These Young Women Get SCHOOLED for Being Clueless About What Men Want
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In this episode, we discuss what it means to be a lesbian woman in the 21st century and the challenges that come with being a lesbian in our society. We discuss the pressures that society puts on lesbian women to have children, and how to deal with it.
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if a man who's five foot two looks like a bowling ball you know it's like it's smelly and all of
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that if he walks up to you you're not gonna give him the time of day you feel me so you want a
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certain type of man okay right and whatever your standards are understand that certain type of man
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he's gonna look for a certain type of woman and i'm so sorry to tell you this and i hope i don't
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get cancelled for this but usually women over 35 they ain't the type of man they're looking for
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sorry they're not the type of woman they're looking for you feel me so do you honestly
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believe when you get parts sorry how old are you i'm 26 26 you've lived 26 years of your life
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already you feel me do you honestly and you know how long 26 years are you know because you've lived
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26 years you feel me when you get to that 50 you're gonna live up to that 75 80 do you honestly believe
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that time by yourself is going to be an enjoyable time um so yeah so i want to bring up a couple
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of points that you mentioned so first things first like i don't want to bring kids into this
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world with the intention of having somebody to take care of me okay so wait wait that's not why
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you have children um the second point that i want to make is that i happen to live in one of the
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greatest generations that ever exists where if for whatever reason i didn't have children and i
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wasn't able to leave my bed i can just take out my phone and amazon whatever i need
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oh stop it what did i want amazon and amazon it doesn't stop stop stop everyone you can't go out
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at the same time don't you don't you think that's lonely no no you guys really lack community like
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and i'm not saying like you specifically i'm saying like i i'm able to find so much satisfaction and joy
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and peace and goodness and and fulfillment in in my friends and and my other relationships i think
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that's easy as a young woman i think the point he's making is the world treats you different after
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like 45 or 50 i believe that i've seen that happen yeah so as a young woman like you're treated better
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by the world and so because you're young you're attractive you're pretty and so and so it's like
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you're gonna hit 45 50 the world's gonna look at you different you start to be treated like a man
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no i'm i'm serious there's i'm already bald i'm halfway there the moment mandem stop buying you
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drinks you're gonna see the world differently it's done you're going to the club right now
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and man was like oh can i buy you a drink oh you're so beautiful and all that kind of stuff
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can someone like stop him like this is like what is this man saying i love the i'm speaking reality
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what i love the the concept of what's your what's your issue with what he's saying everything
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okay he's first of all he's being so heteronormative like the like these are a lot of assumptions
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that he's making right now what is what is hetero i don't know what that means
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heteronormative is just making making an assumption that someone is heterosexual first of all so
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as your this entire line this whole monologue he's doing is assuming that she's only interested
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in men and that she's only interested in what a man wants or what a man could see in her i mean i
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think that's not that's like that's that's just not what life is like i i mean i'm not gonna it's
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like not just you're just making a lot of assumptions and running down the street with them and
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i understand the logic behind where he's coming from like i'm not saying that he's being like he's
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being illogical but because he's basing all of his from my perspective a lot of where your sounding
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board of information is is your foundation is heteronormativity misogyny and the fact that like
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so what and it's just not it's just not in alignment okay wait it's just not in alignment with where i
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where i find my foundation so i'm like pushing back on the opinions that he has so heteronormative i i still
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think it would be sad if you're a single lesbian woman so like i like i think like personally
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well like we're also like making assumptions that she's single she didn't say that she just said that
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she doesn't want to have children or yeah oh fair enough but like this like whole conversation was
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under the perspective of whether or not she would be happy without having children and then the second
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the second yeah i mean it's a it's a valid question i think yeah your answer could be i would
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be perfectly happy but i just which is what she said over and over and over again and he's trying
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to like break down why she's wrong and all these possible scenarios i mean i think he's just putting
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out points that maybe she didn't think about and maybe she has and maybe like but i think that's
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what we're supposed to do on a podcast no fair enough and i'm and i'm exploring the idea that i think
