JustPearlyThings - August 30, 2023


This Delusional Feminists Could Not Accept This Facts

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In this episode, we discuss what it means to be submissive to a man and what it takes to be a good submissive man. We also discuss why women are not willing to be the submissive women they are meant to be and how to become submissive so that a man will be attracted to her.

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00:00:00.000 i got a question though so you know how we were talking back to the
00:00:03.200 topic imagine you got a girl that's like a woman that's like 0.96
00:00:07.280 nurturing she wants to bring she's got a lot to bring to the table she's
00:00:10.880 she's peaceful she wants to help you she's submissive whatever 0.71
00:00:14.400 but she slept with three people is that now is that no well okay i'll give you 1.00
00:00:19.200 i think that's a gem i'll be honest yeah well nowadays yeah okay okay let's just
00:00:22.400 say you know what i mean like okay i'll tell you what i would say i'll tell you
00:00:25.360 what i would say in pearl's world i would say guys hold out for the virgins but if you're not
00:00:29.920 make her work for it because women we want a man we have to work for we don't like the guys that 1.00
00:00:34.800 just give commitment to us freely why we chase but so you know the man what but that's the thing most
00:00:40.640 women don't want to improve they don't want to be the things that men value and they don't care 1.00
00:00:46.240 what men men do want to conquer don't want easy things if you uh give a man like commitment easily
00:00:52.880 he would look for something for another but you're not giving him commitment you're giving him access
00:00:57.520 yeah you're in charge of sex you're not yeah exactly the guy has to commit to you and the
00:01:02.400 ultimate modern world you're in charge of no you're not the ultimate way the ultimate commitment
00:01:06.800 is marriage and he has to get down in one knee thinking you're in charge of commitment he can't
00:01:11.360 who convinced the man to get married is the woman that's the point working for it that's the whole 1.00
00:01:16.000 point yeah i hope he would want the value that the man gives to the woman is why then why would
00:01:22.720 he do value that the woman gives to him is the sexual intimacy that's what that's what that is
00:01:27.360 it's not because if you go oh i'm going to commit to you but i'm not going to have sex with you guys 0.99
00:01:31.040 not going to take that deal but if you go to a guy i'll have sex with you but i won't commit to you 0.99
00:01:37.360 because the value that a woman is giving to a man is different to what he gives to her commitment and 0.77
00:01:41.520 sex men would still go and look outside just for the sake of conquest just for the sake of 0.92
00:01:49.840 in terms of working for it i think it's this isn't about men and women this is human beings in general
00:01:53.840 we value things that we have to earn yeah that's it's that simple you are on a constant
00:01:59.920 of something else you wouldn't you are never satisfied with what you have how does a man show his loyalty
00:02:06.000 mainly it's normally through commitment right i'm not saying it's right that people do that but a lot of
00:02:10.480 men do do that because what women value is security for me i i have another i i black
00:02:15.760 white different things it's only black and white yeah there's no gray area yeah see women are not 1.00
00:02:20.000 like that yeah but you should be black and white you should be if you just thought you know women 1.00
00:02:23.760 how to be but you're telling men how to be it's the same thing and i'd say women tell men how to be 0.99
00:02:27.680 more than we tell each other because women are not black and white and we're never going to be 0.99
00:02:31.440 we know what you want but you don't know what men want we are not what you want like that though
00:02:36.320 no but we know what you want what do men want sorry we men generally know yeah what women want
00:02:42.480 yeah and we work most of our lives be successful tall good looking confident etc etc etc so we know
00:02:50.320 and we work towards that to get women okay what does what do men want we're telling you and you're
00:02:55.280 basically saying that that's not what we want yeah it's just crazy because the reality is men typically 0.99
00:03:00.640 want sex from women right yeah and the top men have figured out a way to game the system and get 0.98
00:03:05.760 sex from women yeah because they figured out what women want exactly but the women refuse to figure 1.00
00:03:12.160 out what the men want to get what they want and we're telling you and they keep and they will 0.96
