JustPearlyThings - This Feminist DESTROYED Everyone On The Show After Hearing This

00:00:00.000 you leave it's never when they catch him cheating it's like when he stops it's like

00:00:03.520 too late now it's like it's like no no it's like they cheat sheets they catch him and then six

00:00:08.620 months later then you leave why you could have you could have left when he was cheating so so

00:00:14.520 in my head it's like when he's cheating when she has actual evidence of cheating she stays when

00:00:18.900 she has no evidence of him cheating she leaves so modern women like to be cheated on that's my 1.00

00:00:23.900 point modern men i've never heard men say oh i was cheated on and i stayed because they don't

00:00:29.640 admit it i'm a therapist i work with men who just stay with cheating women you don't work and be

00:00:34.740 around that but if you are around it you see men all the time saying i got with this guy i know she

00:00:40.180 was a bit loose she had her pictures on instagram i know she slept with one of the guys i knew but i 1.00

00:00:44.340 still loved her i got married to you're selecting cheaters as well why did they stay the whole point

00:00:52.760 the whole point is like when he's cheating she's staying when he stops she leaves the men don't

00:00:57.420 men don't typically leave relationships women leave 90 of the time if they're college educated

00:01:01.300 they're not likely to leave even if a woman's cheating in marriages they're more likely to stay 0.69

00:01:05.900 in marriages where women cheat because they're cooked they're cooked yeah yeah let me let me let me 1.00

00:01:12.520 let me take let me take half of your assets up to 70 in the uk and your kids i mean it's not like

00:01:17.200 they want to stay the government's the government's making them stay they have to stay they have no

00:01:21.400 choice yeah but they they pick cheaters as well but you agree with that right yeah i don't think you have a

00:01:26.520 choice especially when you've got kids because then you lose kids with women when we leave we 1.00

00:01:30.320 don't lose our kids you lose your kids but i do think that men pick cheaters as well because you'll

00:01:35.120 see the girls who've got clear red flags that i'm gonna cheat her body's out on instagram she's lots 1.00

00:01:40.000 of guys know her whatever it is they're the girls that get the most attention and if you didn't want 1.00

00:01:43.980 a cheating woman you wouldn't she wouldn't come in your radar yeah but where does you said where does 1.00

00:01:48.820 relationship starts through sex you said that earlier in your podcast they start through sex but who wish

00:01:55.240 women make it to the final rounds not the unfaithful ones you'd be not not for the men with the 1.00

00:01:59.880 options i agree they're a desperate there's a simp epidemic yes there is a simp epidemic yeah but

00:02:05.040 the men the men that have the choice i don't i don't think they pick cheaters men that have the

00:02:09.920 choice i do but alpha men like i was saying in the alpha men don't pick cheaters not at all but the

00:02:14.860 majority of men aren't alpha and they choose who's beautiful you're saying she is like it's a blood type

00:02:18.840 someone someone can be in a situation and they just get lost in the sauce and they fuck up or 0.80

00:02:26.360 they choose to go and cheat it's not it's not like a oh this person is a cheater that person is not

00:02:31.780 there are definite signs but someone has to cheat first once at least do you get me so before they

00:02:37.860 cheated they was i mean the whole the whole point is that when he's cheating she stays when he's not

00:02:43.080 cheating she goes like i don't i don't see the same thing for men where when she's cheating he stays

00:02:47.560 when she's not cheating he goes i don't feel like men are quicker to leave but yeah yeah but i do but

00:02:54.660 it doesn't add up statistically if you're saying women file for divorce more and women cheat more

00:02:58.720 that tells us that women are being selected more and they're the ones choosing to leave so men aren't

00:03:03.320 leaving cheaters and they're choosing them that doesn't add up statistically say that again so if

00:03:07.860 women are more likely to divorce a man and women are more likely to cheat that shows us that men are 0.98

00:03:13.240 more likely to stay with cheaters women are the ones exiting there's a simp epidemic that's 1.00

00:03:17.620 absolutely true i think also adding up i think also maybe the the women aren't cheating first 1.00

00:03:23.060 maybe because i think you know the woman will stay with the man that's cheated for a little while

00:03:28.280 and then she'll find you know the jujitsu guy or the best friend or the cassie and diddy kind of