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he's wrong okay so what can i just clarify quick wait wait so so what do you what do you think
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uh what what is it that he said misogynistic i think that like making the the assumption that
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like her the prospects of her life her future happiness is based upon whether or not a man
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and objectively a man would find her attractive after the age of like what 35 that he said for me is
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like is like is misogynist oh i think that's true i don't this i don't that's i think that's your
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opinion yeah i mean i think it's true i think most women aren't happy that are that are single
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childless over the age of like 45 they're the least happy demographic i that's interesting that's
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interesting i just i just could not get behind that i was asking if you have statistics on that
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really yeah there's like multiple stuff what about single black women
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you have statistics all about black women like because like i feel like and i the only reason i'm asking
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this is because i feel like we like black women from my perspective again i'm only speaking from
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my perspective we are very we have such a strong like sense of community that like i i just we
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don't have i just feel like our our culture is different so those types of statistics i think
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aren't going to be applicable across i think what like what it would be black women i must say
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i think it's applicable very genetically and biologically very very i think i think biologically
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can i just say one thing real quick right understand people like i'm five foot six
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give or take half an inch in it so like at the end of the day my entire life i have felt the
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effects of not being the societal standard of what women expect to you feel me so at the end of the
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day like for example i'm a man like i can either cry about it and be like oh no women don't like me
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because i'm sure whatever or i can do something about it for for example for me personally i started
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boxing you feel me so like i started boxing and i tried to show that you know what i'm on the shorter
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side of things but i can still protect you do you get it and like at the end of the day life throws
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certain things at you and you just kind of have to deal with it now as a woman there are certain
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things and i'm so sorry to tell you this but there are certain things you can do that can completely
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ruin it for you for example if you're a woman and you have only fans i'm sorry but i'm not going to
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take you seriously that's your do you get it here's the thing here's the thing look look understand i'm
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an average man i'm not a rich guy or anything like that but i can tell you right now a millionaire
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if he's looking at you and he knows you got only fans he's not going to take you seriously
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because there's certain things us mandem look for you feel me nah that i'm curious any any guys any of
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you take an only fans model seriously no way no no no i've not but you know what like don't say
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what girl you want to make um sorry go ahead so so no guys here so go ahead no so personally i think
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you can always argue like like people would never take them seriously and your value goes down
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but it depends what kind of value you're looking at so like their financial value goes up their
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sexual value goes up no yeah well in terms of women sexual value no can i just quickly clarify
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how does their sexual value go up once people see you've got only fans there's always going to be
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people in public they'll say no i'd never be with someone from any fans but check their dms now most
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to be there for a night yeah but check their dms and you'll see okay okay okay i'll give you an
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example like look look look at lana rhodes she can't even keep a man she used to be my favorite
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that's one person from that's i know but that's like what one of the most i would argue one of the
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most i would argue one of the most beautiful women i mean i don't know i don't i'm not a consumer of that
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but is that part of because i feel like it changes across the demographic obviously that's someone
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that we've looked at from a different one but there's people like you i'm not sure if any of
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you have heard of ruby rose someone else yeah but there's people and people look at her and still be
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like that's still a no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no
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she's got only fans she's got only fans so that's what i said her sex her sexual value went up
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but you'd still smash i didn't say you'd want to be in a relationship with her but i said
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yeah yeah wait so your your sexual value but your relationship like what guys gonna
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take you serious after that but then some people might i think no no no no i'm sorry i mean i mean
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i can't argue for everyone i mean wait wait and i mean i i mean a simp a simp might
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i know yeah see but see this is simp culture people are gonna be like ah do you know what you're
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only fans i see you can i just mention one thing real quick that's part of the decay of society can i just
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say real quick that and this is majority of women i need to understand this right mandem we have two
