JustPearlyThings - April 09, 2023


The Truth About Women With Tatoos

Hosted by
Hannah Pearl Davis
NO Guy Wants To Be Just FRIENDS She SCHOOLED This Modern Woman@MelanieKing1

Episode Stats


Length

12 minutes

Words per minute

192.51

Word count

2,468

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Harmful content

Misogyny

28

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Hate speech

16

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Summary

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In this episode, we discuss the differences between tattoos and piercings in the culture and the culture in general, and why it's important to have them and why they don't serve as a barrier between men and women.

Transcript

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00:00:00.000 birds of a feather flock together i think we need to always circle back around to that because
00:00:07.920 if i date somebody completely out of my character completely out of the people i vibrate on like
00:00:14.480 this frequency of course i'm gonna have to challenge myself i'm i'm going to want to get my
00:00:20.160 tattoos lasered and stuff so if you want to get into that um level of of people you know those
00:00:28.160 those kind of people you want to be around millionaires and you want to have a millionaire
00:00:32.240 husband and all of those things it comes at a price yeah but do you actually feel like just
00:00:38.560 because like people don't have tattoos in person they can be more successful than people not in
00:00:43.600 relationships yeah my brother so i just you know i i'm one of ten so i i have i have a family at
00:00:49.920 ten five boys five girls and um out of my five brothers i think four make six figures so four
00:00:55.600 are in the top like five to ten percent of earners um and none of them date women with tattoos like
00:01:00.960 they refuse they won't do it um the oldest if i can ask how old is the oldest brother um he the oldest
00:01:07.760 brother is 33 he just got married and that's first kid we should we should clarify that we should
00:01:15.520 clarify that like just because a man will sleep with you and we all know this doesn't mean that
00:01:19.120 he'll commit to you like it doesn't mean that it doesn't mean that a man won't sleep like i had lots
00:01:23.440 of girls that had tattoos but but i knew that i wasn't going to be like when you're talking about
00:01:30.240 we're not saying that we're actually just discussing about if someone that doesn't have tattoo and
00:01:35.280 piercing why would it be better than someone that has them like um it's the same thing as someone that
00:01:41.360 is wearing a suit and someone that is wearing just jeans and just something casual that's someone
00:01:46.400 not whereas to make someone it does in a way in a way it signals wealth it's an appearance right
00:01:53.680 right and that's the same point so so to to women we we like men in suits in general by and large 0.62
00:02:00.480 because it signals well we men like women without piercings and without tattoos because it signals purity
00:02:06.160 and life choices like why do you wear a white dress at the wedding because it's a symbol of your
00:02:10.080 i know i feel like with tattoos first yeah they look good and all that but then when you get
00:02:16.320 older and wrinkled i'm sorry it just looks like mess on the body and even what you were saying like
00:02:20.720 birds of the same feather flock together we are getting we have another um coho i have another talent
00:02:26.320 here and he he's got a sleeve full of tattoos and he even says himself he prefers women without them
00:02:30.800 that's true but can i say just something yeah uh when i was like younger right um i used to have
00:02:35.920 like piercing because i love piercing so whatsoever yeah i was 14 i was the only one having piercings
00:02:41.520 nails whatsoever yeah but i can tell you for facts that i was the purest one because at 14 15 i was not
00:02:47.760 going with like any guy i was on my own i was and the girls that they had the family that they were
00:02:52.960 eventually give them curfew for going home at 10 11 o'clock or they didn't have piercing or they didn't have
00:02:58.480 tattoo they were the one that they were dirty that more dirty than me well and and and sometimes that
00:03:03.760 happens like sure but but this is the thing if you're advertising yourself one way so if you have
00:03:09.760 a sign on yourself and you're you're advertising that you're not here how would they know yeah it's
00:03:15.200 like men if it walks like that's what i'm saying because nowadays but but that's that's what i'm saying
00:03:19.600 because nowadays the society uh gets only to see like the appearance they don't really everything is
00:03:24.640 superficial right but we okay do you want to do you want to date a guy taller than you
00:03:28.240 yeah of course okay but so that's appearance of course that's appearance that's judging a guy
