JustPearlyThings - These Stats PROVED Modern Women Are The Problem in Modern Society

00:00:00.000 Who's pushing out those kids? You just said that.

00:00:03.000 I can't push out seven, but I will be pushing out kids.

00:00:05.000 How many? I will be, God willing.

00:00:07.000 Okay, okay, so I have a question.

00:00:09.000 Do you believe in obeying your husband and all things?

00:00:11.000 Yeah, I do. But that's because I'm a Christian.

00:00:13.000 But that's because...

00:00:14.000 And this is why I said, can I just say,

00:00:16.000 it's why I said you can't generalize.

00:00:17.000 It comes down to the individual.

00:00:18.000 So that's why I don't like talking on,

00:00:20.000 you women, this, you, because I don't think like the next person. 1.00

00:00:23.000 So you need to speak up.

00:00:24.000 I'm trying, I'm trying.

00:00:26.000 But here's the thing.

00:00:27.000 So if we want to see how traditional society is,

00:00:30.000 you really can look at two metrics, right?

00:00:33.000 And really, these are all down to the women and the women's choices. 0.99

00:00:36.000 So the more traditional societies tend to have higher birth rates.

00:00:40.000 So, for example, like right now, it's roughly 1.8, 1.5, I think, UK.

00:00:47.000 And you go to a bit more traditional countries, like in Africa,

00:00:51.000 like it's like four, I think, in Nigeria, roughly, right?

00:00:56.000 And the other stat you can look at is the average age of first marriage.

00:01:00.000 So here it's 31.

00:01:01.000 When it's younger, it's typically more traditional.

00:01:04.000 Those two choices are the women's. 1.00

00:01:06.000 Women do not, we do not want to be traditional 1.00

00:01:08.000 because when we have the most beauty and the most youth,

00:01:11.000 we don't pick marriage.

00:01:12.000 So what's your take on marriage when, for example, a girl is 13 years old?

00:01:16.000 13?

00:01:17.000 You said young marriages.

00:01:19.000 That's traditionally.

00:01:20.000 Traditionally.

00:01:21.000 I think 13 is a bit young.

00:01:25.000 But please, I just want to clarify what I was saying

00:01:28.000 because the reality is, yeah, I was born Catholic.

00:01:32.000 I was raised Christian as well.

00:01:33.000 But the reason why I brought that Bible verse

00:01:35.000 is not because I wanted to take a religious angle

00:01:38.000 because you wanted to make it like, okay, if you want to speak religious.

00:01:41.000 No.

00:01:42.000 Everything I'm saying is actually rooted in biology.

00:01:44.000 It's not even just about religion.

00:01:45.000 And I can give an example.

00:01:46.000 You can define.

00:01:47.000 I can debunk what you just said right now.

00:01:48.000 You can define.

00:01:49.000 If we're, yeah, if we're to take away, because she said she doesn't believe

00:01:52.000 and you're like, oh, we shouldn't generalize.

00:01:54.000 We can generalize.

00:01:55.000 The reason why she can have a choice to say, well, no, I don't do this.

00:01:58.000 And you can have a different opinion is because of the society we have built as men.

00:02:02.000 If we're to take away this society, every single woman will revert back to her natural programming. 1.00

00:02:08.000 And she will look for a man to be under his protection.

00:02:11.000 Yeah, probably.

00:02:12.000 But what's the...

00:02:13.000 Exactly.

00:02:14.000 It has to be a debate, you know.

00:02:15.000 So it's not about religion.

00:02:16.000 You can't just have a discussion.

00:02:17.000 No, I know, I know.

00:02:18.000 I feel like you're very like, hmm.

00:02:19.000 No, because, no, because, no, because that's the way, that's the way you became aware.

00:02:22.000 I don't have the same thing.

00:02:23.000 I don't.

00:02:24.000 But I actually, I want to...

00:02:25.000 I just want to point out, let's talk to me.

00:02:26.000 Wait, wait, wait.

00:02:27.000 I want to point something out where, again, he's being very direct with you and you're telling

00:02:32.000 him how to talk.

00:02:33.000 I'm saying, as a whole, even, I've heard men do it too and say, oh, you're triggered because

00:02:38.000 she's speaking from an emotional standpoint.

00:02:39.000 So let's not do that.

00:02:40.000 But I'm just saying, I'm not against him.

00:02:42.000 I'm saying I'm not against him.

00:02:43.000 That's all I'm trying to say.

00:02:44.000 But he's not saying, he's not saying he's against you.

00:02:46.000 I didn't say I was against you either.

00:02:47.000 He said, I want to debunk what you said.

00:02:49.000 I'm saying I'm not against you.

00:02:50.000 Yes, because that's just the fact.

00:02:51.000 Okay, I have a question.

00:02:52.000 I'm not saying how to talk to me.

00:02:54.000 I'm saying I'm not against you.

00:02:56.000 It's not about being against.

00:02:58.000 You literally said something and what you said, I wanted to correct it because it changed

00:03:03.000 the point I was trying to make.

00:03:04.000 You want to correct what I was saying?

00:03:05.000 Yes, because I made a point and what you said tried to change the point I was making.

00:03:08.000 So is that not changing how I...

00:03:09.000 No, Pearl was just trying to illustrate something that's going back and forth.

00:03:14.000 And if you could catch what she was trying to say, then it might be something you could take on.

00:03:18.000 About me telling him how to talk to me?

00:03:20.000 I didn't tell him how to talk to me.

00:03:23.000 Yes, yes, you did.

00:03:24.000 What did I say?

00:03:25.000 Talk to me slowly, nicely, calmly.

00:03:27.000 I didn't say anything.

00:03:28.000 I did say that everything needs to be at the bay.

00:03:30.000 Yeah, nothing needs to be at the bay.

00:03:31.000 I'm just talking because I'm not debating him.

00:03:35.000 Right, but I'm saying you just told him that it's not a debate.

00:03:38.000 So you're saying he can't debate you, but he was just talking to you and you took it as a debate.

00:03:42.000 And even if I was debating, you were literally on a podcast to debate.

00:03:46.000 Yeah.

00:03:47.000 You do what you want.

00:03:48.000 That's fine then.

00:03:49.000 I agree.

00:03:50.000 So that's the point.

00:03:51.000 So I made a point, but you're trying to pick holes in my approach when you can just take what I say.

00:03:57.000 I want to point out something that men kind of look for and this is what.

00:04:02.000 So it's like, you know, we'll get the Christian chicks that come on and they'll say, oh, I'll obey my husband in all things. 0.99

00:04:08.000 And when a guy tells them something, they don't listen typically.

00:04:11.000 That's not my mind.

00:04:12.000 You know, but this is the thing like traditionalism and like true, like true traditionalism.

00:04:18.000 You acknowledge that all men are born with respect, like that you have to obey all men to some level because they built the society.

00:04:27.000 They protect us.

00:04:28.000 And now women just feel like entitled to it. 1.00

00:04:31.000 But the funny thing is I might not even be her man, but literally the way the human being, and this is so funny.

00:04:36.000 The way the human mind works is you literally do what you practice.

00:04:39.000 So I might not be your man, but trust me, I don't think, I mean, I might be wrong, but you might get, you might find yourself in a marriage and find yourself doing the exact same thing you're doing.

00:04:47.000 So, so, so my thing with this is like, it's like, it's like, you don't, I don't want to put it, I don't want to put it.

00:04:56.000 And I've had, I've had just, this isn't even, not, not, I'm not trying to take a dig at you, but I've just had so many hundreds of like, super like Christian chicks come on.

00:05:06.000 And it actually kind of makes me sad with the state of the church because like, there's just so few that I, that like, I really think are obedient to men.

00:05:15.000 Like, I like, and I'm telling you, I had 600 plus chicks on here, probably at least a hundred Christian chicks. 1.00

00:05:22.000 Wait, okay, wait, wait, wait, wait, this isn't about you.

00:05:24.000 But I'm saying like when, when women come in and they say like, oh, I'm a Christian. 0.99

00:05:28.000 So I believe in submitting.

00:05:29.000 It's like, I don't know what they're teaching in churches.

00:05:32.000 I just don't think it's.

00:05:33.000 So, but Pearl though, I'm actually Christian and, and I'm married.

00:05:37.000 Right.

00:05:38.000 So.

00:05:39.000 Oh yeah.

00:05:40.000 I don't want to clap for you because bro, you kept that low.

00:05:42.000 Oh, are you leaving her?

