The Types of 304's (Call-in Show) | Pearl Daily
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Summary
Who are the smart whores and the dumb whores when it comes to sex? Are they prudes or are they whores? And are they not? Do you know the difference between a smart whore and a dumb whore?
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So as you guys know, we all know what whores are.
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They're the OnlyFans girls, the college girls that bang the football team, the baby mamas in church.
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And let's face it, whores are everywhere in 2025.
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You really can't even go outside without hitting one.
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And thank you to the super chat from IAD Avery saying, pearl is my type.
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You should save that money, take a woman on a date instead of sending it to me.
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So prudes are the women that abstain from having sex for one reason or another.
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The definition of a prude is a person who claims, who is or claims to be easily shocked by matters relating to sex or nudity.
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In the modern day, prudes are women that are saying virgins for clout or women that are too socially awkward to get sex from a man they want.
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But I really want to dive into the types of whores, right?
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So in my experience, I've noticed that there are smart whores and there are dumb whores.
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So smart whores are women that, yeah, they're whores, but they do it in a smart way.
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An example, and I almost feel disrespectful saying this, but I love you, Melania, but I don't believe for a second you were pure before Donald Trump might have bought it, but I'm not stupid.
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But if you're going to pretend you weren't throwing it back when you were modeling in New York and in Europe, please.
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Um, so smart whores do keep everything off the internet so that, you know, women that are whores, I'm not talking about women that are paid to do it.
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I'm saying the women that love having sex with different dudes, they do it for the love of the game, but they know they got to cash out someday.
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So what they do, they keep everything off the internet.
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They'll move away for their reputation and they are likable and they just, you know, they like sex.
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So these women, they focus on giving the guy a very good experience.
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So he spends the night, she might cook breakfast, she might, you know, give him a massage, but she's smart because she knows she cannot bring purity to the table.
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She is not going to sell a low body count to this fella.
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So what she's going to do is she's going to sell a great experience.
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And the strategy is to hook a guy with good sex and be likable enough to get a ring and a kid and they wear protection so they don't get an STD or if they do get an STD, they lie for the rest of their life.
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Sorry, I hate to say it, but ladies, if you're a woman and you have an incurable STD, okay, the smart ones lie.
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Now, you could, you could, we could talk about morals, but morals, I, you know me, I try to keep morals out of this.
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Who's going to have better results, the woman that lies about having something or the woman that's honest?
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So, you know, a smart whore would be Kim Kardashian.
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Now, Kim Kardashian, she certainly doesn't sell purity, right?
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And, yeah, okay, she didn't get a classy guy to marry her.
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It's kind, but it's still, you know, one of the greatest rappers of all time.
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So she said, you know what, I'm going to be beautiful, I'm going to be likable, at least until I get my children, and then I'm going to ruin his life.
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You know, like we could say Wolf of Wall Street, right?
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The guy from Wolf of Wall Street, you could say he's immoral, and he totally is.
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Like Amber Rose, she was pretty enough to really get anything she wanted.
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She could have even gotten away with the whoring, but she was dumb enough to embrace the whore culture and make it part of her identity.
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I wish her luck with this Kevin Gates guy, but you know, now she can't be the wife, she's got to be the second wife.
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Um, all right, so the next thing we got is the happy whores.
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They embrace being promiscuous, and they've found ways to get fulfillment out of life while still being a whore, right?
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They've accepted that they will just be a girlfriend and never be taken seriously.
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The happy whores usually have their life or reputation as a whore out in public.
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They're honest about their whoredom, and these women can get married, you know, sometimes they do it, um, but they will divorce the men.
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And the way they get married again is they just, they gluck, gluck, they gluck, gluck 9,000, right?
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And you guys, I love you guys because a lot of you guys just aren't realistic, right?
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You guys pretend that those women could never pull one over on you.
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Um, but I need you guys to get, not all of you, some of you do really well with the ladies, but if you're not, if you haven't really gotten women like that, you can't say that, like, you can't say that these women could never get one.
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Um, okay, so these women, they're just happy to be whores.
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They're both, they're not really contentious, right?
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If you get them on a podcast, they're not arguing.
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They're not really defending their way of life.
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They're just kind of happily saying, look, I'm a whore.
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If you don't think that they'll get married, idiots.
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Somebody's going to do, now you might say, I would never do it.
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Just because you wouldn't, doesn't mean that someone will.
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And I think that's why, like, men are kind of angry, right?
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Because they're like, you guys make these terrible decisions.
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Bonnie has been married and Lily wants to be married at some time in an open relationship.
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So this is an article a woman wrote about being a prude.
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So, I realize the idea of sexual modesty might sound a bit quaint these days.
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Some in the culture believe sex should be as casual as shaking hand.
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And some self-proclaimed conservatives behave as if they do, even if hypocritically giving lip service to the idea of waiting till marriage.
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But what sounds modest now seems increasingly radical, holding out, waiting, not necessarily for marriage, but until you know the relationship at least has a shot at going the distance.
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Now, I am not talking about the men that women pass over.
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We all know women only go for a small percentage of men, right.
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So, the men that regularly and easily can get sex, the women, the men that women want to lock down.
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Because I'm not with this idea that players don't ever retire.
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But they value their time too much to wait that long for sex.
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I mean, Jeff Bezos, you know how he got locked down?
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Like, his time is worth like a million dollars a minute.
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They're not going to wait because they don't feel like it.
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Men will go to the ends of the earth to bang a 20-year-old.
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Ladies, for the two women watching, if you're 20, just know they will not go to the ends of the earth like that forever.
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But it's like at 20, at 20, you tell a guy you want to go on a date right next to your apartment.
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You want to, you say, could you drive like three hours to meet me?
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And the older and more experienced, you know, a guy gets, really they kind of go through this, the juice isn't worth the squeeze, right.
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Because they bang a really hot chick and she makes his life hell and they're like, eh.
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They bang a mid, they, you know, they just keep going through this.
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Women only stick around if they're getting something out of it.
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Because remember, in the modern marketplace, unless you're going through church or some sort of community to get into a relationship, right.
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But we all know communities are kind of on the decline.
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People aren't really going outside like they used to.
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Women that try to like play, look, it just is what it is.
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And look at, when you say the right guy, look, I'm not saying none will, right.
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But a lot of times that's a guy with no choice.
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Now, I'm not saying, I think most guys await maybe a few weeks.
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Like, I don't know, you go on a date a week, like a month.
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But the more and more experienced and the more options a guy has, the less waiting time you get, right.
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Like, I have a friend, you know, he has 40 matches on Hinge that he doesn't even respond to.
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Now, if he has a choice between girl A, who he knows puts out and is going to put out, or girl B, who he can wait a month to sleep with, who do you guys think that he's going to pick, right?
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But all I'm saying is the older you get, the less and the more experienced in options the guy has.
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I mean, they'll spend a decade in the friend zone.
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But women, I don't even think the top 20% or alpha or whatever you want to call it, I don't even think it's really just about money or looks.
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And I can say this because I've seen broke, ugly guys slay.
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But they have an attitude of they're not afraid of women.
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It's like, women love the, you can stay or you can go, bitch.
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Now, look, I'm not saying there aren't exceptions, right?
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You know, men at some point are going to say, what am I getting out of this?
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And if they're not getting that poo nanny, it's like, you know.
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But anyways, but things don't become fashionable again unless someone puts in the effort.
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Let's reclaim the word prude like the Patriots fan proudly owning the word mass hole.
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The prude is saving himself or herself for love.
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It's all about being cautious with whom one gets involved with.
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Now, this would make sense if prudes were actually prudes.
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But they become prudes after throwing it back for Chad, Tyrone, and Daquan, right?
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The prude believes in committed relationships, which probably means monogamous for both parties
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with an intended duration of the least, oh my gosh, of at least the foreseeable future,
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The prude does not necessarily dress herself modestly.
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This is where women, they want the best of both worlds.
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They want to dress like a whore, but be assumed to be a prude.
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Now, I will say women always lie with their clothes, right?
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You know, there's women that dress like whores that are complete teases.
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Like, it's not one or the other, but you're not going to get purity points when you dress
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Purity is entirely about behavior, not appearance.
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One could leave little to the imagination and still not behave provocatively.
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One could dress like a Mormon and still be the town bicycle.
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The prude is not necessarily saving himself for marriage.
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Obviously, such a stance is compatible with prudity.
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However, people tend to save themselves for the wedding night for religious reasons.
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And proper prudery takes no stance on specific religions or lack thereof.
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The prude is saving himself for love for both ethical and extremely practical reasons.
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But, on the other hand, wanting to know if you're truly compatible in one of the more
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important categories might be reasonable before tying the knot.
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Of course, that won't stop the frustrated dates from making accusation.
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The prude's sex drive is no different than any other woman or man's.
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In fact, the prude may be better than average at it.
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But wanting to protect herself is no different than staying away from a strange dog until you
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The prude might be more frustrated than her partner.
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The prude does not have a separate set of rules for women.
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If your stance is, women should save themselves, but boys will be boys.
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That just makes you either a sexist pig or a self-loathing woman.
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The prude does not ever want to be showing symptoms for STIs.
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Getting routinely screened for STIs is definitely recommended for any non-virgins.
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And a good idea for both parties before financially making the bedroom plunge.
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But actually having discharge or itchiness because of important conduct would be absolutely
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Perhaps not the worst thing we could imagine, but pretty damn close.
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On the other hand, the prude allows herself human error.
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But on the other hand, we do not want to let them happen because they are mistakes.
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And I don't, I mean, there's more than this, but categorize.
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So when women are more of prudes, they want the benefit of a relationship, right?
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And so they want the benefit of lifelong monogamy.
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They want the benefit of a guy sticking around.
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And they want to guarantee that nothing will go wrong, that they can't get an STD, that
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the guy won't leave them, that if he does leave, I get the kids and, you know, child support,
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So what essentially they're saying is, hey, I don't want to take any risk, right?
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But then you have the other women that are super high risk.
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Like, so, I mean, one isn't, you know, now, and I actually see, I got to be honest.
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And we could go through it, but different strategies work depending on how hot the woman is.
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Really, you know, which strategy works, it depends how hot you are.
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If you're going to be a mid-prude, be young, but over a certain age.
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Like, that's the only way you're going to get in the door.
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The prude knows and fears the power of oxytocin.
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So, again, they want to, like, they're afraid that if they have sex, they'll get attached, which, I mean, that is a fear, right?
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But you guys get attached to hoes all the time, you know?
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You guys get attached to women you've invested and gone on dates with or whatever, right?
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The bonding hormone is released in especially high amounts during good sex, and it's what ties us to our partners, whether we like it or not.
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We're not pushing off sex just to be frustrating or to play it coy.
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It's because we know how that stupid hormone is the greatest risk of sex there is, or at least to us.
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So, in other words, the prude realizes sex can lead him directly to love, whether he wants to or not.
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A woman I follow on Twitter once remarked that she could not wait for the pandemic to be over with so she could go back to freely having sex with her friends.