00:03:32.960 based off because for nature and men right and for and for nature men like women that are pure
00:03:39.280 because historically they had to ensure paternity so they don't want a girl that's been around and 0.65
00:03:43.840 if a girl has tattoos and a lot of piercings that's what they associate it with yeah but uh we can even 1.00
00:03:48.880 talk about how many more people from new deal like ages and ages ago they used to have tattoos on their
00:03:55.360 bodies or they used to have symbols on their bodies and which cultures which uh maori indies all these
00:04:03.440 people that they used to have tattoos in england in england we're not talking about we were we're in
00:04:08.800 we're in england i know we're in england we're talking about what we're talking about
00:04:15.280 it doesn't it doesn't really matter what the culture was back then because it doesn't because we're talking
00:04:21.600 about the culture do we live back then no no but what i'm saying is what i could say what i could
00:04:26.480 say is that it's it's already it's embedded in our dna though no matter where we are in the world
00:04:32.160 there is a specific thing that brings me in that draws me in that attracts me that does particular
00:04:37.680 things to my dna and that's why i biologically want this man i don't care that he has four
00:04:43.440 children and four baby mothers i don't care that he doesn't provide because at the end of the day
00:04:48.480 nature to nature there is something within him that's deeper than what what society sees him as
00:04:56.320 so you're russian roulette and your relationships yeah no i don't get in relationships with them
00:05:01.040 because then i think at the end of the day me being in a relationship with myself is more important
00:05:07.520 than being in a relationship man i mean in a relationship with a man wait wait can we i need
00:05:14.000 i need to break this down i need to break this being in a relationship with yourself
00:05:18.160 is more important than being in a relationship with a man who that's what i added on who what
00:05:25.200 sorry finish it then so i'm saying in order for me to be in a proper relationship i need to know that
00:05:31.600 that man is secure whether that means that i'm choosing a man who's not probably in a particular
00:05:39.440 position where i would want to have his children i do believe that me loving this man and having him
00:05:47.040 commit to me could potentially make him the man he's meant to be if he lets me so be that woman for
00:05:54.160 him so you're going to make the man so the man's going to commit to you and you're going to make
00:05:58.480 him into what you want him to be not about what i want him to be but what what he could be he should
00:06:04.160 be naturally okay so you're going to do that society why would you pick a guy that you have to make him 0.70
00:06:10.160 into what he should be why wouldn't you just pick a guy that's there that's because there are certain
00:06:15.280 men who see this is and that's what i'm saying because i think i've had a lot of offers of
00:06:20.400 marriage a lot oh lucky lady no like like in the last three months i can tell you that
00:06:28.320 stop proposing i'm just i'm just saying like and that's based on women take too much credit
00:06:36.880 people proposing to me i think a lot of times women will say i mean you kind of did right there 0.99
00:06:43.520 when you're saying i'm going to make him into the man he wants to it's just like no no no they kind 0.92
00:06:47.520 of are how they are honestly i feel like i feel like men that are going to be successful are going
00:06:52.720 to be successful regardless of the women like i think i think dimitri right there whether you met
00:06:57.760 your wife or didn't meet your wife i'm sure she added but is it wrong for a woman to blow out on home 1.00
00:07:06.480 i think women just take too much credit everything's us we did everything 1.00
00:07:11.120 are women coming in a relationship to multiply that's what women do we multiply i mean you give 1.00
00:07:16.960 us a you give me a house i'll make you a home can i just can i just you know i'll make you a
00:07:22.880 stop stop so we'll have these we'll have these modern women these modern modern women that are 1.00
00:07:27.440 so that are so not traditional it's just so obvious that it's unfortunate and i'm not talking
00:07:31.840 about you personally but i'm talking about in general i get it so if you keep ad-libbing you're
00:07:36.000 gonna go okay thank you so this is this is the thing with with modern women it's like very 1.00
00:07:40.880 very clear not traditional and then they'll say i make the house into a home well but that's what
00:07:48.160 what percent of women really do that what percent of women today were really raised to be wise what 0.57
00:07:53.040 percent of real women really know how to have family traditions what percent of women really value 1.00