00:05:43.000 That's my wife though. 1.00

00:05:44.000 Oh, yeah.

00:05:47.000 So basically I understand the perspective, but biblically women were not actually instructed to obey all men.

00:05:54.000 Right.

00:05:55.000 But by understanding where you are coming from culturally.

00:05:57.000 Right.

00:05:58.000 Biblically women were, were only, um, you know, um, um, demanded to submit to their husbands. 0.99

00:06:05.000 Right.

00:06:06.000 Now that does not mean that, that you should be sassy or rude to any other person, even in general.

00:06:11.000 Right.

00:06:12.000 But, but I just needed to point that out because, um, I think that there is quite a difference between cultural, you know, conservativeness or traditionalism to biblical.

00:06:21.000 But you submit to your boss.

00:06:23.000 You submit to authority in society.

00:06:25.000 Yeah.

00:06:26.000 Definitely.

00:06:27.000 It's a base level, like men used to have a base level of authority that they had in society just because they were a man.

00:06:34.000 Yeah.

00:06:35.000 Do you know what I feel like?

00:06:36.000 I feel like, I feel like, it's like, so I don't have to, you don't have to be my girl.

00:06:42.000 See, let me bring it back to what happened in the lift.

00:06:44.000 I had nothing to do with that woman, but yet look how I treated her. 1.00

00:06:47.000 Look how I treated a woman because she's a woman, right? 1.00

00:06:50.000 Yeah.

00:06:51.000 Would you not do that for a man?

00:06:52.000 No, I'm saying I would treat him with respect.

00:06:54.000 Yeah.

00:06:55.000 Automatically because he's a man and I don't want to disrespect a man, just like I treat a woman with a level of care.

00:07:01.000 If both of these girls that violated me here today, disrespecting me, if I was downstairs now and I saw something happen, I'm going to jump in. 1.00

00:07:09.000 I'm going to jump in because they women and because how I was raised. 1.00

00:07:13.000 It's not because.

00:07:14.000 Yeah.

00:07:15.000 And that's like, you give, you give women a baseline protection.

00:07:17.000 Yeah.

00:07:18.000 Men in general give women a baseline protection, but women, but women don't give men a baseline respect just because they're men.

00:07:24.000 And so when she was talking about, oh, if man come in here, I'm not going to talk about what I've been through.

00:07:28.000 We don't have to talk about that.

00:07:29.000 But I just said to her, what happened in the lift?

00:07:30.000 She didn't even want to say it because she got in the lift and she was about to have a panic attack.

00:07:34.000 21 floors up.

00:07:36.000 I literally made her stand there. 1.00

00:07:37.000 Look at your toes, breathe in and out, count.

00:07:40.000 And then we got to the 21st floor.

00:07:41.000 Ask Omar.

00:07:42.000 You sure I hugged me.

00:07:43.000 Yeah.

00:07:44.000 So, so, so.

00:07:45.000 Oh, yeah.

00:07:46.000 So I hugged me.

00:07:47.000 Yeah.

00:07:48.000 So for my thing, it was like, it was like, like, you women don't understand that us men do a base type of security and a base type of protection.

00:07:55.000 You don't realize that, but you just go out in the world and we don't get that type of protection.

00:07:59.000 We honestly don't get that type of protection.

00:08:01.000 And it's just, you don't realize that even when you speak to him and he's not your man, how your, I don't know, your man could be watching you.

00:08:07.000 This is a big platform.

00:08:08.000 You know, your husband probably watching this right now.

00:08:10.000 He is watching.

00:08:11.000 Shout out.

00:08:12.000 Oh, okay.

00:08:13.000 Oh, okay.

00:08:14.000 Well, I'm saying like, but you know, literally this, this is a big platform.

00:08:18.000 Your, your man might be saying, you know, I want to make up the housewife today and get married to her, but he's watching her.

00:08:22.000 It's even like her talk.

00:08:23.000 It's even, it's even her talking there when I was like, wait, wait, wait, it's like, you don't have to be invited here.

00:08:29.000 And yet she still felt like she should, she should be able to over talk me just cause she's here.

00:08:33.000 And us men, us men, we hate that, but we love feminine energy. 1.00

00:08:37.000 And part of the thing is, you women get way more out of men being, do you know some women, do you know them girls that just get everything out of their man?

00:08:46.000 You must know them girls that. 0.99

00:08:47.000 They never, they never ask for anything.

00:08:49.000 And also, and also not their man too.

00:08:50.000 I know some, but why is that?

00:08:52.000 But why is that?

00:08:53.000 I'm not going to say because they do nothing mad, but generally don't those girls that tend to be.

00:08:56.000 We said it earlier.

00:08:57.000 Pretty privilege.

00:08:58.000 But some people's ego.

00:08:59.000 No, it's not just pretty privilege.

00:09:01.000 I think it's more than pretty privilege.

00:09:02.000 It's about their attitude.

00:09:04.000 It's about the fact that they give their man respect.

00:09:07.000 It's about the way they treat them, the way they speak to them.

00:09:10.000 No, he's saying girls that get everything out of their man. 0.98

00:09:14.000 But why?

00:09:15.000 I think, I think I'm illustrating some of the reasons why.

00:09:17.000 Maybe a man just wants to make his girlfriend happy.

00:09:19.000 But why?

00:09:20.000 What's she doing?

00:09:21.000 You don't know, maybe she cooks for him. 0.95

00:09:22.000 Maybe she cleans for him.

00:09:23.000 Yeah.

00:09:24.000 Maybe she's birthing children. 0.99

00:09:25.000 Okay.

00:09:26.000 You know, she gives him emotional support.

00:09:27.000 I didn't know that he comes home.

00:09:29.000 Okay.

00:09:30.000 This sounded good to me.

00:09:31.000 Yeah, what else?

00:09:32.000 Okay, what else?

00:09:33.000 Maybe she takes him out.

00:09:34.000 Okay.

00:09:35.000 Maybe she gives him thoughtful gifts.

00:09:36.000 You know what I mean?

00:09:37.000 And don't you think she deserves that?

00:09:39.000 If she does, if she.

00:09:41.000 Yeah.

00:09:42.000 If she does that, I think she does, yes.

00:09:43.000 Yeah.

00:09:44.000 So, don't you think other women could do that and be as deserving as she is? 0.62

00:09:47.000 Yeah, she could.

00:09:48.000 Not everyone wants to do that.

00:09:49.000 Some women don't want to cook. 1.00

00:09:50.000 Some women don't want to clean. 1.00

00:09:52.000 And I think that's okay.

00:09:53.000 But that's a personal sense.

00:09:54.000 Some people are very entitled.

00:09:55.000 Yeah, they need to find a man.

00:09:56.000 That would be okay with that.

00:09:57.000 That's what I'm saying.

00:09:58.000 Above all else, I think it's mostly because she respects him.

00:10:01.000 It's not even because she does all of that.

00:10:03.000 It's respect.

00:10:04.000 Maybe she just wants to make you happy as well. 0.97

00:10:05.000 She literally maybe just... 0.70

00:10:06.000 No, but I'm telling you, the reason why the man gives her everything is not because of all

00:10:09.000 those things she's doing.

00:10:10.000 It's probably because even on top of the fact that she does all of that, she still respects

00:10:15.000 him and treats him like the man of the house.

00:10:17.000 Imagine this.

00:10:18.000 All those guys that you were talking about in Tesco, they all have families.

00:10:21.000 The people that are cleaning the streets, they all have families that respect them every

00:10:23.000 single day.

00:10:24.000 And these men built the world.

00:10:27.000 You guys don't see these guys because you go every single day.

00:10:29.000 You don't see these guys.

00:10:30.000 You literally walk past them.

00:10:31.000 But you know what?

00:10:32.000 Next time you're driving on the train or something, night time, whatever it is, just look.

00:10:36.000 Just look.

00:10:37.000 Look at the guys you never look at.

00:10:38.000 These are the guys that are literally keeping your lights on.

00:10:40.000 If you break down in your car tomorrow, who's going to come out from AA, RSE, whoever

00:10:43.000 it is?

00:10:44.000 Is it going to be a woman? 0.99

00:10:45.000 Likely.

00:10:46.000 Most likely not.

00:10:47.000 Okay.

00:10:48.000 Most likely not.

00:10:49.000 And if it was a woman, there would be nothing wrong with it. 1.00

00:10:51.000 But the chances are it's not going to be a woman, right?

00:10:53.000 It's going to be a man that's going to be picking you up from the side.

