JustPearlyThings - March 24, 2023


They All Got ANGRY At Pearl For THIS


Episode Stats


Length

11 minutes

Words per minute

189.72974

Word count

2,106

Sentence count

1

Harmful content

Misogyny

22

sentences flagged

Hate speech

15

sentences flagged


Summary

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In this episode, we discuss monogamy and purity in the modern society. Ladies ladies ladies ladies listen to this episode because we are talking about purity and youth and how men value purity in a woman and how women value youth and purity.

Transcript

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Misogyny classifications generated with MilaNLProc/bert-base-uncased-ear-misogyny .
Hate speech classifications generated with facebook/roberta-hate-speech-dynabench-r4-target .
00:00:00.000 i feel like if you date a single mother i feel like if you date a single mother as a guy you
00:00:03.920 should be able to cheat that's how i feel yeah oh wow yeah no no hear me out hear me out hear me
00:00:09.600 out hear me out i'll tell you i'll tell you why i'll tell you why because his mating strategy
00:00:17.680 strategy is if we go back to our biology right it's to screw as many people as possible and
00:00:23.600 ensure paternity our our mating strategy is to get resources from a guy so you get your mating 0.98
00:00:29.440 strategy and and commitment from the guy so you get your mating strategy fulfilled and he has to
00:00:34.240 deal with someone else's kid nah like you cheated on him by not waiting for marriage and to have a 0.99
00:00:39.920 child wait wait wait wait wait wait so so so i i think you you basically cheated on him by not giving 0.99
00:00:49.360 him purity and youth you can't give him purity you can't give him here wait wait wait you can't give
00:00:55.360 him purity if you have a child you can't that's true and so it's like if you don't offer that why
00:01:00.560 would you expect monogamy i get what you're saying but it's a different time now you know like you're
00:01:06.320 talking you're talking from back in the day no it's not a different time no but it is let's be real
00:01:16.080 all right ladies ladies let me try and give you some game yeah seriously you don't understand the minds of 1.00
00:01:23.120 men no no they don't they don't you don't really don't understand you i'm you're sitting with one
00:01:28.640 two three blessing over there four men and we're trying to give you the minds of men you are not
00:01:35.200 listening to you haven't let us wait wait but wait but wait no but wait but wait but wait i'm saying
00:01:41.280 men value purity and we value youth can i just say wait for fuck's sake like let me 0.82
00:01:51.120 fucking speak men value purity and youth okay you can among amongst your girls have whatever 0.52
00:01:58.240 conversation that you want to have amongst your girls women live in the echo chamber amongst their 1.00
00:02:02.160 women all the time oh yeah girl he's this yeah you can do that all the time when you come out of that 0.99
00:02:08.080 echo chamber and you speak to men there's reality there you get the reality and that's and wait you
00:02:13.920 put your hand down what i'm trying to say to you is right when one of the main problems in the society
00:02:20.320 is women do not listen to when men speak and when men do speak right they call them misogynistic they 0.90
00:02:27.200 call them all kinds of names that they want to call them right but what you're not listening to is
00:02:31.680 men are speaking and they're telling their truth this is man's truth if you come to me with a child
00:02:39.520 two children three children you are not our first choice i'm telling you you don't have children so
00:02:46.960 it's cool you no man wakes up as your if you talk about your gotti is 41 years old he did not wake up
00:02:54.160 in the morning thinking you know the woman that i actually want to have for my
00:02:59.040 long-term partner is a widowed okay baby wait is a widowed baby mama that's my first choice 0.96
00:03:05.920 but it was though wait it was though let's be realistic but i'm saying no but oh my god seriously
00:03:13.040 generally men that is not their first choice no it's not their first choice do you think men wake
00:03:18.240 up thinking they want baby mamas as their as as their as their long-term partner you're saying they
00:03:23.200 don't want that so what i'm trying to say to you is when you're a baby mother you lose points
00:03:28.560 so we are settling for baby mamas if if a man has a baby mama he's settling 1.00
00:03:35.040 i think a baby mama doesn't need to be that just i'm i'm not not you i've had a stepdad it doesn't
00:03:40.800 matter what you think and the stepdad wait wait wait wait listen to what i'm saying my mom would
00:03:45.040 wait wait wait it doesn't matter what you think no i'm i'm saying in reality no wait it doesn't matter
00:03:51.760 what you think i think wait we're talking about what men think we're talking about what you think
00:03:57.040 and this man still wants my mom oh my god gracious my dear woman listen do you do you want to hang on
00:04:03.600 wait wait wait we as men understand the minds of women we understand what women want generally as
00:04:09.680 yes we do we understand trust me it takes a lot to understand because a woman can say i want this and i 0.77
00:04:16.160 want that and she actually doesn't want that right so we understand that women want general things we 1.00
00:04:20.160 like to play you want security do you want security of course every woman wants this do you want to 1.00
00:04:24.240 protect her of course do you want to provide her of course but there is no no no but there's
00:04:29.040 more too wide guys guys guys guys guys guys guys he he's the host he's the host you're gonna i don't
00:04:37.200 i don't i don't want to like you're gonna get people out and you keep you're gonna get your mic muted if
00:04:40.720 you keep interrupting i don't want to throw people out but what i'm trying to say to you if we understand
00:04:44.480 as men we want you want protectors protectors and providers and people who do that we understand
00:04:49.680 as men that's what we've got to be the problem is as women you don't understand what men want you