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separate categories right we have one category which is for fun and then there's the one category that
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is for seriousness you feel me now understand when you see all these insta hoes sorry can i say hoes
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that that insta hoes and all that that who are you know dressing up in their bikini and all of that
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that's us mandem like just enjoying a woman who's being you know showing off her body and all of
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that but that's a separate category us mandem when we want to take someone seriously we're looking at
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different things and that's not usually the whole things that majority of women are showing off these
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days do you understand there's two different categories there's the fun category and the
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relationship okay what were you going to see your hand up first oh yeah i was just going to ask like so
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would you guys okay so we were talking about like the millionaire wouldn't take the only fan seriously
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and um most people say like in order to become a millionaire you have to have at least six streams
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of income so would you guys genuinely in in a relationship or even like as a married couple would
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you guys pass off an opportunity for a stream of income if your wife was inviting you to create the
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only fans content with you absolutely absolutely absolutely i pass all the way up i pass all the
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way the question i would like i would want my wife putting out her body but you're making it with
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her it's yeah it doesn't matter i wouldn't i i wouldn't sell that to anyone would anyone screw their
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wife on camera for only fans it's sexual stuff anyone raise your hand raise your hand yeah anyone would do it
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anyone no thank you i would take i would take three jobs night day shift right but what is nice you
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didn't have to show your face to make sure that right i wouldn't have to do that that's assuming
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someone seven days a week six months it's a creepy culture man it's a creepy culture guys guys guys guys
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guys guys guys guys stop stop this is one at a time one at a time okay go ahead uh to add to the um
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um women staying single and lonely after 35 there's a study that says that um women in this
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generation after they reach 35 plus they're going to i think it's going to be like what half of the
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women they're going to be single and it's women women actually it's 50 50 you got to stop you don't
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have a mic like you got one more chance yeah we have to go out so so it's 20 or um 50 of women
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or 45 percent of women between the ages of 25 and 45 are predicted to be single and childless so
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much so that big investors are so that means out of out of all of us half of us will be single and
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childless um the one right there um and and basically um so much so that like places like morgan stanley
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are investing in things like wine cat food and and anything and anything that like all the marketing
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campaigns are like convincing women that they could be young forever so any marketing campaign that's
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basically convincing women that like like that what is it ageism like you're beautiful even at 50 it's
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like come on come on i'm sorry can i just say something real quick listen like i really don't
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understand i'm gonna sound so misogynistic right now i'm so sorry about this but like i really don't
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understand women these days like it is so clear that there's someone i'm not saying it's the government
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or illuminati whatever in it but there's something going on where people are just trying to push women
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into this industry where you're gonna have to work you're gonna have to be this boss bitch or whatever
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and like understand this the only people that have changed since 1950 are the women you feel me
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like mandem i'm gonna keep it real with you right now and ladies on the panel take this in this game
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mandem really appreciate traditional things you feel me like no i'm sorry to bring it to myself but my
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girl is very traditional and the reason i am so faithful to her is because she is traditional you feel
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like what but you know it all comes with submissiveness and all of that like i'm sorry to
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try okay okay okay okay okay okay i'm gonna i'm gonna let you go and then i'm excited to hear what
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you have to say and then we'll get to okay start with you i've got three points to make okay one know
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your your category and where you sit as a woman we all when all of us are different we all require
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different things we all like different things so we like a different type of man um two
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when i say that i mean you know physicality preference for example i like black men that's
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my preference a lot of women so you know no i know but that's a lot of what i'm saying is we all know
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the reality is we all we we all don't like exactly the same things maybe in in if you want to be
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generalists yeah anyway okay okay cool cool cool second of all i just wanted to say on the back of
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what you said um and what pearl said can everybody acknowledge there's less women than men in the
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world anyway so there's more women i believe there's more sorry the other way around sorry i meant to say
