JustPearlyThings - April 15, 2023


The Truth About Religious People


Episode Stats

Length

10 minutes

Words per Minute

217.06499

Word Count

2,198

Sentence Count

1

Misogynist Sentences

15

Hate Speech Sentences

15


Summary

In this week's episode, the panel discuss cheating, sexless marriages, sexism in the modern dating world, and how to deal with fear of rejection in the dating world. We also have a special guest on the panel this week, a christian dude who has been in a sexless marriage for years.


Transcript

00:00:00.000 that's a whole conversation i think that's so relevant it's different for everyone it could
00:00:05.900 me personally i can't say because i'm actually not religious but i could ask you and i could
00:00:10.220 ask you and you could both give me two completely different answers that could both be correct but
00:00:14.280 but i'm saying my point is even religious guys if they're in if they're in a situation where
00:00:18.360 tens are hunting them down tens religious i read religious people are more likely to commit
00:00:26.520 rape yeah great great that's the word i was looking for than actually normal dudes
00:00:34.540 really is that a statistical fact though i've read that before a statistical one well i don't know
00:00:40.200 about that but all i know is that because they're like what um we had a conversation before about
00:00:46.600 church guys and they in church guys or people that are religious because they're around such
00:00:53.180 like purity for that it's like that's like another world like oh i want to try that look at yeah
00:00:59.560 look at the priests right in the catholic church exactly that yeah i think religion is no guarantee
00:01:04.740 for not cheating no yeah at all um it's not it's less likely though i'm gonna take a second to read
00:01:10.280 super chats um guys make sure you like the video um and subscribe to the channel all right black is
00:01:16.280 panther if you're looking for someone to make you happy then you will die alone find someone you're
00:01:21.460 happy being with like this couple happiness is a choice a marriage politics and short uh sports
00:01:27.220 women need to stop the cat projection um women cheat as much or more than men marriage politics and
00:01:35.520 sports um pearl on the steps of the vetting process for men is whether sex with your woman will always
00:01:42.180 stay transactional or and never becomes validational um guys should never marry a woman like that um dion c
00:01:49.260 it's easier to hire an escort and a chef than have a modern day girlfriend or partner probably cheaper
00:01:55.200 black moses ask the panel what violent video game dictators played from the 1920s 30s 40s 50s and 60s
00:02:03.920 to make them violent john um argentinen um where for the parade of ism it is a hundred percent
00:02:13.940 seeded by the elites through main steering media through think tanks ngos and universities dividing
00:02:19.120 conquer baby john argentina it's dividing rules top down not grassroots uh d currently away with
00:02:25.820 uni students a girl accused five guys of grape this week even though cctv footage showed otherwise she
00:02:31.540 was a willing participant um kiwi any advice for a christian dude with two kids in a sexless marriage
00:02:37.100 i'm going on for years now i'm gonna let you answer that for a sexist marriage i'm i'm very big on
00:02:43.100 like authenticity and just having like straight up conversations with people right so he should just
00:02:47.180 say like hey i don't like this what's what's the problem here and find out where that's coming from
00:02:51.340 and try to work it out together like two adults right i mean i think that's the best what if she
00:02:55.700 still doesn't sleep with him then what i don't that depends on his own values right i mean he'd have to
00:03:00.520 realize he'd have to come but you know is this important enough to leave the girl or not that depends on
00:03:04.880 the guy's own values but he should find out at least where it's coming from if it's like a power
00:03:08.680 play or something like that i mean that's that could signal other problems but okay there's no
00:03:14.040 there's no black and white answer to that i don't think um isaac social interactions in person where
00:03:19.320 boys learn the skills to interact with people are being replaced by social media so the ones
00:03:23.240 that are already timid are being left behind um 110 shamir lady with the vest if a bird had your brain
00:03:29.960 it would fly backwards um oh that's sorry that's from last show
00:03:35.380 i was like i don't think i was wearing a vest today let me just refresh this real quick
00:03:41.160 d um church girls are the worst 304s i'm a the church is not pure anymore
00:03:46.820 um black is oh i read that one already okay so question how can single men overcome anxiety
00:03:55.340 or fear of rejection in the dating world i'll answer that one yeah i literally i think single
00:04:01.860 men need to actually partner with other men men like myself men like yourself and actually learn
00:04:06.880 from other men and i think they need to get to the bottom of why that's happening with they need to do
00:04:12.060 their own mindset it's literally because it's rejection right he said for me rejection is all about
00:04:17.580 what you make it mean it's not the rejection it's the meaning that you subscribe to that rejection
00:04:21.560 what do you make that mean i'm not good enough i'm not tall enough i'm not rich enough as
00:04:25.180 opposed to just one person so it really is cultivating an abundance mindset there are so
00:04:29.980 many women and great people out there and once you've got an abundance mindset it's a bit like
00:04:34.380 i don't know it's like i don't know it's like i don't know going to mcdonald's and they run out
00:04:38.400 of your burger do you get upset by you go and find another one isn't it well you missed the bus you
00:04:42.440 wait for another one why is it when it comes to other human beings we feel oh my god it's rejected
00:04:46.860 it's just okay one person rejected you now if you're really clever you might find that why
00:04:50.600 that might be somewhere to start if you're courageous enough why did you reject me go and go to that person
00:04:54.740 you're too short or you're this or your breath stings whatever find out whatever it is be
00:04:58.720 be courageous to too short there's nothing you can do about it so have the courage to accept things
00:05:03.060 you can't change that's fine but there are plenty of very confident charismatic short guys out there
