JustPearlyThings - These Young Women Get SCHOOLED for Being Clueless About What Men Want

00:00:00.000 if a man who's five foot two looks like a bowling ball you know it's like it's smelly and all of 1.00

00:00:05.860 that if he walks up to you you're not gonna give him the time of day you feel me so you want a

00:00:10.160 certain type of man okay right and whatever your standards are understand that certain type of man

00:00:17.280 he's gonna look for a certain type of woman and i'm so sorry to tell you this and i hope i don't

00:00:24.140 get cancelled for this but usually women over 35 they ain't the type of man they're looking for 1.00

00:00:28.760 sorry they're not the type of woman they're looking for you feel me so do you honestly

00:00:32.820 believe when you get parts sorry how old are you i'm 26 26 you've lived 26 years of your life

00:00:39.240 already you feel me do you honestly and you know how long 26 years are you know because you've lived

00:00:44.860 26 years you feel me when you get to that 50 you're gonna live up to that 75 80 do you honestly believe

00:00:52.340 that time by yourself is going to be an enjoyable time um so yeah so i want to bring up a couple

00:00:57.960 of points that you mentioned so first things first like i don't want to bring kids into this

00:01:01.600 world with the intention of having somebody to take care of me okay so wait wait that's not why

00:01:09.380 you have children um the second point that i want to make is that i happen to live in one of the

00:01:16.380 greatest generations that ever exists where if for whatever reason i didn't have children and i

00:01:21.660 wasn't able to leave my bed i can just take out my phone and amazon whatever i need

00:01:27.520 oh stop it what did i want amazon and amazon it doesn't stop stop stop everyone you can't go out

00:01:36.000 at the same time don't you don't you think that's lonely no no you guys really lack community like

00:01:41.680 and i'm not saying like you specifically i'm saying like i i'm able to find so much satisfaction and joy

00:01:47.640 and peace and goodness and and fulfillment in in my friends and and my other relationships i think

00:01:53.100 that's easy as a young woman i think the point he's making is the world treats you different after

00:01:57.100 like 45 or 50 i believe that i've seen that happen yeah so as a young woman like you're treated better

00:02:02.440 by the world and so because you're young you're attractive you're pretty and so and so it's like

00:02:08.240 you're gonna hit 45 50 the world's gonna look at you different you start to be treated like a man

00:02:12.300 no i'm i'm serious there's i'm already bald i'm halfway there the moment mandem stop buying you

00:02:19.400 drinks you're gonna see the world differently it's done you're going to the club right now

00:02:23.400 and man was like oh can i buy you a drink oh you're so beautiful and all that kind of stuff

00:02:28.020 listen the moment you hit 35 that's gonna stop

00:02:31.260 can someone like stop him like this is like what is this man saying i love the i'm speaking reality

00:02:40.080 what i love the the concept of what's your what's your issue with what he's saying everything

00:02:46.360 okay he's first of all he's being so heteronormative like the like these are a lot of assumptions

00:02:51.320 that he's making right now what is what is hetero i don't know what that means

00:02:54.680 heteronormative is just making making an assumption that someone is heterosexual first of all so

00:02:59.540 as your this entire line this whole monologue he's doing is assuming that she's only interested

00:03:05.600 in men and that she's only interested in what a man wants or what a man could see in her i mean i 0.74

00:03:12.480 think that's not that's like that's that's just not what life is like i i mean i'm not gonna it's

00:03:18.060 like not just you're just making a lot of assumptions and running down the street with them and

00:03:22.480 i understand the logic behind where he's coming from like i'm not saying that he's being like he's

00:03:27.920 being illogical but because he's basing all of his from my perspective a lot of where your sounding

00:03:34.800 board of information is is your foundation is heteronormativity misogyny and the fact that like

00:03:42.200 so what and it's just not it's just not in alignment okay wait it's just not in alignment with where i

00:03:47.760 where i find my foundation so i'm like pushing back on the opinions that he has so heteronormative i i still

00:03:54.600 think it would be sad if you're a single lesbian woman so like i like i think like personally 1.00

00:04:00.600 well like we're also like making assumptions that she's single she didn't say that she just said that 0.99

00:04:04.940 she doesn't want to have children or yeah oh fair enough but like this like whole conversation was

00:04:10.020 under the perspective of whether or not she would be happy without having children and then the second

