JustPearlyThings - February 07, 2023


This Delusional Side Chick Said THIS


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Length

8 minutes

Words per minute

206.68568

Word count

1,690

Sentence count

46

Harmful content

Misogyny

13

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Hate speech

12

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Summary

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In this episode, we discuss monogamy in the 21st century and why women should or shouldn t be monogamish. We also talk about the benefits of being a side chick vs. being a main chick and why it s better to be the main chick.

Transcript

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00:00:00.000 We have trade money. Would you guys this currency is what we as human beings decide currency is so back in the day if I had 50 wives 0.93
00:00:09.000 Which they used to have but no cattle and and and and scoop over there had a hundred cattle
00:00:15.560 I mean like bro Shanika Shanisha I'll be getting on my nerves for the last six months
00:00:19.860 Take them and give me some of those cows and that's trade. That's currency 0.52
00:00:23.760 That's how we used to get things going back in the day. That's how it was
00:00:27.600 This is why you would hear about biblical men having a thousand wives. You weren't smashing a thousand of them
00:00:32.480 What it was is that they were connected to his name, which provided status power and protection
00:00:38.560 Would you guys give up monogamy for a guy that if you were really into a guy? 0.59
00:00:44.040 It's like long term where you know he could step out from time to time
00:00:49.160 I've been thinking about this a lot lately. Yeah. Yeah, it's been a
00:00:53.780 Like you're the main chick, but just you know every now and again he steps out
00:00:58.760 Possibly I don't know. No way. Why you're ready the side chick. That's what I feel 1.00
00:01:04.920 In the guy you're sleeping with like you're ready. He's not monogamous to you. Am I the side chick or am I the main?
00:01:10.100 No, you're the main
00:01:11.100 I mean every now and then he can go and yeah, screw a side chick. Maybe not even a concubine 0.98
00:01:18.220 No, why? So how come she was the side chick before? 0.77
00:01:22.320 Why was I a side chick? Yeah, why was you happy to be the side chick? Because I wasn't getting hurt
00:01:28.160 Okay, but it's so interesting to me because I'm just like
00:01:32.180 If I was gonna be a side chick, I would try to be the main chick 0.87
00:01:36.400 Like how- I could have been the main chick. I just chose not to
00:01:39.680 Yeah, that's the girl told me I'm white
00:01:42.440 It doesn't make no sense
00:01:44.440 Do you know why, Pete?
00:01:45.440 We don't want- 0.68
00:01:46.440 Okay, Pete, do you know why the point that you're missing?
00:01:48.440 I'm not condoning this, okay, so don't don't take this as me condoning it or saying to do it. So chat, okay
00:01:54.920 But if you're gonna do it, do it right. I swear to God
00:01:57.960 Because we don't want him like we don't want all of him. We just want certain parts
00:02:01.800 I'm just like-
00:02:02.440 So that's why we don't want to upgrade him to the main
00:02:04.760 Who are you? That's not what she said. That's not what she said. Yeah, but she said she doesn't like- she didn't like his lifestyle
00:02:09.600 No, no, no, no, I'm not that guy in the beginning of the- I listen in the beginning of the show
00:02:14.600 She said that you you hope that you're gonna like it'll be something someday or whatever
00:02:18.440 So I'm like if you're already emotionally invested you already like him
00:02:22.880 It- why don't you just compete and try to win ask her? What does she have that I don't?
00:02:27.160 I'm not- I'm not saying- I'm not saying the odds are in your favor. Ask the man, you know, that you come on the side
00:02:31.760 I'm just saying if you're already in that position, I would try to win
00:02:35.960 And I don't understand like how you can be like- I'm not the one- I'm not the one getting hurt when it's like you're the side chick 1.00
00:02:42.440 You're emotionally invested. Go ahead. I think the reason is insecurity and paranoia of
00:02:47.520 He's cheated on his girl with me. So then if I get with him, he's gonna cheat on me with another girl
00:02:52.120 Yeah, but you're already sharing him
00:02:54.120 You're already sharing him
00:02:55.120 Everyone's trying to paint this on the men. The real- the real point is this is that-
00:02:57.760 As a side chick you're not as emotionally involved like if you're his actual girlfriend
00:03:01.860 You're in love or or whatever you're saying you are so as a side chick you're not you're not doing that
00:03:07.900 So you said in the beginning that you're hoping that you'd be promoted to Maine
00:03:11.760 I mean you didn't use the- that's how I would describe it
00:03:14.580 You said it in different words, but I remember you saying that in the beginning
00:03:17.100 I think not always though like as as a whole lots of girls get emotionally attached
00:03:23.060 And then that's when it obviously becomes a problem you start thinking, you know, maybe I could and that's probably when you start
