JustPearlyThings - June 16, 2023


The SHOCKING Truth About Women


Episode Stats

Length

8 minutes

Words per Minute

198.16881

Word Count

1,681

Sentence Count

1

Misogynist Sentences

6

Hate Speech Sentences

8


Summary

In this episode, we talk about the dangers of online dating and how to deal with them. We also talk about our experience with online dating, and how we deal with the problems that come with it. We talk about how to handle them and how they can affect your mental health.


Transcript

00:00:00.000 Do his Instagram
00:00:01.340 Yeah, let's check your Instagram
00:00:03.580 I don't know my glasses
00:00:05.560 Okay, I want to know if you guys
00:00:07.500 I know you're not single, but when you were single
00:00:10.120 If you guys would respond or not
00:00:11.740 And what you would think of him
00:00:13.440 You know, I can't really see
00:00:17.600 Is that your car?
00:00:18.740 I feel like if I saw this Instagram, I would think
00:00:21.300 That's the one that the gay
00:00:22.720 That's the one that the gay
00:00:24.760 Respond to you
00:00:25.480 I don't think this
00:00:30.440 I don't need these type of problems
00:00:32.020 You've got blue ticks coming into yours as well
00:00:34.660 Wow, you see
00:00:35.700 Oh yeah, definitely
00:00:40.420 Is that a magnum?
00:00:43.980 You're a type of uni
00:00:45.100 Okay
00:00:48.680 What do you guys think?
00:00:50.940 What would you
00:00:51.540 Like the last picture and this picture is fine
00:00:54.020 There was a couple pictures that I'd be like
00:00:55.760 I'm a PT, but yeah
00:00:58.160 I hear you
00:00:58.980 You need to show the merchandise, isn't it?
00:01:02.000 Yeah, fair
00:01:02.340 So would you guys respond?
00:01:07.800 Yeah, probably
00:01:08.600 Yeah
00:01:09.280 What about you two?
00:01:11.260 Would you respond?
00:01:12.240 No
00:01:12.440 I don't know
00:01:14.860 I think you're a good looking guy
00:01:16.740 But
00:01:17.300 I don't know
00:01:18.720 Because of course you had your
00:01:19.880 You are flexing
00:01:21.340 That's him
00:01:21.880 Oh, is he?
00:01:23.240 That's him
00:01:23.780 That's him
00:01:23.880 That's you
00:01:24.460 I can look at my glasses
00:01:25.260 I don't know
00:01:27.620 I know you think you're a black guy
00:01:28.920 Look at that
00:01:29.460 That's him
00:01:31.060 I can look at my glasses
00:01:32.740 I was like
00:01:33.740 Someone get us some glasses
00:01:36.100 What a mess
00:01:39.340 That's him
00:01:39.740 No, yeah, no
00:01:40.420 I mean, you're a good looking guy
00:01:41.700 But I think, yeah
00:01:42.380 There was a couple of pictures that I'm
00:01:43.880 But I can't judge you
00:01:45.120 Because you said you don't like
00:01:45.700 The whole top thing of
00:01:46.700 It's just
00:01:47.820 Yeah, there's just
00:01:48.660 Something I
00:01:49.620 But yeah
00:01:50.960 Talk
00:01:51.280 It's all good
00:01:51.860 But it's
00:01:52.760 I mean, I think I have that view in general though
00:01:55.120 Like even if a girl is like
00:01:56.940 And I'm not going to say
00:01:57.920 I haven't done this in the past
00:01:59.000 But if you're out there
00:02:00.320 Like bikini
00:02:01.000 Like tits
00:02:01.740 Like tits in the camera
00:02:03.160 Like showing off your body
00:02:04.340 In a certain type of way
00:02:05.120 You want a certain type of attention
00:02:06.940 To like
00:02:07.740 I can't take you seriously
00:02:08.820 No, I hear you
00:02:10.080 I hear that
00:02:10.880 I agree
00:02:11.920 See, mine's a gun is PG clean
00:02:15.460 I was like
00:02:17.480 I just