00:04:14.260 the second yeah i mean it's a it's a valid question i think yeah your answer could be i would

00:04:19.160 be perfectly happy but i just which is what she said over and over and over again and he's trying

00:04:23.600 to like break down why she's wrong and all these possible scenarios i mean i think he's just putting

00:04:28.460 out points that maybe she didn't think about and maybe she has and maybe like but i think that's

00:04:33.080 what we're supposed to do on a podcast no fair enough and i'm and i'm exploring the idea that i think

00:04:37.420 he's wrong okay so what can i just clarify quick wait wait so so what do you what do you think

00:04:42.400 uh what what is it that he said misogynistic i think that like making the the assumption that

00:04:48.200 like her the prospects of her life her future happiness is based upon whether or not a man 0.56

00:04:54.700 and objectively a man would find her attractive after the age of like what 35 that he said for me is

00:05:01.060 like is like is misogynist oh i think that's true i don't this i don't that's i think that's your

00:05:08.280 opinion yeah i mean i think it's true i think most women aren't happy that are that are single 0.77

00:05:13.000 childless over the age of like 45 they're the least happy demographic i that's interesting that's

00:05:18.080 interesting i just i just could not get behind that i was asking if you have statistics on that

00:05:22.700 really yeah there's like multiple stuff what about single black women 1.00

00:05:26.040 you have statistics all about black women like because like i feel like and i the only reason i'm asking 1.00

00:05:32.160 this is because i feel like we like black women from my perspective again i'm only speaking from 0.68

00:05:38.080 my perspective we are very we have such a strong like sense of community that like i i just we

00:05:46.540 don't have i just feel like our our culture is different so those types of statistics i think

00:05:52.280 aren't going to be applicable across i think what like what it would be black women i must say 1.00

00:05:57.420 i think it's applicable very genetically and biologically very very i think i think biologically

00:06:02.360 can i just say one thing real quick right understand people like i'm five foot six

00:06:07.660 give or take half an inch in it so like at the end of the day my entire life i have felt the

00:06:15.020 effects of not being the societal standard of what women expect to you feel me so at the end of the

00:06:21.580 day like for example i'm a man like i can either cry about it and be like oh no women don't like me

00:06:27.560 because i'm sure whatever or i can do something about it for for example for me personally i started

00:06:33.360 boxing you feel me so like i started boxing and i tried to show that you know what i'm on the shorter

00:06:38.880 side of things but i can still protect you do you get it and like at the end of the day life throws

00:06:45.120 certain things at you and you just kind of have to deal with it now as a woman there are certain

00:06:50.560 things and i'm so sorry to tell you this but there are certain things you can do that can completely

00:06:56.400 ruin it for you for example if you're a woman and you have only fans i'm sorry but i'm not going to

00:07:02.960 take you seriously that's your do you get it here's the thing here's the thing look look understand i'm

00:07:09.040 an average man i'm not a rich guy or anything like that but i can tell you right now a millionaire

00:07:14.240 if he's looking at you and he knows you got only fans he's not going to take you seriously

00:07:18.160 because there's certain things us mandem look for you feel me nah that i'm curious any any guys any of

00:07:25.040 you take an only fans model seriously no way no no no i've not but you know what like don't say

00:07:33.680 what girl you want to make um sorry go ahead so so no guys here so go ahead no so personally i think

00:07:49.760 you can always argue like like people would never take them seriously and your value goes down

00:07:54.880 but it depends what kind of value you're looking at so like their financial value goes up their

00:08:00.240 sexual value goes up no yeah well in terms of women sexual value no can i just quickly clarify

00:08:08.560 how does their sexual value go up once people see you've got only fans there's always going to be

00:08:13.600 people in public they'll say no i'd never be with someone from any fans but check their dms now most

00:08:18.640 to be there for a night yeah but check their dms and you'll see okay okay okay i'll give you an

00:08:24.880 example like look look look at lana rhodes she can't even keep a man she used to be my favorite 1.00

00:08:33.520 that's one person from that's i know but that's like what one of the most i would argue one of the

00:08:39.040 most i would argue one of the most beautiful women i mean i don't know i don't i'm not a consumer of that

00:08:44.000 but is that part of because i feel like it changes across the demographic obviously that's someone