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Sex with mere friends, and they are just friends.
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For most people, and most certainly for the prude, intercourse will most likely lead to an emotional bonding with the partner.
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No matter how lousy a human being may be, and it may lead to said partner bonding with you right back, which can be a problem, if they're completely for or borderline nuts.
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That's why the prudes must carefully screen potential mates beforehand, no matter how long it takes.
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While the prudery has other benefits, ethics, aborting STIs in pregnancies, the principle is straight-up self-defense.
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So, again, the prude thinks that they can avoid STIs, pregnancy, whatever.
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But as soon as you have the sex, you're still – now I understand it's a numbers game, right?
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If you're taking, like, five dicks a week, it's going to – I mean – but at the same time, if you're taking one, he still can cheat on you, right?
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But the girls with the – like, I don't even call them prudes.
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And high-anxiety women just have a very tough time taking L's.
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And, again, it's like they can't – they have to wait until marriage because what if he leaves?
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Well, and in a way, it's like a way to escape the burden of performance, right?
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You guys know that if you start sucking as a man, if you start sucking, your wife is going to leave you.
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If you get too fat and too broke, cooked, done, she's gone.
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Now, unless you're, like, a very charming guy – I mean, I have met men that live off of women,
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but they're usually at least either, like, comedians or something like that.
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But if you're not that, you know, men understand there's a burden of performance.
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But women, we're never told there's a burden of performance in relationships because you guys put up with everything.
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We're never told that, hey, you know, if you act bad enough, if you get too fat, if you're too much of a bitch,
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Like, how many guys have really sat their girl down and said, hey, I actually – you know, and meant it, right?
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Like, because you guys – we can tell the difference between, like, you know, how many –
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how many – has a guy ever said, hey, you got three months to lose the baby?
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But women – the prudes, what they want to do is – it's really easy to be a prude, right?
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Figuring out what your man wants without him having to tell you.
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I really get the feel – yeah, prudes, they tend to be control freaks.
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So, because she realizes she simply can't see above.
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Sometimes I envy people like the woman who could spend a day relaxing – a relaxing evening with a buddy doing the reverse cowgirl and walk away without any lingering irrational need to be around that guy anymore.
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Or this dude my college friends called the Scorpion because he was famous for every weekend getting any girl in the club he wanted by sheer command.
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The prude is simply not built like that and knows it.
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Yeah, and partially, like, this tends – prudes tend to be the mids, right?
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Because, like, if we were – if the prudes were getting offers from eights, nines, and tens often – two different types of prudes.
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There's the – sorry, two different types of mids.
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There's the mids that try to sell purity, and there's the mids that sell easy sex.
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Purity is, hey, I have a low body count, and therefore, hey, we could get together and I'll stay, right?
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The other option is, hey, I'm going to gluck, gluck.
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I've gluck, glucked everyone, and you're next, and I'm going to give you such a good experience.
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You guys can say that, but that doesn't make it true, right?
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It doesn't make it – it doesn't make it accurate.
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Anyways, but the point is, women, we love opportunistically.
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So it's what – women, we don't really have morals like that.
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We really just do what gives us the better results, right?
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So – and the challenge is today, smart men know that women that seem pure very well may not be.
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So the purity just isn't really selling like it used to.
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Like 10 years ago, women could sell purity so much better.
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I mean, nowadays, the men are like, yeah, right, okay.
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Okay, the prude related above does not get herself into that situation.
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Her brain might be still loudly be insisting herself to the world that they were just friends,
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Note that the guy in question clearly was able to have casual sex without feelings.
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The self-aware prude just realizes she cannot have relations without developing feelings
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and behaves like a prude precisely to avoid a classic psycho ex-girlfriend moment.
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So the next type of woman we're going to go through is the virgins.
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Now, I know you guys are thinking, what virgins?
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Now, I have met a decent amount of virgins in my life.
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And they're not really that different from, and by the way, stated virgins.
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So these women go well into their 20s and maybe early 30s never having had sex.
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And this is usually due to some serious mental health issues with these women
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or some kind of trauma that they're holding on to.
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So the number one thing we got is anxiety prudes.
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These prudes fear risk-taking for a better future,
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so they don't take any risks when it comes to sex or relationships.
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Like, basically, they can't give up the poonanny.
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Because as soon as they give up the poonanny, who's got control?
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But then you got the socially awkward virgin women.
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And these are the women that are prudes or virgins because of some kind of shortcoming.
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These are women that are fives and sixes that are just so awkward
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that they can't make it to the bedroom with a man they want to sleep with.
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Then there's the church virgins who just want to be worshipped, right?
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And they're really set on, like, needing to be a good person
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Like, I think, you know, you should market your selling points.
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If you're not cashing out, like, if you're really doing it for morals,
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and to show that you're better than other people, right?
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See, Danielle, see, now she's calling me a whore, right?
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I'm really tired of the women not including oral.
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If he finger blasted you, um, I'm counting that.
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Um, and, but I thought about this when it came to morals, like if women had morals.
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Now, the question is, back in the day, right, there was a point where under certain rulers
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or leadership, your choice as a woman was to be a sex slave or like work in the fields,
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Can we just be honest, like if we had to, what we would pick?
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Over 10 is normal when it isn't supposed to be.
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I'm not here to tell you what the world is supposed to be, okay?
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Okay, but I, what I don't want is you guys to be delusional out here.
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We need to go, we need to really realistically do numbers here, okay?
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Let's say women average, lose their virginity at 16.
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So if women are saying they lost it at 16, what age did they really, did we really lose
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Then, then why, then why did I meet all the Muslim women in London that love to throw it
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Why is it when my friends traveled in the Middle East, they said, they said that the Muslim
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The, so what, are they, are, are they more pure now?
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Matt, with the amount of D they've been with when stacked on top of another is taller than
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Well, we need to, I'm just being realistic here.
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Now, I'm not saying low body count women don't exist.
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I'm just saying usually they're making up for a personality deficit, right?
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Um, I mean, that's why the men like the younger, right?
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Okay, let's, let's for shits and giggles say 16.
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Now, how long do you think women wait in between men to have sex?
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And I want you, you guys can answer these questions yourself.
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But I think a lot of guys don't, you guys are waiting months for women and you're not
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Let's, for shits and giggles, let's go older and say wait till 18.
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Now, at 18, how long are women going to go without sex?
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Let's say the most a woman will go is six months without having sex.
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Like if you guys could easily get sex, pretty easy, with a hot girl, maybe the control freaks
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Less than 24 hours in a lot of cases, says Donovan.
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Now, how many men do you think women have to go through to get a relationship?
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Let's say the first guy in high school, the woman dates for two years or college boyfriend,
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Let's, you know, let's even say that the woman is so likable.
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The first guy she sleeps with, she gets what she wants out of.
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Now, let's assume, let's assume she shot out of her league a little bit.
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Let's assume she went for a 10, 10 didn't work out, went for a nine, the nine didn't work
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If she's more likable as a person versus the want to be promiscuous, right?
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Because some women, it's like, some women, it's not in as much, you know, they don't want
00:39:47.140
Like, now, by the way, this doesn't include the finger banging, the, all this stuff women
00:40:09.480
24 is, Jen, four to five to get a relationship.
00:40:30.340
So now we're going to talk about, and I want you guys to think about these questions.
00:40:36.380
I'm going to show you guys some different types of whores, and we're going to decide
00:40:39.860
together what we think the, what type of whore this is.
00:40:43.680
I made a couple of videos talking about how I'm not having sex right now, and lots of
00:40:51.920
This, this is completely by choice, and I'm not knocking the women who go around and have
00:40:59.580
It's their body, their choice, women empowerment.
00:41:06.200
Um, if I sleep with somebody, I'm going to become obsessed with you.
00:41:09.840
So the next person I sleep with is going to be my boyfriend.
00:41:12.400
So this girl's trying to signal purity with a arm tattoo.
00:42:05.220
Does it get exhausting to argue with people any day?
00:42:38.040
I won't pay for a date because if I pay for this date,
00:42:44.000
The men have to do the character development, right?
00:42:46.820
I'm sure you guys felt that like you crashed out
00:42:56.220
and then realizing how stupid they were, right?
00:43:08.360
Actually, let me, let me watch the rest one more time.
00:43:15.180
and he's going to have to deal with my psycho ass.
00:43:19.680
So again, prude making up for a personality deficit,
00:43:41.900
And again, it's like, they want nothing to go wrong.
00:44:35.520
that I have to hook up with a guy to get in a relationship.
00:44:56.940
unless you get a simp that has no other choice.
00:45:05.660
they might give you a relationship that have choice,
00:45:08.640
but they might just be screwing other girls too.
00:45:42.380
It's when someone has no sexual attraction to any sex or gender.
00:45:46.880
It's when women aren't hot enough to get the women,
00:45:52.860
I don't get attention from the men I'm attracted to.
00:46:06.080
some asexual people still want romantic relationships,
00:46:35.400
I'm going to do announcements after these links.
00:46:38.940
And then we're going to put a link in the chat.
00:46:42.920
No good men will hook up with you on the first date.
00:47:00.560
Just cause your husband was dumb enough to believe you.
00:47:11.160
particularly men on the first date because they might not respect you or see
00:47:23.820
sleeping with someone on day one doesn't really impact your chances with them.
00:47:27.600
I personally have had many relationships and a couple of proposals with guys that I
00:47:32.880
like slept with before really like dating them being like on the first date or even
00:47:42.100
And this is why I think you should not sleep with someone on the first date or the first
00:47:47.880
It's not because I think they're going to see you differently.
00:47:50.780
It's because I have dated people that I would never have dated if I had taken the time to
00:47:56.120
go on a few dates with them and get to know them better before I slept with them.
00:48:04.360
Not have sex with someone until you know that you fundamentally like them and are aligned with them.
00:48:14.500
You know, if it goes wrong, she won't crash out.
00:48:23.400
But at least, you know, you don't get the crazy stuff.
00:48:26.580
Since I'm single, I'm trying to look like hotter at the gym.
00:48:28.660
So I got this three pack of bike shorts for $28 and they have the little like very slight
00:48:38.500
Donovan, he said, I translation, I slept with bad boys next.
00:48:42.320
Well, all you got to do is just change your language.
00:48:54.220
And okay, so I know we all have reached the age where we collectively just don't give
00:49:09.960
If you tell me that your body count is at a certain number, I ain't gonna lie to you.
00:49:25.000
I'm scared, but it'll makes it better because I love the excitement.
00:49:33.220
If you sit up here and tell me that you want to fuck with me and your body count is over
00:49:47.480
You didn't fuck the whole city and now you want to come settle down with me?
00:49:57.580
And I know y'all be like, I don't give a fuck about body count.
00:50:03.800
But realistically, if a nigga tell you his body count is a hundred plus, two hundred plus,
00:50:30.740
All right, next we got, okay, I know a lot of people won't agree on this, but I lie about
00:50:43.160
Well, she's dumb cause she put it on the internet, but the same way you guys lie about cheating
00:50:47.480
if you're smart, women lie about their body count if they're smart.
