JustPearlyThings - August 30, 2023


This Delusional Feminist Got SCHOOLED


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11 minutes

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2,796

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329

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Misogyny

10

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Toxicity

71

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Hate speech

15

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In this episode, I talk about racism and how we need to stop letting people think we have a lesser chance than they do. We have to work harder to be better than everyone else, and we have to stop focusing on the negative.

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00:00:00.000 I think anyone who hasn't experienced racism shouldn't say anything about it, full stop.
00:00:05.000 Well, okay cool, so I grew up for quite a while, five years in a black neighbourhood,
00:00:10.000 I got in a fight every other day for it.
00:00:12.000 Okay, but that's...
00:00:13.000 Because I had red hair, they called me a rooster, I literally got in fights every day.
00:00:15.000 So you got bullied.
00:00:16.000 That's not racism.
00:00:17.000 Exactly.
00:00:18.000 Oh, it's not.
00:00:19.000 It's discrimination based on what he looks like.
00:00:21.000 It's not.
00:00:22.000 That's exactly what racism is.
00:00:23.000 It's not racism, they didn't stop.
00:00:24.000 No, because he wasn't oppressed, we were the ones that oppressed, so you can't call
00:00:26.000 that racism.
00:00:27.000 How are you oppressed?
00:00:28.000 No, but I'm not oppressed.
00:00:29.000 How are you oppressed?
00:00:30.000 Because I got news for you, honey. 1.00
00:00:31.000 If you had a skill set that was worth something to somebody, you would be the richest fucker 1.00
00:00:35.000 in here. 0.99
00:00:36.000 So slavery didn't exist?
00:00:37.000 That slavery exists?
00:00:38.000 Slavery exists, yeah.
00:00:39.000 It also existed for the IRS.
00:00:40.000 I'm not trying to belittle what happened to black people. 0.66
00:00:42.000 I would never...
00:00:43.000 No, I'm not.
00:00:44.000 Why are people in the UK talking about slavery?
00:00:46.000 No, no, no, no, no.
00:00:47.000 Here's why.
00:00:48.000 There was no slaves here.
00:00:49.000 Here's why.
00:00:50.000 No, this is very important.
00:00:51.000 Can we stop?
00:00:52.000 This is very important to me.
00:00:54.000 I have a lot of young black men that follow me. 0.99
00:00:56.000 There's no fucking way on earth. 0.99
00:00:58.000 I'm gonna let them believe that they have a lesser chance than anybody else if they just 0.99
00:01:02.000 worked their ass off. 0.99
00:01:03.000 There's no fucking way. 1.00
00:01:04.000 I'm not shitting on their dreams like that. 1.00
00:01:05.000 I'll be damned. 1.00
00:01:06.000 You call me a racist if you want. 0.99
00:01:07.000 That's fine, but we have to work harder.
00:01:08.000 You call me a racist all day.
00:01:09.000 I'm not.
00:01:10.000 I don't care. 1.00
00:01:11.000 There's no way I'm letting those young men believe that shit. 1.00
00:01:12.000 100%. 1.00
00:01:13.000 There's no many of black guys. 0.71
00:01:14.000 Look, King Rich is here right now. 1.00
00:01:15.000 He's a fucking winner. 0.99
00:01:16.000 100%. 1.00
00:01:17.000 All day long. 1.00
00:01:18.000 Because he didn't let that shit happen. 1.00
00:01:19.000 100%. 1.00
00:01:20.000 But we have to work harder.
00:01:21.000 And that's the fact of the matter.
00:01:22.000 That's the fact of the matter.
00:01:23.000 What about all of our friends that are black that are very, very successful?
00:01:24.000 But they have to work harder.
00:01:25.000 That's the fact of the matter.
00:01:26.000 Looking at racism is for broke people.
00:01:27.000 It's just an insult.
00:01:28.000 I just find it insulting.
00:01:29.000 Don't tell them.
00:01:30.000 It's not insulting.
00:01:31.000 You lead with it.
00:01:32.000 Get a new identity.
00:01:33.000 Especially as a black woman. 0.87
00:01:34.000 We are at the bottom of the list.
00:01:35.000 I'm a black girl.
00:01:36.000 What?