00:03:34.180 situation yeah that's true and then that that betrayal is so much that he just you know i mean

00:03:38.620 yeah maybe they're not cheating first they're not cheating with a team or i think that it's like

00:03:45.040 the women i mean i think it's mostly like the girls settle with the like the beta guy or the guy she 0.99

00:03:51.260 didn't really i mean i want to say settle it's really her level but she settles with the guy she

00:03:54.560 doesn't want and then cheats with the guy she does i can't i can't speak on that do you think i i

00:04:02.980 don't i wouldn't be able to i've never been with a speaker i don't know what i'd be honest i don't

00:04:12.040 cheat i don't know what that vibe what it is um so i can't really speak on it but i do think you know

00:04:18.280 when a girl's able to cheat just like when you know with a man i disagree you know i swear to god 0.82

00:04:22.760 there's this girl oh my god i've told this story on my on my podcast before i don't think you know

00:04:27.160 there's a girl on my um my i need to be careful sometimes i'll be finding these people there's a

00:04:32.980 girl on i was on three different teams so there's a girl on a team i was on in college yeah and

00:04:37.160 literally she was a girl next door you would never know she seemed like the sweetest chick and i swear 1.00

00:04:41.140 to god she had a guy she dated her freshman year of college dated him for a month he cheated he was 0.99

00:04:45.780 like all around town whatever her senior year um she was with the guy that bought her bought her 0.61

00:04:50.580 house she moved in and i was i was yeah yeah i've told it before and i was at a party and literally

00:04:56.980 like her and her body wasn't on instagram she was a school teacher good with kids sweet nice like 1.00

00:05:01.780 and literally she was in the bathroom with the guy from freshman year at the party her boyfriend came

00:05:07.340 to and and my chill he bought her house he bought her and that was kind of a red pill moment for me

00:05:17.360 where i was like god damn you would never know yeah and i also maybe because i live in dubai and i see

00:05:21.720 a lot where these men are setting the women up they're getting them nannies getting them drivers and 1.00

00:05:25.860 they're using that spare time and his money to go on dates with their boyfriend and that's where i

00:05:30.580 think the cheating on the women's side is so much worse because she's doing it on his clock and on 0.89

00:05:34.580 his money i've seen it firsthand that it's like with his car they're going out to that's that's simping

00:05:40.420 though yeah that's it like but they're okay with it because they they want to cheat as well so there's

00:05:44.660 like as long as there's a lot of there's a lot of open marriages in like hollywood and stuff so do 0.99

00:05:49.620 you think it's just a way forward sadly what both people cheating open marriages of course 1.00

00:05:54.340 i think it's just it's different it's different it's not i think everyone says with cheating and

00:06:00.180 and and stuff like this in general it's just like everything's the same the men can cheat so

00:06:04.820 therefore women can cheat and women and men cheat the same way and we just cheat as much it's all

00:06:08.340 nonsense and it's completely different sure both sexes cheat both genders cheat whatever but the men

00:06:14.260 are doing it for a different reason to the women are and the women are doing it from different

00:06:16.900 i mean i think as a woman if you're if you have an instagram that's open and you got like

00:06:21.780 like sexual pictures i think that's cheating yeah yeah and they pick that girl i think that's worse 1.00

00:06:31.540 i'm caribbean and obviously like once you obviously we have our carnival yeah so our costumes as you

00:06:35.700 lot know they are very revealing so me personally like i had this conversation my guys many many years

00:06:40.500 in a row that my ex obviously she was my guy type of my ex she would dress up in the most when it comes 1.00

00:06:45.540 carnival and all you really see is is a little little bra that covers the nipple because i'm

00:06:49.940 that covers the tonton and big old feathers now me personally now her instagram's all of that

00:06:54.740 i don't mind any of that to me i don't see that as being cheating because i'm okay with it it's only

00:06:59.540 cheating if you as your spouse is not okay with it and you're still doing it against that you don't think

00:07:06.180 that's an invitation was she advertising she could advertise to the world ain't the world touching it 0.58

00:07:10.900 so can she make only fans yeah we we make an only fan together i'm i'm down for that your definition

00:07:17.540 is because the definition of cheating is there has to be some level of sexual intimacy and there has