00:50:50.680
From this one story, this guy asked me, he's like, hey, what's your body count?
00:51:07.420
He's like, no, I just know it's around a hundred.
00:51:10.540
So I'm calculating and I'm not good at math, but that's a lot of people in years.
00:51:16.200
I'm like, could you've maybe kept with one for a while?
00:51:33.060
And my friends are like, this is why you don't respect men.
00:51:35.520
I do respect men, but for some reason I keep getting in cars and going on dates with guys
00:51:53.560
I think the numbers I, what numbers do you guys hear?
00:51:59.960
I think it depends on the age, like three to begin with.
00:52:11.520
They just want to put a picture of you that is so precious in their head until they meet
00:52:41.160
If you don't call in, I think I might ban you from my chat because if you're going to
00:52:46.920
talk, if you're going to be contentious, then come in.
00:52:58.180
This weekend, I'm dropping my documentary trailer.
00:53:08.560
And we're dropping a trailer to raise money for it.
00:53:11.720
And I got off the phone with the team today and they gave me pricing.
00:53:16.120
And I'm going to give you guys rough pricing on what we're trying to raise.
00:53:22.920
If we get to that, then it's like a low budget documentary, half a million, pretty good could
00:53:32.160
potentially be sold to bigger networks like Netflix, um, a million dollars.
00:53:39.960
This is the divorce documentary where we, I interviewed men that are victims of divorce
00:53:44.620
So the past two years I've collected a lot of footage.
00:53:47.560
The issue is it's pretty, I don't want to say it's low quality, but for documentaries,
00:53:52.100
it just wasn't, um, the first team I picked just wasn't a great team.
00:54:02.280
Um, um, I, I can't really say the documentaries that they did before, but they're really, really
00:54:08.660
So I want to show you guys a trailer of what we already have.
00:54:14.560
Um, the other thing is too, I'm offering, if you donate five grand, I'll do a shout out
00:54:23.180
So if you've anything you want to say to your ex-wife, I'm putting that in, um, 20 K.
00:54:28.260
Today, I will do, I will let you give a shout out to your ex-wife in the documentary.
00:54:33.820
Um, so it really just, yeah, happy single mother's day.
00:54:38.180
I know that's why I'm dropping it Sunday, the commercial.
00:54:42.560
I may give you guys, I'm very tempted to give you guys a sneak peek.
00:54:57.920
Um, second thing is we are launching our course on the 15th.
00:55:04.900
So if you guys want to get into the audacity network at the price it's at now, which is
00:55:13.360
I will honor it if you guys buy it now as a thank you, but the price is going up.
00:55:17.460
And the reason is I'm getting top tier content on this stuff.
00:55:24.560
Um, I'm bringing in a PI to show you how to catch your girl cheating.
00:55:28.360
If you want to check before you get married, um, you know, trust, you know, don't go into
00:55:33.720
things neurotic, but you can trust, but verify.
00:55:37.420
Um, I have, um, Strickland is going to film some content that's about how to improve your
00:55:46.500
If you have any direct questions for him, DM me on Twitter, I'll put it on.
00:55:51.700
Um, and we have a lot of different creators that are doing some high quality content.
00:56:03.420
So if you want to go into YouTube or you want to sell clips or YouTube services, I teach you
00:56:10.480
Shiv also taught Donovan wants me to, I'll let Doug MPA decide.
00:56:48.880
This is going to be expensive, but I'll, I'll honor it if you buy it now.
00:56:55.000
So the question today is, do you prefer whores or prudes and why?
00:56:59.960
And has your dating experience been with more prudes or more whores?
00:57:04.840
And why do you think that is so call in ladies?
00:57:08.260
If you have a disagreement, you're welcome to disagree.
00:57:12.460
Um, and yeah, um, Doug MPA, why don't you answer the question first?
00:57:37.420
And I would say when I was young, it was with a bunch of prudes, but guys, honestly, once
00:57:44.280
you start dating women over 30, like whores are all over the place.
00:57:50.780
Like the older women get the more desperate to get the more whorish tendencies you'll see
00:57:58.080
And what, what was your experience dating them?
00:58:07.080
Like what, can you give me some pros and cons of each?
00:58:10.140
Well, Pearl, we've talked about this in the past.
00:58:14.720
Cause would you consider a whorish tendency, a girl sleeping with a man on the first date?
00:58:22.340
I mean, how many, how many dates did she go on that week is the question?
00:58:26.800
Well, yeah, because you want to be the man that she wants to sleep with on the first date.
00:58:31.960
You don't want to be the guy that she wants to make weight.
00:58:35.800
So I think that we need to redefine if that's a whorish tendency or not is sleeping with
00:58:42.500
a guy on the first date because I don't, and then also guys, we won't consider a woman
00:58:49.760
So if you sleep with her on the first date, then you can start auditing her to see if she's
00:59:00.800
Like it's kind of, it's, I almost, I think when women want to get married, they kind of
00:59:06.560
give it up more because it's like, you kind of have to get to it.
00:59:12.360
And a lot of professional women, you know, women with all these degrees and stuff, they
00:59:20.580
don't have a lot of time cause they're focused on their career or their education, whatever.
00:59:24.520
So they really want to get it in where they can fit it in.
00:59:29.400
So, but yeah, so when I was young, it was, it was a lot of prudes because of the circles
00:59:35.920
I was in, you know, I was a nerd and stuff, but as I've gotten older and more accomplished,
00:59:40.800
some of the best and brightest women have whorish tendencies.
00:59:45.660
Do you think they were prudes for you or do you think they were actually prudes?
00:59:49.880
Like, do you think it was cause you were younger and they just didn't like you that
00:59:53.620
Cause like, obviously when you're older, um, women like you more generally.
01:00:00.960
You know, I didn't, uh, when I was in my twenties, I was, I didn't start working out a lot until
01:00:07.880
I didn't really play any sports when I was young.
01:00:10.040
So I was kind of just, I was always intelligent, but I was a skinny nerd.
01:00:13.500
So yeah, they may have, I'm, I probably took L's and they were prudish for me.
01:00:23.320
Even the most prudish of woman, women, like with the right offer, they're going to do it.
01:00:30.920
Like, I mean, it's just, they didn't, it's just, they're not hot enough to get any offers
01:00:34.980
they liked, you know, or they're too unlikable or whatever.
01:00:39.740
And remember, I'm one of those, um, one of those, I was born and raised in the nineties
01:00:45.360
and I always say that as nineties raised men were the biggest simps ever.
01:00:52.600
So yeah, I took a lot of L's in my, in my lid, in my early and mid twenties.
01:01:09.100
I think maybe like six months or something like that.
01:01:15.600
That's why I don't trust a guy who says he's never taken L or never simped because he's
01:02:15.000
Yeah, it's in, um, it's, it's, it's, it's, it's, it's, it's, I'm from Angola.
01:02:34.220
Uh, well, I can't really say because in terms of, um, I mean, I would prefer, I would prefer like, uh, well, I don't know.
01:02:59.000
I would prefer a prude, but, you know, sometimes when you want to release some, uh, stress or relief, I would say, you know, um, a whore would be good.
01:03:10.260
Uh, some, somehow, but, you know, uh, I'm not saying in terms of, uh, trying to degrade myself as a man, but, you know, it's just basic, um, male nature, you know, to have a sense of, um, hunting and, uh, somehow conquering.
01:03:53.780
Because I'm, uh, Lewis, hold on, hold on, hold on, hold on, hold on, listen, listen, listen, let's factor in you dating her and spending money.
01:04:03.840
Let's say you have to take her on, take her out to dinner, do all the proper dating things.
01:04:09.000
So it's costing you money to spend time with this girl.
01:04:14.540
Is there a difference between waiting for sex from a woman if you're paying for dates and putting money into her or, or if you're not, do you understand the difference?
01:04:33.060
Does that change the, your, the length of how far you're willing to wait if you're putting time and money into her?
01:04:41.080
Uh, in some kind of way there is, because I mean, you know, I'm a man, uh, and we are naturally born or designed to just want to have sex because we used, uh, the mind more and women are more, you know, uh, sentimental, you know, we're more strategic and we're all natural farmers.
01:05:05.640
We're, you know, we're, you know, born to hunt, right.
01:05:08.260
But, but I, you know, I just, I just try to answer the question.
01:05:13.020
So like, if you're taking her on dates, paying for them, how long are you waiting before you say this isn't worth your time and your money?
01:05:22.700
If you, let's say it's your, okay, I, I understand, I understand it depends, but like, let's say you like her and she's, she's what you're looking for,
01:05:33.820
but you're spending, um, what would you, what do you spend on a date, Doug MPA?
01:05:46.580
So let's say you're taking it out on a date once a week for three months.
01:05:58.140
So that's $1,800 that you're having to spend waiting for this girl.
01:06:03.880
If you do not even, not even factoring your time.
01:06:28.720
I think I would just have to, you know, the child to walk off because she would just be
01:06:37.220
Kirk says I only married my wife because she made me wait.
01:06:50.760
Uh, I think it would be about, about, about two months.
01:06:55.360
So you would spend, um, at least if it's a hundred bucks a week.
01:07:00.720
So like eight, so about a grand, not including your time.
01:07:08.800
But, but if you really liked her, she's worth $1,200.
01:07:26.980
Yeah, because we'll call him again another time.
01:07:35.040
We got to, I need you guys to like, we have a lot of people in the queue today.
01:07:39.060
So just make sure we're answering the questions directly.
01:08:02.440
Where are you calling from and how old are you?
01:08:04.340
Uh, I'm calling from the Southwestern portion of the U S and I'm 39 years old.
01:08:14.460
Have you dated more prudes or whores and which did you prefer?
01:08:20.760
I've dated a few prudes and, uh, even though it's, it doesn't feel very good to say it out
01:08:37.580
Um, so when you asked the question, I started to think about it.
01:08:48.040
Uh, when I was 21, I was dating this, uh, it was only for a couple of months, but I was
01:08:54.680
dating this really nice Catholic girl and she was really nice.
01:09:13.680
She was only like a five, but you know, Hey, a 21 year old five is nothing to shake a stick
01:09:30.800
Cause most 21 year old guys ain't getting nothing out here.
01:09:34.820
I mean, this was back in 2005 though, but anyway, she was, like I said, a nice Catholic girl.
01:09:42.340
You know, we, we, uh, you know, dated a little bit.
01:09:46.660
I mean, nothing, you know, too saucy, nothing, you know, too saucy or anything like that,
01:09:52.280
but, um, it eventually ended and I wasn't exactly in the same place as her.
01:10:00.540
And then a few months later, I lost my virginity to like a nine, a 21 year old nine that looks
01:10:07.900
like a Barbie doll, long blonde hair, blue eyes, the chest, big, but perfect hip to waist
01:10:20.860
And it's like, who, who, who do you think I like better?
01:10:23.660
The nice, prude Catholic girl that's waiting till marriage or that, you know, smoking bombshell
01:10:34.480
Um, and did, was that the only prude you dated or did you date like more after?