00:10:55.000 And you're going to be very happy to see that man, right?

00:10:57.000 But let's not miss that beautiful point that he just made about respect.

00:11:00.000 I think sometimes we forget what respect really means.

00:11:03.000 Even the way you look at your man, eye to eye contact.

00:11:08.000 As a woman, sometimes it could be so disrespectful. 1.00

00:11:11.000 You know that look when you look down.

00:11:13.000 As opposed to a look where you look at him and you respect him.

00:11:16.000 And he knows that when he goes out to work, I'm not saying the woman's not working.

00:11:20.000 Okay.

00:11:21.000 But he knows that you respect what he does.

00:11:24.000 You respect who he is.

00:11:26.000 You respect what he brings to the table.

00:11:29.000 And I think sometimes we forget that.

00:11:31.000 Have you ever looked at someone and they just...

00:11:33.000 I don't know.

00:11:34.000 I'm not going to hot up my friend.

00:11:35.000 But the way his missus looks at him.

00:11:37.000 I remember.

00:11:38.000 Nah, I'm not going to hot it up.

00:11:39.000 But she looks at him like he's the only man in...

00:11:42.000 He is the only...

00:11:43.000 But you've never...

00:11:44.000 I'll be looking at my man like that.

00:11:45.000 When I want to have a man.

00:11:46.000 No, but I'm saying like...

00:11:47.000 Yeah, but for how long?

00:11:50.000 Depends on what he does and how bad he messes up.

00:11:52.000 As long as he respects me.

00:11:53.000 And it's not...

00:11:54.000 No, it's not like...

00:11:55.000 Listen, you know when a girl looks at you like she looks... 0.99

00:11:57.000 No, but she looks at him like...

00:11:58.000 Yeah.

00:11:59.000 Yo, that's my...

00:12:00.000 The best thing since sliced bread.

00:12:01.000 And when people talk about marriage, you know, it's a paper...

00:12:04.000 I miss that feeling.

00:12:05.000 For me...

00:12:06.000 For me...

00:12:07.000 I don't prescribe to the western ideology of marriage.

00:12:09.000 Especially now after doing this for a year.

00:12:11.000 Now I probably think...

00:12:12.000 I got in here...

00:12:13.000 Oh, mate.

00:12:14.000 I...

00:12:15.000 Yeah, they ruined my...

00:12:16.000 They ruined my idea of marriage.

00:12:17.000 But for me...

00:12:18.000 As long as you have your union...

00:12:20.000 Like you guys say...

00:12:22.000 I actually...

00:12:23.000 I actually think that...

00:12:24.000 Like men would take respect over everything.

00:12:27.000 Everything.

00:12:28.000 Everything.

00:12:29.000 Over the cooking, that clean...

00:12:30.000 Does that matter to the men?

00:12:31.000 Yes, yes!

00:12:32.000 Yeah.

00:12:33.000 Don't cook for me.

00:12:34.000 I'll cook.

00:12:35.000 Just respect me.

00:12:36.000 Doesn't that contribute to the respect though?

00:12:37.000 Do you not think that's respect as well?

00:12:38.000 So like you're doing like something for your man.

00:12:40.000 No.

00:12:41.000 Obviously like I can...

00:12:42.000 I said to my guy as well.

00:12:43.000 I said, does it not matter?

00:12:44.000 I had an actual argument with him.

00:12:45.000 I said, does it not matter that you've got someone that can cook?

00:12:48.000 And it can do all these things.

00:12:49.000 But he's like, no.

00:12:50.000 No.

00:12:51.000 I was like, what?

00:12:52.000 What do you mean I can do it?

00:12:53.000 He's like, I'm with you because of you.

00:12:54.000 And I had a mind blowing experience.

00:12:56.000 I was like, what?

00:12:57.000 Because every man I had been with before that...

00:12:59.000 Yeah.

00:13:00.000 I'm not enough unless I can do this and I can do that and tick this box and tick that box.

00:13:04.000 Yeah.

00:13:05.000 I wasn't enough just being me.

00:13:06.000 I feel like it doesn't matter what you do.

00:13:07.000 I respect that man.

00:13:08.000 I like this guy.

00:13:09.000 I like this guy.

00:13:10.000 Yeah.

00:13:11.000 I look at him like how you said.

00:13:13.000 Because of that mutual respect.

00:13:14.000 I don't have to be more than that.

00:13:16.000 Okay.

00:13:17.000 Okay.

00:13:18.000 Where did you meet him?

00:13:19.000 My friend, remember?

00:13:20.000 Let's have a brother.

00:13:21.000 Let's have a cousin. 0.84

00:13:22.000 No, no, no.

00:13:23.000 My friend might ask off in the show.

00:13:24.000 I'm skating.

00:13:25.000 You said you want to skate.

00:13:26.000 Come with me.

00:13:27.000 I'm collating data for her.

00:13:28.000 Skating.

00:13:29.000 I'm skating with me.

00:13:30.000 And Pearl, look at how the energy has changed now in the room.

00:13:33.000 Yeah.

00:13:34.000 Well, because it's real talk.

00:13:35.000 You can respect both sides.

00:13:36.000 Can I say something quickly?

00:13:38.000 So do you know what I think?

00:13:39.000 I feel like a man, no matter what you do for him, he can do everything clean and cook.

00:13:42.000 But if he doesn't respect you, what you do, it just doesn't matter.

00:13:45.000 So I feel like the mutual respect, that is the foundation at the end of the day.

00:13:48.000 A mutual respect.

00:13:49.000 I actually, I don't think so.

00:13:51.000 I think like men, they love women and women respect men.

00:13:55.000 Agree with, yeah, I agree with that.

00:13:56.000 Yeah.

00:13:57.000 Like, I think that like, usually when women feel like that, I just think he doesn't like them.

00:14:02.000 Yeah.

00:14:03.000 You know what I mean?

00:14:04.000 Maybe he likes what he does for her, for him, but he doesn't actually like her.

00:14:08.000 Yeah.

00:14:09.000 Well, I mean, you know, I don't know how familiar you guys are with the content, but I mean,

00:14:13.000 you know, it's like basically most women in their twenties are sleeping with like 20% of 0.99

00:14:18.000 men.

00:14:19.000 20%.

00:14:20.000 Yeah.

00:14:21.000 Yeah.

00:14:22.000 Okay.

00:14:23.000 I just have a question.

00:14:24.000 Raise your hand.

00:14:25.000 Have you ever been cheated on anyone?

00:14:26.000 Yeah.

00:14:27.000 One, two, three.

00:14:28.000 Okay.

00:14:29.000 Okay.

00:14:30.000 Yeah.

00:14:31.000 So pretty much me too.

00:14:32.000 It's all right.

00:14:33.000 It's all right.

00:14:34.000 It's all right.

00:14:35.000 But it's like, it's like, it's because, you know, women's requirements are so high that it's

00:14:36.000 a very small percentage of men.

00:14:37.000 You want a guy that makes over like 70, even just 70,000 pounds a year, which is lower than

00:14:44.000 a lot of women say, you know, that's only 10% of men. 0.98

00:14:47.500 So if you have a guy that's in one of those categories, like most women don't realize there's 0.96

00:14:51.000 a line.

00:14:52.000 Yeah.

00:14:53.000 If he's good looking, like women find 80% of men as unattractive, not okay.

00:14:56.000 Not decent looking.

00:14:57.000 So if you, if you, if you see a guy and you think he's cute, if you actually just think,

00:15:01.000 Oh, he's cute.

00:15:02.000 He's probably top 10, 20% of men.

00:15:03.000 You're speaking to me.

00:15:04.000 Yeah.

00:15:05.000 Yeah.

00:15:06.000 Yeah.

00:15:07.000 Yeah.

00:15:08.000 But so the problem is you have girls that are like on a one to 10, one, we're never honest 1.00

00:15:11.000 with each other about our ratings.

00:15:12.000 So most women have an inflated ego where they think they're hotter than they are. 1.00

00:15:16.000 So you got girls that are fives, sixes, sevens, eights, all sleeping with the tens, all sleeping 1.00

00:15:23.000 with the eights, nines and tens. 0.74

00:15:25.000 And then the women come out and they're like, Oh, I hate men. 1.00

00:15:28.000 I hate men. 0.96

00:15:29.000 But it's like, it's because like, when a girl says that it's just cause she's been like sleeping 0.99

00:15:32.000 with the top 20% of men.

00:15:33.000 But what about the, they share baby fathers as well.