00:07:22.420 to be some level of secrecy if there's no secrecy then it's not cheating so i think he's right yeah

00:07:27.700 so if you're in an open relationship it's not cheating that wasn't an operation yeah

00:07:32.260 yeah i just i just i think accepting i mean look at if if if you're in if you're in a relationship

00:07:39.700 and you know you're with a guy that says it's okay you know it's kind of the same thing as like being

00:07:44.260 with a woman or like with a guy that's like a woman that says it's okay to sleep with other girls like 0.85

00:07:49.060 but i just think attention is currency to women and you're like accepting attention from other men like

00:07:53.220 i just i wouldn't that's disrespectful that notion is disrespectful you know because it's how you

00:07:58.340 receive it it's how they receive it it's like there's only a matter of time before somebody that

00:08:02.980 is giving the attention is someone that she wants to reciprocate the attention to it's only a matter

00:08:06.740 of time but that's where trust is supposed to come into it but there's trust and then there's

00:08:10.740 you're supposed to put borders around and boundaries around to limit the environment like i said i'm

00:08:14.980 a person so this culturally that's normal for man so we act about if i can go to a club and wine and

00:08:20.180 shock up on 15 20 gal knowing that yeah i'm not taking no instagram no numbers no nothing i'm going

00:08:24.660 home to my girl and i'm still cutting up in bed listen when when the snipers are out and they're

00:08:29.540 looking for women that are in relationships so you think all right cool yeah this girl will probably 1.00

00:08:33.060 chew on them man what do you guys think are the are the telling signals and one of them is like

00:08:38.180 revealing themselves in a certain kind of way because i look at the women that are happy in their

00:08:42.820 relationships and they don't do that they don't even post exactly yeah that's disrespect why would you

00:08:46.340 still post revealing pictures if you're already in that and you don't really want to go out like that

00:08:50.340 when you're in a happy relationship exactly that's what i mean as a girl anyways what you disagree

00:08:54.980 though what do you think you said you forgot what i disagreed with you said that it's not a prison

00:09:00.020 a relationship i think oh yeah yeah so i feel like the boundaries of having to not post what you want

00:09:07.540 on your instagram that sounds quite like a prison because it's that is why do you not want to be

00:09:13.620 i have a question would you give up your social media for a guy if you said i'm not comfortable with it

00:09:17.940 um or would you mind if he was liking thirst traps like or is that putting boundaries on him and that

00:09:26.500 is no see yeah even that i think it's weird i think if he was commenting i think guys that don't like

00:09:32.100 when their girl posts it's weird i feel like when girls don't like when their guy likes other girls

00:09:37.140 pictures i feel like those are like really about two serious boundaries like it depends like you can't be

00:09:43.220 hypocrite like you can't be like the girls that don't like it you the guy then can't be dumb like 0.88

00:09:47.860 you can't be a hypocrite with the situation if one's open with it i feel like that one should be

00:09:51.220 open to a certain degree as well no i'm yeah i'm saying they're both weird listen okay it also does

00:09:58.500 great girlfriend it also does depend on what they post you're saying about oh whenever they post it's

00:10:02.580 about what they post that's the issue that's the thing is the content yeah i don't think so

00:10:06.900 it is i feel like what you post is a reflection of like like your thought process maybe your style

00:10:12.900 whatever um it's it doesn't necessarily mean it's an invitation for people what do aspects say about

00:10:17.940 your style it just says you've got a good fucking butt you can be good and it doesn't mean that you're 0.90

00:10:23.060 inviting people to come cheat with you that's how i see it like it doesn't matter how guys see it

00:10:28.500 well no but if you're in a relationship with a guy then it doesn't matter that you respect exactly

00:10:32.100 it only matters how your guys do you know you know i hope that works if it works if it works

00:10:37.860 for you if it works for you then cool okay i'm gonna take a second to read super chats um guys um

00:10:43.460 blessing wants a monopod did i say it right a monopod yeah so i'm also the top super chatter today

00:10:50.180 gets um we're gonna send you am i gonna sign like a hat or something i don't know i'm signing something

00:10:56.340 and it will be sent to you um allegedly um okay so clifford range imagine buying a new car but the