00:05:07.920 getting women so it's not the short thing it's it's who you're being you know what's interesting
00:05:12.820 just being on social media and like having people message like you know sometimes i do one-on-ones or
00:05:17.960 sometimes people message me with like problems or whatever i found that men are so much more willing to
00:05:23.540 take feedback than women true where it's like if a woman if you even imply it's something with her
00:05:29.900 for the reason that she's single it's like all hell breaks loose like i always say this like if you're
00:05:34.840 single the men you want don't want you yeah because if the men you want wanted you you'd be with them
00:05:38.840 yeah and but it's like somehow that's offensive just like the same way that if if the girls like if
00:05:45.040 you're not having sex like the women you want aren't sleeping with you yeah and it's it's it's but the
00:05:50.300 thing is though even though i think women are much more likely to do a lot of self-development
00:05:53.740 work on themselves oh i disagree from what i've seen a lot of men tend to do it if there's a crisis
00:06:03.340 women's self-development is this it's journaling
00:06:06.180 it's plastic surgery um it's healing which never includes actual therapy and if it does it's short-lived
00:06:18.580 and not consistent i vehemently i vehemently disagree engaging it more men are a lot more
00:06:24.500 stubborn just in my in terms of coaching men men tend to be a lot more stubborn but i think they're
00:06:29.080 a lot more realistic i think sometimes women can be a lot more deluded about the actual real world
00:06:34.080 so taking all this action but it may not like you said like let me look at myself men tend to be a
00:06:39.100 lot more stubborn though about doing that work for themselves that's the difference i think if both can
00:06:44.800 tweak it women need to be a lot more realistic about the world you're right if you're not getting the
00:06:48.160 guys you want you need to look at yourself it's not the men you need and it's all it's okay whereas
00:06:52.580 men tend to do it after the horse is bolted you know men will do it after say the marriage has
00:06:56.560 failed or after something's gone wrong then they start looking that's what i mean like when when i
00:07:01.380 have men like ask me about you know whatever dm me message me and if i give them advice like they'll
00:07:06.720 come back in a month or two months later and have actually improved where it's like women it's just not
00:07:12.100 the same they i never they do but look at the stats with men though you know the stats with men are getting
00:07:16.720 worse you know one third of men young men i think it's just having sex men are being divorced yeah
00:07:21.140 but i think it's because men just don't think the juice is worth the squeeze anymore it's like
00:07:25.440 it's like they do all this and what do they get on the other side if men do it on mass they would
00:07:30.100 change the world that's what men don't get but men truly demanded a certain level of behavior they'll
00:07:35.140 change it but men are falling for the first trap they're hitting up these girls with lights and
00:07:39.760 they're telling the women they're amazing actually creating the very world but i'm saying
00:07:42.740 that they compare it the women start it because they start with the thirst but see i don't see
00:07:47.420 it against i don't sorry to interrupt you by the way i don't see it as men against women i'm just
00:07:51.560 saying what kind of world do you want to create as your action in alignment with the world you want
00:07:55.240 to create but my point is that like i think the women need to start before the men but what they don't
00:08:01.680 then what are you gonna do i mean i i mean i think like it's gonna more and more men are gonna be
00:08:06.380 sexless and i think i think it's actually gonna be in a world where there's more relationships like this to be
00:08:11.160 honest for some men no no no but statistically there can only be a few of you that do that
00:08:16.540 the stats won't be no but that's but that's the point is that more and more men will be sexless the
00:08:20.880 trend is heading that way so what does that mean the rest of us are sharing i think more and more
00:08:24.940 women will be childless i think 50 percent of women over 30 will be single and childless and that's
00:08:30.280 what i think if women don't improve that's the future that we're going to see i wanted to comment on
00:08:35.080 the the rejection thing so like what i've found over over 10 years of coaching and stuff now is that
00:08:39.060 most guys have this unrealistic expectation that they want every girl to like them
00:08:42.540 so i tell them like if you were cold calling in sales or you were knocking doors
00:08:46.460 it doesn't matter if you're the best salesman in the world you're going to encounter people that
00:08:50.260 just tell you to fuck off or they're going to tell you i'm not interested and a lot of those
00:08:53.880 things are outside of your control like there exists girls that have boyfriends and husbands
00:08:56.920 that don't want to cheat when you talk to them in the club there's girls that are in a bad mood
00:09:00.320 they don't like you for whatever reason instead of taking that personally and thinking i suck
00:09:04.000 think okay that one's just not interested this one probably will but most men get deflated
00:09:08.620 and then they bring that negative energy into the next interaction and then that causes them to get
00:09:13.700 rejected with a higher chance it's gonna be hard not to i mean i worked in sales i sold copiers and
00:09:18.300 i'm telling you there's nothing worse than selling it it's like to sell like a stand-up ten thousand
00:09:22.480 dollar copy machine who wants that and i'm like i i can't even imagine because when i did that job it
00:09:28.560 was so soul-sucking yeah that i'm like go getting rejected all the and that contributes to the
00:09:33.640 problem right because guys have to develop almost like an emotional resilience yeah yeah you have to
00:09:37.860 where you just have like this thick skin and you just know that when you hit those girls that aren't
00:09:42.120 interested there's going to be other girls that are interested and but a lot of guys will take it
00:09:46.220 personally i get clients they'll go up get two or three rejections and they just give up and they
00:09:50.140 stop approaching for the night so what's what's your i was just banned on tiktok and we are demonetized
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