JustPearlyThings - June 01, 2023


This Explains Why Modern Women Are Delusional


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Length

9 minutes

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182.71513

Word count

1,821

Sentence count

13

Harmful content

Misogyny

29

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Hate speech

23

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In this episode we talk about the age old question of if a woman should get married when she s 25 or 30 years old. Is it better to get married at 30 or 20 years old? Why is it better for a woman to be married at 25 than at 22 years old ? What is the difference between a woman getting married at 22 and 25 years old and a woman marrying at 30?

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00:00:00.000 And men for hit reality hard because if a man makes a bad decision or if he ain't shit the world will tell him 0.65
00:00:05.240 Yeah, well, they will feed women lies and let her live in delusion 1.00
00:00:08.240 Mm-hmm like even even when I said you're less valuable when you hit 30 like that shouldn't be that's just life
00:00:13.620 Yeah, I'm less valuable than I was when I was 22. It just is what it is. It is what it is
00:00:18.000 It's not it's not a personal
00:00:22.000 Personal worth but honestly honestly honestly to everyone like your looks are currency girls don't even like we don't know how good 1.00
00:00:29.360 They have it because you are given more attention and opportunity because of the way you look life is on easy mode as a young
00:00:35.840 Pretty girl shit like hit hit 50 what life change every 1.00
00:00:49.680 We see it every day in the world, but people still choose to argue the fact it is true as a 21 year old
00:00:58.160 Your life was different to how it is now. It is a fact
00:01:02.240 It is a fact when you were younger you were more attractive you went out you you felt fresher
00:01:08.080 No, it's not about being to me
00:01:10.080 Honestly, no honestly i'm gonna i'm gonna ask you something then
00:01:13.680 Um, it happened to me to have many friends. They actually prefer like date older
00:01:19.360 They're trying to fuck you 0.98
00:01:29.360 Make the point men are trying to fuck you at 20 years old girl as a 15 years old women. That's not different 1.00
00:01:37.520 They are thinking just to
00:01:39.840 I don't want to be rude, but like you know, I mean they are thinking about that from the principle
00:01:45.360 So if uh, old women get you know less attractive and whatever it is 1.00
00:01:52.000 So anyway, that's quite good looking 15 years old women that they actually dating 20 or 30 1.00
00:01:59.840 years old man
00:02:01.840 It's not even
00:02:03.840 No, no, no, it's not it's not it's not even like honestly me personally I had friends
00:02:11.200 very good look six foot guys very good looking guys
00:02:15.840 they actually
00:02:17.280 dated
00:02:18.320 older women did they marry also child did they marry them with what intention did they did 0.99
00:02:23.280 it doesn't count unless you get a ring for me like
00:02:25.440 He doesn't know i'm saying it doesn't count unless he commits to you for life. So yeah
00:02:30.320 Like the guy is 26 years old give him the time to get married
00:02:33.520 I could I could I could say okay. I dated a guy that was a millionaire. Does that mean to make me a millionaire wife? No, no, no
00:02:39.280 No, yeah, but
00:02:42.640 The results are so first of all that's not the result for myself because I
00:02:47.040 20 years old women who can get married when she's 22. So she's so valuable or whatever 1.00
00:02:52.560 She got a lot of eggs