00:11:04.260 salesman tells you that they want to keep a for sale sign in the front window that's instagram

00:11:09.540 um doug mpa bro in the back is the king of simps simp um 90 frito pie relationships are from god this

00:11:16.180 is why we fail them um jacob mckenzie the girl's argument makes no sense by definition you must be

00:11:20.980 chosen to cheat in the first place so girls are either single or they cheat therapists are always 0.86

00:11:26.020 nuts 90 free to pay what's your girl's insta hot guy simp i'm 90 free to pay youtube censors hard

00:11:32.020 is there another way to chat um i probably can add cash app or something next show i'll look and do it

00:11:37.220 jared braggs um men on mass aren't picking cheat men cap men on mass aren't picking cheating women 90

00:11:44.580 free toe pie domestic violence is not justified it hat dude equals simp um marriage causes divorce

00:11:51.060 all the research shows women get over divorce quicker as they have been planning it whereas the 1.00

00:11:55.700 men lose everything like money house and the kids um nsx if you are a broke chad but high energy and

00:12:01.300 seems smart and ambitious she will bed you in hopes that to help you succeed and earn a bag you got 1.00

00:12:06.980 three months can extend if you show progress time short true for 90 of women 90 frito pie name a funny

00:12:14.580 woman um 90 frito pie your toner is off get better at speaking miss k 90 frito pie if you had no

00:12:21.860 um if you had no oh pussy then what leverage would you have doug mpa um discount kim k needs to realize 1.00

00:12:30.260 that men smash nines and tens but mary sixes and sevens nines and tens are too much maintenance and

00:12:35.060 will always take up too much energy russell warren thanks for the discussion i appreciate it um edgar

00:12:40.580 reyes my great grandpa had a wife and he had five other women my grandpa had another woman across town

00:12:46.420 double standard maybe nsx if a man walks away from his career chances chances increase she will lose 0.83

00:12:53.780 interest if he wants a career back after 12 months he is likely disadvantaged by three-year careers men

00:12:59.860 shoes career please i'm going to refresh it really quick just to make sure there are no other ones

00:13:04.660 guys like the video um there are over 2 000 people watching live so i think we should have at least 2 000

00:13:10.100 likes um okay spent spencer caribbean what this man is saying is cap if he cared about his woman he

00:13:18.660 wouldn't be happy for her just to be out there like that he is just a pimp um pj cornell just travel

00:13:24.020 and find non-western women clifford range oh i read that one okay um okay so i was gonna show this earlier

00:13:31.140 let me pull it up what percent of nba players do you think get divorced after retirement 90 percent

00:13:46.580 because they put up with that and now it's like are you broke

00:13:53.220 what do you guys think i think it would be high but i think it's more for the fact that the women 1.00

00:13:57.460 were used to them not being around so much and they didn't realize it had so much conflict until

00:14:01.540 they spend so much time together and then they divorce yeah i mean yeah so what percent do you

00:14:06.260 think it has nothing to do with the money definitely has a percentage of course 100 what percent

00:14:13.220 no what percent get divorced do you think a very high like 70 75 75 yeah i would say about 70. what do you

00:14:19.140 think i think maybe like 50. 87 percent and i think it's within a couple years damn that is way too

00:14:31.860 high they're not on the purpose so he's not even making his money anymore and he's she still takes

00:14:35.860 off she's crazy and she can cheat on him and still take his half his money isn't that crazy 1.00

00:14:41.300 how does that work she gets caught she and she wouldn't be able to it gets a lot of fun guys invest in

00:14:47.220 ring for your door yeah it says 16 of nfl players drafted between 1996 and 2003 declared bankruptcy

00:14:58.900 within 12 years of retirement yeah because even minus in the woman remember the lifestyle the men lead

00:15:06.340 yeah it's hectic do you think women marry a lifestyle yes what do you guys think yes oh yeah 1.00

00:15:15.300 i think smart women do i think they do but it doesn't lifestyle doesn't mean have to be doing up 1.00

00:15:20.900 holidays it can be i just want to be married with kids and i just want to stay home and i don't want

00:15:25.300 to be working all the time or i want to get pregnant that's also lifestyle so yeah they definitely

00:15:29.700 married for a change they want to change whatever life they're living i think potential plays a huge part in