01:10:40.140
Um, in all honesty, yeah, that's the only one I dated.
01:10:46.820
I did have another experience with the prude though.
01:10:51.860
Um, she, she was my coworker and, uh, she had a rule that she wouldn't sleep with the guy
01:11:03.500
And, uh, you know, she was 26, I was 21 and that's about the age where my experience with
01:11:11.700
But, uh, anyway, um, you're done with that bullshit.
01:11:18.580
Um, but, uh, uh, I went home with her, um, because a bunch of coworkers went to a bar one
01:11:27.520
And since I was, you know, the youngest guy there, I was 21.
01:11:30.980
Um, you know, she, you know, everyone wanted to make sure that I'd be taken care of.
01:11:35.840
So she let me go back to her place and I, I tried to, you know, you know, get in her
01:11:46.120
She gave me a bunch of bullshit reasons as to why.
01:11:49.180
And she told me, try to find someone your own age.
01:11:52.340
Uh, well, like five years later, we didn't work together anymore, but we still had a bunch
01:11:59.360
She came back into town and by then I'd already hooked up with her hottest girlfriend by then.
01:12:06.400
Uh, now I'm 26 and she's like 31 and she'd put on a lot of weight.
01:12:14.740
And we ended up at the same bar and she was throwing herself at me crazy, like crazy hardcore
01:12:22.100
trying to like lure me back to her hotel room because she was back in town for the weekend.
01:12:27.480
And I, I was not having it because she'd put on so much weight, but it's like now like
01:12:35.780
Except I wasn't saying that I was just like, nah, I'm all hurt.
01:12:46.140
So, um, uh, basically, I mean, you know, I, I, I, I just kind of like the horse because,
01:13:00.160
So it's like, they know what's up and they want what they want to, you know, it's, it's,
01:13:08.500
Like what it, so what's the average you spend on a date and how many would you wait before
01:13:19.200
So most of my lays have been, um, within the first three dates.
01:13:24.260
Sometimes it's been the first, the second, or the third.
01:13:26.820
If I really, really like her, like you just said, um, at my age, like with what I know
01:13:33.460
now and being RP'd, um, five dates max, if it doesn't happen by date five, I need to
01:13:50.580
I think that the most I've ever spent was like 300 bucks.
01:13:54.680
Um, I don't know if that's a lot to you or to the audience or whatever.
01:14:15.580
So you're still gonna be spending, yeah, one, one 50 on a Friday night for a date.
01:14:27.580
I mean, concerts can be a little bit more expensive.
01:14:51.780
You really, Doug MPA, you don't ever do drinks?
01:15:05.760
I don't mind doing dinner only because I waited tables for a long time.
01:15:13.280
I like going to a nice restaurant, but I also don't like eating by myself.
01:15:18.080
So most of the time I'll take a girl to dinner just to go to a new restaurant.
01:15:24.880
And you're not a, and you're just not a big drinker.
01:15:29.300
We're going to do Zach, and then we're going to do, Zach, are you there?
01:16:17.540
Wait, I got to say, man, all my friends got girlfriends in the last couple weeks,
01:16:22.700
so I haven't been able to talk about whores in a minute.
01:16:33.560
Well, you know, no one's a whore until after I slept with them, so that's what I say.
01:16:45.920
It's just, you got to like, hang on, let me get his son out of it.
01:16:50.920
The thing about whores is that you want to sleep with the whores that don't think they're whores yet, and that say like, oh, I don't sleep with guys on the first date, you know?
01:17:10.020
So you want the whores that don't think they're whores yet?
01:17:23.340
Yeah, I want the whores that don't think they're whores.
01:17:28.120
Whores, um, because they're no less crazy, but then, um, like I remember this time, I thought I was really picking up a cool chick, but I was just like really hammered, and I had invited her to see, um, see a comedy show in Tacoma with me the next day that I had, like, I was gonna do a bit at, and I forgot that I told her that the night before.
01:17:58.120
And when she showed up at my place in the morning, I was, it was the worst thing.
01:18:04.200
Uh, like, she smelled bad, she was a little crazy looking, and, um, when she came into my house, she immediately jumped in my bed, and she had, like, a choker thing on, and she said, do you know what this is for, or what this means?
01:18:20.040
Uh, she goes, this means I have a black belt and sucking cock.
01:18:23.340
And this was the first time I ever hung out with this woman after, after, um, that date, after I met her at the bar.
01:18:35.180
And so that was a good, that was a good experience for you?
01:18:38.660
Well, hang on, my, let me turn my video off, because, uh, my microphone's not working.
01:18:51.480
I don't know what happened with my phone, so I apologize.
01:18:53.500
But, um, I would say it was, uh, not a good experience, because she was, like, too much.
01:19:01.320
Oh, she was, oh, she, like, she had, um, owned the identity.
01:19:10.740
Because I'm from the same part of the, of the nation where Dustin is, and the, the liberal whores that, that are, that aren't, you know, purple-haired,
01:19:23.340
with pierces and tattoos, they can be pretty straightforward and get right to the whoring right away.
01:19:34.040
I was, I was driving this girl, and we're driving, and she just takes her shirt off in the passenger seat.
01:19:39.860
And, and she's, like, oh, smiling at me and stuff.
01:19:45.480
And so I turned the AC on, and she put her shirt back on.
01:19:49.160
And then, um, like, I, I was really hungover, so I pull over, we take a nap.
01:19:53.340
And we start driving again, and, uh, she just takes her shirt off again.
01:19:57.520
And I was just thinking, like, it was, it was really strange.
01:20:00.040
And, you know, for me to turn down, like, uh, some road head, that's, that's a pretty big deal.
01:20:08.420
Uh, you want the, you want the chicks that, that really think that they have a standard to set themselves to.
01:20:19.680
Because you, you can meet women in Portland, Seattle, that area, that, that have no standards at all.
01:20:32.480
Um, so what do you, Dustin, what do you generally spend on a date?
01:20:42.660
And, like, my favorite first date was, like, the melting pot.
01:20:50.680
But the thing is, is, like, I did have an expectation.
01:20:54.280
Like, if I'm spending that money, I'm, I'm getting something.
01:20:58.460
And, uh, so I'd make, I'd make the dates be really, like, intimate, cool.
01:21:03.140
And, um, like, I'm sure that a lot of the women thought it was going to go somewhere.
01:21:07.500
But, it's just, I really like to try new foods and go to fancy places and have just some eye candy.
01:21:14.180
And, I'm like, I, like, sometimes I'd ask girls out and be like, you don't even have to like me.
01:21:33.140
And then, on the high end, uh, I've taken a girl on a first date that was, like, three fifty before.
01:21:51.260
No, until, until, let's say you really like a girl.
01:21:54.440
How long until you're just, you're saying this is too much money?
01:22:04.660
They're, they're, I, I don't think women nowadays, like, women in my age range, if they're single, there's a reason for it.
01:22:11.240
So, I don't think that they even really know how to love.
01:22:26.680
Oh, I don't even know what's going, what's wrong with this place.
01:22:30.400
But Portland, yeah, I don't think you can like a woman for longer than, like, a conversation over here.
01:22:39.360
I think, uh, I think one of the Dakotas gave me a nice conservative lady.
01:22:45.440
Um, so you've, overall, you've dated more whores than prudes.
01:22:53.960
Uh, well, it just depends on what, what, like, makes a whore, like a whore.
01:22:59.640
Uh, like, like, if, if, if you say a body count of less than five, I don't even know that exists.
01:23:20.820
Uh, uh, any girl that, one, is going to sleep with me on the first, second, or third date.
01:23:28.900
But, usually, you know, so, yeah, I guess that is every, everyone's a whore.
01:23:32.980
And then, uh, uh, girls that, if you're on a date, they, like, talk about other men that have had expectations of them.
01:23:42.000
Like, oh, this other guy took me on a date, and he thought this, or, um, or my ex would always do that.
01:23:47.500
Like, the moment that happens, I'm just, in my mind, like, whore.
01:23:50.580
I wish I could have, like, a sign that pops up behind my head that says, whore, you know?
01:24:07.380
We're good to go, because we actually have a, we have a woman on the line, so we're going to let her in.
01:24:57.400
We're going to put you back in the waiting room, because it keeps saying connecting to audio.
01:25:09.880
Where are you calling out of, and how old are you?
01:25:23.000
I just don't agree with some of the things you say.
01:25:27.180
Like, like, um, a man's a simp if he's, like, waiting for you, you know?
01:25:41.980
I feel like that no man or woman would be with you.
01:25:46.860
I mean, would, like, have sex with you on the first date.
01:25:50.900
Like, no good woman or man would let that happen, you know?
01:25:56.880
That's a fundamental, like, misunderstanding of men.
01:25:59.800
Most men will have sex with you on the first date.
01:26:10.740
You have to look at a person's actions and how they react.
01:26:13.700
Like, a good woman wouldn't let you hit on the first date.
01:26:49.800
Like, nobody can believe anyone saying that's true.
01:26:52.640
Like, I guess you just have to be with that person, go on a couple dates to truly know someone.
01:26:58.800
Like, I'm just saying, like, no woman would let you hit on the first date if she's good.
01:27:05.260
So, how much money do you think a guy should spend on each date?
01:27:09.800
Like, I mean, I don't care about, like, me and my boyfriend always go, like, we don't have a lot of money because we're just, like, young.
01:27:28.140
So, how many hours does a man have to put in to get sex?
01:27:34.600
I feel like, in my personal opinion, I think people should at least wait, like, until they're committed or wait until marriage.
01:27:49.420
I guess how he's raised, how he, like, views the world, how his actions are.
01:28:00.840
Like, he can say you're my girlfriend and still be sleeping with someone else, right?
01:28:05.680
I guess you just have to trust the other person.
01:28:10.440
So, Elizabeth, I'm a lot older than you, right?
01:28:13.680
And it used to be where a man showed interest by being assertive, planning dates, courting a woman, and showing, giving her a preview kind of what life would be like with him.
01:28:30.960
So, a man would tangibly show that he was interested in a woman by spending his time and resources, right?
01:28:37.140
A woman would show she was interested and reciprocate his efforts by having sex with him and exclusively him, right?
01:28:53.900
So, how would you, how would you, how do you think a man should show interest in a woman?
01:29:01.560
And how do you think a woman should show interest in a man if they're intentionally dating towards something serious or marriage?
01:29:11.540
I mean, I was raised in a more, I was raised in a Christian, Russian, traditional family.
01:29:17.360
So, like, a man asking you on a date, like, like, more, like, gentleman-like, you know, being a traditional man and vice versa with a woman, like, you know, she shows loyalty.
01:29:31.520
How does she show loyalty and how does she show that she's traditional?
01:29:39.500
No, she cooks for him, like, she listens to him, like, all those things.
01:29:49.280
Like, she, like, he leads her in the right direction.
01:29:54.880
She, like, listens to what he says because he's the man.
01:29:58.180
What do you think men care about more, cooking or sex?