00:08:50.880 that we've looked at from a different one but there's people like you i'm not sure if any of

00:08:55.200 you have heard of ruby rose someone else yeah but there's people and people look at her and still be 0.95

00:09:00.000 like that's still a no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no

00:09:04.400 she's got only fans she's got only fans so that's what i said her sex her sexual value went up 1.00

00:09:09.040 but you'd still smash i didn't say you'd want to be in a relationship with her but i said

00:09:12.400 yeah yeah wait so your your sexual value but your relationship like what guys gonna

00:09:17.280 take you serious after that but then some people might i think no no no no i'm sorry i mean i mean

00:09:22.160 i can't argue for everyone i mean wait wait and i mean i i mean a simp a simp might

00:09:27.600 i know yeah see but see this is simp culture people are gonna be like ah do you know what you're

00:09:32.880 only fans i see you can i just mention one thing real quick that's part of the decay of society can i just

00:09:39.120 say real quick that and this is majority of women i need to understand this right mandem we have two 1.00

00:09:45.520 separate categories right we have one category which is for fun and then there's the one category that

00:09:52.080 is for seriousness you feel me now understand when you see all these insta hoes sorry can i say hoes 1.00

00:09:58.320 that that insta hoes and all that that who are you know dressing up in their bikini and all of that 1.00

00:10:03.440 that's us mandem like just enjoying a woman who's being you know showing off her body and all of

00:10:09.920 that but that's a separate category us mandem when we want to take someone seriously we're looking at

00:10:16.080 different things and that's not usually the whole things that majority of women are showing off these 1.00

00:10:21.920 days do you understand there's two different categories there's the fun category and the

00:10:25.840 relationship okay what were you going to see your hand up first oh yeah i was just going to ask like so

00:10:30.560 would you guys okay so we were talking about like the millionaire wouldn't take the only fan seriously

00:10:35.840 and um most people say like in order to become a millionaire you have to have at least six streams

00:10:40.000 of income so would you guys genuinely in in a relationship or even like as a married couple would

00:10:46.240 you guys pass off an opportunity for a stream of income if your wife was inviting you to create the 0.72

00:10:52.560 only fans content with you absolutely absolutely absolutely i pass all the way up i pass all the

00:10:58.160 way the question i would like i would want my wife putting out her body but you're making it with 1.00

00:11:03.040 her it's yeah it doesn't matter i wouldn't i i wouldn't sell that to anyone would anyone screw their 0.96

00:11:06.960 wife on camera for only fans it's sexual stuff anyone raise your hand raise your hand yeah anyone would do it 0.72

00:11:13.040 anyone no thank you i would take i would take three jobs night day shift right but what is nice you

00:11:21.200 didn't have to show your face to make sure that right i wouldn't have to do that that's assuming

00:11:25.600 someone seven days a week six months it's a creepy culture man it's a creepy culture guys guys guys guys

00:11:33.360 guys guys guys guys stop stop this is one at a time one at a time okay go ahead uh to add to the um

00:11:41.520 um women staying single and lonely after 35 there's a study that says that um women in this

00:11:50.640 generation after they reach 35 plus they're going to i think it's going to be like what half of the

00:11:57.120 women they're going to be single and it's women women actually it's 50 50 you got to stop you don't 0.99

00:12:03.120 have a mic like you got one more chance yeah we have to go out so so it's 20 or um 50 of women 1.00

00:12:11.040 or 45 percent of women between the ages of 25 and 45 are predicted to be single and childless so

00:12:15.920 much so that big investors are so that means out of out of all of us half of us will be single and

00:12:20.720 childless um the one right there um and and basically um so much so that like places like morgan stanley

00:12:33.120 are investing in things like wine cat food and and anything and anything that like all the marketing

00:12:39.920 campaigns are like convincing women that they could be young forever so any marketing campaign that's

00:12:44.400 basically convincing women that like like that what is it ageism like you're beautiful even at 50 it's

00:12:49.760 like come on come on i'm sorry can i just say something real quick listen like i really don't

00:12:58.320 understand i'm gonna sound so misogynistic right now i'm so sorry about this but like i really don't

00:13:03.840 understand women these days like it is so clear that there's someone i'm not saying it's the government 0.93

00:13:11.360 or illuminati whatever in it but there's something going on where people are just trying to push women 1.00

