The TRUTH About The HIGH Rise In ABORTION
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In this episode, we discuss the controversial topic of abortion. Are women responsible for their decisions regarding abortion? Is it a choice, or is it a decision, and are they responsible for the choices they make?
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i think at the end of the day 90 of abortions nowadays are elective and they're women making
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bad decisions can i i just think it's no i disagree well yeah i think it's women being
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irresponsible because we went around and everybody said the reasons why they got an abortion and
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or their friends got an abortion and the majority was wrong partner or wrong time so it kind of
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sounds irresponsible can i just say like toxic partners they're not always obvious in the
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beginning so you might think someone is great you have a child like later down the line and then
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they're toxic like if you see these warning signs surely you know get out sooner but but it does
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sometimes and i would have a lot of sympathy if those women um asked their parents for their advice
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because half the time these women they won't ask their parents advice and when their parents give
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them advice and say no that's a bad guy they don't listen date that anyway that's some circumstances
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there's not um not everyone yeah not everyone can get advice from their parents exactly i'm not saying
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every single person but i am saying i see that often and in the majority of times in toxic
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relationships i just see women not listening but you also have to consider their friends will say
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something too like i mean i'm sure all of you have said something to a friend that that boyfriend is
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toxic or crazy and the women don't listen 100 but you always have to think about the women as well and
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as sometimes women are in vulnerable situations people deal with mental health they maybe can't feel
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like they can't leave there's a lot of different circumstances i know but to me this is just
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excuses when at the end of the day it's you making a choice and i think you're responsible for the
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choices you make you know you know what not every woman is strong there's a lot of weak women out here
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okay and they're weak for all different type of reasons yeah and they're not able to
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see a good man yeah a lot of these women might have had a really bad relationship and then instead of
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taking the necessary time to heal they get into another relationship and what happens is they
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see this person this new guy as something amazing because he's probably better than the last one he
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was abusive yeah but the next guy still isn't prince charming still isn't gonna be there still might be
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there for two three years yeah but but but it takes it takes a big pick them so my thing is like take
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responsibility for your choices i hear you but you you have to understand that some people are not very
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intelligent some people don't are not awakened to certain things and they maybe they just make
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terrible decisions i just hear that you know but what about the men in this like what i mean aren't
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they also responsible for i mean takes two to tongue yeah exactly it's like is the woman is a woman
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supposed to make sure that the the male wears a condom and also take it countries up they also have to
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take the contraceptive pills yes i do think you should make sure that the person you're sleeping
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with is wearing a condom and you're right we can say condom equally responsible fine fine we'll agree
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with that but you know with the women we have plan b we have abortion um we also have um we also have um
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what do you call it what 44 forms of birth control we have all these different we can get the thing in
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your arm you can get an iud you can take the pill not all women did you know i just i love women can't
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get any contraceptive though it's free i'm sorry just because there's things are health issues can i
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sorry but if we look at the numbers 53 of women aren't wearing a condom with a new partner can i have
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to me that just screams irresponsible but are they using other contraception is it what are they using
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other contraception i i don't know can i make a you know what can i can i just say i think um i think
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you're right about i think i think that the abortion being pushed the way it is has encouraged
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people being promiscuous i think that there is a lot of stupid girls and guys out there that are
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uh sleeping around that uh like oh it's my whole phase like and like hot girls summer and all these
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it's it's promoting bad nasty yeah it's basically like promiscuous behavior i just think one out of
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three women have had an abortion like it's a form of birth control at this point well the younger is
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getting younger and younger and younger yeah and i think that there is so many girls that i'd say that
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girls that are now probably 10 to 15 in like 10 years time they're gonna have had like 10 plus abortions
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that one girls that are for abortion but there is a lot of girls that i have heard you know in school
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that i've spoken to from high school that have already had like two three abortions and they're in
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high school yeah and and and they're not it's it's nothing to them it's like oops like just get
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another one oh it's happening again pro-choice people can we have an abortion cap like after three
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now you know you need to keep this child this is just irresponsible you know what um abortion medication
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is do you know what it does which what do you mean well abortion medication it induces right so it's not