00:03:15.440 keep arguing with men when men tell them what they want it's just for and what do you want is it the
00:03:19.760 the purity thing i wrote it on there i wrote yeah yeah yeah yeah see you want that yeah the purity thing
00:03:28.160 this is my point i literally said it and when i said it if you notice none of the submissive
00:03:32.960 even listened to it yeah it went over their heads yeah it's crazy well and it's funny if women cared 0.99
00:03:38.640 what men wanted why aren't any virgins on their wedding days you don't care but why that's the 1.00
00:03:45.200 it's hard listen no i'm trying to understand i'm intrigued and the thing is the whole thing
00:03:53.440 with submission is you've got to be with a man who you trust enough for you to let yourself get to
00:04:00.240 that because as a woman we are constantly testing you to see if you are worthy of our submission and 0.98
00:04:07.920 the problem that we face right now with a lot of women is they're seeing that a lot of men are not
00:04:13.040 stepping up to the plate yeah there's not enough masculinity nowadays unfortunately the men are
00:04:18.960 just acting i mean masculine you're absolutely right you're absolutely right the issue is though
00:04:27.600 the women are still giving what men want yes and i agree with you guys they should stop and that's 1.00
00:04:33.600 what we said and become what they were before and then we're not gonna have this issue i want to
00:04:40.480 i want to explain something to you the men are here here's the problem the the men actually are
00:04:46.640 bringing more to the table than women these days but the problem is women have an inflated sense of 1.00
00:04:51.280 ego thinking we're more important and more special than we are because we got these these jobs that are
00:04:56.400 pretty much more beautiful than the uh yeah can i say so wait wait so so men 45 of men do a job that runs
00:05:03.680 society that means they they drive the trucks they drive the buses they build the building so
00:05:09.200 half of men have a job that runs the infrastructure of society that's an important job okay so there
00:05:15.760 there's provisioning right protection the average guy is stronger than the average woman the average
00:05:21.040 woman is more promiscuous than the average man the average woman is fatter than the average man the 1.00
00:05:26.560 average woman is the same age so she's not even younger than the average guy that gets married it's like 30 and 0.52
00:05:33.200 30 or maybe it's a year so they have a year right so it's like when it comes to what we're bringing to the table
00:05:38.880 most men like most i would say our great grandfathers if they saw the quality of wives that men took today
00:05:45.280 they would be literally disgusted hopefully yeah but the problem but the problem is we have no idea
00:05:51.360 because the media lies to us men lie to us because they want to get laid uh politicians lie to us because
00:05:58.400 they want to vote we want they want us to vote for them and we get to 32 never having heard the truth
00:06:04.480 about what men think our entire lives we go to a school system that's completely run by women 1.00
00:06:09.840 and that's why a lot of men are really feminine because they're in this school system that shames 0.95
00:06:13.840 masculinity and so the whole system lies to us and it's not until our looks start to fade where we kind
00:06:20.560 of get a dose of reality and start to humble ourselves why do you think a lot of women around 1.00
00:06:26.000 the 30 year age you're asking me yeah become born again virgins because it's when reality hits in
00:06:32.560 that they actually realize what men want and so they try to start presenting as that kind of woman 1.00
00:06:38.160 yeah i agree to get the man because she's obviously feeling the pressure because she's older etc yeah
00:06:42.160 yeah i've got a slight defense for the women though because men do lie to you a lot to get sex that is 0.92
00:06:46.160 true yeah yeah but that is true this is why it's so important that you know when we're having a
00:06:49.920 conversation like this where there's no um no act to try and get sex listen to what we're saying
00:06:56.560 because this is where you're going to hear the truth yeah when you're on a date or in the club
00:07:00.480 men will say anything to you to sleep with you so listen now not when you had a few drinks and in
00:07:04.880 the club that's all i'm saying so you can take it you know but most people will just leave this room
00:07:08.880 i'll do this every week as well and i don't care and the other thing is like i agree with that 100%
00:07:14.640 and the other thing is i don't really believe in this submission when you feel like it i just think