00:13:16.560 into this industry where you're gonna have to work you're gonna have to be this boss bitch or whatever 1.00

00:13:21.600 and like understand this the only people that have changed since 1950 are the women you feel me

00:13:29.200 like mandem i'm gonna keep it real with you right now and ladies on the panel take this in this game 0.65

00:13:35.760 mandem really appreciate traditional things you feel me like no i'm sorry to bring it to myself but my

00:13:42.640 girl is very traditional and the reason i am so faithful to her is because she is traditional you feel

00:13:48.000 like what but you know it all comes with submissiveness and all of that like i'm sorry to

00:13:54.640 try okay okay okay okay okay okay i'm gonna i'm gonna let you go and then i'm excited to hear what

00:14:02.400 you have to say and then we'll get to okay start with you i've got three points to make okay one know

00:14:07.680 your your category and where you sit as a woman we all when all of us are different we all require

00:14:12.880 different things we all like different things so we like a different type of man um two

00:14:18.000 you said no we all like to say ben

00:14:23.360 when i say that i mean you know physicality preference for example i like black men that's

00:14:29.280 my preference a lot of women so you know no i know but that's a lot of what i'm saying is we all know 0.91

00:14:34.560 the reality is we all we we all don't like exactly the same things maybe in in if you want to be

00:14:40.480 generalists yeah anyway okay okay cool cool cool second of all i just wanted to say on the back of

00:14:47.120 what you said um and what pearl said can everybody acknowledge there's less women than men in the

00:14:52.640 world anyway so there's more women i believe there's more sorry the other way around sorry i meant to say

00:14:57.840 that we're on yeah so there's more women than men in the world anyway so there's going to be more 1.00

00:15:01.920 single women it's going to be that way because there is less men in um yeah less men in the world 0.99

00:15:08.240 um if you want to have certain requirements as a woman you either have to be of a certain standard 0.91

00:15:15.840 yourself and i mean when i mean standard i mean the way you carry yourself you know if your body is

00:15:21.760 what you lead with then that's what men just look at you as a physical object and they will exploit 0.99

00:15:27.200 that because that's what men do and not all men but if you're going to advertise your body that's

00:15:33.360 what men are going to look at and if you want you know a lot of women they will do only fans and that 0.92

00:15:38.400 kind of thing and then when they get to an age where they're no longer relevant younger girls are 1.00

00:15:43.840 coming up better than them now they're going to change then they want to turn around and say thank

00:15:47.840 god oh please you know take me now and the problem is the problem is with that when you want them to

00:15:54.880 take you you've already surpassed your most i don't want to say prime it's not about fertile it's not

00:16:01.520 but you've passed your prime your prime and it's natural that's the only thing that's changed that

00:16:06.880 for us is plastic surgery makeup um and so societal standards overall and it's not everybody but

00:16:14.560 realistically you have to look at back in the day there was no photoshop everyone didn't couldn't buy

00:16:20.320 makeup everyone couldn't change their hair every week you know you had a role to play

00:16:24.800 and if you're not willing to play your role no matter how big or small you think it is it adds up

00:16:30.800 it adds up that's it can i say something no it's her turn um so my turn yeah you said you had something

00:16:37.600 you seemed like you wanted to talk to you i have so many things okay go ahead but it seems like i mean

00:16:42.000 i'll i'll yield like someone you'll yeah someone i think you i think you were next and then you can go

00:16:46.560 okay you had something before you were raising your hand oh yeah um wait what was the original

00:16:53.360 question sorry okay now you can go you can go i don't i don't really understand what's the um what's

00:16:59.280 the push for women to shame men for their standards like if men don't want women above 35 so what

00:17:06.720 yeah i don't it's not it's not it's not shaming it's like if i don't a woman to be fat am i fat

00:17:13.280 shaming like i don't understand this it's like women can say they want men who are six foot i think 0.76

00:17:19.840 there's a difference and they want a washboard abs and all this and you don't see men on the streets

00:17:24.560 crying that they they're being you know where's the the short short man positivity i'm sorry can i

00:17:35.520 speak on that everything is misogyny everything is i don't think that that's true i don't think

00:17:42.160 that's true take this in as a entitled to having their own like no one's no one's going on you for

00:17:47.760 having so i think i think i think i think wait i think that's i think that's easy from like a woman's