01:30:01.940
I think, I feel like most men in today's society care about sex.
01:30:09.500
I can tell you that most women in today's society don't cook.
01:30:16.760
Well, then what would you bring that up for as a way for a woman to show that women don't do that anymore?
01:30:23.080
That's why you got to find a woman who does that for you.
01:30:39.500
Okay, your boyfriend can believe that, but I don't have to.
01:30:47.360
I mean, I've been with my boyfriend since I was 14.
01:30:53.760
I mean, you still have access to the internet and dating apps.
01:31:02.520
Why would I want anyone else if my boyfriend's the best out of the best?
01:31:13.240
I mean, that's like, I feel like not to be mean or anything.
01:31:19.620
Like, you just complain about women all the time.
01:31:26.340
Well, I wouldn't have anything to complain about if women didn't keep doing crazy stuff.
01:31:33.300
I've had women that are as pure as you claim to be, right, that waited until they weren't married, and they're some of the worst divorce stories I ever saw.
01:31:43.360
We have pastors out here, bishops, getting divorced.
01:31:47.960
Their wives leave them and take them to divorce court, take their kids from them, alimony, all that stuff.
01:31:58.100
If you did hook up with someone else, would your boyfriend know?
01:32:08.200
Because knowing me, I'd probably be too guilty, and I would say something, which would never happen, though.
01:32:14.260
Other than, so do people that lie generally come and give the truth out freely?
01:32:31.540
He would just know because I would feel guilty, and I would act weird around him, and also the fact that he has access to my phone and everything.
01:32:41.520
Elizabeth, you know that the stat is 22 to 28% of men in the United States are raising kids who are not theirs.
01:32:50.000
So there's a good chance, and that's a woman having another man's child.
01:32:56.160
So I would say it's probably triple that number, cheat, and get away with it.
01:33:06.260
But why are you in this mindset that all women are terrible?
01:33:16.100
There are some good women out there, like, well, I feel like I don't, I don't just blindly trust things I can't verify.
01:33:25.800
I just feel like social media skews our perception into things.
01:33:33.740
Yeah, but that's not like women from the entire world, right?
01:33:51.400
I mean, there's millions of women, so you can't really, like.
01:33:55.520
It's probably a better sample size than you've dealt with, right?
01:34:16.780
Well, my family's Pentecostal, but, like, we're Pentecostal Russian.
01:34:32.380
There's, like, Pentecostal churches, I don't know, in the United States that are Russian.
01:34:41.160
So, do you plan on marrying your boyfriend and being with him for your whole life and having kids and doing that whole thing?
01:34:58.980
So, you're waiting for a dollar value to have a wedding?
01:35:05.260
It's about, like, the housing, the general needs, and everything around that.
01:35:10.960
Because I'm pretty sure we're having our wedding at his cabin, so.
01:35:15.020
Yeah, but what would stop you from going to the courthouse and just getting it done?
01:35:18.620
I mean, that's true, but, like, you've got to think about the housing, the necessities, food.
01:35:52.900
Yeah, like, we don't want to, like, struggle financially.
01:36:00.700
I mean, do you, would you, would we want to, like, stress and count our pennies every day?
01:36:09.620
I mean, we're both living with our family, so technically we're not really doing that.
01:36:14.220
Well, people, people used to just, like, move in, like, to their family's house together.
01:36:24.800
And my, I don't highly, no, my boyfriend's parents would not like that either.
01:36:33.020
Sounds like an excuse to me, but hey, I'll take your word.
01:36:36.940
You sound like, you have such conviction in your voice about this whole thing and your beliefs.
01:36:42.040
You think that you would take it into your life?
01:37:02.740
Why don't you just pull the trigger to get married?
01:37:05.860
Because, like I said, it's just, like, the financial aspect of it.
01:37:15.520
So what, what was your first exposure to Pearl's content?
01:37:24.880
So did you have any other, so you don't like the fact that she just says that there's nothing but bad women all over the world?
01:37:34.560
I mean, from all, I mean, I watch her podcasts and all that.
01:37:38.800
But I'm a person who believes that both genders in society do harm.
01:37:45.920
I just don't, I feel like red pill is just a gender war.
01:37:55.060
Like, they're, like, we shouldn't be blaming one side.
01:38:10.780
Like, you know, they look at, like, they watch a lot of porn.
01:38:19.280
Both sleep, if one didn't sleep with each other, it wouldn't, there wouldn't be any hookup culture.
01:38:27.540
There are probably more male virgins, but not by choice.
01:38:37.340
So who makes the choice of when to have sex, men or women?
01:38:50.520
Okay, so who makes the choice when sex happens?
01:38:59.060
Okay, so who is responsible for hookup culture?
01:39:06.980
Like, if one didn't sleep with each other, then the other wouldn't have, like, you know,
01:39:12.540
like, if both stopped sleeping with each other, there would no be hookup culture.
01:39:20.340
Blames men still, even when it's women's fault.
01:39:28.260
So, you don't like that men sleep around just like women?
01:39:33.160
Um, you know, like, I hear, like, in the halls or something, like, oh, she, like, I'll hit
01:39:45.520
Like, I just feel like, why is society so based on hookup culture?
01:39:50.160
You hear guys talking to each other about women in the halls?
01:39:57.460
Like, there's no, like, oh, she's really pretty.
01:40:07.060
Okay, do you think that men should want, sorry, do you think it's wrong that men are sexually
01:40:14.780
I think it's, in my personal opinion, I think it's wrong, like, if you're pursuing that.
01:40:29.900
Outside, in my personal opinion, outside of marriage.
01:40:33.040
So, what's the difference between a woman that sleeps with her boyfriend and stays for
01:40:56.800
Who breaks up these marriages most of the time?
01:41:12.740
And so, everyone around you is just married, huh?
01:41:16.720
And just doesn't, and just doesn't have sex at all?
01:41:20.340
Um, I, I mean, I don't really know that, because, like, no, like...
01:41:25.140
No, I mean, you said they just gotta find, like, good women.
01:41:41.220
Is Russian Orthodox different than just Orthodox?
01:41:52.500
So, since you're all wise and knowing for being 19 years old, how would you recommend
01:42:01.000
a guy find one of these good women that you're talking about?
01:42:04.140
A guy that won't leave him, take his kids, that...
01:42:08.460
I'd say just focus on God in your life and have...
01:42:33.760
Yeah, you're 19 years old, and all I can do is hope the best for you.
01:42:42.960
I would just recommend, if I were to tell you what a real woman should do as a man,
01:42:48.560
if I were to say a real woman would, you wouldn't hear anything I'd say after that.
01:42:55.420
Like, women don't get to tell men what real men should do.
01:43:02.400
Because you wouldn't appreciate it if a man told you what a real woman should do.
01:43:13.260
I mean, I feel like men already say what women should be and what are.
01:43:25.040
Modern women don't listen to anything men say anymore.
01:43:31.500
Because if you're religious, don't you believe in a patriarchy?
01:43:39.900
Like, as in the man is the head of the household?
01:43:46.200
Okay, so if that's the natural order, then wouldn't it make sense that men can tell women what to do,
01:43:54.680
But his logic was like, because you're a man, because you're a woman, you can't tell what men should be.
01:44:02.420
So, then, as a woman, men don't know what women can be or what can they not be, since they don't understand women, you know?
01:44:09.980
No, but I'm saying if you believe in patriarchy, then he's exactly right.
01:44:16.460
Like, you're using an egalitarian argument and saying that, well, if men can't tell us what we should do, then we can't tell men what they can do.
01:44:24.840
And I'm saying if you're religious, which most people aren't, so if you're not, it's, like, that would make sense.
01:44:30.100
But it's, like, if you're saying that you're this, like, Christian trad chick or whatever, then, like, you would recognize the difference between men and women and have more of a patriarchal worldview.
01:44:48.020
But if you're nagging men on what they can and can't do, then that's out of order.
01:44:53.200
I mean, my views just go off of, like, traditional values.
01:44:58.180
No, because any woman that tries to say what a man should and shouldn't do is automatically a feminist.
01:45:06.840
How? I'm just going based off, like, what the Bible says.
01:45:11.020
How is it your place to tell another man how to run his relationship?
01:45:18.120
It says women, but it says women shouldn't preach.
01:45:23.680
Yeah, it's always the parts that, like, women don't like.
01:45:34.380
I'm going to smell a little bit of feminism in here.
01:45:59.540
I'm just saying, like, I sometimes, like, I just disagree with some of the things you say.
01:46:10.880
Like, if women have aborted an eighth of the world population, are they generally good people if a third have committed murder?
01:46:25.480
So, one out of three, it's not too good, right?
01:46:30.440
Doesn't even include plan B's if you think that's abortion.
01:46:34.680
So, what, like, where, like, you can say you don't like it and how it makes you feel, but you're not telling me where I'm wrong.
01:46:50.780
I'm just, I'm, there's obviously bad women out here, but I could say the same for men.
01:46:55.720
Like, the crime rates for men are high, aren't they not?
01:46:59.660
What percent of men have committed a violent crime?
01:47:03.940
You know that 75% of abuse towards the elderly and children is committed by women.
01:47:21.640
Okay, because a lot of people try to find the why to make it okay.
01:47:29.720
It's because, I'll tell you my reasoning why I think it is.
01:47:38.160
The reason why women take out, perpetuate violence on the elderly and children is because
01:47:46.200
they are physically stronger than children and the elderly.
01:47:49.280
And the reason why women don't abuse men more is because they can't, because they're not
01:47:55.820
But women will abuse anything that they're physically stronger than.
01:48:11.080
But, I mean, I can't get it on the top of my head.
01:48:17.980
Okay, well, you can call in tomorrow if you think of something.
01:48:21.720
And, you know, I'm hoping that you live by your convictions and you get married and have
01:49:08.200
But, um, I'm actually in, um, I'm living with my mom and commuting to college.
01:49:17.220
Wait, why not, like, why not save that money for you guys' house?
01:49:33.880
Let us know when the wedding bells are going to ring, okay?
01:49:45.320
Uh, if you think of anything, feel free to call in next show.
01:49:52.580
People have been waiting, but I'm going to let the man of the hour in real fast.
01:50:11.160
I didn't even, I didn't even realize, uh, I didn't even realize I was on.
01:50:19.180
Um, I just thought, uh, I just thought I'd call in and, and, uh, you know, give my thoughts
01:50:29.080
I was going to say, yeah, that last caller, please.
01:50:35.360
Like, look, man, the, the, the facts are, this is women.
01:50:39.000
Most women say that they're not feminists, but they almost all, almost all of them have
01:50:43.660
That's just always, that's always the way it's been, you know?
01:50:46.560
And, you know, there, you know, there's a lot of virtue signaling there, you know?
01:50:49.400
And I think there were probably some details about what she was talking about.
01:50:52.760
She just, she was just flat out lying about, you know what I mean?
01:50:57.140
They're going to have the wedding at his cabin.
01:50:58.660
If this guy doesn't have money, then how does he have a cabin?