00:01:37.000 You're so much more than that.
00:01:38.000 You're so much more than that.
00:01:39.000 Then don't lead with it. 1.00
00:01:40.000 It's bullshit. 0.99
00:01:41.000 Listen, brethren, I didn't lead with it. 0.99
00:01:42.000 I use it as a comparison for me to explain why I'm not the same as every girl. 0.69
00:01:43.000 You can't lead with it.
00:01:44.000 Then why not tell us the skills you have and the person you are that lead with it.
00:01:56.000 Why don't you lead with that?
00:01:57.000 I don't like racism because they think someone can speak four languages.
00:02:00.000 Lead with the person you are. 0.96
00:02:01.000 It's given that you guys hate women. 0.77
00:02:03.000 That's the vibes right now. 0.99
00:02:05.000 No, no, no, no, no, no.
00:02:07.000 Let me be clear.
00:02:09.000 I just...
00:02:10.000 Wait, wait, wait.
00:02:11.000 We have to do one at a time.
00:02:12.000 Stop.
00:02:13.000 Stop.
00:02:14.000 Can I say something?
00:02:15.000 It's not a thing where they hate women. 1.00
00:02:16.000 If anything, they love women.
00:02:17.000 For a mind to tell you to think positively, how is that hatred?
00:02:21.000 The people are literally telling us that what we think is what's going to manifest.
00:02:24.000 So therefore, think positive thoughts and positive things will happen to you.
00:02:28.000 You guys on this table who are talking about feminism, you're all negative because why would you focus so much on comments?
00:02:33.000 Why would you focus so much on who's looking at your hairstyle, your accent or whatever?
00:02:37.000 And then someone comes to tell you to actually focus on the positive and you guys are saying they hate you.
00:02:41.000 No, be funny, but you can focus on it because just the other day, a man applied for a job and they told him he can't get a job because of his afro.
00:02:48.000 So you can't tell us to not focus on it when it is the focus.
00:02:51.000 That didn't happen.
00:02:52.000 Yes, it did happen.
00:02:53.000 Watch the news.
00:02:54.000 It literally happened the other day.
00:02:55.000 That's his experience.
00:02:56.000 But if he was smart, he's not going to let that hold him back.
00:02:58.000 That's the whole point.
00:02:59.000 That's why he went to the news and he spoke up about it.
00:03:02.000 I'm not being held back.
00:03:03.000 You can't tell us to not focus on it.
00:03:04.000 If I walk into a certain place of my afro, the first thing people are going to do is stare at me and certain places won't want to give me the job just because I have an afro.
00:03:09.000 You want me to tell you something to focus on it?
00:03:10.000 Yeah, but that's your mindset.
00:03:11.000 That's your mindset.
00:03:12.000 Try to change it.
00:03:13.000 You can't tell me to my mindset if they have told me I am not giving you the job because of my afro.
00:03:16.000 Do you know why?
00:03:17.000 Then go to another job.
00:03:18.000 My point is that should have happened point blank period.
00:03:21.000 That is my point.
00:03:22.000 Yeah, but the world is evil.
00:03:23.000 You can't say that's evil.
00:03:24.000 When did that happen?
00:03:25.000 Guys, guys, guys, guys, guys, wait, wait, wait, wait.
00:03:28.000 It was in the UK.
00:03:29.000 It was in the UK.
00:03:30.000 No, it was in the UK.
00:03:31.000 No, it was in the UK.
00:03:32.000 No, it was in the UK.
00:03:33.000 It was in the UK.
00:03:34.000 No, it was in the UK.
00:03:35.000 Thank you.
00:03:36.000 Do you know why you saw that in the news?
00:03:38.000 Because they want you to believe that racism is a real problem.
00:03:40.000 It wasn't even on the news, so you're lying.
00:03:42.000 She just said that it was in the news.
00:03:43.000 It was not only on the news, it went viral on Twitter.
00:03:46.000 Let's fact check now.
00:03:47.000 I said it was on the news, so you're just adding to it.
00:03:50.000 No, but you're saying only why you saw it on the news.
00:03:52.000 Yeah, that's where I saw it, so you're adding to it.
00:03:54.000 They share these stories like George Floyd and like that afro nonsense that you saw on the news in order for you to believe that there's a system that's holding you back. 1.00