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that we're on yeah so there's more women than men in the world anyway so there's going to be more
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single women it's going to be that way because there is less men in um yeah less men in the world
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um if you want to have certain requirements as a woman you either have to be of a certain standard
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yourself and i mean when i mean standard i mean the way you carry yourself you know if your body is
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what you lead with then that's what men just look at you as a physical object and they will exploit
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that because that's what men do and not all men but if you're going to advertise your body that's
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what men are going to look at and if you want you know a lot of women they will do only fans and that
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kind of thing and then when they get to an age where they're no longer relevant younger girls are
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coming up better than them now they're going to change then they want to turn around and say thank
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god oh please you know take me now and the problem is the problem is with that when you want them to
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take you you've already surpassed your most i don't want to say prime it's not about fertile it's not
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but you've passed your prime your prime and it's natural that's the only thing that's changed that
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for us is plastic surgery makeup um and so societal standards overall and it's not everybody but
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realistically you have to look at back in the day there was no photoshop everyone didn't couldn't buy
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makeup everyone couldn't change their hair every week you know you had a role to play
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and if you're not willing to play your role no matter how big or small you think it is it adds up
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it adds up that's it can i say something no it's her turn um so my turn yeah you said you had something
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you seemed like you wanted to talk to you i have so many things okay go ahead but it seems like i mean
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i'll i'll yield like someone you'll yeah someone i think you i think you were next and then you can go
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okay you had something before you were raising your hand oh yeah um wait what was the original
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question sorry okay now you can go you can go i don't i don't really understand what's the um what's
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the push for women to shame men for their standards like if men don't want women above 35 so what
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yeah i don't it's not it's not it's not shaming it's like if i don't a woman to be fat am i fat
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shaming like i don't understand this it's like women can say they want men who are six foot i think
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there's a difference and they want a washboard abs and all this and you don't see men on the streets
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crying that they they're being you know where's the the short short man positivity i'm sorry can i
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speak on that everything is misogyny everything is i don't think that that's true i don't think
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that's true take this in as a entitled to having their own like no one's no one's going on you for
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having so i think i think i think i think wait i think that's i think that's easy from like a woman's
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point of view um because a lot of times like we don't notice it but it's like every time a man has
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standards there's always a woman shaming him for having them so like for example when a guy says
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i don't like i don't like fat chicks that like then all of a sudden he's fat phobic if he says if he
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says i don't i don't like sluts then like they have then they have the slut walk if he says that i don't
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like um yeah but like every every time that a man has standards he's shamed for it i don't but i don't
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think that's quote unquote a standard i think that's like that like the way the way i'm
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interpreting what you just said is and maybe it may not be in the way that you that you mean
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but when someone's saying i don't like fat chicks like that to me is fat shaming no obviously
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but if i say but if i say i don't i don't like to date fine fine i don't like to date fat chicks that's
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that's how wait i i said i don't like to date fat chicks but i can say on air i don't like to date
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short men i'm six foot if a guy's significantly shorter than me i'm just not going to go for it
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but as i said we're allowed to have preferences women are but men no no men are but the thing
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the different no no this is the problem and i'll tell you what the problem is social media has given
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people a voice at echo chamber remember if there was no socials you wouldn't really be hearing about
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it you would have to accept your fate as a man and live and walk through it without this echo chamber
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like the podcast right now because there's been a nature that's i don't know being bestowed upon us with
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technology we're constantly hearing men have to have this men have to have that and the reality is
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they actually they don't they don't actually have to have it yeah because the reason why they don't
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have to have it is because if they're the provider in the relationship they have the power to to execute
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the woman out of the relationship if they want to if they're willing to lose half of their property
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wait wait wait no no no hang on hang on do you think it's really that easy to be a man and be able
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to provide like yeah no no wait wait so i'm sorry i'm sorry but take this in right yeah once again