01:51:03.740
Or the, even the college, it's like, if you don't have money, why are you going to college?
01:51:08.700
Like it's, it's, we, we live in a world and basically what she was trying to tell you,
01:51:16.020
She, she, she just doesn't like, she doesn't like that you're saying it.
01:51:20.880
She just doesn't like the way what you say makes her feel.
01:51:23.340
And so that's why she decided to call in and challenge the great Pearl Davis.
01:51:26.580
So she can tell all of her little feminist friends that she told off Pearl Davis on her
01:51:31.500
Well, and the other question is like, what's the holdup if you want to marry him?
01:51:36.400
You know, when women want to marry a guy, they'll just like, didn't you tell, didn't
01:51:45.160
I told her, I told her, I told her we're getting married.
01:51:54.020
If she isn't married yet, it could be that he hasn't proposed to her yet.
01:52:11.720
And I think, I think she secretly knows she's not going to marry this dude.
01:52:16.800
There's no such thing, dude, a 19, there, there are no 19 year old virgins anymore.
01:52:21.680
Like girls are losing their virginities at an accelerated rate.
01:52:27.240
She says, well, you can find good women everywhere or, or, you know, there's good women out there.
01:52:33.260
If you know lots of good women, just like you said, Pearl, then those would be the women around you.
01:52:37.520
But, but she couldn't tell you what good women she knows, which means that her friends are all whores.
01:52:42.240
And as we say, birds of a feather flock together, man, I'm not saying like, she's a whore of epic proportions by any stretch of the imagination.
01:52:49.680
You know, I, I couldn't really, I couldn't really see her like, you know, reading her body language, but I could, I could, I could tell that she was being dishonest and being really disingenuous in a lot of, you know, what she was talking to you about.
01:53:01.880
So the question is, um, your dating experience, was it mostly prudes or whores?
01:53:11.740
And when you were out there, which one did you prefer, which one did you prefer and why?
01:53:20.700
Um, when I, when, when, uh, when I'm feeling particularly devious, dude, whores for the win, man, whores for the win.
01:53:35.240
And this is something that a lot of guys probably don't realize.
01:53:38.180
The reason why dating a whore is so, is a better, it's a better experience, not overall, because of course, if you date a whore, eventually it's going to, the relationship's going to cheat.
01:53:49.900
But what a lot of men don't realize is that experiencing, uh, dating, dating sluts is because sluts have so much experience.
01:53:58.480
They actually mimic good girl traits better than good girls themselves.
01:54:02.960
And so when you, and, and, and when, and when you're dating a slut and she really likes you, she's going to turn on that good girl charm.
01:54:10.080
Good girls don't, good girls don't really know how to turn on the charm.
01:54:14.600
They don't know that good girls don't really have girl game.
01:54:17.240
They just kind of are, if a girl's not sleeping or if anytime a girl is not sleeping around, she doesn't really understand, you know, how, you know, what, what men want, how they, how we operate, et cetera, et cetera.
01:54:28.200
So, uh, you know, and again, you know, good girls, you know, we, we all want the virgins and this and that and the third, you know, but at, at some point, I think most of us have to realize that most women are sluts.
01:54:38.620
What you're saying is a slut can turn on the good girl for the right man.
01:54:45.740
If it's necessary, but a good girl can't turn on the slut.
01:54:49.680
Oh no, a good girl can definitely turn on the slut.
01:54:55.440
Look, look, man, look, man, every girl, listen, I don't care how much experience a woman has or doesn't have a woman could be, all a woman has to do to be a slut is decide to.
01:55:06.300
So what did your average date cost when you were dating?
01:55:25.380
Would that be like, cause this was like 10 years ago.
01:55:35.480
Um, I guess since I, well, I would always do this.
01:55:38.800
This was, this was my, this was always my first date to get the lay.
01:55:46.000
Number one, I never, ever, ever took a girl out to dinner on the first date ever, ever,
01:55:51.420
It would always be to meet up for drinks and I would have a plan to go to, to take her
01:55:58.760
I'm building, you know, I'm building things up.
01:56:00.120
I buy myself a drink, I buy her a drink, you know, we're, you know, we're drinking, we're
01:56:07.140
And, and so at this point, I guess, uh, I don't know how much drinks are these days.
01:56:10.560
Cause I don't, I don't go out and drink, but what I do is I, I, I buy us drinks.
01:56:18.760
I would, I would drink my drink a little bit faster and then, and I would make sure that
01:56:25.040
And now during, during my first drink, I'm scheduling an Uber.
01:56:28.880
So I schedule an Uber and I sit there casually, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah.
01:56:31.860
And she's probably thinking I'm texting other girls or whatever, which is fine.
01:56:35.340
So before she, before she finishes her second drink, I say, I say, you know what?
01:56:40.340
I'm like, you know what, Cindy, if I'm, if I'm out with a girl named Cindy, you know
01:56:48.880
I put a $20 bill on the, on the, uh, on the, on the bar.
01:56:52.280
I grab her hand and I lead her right outside into the Uber.
01:56:55.400
Now at that point, she's going to want to know, she's going to want to know where are
01:57:01.440
It's a surprise that the magic is in the ride over.
01:57:05.220
It's just, it is almost always to another bar that, that I would take other girls to.
01:57:10.760
The point is, is I would escalate until we got to the other bar and she's like, oh my
01:57:15.600
It would be very exciting for her sitting there thinking, oh my God, where is this man
01:57:20.040
Um, and so there I would probably buy another two drinks after that.
01:57:24.180
Um, and then of course, you know, you go for the lay.
01:57:26.320
So I would say, I guess inflation 40, maybe 50 bucks.
01:57:44.660
Like how many dates do you just say, okay, she doesn't like me.
01:57:50.160
How long are you sticking around until you just say no thanks?
01:57:53.900
If I really like maybe two dates, because the thing is this, the thing is this, if I,
01:58:02.980
if I really, if a girl really likes you, she is going to sleep with you.
01:58:09.120
And now every once in a while, I would run up on a hoe and, you know, take her out.
01:58:12.540
Oh, I don't, you know, I don't sleep, you know, with guy on the first date.
01:58:16.460
She pays attention to me, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah.
01:58:18.180
She gives, she gives me the impression that she's not sleeping with, uh, you know, sleeping
01:58:23.360
And then of course I'll take her on date number two.
01:58:25.720
And at that point, if I still don't sleep with her, then I'm assuming, then I assume she
01:58:30.640
When you were, when you were in Vegas, I'm sorry, when you were in Vegas and like going
01:58:35.460
through these, um, like hooking up with a lot of women, did you and your friends ever like
01:58:39.940
cross over and find out you like hooked up with the same girl?
01:58:45.720
That's a dude, dude, this, Oh God, that's called Eskimo brothers.
01:58:55.160
It's like, dude, we hooked up with the same girl, you know, five different times.
01:58:58.020
No, but I would say, I don't know, two, three times a year, you know, I, you know, Hey,
01:59:02.500
you know, I just fucked this girl or where I'd be like, Hey, you know what?
01:59:04.420
I think I hooked up with her this time last year.
01:59:10.980
So a lot of guys will say that a girl that sleeps with you on the first day is automatically
01:59:19.640
But I always say you want to be the guy that she wants to sleep with on the first date.
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So do you consider a woman sleeping with you on the first date automatically whorish?
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That's why I told you I wait until date number two.
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One thing that I have learned, listen, I don't know much, but I know money and I know women.
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And one thing that I have learned about women is that if they really like you, they will
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literally move heaven and earth to be with you.
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And it doesn't matter whether she's in a relationship or not.
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If a girl likes you, she will absolutely sleep with you.
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Now, a lot of, now the thing is, is how do you get to that, that relationship?
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Like if I sleep with a girl on the first date, I automatically put her in the sex only, Kelly
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were like, okay, Donovan, you said you've dated girls in Vegas.
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Well, the way it goes is this is if I really like a girl and I don't sleep with her on the
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first date and I sleep with her, I sleep with her on the second date.
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The way this happens is she gives me, you know, she gives me plan a energy, right?
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So for, for, for example, like availability, if you're, if you're the one she wants to be
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You know, if she, if, if, if she has plans, she'll, she will inconvenience herself to see,
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She'll answer every single time you call at all hours of the night.
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But if you're her backup guy, her text messages are sporadic, not always enthusiastic, sometimes
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She'll rarely pick up the phone, you know, or answer the phone when you call.
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She can, you know, she can, she can, she cancels meetups, all that good stuff.
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So it's, you, you know, very quickly as a man, if a woman really does like you.
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And I think, and, and listen, I, I, I have simped like, uh, I've, I've simped a lot back
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Um, but sometimes to go, you know, to go, you know, to get through the fire, you really
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have to walk, you, you really have to walk through the fire.
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Uh, but I'm glad that I was able to do it in the era that I'm in.
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Cause I, dude, I feel, honestly, I feel sorry for men today, man.
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Donovan, I always say, I want to tell you that 90s raised men were the most romantic
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And then remember in the nineties was when men were exactly like, why do all these, why
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I actually had a consultation client last weekend.
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He lives, he, he, he, he lives in the middle East and he was dating this.
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He was on a date with this girl and he drives like a, a Ford Raptor.
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It's like a really nice, it's like a really nice car out there.
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Um, and so there's some kind of technology that he has in his car.
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I can't even describe it because he went on and on about it.
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But then the girl that he was with, she was like, oh yeah, I've seen those before.
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I've, I've, I've, uh, I've seen them on yachts.
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She's like, yeah, you know, he's like, okay, well, where have you seen what, what, where have
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She's like, oh, you know, Dubai, the Maldives told him all he needed to know.
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She was getting pooped on by Sheik Ahmed, sir, being fed a shit sandwich.
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Um, but yeah, I just wanted to, I just wanted to call in and, um, you know, uh, say what's
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up to you guys, uh, by the way, um, well, nevermind.
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I'm very, very happy for you and, and you got to show us, you teased it, Pearl.
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We're going to let some new people in because there's some new people that have never been
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Before I get to that, I really did enjoy that, uh, conversation with Elizabeth.
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Uh, Donovan kind of recapped most of my thoughts on that though.
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Um, but yeah, I also want to second that she is a total covert feminist.
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Um, and I wish like, I wish I was there to press her a little more, um, just on that,
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And I think like being that young, they're probably like, I do almost want to give her
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the benefit of the doubt that sure she could be a virgin, but even if she is, I mean, especially
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with her probably not at college yet, I'm assuming, or maybe she just started, but first
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semester, her boyfriend can't get an apartment.
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Like, and also, also like, what's with her, her boyfriend has gone six years of being with
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But I think it was good to have her up though, because it really does show, I would say, what,
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It's just like, oh, I don't like how what you say makes me feel, or there's good women
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Like they can't understand like the basic concept of like generalities and how like the
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Or they're narcissistic, because they think they're special.
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Like how you have to kind of be like, like I'm, it's, that's what they always do.
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They'll come up and try to signal to me that they're this perfect woman.