00:15:35.000 So one guy will have.

00:15:36.000 Right.

00:15:37.000 Right.

00:15:38.000 Yeah.

00:15:39.000 Yeah.

00:15:40.000 There's a reason for it.

00:15:41.000 Right.

00:15:42.000 Like even historically, most men haven't even reproduced.

00:15:44.000 Like it's only been, I think 40% of men have reproduced historically.

00:15:48.000 So there's always been two women for one man. 0.89

00:15:50.000 But yeah.

00:15:51.000 And so that's why a lot of times people think I advocate for cheating.

00:15:54.000 And it's funny because they say women don't have any power. 1.00

00:15:57.000 Women are oppressed. 0.97

00:15:58.000 But the funny thing is women are the reason why we are where we are today. 1.00

00:16:01.000 Women are the ones that have selected the genes that have survived through time. 1.00

00:16:05.000 Women are the ones that control who gets born. 1.00

00:16:08.000 Women are powerful. 1.00

00:16:10.000 Yeah.

00:16:11.000 They say women are oppressed. 1.00

00:16:12.000 So if, and like I said, even if you look at the stats, most people in the Western world

00:16:17.000 are raised by single mothers.

00:16:18.000 Right.

00:16:19.000 So even the men you complain about are being raised by women. 0.99

00:16:22.000 So these are the conversations that we need to start having.

00:16:25.000 But whenever we try to have them, they always tell me, like that girl said, oh, you're

00:16:29.000 I'm not demonizing single mothers.

00:16:31.000 Right.

00:16:32.000 But we have stats.

00:16:33.000 Right.

00:16:34.000 So when single mothers do good, we praise them.

00:16:35.000 We praise them a strong, independent woman, single mothers.

00:16:37.000 But when they do bad, and we try to critique them, all of a sudden we're the demons.

00:16:41.000 So if you don't like the men that are being raised, if you're saying the current men are

00:16:45.000 abusive, if you're saying they're emotional, if you're saying all of these things, then we

00:16:48.000 need to look at who is raising these men.

00:16:50.000 And the thing is, what I had, I had like kind of a, and this is why, you know, all these

00:16:54.000 chicks get so mad that I advocate for virginity. 1.00

00:16:57.000 You. 0.91

00:16:58.000 Weren't you the one that was like, Pearl, are you?

00:17:01.000 That's always what they do.

00:17:02.000 They get triggered.

00:17:03.000 I thought it might've been her.

00:17:04.000 Oh, sorry.

00:17:05.000 Sorry.

00:17:06.000 Sorry.

00:17:07.000 She's done.

00:17:08.000 She said, I kept telling you, wait, wait, wait.

00:17:12.000 It's not me.

00:17:13.000 Sorry.

00:17:14.000 Sorry.

00:17:15.000 I thought it was you, but it's okay.

00:17:16.000 Sorry.

00:17:17.000 The reason I advocate where I say, you know, a lot of problems would be fixed if men married 0.99

00:17:20.000 virgins.

00:17:21.000 Okay. 0.97

00:17:22.000 They're like, Pearl, like, isn't that hypocritical? 0.79

00:17:23.000 Whatever. 0.73

00:17:24.000 But I started looking at the data.

00:17:25.000 Okay.

00:17:26.000 Women that have five sexual partners, guess what? 1.00

00:17:29.000 Well, guess what percent go on to have a happy marriage?

00:17:32.000 How much?

00:17:33.000 20 to 25% will have a happy marriage.

00:17:36.000 If you're a virgin on your wedding day, guess, guess what percent will have a happy marriage?

00:17:40.000 70 to 80% roughly depending on the study.

00:17:43.000 Do men actually want to wait for that long?

00:17:45.000 So that's a different kind of, but I'm going to get to that.

00:17:48.000 Okay.

00:17:49.000 So what happened was I started looking at basically every problem in society, homelessness, 1.00

00:17:54.000 mental health, school shooters, all that shit is linked to promiscuous women because 1.00

00:18:00.000 they tend to leave marriages. 0.99

00:18:02.000 So the end creates single mother homes or do only fans and like get pregnant by someone, 1.00

00:18:07.000 whatever.

00:18:08.000 So basically all of society's problems are really from us women being promiscuous. 1.00

00:18:13.000 Maybe.

00:18:14.000 Yeah.

00:18:15.000 Yeah.

00:18:16.000 So you want to talk about the, the virgin thing, right?

00:18:18.000 The issue is again, before our dads would help us.

00:18:21.000 So our dads would say when the eight, nine and 10 guy came by and most of our dads still

00:18:26.000 will, we just don't listen, but like the eight, nine and 10 guy will come by and say,

00:18:31.000 I'm trying with your daughter.

00:18:32.000 And the dad would be like, Oh no, stay away from that boy.

00:18:35.000 You know, there's a reason they used to have songs about that.

00:18:38.000 Now we have unlimited access.

00:18:40.000 We said we want to pick ourselves.

00:18:42.000 So we went off to college.

00:18:43.000 We said, let's go pick.

00:18:44.000 And we've choose terrible. 0.99

00:18:45.000 We make, that's why I think women aren't that smart. 1.00

00:18:48.000 Cause like, what, what do we pick?

00:18:49.000 What's the most important decision that you can make the father of your kids and now my question

00:19:00.000 is, do we make good decisions?

00:19:02.000 Not always.

00:19:03.000 Not always.

00:19:04.000 Would you say more of us make good decisions with boyfriends and partners or bad decisions?

00:19:09.000 Bad man.

00:19:10.000 Okay.

00:19:11.000 Okay.

00:19:12.000 So, so, so that's why, and I don't say it to hate on women, but it's just like,

00:19:15.000 I think we're more emotional.

00:19:16.000 So we don't make good decisions.

00:19:17.000 I think the thing here is to educate ourselves in a different way. 1.00

00:19:21.000 Probably not put everyone down and say, you're dumb. 0.98

00:19:23.000 You're not smart enough to do this and other, but empower us in a way that can be like, 1.00

00:19:27.000 be smarter.

00:19:28.000 Some people might not have the courage to leave.

00:19:30.000 Make better decisions.

00:19:31.000 So, but here's the thing.

00:19:33.000 Like, again, I just, to me, it's like women, we just don't get it. 1.00

00:19:36.000 And I just think we used to, they used to kind of say that women were dumb. 0.99

00:19:39.000 They used to make jokes about it. 0.99

00:19:40.000 It wasn't that big of a deal.

00:19:41.000 And blondes. 1.00

00:19:42.000 And they still do things.

00:19:43.000 Yeah.

00:19:44.000 Yeah.

00:19:45.000 And I think we should, I think we should bring it back.

00:19:46.000 That's why I'm leading the movement.

00:19:47.000 I don't know.

00:19:48.000 And I don't think it's, and this is, you know, you know, this is coming from someone,

00:19:52.000 honestly, I've gotten good at everything I've tried at, to be honest.

00:19:55.000 And so I'm not saying no women can, or there aren't smart women, but as a group, 1.00

00:20:00.000 we don't make good decisions.

00:20:01.000 I think we make emotional decisions as women.

00:20:05.000 Which tend to be bad.

00:20:06.000 Yeah.

00:20:07.000 Yeah.

00:20:08.000 You know what I mean?

00:20:09.000 Because, because for five minutes, we see a guy, he's fits the criteria.

00:20:14.000 And there are red flags, but we ignore them because we like him.

00:20:19.000 Yeah.

00:20:20.000 And you know, we're hook, line and center for how gorgeous he is.

00:20:24.000 And we're ignoring the fact that maybe we're just not compatible.

00:20:27.000 Maybe sometimes people just think.

00:20:28.000 Maybe he's a good, he's a good for a season, but he's not actually the father of the child.

00:20:31.000 A lot of times when you meet women, they'll say that, you know, obviously I've been cheated on, 0.99

00:20:35.000 or I have trust issues, I have trauma, what have you not.

00:20:38.000 And this comes from all the...

00:20:39.000 I am so tired of trauma.

00:20:40.000 This comes from all the, all the guys they picked, right?

00:20:42.000 And before what used to happen is like, you said you got brother, you got older brothers?

00:20:46.000 Yeah.

00:20:47.000 Yeah.

00:20:48.000 So I would have an interest in you.

00:20:50.000 Um, I would come round to your house or whatever.

00:20:52.000 Your older brother would check me over your dad, your uncle, what have you not.

00:20:54.000 They'll give me...

00:20:55.000 They still do.