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i'm a five foot six man give or take half an inch right majority of my life women have told me to my
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face yo hey you know what i find you attractive your vibe is cool but you know what just a little bit too
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true you feel me that me as a man i can't cry about you feel me yeah i go out it's cool
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you know what i've actually been learning recently is that you can um survive off of one income in
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places like the uk and then the us um i talked to someone that raised 10 foster kids off of 10 000
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per year and she still maintains that income but the problem is women um spend frivolously and they
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don't want that to go down in lifestyle for a family typically and i have data 10k per year
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one person in the house no 10 people in the house i could i could like think about it if you know yeah
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she yeah you you move outside of the country and the guy won't run like goes to the city yeah
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yeah i just wanted to say to you because you know i understand your pain for what you're talking
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about your experience right but you're living proof you have a partner that respects you you have a
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higher quality partner than a lot of these six foot plus guys yes or no yes or no but here's the thing
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i have been extremely lucky and here's the thing i know my girls watching this shout out to you babe innit
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here's the thing you're you're saying it's luck it's not luck because you're the man and you've
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persevered through the obstacles in your life but i think but i think that's i think that's easy to
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say like modern women have ridiculous standards yeah yeah women women always want an above average
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man even if they're average women yeah yeah i understand but this young this guy here young man
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here this gentleman here he's he's he's told us he's below average height he told us that he was
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willing to go and learn boxing he's told us he's got a woman that is better than a lot of the women
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that maybe come on this podcast may be better than me i don't know her but she may be she's better
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than these average women that we're talking about the modern woman she's better than the modern woman
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yes or no but i understand yes or no no she is but understand at that there's a probability versus
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possibility in it yeah i'm that one percent a man who managed to somehow find one girl no no no no but
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but as a man why are you watching up what other men are doing you i don't care what other men are
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you fulfilled your position he's got a different goal he's got a different goal he's you've got a
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partner no yeah are you happy with your partner yeah okay have you got a partner no no you haven't got
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a partner have you got a partner have you got a partner are you happy with your partner yeah so
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this means no wait wait yeah so there's how many men five six five yeah well which is which is fine
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but if they get married the women still leave 70 to 80 percent of the time 90 percent of their college
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educated so so wait wait wait don't cut me don't cut me off yeah yeah if women still leave 70 to 80 percent
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of the time 90 percent of their college educated so he could he could get that traditional girl but
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that doesn't mean she won't leave him later yeah but that's a that's a probability that's a risk
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that's a yeah that's a problem that's a that's so it's luck no no which goes back but like i think
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that's just not like i just try to empathize with men because if i if i as a woman was going into
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marriage knowing that i was going to be left 70 to 80 percent of the time 90 if i get a college educated
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guy shit i probably would say marriage too women i'm living in mass please please understand this
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right i'm in a very unique situation my girl was muslim yeah you get it so she's got a different
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like type of mindset when it comes to life in it majority of mandem and the reason i'm speaking on
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this podcast right now is for the majority of mandem i'm lucky i'm good but majority of mandem are not
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and how many how many girls did you have to go through until you got oh don't even get me started
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so how many how many bad bad girls did you have to date before you found the one oh my listen this
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is this is not that i could i could stay okay okay just just give me numbers 15 okay more than in the
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mid-20s range you get me yeah until i found one girl who was literally traditional and to the point
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but i can be like you know what i can take you serious you feel me yeah so how old are you sorry
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i'm 27 years old you're 27 you went through 15 girls to find the girl that you require right so
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you are you are from what you've said you are the pinnacle you are the pinnacle you're sure yeah you
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did boxing you built your masculinity in a way you got the girl that you desire you got the girl that you
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need for now no no but for for now for now god only no no no no no i don't i don't i don't think
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but i don't think you understand like like like because men never know if a girl's just gonna up and
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leave and i just don't like i don't think i think to dismiss it and say oh well you have you're in a
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interrelate i mean kind of like you're in a you're in a happy relationship now it's like even even if it
