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Summary
In this week's episode, we have our first guest on the show and we talk about how to be a man in the modern dating world. We discuss the dangers of online dating, what to look out for and what to do if you find yourself in a relationship. We also talk about what it's like dating in your 20s and how to deal with the pressures of social media and online dating culture.
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what is the most like wild message you've ever sent to a girl
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what the ones that you have to send a message and put your phone down and look away
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like a wild first message oh first message first message oh no i don't need to know
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probably like a uh probably you know i think if if she's abroad you get a little bit more
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confidence in it so you might know yo when you're gonna quit playing and just move to london you
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like those kind of ones but yeah sometimes i would do funny ones that are only funny to me
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if you tried that on me that would not work i'd be like is this a mistake like is this an error
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that's all you wanted that's all we needed we needed a door to be open and from there you can
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figure out i'm only i'm only kidding blah blah you can find it but like you see that it worked right
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there i can see you you know the gifs yeah the little um the gifs gifs they're the best way to
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sledding i think oh yeah yeah yeah you know what's funny i've never dm'd anyone before they dm'd me
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sorry big man no i didn't i didn't know it was a thing go on i didn't know it was a thing go on
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i literally wait for someone to message me cold and then i just kind of react and then the vibe of
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it what's your back signal what you like a couple pictures you like the story so if i like your
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pictures more than one okay you know what it means and if you don't he or she let's not go fully gay
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okay and then we and then we kind of then obviously if you get a private message or
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something like that then i kind of react to that whether it's a female or a male but a female is
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very different where i'm very it's very different with a female because i'm kind of more romantic
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types i'm i'm a face-to-face person anyway i'm old school like pretend social media didn't didn't
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didn't exist so with a female it'd be like let's let's go catch a bite let's go to a cocktail
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bar and i think as time go on i'm kind of the same thing with guys it's not just a thing where
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i just want to talk anyone can be anyone on social media or on the phone i want to feel your
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vibe by the way you talk the way you hold yourself as a person your body language and and that's it
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because that's what wows me and that's what gets here and if you've got me here yeah so female
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you've got me you obviously know like when uh what kind of girls or guys to that you need to
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take on a date and you know which which ones you can just bring back like what guys are different
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though guys are there any like tests you guys do to see how sweaty a girl is uh yeah yeah yeah
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if you say the word this should be outdated now so i'm gonna throw this out there but you know
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if if he if he says uh trouble and you're responding in a certain type of way it's game over
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for you just let you guys know that if he says oh trouble and you're like oh do you mean trouble
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no no no just just ignore the whole trouble thing in it because i think trouble you guys be using
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trouble yeah it's kind of the same vibe of um if i hear the words come out of your mouth that's just
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who i am you know that girl is tapped what do you mean because anytime you hear that that's just who i
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am people just don't understand who i am and it's just that person is someone who argues for fun that's
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someone who who light your car on fire because you told her that you were two pence off that's someone
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that's someone that will have a fight with you because their cousins were upset of you
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what do you think about the the girls that say that they just get along with guys more than girls
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i need you just with me okay just with me how about people's girlfriends can do with no that's
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cool i'm not cool though i'm a good guy you're giving vibes that you can't have friends what are
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like what are other tests you guys do um i kind of just look i just i just observe man you gotta
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observe like people would tell on themselves eventually so we just observe what kind of
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stuff they're posting if they're posting a lot of like indirect quotes to that means they need to heal
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like if i met someone girl or female and they told me there's come out a relationship yeah i'm not
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i'm not fussed with you but if we're just talking on a sexual situation i have needs okay but if it's
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something where you want it to go like in a relationship or whatever you need you need time
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to heal maybe just if you just want to have fun or whatever then yeah i can't take you seriously if
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you told me you just broke up with your partner to your point a month or whatever or a few weeks ago
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i can't take you seriously if she posts 100 quotes then you're right she does have 100 issues that she
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needs to sort out at some point at some point there's a specific page yeah that that i don't