00:20:56.000 Okay, cool.

00:20:57.000 They will give me limited access to you.

00:20:58.000 This is courting.

00:20:59.000 This is not dating.

00:21:00.000 Dating is a 20-century phenomenon.

00:21:01.000 There will be no, there will be no sexual activity going on.

00:21:04.000 The most I could get was a peck on the cheek.

00:21:06.000 Once I do that and they check me over, this involved checking over my family, checking

00:21:10.000 on who I was, right, cool.

00:21:11.000 Then they will say to me, right, I didn't, I didn't need to have money.

00:21:14.000 I need to have good promise about me and had to be a good man.

00:21:17.000 That was the most important thing.

00:21:18.000 Then me and you were going to go together and was going to go and build it on.

00:21:21.000 What's happened now is that's gone.

00:21:23.000 That's gone.

00:21:24.000 So you women now can pick and you don't pick what makes sense. 1.00

00:21:26.000 You pick what makes your fanny float apart in the language. 0.59

00:21:28.000 But it's because you pick what makes you excited, right?

00:21:30.000 You see that feeling, that tingling that you get?

00:21:32.000 That usually comes from bad boys.

00:21:34.000 Well, no, and that actually comes women in their 20s. 1.00

00:21:37.000 The number one thing they select for is looks.

00:21:40.000 So, and women only find maybe 5 to 20% of men as attractive, good looking.

00:21:47.000 So we're picking for the wrong things, but go ahead.

00:21:50.000 Yeah.

00:21:51.000 So question.

00:21:52.000 Do you think that by having that approach, the more traditional courting kind of approach,

00:21:57.000 do you think that that would solve all these problems that we're having?

00:21:59.000 Yes.

00:22:00.000 I think it would, but not, but not for the women that are, I think like, honestly, 0.99

00:22:03.000 if I was a guy in 2023, I'd say 25 plus done.

00:22:06.000 I wouldn't even touch them because most of most women. 1.00

00:22:09.000 Yeah, sorry.

00:22:10.000 And this is basically all the same.

00:22:12.000 Yeah.

00:22:13.000 We're all going for looks.

00:22:14.000 Well, no, no.

00:22:15.000 Well, yes, yes, yes.

00:22:16.000 But I'm saying like, if I was a guy, really, you just got to go younger.

00:22:19.000 Cause most of the, most of the chicks are too programmed.

00:22:21.000 So what I would say.

00:22:23.000 Yeah.

00:22:24.000 Yeah.

00:22:25.000 What's wrong with that?

00:22:26.000 A guy dating a younger chick.

00:22:27.000 Well, they do.

00:22:28.000 How much younger are we talking?

00:22:29.000 I mean.

00:22:30.000 Adult.

00:22:31.000 I don't go adult.

00:22:32.000 Yeah, definitely don't.

00:22:33.000 You don't go adult.

00:22:34.000 we're not talking about teenagers, yeah.

00:22:36.000 I'd say, I'd say under 25 over 18.

00:22:40.000 And I'll tell you, I'll tell you why.

00:22:41.000 Because typically over the age of 25,

00:22:44.000 there's exceptions, right?

00:22:45.000 But we're just too programmed that we're just like done.

00:22:48.000 Yeah.

00:22:50.000 So, so my thing.

00:22:51.000 I'd like to ask a question.

00:22:53.000 Do you think a man is ready to be married at 22?

00:22:58.000 No, no, no.

00:22:59.000 No, no, she doesn't marry. 1.00

00:22:59.840 No, she marries up. 0.99

00:23:00.940 He marries down.

00:23:02.180 Yeah, but it's just a question.

00:23:04.480 Are women obsolete? 1.00

00:23:05.540 I would say most men at that age

00:23:07.940 wanted to get married young.

00:23:09.260 They usually get their heart broke.

00:23:11.140 Usually the men want to get married young,

00:23:13.180 the women don't, 1.00

00:23:14.040 and then they have such a tough time with women.

00:23:16.580 They just become players.

00:23:17.940 Most of us start off like this in school,

00:23:22.200 sending little love hearts,

00:23:24.020 those little cards you send to.

00:23:25.360 I think men are more romantic.

00:23:27.020 Will you be my valentines?

00:23:28.680 Yes, no, maybe tick a box.

00:23:30.300 Yeah, we used to do this because

00:23:31.340 we were all raised by mothers that told us,

00:23:33.100 son, this is what you do.

00:23:34.100 This is how you treat the girl.

00:23:35.240 You go get the chocolates.

00:23:36.140 Then one day you just see that kid

00:23:37.980 come in the fresh kickers and the blazer.

00:23:40.120 And he gets all, he's got the plats.

00:23:41.660 He's got the plats with,

00:23:43.620 you know, the different colors,

00:23:44.540 you know, the different color, you know.

00:23:45.620 The whole mother-beads.

00:23:46.960 Yeah, he's getting all the day.

00:23:48.700 And yeah, he ain't doing nothing

00:23:50.100 other than just being fresh, yeah.

00:23:51.680 So then you go home and say,

00:23:53.180 mommy, my mom said, don't worry, son.

00:23:54.620 Don't worry, son.

00:23:55.240 Your time will come.

00:23:55.880 And the reason what I'm trying to say

00:23:56.860 is it's completely different, you know.

00:24:00.560 It's a personal story.

00:24:02.700 I'll tell you what tends to happen, though.

00:24:07.440 It's similar where the guys,

00:24:08.780 like they want the more traditional thing

00:24:10.420 when they're younger.

00:24:11.100 They go for it and the women don't want it. 1.00

00:24:13.040 I mean, because think about it.

00:24:14.420 If we're not getting married until 31,

00:24:17.320 that's the choice of the woman. 1.00

00:24:18.920 Because what man doesn't want a hot young chick? 1.00

00:24:21.340 Men from the ages of 20 to 80

00:24:23.740 think that we're hottest at 22.

00:24:25.140 And honestly, some studies have said 18.

00:24:28.240 So some studies have said even younger than that.

00:24:30.820 And so it's like, okay, they want the hot young chicks. 1.00

00:24:33.620 They're not signing up to be wives. 1.00

00:24:35.400 No, I know some women that are begging to get married. 1.00

00:24:38.440 No, but the problem, no, I'll tell you,

00:24:40.780 I'll tell you what happens to those guys.

00:24:42.420 Because typically, one, women aren't adding as much value 1.00

00:24:46.240 as they used to.

00:24:47.100 So they used to have traditional, like,

00:24:48.920 men are just like, they'll look at the cost

00:24:50.700 and they'll look at the benefit, right?

00:24:52.620 And the problem is the cost is super high now.

00:24:55.680 Where a man, you know, I've interviewed men all the time

00:24:58.000 on the brink of suicide because of divorce.

00:24:59.820 So, you know, where a woman can ruin a man's reputation 1.00

00:25:03.560 by calling him an abuser with no evidence, right? 1.00

00:25:06.160 I mean, we see a woman can take a half of a man's shit. 1.00

00:25:10.120 A woman can take the house, put him on child support, 1.00

00:25:12.920 put him on Alamo.

00:25:13.660 Like, I know men, I wouldn't be surprised 0.87

00:25:15.540 if in the next two, three years they committed suicide 0.98

00:25:17.580 because these women have ruined their life. 1.00

00:25:19.680 This is the cost, okay?

00:25:21.460 And the women have to come in and say, 1.00

00:25:23.600 here's the benefit I'm giving you, okay? 0.65

00:25:26.020 Unlimited sex for a lifetime.

00:25:27.720 Well, one out of four marriages is sexless,

00:25:29.520 so that's not a thing.

00:25:30.700 Okay, I'm gonna be hot forever.

00:25:32.220 I'm gonna be skinny.

00:25:33.220 No.

00:25:33.460 No, we're getting fat, right?

00:25:34.940 That's not...

00:25:35.440 Right?

00:25:35.720 So then we come in and say, hey,

00:25:37.040 I will give you seven kids.

00:25:38.380 She says, I'm not doing that.

00:25:40.160 And so it's like, we have to ask, like,

00:25:42.800 what value add are women in 2023? 1.00

00:25:45.240 So one way that guys mitigate risk is they say,

00:25:48.220 okay, I want to do the traditional thing.

00:25:50.760 I want this, but I don't want to end up

00:25:52.740 like that uncle, that dad, that person I know.

00:25:55.420 So what I'm gonna do is I'm gonna date the chick 1.00

00:25:57.520 for years, okay?

00:25:59.460 Just a vetter.