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goes to the distance and he gets married like 70 to 80 chance she's yeah but is that how you live your life
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do you live your life like that you've got to live a reality the reality is you're in a relationship
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you like your relationship you love your relationship you're willing to work on your
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relationship you have a good woman so you don't look at your relationship and say oh it might fail
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so i'm gonna just stop planning i do do you get what i'm saying because like i said at the start the
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relationship sorry at the start of the podcast i said yo man's got three youtube channels i'm working
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very hard yeah to get myself into a position where i can make enough money to have a good
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family and all that kind of but sorry but at the end of the day like i'm taking a risk here
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you feel me that's life life is a risk you walk outside you might get hit by a bus okay okay okay okay
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but but it's easy to say that it's it's very easy to say that as a woman oh life's risk or whatever
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yeah but you're not the one that could potentially sign up to lose in the uk it's up to 70 of your
00:26:08.080
shit you could work for 20 30 years be 50 years old she takes 70 of your shit and the kids i agree but
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then then you follow it and say well life is about risk you can't just be afraid i'm like well if you if
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i was at a 50 chance that she can leave me and take the kids yeah and and a lot of guys have taken the
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risk and they've bared the brunt of that but at this point what you're saying is okay get into new
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relationships don't try that's not what this is what this is as a generalist statement yeah we know
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there's risk i'm aware of the risk i can see it's unfair for men but as a man as a woman you must put
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in effort if you're not putting in effort if you see your partner no no no wait wait i know you're
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getting angry but the reality i'm not angry but you know i'm i'm saying things that people might say
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it's contradictory i'm not a man i don't have to live in your shoes i only observe it and i've as
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i said many times on this show i've had the benefits of what men bring to my table and nobody else can
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bring them to my table but here's the thing no i'll ask a quick question yeah it's like okay imagine you
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are a man and really really and truly imagining yourself because you're a woman right and like you
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know all respect to that you're an attractive woman right so your entire life you've probably lived
00:27:27.760
your life mandem come up to you like hey what are you saying girl would you get it like you've lived
00:27:32.240
that life now imagine you are a man right and let's say you are at a disadvantage let's say you are
00:27:38.960
five foot two and you're fat you feel me you're not going to get no attention from girls so you're
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going to have to put in all that work to become someone yeah that is even worthy of attention not a
00:27:52.160
relationship not bedroom fun yeah attention yeah and that you get it i mean there is there is a girl
00:27:58.320
that pretended to be a man like she was like a feminist and she she dressed up like she basically
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dressed up as a man for like three years and she killed herself because she couldn't believe how
00:28:09.040
people treat men well she actually got euthanasia but yeah that's a person yeah but she went and got
00:28:14.720
euthanasia that's different she didn't jump in front of me i mean come on man is that is that wait
00:28:20.240
wait wait wait wait wait wait how is it how is it different did she not did she not sign up to kill
00:28:24.320
herself yeah she had somebody she had somebody kill her because she wasn't okay okay okay okay we're
00:28:32.160
gonna oh gosh okay okay okay we're gonna we're gonna move on from this um okay so question for the men for
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the men um have you ever dated someone with bad spending habits and is that something you look
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for and when you're considering taking someone seriously so let's start on this this side of
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the room and go around uh yeah i think that a lot of what i'm hearing right now is i'm obviously 35
00:28:57.680
years old so i've kind of been doing the 25 year old 26 27 all the way to the point where i was like
00:29:02.720
something's gonna give with this i used to go out i used to do the cars the clothes the this the that
00:29:07.440
um and i mean those girls that are chasing that sort of stuff i mean it was it was fun for the
00:29:13.360
while when we were doing it do you know i mean it was those nights was crazy you were fam you see
00:29:17.680
man out there doing that big yeah all right cool but then when the lights come on and you're sitting
00:29:22.720
at home with your hangover and your pockets are empty you start going to yourself oh what the
00:29:26.720
did i do that for like you see what i'm saying so enough of that and then all of a sudden you start
00:29:31.040
checking yourself and obviously for guys women can heavily influence that like going out of your
00:29:36.000
home is just splitting bills everybody's buying balls everybody's doing their thing but when you
00:29:39.440
have pretty girls especially pretty girls or other guys in the club who are flashing cash or trying to
00:29:43.680
attract as well you know it's it's tiring man and i think that a lot of people even a lot of guys who
00:29:49.600
make a lot of money will turn around and would say that they would prefer to have somebody that they
00:29:53.920
could take that money with and go on holiday or or buy things for their house or there's so many other
00:29:59.040
ways and other places to spend that sort of cash so i had to knock that one on the head um me and my
00:30:04.640
girlfriend like to cook more now bottle of wine nice movie do you know what i mean and it's cool
00:30:10.720
i wake up saturday morning i'm like ah i'm alive you know okay what about you is spending habits
00:30:18.560
something you look at um when looking at a girl for a relationship so i was predominantly raised by my mom
00:30:25.200
so i feel like i always i'm not sure i don't i'm not saying it's a good thing but i always look at my
00:30:30.400
mom's example and what she did and what she does in terms of her example and sex for me and i always
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