00:17:52.400 point of view um because a lot of times like we don't notice it but it's like every time a man has

00:17:57.120 standards there's always a woman shaming him for having them so like for example when a guy says 1.00

00:18:01.280 i don't like i don't like fat chicks that like then all of a sudden he's fat phobic if he says if he

00:18:06.480 says i don't i don't like sluts then like they have then they have the slut walk if he says that i don't 1.00

00:18:11.520 like um yeah but like every every time that a man has standards he's shamed for it i don't but i don't

00:18:17.360 think that's quote unquote a standard i think that's like that like the way the way i'm

00:18:22.000 interpreting what you just said is and maybe it may not be in the way that you that you mean

00:18:27.280 but when someone's saying i don't like fat chicks like that to me is fat shaming no obviously 1.00

00:18:32.880 but if i say but if i say i don't i don't like to date fine fine i don't like to date fat chicks that's 1.00

00:18:39.360 that's how wait i i said i don't like to date fat chicks but i can say on air i don't like to date 1.00

00:18:44.560 short men i'm six foot if a guy's significantly shorter than me i'm just not going to go for it

00:18:49.520 but as i said we're allowed to have preferences women are but men no no men are but the thing

00:18:55.120 the different no no this is the problem and i'll tell you what the problem is social media has given

00:19:00.000 people a voice at echo chamber remember if there was no socials you wouldn't really be hearing about

00:19:05.040 it you would have to accept your fate as a man and live and walk through it without this echo chamber

00:19:10.160 like the podcast right now because there's been a nature that's i don't know being bestowed upon us with

00:19:17.280 technology we're constantly hearing men have to have this men have to have that and the reality is

00:19:23.440 they actually they don't they don't actually have to have it yeah because the reason why they don't

00:19:28.880 have to have it is because if they're the provider in the relationship they have the power to to execute

00:19:35.920 the woman out of the relationship if they want to if they're willing to lose half of their property 1.00

00:19:41.280 wait wait wait no no no hang on hang on do you think it's really that easy to be a man and be able

00:19:46.160 to provide like yeah no no wait wait so i'm sorry i'm sorry but take this in right yeah once again

00:19:52.320 i'm a five foot six man give or take half an inch right majority of my life women have told me to my 0.90

00:19:58.400 face yo hey you know what i find you attractive your vibe is cool but you know what just a little bit too

00:20:04.160 true you feel me that me as a man i can't cry about you feel me yeah i go out it's cool

00:20:11.840 you know what i've actually been learning recently is that you can um survive off of one income in

00:20:17.600 places like the uk and then the us um i talked to someone that raised 10 foster kids off of 10 000

00:20:23.840 per year and she still maintains that income but the problem is women um spend frivolously and they 1.00

00:20:28.880 don't want that to go down in lifestyle for a family typically and i have data 10k per year

00:20:35.760 one person in the house no 10 people in the house i could i could like think about it if you know yeah

00:20:48.800 she yeah you you move outside of the country and the guy won't run like goes to the city yeah

00:20:54.000 yeah i just wanted to say to you because you know i understand your pain for what you're talking

00:21:00.000 about your experience right but you're living proof you have a partner that respects you you have a

00:21:04.720 higher quality partner than a lot of these six foot plus guys yes or no yes or no but here's the thing

00:21:10.720 i have been extremely lucky and here's the thing i know my girls watching this shout out to you babe innit 1.00

00:21:16.480 here's the thing you're you're saying it's luck it's not luck because you're the man and you've

00:21:21.520 persevered through the obstacles in your life but i think but i think that's i think that's easy to

00:21:26.640 say like modern women have ridiculous standards yeah yeah women women always want an above average 1.00

00:21:31.520 man even if they're average women yeah yeah i understand but this young this guy here young man

00:21:38.000 here this gentleman here he's he's he's told us he's below average height he told us that he was

00:21:44.080 willing to go and learn boxing he's told us he's got a woman that is better than a lot of the women 0.99

00:21:50.000 that maybe come on this podcast may be better than me i don't know her but she may be she's better 0.69

00:21:56.480 than these average women that we're talking about the modern woman she's better than the modern woman 1.00

00:22:01.040 yes or no but i understand yes or no no she is but understand at that there's a probability versus

00:22:07.760 possibility in it yeah i'm that one percent a man who managed to somehow find one girl no no no no but