00:04:01.000 It's not.
00:04:02.000 And you saw here, we're talking about race.
00:04:04.000 Hold on, so the man went online and was like, I didn't get the job, sat there and didn't have it at this point when he got on the news.
00:04:09.000 They pick and chose to run that story because it gives people like you a reason to feel.
00:04:13.000 Not people like me.
00:04:14.000 Exactly, people like you.
00:04:15.000 They used to want to give my mum free food in the market because they didn't believe that white woman could have three little kids with afros. 1.00
00:04:21.000 They used to give her food because they used to think that we're little African children that suffer.
00:04:26.000 These times we were quite wealthy.
00:04:28.000 So, for example.
00:04:29.000 Okay, my overall point is that people like to have a victim mindset.
00:04:33.000 It's not a victimization.
00:04:34.000 I'm just saying it exists.
00:04:35.000 That's it.
00:04:36.000 That's my point is that we hear this victimized mindset right now in order to give you a way to navigate the world that justifies a lot of your thoughts and beliefs.
00:04:43.000 We're talking about race and you're like, it's giving misogyny.
00:04:46.000 It is.
00:04:47.000 No, you are.
00:04:48.000 What is calling out the victimization of the race?
00:04:52.000 I feel the vibration.
00:04:53.000 You feel the vibrations of misogyny?
00:04:55.000 Yeah, of your mentality.
00:04:57.000 Your mentality is one of, you're a type of man.
00:05:01.000 What type of man?
00:05:02.000 No, sister. 1.00
00:05:03.000 They're just here trying to make you look stupid. 1.00
00:05:04.000 That's what their job is. 1.00
00:05:05.000 It's not that hard. 1.00
00:05:06.000 They like to make girls look dumb. 0.99
00:05:07.000 That's it. 1.00
00:05:08.000 It's not that fucking hard. 0.95
00:05:09.000 Don't take it personal. 0.95
00:05:10.000 They literally just want to catch you out.
00:05:11.000 I'm asking, I'm trying to get to what she really believes.
00:05:14.000 King Richard trains me for this.
00:05:16.000 All right.
00:05:17.000 What are the vibrations that I'm giving you?
00:05:18.000 Just give them misogynist.
00:05:20.000 Why?
00:05:21.000 What did we say?
00:05:22.000 I'm not being funny.
00:05:23.000 What value do you see?
00:05:24.000 And how do you value women?
00:05:26.000 Do you see the value of women? 1.00
00:05:27.000 Like, are you four or against feminism?
00:05:28.000 I explained it five minutes ago.
00:05:29.000 You didn't.
00:05:30.000 I said that I'm against feminism and I said that. 0.95
00:05:32.000 Yeah, but if you're going to call him a misogynist.
00:05:34.000 She asked me a question.
00:05:35.000 I'm finished.
00:05:36.000 I said the value of a woman is motherhood is in raising children. 1.00
00:05:39.000 I said that we respect mothers.
00:05:40.000 I opened the show by saying that.
00:05:42.000 Okay, go on.
00:05:43.000 So what did I say that makes you think that I'm a misogynist?
00:05:45.000 That's a serious allegation.
00:05:46.000 I said it's giving misogynist.
00:05:48.000 What is giving misogynist?
00:05:49.000 Your vibration.
00:05:50.000 My vibrations?
00:05:51.000 Yeah, the vibes.
00:05:52.000 You're vibrating misogyny right now?
00:05:53.000 The vibes.
00:05:54.000 No.
00:05:55.000 So are you vibrating with racism too?
00:05:56.000 No, you're moving a little bit mean though.
00:05:57.000 When moving a little bit mean, that's why.
00:06:00.000 I'm moving mean?
00:06:01.000 A little bit.
00:06:02.000 No, you're trying to put your masculinity into insertive and I don't like that.
00:06:06.000 That's a bit misogynist.
00:06:07.000 It comes a bit aggressive, right?
00:06:08.000 Yeah.
00:06:09.000 It's the masculinity.
00:06:10.000 I can feel it and it's like you're trying to suppress my feminine.
00:06:13.000 It's not.
00:06:14.000 It needs to be a bit more specific. 0.99
00:06:17.000 He's trying to suppress your dickhead. 1.00
00:06:19.000 Like, come on bro. 1.00
00:06:21.000 Y'all look.
00:06:22.000 Y'all are all smart, pretty young women. 1.00
00:06:23.000 You can do anything you want to in this fucking world. 1.00