00:26:00.340 Let's make sure she's not crazy

00:26:01.880 because I've had a couple friends.

00:26:03.740 They've said the girls get kind of crazy 0.93

00:26:05.500 after the kids and the marriage.

00:26:07.380 And I don't want that to happen to me.

00:26:09.280 So that's what they'll do.

00:26:10.860 But really, I think it's like,

00:26:12.980 they need to change the divorce laws. 1.00

00:26:14.920 And that's why I say women have to give up power 1.00

00:26:16.400 because I don't think we'll see the family structure

00:26:19.040 and traditionalism ever come back

00:26:20.800 until women say, okay, 1.00

00:26:22.160 we're not gonna go to the workforce

00:26:23.960 or at least we can't get divorced anymore. 0.96

00:26:26.580 No fault, divorce is gone.

00:26:28.200 Because right now the risk is too high

00:26:30.040 because a woman could just say,

00:26:31.160 I'm not feeling it and ruin his life.

00:26:33.160 I think you have a baby.

00:26:35.240 Not really.

00:26:36.160 So child support, they only get,

00:26:38.460 men only get custody of their kids 10% of the time.

00:26:41.980 I do think men get the worst deal.

00:26:44.600 Yeah, that's true actually.

00:26:45.480 Because women are obviously seen as more nurturing. 1.00

00:26:48.280 So sometimes girls just assume that she's gonna be... 1.00

00:26:50.680 And there's no evidence that women raise better children. 1.00

00:26:53.560 No, there isn't.

00:26:54.120 Yeah, it's actually that men raise better children.

00:26:56.600 I personally think a child should have

00:26:58.460 both a mother and a father figure.

00:27:00.400 Well, and on average,

00:27:01.740 it takes three years for a girl to get a ring. 1.00

00:27:04.720 So if you want to be married,

00:27:06.300 on average, it'll take you three years.

00:27:07.700 Which camera shall I look into?

00:27:08.460 A lot of the fathers that I know,

00:27:12.500 and this is out of choice,

00:27:13.500 they have good relationships

00:27:14.320 with the mothers of their kids,

00:27:15.660 willingly have their children every other weekend.

00:27:19.440 By choice.

00:27:21.040 So, okay, how do you know that?

00:27:23.360 Because I've been with them.

00:27:25.140 No, so I'm asking, so the guys say that?

00:27:27.520 Yeah.

00:27:28.100 Well, and I'll tell you one thing.

00:27:29.280 A lot of guys are actually embarrassed

00:27:31.320 and they don't want to tell you.

00:27:33.640 How about?

00:27:33.940 It's very common.

00:27:35.140 Well, because, I mean,

00:27:36.460 it's pretty demasculating

00:27:37.720 to have the woman that you had a child with 0.60

00:27:39.740 take you to the cleaner in court.

00:27:41.780 That's not something men

00:27:42.820 typically want to talk about.

00:27:45.620 It's usually pretty embarrassing to them.

00:27:48.360 Obviously because they're not in power.

00:27:49.620 Like, in that situation,

00:27:50.440 they can't really take control, obviously.

00:27:51.720 Well, I just think,

00:27:52.820 I think if you spend,

00:27:53.980 I really think women should spend, 1.00

00:27:55.560 like, a week or two in family court

00:27:57.000 just to see what happens.

00:27:58.060 I'll give you an example.

00:27:59.180 So I interviewed a guy.

00:28:00.040 He had text evidence.

00:28:02.600 She planned to divorce him.

00:28:04.300 And this was a woman

00:28:05.300 that was a Christian woman.

00:28:07.100 She was, like, from Eastern Europe.

00:28:08.740 Like, she was all the green flags. 0.51

00:28:10.300 Like, no OnlyFans, no nothing, right?

00:28:12.920 And I don't say this to be a doomer and gloomer,

00:28:15.660 but, like, this is not uncommon, okay?

00:28:19.100 And she had texts.

00:28:20.580 She basically, 0.51

00:28:21.140 she got a feminist friend around her 1.00

00:28:22.760 and women were just really easily influenced. 1.00

00:28:24.940 Like, that's why we get the latest fashion trends.

00:28:27.440 That's why we just go with the group.

00:28:28.760 We kind of have groupthink.

00:28:29.760 I don't know why.

00:28:30.460 She gets a feminist friend, right? 1.00

00:28:32.360 The feminist friend starts, like, 0.99

00:28:33.780 telling her all this feminist jargon.

00:28:35.800 The feminist friend is telling her, 1.00

00:28:37.320 can you get him to hit you? 0.92

00:28:39.300 Yeah, exactly.

00:28:40.300 And this is,

00:28:40.860 and I saw the text.

00:28:42.280 I literally,

00:28:42.860 he showed me his court documents

00:28:44.560 of her trying to get him to hit her

00:28:47.360 so she could go to court

00:28:48.480 and call him an abuser

00:28:49.640 because the way it works in England

00:28:51.520 is you actually,

00:28:52.680 there are government incentives

00:28:54.020 to give you,

00:28:56.480 it's either a free lawyer

00:28:57.820 or some kind of legal aid

00:28:59.980 if you are an abuse victim.

00:29:01.860 And when they implemented that policy,

00:29:03.500 abuse charges went up 400%.

00:29:05.680 So, like, you know,

00:29:08.660 and so imagine, like,

00:29:10.480 this is the girl that's been on your arm

00:29:11.960 for five years.

00:29:12.860 This is the mother,

00:29:13.520 like, men are a little bit more, like, tactful.

00:29:15.980 When the mother of their children,

00:29:17.420 like, the mother of their child 0.99

00:29:18.580 is an absolute wench. 0.97

00:29:20.100 They don't go on social media

00:29:21.260 and talk about it.

00:29:22.280 They don't complain to the whole time.

00:29:23.580 Like, men really suffer in silence. 0.78

00:29:25.740 Because it's a huge L.

00:29:26.760 Like, last show,

00:29:27.840 I was talking about my friends

00:29:28.960 that are going through

00:29:29.540 the maddest court battle,

00:29:30.700 the amount of money

00:29:31.180 that they have to spend.

00:29:32.460 And it's just that thing where

00:29:33.360 it's like,

00:29:35.340 part of my job in the mandem's voice

00:29:36.880 is I've been speaking to so much men

00:29:38.700 in this last year, Pearl,

00:29:39.660 all the time, right?

00:29:40.420 And I've discovered, like,

00:29:41.620 I was very pro-marriage

00:29:44.180 and I still believe in marriage

00:29:45.600 and what have you not

00:29:46.240 in different circumstances,

00:29:47.260 what have you not.

00:29:47.560 I actually believe

00:29:48.000 you should probably have a baby 1.00

00:29:48.680 with a woman first 0.99

00:29:49.200 to see if she's going to be crazy. 0.91

00:29:50.740 What?

00:29:51.440 Because, you know,

00:29:51.760 because they always say

00:29:52.640 women change after marriage. 1.00

00:29:53.260 So you wouldn't get married?

00:29:55.800 Honestly, as someone,

00:29:57.360 I believe in marriage.

00:29:58.280 I'm a Catholic.

00:29:59.020 I think that's the best way

00:30:00.060 to do it.

00:30:00.440 I agree.

00:30:01.120 You don't understand

00:30:02.300 how I started on this podcast.

00:30:03.820 I was like,

00:30:04.420 I have three sisters and a brother.

00:30:05.800 Did I ruin you?

00:30:07.100 They're all married.

00:30:08.000 My parents were married

00:30:08.660 for 40 years.

00:30:09.860 I'm the only one

00:30:10.460 that's not married.

00:30:11.020 Now I'm out here.

00:30:11.800 I'm like,

00:30:12.380 I want to get married,

00:30:13.500 but...

00:30:13.760 But it's like...

00:30:14.380 Women have so much power 1.00

00:30:15.780 when they have the children,

00:30:17.520 don't they?

00:30:17.820 Because often men 0.98

00:30:18.780 could be left

00:30:19.580 never seeing their child

00:30:21.700 or if they do see the child,

00:30:24.520 it comes with conditions.

00:30:26.440 And we don't talk about that enough.

00:30:28.600 And I interviewed a guy,

00:30:30.420 a guy like,

00:30:31.000 because a lot of times

00:30:31.780 they'll say,

00:30:32.280 I always see the church community

00:30:33.780 just say,

00:30:34.200 get married young.

00:30:34.960 That's the solution.