00:02:18.220 I'm like
00:02:18.860 I would think
00:02:19.520 Because when you see a profile like that
00:02:21.800 I would just assume you get so much attention
00:02:23.800 Which you're saying is true
00:02:25.140 And so I'm like
00:02:26.320 I am not
00:02:26.880 That's a headache
00:02:27.560 I don't want to deal with that
00:02:28.620 No, I'm too jealous
00:02:29.800 You don't want to be competitive, man
00:02:31.200 You've got go for what you want in this life
00:02:32.980 You know what I mean
00:02:33.560 You're a demon
00:02:34.860 What is my other question?
00:02:38.680 Have you guys ever went through a girl's phone?
00:02:41.580 Yeah
00:02:41.860 I mean, businesses do audits, right?
00:02:44.540 Damn
00:02:44.820 What did you find?
00:02:47.820 Did you find anything?
00:02:48.780 Most of the time, man
00:02:49.580 You know, guys, we're a bit
00:02:50.600 We're just
00:02:51.920 We don't go for the right things
00:02:52.920 I think women know exactly where to look
00:02:54.420 Guys are going to look for
00:02:55.780 Random shit
00:02:57.240 You're not going to find nothing
00:02:58.480 I've done it
00:02:59.540 I don't
00:02:59.820 I'll be honest, though
00:03:00.820 I think once
00:03:03.000 Once you're in that place where
00:03:04.760 It becomes a thing where you need to
00:03:06.760 Then
00:03:08.180 And there's difference
00:03:09.280 Like someone going
00:03:10.040 Someone opening up your phone when you're asleep
00:03:11.740 Is different to
00:03:12.560 Like someone leaving you with their phone
00:03:14.580 And then you might just
00:03:15.420 You know
00:03:16.180 Okay, that pop-up came up
00:03:17.340 What was that?
00:03:17.920 What was that?
00:03:18.420 Yeah
00:03:18.540 Like it's a bit of a difference
00:03:21.200 If you're like waking people up
00:03:22.220 Or like trying to do all that kind of stuff
00:03:23.940 I think there's other problems there
00:03:25.460 I think sometimes there's a curiosity thing
00:03:27.620 Where that people have
00:03:29.060 Where it's just open
00:03:30.480 And you might just
00:03:31.580 Or like
00:03:31.920 Because there's even times where
00:03:33.560 I'll put it down to
00:03:34.680 Someone being on their phone next to you
00:03:36.400 And how many times
00:03:37.640 Like let's say someone's typing their password
00:03:39.140 In front of you
00:03:39.560 How many times do
00:03:40.340 Man don't want to be guys
00:03:41.640 So we do this
00:03:42.440 What are you doing man?
00:03:45.320 Look at that phone
00:03:46.300 Like look at it
00:03:47.320 You know what I mean?
00:03:47.920 But we do that
00:03:48.540 Because your women will look at it easy
00:03:49.860 But you know guys
00:03:50.900 You want to feel secure
00:03:51.580 So you're just like
00:03:52.120 No I'm not even going to look
00:03:52.940 Because you don't want problems
00:03:54.080 But sometimes
00:03:55.100 You just look and see
00:03:56.300 Cool what's going on
00:03:57.060 Everything cool?
00:03:57.700 Alright cool
00:03:58.180 You know what I mean?
00:03:58.900 I haven't checked in the same way
00:04:01.580 Of like being that one
00:04:02.880 Like person who's very worried
00:04:04.780 And had to check through the phone
00:04:05.820 The check in
00:04:06.680 Check in quote unquote
00:04:07.820 Is one of those ones
00:04:08.560 Like you said
00:04:09.160 You're on her phone
00:04:10.360 You're playing fucking
00:04:11.260 Fruit Ninja or whatever
00:04:12.200 And like a text comes up
00:04:13.720 And you're like
00:04:14.000 I'm like
00:04:15.380 I don't go through anyone's phone