00:04:56.320 think you understand what men want and the reason why you think you understand what men want is
00:05:00.080 because you live within an echo chamber of your girlfriends true you have not come out of that
00:05:06.480 echo chamber and asked men what do you want from us as women so hang on when women do you say oh that's 0.98
00:05:15.520 misogynistic no that's just what men want and so as men we can actually understand this we can actually
00:05:22.720 talk amongst ourselves and say this is what we are as men want but you think because of your echo
00:05:28.320 chamber that that's misogynistic okay no how many how many um dads are out there yeah let's say i'm a
00:05:36.160 dad oh yeah dad yeah yeah i'm a dad too he's a dad lovely there you go shout out to the kids so i've seen
00:05:42.960 women that are baby moms get with a guy that respects his child her child respects her and the 1.00
00:05:51.120 the whole situation way more than the actual real baby dad did sorry say that again repeat that what
00:05:57.040 i'm trying to say is that i've seen women that have kids dating guys she's obviously like separated
00:06:04.640 divorce whatever she's dating other guys and they've actually and they've respected yes way more than
00:06:11.360 maybe their own dad has yeah but respect and love and uh okay do you know why because it's a good
00:06:16.320 guy do you know why why i would blame the girl because she was with the wrong guy in the first 1.00
00:06:20.720 place okay i hear it but what i'm trying to say is that like it goes to say that not every guy thinks
00:06:27.520 that you know because she's got a child it's because he doesn't have any other options it's because his
00:06:33.200 pickings weren't that good honestly there's like one there's 41 forms of birth control like why are you
00:06:38.240 getting pregnant with it like maybe with this random like i don't understand why these girls are getting 1.00
00:06:42.240 babies left and right 41 forms of birth control yeah but you can be married and have a kid that
00:06:46.560 doesn't mean that okay but then but then you have a duty don't leave what do you mean women leave 1.00
00:06:52.640 women leave um 70 of the time if they're college educated they leave 90 of the time correct women 1.00
00:06:58.640 ruin relationships and they ruin families so women women typically do it actually if a guy asks the 1.00
00:07:06.160 majority of men their first choice is not a baby mother just like just like our first choice
00:07:12.640 typically is not a short broke guy that's right it's the same thing it's the same thing now now will
00:07:17.760 we put up with a guy that's shorter if he's good looking sure will will a guy put up with a single 0.99
00:07:23.280 mother if she has some other things that she brings to the table maybe she's attractive maybe she has 1.00
00:07:27.680 other stuff maybe she's submissive whatever it is that he values yeah but it's most men it is not
00:07:31.840 their first choice okay but maybe that woman that has a child has more to offer than a woman that doesn't 0.99
00:07:36.000 and you're talking as a woman you don't see what you just said is an example of simping
00:07:45.040 and that's exactly what we've been talking about we've come to discuss today if a guy would go out
00:07:50.880 of his way to give more to a woman who already has a child he's doing that because he knows that if he
00:07:56.720 wants to be with a woman he's actually got to show respect to the child so he has to simp actually he's
00:08:03.440 got to do more he's got to give more to be in that relationship right and this is what this is
00:08:09.120 why we're here talking about it because it's not just effort because she's not going to have to do
00:08:15.040 that for him what when you're when you're a single mother and you get married you get all the benefits
00:08:21.120 and he had so so it's like we we get bailed out of a bad decision like you made a poor choice and
00:08:26.560 instead of taking your bed and lying in it you get bailed out by some simp why do you have to lie in a bed
00:08:31.440 that maybe is very harmful for yourself though because you made a poor choice i've been in
00:08:36.400 relationships where single like where the the girl has a baby they don't let you like some some 0.95
00:08:44.000 girls they don't let you meet their babies that's right something is and you can't discipline that 0.99
00:08:48.320 child no anyone i mean but you can't do that let him speak let me speak yeah let me speak
00:08:53.920 first of all you don't you you don't get to see their child you don't get to sit down with them
00:09:00.400 and until things are serious and clear to her that you that you're showing intention you're
00:09:06.960 so intention all right so uh so for me as a man if you let me understand understood from the beginning
00:09:13.440 okay i have a child but first of all i'm not gonna let you meet my child for the first six months that
00:09:21.040 we're dating yeah their dad or his dad or her dad comes around every now and then to check
00:09:29.920 to check on them so you have to respect that right if she makes everything clear to you from the
00:09:34.560 beginning right and that you have feelings for her despite her having a child i don't condemn that
00:09:41.360 right you can be with a with a single mother and build a family with alongside that that child
00:09:47.440 that's been there already right there's nothing wrong with that yeah yeah there's there's nothing
00:09:52.960 wrong but is that the idle situation no but but then for a man no but then i'll get to your point
00:09:58.800 right yeah sorry if if like there's no problem dating or marrying a single woman a single mother right
00:10:05.920 yeah but uh but but but there's this situation where this is you you you made me
00:10:17.600 but then but then what's sorry saying as a man we don't put as a single mother as our first choice
00:10:24.880 of course it's not your first choice if you have kids yourself you cannot go and tell people if they
00:10:31.520 can and can't have kids but let me finish earlier you were saying that you don't put a virgin guy 1.00
00:10:36.560 as your first choice to have sex with as many of you know i was just banned on tick tock and we 0.58
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