00:02:54.000 She can be left alone when she is 25 and the husband is sleeping around around and gonna left her alone 1.00
00:03:01.680 Looking after the child. So what about the value? We talking about she's still 25
00:03:06.400 She give you her best life her best
00:03:09.760 She's most valuable with the kids
00:03:11.760 She is by herself now. So what about this?
00:03:15.520 What about this?
00:03:17.520 Why don't she get married before she had the kid? 1.00
00:03:19.120 No, no, I said you getting a 20 years old women with a lot of eggs 1.00
00:03:23.680 Do you know beautiful and then everything so very do you know up up standard?
00:03:30.800 Not childless. Okay, so you get married with that you get you got a pregnant 1.00
00:03:35.280 So let's say you got one child or whatever
00:03:38.320 Now how many cases we know about men leaving the house with the child children
00:03:44.800 Or men still cheating on them? 0.99
00:03:46.320 Cheating?
00:03:47.280 So what about the value guys if she was that valuable?
00:03:50.480 So why it went outside to looking for others?
00:03:53.040 Because because cheating is different for men and for women
00:03:55.760 Men can have sex with a whole new world 0.98
00:03:57.120 And what about when they leave the children and the wife? 0.79
00:04:00.080 Men don't leave 0.60
00:04:01.040 What about they leave?
00:04:02.160 No, they don't
00:04:03.040 No, they don't
00:04:06.160 No, women leave 1.00
00:04:07.040 Women leave 1.00
00:04:07.680 There's too many numbers you forgot to take in here
00:04:10.960 Stop yelling, stop
00:04:12.480 I'm not yelling
00:04:13.280 No, you just were yelling
00:04:14.480 Okay, women leave 70 to 80 percent of the time 0.98
00:04:16.960 90 percent if you have a college degree 90 percent of the time you're leaving
00:04:22.800 Men by and large are not leaving
00:04:25.200 So that's not
00:04:26.000 Who do you men and women cheat at equal rates?
00:04:28.320 I'm not talking about cheating
00:04:29.440 I'm talking about
00:04:30.400 I know a lot of a lot of a lot of children left alone from their dad
00:04:35.120 Okay, I know a lot of single mother and they've been left alone
00:04:38.960 Okay, you can you can know it but you can look at who files a divorce
00:04:42.480 The difference
00:04:44.000 They probably never even get married
00:04:45.440 But that's not the one
00:04:46.400 Girls, girls, girls
00:04:47.280 But the difference from what she's saying
00:04:50.000 Is that the big difference is what you said that he married her
00:04:53.520 Yeah
00:04:54.080 That gives her status 0.96
00:04:55.440 Who cares if he's sleeping out?
00:04:57.040 She's covered
00:04:58.160 If she goes
00:04:58.960 Why get married?
00:04:59.920 That's what I was going to say
00:05:01.360 Thank you
00:05:01.840 You're married
00:05:02.480 You're married
00:05:02.880 You think about the position that they're in
00:05:04.480 A next wife and a baby mother are two different things 1.00
00:05:06.800 It's not the same
00:05:07.680 Guys
00:05:08.160 The man has committed
00:05:09.600 Sorry, Auntie Jenny
00:05:10.320 Just give me one second
00:05:11.520 Guys, I'm going to reiterate the rules
00:05:13.680 Because we're not getting there
00:05:16.240 One at a time
00:05:18.240 People at home can't hear you
00:05:19.840 It's a great conversation
00:05:21.120 I want you guys to have this conversation
00:05:22.720 But I need to be able to hear you
00:05:24.640 So please allow each other to speak one at a time
00:05:26.960 Thank you
00:05:27.200 Let's get into it
00:05:29.200 You got a young girl 0.99
00:05:32.760 You say 25 with a kid
00:05:34.200 And the man marries her