00:07:58.560 the family what percent of women really aren't out every weekend let us know because that is the 1.00
00:08:04.560 foundation is a woman makes a house into a home and that's why they say when you look at a society 1.00
00:08:10.640 to see how it's doing you look at the women and the women today they're overweight they've slept with 0.98
00:08:14.720 more people and and we're less successful in relationships than ever before we're the ones
00:08:20.080 ruining the way society has gone they've made it more accepted for women to be by themselves have the 1.00
00:08:29.440 kids and not have the man involved why haven't they given men a lot of incentive to stay at home 0.99
00:08:37.760 because all right a woman's can be high on this and high statistically and that but really and truly
00:08:44.720 the man it's all down to him in a way he will make the proposal he will choose his wife and all of that 0.52
00:08:52.320 so why has not the system give more incentive for the men to stay at home i could tell you why actually
00:09:01.040 so one um the system so so what do you know what do you know it's it's the women it's the women's 1.00
00:09:08.000 choices so because women leave 70 to 80 percent of the time 90 percent of their college education so 0.99
00:09:12.800 the women are the ones ruining the relationship who ruins the relationship the one that stays the 1.00
00:09:16.960 one that leaves the quitter ruins it can i just say the women have more incentive to be by themselves 1.00
00:09:23.360 correct and why is that because they financially ruin men in order financially the system wants to tax
00:09:30.000 everybody okay no no no i'll tell you i'll tell you why because i'm actually researching this i'm
00:09:35.680 actually i'll tell you i'll i'll tell you why if you want to know because i'm actually researching this
00:09:39.200 the issue is that the the politicians have no incentive to change the laws because the biggest
00:09:44.960 group of swing voters is women and single mothers are the biggest voters so why would they take away 0.98
00:09:50.240 the benefits of single mothers even if men are committing suicide every single day because of these 1.00
00:09:55.520 policies now some could argue that women shouldn't vote i won't say that no no no women got to vote 1.00
00:10:02.720 but can you see where i'm coming from like the incentives are crazy now let me tell you something
00:10:07.520 this is where i'm coming from the incentives are crazy but we don't have to take them women don't have 1.00
00:10:11.600 to take those incentives which i haven't yeah i'm talking about you no but i'm one person that hasn't
00:10:17.200 i'm the woman that hasn't you know but let me tell you something let me tell you something i had
00:10:22.000 my best friend from school right and i don't even want to break down their parents right now i love
00:10:28.320 you i love you all but my best friend from school three kids no husband no actually she had a fiance
00:10:35.840 she committed suicide like why would my best friend from school do that now that's where i'm coming
00:10:43.840 from and that's why i had to escape that because look where my best friend is today you know you had to
00:10:50.080 escape what i had to escape that environment that environment yeah of being a bit toxic a bit
00:10:56.400 generational curse so she killed herself because she did i don't know maybe because i don't know why
00:11:02.640 i don't know why we don't know why but she you know she left her family her everybody was so close and
00:11:11.200 you know even though these women are saying that they're gonna leave they're gonna do this they're 0.92
00:11:16.880 still not happy in in making that choice but then the men still don't have no incentive to come back
00:11:24.880 or to stay or to make it work with the women that then they bear children with you know but that's 1.00
00:11:32.080 that's just that that narrative just isn't true it's just wrong because because the the men are not
00:11:36.640 leaving the women are leaving women leave the majority of the time the woman with two kids right okay but
00:11:43.440 that's the exception it's not the rule what i'm saying okay out of 10 marriages if there's 10
00:11:50.400 marriages two are the men leaving eight are the women leaving so who's the problem all right the
00:11:58.000 leavers maybe easy answer leavers leavers which is the women but it's the incentives that they have 1.00
00:12:05.200 they probably be like oh i've got too much um i don't know but this is but this is the thing this
00:12:11.680 is why i say modern women are selfish because it's me me me before the family oh even if they 1.00
00:12:16.160 have the incentives like a true traditional woman would never take them but she doesn't care because 1.00
00:12:21.120 she cares about the kids first maybe as many of you know i was just banned on tick tock and we are
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