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this special pill that goes wee woo and just kills the fetus it causes the body of the mother to eject
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it right so it's not killing it it's making the area in which it's growing inhospitable so which does what
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well it ejects it it causes a miscarriage right so that does what well then the argument is it was it
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alive because we have to we have to define what being alive is and whether so i see a pregnancy
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as a potential life not as a life until something's sitting in front of me it's not a life that doesn't
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mean that i don't can make considerations for how we perceive women who are pregnant especially later
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on in pregnancy those two things are not particularly related and my opinions are more
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on a societal basis and not from any argument from consciousness or really that much bodily autonomy
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for example if we say oh well it will definitely survive at six months um although that already is
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the cutoff in which case i said some some children have survived at like five and a half months before
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well then i i have no issue with potential c-sections or whatever happening at any point in time but the
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reality is like they're gonna live so there's no point speculating about eight or nine month abortions
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because that wouldn't make any sense sorry what did you say your name was again sorry uh kelly kelly um
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um on google it says that on google no i don't know what google says no no no no no no but no i'm just
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saying legally you can't get a birth certificate for a death of a child unless it's um actually being
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born so if you have like a stillbirth or you have like um like you say you want to carry through your
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pregnancy and you get to like five six months you're excited about your pregnancy you've told
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everyone about your pregnancy you're looking forward to your child coming your child dies you haven't
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given birth to your child you're really telling me i can't get a birth a death certificate for my child
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and to me that's my child do you know i mean i want to mourn like and stuff like that so if um with um
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pro-life um people that are with pro-life it's like it's a when you said um sorry when you said
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a child like is not really like a person until they're born so what about the mums that think
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that that child is a person they're growing with a baby inside of their belly they want to like
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have some kind of closure anyone from mourning but loss regardless of what you can't but you don't have
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a death certificate because you don't get a death certificate for the child so how do you you can't
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have a funeral you can't really have a funeral you can still have a funeral i know but it's not really
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like like proper you know it's not something for yourself like say you you want to have something to
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keep that to say i had this baby that this existed this happened do you know what i mean you can't
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really have that so it's like saying oh before my child's born my child's not a child but if my child's
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not a child then how can people really argue and say that abortion is wrong if the child's not a child then
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you've made you've made a really good point because you've said about um you can't get a birth
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certificate until you're born so i understand a death certificate if the child dies and you haven't
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given birth to that child yet during your pregnancy yeah yeah that makes sense that that makes sense to
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me in my mind logically that makes perfect sense why would you get a death certificate if you haven't
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received a birth certificate well but but if someone gets killed yeah a mom gets you haven't received your
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birth certificate you haven't been born yes you haven't physically been born what i'm saying is
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tell me about it so if the child hasn't been born yet then technically that's if the child hasn't been
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born yet then you're saying that's not in life is that what you're saying that's not a life yes it
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has not been born yet so if someone has it's a living organism yes depending on how far along it is
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but it has not been born don't get twisted i'm pro-choice don't get twisted i'm pro-choice what i'm saying what i'm
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saying is for people that are pro-life if you have an abortion before the child is born that is wrong
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right for you to have an abortion before you've given birth to a child so there's some of the some
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of the same people that are also pro-life will not they'll they're with like not how can you not have
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a death certificate it's not a child right do you get what i'm trying to say if it's not a life
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if it's not i don't know if i'm even explaining what i'm trying to say probably to get what i'm trying
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to say i sort of do sort of so you're saying why why don't they have a death certificate if the child
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is in if if in your eyes the child is a lot is considered a child before the child's being born
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then that child when it dies before being born should be should be allowed a death certificate
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to say that this child was something this child existed right you know what i mean but it's not it's
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illegal but in certain countries it's illegal to have an abortion but it's also illegal to have a
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death certificate before 24 weeks it doesn't make sense it's it's all hypocritical all of it the life
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choice that like you do like we just said that i don't know if you heard but if a woman gets killed
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and she's pregnant she could have just become pregnant the day before they find out i think
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the pro-lifers are not hypocritical i think it makes perfect sense because we would say it's a double homicide