00:06:26.000 And my message is this Oprah. 1.00
00:06:28.000 Listen. 1.00
00:06:29.000 Fucking. 1.00
00:06:30.000 Here's the thing. 1.00
00:06:31.000 I'm not.
00:06:32.000 And you swear a lot.
00:06:33.000 I do.
00:06:34.000 A lot.
00:06:35.000 I'm sorry.
00:06:36.000 I do.
00:06:37.000 I know.
00:06:38.000 I do.
00:06:39.000 I'm going to keep doing that.
00:06:40.000 So here's the thing.
00:06:41.000 I'm going to be particularly a young black man to think that he can't go out. 1.00
00:06:44.000 What about a young white man?
00:06:45.000 Young white man?
00:06:46.000 Yeah.
00:06:47.000 Go on.
00:06:48.000 Because that's what treats your experience.
00:06:49.000 No.
00:06:50.000 No.
00:06:51.000 It's because.
00:06:52.000 White and black.
00:06:53.000 We didn't see color here, right?
00:06:54.000 No.
00:06:55.000 Because we're talking about race particularly right now.
00:06:56.000 And I, like, no planet do I want to ever put out into the universe or allowed to be put
00:07:02.300 out in the universe that a young black man is going to not be able to be successful in his 0.74
00:07:06.300 life because of his skin color. 0.97
00:07:08.300 There's no chance.
00:07:09.300 And I will sit here and you can call me whatever you want.
00:07:13.300 But I just know too many of them.
00:07:14.300 And I know too many that have been successful.
00:07:16.300 Yeah.
00:07:17.300 But you're one of a few.
00:07:18.300 You're not.
00:07:19.300 But you have to understand how many people watch his show.
00:07:21.300 And how many people watch our channel.
00:07:23.300 It's important.
00:07:24.300 No, you're not.
00:07:25.300 I understand that.
00:07:26.300 But in general, it doesn't stop you.
00:07:28.300 But it does make a little challenge bit harder in the world.
00:07:31.300 Just a little bit.
00:07:32.300 Can I?
00:07:33.300 He's like, you're one of the first white men that I've met who have this mentality.
00:07:37.300 Maybe it's.
00:07:38.300 No, no, no, no.
00:07:39.300 You know what I honestly.
00:07:40.300 I think most white men.
00:07:41.300 True to my experience.
00:07:42.300 True to my experience.
00:07:43.300 No, not most white men.
00:07:44.300 True to my experience.
00:07:45.300 Prejudice exists.
00:07:46.300 Maybe not racism.
00:07:47.300 Let's adjust the word.
00:07:48.300 Not racism.
00:07:49.300 Prejudice is something different.
00:07:50.300 I do.
00:07:51.300 I believe that.
00:07:52.300 I think there's prejudice all over the world.
00:07:54.300 And in addition.
00:07:55.300 I was just a little bit strong and a bit more negative.
00:07:57.300 And a bit lowly.
00:07:58.300 Sure.
00:07:59.300 And in countries like Japan that are very, you know, homogenous.
00:08:03.300 They won't even let you in the restaurant unless you're Japanese. 0.99
00:08:07.300 Like, you guys, you think you've seen racism.
00:08:09.300 Bro, there's some places in this world I've been that are turbo racist.
00:08:14.300 Outwardly and get away with it.
00:08:16.300 I think a black person today has a better chance than they've ever had.
00:08:20.300 Is it completely fair?
00:08:21.300 No, I don't think so.
00:08:22.300 But I don't think life is completely fair.
00:08:24.300 At all.
00:08:25.300 And there's no way I'm going to let somebody mentally handicap themselves from the jump.
00:08:29.300 Don't assume that about me.
00:08:31.300 I don't think it's an impairment to me.
00:08:33.300 I know it made me a bit stronger, but I know it exists and it actually wasn't an obstacle.
00:08:37.300 Then for you it's a superpower.
00:08:38.300 Yeah, that's it.
00:08:39.300 Right?
00:08:40.300 I just want to reframe it.
00:08:41.300 Thank you.
00:08:42.300 And have a different relationship with it.
00:08:43.300 Yeah, but it didn't sound like a superpower then, did it?
00:08:44.300 No, because you didn't allow me to finish.
00:08:45.300 You start saying you're leading with that.
00:08:46.300 What does that have to do?
00:08:47.300 You became challenging.
00:08:48.300 And this is the problem.
00:08:49.300 This is why she said you guys are feeling a little bit like misogyny, but that's not
00:08:50.300 what she means.
00:08:51.300 No, no.
00:08:52.300 They're just talking.