00:05:36.840 Leaves her, goes and sleeps out
00:05:38.320 You got a 25
00:05:41.200 Yeah
00:05:42.040 You got a 25 year old woman 1.00
00:05:44.280 Not married
00:05:45.720 The man has a kid with her and leaves her
00:05:47.680 Who's at the better advantage?
00:05:49.580 The one that got married
00:05:50.320 Why?
00:05:51.440 That's your point of view
00:05:52.640 Because we're married
00:05:54.000 And she can take everything 0.94
00:05:55.760 Because they're making everything about status
00:05:58.400 And what society think about women 0.95
00:06:00.400 That's the reason
00:06:01.620 No, we're making it about results
00:06:02.440 She got a ring
00:06:03.080 So she's going to be married
00:06:04.340 Who give a shit about being married? 0.96
00:06:06.200 I don't get nothing from a man
00:06:09.060 If I get married
00:06:10.040 What are I going to get?
00:06:11.680 That's like me saying
00:06:14.520 I'm an Olympian with no medal
00:06:16.300 What?
00:06:17.220 I'm an Olympian
00:06:17.840 Love, if you're
00:06:18.580 Like women live 1.00
00:06:21.080 This is what I mean
00:06:21.740 That's delusion
00:06:22.960 Women go through life 0.88
00:06:24.820 Living in delusion
00:06:25.980 But everyone has different pain
00:06:28.400 Like
00:06:28.680 No, no, no
00:06:29.460 Focus in life
00:06:30.560 No, it's not
00:06:31.120 It's your focus
00:06:31.720 If I
00:06:32.420 If I
00:06:33.420 If I
00:06:34.300 If I
00:06:34.900 If I have a ring
00:06:36.000 Then I am protected
00:06:37.740 I
00:06:38.180 If I
00:06:38.680 Okay, okay
00:06:39.480 Your mic is off
00:06:40.420 Because you keep interrupting me
00:06:41.460 If I have a ring
00:06:42.860 That I'm entitled
00:06:43.780 Then I am protected legally
00:06:46.280 I'm protected legally
00:06:47.560 If you don't
00:06:48.080 From what?
00:06:48.820 From
00:06:49.060 From what?
00:06:50.360 From what?
00:06:51.200 Do you not know
00:06:52.180 You can turn it on
00:06:56.840 Go ahead
00:06:57.200 Oh, I was on mute
00:06:58.100 This whole time
00:06:58.580 Okay
00:06:58.840 But if
00:06:59.580 If he
00:07:00.060 If he's cheated on you
00:07:01.440 Like a 20 year old
00:07:02.680 He's married her 0.69
00:07:03.360 She's young
00:07:03.880 She's got eggs 0.99
00:07:04.480 Whatever
00:07:04.700 Whatever
00:07:05.040 He's married her 0.69
00:07:06.340 They've had vows
00:07:07.600 They've had a child
00:07:09.100 And he's cheated
00:07:10.080 She's okay
00:07:11.420 Because she's got a ring
00:07:12.460 That's alright
00:07:13.140 He's racist
00:07:14.120 He's broken a vow
00:07:14.920 You're not getting a point
00:07:15.980 She's special
00:07:16.580 But he cheated on somebody
00:07:17.800 She's special
00:07:18.480 Because he married her
00:07:19.380 That's what's the most
00:07:20.020 And then
00:07:21.400 And then cheated
00:07:21.880 There's a side chicken
00:07:22.760 And the wife
00:07:23.320 I'm sorry
00:07:23.440 I hadn't finished
00:07:24.060 I hadn't finished
00:07:25.080 Sorry
00:07:25.280 So you said
00:07:26.060 That there was
00:07:26.420 The 20 year old
00:07:27.240 Who got married
00:07:28.620 Had a baby
00:07:29.400 And he cheated
00:07:30.120 And then you got
00:07:30.860 The 25 year old
00:07:31.940 Who had a baby
00:07:32.800 But didn't get married
00:07:34.200 And he cheated
00:07:35.400 Or let's just say
00:07:36.060 They're both the same age
00:07:37.100 Right
00:07:37.340 The one that had a ring
00:07:39.000 Is more special
00:07:39.980 Because she got a ring 0.92
00:07:40.920 She is protected
00:07:42.120 Okay she's protected
00:07:43.620 By law
00:07:44.260 Because it's husband
00:07:45.220 Wife
00:07:45.540 Yeah exactly
00:07:47.620 So like
