JustPearlyThings - They Could Not Stomach These Facts

00:00:00.000 because i'm of the opinion that i think you can judge a society by the way

00:00:03.560 the women act in that society i think if you go to different nations around the world

00:00:08.280 and you look at the how the women act in that society you will generally get to know how the 1.00

00:00:13.960 society is i feel like the in the western world the way the women act in this western world you 1.00

00:00:20.300 can kind of tell that society is degenerating in my personal point of view i really do believe

00:00:26.080 that society is degenerating and that's because for me children have to be raised and they have

00:00:31.940 to be raised by someone so women are the first teachers of children so are the fathers no the 0.97

00:00:38.320 first teachers of children are women because that's where the child is at mostly it's mostly 1.00

00:00:43.880 with the woman so it's getting most of its teaching most of its nurturing from the woman and if the

00:00:49.400 woman is not right then the child's not going to be right but what it depends what you define is right 1.00

00:00:55.020 like yeah yeah yeah well morally correct right um a morally functioning fully functioning

00:01:00.760 uh part of society i think if i think if the mothers and the women of society aren't functioning

00:01:07.000 correctly then that will be handed down quite easily to the children but you're you're trying

00:01:11.480 to define what's morally correct for every woman ever but even though your morals isn't like it's not

00:01:17.060 the same as for everyone else you know it's it's not about what's morally correct it's just like

00:01:21.640 actions have consequences right and and men are biologically like they're repulsed by girls that

00:01:27.200 have slept around and that they can't help it because historically they had to ensure paternity

00:01:31.600 so you can you can't make that go away in them so you say like the same way the same way sorry

00:01:37.000 the same way like we want a tall guy because we wanted a guy that could protect us you can't get

00:01:41.120 rid of our biology it's just there and like you no matter how much society tries it's it's still there

00:01:45.740 no guy wants to date a girl that slept with like a hundred dudes i feel like there are some guys

00:01:50.420 there's 100 there are people who don't have an issue with guys but if you if you okay there are

00:01:55.540 exceptions but it's not the rule yeah and we're right yeah right okay okay let me just let me just go

00:02:01.400 around do you want to date a girl that slept with a hundred dudes no thank you do you want to date a 0.67

00:02:05.260 girl that slept with a hundred dudes no do you want to date a girl that slept with a hundred dudes 1.00

00:02:08.960 no and i've asked this i've asked similar questions on the show like i've used different numbers 50 70

00:02:15.140 whatever it is you can't shame men into wanting what they want it's it shouldn't be about what

00:02:20.560 the men want in that sense we shouldn't define a woman's sexuality by what the men want yeah we

00:02:24.240 shouldn't define a woman's like freedom to explore her sexuality by what men want right so you can't 0.97

00:02:29.240 you can do like i don't care what other people do right like i don't think it makes you a bad person

00:02:32.800 just because someone sleeps around like that's that's what they want to do but there the point is

00:02:36.780 there's consequences and so if you sleep with a lot of people less less guys want to date you but it's

00:02:41.060 the judgment and the taboo of sexuality that that comes from kind of thinking that a woman 0.91

00:02:44.840 is dirty because she slept around so much when that shouldn't be the mindset but that's the 1.00

00:02:48.220 mindset that's been taught because of sexuality of a woman has been so controlled and restricted 0.53

00:02:52.200 and defiant like marilyn monroe who was a sex icon but it was in so many different relationships where

00:02:56.480 the men were awful to her because they took advantage of her sexuality wanted her to be the 0.71

00:03:00.620 sexual icon yeah but she also profited she also profited off of it so so you can't say like 0.87

00:03:05.140 she also committed suicide because of her relationship with the kennedy brothers

00:03:08.440 the bedrock of society our family and if anything that that's showing that like being promiscuous

00:03:13.360 it doesn't lead to good things but it wasn't it wasn't so promiscuity that led to it it was the

00:03:17.320 men that no she was involved with that she chose to be involved with so it's like you if you make

00:03:23.820 choices there are consequences she was actually sexually molested as a kid and that's why she was 1.00

00:03:28.920 like that she was she was sexually molested as a child i'm not i'm not if someone's if that happens

00:03:34.060 to someone that's terrible i'm not blaming that on her but i'm saying as an adult she made choices

00:03:38.300 and there were consequences and i have a lot of empathy i think that's very sad she made so for

00:03:43.200 example she had a relationship with tennessee williams who she made the choice to be in a

00:03:46.200 relationship who she wanted to be in a relationship with he saw her as this ideal woman that he wanted 0.98

00:03:50.240 because of her sexuality but when he was with her he wanted her to be like the madonna whore complex he 0.98

00:03:54.220 wanted her to be the monota but she didn't fit that and so he was horrible to her as a result and 0.99

00:03:58.760 and left her and she made a choice to love but because of her sexuality she wasn't 0.55

00:04:02.760 okay i don't know what you're talking about the madonna oh sorry i don't know i don't like that 0.99

00:04:08.220 divide the feminine into like the virgin and the whore like mary magdalene and mother mary that sort 0.99

00:04:13.780 of thing it's how we separate the feminine in order we separate things we don't understand it's 1.00

00:04:17.460 weird to think that woman can both be that purity and that sexual well i mean like my point is you

00:04:22.100 pick who you date so like if you keep finding yourself in toxic relationship after toxic relationship

00:04:27.500 you have to look at yourself i don't i don't know anything about marilyn monroe i'm not going to pretend

00:04:31.500 to be like the expert i don't i don't know what she did in her life but my only point is like

