The UGLY TRUTH About Dating In 2023
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Summary
In this episode, we discuss the difference between virgins and virgins, why virgins are so important to women and why women should work for virgins. We also discuss why women don t want to be virgins because they don't want to work for it and why they want to have sex for the sake of sex.
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question though so you know how we were talking back to the the topic imagine you got a girl
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that's like a woman that's like nurturing she wants to bring she's got a lot to bring to the
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table she's she's peaceful she wants to help you she's submissive whatever whatever but she slept
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with three people is that now is that no well okay i'll i'll give you i think that's a gem i'll be
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honest yeah well nowadays yeah okay no okay let's just say in my okay i'll tell you what i would say
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i'll tell you what i would say in pearl's world i would say guys hold out for the virgins but if
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you're not make her work for it because women we want a man we have to work for we don't like the
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guys that just give commitment to us freely why we chase but so you know the men what but that's
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the thing most women don't want to improve they don't want to be the things that men value they
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don't care what men men do want to conquer don't want easy things if you uh give a man like commitment
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easily he would look for you're not in charge but you're not giving him commitment you're giving him
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access yeah you're in charge of sex you're not yeah exactly the guy has to commit to you and
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the modern world you're in charge of no you're not the ultimate way the ultimate commitment is
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marriage and he has to get down in one knee thinking you're in charge of commitment he can't
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there's nothing single who convinced the man to get married is the woman he has to convince that's
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the point working for it that's the whole point yeah i hope he would want to the value that the man
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gives to the woman is the value that the woman gives to him is the sexual intimacy that's what
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that's what that is it's not because if you go oh i'm going to commit to you but i'm not going to
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have sex with you guys not going to take that deal but if you go to a guy i'll have sex with you but i
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won't commit to you oh there you go because the value that a woman is giving to a man is different
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to what he gives to her commitment and sex men would still go and look outside just for the sake of
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conquest just for the sake of conquest in terms of working for it i think it's this is this is
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about men and women this is human beings in general we value things that we have to earn yeah
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that's it's that simple you are on a constant quest of something else you wouldn't you are never
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satisfied with what you have but how does a man show his loyalty mainly it's normally through
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commitment right i'm not saying it's right that people do that but a lot of men do do that because
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women value security for me i i have another i i black white different it's only black and white
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yeah there's no gray area yeah see women are not like that yeah but you should be black and white
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you should be if you just thought you know what you're telling women how to be but you're telling
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men how to be it's the same thing and i'd say women tell men how to be more than we tell each other
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because women are not black and white and we're never going to be we know what you want but you
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don't know what men want we are not why you want like that though but we know what you want what do
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men want sorry we men generally know yeah what women want yeah and we work most of our lives
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be successful tall good looking confident etc etc etc so we know and we work towards that to get
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women okay what does what do men want we're telling you and you're basically saying that
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that's not what we want yeah it's just crazy because the reality is men typically want sex from
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women right yeah and the top men have figured out a way to game the system and get sex from women
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yeah because they figured out what women want exactly but the women refuse to figure out what
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the men want to get what they want and we're telling you and they keep and they will keep
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arguing with men when men tell them what they want it's just and what do you want is it the the purity
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the thing i wrote it on there i wrote 22 yeah yeah yeah yeah yeah see you on that the purity thing yeah
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this is my point this is my point i literally said it and when i said it if you notice none of the
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women submissive even listened to it yeah went over their heads yeah it's crazy well and it's funny if
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women cared what men wanted why aren't any virgins on their wedding days you don't care
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but why that's the it's hard listen it's hard the thing is you want men no i'm trying to understand
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because i'm intrigued and the thing is the whole thing with submission is you've got to be with a
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man who you trust enough for you to let yourself get to that because as a woman we are constantly
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testing you to see if you are worthy of our submission and the problem that we face right now
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with a lot of women is they're seeing that a lot of men are not stepping up to the plate yeah there's
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not enough masculinity and nowadays unfortunately the men are just acting i mean masculine you're
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absolutely right you're absolutely right the issue is though the women are still giving what men want
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yes and i agree with you guys they should stop doing that's what we said that's what we said 20 minutes
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step up and become what they were before and then we're not gonna have this issue okay i want to
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i want to explain something to you the men are here here's the problem the the men actually are
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bringing more to the table than women these days but the problem is women have an inflated sense of ego
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thinking we're more important and more special than we are because we got these these jobs that are
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pretty much more beautiful than the yeah can i say so wait wait so so men 45 of men do a job that runs
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society that means they they drive the trucks they drive the buses they build the building so
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half of men have a job that runs the infrastructure of society that's an important job
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okay so there there's provisioning right protection the average guy is stronger than the average woman
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the average woman is more promiscuous than the average man the average woman is fatter than the average
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man the average woman is the same age so she's not even younger than the average guy that gets married
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it's like 30 and 30 or maybe it's a year so they have a year right so it's like when it comes to