00:08:53.300 Because it's important.
00:08:54.300 It's important because you have to go out into the world with the absolute mindset
00:09:09.300 that regardless of your circumstances, regardless of your background or your racial ethnicity
00:09:16.300 or anything that you can go out and you can make a success of your life.
00:09:20.300 That's it.
00:09:21.300 We all have to do that 100%.
00:09:22.300 And that's why they're getting so passionate about it.
00:09:23.300 You know what real love?
00:09:24.300 Because it's really important.
00:09:25.300 Exactly.
00:09:26.300 No, he's dead on.
00:09:27.300 You know what real love looks like?
00:09:29.300 In my opinion, real love is dark and real love takes risks. 0.99
00:09:32.300 So let's say you're fucking up and let's just say it was racism. 0.99
00:09:35.300 I'm willing to step in front of you and have you be angry with me so I can somehow change 1.00
00:09:41.300 where you're fucking up. 0.99
00:09:42.300 And you can be mad at me if you want, because most people, people that don't give a shit 1.00
00:09:45.300 about you will let you leave and be like, that bitch is fucking up. 1.00
00:09:48.300 I would much rather get into a heated argument with you and have the courage to sit in front 1.00
00:09:51.300 of you and tell you my truth and have the thought of somebody thinking that I'm racist
00:09:55.300 on the internet.
00:09:56.300 I'd rather do that than let the young men that follow me believe they don't have a shot.
00:10:01.300 I'd much rather sit in that.
00:10:03.300 And to me, that's the only kind of friends I want. 0.98
00:10:05.300 It's people that are going to tell me the truth when I'm fucking up. 0.94
00:10:07.300 So you get mad at me, but I just hate to see it led that way. 0.87
00:10:10.300 I'd much rather hear about the skills you have.
00:10:12.300 And I'm with you, Pearl.
00:10:14.300 I'll triple the 200.
00:10:15.300 And then are you going to say well done to my skills?
00:10:17.300 Or are you going to say go in the kitchen? 1.00
00:10:18.300 Fuck yeah. 1.00
00:10:19.300 Fuck yeah. 1.00
00:10:20.300 No. 1.00
00:10:21.300 You know how much women privilege you have? 1.00
00:10:23.300 You just got offered a thousand dollars to see if you could fix a car.
00:10:26.300 I know.
00:10:27.300 And that's what I'm saying.
00:10:28.300 It's a superpower. 1.00
00:10:29.300 Don't take it black because you're a black girl. 1.00
00:10:31.300 No. 0.99
00:10:32.300 No.
00:10:33.300 Don't take it back. 0.88
00:10:34.300 I'm a hustler. 0.99
00:10:35.300 Actually, do you hear the black privilege too? 0.97
00:10:36.300 I peeped it a little bit earlier.
00:10:37.300 Black people and minorities in general have more freedom of speech than white people.
00:10:40.300 Because you just said that, in my experience, white people aren't like this.
00:10:44.300 And he's the first white guy you've ever seen act that way.
00:10:47.300 You're able to say, and that's pattern recognition.
00:10:50.300 If a white person said the same thing, that would be seen as racist.
00:10:53.300 You can't make judgments about other minorities like that. 0.80
00:10:56.300 White people have the least amount of freedom of speech right now. 0.92
00:10:58.300 Because immediately, and especially right now, you call it saying that you're vibrating with misogyny because I'm speaking aggressively towards you. 0.61
00:11:04.300 That victim mentality gives you a lot more free speech than you're really aware of.
00:11:08.300 If I say something that upsets you, it's misogynistic.
00:11:10.300 If you see patterns in different races, that's just seen as your world view.
00:11:15.300 If he said the same thing, oh, you're the first black girl that talked that way, in my experience, you would call him a racist.
00:11:20.300 Yeah, he makes a good point.
00:11:21.300 Because if somebody, if one of us guys said, oh, this woman over here, she's, I can feel the vibration of her toxic femininity. 1.00
00:11:28.300 You know, would it just be, like, cancelled immediately?
00:11:30.300 Not really. 0.92
00:11:31.300 Nah, they would just call us retarded. 0.98
00:11:32.300 That's just a retarded thing to say. 0.99