JustPearlyThings - The Truth About Religious People

00:00:00.000 that's a whole conversation i think that's so relevant it's different for everyone it could

00:00:05.900 me personally i can't say because i'm actually not religious but i could ask you and i could

00:00:10.220 ask you and you could both give me two completely different answers that could both be correct but

00:00:14.280 but i'm saying my point is even religious guys if they're in if they're in a situation where

00:00:18.360 tens are hunting them down tens religious i read religious people are more likely to commit 0.99

00:00:26.520 rape yeah great great that's the word i was looking for than actually normal dudes 0.79

00:00:34.540 really is that a statistical fact though i've read that before a statistical one well i don't know

00:00:40.200 about that but all i know is that because they're like what um we had a conversation before about

00:00:46.600 church guys and they in church guys or people that are religious because they're around such

00:00:53.180 like purity for that it's like that's like another world like oh i want to try that look at yeah

00:00:59.560 look at the priests right in the catholic church exactly that yeah i think religion is no guarantee

00:01:04.740 for not cheating no yeah at all um it's not it's less likely though i'm gonna take a second to read

00:01:10.280 super chats um guys make sure you like the video um and subscribe to the channel all right black is

00:01:16.280 panther if you're looking for someone to make you happy then you will die alone find someone you're

00:01:21.460 happy being with like this couple happiness is a choice a marriage politics and short uh sports

00:01:27.220 women need to stop the cat projection um women cheat as much or more than men marriage politics and 1.00

00:01:35.520 sports um pearl on the steps of the vetting process for men is whether sex with your woman will always 0.99

00:01:42.180 stay transactional or and never becomes validational um guys should never marry a woman like that um dion c 1.00

00:01:49.260 it's easier to hire an escort and a chef than have a modern day girlfriend or partner probably cheaper 0.90

00:01:55.200 black moses ask the panel what violent video game dictators played from the 1920s 30s 40s 50s and 60s 0.99

00:02:03.920 to make them violent john um argentinen um where for the parade of ism it is a hundred percent

00:02:13.940 seeded by the elites through main steering media through think tanks ngos and universities dividing

00:02:19.120 conquer baby john argentina it's dividing rules top down not grassroots uh d currently away with

00:02:25.820 uni students a girl accused five guys of grape this week even though cctv footage showed otherwise she

00:02:31.540 was a willing participant um kiwi any advice for a christian dude with two kids in a sexless marriage

00:02:37.100 i'm going on for years now i'm gonna let you answer that for a sexist marriage i'm i'm very big on

00:02:43.100 like authenticity and just having like straight up conversations with people right so he should just

00:02:47.180 say like hey i don't like this what's what's the problem here and find out where that's coming from

00:02:51.340 and try to work it out together like two adults right i mean i think that's the best what if she

00:02:55.700 still doesn't sleep with him then what i don't that depends on his own values right i mean he'd have to

00:03:00.520 realize he'd have to come but you know is this important enough to leave the girl or not that depends on

00:03:04.880 the guy's own values but he should find out at least where it's coming from if it's like a power

00:03:08.680 play or something like that i mean that's that could signal other problems but okay there's no

00:03:14.040 there's no black and white answer to that i don't think um isaac social interactions in person where

00:03:19.320 boys learn the skills to interact with people are being replaced by social media so the ones 1.00

00:03:23.240 that are already timid are being left behind um 110 shamir lady with the vest if a bird had your brain 1.00

00:03:29.960 it would fly backwards um oh that's sorry that's from last show

00:03:35.380 i was like i don't think i was wearing a vest today let me just refresh this real quick 0.84

00:03:41.160 d um church girls are the worst 304s i'm a the church is not pure anymore 0.98

00:03:46.820 um black is oh i read that one already okay so question how can single men overcome anxiety 0.99

00:03:55.340 or fear of rejection in the dating world i'll answer that one yeah i literally i think single

00:04:01.860 men need to actually partner with other men men like myself men like yourself and actually learn

00:04:06.880 from other men and i think they need to get to the bottom of why that's happening with they need to do

00:04:12.060 their own mindset it's literally because it's rejection right he said for me rejection is all about

00:04:17.580 what you make it mean it's not the rejection it's the meaning that you subscribe to that rejection

00:04:21.560 what do you make that mean i'm not good enough i'm not tall enough i'm not rich enough as

00:04:25.180 opposed to just one person so it really is cultivating an abundance mindset there are so

00:04:29.980 many women and great people out there and once you've got an abundance mindset it's a bit like 0.99

00:04:34.380 i don't know it's like i don't know it's like i don't know going to mcdonald's and they run out

00:04:38.400 of your burger do you get upset by you go and find another one isn't it well you missed the bus you

00:04:42.440 wait for another one why is it when it comes to other human beings we feel oh my god it's rejected

00:04:46.860 it's just okay one person rejected you now if you're really clever you might find that why

00:04:50.600 that might be somewhere to start if you're courageous enough why did you reject me go and go to that person

00:04:54.740 you're too short or you're this or your breath stings whatever find out whatever it is be

00:04:58.720 be courageous to too short there's nothing you can do about it so have the courage to accept things

00:05:03.060 you can't change that's fine but there are plenty of very confident charismatic short guys out there

00:05:07.920 getting women so it's not the short thing it's it's who you're being you know what's interesting

00:05:12.820 just being on social media and like having people message like you know sometimes i do one-on-ones or

00:05:17.960 sometimes people message me with like problems or whatever i found that men are so much more willing to