00:30:35.920 And it's hard

00:30:36.640 because as a Catholic,

00:30:37.760 I'm like,

00:30:38.040 I think that's better

00:30:39.440 for most people

00:30:40.740 or it would have been

00:30:41.700 if we didn't have a system

00:30:42.820 that's paying women 1.00

00:30:43.720 to be terrible. 0.99

00:30:45.440 Like,

00:30:45.860 I'll give you an example.

00:30:47.000 This guy,

00:30:47.740 he dated,

00:30:49.020 he married a woman

00:30:49.840 and she was so into him,

00:30:51.320 she switched religions for him.

00:30:53.020 So she went from,

00:30:54.300 I don't know,

00:30:54.640 she's Christian or Catholic

00:30:55.720 or something.

00:30:56.240 She became a Muslim.

00:30:57.640 Okay, okay, okay.

00:30:59.540 But I'm saying,

00:31:00.280 so like,

00:31:00.600 this was a girl that like, 0.81

00:31:02.080 you know,

00:31:02.540 he thinks is going to be

00:31:03.540 a good mother,

00:31:04.240 whatever.

00:31:04.960 And she ends up,

00:31:07.040 now he hasn't seen the kid

00:31:08.200 in two and a half years.

00:31:09.420 Wow.

00:31:09.980 And the kid hates him.

00:31:12.120 So, you know,

00:31:12.800 they'll say,

00:31:13.140 well,

00:31:13.360 what about your legacy?

00:31:14.220 How do you have a legacy

00:31:15.120 when the mother 1.00

00:31:16.220 is talking so much shit? 1.00

00:31:18.120 And it's funny 1.00

00:31:18.580 because like the girl

00:31:19.580 that was here before,

00:31:21.040 it was probably her mom 1.00

00:31:22.280 talking shit about her dad 0.99

00:31:23.520 because usually when they, 1.00

00:31:24.780 I don't even say this

00:31:25.820 to like be me.

00:31:27.520 I've just seen

00:31:28.080 the same family dynamic

00:31:29.280 so many times.

00:31:29.920 She was raised by a single mother.

00:31:30.740 She didn't have a father.

00:31:31.520 She had no respect for men.

00:31:33.100 Well, it's either a single mother 1.00

00:31:34.000 or a lot of times

00:31:34.780 I found this just,

00:31:36.640 I don't know,

00:31:37.240 I found this from

00:31:37.820 more traditional cultures

00:31:39.080 where when they come in

00:31:40.040 and they're saying,

00:31:40.560 oh,

00:31:41.080 like it was so awful

00:31:42.120 and evil,

00:31:42.680 a lot of the times

00:31:44.260 it's because the mom

00:31:46.440 was saying how awful

00:31:47.380 and evil it was

00:31:48.220 for her

00:31:48.580 and scaring the daughter.

00:31:50.080 I don't,

00:31:50.440 this is just,

00:31:51.020 it's the same thing.

00:31:52.580 So,

00:31:52.960 well,

00:31:53.260 I don't know.

00:31:54.200 We don't know her circumstances

00:31:55.640 to be fair

00:31:56.540 and sometimes it's the environment.

00:31:59.080 It could be peers,

00:31:59.960 but yes,

00:32:00.660 we hear things in the household

00:32:02.300 and we repeat,

00:32:04.160 like for instance,

00:32:04.880 as you said,

00:32:05.400 Pearl,

00:32:06.120 you know,

00:32:06.440 if a mother,

00:32:07.620 she has so much power 0.99

00:32:08.720 over her children 0.79

00:32:09.520 and regardless

00:32:11.660 of whether the relationship

00:32:12.760 is really,

00:32:13.540 really bad,

00:32:14.240 it's so wrong

00:32:15.000 when we as women 0.65

00:32:15.820 say bad things

00:32:17.160 about the father

00:32:17.820 to the child

00:32:18.460 and I think

00:32:19.640 that's one of the things

00:32:20.480 we should never,

00:32:21.460 ever,

00:32:21.840 ever do

00:32:22.220 and that's the problem.

00:32:23.980 That's where it starts

00:32:24.880 and we complain about men

00:32:26.640 but actually,

00:32:27.820 we are the keepers of men 0.96

00:32:29.040 because we have boys,

00:32:30.960 we are mothers

00:32:31.700 and so,

00:32:32.500 if we grew our boys

00:32:33.760 in a certain way,

00:32:35.200 what a difference

00:32:35.800 it would be.

00:32:37.100 So,

00:32:37.600 what do you think

00:32:38.040 about the other way around?

00:32:39.340 Should a man speak

00:32:40.260 bad in his...

00:32:41.500 How many times

00:32:42.300 do you see that happen?

00:32:42.940 No way,

00:32:43.360 no way.

00:32:43.820 It barely happens

00:32:44.660 to be fair.

00:32:45.460 I've seen it happen

00:32:46.320 in person.

00:32:46.680 That's why I love it.

00:32:48.380 If they do,

00:32:50.540 she's usually... 1.00

00:32:51.620 A demon.

00:32:52.460 Yeah.

00:32:53.800 In this situation,

00:32:55.400 no.

00:32:56.180 Why is grace given

00:32:57.100 to the man though

00:32:58.120 in this instance?

00:32:59.320 I guess,

00:33:00.020 I'll tell you why,

00:33:00.740 I'll tell you why.

00:33:01.580 It's because you just

00:33:02.480 start to see trends.

00:33:03.640 Like,

00:33:03.820 it's just a weird thing

00:33:04.800 that happens

00:33:05.500 when you start to interview

00:33:06.580 like hundreds of hundreds

00:33:07.740 of people.

00:33:08.460 It's like,

00:33:08.700 I can talk to someone

00:33:09.780 and kind of guess

00:33:10.960 their backstory with...

00:33:12.420 I'm not saying

00:33:12.920 I'm always right,

00:33:14.180 but, you know,

00:33:14.900 you just start to see

00:33:15.840 like patterns of behavior.

00:33:17.960 And women just 1.00

00:33:19.080 tend to complain more.

00:33:20.260 We're just kind of 0.78

00:33:20.760 big whiners. 0.53

00:33:21.460 You go to any protests, 0.99

00:33:22.440 it's mostly women. 1.00

00:33:24.220 Now, women love a protest. 1.00

00:33:25.440 They be out of the way.

00:33:26.500 Love an argument.

00:33:27.340 I mean, love an argument.

00:33:28.320 No, but,

00:33:28.860 you know what?

00:33:29.420 I hope we're taking

00:33:30.740 from this, right?

00:33:31.600 It's like,

00:33:31.980 end of the days,

00:33:32.660 men and women

00:33:33.200 need to have

00:33:33.700 better conversations

00:33:34.600 and we speak different

00:33:35.500 and we're different, right?

00:33:36.580 I'm always gonna speak direct.

00:33:38.000 I'm always gonna speak

00:33:38.620 in a way that's probably

00:33:39.220 gonna rub people up the way. 0.59

00:33:40.280 That's because,

00:33:40.960 that's gonna get us

00:33:42.060 to where we need to get to.

00:33:43.020 But at the end of the day,

00:33:43.740 I'm not your enemy.

00:33:44.920 Like, I want the best for...

00:33:46.720 Like, I love women 1.00

00:33:47.520 that don't even know me.

00:33:48.340 Do you know why?

00:33:48.740 Because I'll protect you.

00:33:49.920 And the moment I will do that

00:33:50.980 is because it's just

00:33:51.680 one of those things...

00:33:52.440 Not all men have it. 0.86

00:33:53.780 Not all men have it,

00:33:54.600 but most men do have it.

00:33:56.140 But if a man doesn't have it,

00:33:57.260 you shouldn't...

00:33:58.100 He might not be raised

00:33:59.100 like that to be...

00:34:00.860 Not every single...

00:34:01.840 You can't build a bear.

00:34:02.920 You can't...

00:34:03.280 A lot of women want 1.00

00:34:03.860 emotional men

00:34:04.820 that are gonna speak to them,

00:34:05.960 listen to their day

00:34:06.720 and at the same time

00:34:07.520 when a guy says something

00:34:08.280 and they want him

00:34:08.700 to go and knock him out.

00:34:09.520 It's not...

00:34:09.840 It doesn't work.

00:34:10.560 No, I'm being real.

00:34:12.380 No, you can't just

00:34:13.440 build a bear.

00:34:14.280 You either get guys like me

00:34:16.560 or you get...

00:34:17.280 I like both.