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Oh, man, I mean, I like to say I've had a mix of both, I guess, in general, with most
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I mean, if I'm going on dates, it's like most of the time I am going with the mindset of,
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And that's probably what I prefer, since I am just looking for fun.
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But I will say, I feel like I maybe have come across a prude before.
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But the tough thing with prudes is like, I don't think any girl that's really not a virgin
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And I don't even know if I'm at that point now, where I would, but that's the only exception
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where I would like, maybe wait longer than I want to, is if she actually is a virgin.
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But then again, like, how can you actually verify that?
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It's probably more than half the time they're lying about it.
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The girls that were prudes, do you think they were actual prudes or just a prude for you?
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Yeah, I mean, I would say most of them were trying to put on the mask or cover of like being
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Um, but I want to say, I mean, it usually was like, um, probably like my early years
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in college, maybe like one or two girls I'd come across, um, actually kind of through the
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church, but still now looking back on it, it's like, were they actually, so I'm kind
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of, I'm kind of doubting a lot of that, but I would say it's, it's actually really hard
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Most of them are just putting on like a front, if that makes sense to try to get.
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Make sure to hit that, make sure to read that super chat.
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Um, it says, Joshua says, here's my support to you.
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Love the conversations you're having on your channel.
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Um, what is the average spend that you do on a date?
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Yeah, I mean, I would say now probably, I mean, it's going to be cheap.
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Because like, I've ever since like the last few years, uh, you know, I probably have just
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opted out completely out of dinner dates and that whole concept.
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So, uh, yeah, I mean, I would say I'm definitely spending under a hundred.
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On average, probably like anywhere between like probably 30 to 60 on average, but never over
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So how many dates do you give before you just say this isn't worth your time and your money
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Um, but again, the only time that I would wait more than that is if I was for some reason,
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How long would you wait if you were convinced she was?
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Uh, no, not, not six years, not six years, but it would be different.
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I mean, obviously I haven't really, to be honest, I haven't been put in that situation
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where I've actually had to do that waiting, uh, for a virgin.
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So yeah, but if I did probably, uh, uh, I mean, I don't even think I would really do
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But I guess if you really, if you really like a girl, would it, does she get three months?
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And how many dates a week would you do for three months?
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Oh, um, definitely no more than one a week at that rate.
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Okay, so you'd see her once a week for three months.
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But I just think at this point that's actually just an unrealistic situation because it's
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like, like you said, it's, it's hard to believe these days that they're actually telling
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And for me to wait three months, it's like, it's just not even realistic.
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So, so, so, so if you go out with a girl and everything goes great, and let's say you
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think, maybe she's not a virgin, but she's, you think she's one of those, she doesn't do
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this very often, or you kind of really, really like her and stuff, but then she wants to go
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back to your, you take it back to your house and then she hops right on you, right?
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So first date, does that affect your opinion of her moving forward?
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And I feel like I kind of have a hot take on this answer.
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I, I would totally, I could totally see myself committing to a girl that I have sex with on
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I think that kind of, I mean, not trying to just feed off what Donovan said, but he really
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hit the nail on the head when he said, like, the way a woman, you know, a woman likes you
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And that's going to be the case for, I would say, at least 99% of women.
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So I, I mean, I think as a, as a man though, you should look at it like, you know, if you
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do work on yourself, if you are, you know, trying to be quote unquote that guy, whatever
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that might mean to you, it's like, you shouldn't expect less.
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Um, so, I mean, I've dated girls, I've had good relationships with girls that I've slept
02:12:28.140
And I don't necessarily think, or like, I don't think low or pessimistic immediately as
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if like, okay, she's doing this with a bunch of other people.
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There's other tendencies I'd look out for that would give me a red flag on if she's a hoe,
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not if, not when she's comfortable to sleep with me, if that makes sense.
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I mean, there's going to be a whole bunch of other things, but, uh, one, her social
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media, her friends, um, you know, her lifestyle, if she's going out a bunch, um, you know,
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there's, there's so many things, uh, you know, for, I mean, there's been little things
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even like on first or second dates where I can even pick up, like if her phone's blowing
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up with like dumb things like Snapchat notifications, a bunch of Instagram notifications, like you
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can kind of just, you know, I've seen it on a table for, and like, that's an automatic
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So there's a, there's a handful of little cues that I would pick up on, but again, I'm
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not just going to, uh, to knock a girl, um, for liking me and wanting to, you know, have
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I don't know if you caught me talking about, uh, I've talked to Pearl about this before.
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I said, we kind of want to redefine what a woman's sleeping with you on the first date
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means because I know it seems, Oh yeah, she's a whore if she sleeps with you on the first
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date, but would you rather be the guy that she makes weight?
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Yeah, it's either, or I'd rather be the guy that she sleeps with on the first date.
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I mean, when we're looking at it in this context, the whore that sleeps with you on day one provided
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more value than Elizabeth did to her boyfriend in six years.
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Well, cause the only thing I just think if you're going to wait till marriage, you better
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get the marriage soon because like, what, what is he waiting around for?
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Or yeah, she was totally just like one foot, like with a, Oh, I'm a traditional Christian.
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But then her other foot was like, she just had the total modern feminist.
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I know, I know women that seriously were waiting till marriage, but they were like, if they liked
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a guy, they were marriage is coming like immediately.
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Like that, that's pretty much, I mean, if anyone's been in a super religious church, like they move
02:14:58.460
I actually had a high school sweetheart, pretty much dated her all through high school.
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And yeah, I mean, like I didn't lose my virginity until after I dated her, but it was, that's
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It was like right after high school, like she, she was super religious and wanted to get
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Or I think, cause I've heard of this, one of my friends when I was younger, he met this
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girl and they got married real fast to have sex.
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But all through high school and middle school, she had the same boyfriend and they went through
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a rough patch and she broke up with him and then got with my friend and married him after
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But her, her boyfriend before him, they were getting it for like six or seven years, never
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And then she married my friend, had sex with him right away.
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Yeah, that's, that's definitely a reality of how it works.
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It's actually crazy how they, you're giving up all your other options for life.
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And the only thing the woman had to do was not have sex with anyone else.
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Um, you could probably tell by my accent, I'm an Aussie, um, whether you can or not, it's
02:16:37.300
Um, but, um, yeah, I just wanted to, yeah, call in and just say, I've been listening to
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you and watching you for the past, say it was about three and a bit years now, just coming
02:16:47.620
And, um, yeah, I, I agree with quite a lot of what you say and I do more of my due diligence
02:16:54.060
of watching things in full in regards to videos and all that sort of stuff.
02:16:58.880
So instead of watching YouTube shorts, which I just think is YouTube's TikTok, um, I watch
02:17:04.540
all your full videos live and all that, even the Andrew Tate one where you have the Andrew
02:17:09.380
Tate, which was that three hour or so long video.
02:17:15.140
It definitely did change a lot of pre thoughts I had about what they were trying to portray
02:17:22.740
about Andrew versus what actually Andrew was trying to talk about with other people in
02:17:32.400
Um, so what's your thought on those episodes on her, on her website.
02:17:35.960
So if you haven't gone to her website and become a member, all of her Andrew Tate stuff
02:17:44.780
It's, it's, it's, it's, it's on my due diligence.
02:17:59.080
Now I've been listening to the previous guy before you guys got to me and to answer your
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I mean, I, I guess it's a question I've put to you, Doug.
02:18:18.640
If, if that's you in that situation and the woman's not a virgin and you take her out on
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the first date, um, and then she sleeps with you on the first date, as opposed to waiting
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X amount of months, years, like another person we probably won't mention.
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Um, do you, what, what do you take out of that?
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Women will only sleep with men on the first night that they're actually, I try to
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So that shows the ultimate attraction if she sleeps with you on the first night.
02:18:53.480
Well, believe it or not, I actually happen to agree with you on that because there's
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a lot of cases and I'm not going to speak about any of mine because I'm going to be
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quite honest with you and I don't mind being roasted by anyone in your comment section or
02:19:08.620
I have had sex with a few women, uh, but they haven't been dates as such.
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They've just been me trying to get down on a nightclub, trying to dance.
02:19:17.640
And over here in Australia, it's pretty different than in America or even the UK.
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I mean, it's not as, what's the weather I'm trying to look at, trying to figure out here.
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It's not as, um, you know, difficult, probably not difficult as such.
02:19:35.560
So people don't go out as much and they just hook up at like nightclubs?
02:19:48.280
So have you ever had a girlfriend or any, like a situationship long-term?
02:20:00.380
Um, and in the 27 years that I've been around and then since I've been 18, that's only when
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I really started going into the serious part of dating and all that sort of stuff, or even
02:20:13.320
Cause for a long time, and this was even before I even knew Pearl existed on the internet or
02:20:19.020
even in life, or if there was a woman that was like Pearl that would actually talk about
02:20:22.780
this to this extent, um, you know, I was kind of one of those people that think that, you
02:20:29.440
know, there are those types of women out there that will tell you one thing, but really they
02:20:33.620
are only, they mean the other thing, but they just don't want to say it because they don't
02:20:38.760
want to actually be that person you talk about all the time.
02:20:42.000
They don't want to be, the woman doesn't want to be the girl you're referencing or the
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women type of woman that you're referencing every time.
02:20:55.220
Um, yeah, but, um, to answer you, to answer the question, which one would I prefer?
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And again, going back to what you said, I think I would prefer the woman that actually
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wants to have sex on the first date, because that is a sense of value, um, that a man can
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And then whether it's a matter of having game or whether you want to use that word
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or not, you know, I, I can't really, I can't really speak, speak out loud, um, about it.
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And then we'll do like one more after this, because we're going on two hours and 20 minutes.
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Chad, make sure to like the video, everyone hit that like button and go to Pearl's website
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If you haven't already, Chad Chaddington, are you there?
02:22:39.100
So where are you out of, uh, you sound American.
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Um, are there a lot of whores or prudes in Louisiana?
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So I have more experience in the central Florida area.
02:23:10.880
Um, are you, so what have you dated more of hordes or whores or prudes?
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And I got to tell you, um, about more than 75% of the prudes are straight up whores.
02:23:28.740
So how did you find, how did you find that out?
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Like what was like, uh, well, let me put it this way.
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If you ask me a question about women, I can give you what percentage women will do, blah,
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Like how many women will sleep with you on the first day, second day, third day, fourth
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Uh, because I've been with, oh, around 185 to 195 women in my life.
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The majority of them have probably been more whores, but I also don't sleep around.
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Uh, so out of, we're going to round and say 200, what percent slept with you on the first
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And how many, like, what was the longest you waited out of them?
02:24:41.040
And again, taking into consideration that I know people that I've slept with, um, the
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longest I've ever waited is probably four or five dates.
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And that's if I really liked them and we really clicked.
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And the one that made you wait four or five dates or the ones that did, do you think it
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Like they were prudes or because you just weren't that guy to them?
02:25:10.240
She was, I would say she leaned more towards the prudest side and she was definitely in
02:25:16.620
the top 10 percentile of the worst, uh, physical relationship I've ever had.