00:03:31.500 Trying to get him or trying to get him to make you but in that situation in my situation
00:03:38.080 I
00:03:39.020 He wanted me, but I didn't want him so I didn't want so he wanted he wanted to leave the main chick for you 1.00
00:03:44.780 Hmm, and you didn't want him. No, you know, but you said you were hoping
00:03:48.920 I'm so not not always I think that like as a
00:03:53.720 As a whole like if you are a side chick you are hoping for that in the end, but like I didn't I didn't want that
00:04:00.420 I personally think that side chicks 0.99
00:04:03.860 Don't want to become the main chick and the reason we is that no one's really saying is because they have other men that they are side chicks to 1.00
00:04:11.380 It's true. This is the part that no one's talking about. I don't know a lot about I'm new to the
00:04:16.940 This is why I'm gonna be a side chick. I'm learning new stuff. I don't want to get promoted. I don't want to get promoted
00:04:28.060 I'm working
00:04:29.560 Okay, so it's like I can't work 40 hours a week
00:04:33.320 I can't I can't work 40 hours a week because I got all I want to take a multiple part-time job
00:04:38.520 And if I have a full-time job then I have to get rid of my part-time jobs which work out more
00:04:46.540 Valuable than a one-time job. I'm making 50k with all of these
00:04:50.140 So so modern women want to be side chicks. Absolutely. They don't want to be the main dog. I was feeling you 0.97
00:04:59.000 Thought I was feeling you wasn't you thought I wanted to be the main didn't you know
00:05:02.640 I have plenty of you because the question we didn't ask you is when you was a side chick for that dude 1.00
00:05:07.060 And you want you to be to be the main was you dealing with somebody else to know you didn't have nobody else for six years
00:05:15.060 I
00:05:19.160 Here we are so there was somebody else that you was also in there wasn't like someone who was like a regular like you might end up me in
00:05:27.180 Someone else on like a night out and then you get talking for a couple weeks and then it sort of goes nowhere
00:05:32.360 But that that person within that six years is still the same convenience still the same person you go back
00:05:38.120 But what about you see when you said you was a side chick?
00:05:40.120 Mm-hmm when you was a side chick to the guy who was obviously with somebody else
00:05:44.600 Did you have other partners? Was you with other people?
00:05:48.080 No, not for the majority of the time. No way so wait
00:05:51.080 So when you was a side chick to that guy you was loyal to your guy
00:05:55.000 He was loyal to the guy. He was a side chick of basically is that what you're saying?
00:05:58.100 Yeah, pretty much because I'm going to him for a reason what if if I need if he's not fulfilling it
00:06:03.820 What is the point in going to him?
00:06:06.920 That's what I don't like three side men's 1.00
00:06:10.780 But you said you went on a date and it's late with someone else after
00:06:14.380 Yeah, but it's not like a regular thing. I wouldn't be sleeping with like three guys at the same time. That's horrific
00:06:19.420 It's more attention though. Yeah, you're playing with we're going to the extreme play
00:06:24.420 Yeah, we're playing and because if if the main guy that you said that was your guy who use a side chick for 1.00
00:06:30.100 Saw the messages that these do that you ain't serious with right. There we go. That's a smile. I needed to see
00:06:37.180 He wouldn't be happy with those who'd be like who's this?
00:06:40.140 Who's that? What does he mean by that? What does he mean by this?
00:06:42.860 Yeah, but I didn't have I wasn't that juggling multiple guys
00:06:46.340 At the same time, but no attention is a currency for women that men do not have the the 1.00
00:06:53.340 Benefit of using men can't use attention as currency women can use that 1.00
00:06:59.460 As currency in order for us to do that we have to be in some kind of scandal, but you can use attention as currency
00:07:05.560 So as much as you say, you're not cheating you actually get an attention from these random dudes is a setup
00:07:11.680 It's like someone filling out an insurance claim or filling out a form. That's what they're really doing
00:07:16.120 That's what men are actually doing when they're when they're trying to interact with you 0.91
00:07:19.480 They're filling out form trying to ticks those boxes
00:07:21.760 And if you take the right boxes in the right order the box opens the big box opens
00:07:27.040 That's how you get to the big box
00:07:30.680 That's how you get to the big boxes by ticking the little box and men know that from since we're five
00:07:35.400 Bring her a flower bring her a rose. Say something nice open the door for chivalry 1.00
00:07:40.540 We've been taught that since we was a kid, so that means you have been taught something
00:07:44.700 Which is in it has to be in response to that so you know what we want
00:07:49.860 Okay, so you
00:07:52.320 Monogamy you wouldn't give up monogamy
00:07:55.520 No, you maybe yeah, I'll consider it. Okay, I'll try it you try it. Are you jealous?
00:08:02.280 No, you'd be like yeah, yeah, have you guys ever been in non monogamous? Well, I guess she didn't know it