The SAD TRUTH About Women
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In this episode, we talk about the lack of respect for men in society and what it means to be a woman in the modern culture. We also discuss why women don't respect men as much as they should.
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that men are respected in society by women no no by other men yeah but by
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women no I think they are they are yeah I think I think that they are respected
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due to the position that they hold and the amount of things that they do for
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the society as a whole I think they are respected do you think most women are
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aware how much men do for society as a whole no so then how are they respected
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if women don't generally know that and they make up the majority of society so
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55% I'd say that a lot of women do respect men I think speaking to your mic sorry I
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think saying most women don't respect men is a bit of a high number to say but I
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think a majority of women that want a man do respect a man there's a lot of women
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not say for example for example like very heavy like feminists they don't
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think that men some of them don't think men deserve there was as much respect as
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do you think most women let their do you think what most women in relationships
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let their husbands lead I think they should and I'm asking what they do um like
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they respect him enough to trust his authority well if you're in a
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relationship then yeah you should respect him no I'm not asking should I'm asking
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what is I don't know I don't have the answer to that I'm not sure your general I
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think yeah most people in your life you would say the woman you've never heard
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anything like she wears the pants in the relationship no no no no never heard that
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no okay go ahead I'm sorry do you think men are respected in society no I don't I just I'm not in
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general respects yes and obviously they should be but no I going back to the
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point I made earlier about women listening to other women about what it
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what we think men want if we listen to men if we respected them this wouldn't be
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an issue we would listen to them we wouldn't be going to other women and
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appeasing and competing with them because we would know that's not even what men
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want so if you respect them it comes to honoring them listening to them and
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society does not reflect a general overall population that respects men
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because we aren't giving men what they want men are complaining men are
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desperate for women who respect them and hear them and see them and we aren't
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doing that so overall we don't respect them I think majority of men are
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respected in society even at situations in the gym you might go to the gym and
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you're using something and a man might come over because you're a woman he kind of
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thinks he can push you away or take your weight so whatever was he going to do
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over man maybe in certain situations a woman would respect a man that's happened
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to me yeah but I mean that's just in the gym but just in general anyway like
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unless a man gives you a reason not to respect him then I think majority of the
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time you would respect him so why do you think we men are trash is a common saying
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and men are the problem or the issue if most women respect men why do we have
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those sayings I think there's just kind of extremists that have gone through
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situations where they have maybe gone through a lot of times due to their own
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fault because they're not learning but and then they just take their anger out on
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line making these expressions and yeah just going forward with that so you just
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think it's a minority I mean I don't have that view on men because I think if
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someone's trash then they're trash and that's just a personal thing and there
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are quite a lot of people that say that but that's kind of what's put out to you you
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don't really see the nice nice stuff sometimes I think most women respect the
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average Tesco worker the average KFC where I don't know what you guys have
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here the chicken the the chicken shop worker it's one thing to average or it's
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one thing to respect successful men and men and you know high power positions but
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do you think most women respect average men um I think most decent women do just as
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respecting a person I I have an interesting story about that because
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just the other day being in London not being from here I I always engage I'm
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always friendly just talking to different people and I had an
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interesting conversation with my uber driver the other day and he was telling
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me about how he he has a nice car he has his own business and things like that but
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he doesn't drive his nice car when he's doing uber right why will we put it run up
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the miles on a nice car right and he has had his eye on a particular girl here in
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London and he's he was telling me that that's generally the culture here when
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he goes out and he's in his plane clothes and he's in his uber Prius driving
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around girls aren't trying to give him play but because they had mutual friends he
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ended up going out with her one night when he was he had on his Louis baton bag
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and he had on he had his nice car the same girl who was ignoring him was
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giving him attention and the time of day now and he literally told her you know
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you ignored me the other day right and she tried to downplay it and laugh it off
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like oh haha no not at all and from the males that I have encountered here I
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would say it's the same in the in the US too as well from a lot of girls you see
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him and he's looking bummy and he because he works sanitation or whatever the case
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may be and you're like uh whatever and then when you see them in a different
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setting now you want oh he has something oh he's flashy now he's this I
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would absolutely say that that is the culture and I've heard it from men's mouth
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that story just two days ago from my uber driver and I was like appalled I was
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like are you serious he's like yeah and I told her get away like no like I have
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no interest in you now you just ignored me you've been ignoring me for months and
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now that we're out you see my nice car you see my Rolex you see that I have
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stuff you're interested now what do you think do you think most women respect
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most men I don't think they do no there's a lot of women now these days that
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don't want to stand on their own two feet because of society and that's just the way
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it is and I think a lot of women won't build of a man so if she sees him at his
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lowest a woman doesn't want that I think that's wrong personally but yeah is that
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what you did it you said you had three kids yeah I was with my ex from when I was 14