00:34:17.880 No, but I'm saying

00:34:18.360 you might be able

00:34:19.400 to get both, innit?

00:34:20.160 But when you meet

00:34:20.720 a guy like me,

00:34:21.820 this is not aggression.

00:34:22.880 Trust me.

00:34:23.320 I'm not...

00:34:23.920 You are no way

00:34:25.120 in the danger of me.

00:34:25.860 The only thing is

00:34:26.600 what I'm going to say.

00:34:27.960 But we cannot be...

00:34:29.200 Keep tone policing men

00:34:30.400 because what happens

00:34:31.560 is we have to shrink

00:34:32.260 ourself in order

00:34:32.900 to speak to you.

00:34:33.660 Let me be me.

00:34:34.060 And that's wrong.

00:34:34.920 And I will let you be you

00:34:36.260 and then together

00:34:37.600 we can, you know,

00:34:38.560 get...

00:34:38.860 And that's the other thing.

00:34:40.380 Like, we all know

00:34:41.080 how serious

00:34:41.940 an abuse allegation

00:34:43.080 is for a guy.

00:34:43.860 So when we're going

00:34:44.600 around saying,

00:34:45.080 oh, you're being aggressive.

00:34:46.100 You're being aggressive.

00:34:47.160 That's why I react like that.

00:34:47.920 Yeah, it's actually like...

00:34:49.680 It's triggering.

00:34:50.520 I'll be honest.

00:34:51.020 When she said about

00:34:51.580 the black thing, 0.75

00:34:52.220 that hurt me. 0.98

00:34:53.120 That hurt me.

00:34:53.800 Why do you feel

00:34:54.140 I reacted like that?

00:34:54.940 I went...

00:34:55.560 Well, in the clip

00:34:56.740 I was listening.

00:34:57.520 I'm like, if anything,

00:34:58.360 it's like more pro-black.

00:35:00.000 He's saying like

00:35:00.660 the natural hair is good.

00:35:02.320 But again,

00:35:02.900 if it touches on a nerve,

00:35:04.100 you're going to speak

00:35:04.540 from that perspective.

00:35:04.820 I understand that.

00:35:05.860 But to say...

00:35:06.220 She also had natural hair.

00:35:07.380 So she's just speaking

00:35:08.000 on behalf of those

00:35:08.960 who wear the weave 0.99

00:35:10.500 and the wigs.

00:35:11.000 She probably has natural hair 1.00

00:35:11.600 because she hasn't

00:35:12.240 fixed her wig.

00:35:12.960 Yeah.

00:35:14.700 Oh, now you see.

00:35:15.600 Now you see.

00:35:16.240 That's something else now.

00:35:17.860 Okay, guys, guys.

00:35:18.780 I'm going to read

00:35:20.420 Super Chats

00:35:21.980 for a second.

00:35:24.680 She'd be like,

00:35:25.340 let me see your hair.

00:35:25.940 Okay.

00:35:26.740 All right, 46 and 2 says,

00:35:28.620 Joe Biden is the president

00:35:29.760 of the divided states

00:35:30.920 of America,

00:35:31.840 thanks in large part

00:35:32.900 to single mothers

00:35:33.820 and women. 0.98

00:35:34.960 Bonnie Chan...

00:35:36.320 Oh, my gosh.

00:35:36.680 Yeah, no, that's so true.

00:35:37.940 That's so true.

00:35:38.760 That's what, guys,

00:35:39.460 I'll tell you.

00:35:40.100 I'll tell you what

00:35:40.800 was the nail in the coffin

00:35:42.860 for Pearl when I said...

00:35:44.480 Because, you know,

00:35:45.160 the first time I said

00:35:46.100 women shouldn't vote, 1.00

00:35:46.940 I swear it was a joke.

00:35:48.320 I was kidding.

00:35:49.160 I was like,

00:35:49.760 God, we're so emotional.

00:35:50.900 Maybe we should just

00:35:51.680 return our rights.

00:35:52.820 She's prodding.

00:35:53.520 And I was...

00:35:54.240 No, I was...

00:35:54.840 It was a joke at first, right?

00:35:56.860 Then, and then I just

00:35:59.360 started to think about it.

00:36:00.680 I started my divorce documentary.

00:36:02.520 So, guys, if you don't know,

00:36:03.640 I'm doing a documentary

00:36:04.440 on divorce where I wanted

00:36:06.140 to figure out why it was

00:36:07.380 so hard for men

00:36:08.300 to get their children.

00:36:09.280 I was like,

00:36:09.640 this is wrong.

00:36:10.760 And it's especially, like,

00:36:12.540 tugs at my heartstrings

00:36:13.560 because kids are innocent,

00:36:14.860 right?

00:36:15.280 Kids are the most

00:36:16.220 innocent people.

00:36:17.360 Like, they deserve

00:36:18.820 to have a father.

00:36:20.540 And especially being, like,

00:36:22.160 where I'm from,

00:36:23.020 I'm really close with my dad.

00:36:24.280 And I just know the impact

00:36:25.360 that my dad had on me.

00:36:27.120 And I'm like,

00:36:27.980 every kid deserves

00:36:29.100 to grow up with a father.

00:36:30.880 And so I started, you know,

00:36:32.560 researching and looking

00:36:33.700 more and more and more.

00:36:34.860 And I started to ask, like,

00:36:35.800 the men's rights activists,

00:36:37.040 which are men and women

00:36:38.540 that have been fighting

00:36:39.300 for men to have equal rights

00:36:40.860 in court

00:36:41.400 and in the legal system

00:36:42.740 for years.

00:36:43.220 But I've had made

00:36:43.880 little to no progress.

00:36:45.140 And they told me,

00:36:45.820 they said,

00:36:47.440 it is very difficult

00:36:49.180 to pass anything

00:36:50.320 because all the politicians

00:36:51.800 cannot get elected

00:36:52.860 unless they cater to women. 0.99

00:36:54.500 So passing these policies

00:36:56.140 would be a death sentence

00:36:57.400 to their career.

00:36:58.860 And I just went to think about it

00:37:00.200 and I just thought,

00:37:00.880 how is that fair

00:37:01.740 when men do all of the work? 1.00

00:37:03.940 I don't think it's fair.

00:37:05.660 And I think now

00:37:06.500 the kids are the one

00:37:07.400 who suffers,

00:37:08.320 which really brings me

00:37:09.780 these women on my couches 1.00

00:37:11.060 that I have to kick out 0.74

00:37:11.980 because most of them

00:37:12.840 were raised by single mothers.

00:37:14.960 So I really was looking out

00:37:16.220 for myself.

00:37:17.000 I was like,

00:37:17.420 maybe the couches

00:37:18.280 could be a little more,

00:37:19.420 a little more.

00:37:20.340 You know, I like,

00:37:20.900 see, I like this vibe,

00:37:21.960 you know,

00:37:22.260 it's a little better.

00:37:24.760 Okay, Dr. David Baker,

00:37:26.480 according to the American Journal

00:37:27.900 of Public Health,

00:37:29.000 49.7% of domestic violence

00:37:31.320 is reciprocal.

00:37:33.080 And 70%,

00:37:34.360 listen to this,

00:37:35.280 70% of non-reciprocal violence

00:37:37.680 was inflicted by the woman.

00:37:39.220 Meanwhile,

00:37:42.020 men are twice as likely

00:37:43.660 to be a victim

00:37:44.480 of street violence.

00:37:45.960 So actually,

00:37:46.940 when we look at domestic violence

00:37:48.360 that's one-sided,

00:37:50.280 the women are more likely 1.00

00:37:51.760 to do it than the men.

00:37:53.340 Most of the time, 1.00

00:37:54.240 they're beating the shit 0.98

00:37:54.920 out of each other. 0.94

00:37:55.580 That's what Erin Pizzi

00:37:56.340 will tell you.

00:37:56.920 And she started the first

00:37:57.900 domestic abuse center

00:37:59.920 and worked in domestic abuse

00:38:01.200 for like 20, 30 years.

00:38:02.660 Okay,

00:38:03.240 Dragon Stanley on 1001.

00:38:05.080 Woman on the couch,

00:38:05.960 if a woman is hating a guy 1.00

00:38:08.860 and the man...

00:38:09.420 As many of you know,

00:38:10.380 I was just banned on TikTok

00:38:12.440 and we are demonetized

00:38:14.160 on a daily basis

00:38:15.380 on this platform.

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JustPearlyThings - October 14, 2023

These Stats PROVED Modern Women Are The Problem in Modern Society

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