JustPearlyThings - July 22, 2023


This Bi-Sexual Left Panel Speechless with This

Hosted by
Hannah Pearl Davis
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Episode Stats


Length

10 minutes

Words per minute

187.81

Word count

1,993

Sentence count

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Harmful content

Misogyny

13

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Toxicity

6

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Hate speech

8

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Summary

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In this week's episode, we have our first guest on the show and we talk about how to be a man in the modern dating world. We discuss the dangers of online dating, what to look out for and what to do if you find yourself in a relationship. We also talk about what it's like dating in your 20s and how to deal with the pressures of social media and online dating culture.

Transcript

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00:00:00.000 what is the most like wild message you've ever sent to a girl
00:00:06.560 what the ones that you have to send a message and put your phone down and look away
00:00:10.880 like a wild first message oh first message first message oh no i don't need to know
00:00:17.360 probably like a uh probably you know i think if if she's abroad you get a little bit more
00:00:23.600 confidence in it so you might know yo when you're gonna quit playing and just move to london you
00:00:30.000 like those kind of ones but yeah sometimes i would do funny ones that are only funny to me
00:00:37.920 like i can see you that's the message
00:00:45.840 it's dumb right but it's a good figure
00:00:52.400 if you tried that on me that would not work i'd be like is this a mistake like is this an error
00:00:56.880 but but but look you responded
00:01:02.720 that's all you wanted that's all we needed we needed a door to be open and from there you can
00:01:06.240 figure out i'm only i'm only kidding blah blah you can find it but like you see that it worked right
00:01:10.640 there i can see you you know the gifs yeah the little um the gifs gifs they're the best way to
00:01:17.440 sledding i think oh yeah yeah yeah you know what's funny i've never dm'd anyone before they dm'd me
00:01:23.280 sorry big man no i didn't i didn't know it was a thing go on i didn't know it was a thing go on
00:01:31.120 i literally wait for someone to message me cold and then i just kind of react and then the vibe of
00:01:36.000 it what's your back signal what you like a couple pictures you like the story so if i like your
00:01:39.680 pictures more than one okay you know what it means and if you don't he or she let's not go fully gay 0.80
00:01:46.240 okay and then we and then we kind of then obviously if you get a private message or
00:01:52.960 something like that then i kind of react to that whether it's a female or a male but a female is 1.00
00:01:57.440 very different where i'm very it's very different with a female because i'm kind of more romantic
00:02:02.880 types i'm i'm a face-to-face person anyway i'm old school like pretend social media didn't didn't
00:02:08.960 didn't exist so with a female it'd be like let's let's go catch a bite let's go to a cocktail 1.00
00:02:14.640 bar and i think as time go on i'm kind of the same thing with guys it's not just a thing where
00:02:20.640 i just want to talk anyone can be anyone on social media or on the phone i want to feel your
00:02:25.440 vibe by the way you talk the way you hold yourself as a person your body language and and that's it
00:02:30.560 because that's what wows me and that's what gets here and if you've got me here yeah so female 1.00
00:02:36.000 you've got me you obviously know like when uh what kind of girls or guys to that you need to
00:02:40.800 take on a date and you know which which ones you can just bring back like what guys are different
00:02:46.800 though guys are there any like tests you guys do to see how sweaty a girl is uh yeah yeah yeah 0.88
00:02:56.160 if you say the word this should be outdated now so i'm gonna throw this out there but you know
00:03:00.400 if if he if he says uh trouble and you're responding in a certain type of way it's game over
00:03:04.800 for you just let you guys know that if he says oh trouble and you're like oh do you mean trouble
00:03:10.320 no no no just just ignore the whole trouble thing in it because i think trouble you guys be using
00:03:14.400 trouble yeah it's kind of the same vibe of um if i hear the words come out of your mouth that's just
00:03:19.120 who i am you know that girl is tapped what do you mean because anytime you hear that that's just who i
00:03:26.400 am people just don't understand who i am and it's just that person is someone who argues for fun that's
00:03:32.320 someone who who light your car on fire because you told her that you were two pence off that's someone 0.96
00:03:38.960 that's someone that will have a fight with you because their cousins were upset of you 0.98
00:03:42.880 what do you think about the the girls that say that they just get along with guys more than girls
00:03:46.800 i need you just with me okay just with me how about people's girlfriends can do with no that's
00:04:03.040 cool i'm not cool though i'm a good guy you're giving vibes that you can't have friends what are
00:04:08.160 like what are other tests you guys do um i kind of just look i just i just observe man you gotta
00:04:13.360 observe like people would tell on themselves eventually so we just observe what kind of
00:04:17.280 stuff they're posting if they're posting a lot of like indirect quotes to that means they need to heal
00:04:30.000 like if i met someone girl or female and they told me there's come out a relationship yeah i'm not
00:04:34.000 i'm not fussed with you but if we're just talking on a sexual situation i have needs okay but if it's
00:04:41.200 something where you want it to go like in a relationship or whatever you need you need time