00:22:14.480 but as a man why are you watching up what other men are doing you i don't care what other men are

00:22:21.040 you fulfilled your position he's got a different goal he's got a different goal he's you've got a

00:22:26.320 partner no yeah are you happy with your partner yeah okay have you got a partner no no you haven't got

00:22:34.240 a partner have you got a partner have you got a partner are you happy with your partner yeah so

00:22:39.040 this means no wait wait yeah so there's how many men five six five yeah well which is which is fine

00:22:46.400 but if they get married the women still leave 70 to 80 percent of the time 90 percent of their college 1.00

00:22:51.200 educated so so wait wait wait don't cut me don't cut me off yeah yeah if women still leave 70 to 80 percent 1.00

00:22:57.920 of the time 90 percent of their college educated so he could he could get that traditional girl but 1.00

00:23:02.160 that doesn't mean she won't leave him later yeah but that's a that's a probability that's a risk

00:23:06.720 that's a yeah that's a problem that's a that's so it's luck no no which goes back but like i think

00:23:12.560 that's just not like i just try to empathize with men because if i if i as a woman was going into

00:23:18.000 marriage knowing that i was going to be left 70 to 80 percent of the time 90 if i get a college educated

00:23:23.760 guy shit i probably would say marriage too women i'm living in mass please please understand this 0.61

00:23:33.280 right i'm in a very unique situation my girl was muslim yeah you get it so she's got a different

00:23:38.480 like type of mindset when it comes to life in it majority of mandem and the reason i'm speaking on

00:23:44.080 this podcast right now is for the majority of mandem i'm lucky i'm good but majority of mandem are not

00:23:49.680 and how many how many girls did you have to go through until you got oh don't even get me started

00:23:57.120 so how many how many bad bad girls did you have to date before you found the one oh my listen this

00:24:02.720 is this is not that i could i could stay okay okay just just give me numbers 15 okay more than in the

00:24:10.400 mid-20s range you get me yeah until i found one girl who was literally traditional and to the point

00:24:17.680 but i can be like you know what i can take you serious you feel me yeah so how old are you sorry

00:24:21.920 i'm 27 years old you're 27 you went through 15 girls to find the girl that you require right so

00:24:29.360 you are you are from what you've said you are the pinnacle you are the pinnacle you're sure yeah you

00:24:36.080 did boxing you built your masculinity in a way you got the girl that you desire you got the girl that you

00:24:41.280 need for now no no but for for now for now god only no no no no no i don't i don't i don't think

00:24:47.840 but i don't think you understand like like like because men never know if a girl's just gonna up and

00:24:52.640 leave and i just don't like i don't think i think to dismiss it and say oh well you have you're in a

00:24:57.440 interrelate i mean kind of like you're in a you're in a happy relationship now it's like even even if it

00:25:02.880 goes to the distance and he gets married like 70 to 80 chance she's yeah but is that how you live your life

00:25:09.680 do you live your life like that you've got to live a reality the reality is you're in a relationship

00:25:14.800 you like your relationship you love your relationship you're willing to work on your

00:25:18.240 relationship you have a good woman so you don't look at your relationship and say oh it might fail

00:25:23.600 so i'm gonna just stop planning i do do you get what i'm saying because like i said at the start the

00:25:28.880 relationship sorry at the start of the podcast i said yo man's got three youtube channels i'm working

00:25:33.840 very hard yeah to get myself into a position where i can make enough money to have a good

00:25:39.520 family and all that kind of but sorry but at the end of the day like i'm taking a risk here

00:25:47.120 you feel me that's life life is a risk you walk outside you might get hit by a bus okay okay okay okay

00:25:54.720 but but it's easy to say that it's it's very easy to say that as a woman oh life's risk or whatever

00:26:01.520 yeah but you're not the one that could potentially sign up to lose in the uk it's up to 70 of your

00:26:08.080 shit you could work for 20 30 years be 50 years old she takes 70 of your shit and the kids i agree but 0.81

00:26:15.760 then then you follow it and say well life is about risk you can't just be afraid i'm like well if you if

00:26:21.280 i was at a 50 chance that she can leave me and take the kids yeah and and a lot of guys have taken the 1.00

00:26:27.120 risk and they've bared the brunt of that but at this point what you're saying is okay get into new