00:04:17.140 I don't go through it
00:04:18.000 That's your private thing
00:04:18.600 That's your private space
00:04:19.720 But you see the name
00:04:20.660 And you see what the message is
00:04:21.740 And you're like
00:04:22.140 Okay
00:04:22.800 You just keep a mental note
00:04:23.880 Of like alright
00:04:24.440 I think yeah
00:04:25.300 If you don't trust your partner
00:04:26.480 Then I think that that is
00:04:27.560 It's already
00:04:28.320 Life is too short
00:04:30.140 For me to go through your phone
00:04:31.700 It's like
00:04:32.100 Why am I even with you?
00:04:33.300 I think for me
00:04:33.980 There's a question from the chat
00:04:35.540 They want to know
00:04:37.040 From the girls
00:04:38.240 Is cheating
00:04:40.220 Which would you prefer?
00:04:42.580 You go through his phone
00:04:43.660 And you find him
00:04:44.660 He has naked pictures
00:04:46.280 From another girl
00:04:47.160 Or he was buying her things
00:04:50.200 But there is nothing physical
00:04:53.640 It's both cheating
00:04:55.980 Why is he buying her?
00:04:56.620 No you gotta
00:04:57.180 That's not the question
00:04:57.960 You gotta pick one
00:04:59.900 You gotta pick one
00:05:00.000 You have to pick one
00:05:01.000 Um
00:05:02.460 Oh that's difficult
00:05:04.180 I think
00:05:06.440 I think
00:05:08.120 I think
00:05:09.040 Naked pictures
00:05:09.620 Is definitely worse
00:05:10.720 Okay
00:05:11.360 I think yeah
00:05:12.460 So if he bought her
00:05:14.200 A bunch of clothes
00:05:15.540 Or something
00:05:16.040 That wouldn't be as bad
00:05:17.280 As naked pictures
00:05:18.040 Yeah
00:05:18.700 Yeah
00:05:19.200 I'm the same
00:05:20.120 To be fair
00:05:20.780 Naked pictures worse
00:05:21.360 Yeah
00:05:21.760 No I have to disagree
00:05:22.700 Because
00:05:23.220 Like
00:05:24.660 Let's be real
00:05:26.740 Some of the stuff
00:05:28.000 That girls post on Instagram
00:05:29.040 Does it really make a difference
00:05:31.220 If you're sending nudes privately
00:05:32.600 On Snapchat
00:05:33.480 Or if you're just posting that on Instagram
00:05:35.000 Like
00:05:35.340 You're gonna have people
00:05:36.760 Doing
00:05:38.520 What they do
00:05:39.720 Either way
00:05:40.700 I agree with you
00:05:41.800 I'm like
00:05:42.060 I think it's more personal
00:05:43.260 If I found out a dude
00:05:44.480 Was buying some random Instagram girl
00:05:46.520 A bunch of shit
00:05:47.260 I'd be like
00:05:47.620 What?
00:05:50.280 That's a whole
00:05:51.060 Mind fuck
00:05:52.600 Like
00:05:52.900 The nudes
00:05:53.380 It's like
00:05:53.720 Okay
00:05:53.900 A man's a man
00:05:54.480 A man has a penis
00:05:55.100 Like he's gonna do
00:05:55.620 What he's gonna do
00:05:56.060 But it's like
00:05:56.560 The buying things
00:05:57.620 It's like
00:05:57.980 That's the effort
00:05:59.840 And is it
00:06:00.420 Is it different than like corn?
00:06:02.880 You know what I mean?
00:06:03.400 Like if a guy gets a picture
00:06:04.720 From a girl
00:06:05.360 Yeah
00:06:05.680 Versus looks up corn online
00:06:07.400 Is it that big of a
00:06:08.500 How much difference
00:06:09.000 Yeah
00:06:09.380 Yeah exactly
00:06:10.200 Because it's all just like
00:06:11.220 I mean
00:06:12.400 It's just
00:06:13.160 Flesh
00:06:13.660 But like
00:06:14.280 The act of
00:06:15.300 Buying
00:06:15.960 Someone a gift
00:06:17.840 Takes thought
00:06:19.300 And effort
00:06:20.060 Like
00:06:20.700 A guy getting nudes
00:06:22.480 He's getting that for one thing
00:06:23.820 Yeah but it's also about
00:06:25.120 The intentions
