 that's it unfortunately it just didn't work out for us why not um basically because of a 0.99

00:06:21.620 lot of women out here are trash and they throw themselves because they see a man 1.00

00:06:25.800 doing his thing and he's got nice things and he I think he was just a weak man and 0.99

00:06:29.860 he accepted that there's a lot of things that I wouldn't do in the bedroom that

00:06:33.420 these women was willing to do with him so I think that's just yeah did these women

00:06:37.400 you know that he was in a relationship um a lot of women yeah a lot of them did

00:06:40.540 yeah do you think that's something that could be worked out like work past did you

00:06:44.200 ever try to um yeah we tried we tried for a long time I mean we have a few

00:06:47.380 beautiful children you know why wouldn't we but unfortunately I just couldn't get

00:06:51.280 over that I became paranoid I became obsessing over these women that he 1.00

00:06:55.480 cheated on me with it just didn't work and I didn't want the environment around

00:06:59.080 my kids do you think most women respect most men I think respectful women will

00:07:06.820 respect men but no obviously I'm asking most probably not no no no I think it's

00:07:20.180 to do with the age I think that women my age and older do women younger than me they 0.98

00:07:29.480 don't and as for young lady there there's nothing no woman can do out there to my 1.00

00:07:34.720 man that I ain't gonna do myself I'm doing everything I don't care whether I got to

00:07:39.380 try and do a handstand I'm disabled I would try and do a handstand because no woman ain't gonna 1.00

00:07:43.320 out sex me with my man there's nothing I'm going for the whole I'm doing everything so when I hear 0.95

00:07:49.980 women say oh that woman was willing to do things that I wouldn't do for my man and I'm thinking 1.00

00:07:55.080 myself but what is it that you wouldn't do for your man do you think that goes to the lack of

00:08:01.020 submission with this generation I was thinking the same thing but is that like a submission thing

00:08:04.860 where your man is wanting something desiring especially if he's willing to communicate it

00:08:08.380 and he's not embarrassed by it I would be of the nature that I'm a I'm a try to I might not be the

00:08:12.780 best but if you teach me a little some some we might get there anything once it don't even

00:08:16.920 once it doesn't involve a third party yeah what if he did ask that then what if my man asked it

00:08:23.160 I didn't what if he asked me to do something I'm gonna do it that's my man I want to do I mean if

00:08:28.140 he asked for a third party is that where you draw the line because we know that in the beginning

00:08:31.340 because I'm not the only woman he needs I can do everything okay I'll even try I'll even try and

00:08:35.320 double up a jet on two people I'll move that fast but no no no no no that's what I said there's a

00:08:41.840 limit he knows the limit and he's pushed the limit but no but I think that the younger people the

00:08:49.860 younger women they don't respect they don't respect men and I think it's the old bitter women 1.00

00:08:54.780 that don't I mean me I can say like I've never heard of any of this before because most of my

00:08:59.720 friends are older than me like 10 15 years older than me and they're like married people

00:09:04.860 but I know they've got some bitter old women out there that will tell youngsters I mean I've even 1.00

00:09:11.180 had them try me but because I know that I've got older women out there that got sense and I think 1.00

00:09:16.420 that no I think that young people I think that's where it's at that's where it's gone wrong with the 0.95

00:09:22.440 young people because the old people won't tell them and you get people my age that are still going 1.00

00:09:27.540 like they're trying to be young and they're old it's not happening it might depend on what kind

00:09:32.560 of men you've had in your life influencing going up growing up like I've got an amazing dad and I've

00:09:38.200 got amazing men in my family so respect for men is rooted there but maybe if you have a either an

00:09:44.240 absent father or just I think that's a cop-out I think we're all adults but all adults we know right

00:09:51.040 from wrong and we decide what to do because you can have people their parents are murderers and

00:09:56.240 everything like that they can grow up to be decent human beings I think I think it plays into the

00:10:00.840 lack of healing that this generation won't adapt to and admit right so even if your dad wasn't there

00:10:06.120 even if you didn't have a male figure even if you've gone through traumatic dating experiences who does

00:10:11.240 the responsibility lie in for you to take accountability and say okay I don't want to be

00:10:16.080 bitter and lash out against random men who I don't even know who I've never even encountered and when we're

00:10:21.680 going to say I want to be a better person I want to be a decent person to identify where this is coming

00:10:25.520 from and to do something different you gotta fix it if women are that unfunctional they shouldn't 1.00

00:10:29.340 be working they'll be out there on the streets like tramps because they're making all these excuses 0.97

00:10:35.360 if you've got the brain enough to go and do a job you've got brain enough to sort your life out 1.00

00:10:40.360 there should be no excuse because you're not stupid for the stupid women go ahead 1.00

00:10:44.020 but I'm tired of hearing I didn't have this I didn't have that 1.00

00:10:48.920 trauma healing get a life you know what but no it's a part of it though you just you said it earlier right

00:10:55.080 when you talked about what what it took for you to become the woman it took work and women these 0.99

00:10:59.300 days aren't trying to do the work I had a conversation earlier and I personally as I

00:11:03.680 once I realized Lauren had daddy issues Lauren went to the table and Lauren dealt with daddy issues and 1.00

00:11:08.380 then I began to recognize daddy issues another woman and I would talk to them and they would 1.00

00:11:11.940 self-identify daddy issues and I was shocked I was like wait you know you have daddy issues because

00:11:16.640 if I had known earlier I would have fixed them earlier I didn't know I had daddy issues so until I

00:11:20.980 fixed them but there are women walking around knowing that they are traumatized knowing that

00:11:25.500 they have gaps in them and they don't want to address it because they don't want to do the work

00:11:29.080 it is hard work to look inside of you and know that you can't victimize yourself know that you have to

00:11:33.980 be accountable and to stand up and say yeah my daddy did this he wasn't present he wasn't whatever

00:11:38.780 but that's not on him I got to forgive him and I have to realize what's that's done for me

00:11:42.560 and if I want a healthy relationship the role that active role that I have to play in evolving

00:11:47.660 and becoming a better person to get that and people don't want to look in the mirror people

00:11:51.640 do not want to deal with themselves because they don't care the women do it for work and they do 0.99

00:11:55.640 it for their bosses so that's a lot of rubbish because women do it for them if your boss said 1.00

00:11:59.840 if you're in the job and your boss said right I want you to train and do this then we go for it 0.97

00:12:03.580 if your man says I want you to train this then we ain't gonna want to do it I mean I just think we

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JustPearlyThings - April 13, 2023

The SAD TRUTH About Women

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