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till I was 23 we just didn't work out we still get along you know we're amicable and
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that's it unfortunately it just didn't work out for us why not um basically because of a
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lot of women out here are trash and they throw themselves because they see a man
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doing his thing and he's got nice things and he I think he was just a weak man and
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he accepted that there's a lot of things that I wouldn't do in the bedroom that
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these women was willing to do with him so I think that's just yeah did these women
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you know that he was in a relationship um a lot of women yeah a lot of them did
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yeah do you think that's something that could be worked out like work past did you
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ever try to um yeah we tried we tried for a long time I mean we have a few
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beautiful children you know why wouldn't we but unfortunately I just couldn't get
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over that I became paranoid I became obsessing over these women that he
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cheated on me with it just didn't work and I didn't want the environment around
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my kids do you think most women respect most men I think respectful women will
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respect men but no obviously I'm asking most probably not no no no I think it's
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to do with the age I think that women my age and older do women younger than me they
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don't and as for young lady there there's nothing no woman can do out there to my
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man that I ain't gonna do myself I'm doing everything I don't care whether I got to
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try and do a handstand I'm disabled I would try and do a handstand because no woman ain't gonna
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out sex me with my man there's nothing I'm going for the whole I'm doing everything so when I hear
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women say oh that woman was willing to do things that I wouldn't do for my man and I'm thinking
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myself but what is it that you wouldn't do for your man do you think that goes to the lack of
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submission with this generation I was thinking the same thing but is that like a submission thing
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where your man is wanting something desiring especially if he's willing to communicate it
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and he's not embarrassed by it I would be of the nature that I'm a I'm a try to I might not be the
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best but if you teach me a little some some we might get there anything once it don't even
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once it doesn't involve a third party yeah what if he did ask that then what if my man asked it
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I didn't what if he asked me to do something I'm gonna do it that's my man I want to do I mean if
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he asked for a third party is that where you draw the line because we know that in the beginning
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because I'm not the only woman he needs I can do everything okay I'll even try I'll even try and
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double up a jet on two people I'll move that fast but no no no no no that's what I said there's a
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limit he knows the limit and he's pushed the limit but no but I think that the younger people the
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younger women they don't respect they don't respect men and I think it's the old bitter women
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that don't I mean me I can say like I've never heard of any of this before because most of my
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friends are older than me like 10 15 years older than me and they're like married people
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but I know they've got some bitter old women out there that will tell youngsters I mean I've even
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had them try me but because I know that I've got older women out there that got sense and I think
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that no I think that young people I think that's where it's at that's where it's gone wrong with the
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young people because the old people won't tell them and you get people my age that are still going
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like they're trying to be young and they're old it's not happening it might depend on what kind
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of men you've had in your life influencing going up growing up like I've got an amazing dad and I've
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got amazing men in my family so respect for men is rooted there but maybe if you have a either an
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absent father or just I think that's a cop-out I think we're all adults but all adults we know right
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from wrong and we decide what to do because you can have people their parents are murderers and
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everything like that they can grow up to be decent human beings I think I think it plays into the
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lack of healing that this generation won't adapt to and admit right so even if your dad wasn't there
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even if you didn't have a male figure even if you've gone through traumatic dating experiences who does
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the responsibility lie in for you to take accountability and say okay I don't want to be
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bitter and lash out against random men who I don't even know who I've never even encountered and when we're
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going to say I want to be a better person I want to be a decent person to identify where this is coming
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from and to do something different you gotta fix it if women are that unfunctional they shouldn't
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be working they'll be out there on the streets like tramps because they're making all these excuses
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if you've got the brain enough to go and do a job you've got brain enough to sort your life out
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there should be no excuse because you're not stupid for the stupid women go ahead
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but I'm tired of hearing I didn't have this I didn't have that
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trauma healing get a life you know what but no it's a part of it though you just you said it earlier right
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when you talked about what what it took for you to become the woman it took work and women these
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days aren't trying to do the work I had a conversation earlier and I personally as I
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once I realized Lauren had daddy issues Lauren went to the table and Lauren dealt with daddy issues and
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then I began to recognize daddy issues another woman and I would talk to them and they would
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self-identify daddy issues and I was shocked I was like wait you know you have daddy issues because
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if I had known earlier I would have fixed them earlier I didn't know I had daddy issues so until I
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fixed them but there are women walking around knowing that they are traumatized knowing that
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they have gaps in them and they don't want to address it because they don't want to do the work
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it is hard work to look inside of you and know that you can't victimize yourself know that you have to
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be accountable and to stand up and say yeah my daddy did this he wasn't present he wasn't whatever
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but that's not on him I got to forgive him and I have to realize what's that's done for me
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and if I want a healthy relationship the role that active role that I have to play in evolving
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and becoming a better person to get that and people don't want to look in the mirror people
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do not want to deal with themselves because they don't care the women do it for work and they do
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it for their bosses so that's a lot of rubbish because women do it for them if your boss said
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if you're in the job and your boss said right I want you to train and do this then we go for it
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if your man says I want you to train this then we ain't gonna want to do it I mean I just think we
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don't as many of you know I was just banned on TikTok and we are demonetized on a daily basis on
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