JustPearlyThings - The TRUTH About Women And MATE Selection

00:00:00.000 you know what pearl i don't want to i don't want to live in their delusion at all your father did

00:00:04.460 a great job raising you i mean you really should keep going with what you're doing because you're

00:00:08.940 bringing a lot of common sense back it's not even like it's really just like you're really just

00:00:13.640 saying as it's so good to hear a woman talk like well you know it's funny it's funny i'm supposed

00:00:18.560 to be a liberal you know yeah my my personality traits i took the test the jordan peterson test

00:00:24.440 it says like 90 chance i'm going to be liberal i was so mad when i took it that i took it again

00:00:30.000 i will say though you are pretty liberal in the sense of what people don't see this

00:00:34.260 and uh you hire diversity yeah and that way you are a liberal yeah well it's not like everyone

00:00:40.460 here is blonde blue eyes yeah well and liberals are more like open to new experiences like there's 0.69

00:00:45.420 like traits like my dog's friendly like when a liberal buys a dog they buy like a friendly dog

00:00:50.820 where a conservative buys a dog it like is a guard dog yeah so there are certain traits but you're

00:00:55.960 right my dad every time i would come home with like a crazy i mean we're so easy to propagate

00:01:00.940 women so like it happened to me too i'd go to i went to a college one of the first colleges to have 1.00

00:01:06.000 trans people there was trans people on my floor oh my gosh i know and this is the crazy i wasn't 0.94

00:01:11.460 really that political back then because i was so into volleyball i just didn't have time right

00:01:15.540 but a volleyball is very left too it's a very left sport so it's as i have two conservative parents

00:01:22.120 they're fighting a losing battle like do you know what i mean like i'm on tick tock left

00:01:26.460 i go into a volleyball left i go to school like it was just such i did study economics

00:01:34.160 what happened i would go home oh i would go home to my dad and he would just dispel every crazy idea

00:01:42.300 i had because for a while i felt bad my dad's a very successful guy he had um 200 employees he had a

00:01:48.060 software company very very successful hard working guy and i would feel bad because i would be like

00:01:54.240 i have so many advantages i have no college debt and i would genuinely feel guilty about like having

00:01:59.660 so much privilege in the world and so i would like one thing i remember he talked me out of was these

00:02:05.260 free government programs and not not that you can't have any but i would be like dad why can't we

00:02:10.860 help everyone you know and he just looked at me he says two dollars in one dollar out and i was like

00:02:17.080 huh no no no no you put two dollars into something you make one dollar you can only have so many

00:02:23.440 programs like that until you run out of money and it was very simple right because like the government

00:02:28.700 it's like all confusing all the programs whatever but my dad would just talk me out of all this stuff

00:02:34.480 he would just sit there for two hours where i would say dad this is a great idea and he would

00:02:40.460 just tell me why it was in fact not a great idea that's pretty cool though yeah yeah yeah

00:02:46.820 when you meet your husband uh i assume you're a straight woman i am i'm very straight yeah okay

00:02:55.040 yeah i like very like none of this like i know all the women are like bisexual nowadays all that 0.97

00:03:01.100 craziness no not me everyone yes i mean i'm a tomboy i'm i am a bit of a tomboy yeah but none of

00:03:08.780 that nonsense i mean i mean just saying you know objectively i'm a married man but objectively speaking

00:03:13.800 you know tall about what you're 5 11 yeah 5 11 and a half yeah you know i'm an athlete i like to say

00:03:19.880 you're like a model tall you know models are that tall you know yeah yeah yeah so so like okay so

00:03:26.080 you're tall you're successful you're intelligent you're responsible and when you meet your husband

00:03:32.340 and i say this also from firsthand experience my wife's father is a ceo in the auto sector

00:03:39.000 he has factories he does he does manufacturing for auto companies and he's on the board of directors

00:03:45.480 of a professional soccer team bundesliga and i admire him i admire my wife's father and when you meet

00:03:54.540 your husband pearl he's you know like especially if he has an interest in entrepreneurship even if he

00:04:00.540 doesn't but like when my wife's father is so successful he's like well known in our city

00:04:06.860 in germany and um when i'm with him i sort of like i'm like wow i'm with him his name is martin

00:04:12.880 i'm like i'm with martin like he's just like six foot four viking yeah looking guy and um i just

00:04:20.300 i admire him a lot and i think that whatever husband you get uh it's gonna you're gonna really

00:04:27.920 you just the way you think your dad's so cool and he's this big businessman your husband will

00:04:34.060 probably like that too yeah hopefully you know yeah he will i yeah remember me saying that it's