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Uh, no, no zip, no pizzazz, no natural chemistry.
02:25:30.000
Just, you know, uh, no matter what we did, we, we, we went out for about three or four
02:25:35.380
months, uh, no matter what we did, she was very, I guess she was just leaned more towards
02:25:46.100
I wouldn't say she was a straight up whore, but she had whore in her.
02:25:53.440
And so overall, did you have a better experience with the women that slept with you faster?
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You were talking about that and, um, I gotta say, um, I've never, and again, I prefer to
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know someone even before we go out type of thing.
02:26:11.180
I maybe had out of those, let's say 200 women, I've only had probably two to three one night
02:26:18.360
I prefer to actually know my partners, uh, cause I like a really, I like an emotional
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I said, that's a lot of emotional relationships.
02:26:36.140
Well, I'm also, you know, nearly 50, you know, and I've been single most of my life and I
02:26:43.280
lived and I lived in a small town for 30 years where women talk, you know, this.
02:26:52.220
So, but so back to the, um, did you have a better experience with the ones that slept
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And did you think you were special or they did it with everyone?
02:27:10.240
No, actually, I think the ones that slept with me faster held out and made other guys
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Because again, I had a, I had a reputation in town.
02:27:25.980
Everyone knew my abilities and, uh, and they also knew I didn't sleep around just to sleep
02:27:33.200
Um, I'm still friends with more than half of them, you know?
02:27:37.380
Um, and what percent wanted a relationship from you?
02:27:52.460
And the, the majority of them, we did go out for a short time, but being a very communicative
02:27:59.800
person, uh, I also know what I want and we would get to what they want.
02:28:04.420
And that's another reason we're more friends, uh, I'm friends with a lot of them is because
02:28:09.440
we found out, yeah, we had great chemistry together, but our goals weren't the same.
02:28:15.020
So we stayed friends and yeah, of course, some of them still came around to knock on
02:28:20.300
the door, you know, two o'clock in the morning.
02:28:22.420
Uh, but some of them I'm still just friends with to this day as platonic friends because
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Um, I get, that's another thing that I think helped me, you know, let them feel more comfortable
02:28:40.380
with me sleeping with me sooner is because, Hey, I laid it on the line.
02:28:45.300
You already know who I am because like I said, I've slept mostly with people that I know.
02:28:49.520
And it was to the point of after two or three months or even a few weeks, you know, yeah,
02:28:56.100
we had great sex, but our life goals aren't really the same.
02:28:59.740
So, and a couple of them introduced me to friends, you know, like, Oh, she'd be great
02:29:05.440
And I've done the same for a couple of them, you know?
02:29:08.700
So when you say life goals, is that just like, you didn't want kids or something like
02:29:15.960
Uh, well, yeah, I did run into a lot of that because, um, uh, I already had my, uh,
02:29:22.700
son young and raised him and I was free by 38, 39 years old.
02:29:28.080
And, uh, I have schoolmates again, I'm almost 50.
02:29:31.840
I have schoolmates that have, you know, school grade children.
02:29:43.440
So a couple of them, we dated and had fun and we got along, but they were looking at
02:29:50.260
In fact, one of my close friends who I still love dearly to this day, I purposely had to
02:29:56.880
stop myself from a relationship with her because she wanted a child and I wanted her to, I knew
02:30:03.120
she needed a child and she's with a great guy right now and they had a child.
02:30:07.120
But if we would have dated, it would have been years of our lives because we were that
02:30:11.040
compatible and loving to one another and everything was great.
02:30:14.740
But I knew if I kept, you know, years and years and years, and I wasn't going to have
02:30:18.940
a child with her, she would just keep getting older and older and older.
02:30:22.120
And so I kind of, in fact, I even told her one night, I said, look, you know, I would
02:30:32.400
We were friends, we were lovers, we were everything, but you want to have a child and I don't feel
02:30:37.900
right keeping you in a relationship for a year, two, three, four, whatever.
02:30:42.240
And then, you know, you're 35, 40, just trying to have a child and blah, blah, blah.
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So I kind of just said, look, we let's, let's be friends.
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Obviously she's with her man and there's animosity just because, you know, it's me and I, he knows
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me around town and he, two of his band members know me pretty well.
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So I kind of just stepped back and they're, they're happy together now and having fun
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And, but if I would have done that, we would have still been together and then she would
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And then it would have maybe possibly led to her not having a child or not finding someone
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But on the, on the whole of it, because when I got married young and had my kid young, I
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When she divorced me at like 26, 27, uh, I went apeshit.
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I still do this day, but only as a good mother and a good person.
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Then I got into a long-term relationship about three years with the woman.
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She kind of just dropped me on my head and I'm like, Oh, I went crazy again.
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So that's why the numbers kind of piled up quickly type of thing.
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Uh, but preference, I actually would, I would like someone that's well-balanced.
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I would like someone that's a, a, a lady in public and a, and a freak in the sheets, but
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most women want a gentleman in public and a freak in the sheets.
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So kind of the balance in between is the best I've found, but I've had some straight
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up whores and I've had a couple of prudes that once, you know, I knew they were a little
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And I can't wait to see your little, uh, preview coming out.
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We have to, cause he, he's been waiting since the beginnings.
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Hey, I so wish I could have been in that conversation with that 19 year old earlier on.
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Cause trust me, I wanted to give her a piece of my mind.
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Cause I have classmates right now in school that talk and think just like her.
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A lot of them will sit there and talk about the same thing about waiting for marriage,
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this, that, the other, and, or that they're loyal and faithful when in reality, they're
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not because they have a whole train of simps that they cheat on their boyfriends with or
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cap about, Oh, I don't have my boyfriend on my Instagram or whatever, because I just want
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It's believable that like this chick may have a boyfriend.
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The dude's really nothing more than a placeholder until she finds the next sucker to mooch off of.
02:34:56.560
Um, yeah, but, and then also last fall, this one broad had the audacity to do a project that
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was anti-natalists, basically saying that motherhood is one big patriarchal scheme so that men and
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so that men don't have to compete with women in the workforce, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah,
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which I took a lot of offense to given that, not to sound like I'm telling a sob story, given
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But anyway, um, to answer the question, um, which also shout out to Donovan Sharp.
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I actually turned to him for dating advice, um, every now and then, uh, whatnot.
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Now that I'm about to be out of school after next week, uh, this may sound far fetched, but
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I kind of feel like I want to jump into this space since I'll have time on my hands for the
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I'm, I'm just thinking out loud, so I pause this, but to get to the point, which would
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I'm going to go with the whores, honestly, simply because honestly, the preeds, I really
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don't think that they're really just like waiting or whatever, or that they're really actually
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Like they say, they are, they really are just nothing more than closet, of course, honestly,
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that like Pearl has said before in a couple of podcasts, when one had the audacity to say,
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well, I just want to make sure that, you know, this nice guy is, you know, the one, you know,
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that I'm going to settle for or spend the rest of my life with.
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And Pearl said, oh, no, what you're doing is you're weaponizing sex or this, that, the
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other, because you gave yourself so easily away to Chad and whoever, blah, blah, blah,
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I mean, I've seen so many instances of that in my own personal life when I've seen like
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nice guys that will wait for years and years on end, you know, just for one, one night
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of sex and they'll have like one child with a single mom and then whatever.
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But yeah, I think my other justification for whores is like, this is going to sound so beta,
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like, at least if you can recognize and have self-awareness of what the red flags are,
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at least like, you know what you're getting yourself into compared to with a prude.
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You don't know what you're getting yourself into because she might sit here and try to
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virtue signal and say all this cap that I was just mentioning a minute ago about being good
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or trying to make the right guy wait or whatever, when in reality, let's just be real, they
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probably were just as bad as like the hot chick, that the hottest chick in town that got all
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the attention when they were 19, 20, 21 and whatnot.
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It's like this handheld game where you have to bop.
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That's what these, that's what these 304s are, man.
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And do you, have you, have you met any prudes down there?
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And just being honest, because if I invite you out to eat, it's usually because I'm hungry as hell.
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But I definitely do need a decision by tying into the meal, kunk, because what's happening?
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Unless my phone get dry and I can't get no yams nowhere else in the city.
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So at the end of the date, you say, are you coming?
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And if she says no, she, so at the end of the date, you invite her over.
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It's not, like, this is not, look, this is not a democracy.
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This my way or you by way and get blocked until, like I said, either I can't get no yams or off the block list.
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Like, the other guy who y'all had on here, man, he was a straight simp.
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But as far as me personally, I'm only rocking with proves, man.
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Like, I know I'm going to get the damn meal before I go out there and hunt it.
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I know I'm going to get the yams before I even go out there and hunt them.
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But I thought she got blocked after your first date.
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How are you going to chase if she's got one date to put out?
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Like, if you just willy-nilly, if you got community yams and everybody and their mama done seen it, hit it, and throwed a doll at it, like, I don't want to be seen in the photograph with you.
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So, what you're saying is, you can tell if a woman is a prude or a whore right off the bat.
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If the whore don't put out on the first date, she's a 30-day block book.
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Like, I like the challenge of it because, see, like, I'm, like, I come from a different way of life.
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So, I can see through bills, through bank speak.
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Like, it's, like, you can't, you can't camouflage it with me.
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Like, I see through that shit, like, cheap tent.
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Like, you got to get up early and work a double shift.
02:44:54.100
Well, Doug MPA, you got any other questions for him?
02:44:59.080
No, but stay safe down there in Atlanta, homie.
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We got some more people on the line, but it is, I think we're coming up on three hours.
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I was thinking about doing a question of can women do it all tomorrow?
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I saw this, Trump's, like, has all these women working for him that are bringing their kids to work.
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Like, have you actually seen a woman that does it all?
02:45:45.560
Well, any final thoughts on the topic, Doug MPA?
02:45:50.340
Yeah, we have to explore this thing of, you know, well, of women sleeping with a man on the first date and kind of redefining that.
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So, um, I think if you're, if you're a young man on the way up, um, you know, deal with the whores.
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So, get him in, get him out and focus on your grind.
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And then maybe you have to deal with prudes a little more when you're ready to get, if you want to get married and you're trying to find a quality woman.
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And you got to make sure, make sure she's actually a prude because she very well might not be.
02:46:32.280
Well, my final thoughts is there's smart hoes and dumb hoes.
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And smart hoes, um, they use their sexuality, um, in a way that provides value to men.
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So, even though they give it out a lot, they provide so much value, somebody keeps them.
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And then there's dumb hoes who are just unlikable.
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Um, and those are the amber roses of the world.
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And really just the women that, you know, or they catch something, you know, herpes or something incurable.
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Um, but there's no, you can't get anything you want without risk in life.
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So, the problem with prudes is all they want is they want to get what they want without any risk.
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And they see withholding sex as a way to get that.
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Because after sex, the burden of performance is on.
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So, there's a class of prudes who are just very unlikable.
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And that's why you get the Christian, like, Karen, um, archetype.
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