00:05:23.540 take feedback than women true where it's like if a woman if you even imply it's something with her

00:05:29.900 for the reason that she's single it's like all hell breaks loose like i always say this like if you're

00:05:34.840 single the men you want don't want you yeah because if the men you want wanted you you'd be with them 1.00

00:05:38.840 yeah and but it's like somehow that's offensive just like the same way that if if the girls like if 1.00

00:05:45.040 you're not having sex like the women you want aren't sleeping with you yeah and it's it's it's but the

00:05:50.300 thing is though even though i think women are much more likely to do a lot of self-development 1.00

00:05:53.740 work on themselves oh i disagree from what i've seen a lot of men tend to do it if there's a crisis

00:06:03.340 women's self-development is this it's journaling

00:06:06.180 it's plastic surgery um it's healing which never includes actual therapy and if it does it's short-lived

00:06:18.580 and not consistent i vehemently i vehemently disagree engaging it more men are a lot more

00:06:24.500 stubborn just in my in terms of coaching men men tend to be a lot more stubborn but i think they're

00:06:29.080 a lot more realistic i think sometimes women can be a lot more deluded about the actual real world 0.99

00:06:34.080 so taking all this action but it may not like you said like let me look at myself men tend to be a

00:06:39.100 lot more stubborn though about doing that work for themselves that's the difference i think if both can

00:06:44.800 tweak it women need to be a lot more realistic about the world you're right if you're not getting the 1.00

00:06:48.160 guys you want you need to look at yourself it's not the men you need and it's all it's okay whereas

00:06:52.580 men tend to do it after the horse is bolted you know men will do it after say the marriage has

00:06:56.560 failed or after something's gone wrong then they start looking that's what i mean like when when i

00:07:01.380 have men like ask me about you know whatever dm me message me and if i give them advice like they'll

00:07:06.720 come back in a month or two months later and have actually improved where it's like women it's just not 1.00

00:07:12.100 the same they i never they do but look at the stats with men though you know the stats with men are getting

00:07:16.720 worse you know one third of men young men i think it's just having sex men are being divorced yeah

00:07:21.140 but i think it's because men just don't think the juice is worth the squeeze anymore it's like

00:07:25.440 it's like they do all this and what do they get on the other side if men do it on mass they would

00:07:30.100 change the world that's what men don't get but men truly demanded a certain level of behavior they'll

00:07:35.140 change it but men are falling for the first trap they're hitting up these girls with lights and 1.00

00:07:39.760 they're telling the women they're amazing actually creating the very world but i'm saying 0.97

00:07:42.740 that they compare it the women start it because they start with the thirst but see i don't see 0.99

00:07:47.420 it against i don't sorry to interrupt you by the way i don't see it as men against women i'm just

00:07:51.560 saying what kind of world do you want to create as your action in alignment with the world you want

00:07:55.240 to create but my point is that like i think the women need to start before the men but what they don't 0.97

00:08:01.680 then what are you gonna do i mean i i mean i think like it's gonna more and more men are gonna be

00:08:06.380 sexless and i think i think it's actually gonna be in a world where there's more relationships like this to be

00:08:11.160 honest for some men no no no but statistically there can only be a few of you that do that

00:08:16.540 the stats won't be no but that's but that's the point is that more and more men will be sexless the

00:08:20.880 trend is heading that way so what does that mean the rest of us are sharing i think more and more

00:08:24.940 women will be childless i think 50 percent of women over 30 will be single and childless and that's 0.97

00:08:30.280 what i think if women don't improve that's the future that we're going to see i wanted to comment on 1.00

00:08:35.080 the the rejection thing so like what i've found over over 10 years of coaching and stuff now is that

00:08:39.060 most guys have this unrealistic expectation that they want every girl to like them

00:08:42.540 so i tell them like if you were cold calling in sales or you were knocking doors

00:08:46.460 it doesn't matter if you're the best salesman in the world you're going to encounter people that 0.99

00:08:50.260 just tell you to fuck off or they're going to tell you i'm not interested and a lot of those 0.98

00:08:53.880 things are outside of your control like there exists girls that have boyfriends and husbands 1.00

00:08:56.920 that don't want to cheat when you talk to them in the club there's girls that are in a bad mood 1.00

00:09:00.320 they don't like you for whatever reason instead of taking that personally and thinking i suck

00:09:04.000 think okay that one's just not interested this one probably will but most men get deflated

00:09:08.620 and then they bring that negative energy into the next interaction and then that causes them to get

00:09:13.700 rejected with a higher chance it's gonna be hard not to i mean i worked in sales i sold copiers and

00:09:18.300 i'm telling you there's nothing worse than selling it it's like to sell like a stand-up ten thousand

00:09:22.480 dollar copy machine who wants that and i'm like i i can't even imagine because when i did that job it

00:09:28.560 was so soul-sucking yeah that i'm like go getting rejected all the and that contributes to the

00:09:33.640 problem right because guys have to develop almost like an emotional resilience yeah yeah you have to

00:09:37.860 where you just have like this thick skin and you just know that when you hit those girls that aren't 0.62

00:09:42.120 interested there's going to be other girls that are interested and but a lot of guys will take it

00:09:46.220 personally i get clients they'll go up get two or three rejections and they just give up and they

00:09:50.140 stop approaching for the night so what's what's your i was just banned on tiktok and we are demonetized

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JustPearlyThings - April 15, 2023

The Truth About Religious People

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