00:07:18.800 it means you're not submissive yeah because i'm sorry the women that i know that are that are super 1.00
00:07:22.880 feminine they they don't argue they just they just follow but are you gonna trust to let someone who
00:07:29.760 is unworthy of trust to lead your life but the thing is the thing is by the thing is when you choose
00:07:35.600 a man that is you by default saying i trust this man but no of course i understand but if a woman by
00:07:41.920 default is submissive i mean if anyone comes to me i would be submissive just because i'm a woman
00:07:46.560 no no it's submissive to the man that you are interested in but even i have no issue being
00:07:51.680 submissive to a man but i just want to know that he can lead but here's the thing i want to have
00:07:57.040 confidence in him but here's but here's the thing sometimes sometimes he's not going to lead well
00:08:02.400 and that's the problem women are expecting perfection from men when we're not perfect
00:08:07.120 like sometimes he's gonna do he's gonna leave poorly but that's the one thing he really prides
00:08:11.520 himself in that he is like he can lead so why am i going to be like oh i'll let you off when that's
00:08:17.280 the one thing you want me to my question is my question is are you following perfectly no it's
00:08:22.480 not about being perfect but leading is bare minimum all right all right this is what this is what this
00:08:27.200 is what i think of when there's an employee boss relationship okay and i i just use this because it's
00:08:32.240 the one that we're the most familiar with when you're hired for a job are you arguing with your boss
00:08:37.520 all the time when he tells you something no you know and so typically if there's an argument however
00:08:43.600 you lose respect typically when there's an argument it's the employee's fault because they shouldn't
00:08:48.720 even be arguing yeah right they should just listen right yes and so so that's what why that's why i say
00:08:56.400 when there's a breakdown in a relationship typically it's more on the women because they're just not 1.00
00:09:00.320 listening okay but you lose respect for the person i will lose respect for my boss but do you know how
00:09:05.600 good leaders are made no enlighten me by leading you have to learn how to be a good leader oh yeah
00:09:11.920 if you don't let him lead how is he going to be a good leader so i'm a practice run this is
00:09:20.080 we want the man who's ready to leave i have a question i have a question that's what i have a
00:09:25.360 question i have a question do you do you think you were raised to be a good wife 1.00
00:09:30.000 do you think you're raised it depends on your culture it depends with your i'm asking about you
00:09:35.600 me yeah were you raised to be a wife i was yeah okay um so you you have a cookbook
00:09:41.200 my family have always great and you and you and you listen and you listen um no i chose completely
00:09:47.440 different route in my life okay okay so my point is women that typically were raised to be wives are 1.00
00:09:52.720 married before 25 typically okay listen if i was in morocco i would be married right now no no i'm sorry
00:09:59.040 i know no no no that i listen and i'm not typically well okay okay this is the funny thing you guys
00:10:05.360 inherently are starting to blame the culture instead of yourself when it's like it's like
00:10:10.560 every woman that's single over 25 there's probably something wrong with you and you should probably 1.00
00:10:14.960 figure it out i'm not saying i'm different i'm not saying i'm special but the the difference is when
00:10:19.520 men are in a situation they blame themselves where women will blame the world and so 0.98
00:10:25.040 and so and so and so and so and so i'm not i'm not talking about i don't know what your life is i
00:10:29.920 don't know about you but what do you blame yourself for for not being married yeah it's my
00:10:34.960 own fault what's your reason i i mean this isn't a this isn't a therapy session i'm just asking the
00:10:41.360 question um i'll give i'll give you one example right um i really was chasing sports i was chasing
00:10:46.720 an industry that makes zero money so would you say your parents didn't raise you to be a wife i would 1.00
00:10:50.640 say there was things that i could have done better yeah i would say yeah and your parents didn't step
00:10:54.880 in um because we're blaming parents now no no you know um i don't know what your point is like i don't
00:11:02.000 know i'm just you're you asked her if she was raised to be a wife i know so i'm just asking i know and i'm
00:11:09.600 saying that is your own fault my whole point is to be accountable i'm not blaming my parents i'm blaming