00:07:48.340 So because
00:07:49.540 Sorry I hadn't finished
00:07:50.400 So because she's
00:07:51.500 Protected by the ring
00:07:52.760 That makes her more 1.00
00:07:53.960 Valuable
00:07:54.520 Because she got the medal
00:07:55.760 Let's be real
00:07:56.880 She got results
00:07:57.880 Let's be real
00:07:58.680 Let's be real in life
00:08:00.320 Oh sorry I hadn't finished
00:08:01.780 Wait no but you stopped
00:08:03.020 And then you say
00:08:03.580 I haven't finished
00:08:04.180 No because you cut in
00:08:05.620 And didn't let me finish
00:08:07.060 Okay go on
00:08:07.720 So then
00:08:08.480 Sorry I've just
00:08:09.600 You just said
00:08:10.340 The result was the ring
00:08:12.100 But the result was
00:08:13.580 He or she got cheated on
00:08:15.140 Okay cool
00:08:15.320 Okay
00:08:15.780 Allowed to finish
00:08:16.660 Allowed to finish
00:08:17.100 Allowed to finish
00:08:17.320 All right cool
00:08:17.500 No it's just like
00:08:19.640 They're both
00:08:20.420 They're both at a loss
00:08:22.320 It's not
00:08:22.960 One is better than the other
00:08:24.180 They're both equal
00:08:25.060 Okay
00:08:25.420 Well it's not
00:08:26.000 No no no
00:08:26.620 It's not equal 0.69
00:08:27.300 Because one's married 0.79
00:08:28.140 This is my point
00:08:29.040 So one's protected
00:08:30.000 So because she got married 1.00
00:08:31.380 She's protected by law
00:08:32.880 Because of divorce
00:08:33.860 And all that
00:08:34.720 Yes
00:08:35.160 Can we be real about life
00:08:38.680 No I'm just taking it in
00:08:40.580 I'm not disagreeing
00:08:41.580 I'm just saying it
00:08:42.420 To make it clear
00:08:43.300 So if we're being clear
00:08:44.820 About life
00:08:45.640 Like you said
00:08:46.740 We have two women 0.59
00:08:48.340 In identical positions
00:08:49.980 But one is married 0.94
00:08:51.340 And one is not
00:08:52.420 If you're not married
00:08:54.560 And it all goes pear shaped
00:08:56.620 You're gone
00:08:57.460 You're out
00:08:58.080 There's nothing
00:08:58.840 You can't go nowhere
00:08:59.880 And say well
00:09:00.600 He cheated on me
00:09:01.880 I should get half
00:09:03.120 Sorry love
00:09:03.900 You're not married
00:09:04.500 Forget about it
00:09:05.500 If you're married
00:09:06.780 You're entitled
00:09:08.140 To half
00:09:09.020 In life
00:09:10.080 Let's be real
00:09:10.940 You're getting half
00:09:12.200 Okay cool
00:09:12.760 I've been cheated on
00:09:13.480 Emotionally
00:09:14.220 You might be sad for a bit
00:09:15.540 But again
00:09:17.180 As they say
00:09:17.940 Do you want to cry
00:09:19.060 In a Bentley
00:09:20.560 Or in a Fiat Panda
00:09:22.740 It's the reality
00:09:23.980 You want to get cheated on
00:09:26.840 And go and stay
00:09:28.140 Go back home
00:09:28.980 To your mum
00:09:29.520 Or stay in a room
00:09:30.480 With your friend
00:09:31.180 Or do you want
00:09:32.680 To get the house
00:09:33.360 Do you want to
00:09:33.980 Do you want that
00:09:34.380 And men
00:09:34.880 And men
00:09:35.440 And men
00:09:35.680 And men
00:09:36.220 And men
00:09:37.180 And men
00:09:39.700 I was talking first
00:09:40.740 And men look at
00:09:42.300 Ex-wives and ex-girlfriends
00:09:43.580 Different
00:09:44.040 Men look at
00:09:45.780 Ex-wives and ex-girlfriends
00:09:47.020 Different
00:09:47.680 Because one has results
00:09:49.540 And they can say
00:09:50.060 Oh that man chose her
00:09:51.080 She was worth being chosen
00:09:52.140 Where a girl 0.80
00:09:52.960 That's over a certain age
00:09:54.540 They're like
00:09:54.800 Why nobody choose you
00:09:55.920 Because I know
00:09:56.380 Other guys aren't stupid
00:09:57.320 Exactly