00:04:39.920 really important to me that like a guy i date like i've actually i've broken up with people because

00:04:45.080 my dad didn't like them yes well he wants the best for you yeah that's what i figured rather you

00:04:49.860 trust your dad yeah well i figured i'm like women we have horrible mate selection horrible like if you 1.00

00:04:54.740 look at the more choice we've gotten as women the last hundred years we've gotten like we used to live 0.94

00:04:59.280 with our our fathers until we got married so before like a hundred years ago the 20s is when women 1.00

00:05:04.840 started to like live on their own in apartments our mate selection like look at the marriage rate since 1.00

00:05:09.960 women have had more choice it's horrible yeah so i'm like i'm a woman we're so susceptible to

00:05:14.900 propaganda you know we were we're susceptible to the sweet i gotta you dad's gotta get involved

00:05:20.820 i love that i want to have my wife i don't know if she's watching but uh i'm gonna tell her that

00:05:26.700 we're gonna watch this this part i love what you just said yeah the daughter being at home till she

00:05:31.900 gets married i want i love that idea i want my daughter to do that it worked better it worked better 0.59

00:05:37.820 when we did that if you look at the more choice women have gotten in mate selection it's gone 1.00

00:05:42.780 horrible there's a reason that there was like the the women the fathers were like stay away from that 0.98

00:05:48.640 boy because the women love you know the bad guy but the guy and the dad knows that well yeah but 0.99

00:05:53.540 they'll like lock you in your room you know no no that's true because when you when you were a baby

00:05:59.020 i guarantee you have the pictures of when you were a baby an infant your father maybe kissed your

00:06:05.720 cheeks played with your hair look at you in your eyes maybe get a bath with you washed you change

00:06:12.180 maybe you know maybe i don't do the diaper part but at least i help with the bath yeah yeah uh and um

00:06:18.440 you know you're you're so precious to your dad and uh there's no way another man i even me i like

00:06:26.340 i'm terrified of anything happening to me one reason i decided to get healthier after the lockdown i

00:06:32.560 gained weight uh i lost a lot of my good habits now i've lost the weight that i gained during the

00:06:38.340 lockdown but i realized that i'm not invincible i got sick i realized i wasn't i wasn't invincible

00:06:44.040 like i was when i was younger and the idea that i won't be alive for my daughter is terrifying to me

00:06:50.960 you know and because i love her so much and the idea of other men abusing her just tortures me inside

00:06:58.580 and out and i hope that she never pays the price for the things i've done to women because now i look

00:07:05.080 back on women and i think oh i used to just have her come over and i would fuck her and then i would 1.00

00:07:10.620 take a shower and i'd be done and my goal would be within like 30 minutes of her coming over in and 1.00

00:07:17.480 now we fuck i take a shower she leaves i finished it all within 30 minutes now i look back on that 0.98

00:07:26.240 and think how much she how did she feel that i would she might have actually really liked me

00:07:33.540 and here i was just fucking her as soon as i'm done fucking her i'm going and taking a shower 1.00

00:07:39.760 then i'm asking her basically to leave or in a polite way very polite way i'm walking her out 0.92

00:07:46.100 i'm taking her gone i'm taking her out now i think is am i going to pay the price with dealing with the

00:07:52.860 torture of another man doing that to the most precious thing that i have in this world which

00:07:59.280 is my daughter i hope not i hope she doesn't pay the price for what her father did but i'll tell you

00:08:05.320 this much i'm your father you are precious to him in a way that it's i'm telling you you know

00:08:12.520 you you're dad you know you're you're you're you're his daughter you know you're his daughter

00:08:18.100 you he knew you when you were he knew you when you were one hour old there's no way that he would

00:08:25.940 want you to be with a man that's going to disrespect you and hurt you he's thinking of your future

00:08:31.920 50 years from now yeah after he dies he's thinking of a man that's going to protect you

00:08:37.140 when he's gone in this cold vicious world brutality you know he's thinking like i'm telling you because

00:08:44.440 i'm a father with a daughter he wants someone that's going to protect you like a warrior

00:08:49.040 a gladiator you know a hunter because he's gonna he's gonna die one day you're gonna be alone

00:08:55.920 he's he knows that he has that responsibility in his heart deep in his brain so when he does that

00:09:02.220 it's almost like his longevity plan it's almost like the ceo exiting and saying another ceo is

00:09:10.120 going to come i want to make sure it's the handoff to i'm giving my daughter to

JustPearlyThings - July 10, 2023

The TRUTH About Women And MATE Selection

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