00:26:33.520 relationships don't try that's not what this is what this is as a generalist statement yeah we know

00:26:40.880 there's risk i'm aware of the risk i can see it's unfair for men but as a man as a woman you must put

00:26:48.160 in effort if you're not putting in effort if you see your partner no no no wait wait i know you're

00:26:53.040 getting angry but the reality i'm not angry but you know i'm i'm saying things that people might say

00:26:58.880 it's contradictory i'm not a man i don't have to live in your shoes i only observe it and i've as

00:27:04.320 i said many times on this show i've had the benefits of what men bring to my table and nobody else can

00:27:10.640 bring them to my table but here's the thing no i'll ask a quick question yeah it's like okay imagine you

00:27:16.880 are a man and really really and truly imagining yourself because you're a woman right and like you

00:27:22.640 know all respect to that you're an attractive woman right so your entire life you've probably lived 0.99

00:27:27.760 your life mandem come up to you like hey what are you saying girl would you get it like you've lived

00:27:32.240 that life now imagine you are a man right and let's say you are at a disadvantage let's say you are

00:27:38.960 five foot two and you're fat you feel me you're not going to get no attention from girls so you're

00:27:43.920 going to have to put in all that work to become someone yeah that is even worthy of attention not a

00:27:52.160 relationship not bedroom fun yeah attention yeah and that you get it i mean there is there is a girl

00:27:58.320 that pretended to be a man like she was like a feminist and she she dressed up like she basically 1.00

00:28:03.440 dressed up as a man for like three years and she killed herself because she couldn't believe how

00:28:09.040 people treat men well she actually got euthanasia but yeah that's a person yeah but she went and got

00:28:14.720 euthanasia that's different she didn't jump in front of me i mean come on man is that is that wait

00:28:20.240 wait wait wait wait wait wait how is it how is it different did she not did she not sign up to kill

00:28:24.320 herself yeah she had somebody she had somebody kill her because she wasn't okay okay okay okay we're

00:28:32.160 gonna oh gosh okay okay okay we're gonna we're gonna move on from this um okay so question for the men for

00:28:39.520 the men um have you ever dated someone with bad spending habits and is that something you look

00:28:46.560 for and when you're considering taking someone seriously so let's start on this this side of

00:28:51.600 the room and go around uh yeah i think that a lot of what i'm hearing right now is i'm obviously 35

00:28:57.680 years old so i've kind of been doing the 25 year old 26 27 all the way to the point where i was like

00:29:02.720 something's gonna give with this i used to go out i used to do the cars the clothes the this the that

00:29:07.440 um and i mean those girls that are chasing that sort of stuff i mean it was it was fun for the

00:29:13.360 while when we were doing it do you know i mean it was those nights was crazy you were fam you see

00:29:17.680 man out there doing that big yeah all right cool but then when the lights come on and you're sitting

00:29:22.720 at home with your hangover and your pockets are empty you start going to yourself oh what the

00:29:26.720 did i do that for like you see what i'm saying so enough of that and then all of a sudden you start

00:29:31.040 checking yourself and obviously for guys women can heavily influence that like going out of your 1.00

00:29:36.000 home is just splitting bills everybody's buying balls everybody's doing their thing but when you

00:29:39.440 have pretty girls especially pretty girls or other guys in the club who are flashing cash or trying to 0.99

00:29:43.680 attract as well you know it's it's tiring man and i think that a lot of people even a lot of guys who

00:29:49.600 make a lot of money will turn around and would say that they would prefer to have somebody that they

00:29:53.920 could take that money with and go on holiday or or buy things for their house or there's so many other

00:29:59.040 ways and other places to spend that sort of cash so i had to knock that one on the head um me and my

00:30:04.640 girlfriend like to cook more now bottle of wine nice movie do you know what i mean and it's cool

00:30:10.720 i wake up saturday morning i'm like ah i'm alive you know okay what about you is spending habits

00:30:18.560 something you look at um when looking at a girl for a relationship so i was predominantly raised by my mom

00:30:25.200 so i feel like i always i'm not sure i don't i'm not saying it's a good thing but i always look at my

00:30:30.400 mom's example and what she did and what she does in terms of her example and sex for me and i always

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JustPearlyThings - November 24, 2023

These Young Women Get SCHOOLED for Being Clueless About What Men Want

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