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know what these pages are one that begins with a j and i don't know why that one if they post that
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yeah red flag trinidad do you guys look at who girls follow sometimes yeah you have to sometimes
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no no no no because you know i don't do that i don't know if they follow sam smith i'm joking
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do you guys do you guys look at who guys follow no no if i'm interested yeah i'll go through who
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they follow and what if he follows a bunch of instagram models does that bother you
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not really because guys are going to be guys aren't they they're all going to be attracted to like
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instagram models but it doesn't really bother me too too much to be fair so what do you look for when
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it comes through their following um well say if like a girl's like commented on their page i'll go
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i'll go through that pacific girl if that makes sense oh okay yeah interesting i care about the
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mutuals oh damn yeah yeah i need to know which one of my friends we've got if we've got mutuals
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if we're mutual friends yeah i know why he knows that
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it's crazy because i trust women i don't i don't whenever i'm dating with a girl or talking to a
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girl i don't do any research on you whatsoever it's the guys that i know are just out there in the
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streets guys are completely different guys that are one i'm just like i watch your mutuals that's
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interesting because everyone in london like guy wise in the whole game will be sleeping with everyone
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the women yeah i don't know man with women i kind of just trust you i don't i don't think i've ever had a
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girl play out on me i the the younger version of me like okay for example i think any guy that's
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under the age of 25 or like 20 years old if they've cheated sorry i know you're gonna disagree with me
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like it's not really a cheat we're not a man we don't really know what we're doing
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um so i think like if you're under the age of 25 and you cheat look at you looking at me
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what i'm trying to say is i think if a woman takes a guy seriously under the age of 21 and he's
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cheated that's on you because we're not our mentality women to me mature far more than men
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at a different different age who's more childish men or women men there's men that's all like 40 50
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still playing playstation who's doing silly you know you know i'll say you know i'll say with um
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generally speaking with women that have kids yeah i feel like they they learn a certain sense of
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responsibility and that no one's coming to save them because they have a responsibility they've had
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to yeah yeah i mean up until then i think they can be a bit childish in in society they're playing a
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step down i think i don't actually think that men are more mature than women i don't think no i think
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men are more mature than women really yeah i see that i you know um my there's this saying that's like
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right when a woman starts to receive attention from men she like doesn't age mentally so like she's like
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whatever age it was so 13 14 15 and i went out and i had this like red pill moment a couple years ago
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my mom i got in trouble in high school so she sent me to my grandma's house and i was at um and it's
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weird because a lot of um the grandmas were like widows right so the grandmas all went like to this
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like karaoke bar and it's like a weird small town and the way they were talking i was like this sounds
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like me and my friends and we're like 14 15. um but i i think that like in media they always paint
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women as the smart ones and men as the dumb ones and i think that like if you think of the simpsons
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it's always you know marge is smart bart is dumb yeah homer's dumb uh family guys this fat guy that can't
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be trusted with anything i think like in general women play way more childish games than men do but women
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are a lot smarter and a lot smarter same thing like when women cheat because women cheat i think
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that's that's why you're better because we don't have physical power we have manipulative men we're
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not that good like women would do smart thing my ex my ex partner used to do stuff like when i was
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sleeping would just do the fingerprint thing and go through my messages that's a smart thing to do
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she knows i'm a deep sleeper because i think that question is very is a very nuanced question
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because there are there are a lot of areas in society where women are like a lot more mature
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than men in certain areas like when it comes to like emotional like how to do with one's emotions
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women got that past since day one because that's literally most of what they do from
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i disagree what women love emotions women women are in control of their emotions i didn't say in
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control i said i said no i didn't say get down pat i just said have have the ability to look at their
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emotions and be one with their emotions guys oh accept like accept it yeah accept it i'm not saying
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that they've mastered it because yeah but like the fact that women have gone through this emotional
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turmoil when they go through all the time and like if they see a dog dies it's like the worst thing in