00:04:45.520 to heal maybe just if you just want to have fun or whatever then yeah i can't take you seriously if
00:04:50.320 you told me you just broke up with your partner to your point a month or whatever or a few weeks ago
00:04:56.240 i can't take you seriously if she posts 100 quotes then you're right she does have 100 issues that she 0.99
00:05:01.520 needs to sort out at some point at some point there's a specific page yeah that that i don't
00:05:07.760 know what these pages are one that begins with a j and i don't know why that one if they post that
00:05:15.440 yeah red flag trinidad do you guys look at who girls follow sometimes yeah you have to sometimes 0.66
00:05:20.880 no no no no because you know i don't do that i don't know if they follow sam smith i'm joking
00:05:26.800 do you guys do you guys look at who guys follow no no if i'm interested yeah i'll go through who
00:05:34.080 they follow and what if he follows a bunch of instagram models does that bother you
00:05:40.800 not really because guys are going to be guys aren't they they're all going to be attracted to like
00:05:44.560 instagram models but it doesn't really bother me too too much to be fair so what do you look for when
00:05:48.640 it comes through their following um well say if like a girl's like commented on their page i'll go
00:05:55.520 i'll go through that pacific girl if that makes sense oh okay yeah interesting i care about the
00:06:03.520 mutuals oh damn yeah yeah i need to know which one of my friends we've got if we've got mutuals 0.73
00:06:10.720 if we're mutual friends yeah i know why he knows that 0.97
00:06:12.720 it's crazy because i trust women i don't i don't whenever i'm dating with a girl or talking to a
00:06:18.880 girl i don't do any research on you whatsoever it's the guys that i know are just out there in the
00:06:24.400 streets guys are completely different guys that are one i'm just like i watch your mutuals that's
00:06:29.200 interesting because everyone in london like guy wise in the whole game will be sleeping with everyone
00:06:34.160 the women yeah i don't know man with women i kind of just trust you i don't i don't think i've ever had a
00:06:38.960 girl play out on me i the the younger version of me like okay for example i think any guy that's
00:06:47.280 under the age of 25 or like 20 years old if they've cheated sorry i know you're gonna disagree with me
00:06:53.760 like it's not really a cheat we're not a man we don't really know what we're doing
00:06:57.840 um so i think like if you're under the age of 25 and you cheat look at you looking at me
00:07:03.600 what i'm trying to say is i think if a woman takes a guy seriously under the age of 21 and he's
00:07:32.560 cheated that's on you because we're not our mentality women to me mature far more than men
00:07:40.240 at a different different age who's more childish men or women men there's men that's all like 40 50 0.61
00:07:46.320 still playing playstation who's doing silly you know you know i'll say you know i'll say with um
00:07:51.760 generally speaking with women that have kids yeah i feel like they they learn a certain sense of
00:07:57.600 responsibility and that no one's coming to save them because they have a responsibility they've had
00:08:01.760 to yeah yeah i mean up until then i think they can be a bit childish in in society they're playing a
00:08:06.800 step down i think i don't actually think that men are more mature than women i don't think no i think
00:08:12.880 men are more mature than women really yeah i see that i you know um my there's this saying that's like
00:08:21.120 right when a woman starts to receive attention from men she like doesn't age mentally so like she's like
00:08:26.720 whatever age it was so 13 14 15 and i went out and i had this like red pill moment a couple years ago
00:08:33.200 my mom i got in trouble in high school so she sent me to my grandma's house and i was at um and it's
00:08:38.480 weird because a lot of um the grandmas were like widows right so the grandmas all went like to this 1.00
00:08:43.360 like karaoke bar and it's like a weird small town and the way they were talking i was like this sounds
00:08:48.080 like me and my friends and we're like 14 15. um but i i think that like in media they always paint
00:08:56.720 women as the smart ones and men as the dumb ones and i think that like if you think of the simpsons 0.99
00:09:01.760 it's always you know marge is smart bart is dumb yeah homer's dumb uh family guys this fat guy that can't 1.00
00:09:10.000 be trusted with anything i think like in general women play way more childish games than men do but women 1.00
00:09:16.080 are a lot smarter and a lot smarter same thing like when women cheat because women cheat i think 0.92
00:09:20.720 that's that's why you're better because we don't have physical power we have manipulative men we're 0.99
00:09:26.640 not that good like women would do smart thing my ex my ex partner used to do stuff like when i was 1.00
00:09:31.200 sleeping would just do the fingerprint thing and go through my messages that's a smart thing to do
00:09:36.400 she knows i'm a deep sleeper because i think that question is very is a very nuanced question
00:09:52.800 because there are there are a lot of areas in society where women are like a lot more mature 1.00
00:09:57.760 than men in certain areas like when it comes to like emotional like how to do with one's emotions
00:10:02.480 women got that past since day one because that's literally most of what they do from 1.00
00:10:07.280 i disagree what women love emotions women women are in control of their emotions i didn't say in
00:10:13.680 control i said i said no i didn't say get down pat i just said have have the ability to look at their
00:10:20.240 emotions and be one with their emotions guys oh accept like accept it yeah accept it i'm not saying
00:10:25.680 that they've mastered it because yeah but like the fact that women have gone through this emotional
00:10:30.480 turmoil when they go through all the time and like if they see a dog dies it's like the worst thing in
00:10:34.720 the world and it's like