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what we're bringing to the table most men like most i would say our great grandfathers if they saw the
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quality of wives that men took today they would be literally disgusted hopefully yeah but the problem
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but the problem is we have no idea because the media lies to us men lie to us because they want to get
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laid uh politicians lie to us because they want to vote we want they want us to vote for them and we get to
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32 never having heard the truth about what men think our entire lives we go to a school system
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that's completely run by women and that's why a lot of men are really feminine because they're in
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this school system that shames masculinity and so the whole system lies to us and it's not until our
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looks start to fade where we kind of get a dose of reality and start to humble ourselves why do you
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think a lot of women around the 30 age you're asking me yeah become born again virgins because
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it's when reality hits in that they actually realize what men want and so they try to start
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presenting as that kind of woman yeah i agree to get the man because she's obviously feeling the
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pressure because she's older etc yeah yeah i've got a slight defense for the women though because men do
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lie to you a lot to get sex that is true yeah yeah but that is true this is why it's so important that
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you know when we're having a conversation like this where there's no um no act to try and get
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sex listen to what we're saying because this is where you're going to hear the truth yeah when you're
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on a date or in the club we're going to men will say anything to you to sleep with you so listen now
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not when you had a few drinks and in the club that's all i'm saying so you can take it you know
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but most people will just leave this room i do this every week as well and they don't care and the
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other thing is like i agree with that 100 and the other thing is i don't really believe in this
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submission when you feel like it i just think it means you're not submissive yeah because i'm
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sorry the women that i know that are that are super feminine they they don't argue they just they
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just follow but are you going to trust to let someone who is unworthy of trust to lead your life
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but thing is the thing is by but thing is when you choose a man that is you by default saying i trust
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this man but no of course i understand but if a woman by default is submissive i mean if anyone comes
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to me i would be submissive just because i'm a woman no no it's submissive to the man that you
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are interested in but even i have no issue being submissive to a man but i just want to know that he
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can lead but here's the thing i want to have confidence in him but here's the thing sometimes
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sometimes he's not going to lead well and that's the problem women are expecting perfection from men
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when we're not perfect like sometimes he's gonna do he's gonna lead poorly but that's the one thing he
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really prides himself in that he is like he can lead so why am i going to be like oh i'll let you
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off when that's the one thing you want me to give you my question is my question is are you following
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perfectly no it's not about being perfect but leading is bare minimum all right all right this is
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what i this is what this is what i think of when there's an employee boss relationship okay and i i just
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use this because it's the one that we're the most familiar with when you're hired for a job are you
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arguing with your boss all the time when he tells you something no you know and so typically if
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there's an argument however you lose respect typically when there's an argument it's the
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employee's fault because they shouldn't even be arguing yeah right they should just listen
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right yes and so so that's what why that's why i say when there's a breakdown in a relationship
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typically it's more on the women because they're just not listening okay but you lose respect for the
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person i will lose respect for my boss yeah but do you know how good leaders are made
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no enlighten me while leading you have to learn how to be a good leader yeah if you don't let him
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lead how is he going to be a good leader so i'm a practice run this is we want the man who's ready
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i have a question that's what i have a question i have a question do you do you think you were raised
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to be a good wife do you think you're raised it depends on your culture it depends with your
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upbringing i'm asking about you me were you raised to be a wife i was yeah okay um so you you have a
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cookbook my family have always great and you and you and you listen and you listen um no i chose
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completely different route in my life okay okay so my point is women that typically were raised to be
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wives are married before 25 typically okay listen if i was in morocco i would be married no no i'm
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sorry i know no no no typically well okay okay okay this is the funny thing you guys inherently are
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starting to blame the culture instead of yourself when it's like it's like every woman that's single
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over 25 there's probably something wrong with you and you should probably figure it out i'm not saying
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i'm different i'm not saying i'm special but the the difference is when men are in a situation
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they blame themselves where women will blame the world and so and so and so and so i'm not i'm not
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talking about i don't know what your life is i don't know about you but what do you blame yourself
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for for not being married yeah it's my own fault what's your reason i i mean this isn't a
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this isn't a therapy session no i'm just asking the question um i'll give i'll give you one example
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right um i really was chasing sports i was chasing a industry that makes zero money would you say your
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parents didn't raise you to be a wife i would say there was things that i could have done better
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yeah i would say yeah and your parents didn't step in um because we're blaming parents now no no you
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know um i don't know what your point is like i don't know i'm just you're you asked her if she was
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raised to be a wife i know but you're not married so i'm just asking i know and i'm saying that is your
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own fault my whole point is to be accountable i'm not blaming my parents i'm blaming myself and just like
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every single because because my my only point to that is because she keeps talking about the men
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not being able to lead and maybe we should come in with some you wait listen listen and i'm saying
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we we need to come in so with some humility because we are not always perfect followers
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we're not always perfect wives yet we we put all this pressure on men to be perfect leaders