00:06:25.920 The intentions of why
00:06:27.440 He's buying her something
00:06:28.460 As well
00:06:29.120 Like he's probably
00:06:29.780 Buying her something
00:06:30.500 So that he can
00:06:31.420 Sleep with her eventually
00:06:33.300 That's why we said
00:06:33.780 It was worse
00:06:34.220 That's why it was worse
00:06:34.860 I know but
00:06:35.840 That's why it was worse
00:06:36.400 You know the detectives
00:06:37.340 In the movie
00:06:37.740 They say follow the money
00:06:39.580 Yeah
00:06:40.100 He's emotionally invested
00:06:42.180 Would you guys break up
00:06:43.540 If zero contact happened
00:06:45.420 Yeah
00:06:48.560 Yeah
00:06:49.180 Cause you know
00:06:52.380 What's funny
00:06:52.860 When you ask that first question
00:06:54.000 We gave each other a look
00:06:55.300 We gave each other a look
00:06:56.920 Cause we both know
00:06:57.940 If he buying someone else a gift
00:06:59.780 Yeah
00:07:00.220 That is worse
00:07:01.420 That's what he's trying to cheat
00:07:03.040 He's trying to leave
00:07:03.680 He's really having a conversation
00:07:05.580 He's finding someone else
00:07:06.800 He's looking to have a conversation
00:07:08.800 With his girl
00:07:09.160 And he's like
00:07:09.860 He's talking to her
00:07:11.000 Enough that he knows her
00:07:12.540 Well enough to think
00:07:13.960 That he can buy her things
00:07:15.160 And know what she likes
00:07:16.280 Yeah
00:07:16.580 That means he's been talking to her
00:07:17.480 For a while
00:07:17.880 Which means he's
00:07:18.640 He's down to book a ticket
00:07:20.080 If she drops the address
00:07:21.700 No that's the difference
00:07:22.700 Between like
00:07:23.260 Like a fling and a fair
00:07:25.580 Yeah
00:07:26.220 A fair is you know
00:07:27.180 You follow the money
00:07:27.760 You'll find the affair
00:07:28.600 Fling is any news
00:07:29.960 You're gonna find
00:07:30.520 Or whatever
00:07:30.860 The news is whatever
00:07:31.800 Because you can
00:07:32.460 If he's a cheater
00:07:33.400 He can be getting news
00:07:34.440 From 11 people
00:07:35.380 Whenever
00:07:36.020 If he's like a serial cheater
00:07:37.380 Then he's getting news
00:07:38.020 From everyone
00:07:38.440 But if he's sending
00:07:39.460 If he's got to a point
00:07:40.680 Of messaging his person
00:07:41.660 To a point where
00:07:42.440 He's sending the gifts
00:07:43.340 On a somewhat regular basis
00:07:45.020 Yeah you're done
00:07:45.520 What about OnlyFans subscription
00:07:46.620 If you find it
00:07:47.320 Ooh tough
00:07:47.860 Let me see
00:07:48.460 That would just
00:07:49.240 That would turn me off
00:07:50.800 Massive
00:07:51.080 You're like you're an idiot
00:07:52.180 You're an idiot
00:07:52.740 That's the only fans
00:07:53.560 No no no
00:07:54.820 OnlyFans can be
00:07:56.200 Can be used in different ways though
00:07:58.160 Because there's people
00:07:58.660 That do OnlyFans
00:07:59.660 That don't
00:08:00.560 You don't need to fully
00:08:01.460 Do the whole
00:08:02.100 Does he
00:08:02.640 He subscribed to one
00:08:04.340 Right
00:08:04.540 That's what you're saying
00:08:05.060 He subscribed to hers
00:08:06.240 I think that's like
00:08:06.980 Sad
00:08:07.400 Like I'd almost
00:08:08.260 I'd almost rather
00:08:09.400 He cheat
00:08:10.380 Than subscribe
00:08:11.060 As many of you know
00:08:13.740 I was just banned on TikTok
00:08:15.880 And we are demonetized
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00:08:18.840 On this platform
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