00:04:35.900 actions have consequences and i don't care what people do but just don't complain about the

00:04:39.420 consequences consequences of uh a let's say more sexually liberated society is that all societies

00:04:46.880 most societies and most nations are built off a core family nuclear family structure okay the west

00:04:53.360 seems to be straying more away from a nuclear family structure and so if the men are building their

00:05:00.420 society right generally men build societies women nurture what's in the society so if the men are 0.71

00:05:06.260 building the site and women are nurturing what's in society and like i said the women aren't right 1.00

00:05:10.020 and we need a nuclear family structure yet and still this this um society teaches women to be 1.00

00:05:14.820 independent you don't need a man you can do it all by yourself okay that is going to affect the moral 0.82

00:05:21.060 fabric of the society in which we're living but if you make the point about women making bad choices 1.00

00:05:26.180 about partners if they stop making those choices then they're wrong for making the choices not to

00:05:30.580 be with partners who are going to be horrible to them wait wait say that again so because of

00:05:35.220 feminine sexual liberation where they choose like they don't need a man they become independent that 0.87

00:05:38.260 sort of thing yes but it's come from a space where women make choices to be with the wrong men so they 1.00

00:05:42.500 decide to make different choices to be independent to not pursue those options so then what's what's the

00:05:48.180 right choice so you're saying that they made that choice because of so so in in this situation where

00:05:53.620 marilyn monroe made the decision to be with those people those toxic just as an example not her 0.78

00:05:57.940 specifically but made that choice to be in those toxic relationships and and now we're on the other

00:06:02.180 side where women are choosing to be independent choosing not to be in those toxic relationships 0.75

00:06:05.540 rather choosing to support themselves than rely on someone who's going to ultimately harm her

00:06:10.820 well she made those choices to be with those men but that's what i'm saying so i'm choosing to be on

00:06:14.820 their own well but why are you yeah why are you acting like those are the only two options like why is

00:06:20.580 that why are the only two why are the only two options pick a bad guy or be by yourself because

00:06:25.700 some people don't actually have a choice i think i think a lot of women so when i think about my

00:06:31.780 grandma or you know the men that she was dating whatever um at that time you didn't really have a

00:06:38.500 job if you're a woman it wasn't really you basically forced not to basically and then the men that came to 1.00

00:06:45.780 you were your options right she had two options both were not very nice men and once you get into

00:06:52.340 a relationship you can get you can fall in love with a narcissist and he could be amazing and then

00:06:56.420 you marry them and then they just hurt you every single day and without any financial freedom or

00:07:03.620 independence you can't leave right so in this society it's like look you could leave today you could

00:07:10.020 get a job yeah i mean just because you don't like your options you could get a job in the past but

00:07:14.340 what you're saying is with a nuclear family the woman stays home she doesn't go to work she's not 0.95

00:07:19.140 independent that's kind of what i'm hearing maybe that's not what you meant but if a woman can't be 1.00

00:07:24.420 financially independent and free then some people don't actually have that choice in being able to leave

00:07:30.660 a violent relationship i'm not saying girls can't be financially independent like they could they can go 1.00

00:07:36.180 be financially independent but what i'm saying it's not conducive for families right so like kids it's

00:07:40.900 better for them to have a mom and a dad in the home right that's incredibly hard to normative or

00:07:45.300 heteronormative as well right there's so many sorry what's header sorry as in like um straight straight

00:07:50.340 couples right there's so many different family dynamics that can like supportively and genuinely

00:07:54.500 raise it so so so i will say on this show we try to stick to the rule rather than the exception

00:07:59.300 and that's not the majority i'll get to the rule i'll get to the rule 63 of youth suicides yeah are from

00:08:06.260 single mother homes 90 of homelessness and runaway children are from single you can't put that on

00:08:11.460 the mother 85 of children who show behavioral disorders are from single mother homes 80 of

00:08:17.300 grapists with anger problems are from single mother homes 71 of high school dropouts are from single

00:08:23.300 mother homes 70 of youths in operated institutions are from single mother homes 80 of all the youths that

00:08:30.100 are in prison are from single mother homes so how are you going to blame the woman then well he didn't

00:08:35.140 guys guys why is your immediate reaction you're blaming the woman when he's just reading a stat

00:08:39.460 because i think wait where this conversation was going was like you know what women need to behave 1.00

00:08:45.300 women need to act correctly and then life would be sweet would be there'd be more nuclear families like 1.00

00:08:51.300 that's not the case there's a lot of relationships that don't work and for a lot of women the best 1.00

00:08:57.220 situation they can like they can give to their child is say i'm going to leave this man

00:09:04.900 or the man leaves the man is nowhere to be seen he's disappeared statistically that's not true

00:09:09.780 that's not true women leave 70 to 80 of the time i'm pretty sure now it's 80 and if you're college

00:09:14.340 educated it's 90 so women are the ones leaving is and and the other thing is like the reason the 1.00

00:09:19.380 reason i would put it on the woman is because you pick who you have a baby with so so we're in the 0.82

00:09:28.500 uk now right and abortion's legal up to six months yeah you pick who you have a baby with you're you

00:09:34.580 you get an out but what if you have a baby with someone believing that they're a genuine person

00:09:38.100 that they're going to step up and then they choose in my experience that's the exception it's not the

00:09:42.100 rule because what i see is girls see the red flags early on they keep dating him and then it goes poorly

00:09:47.460 and they're crying later but it's like you saw the 10 million red flag as many of you know i was just

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JustPearlyThings - March 16, 2023

They Could Not Stomach These Facts

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