00:11:14.560 myself and just like every single because because my my only point to that is because she keeps
00:11:20.240 talking about the men not being able to lead and maybe we should come in with but do you submit to
00:11:25.360 men and you're not married and i'm saying we we need to come in with some humility because we are not
00:11:31.440 always perfect followers we're not always perfect wives yet we we put all this pressure on men to be
00:11:36.400 perfect leaders okay see this is it all goes back to the the thing of like men just kind of don't want
00:11:42.480 to be men and we have to just let it go but i need to tell you this is why i think men should just
00:12:01.440 stop dealing with us and just go to the 22 year olds and only marry virgins i mean i'm very happy with
00:12:06.960 my mom no no excuse me i'm 22. again again this is no no no no no no no no i said i said i said wait
00:12:13.840 wait i said hold out for five years and wait for the next round so they the next generation no no i
00:12:20.080 said hold out because like now like this is exhausting to a guy to convince you that he's
00:12:24.800 he's man enough to lead you and i'm not talking about you personally but just in general this is
00:12:29.360 exhausting it's exhausting and this is the funny thing like especially for the people that are arguing for
00:12:35.120 instance you you say you're into real estate and you sell houses is it every sale you make that you
00:12:40.800 make a buck from is it everybody you speak to that you're successful with but what happens when you're
00:12:45.280 successful eventually you go through a couple of losses you learn from them and then you figure out
00:12:49.840 how to move ahead that's what a leader does a leader is not someone that gets every single decision right
00:12:55.440 a leader is someone that can get something wrong and still have the guts to sit down and figure out yeah
00:13:01.360 but you can't like you what are you meant to do as a female then just be submissive to every single 1.00
00:13:05.600 man and hope that one marries you i'll give every single man but every man's meant to be a leader you
00:13:09.760 have to think as women we have a lot more to lose i'm meant to vet your man but once you pick them but 0.90
00:13:15.200 how do you vet them without submitting are you gonna even let me speak like how are you even gonna get
00:13:19.520 a man if you can't even let a man speak i don't i'm not i don't want to be married okay then look at the 0.74
00:13:23.920 stats with me then just listen or don't but you can't keep cutting me off the point is when a man
00:13:30.080 is trying to get his way ahead in life and he has a woman who is constantly pointing out all the
00:13:34.960 faults he can't focus on what he has to do as a man so one way or the other you're either going to
00:13:40.320 have to decide well you've said you don't want to get married so i don't even know why you're even
00:13:44.400 pressed about this whole situation but for people that want to be married the point is if you want to
00:13:50.240 be married you need to vet your man first then when you pick that man you need to trust in his
00:13:55.440 leadership that is it's as simple as if a man if a man if a man wants you right and he wants to be in
00:14:02.320 a relationship with you okay does he not have to demonstrate that he will show you does he not have
00:14:07.120 to demonstrate before you give him the title of husband or boyfriend does he not have to demonstrate
00:14:12.160 that he would be a good boyfriend yeah right he has to lead by example right so why would you think
00:14:18.560 that if you find a man that you're interested in and that you want to be his girlfriend do you not
00:14:23.520 think that you have to demonstrate that you would be a good girlfriend to him by showing what he
00:14:27.680 would what you would be if he committed to you yeah i know but we're talking about marriage here
00:14:32.880 i know but what i'm trying to say is before you a lot of this the contention is why would i submit
00:14:37.600 to a man right if i can't trust him right why should i trust him blindly it's literally like me going
00:14:43.680 on an airplane and the pilot is not qualified why would i do that okay to women it's a higher risk we 1.00
00:14:51.520 have a lot more to move and we look for safety remember we look for safety but you vet who you
00:14:56.000 go so we will go and be with the guy you do vet who you go on a flight with because that's why you
00:14:59.920 choose airlines you don't choose random independent whatever off the cuff right you choose airlines
00:15:04.240 because you know that's part of the vetting process and we hope for the best yeah but like do you ever
00:15:09.520 go in an airline where you think i wonder if this pilot is qualified no no no