00:15:34.100 it her her uh her ability to see the potential in the man will determine what kind of lifestyle you

00:15:39.700 have what percent of american football players get divorced do you think that's high as well slightly

00:15:48.100 i feel like maybe their women stay like i was watching a program under the nfl lot and a lot of 1.00

00:15:53.300 them have like homegrown women like homegrown women so yeah like childhood sweetheart type yeah yeah 1.00

00:15:59.060 so maybe a lesser percent like maybe something like 70. but they also got like injuries and stuff

00:16:05.860 like that so it's um yeah and they're really volatile and yeah yeah that's techy oh i'll give it a 70.

00:16:12.740 yep same i'd say about 75. you guys are good 60 to 80 percent so they argue

00:16:19.780 you know billionaires have the lowest rates of divorce and highest rates of marriages maybe because they have

00:16:24.180 the most to lose but it's like billionaires just don't get divorced why is she leaving yeah he take

00:16:30.260 off he makes another 100 billion later on and they've got the highest rate of marriage they like 87

00:16:36.100 of billionaires are married and they've got the lowest rates of divorce well i think it's because um

00:16:42.660 they stay married for legacy where where um people that like get money quick often lose it quick and 0.99

00:16:50.020 they usually also come from rich families and so they grew up in full parent like that kind of

00:16:54.180 lifestyle whereas people who get rich through sports and music they don't usually come from stable homes

00:16:58.980 always well i just think of like the gates like bill gates hillary um um hillary like sorry not the

00:17:05.700 gates sorry the clintons like the gates got divorced the clintons how they stayed married even through

00:17:10.340 everything but i don't i don't even think they like each other yeah exactly exactly i just think it's like a

00:17:15.620 legacy thing yeah legacy respect and everything you know reputation talking about all of these

00:17:21.460 factors legacy what do you what do you guys think about like um nick cannon

00:17:30.980 because you can't invest in each child equally when they're from sporadic homes well let's look at

00:17:36.100 like this let's look at them financially but you can't emotionally be available yeah but even if you

00:17:41.780 had one household with um 12 kids yeah have you seen cheap about a dozen no but there's kids going

00:17:49.060 missing you you know i mean at least i would say this right if you if you divided the kids up amongst

00:17:55.300 different households yeah they would get more attention from their mother at least that's actually 0.98

00:18:00.020 a good point when you think about it because i was one of ten we didn't see my dad at 10 he's gone a lot

00:18:04.180 i know but you know it's the knowledge of that he's gonna come home whereas with when you're sporadic it's

00:18:09.620 like dad might not come yeah yeah but you might say listen every sunday we're gonna round everybody

00:18:14.420 up and we're gonna you know yeah because in all of history it's been multiple it's like 8 000 years

00:18:22.180 ago 17 men reproduced for every one man it's not like the men were like the kids were fine but they

00:18:27.220 would all be in one home and when you have separate homes you also open up the doors for other men entering

00:18:31.700 the home with your children and child abuse increases are you sure yeah 100 child abuse is highest

00:18:36.020 no no no no no no no no i wasn't talking about that part i was like that they were there because

00:18:44.980 like in the old days like men had to go off for months at a time as in they would all be in one 0.58

00:18:49.140 home he'd have to provide for one home one household it wouldn't be for 10 different women in 10 different 0.99

00:18:54.660 villages that that one just doesn't that one just doesn't benefit the women that that you know

00:19:00.980 nick cannon's ideology just doesn't really it doesn't benefit the children because you're opening

00:19:04.900 them up to step parents and i can't i can't lie to you me if i if i woke up yeah one day and i

00:19:10.580 realized that i got a brother i didn't know about and i got this whole big family and i thought i was

00:19:14.980 the only child i'm not going to be upset i'm not going to lie or if your mom had entered a stepfather

00:19:19.940 who was abusive to you throughout your life why does it have to go there because it's more likely

00:19:23.540 statistically that's why i don't know i think wait what are you what are you talking about when you when

00:19:28.420 you have lots of like 10 different baby moms you're opening the door up for step parenting step 0.99

00:19:33.140 parenting is linked to more child abuse and home neglect even if not abuse neglect because they

00:19:37.540 start a new family and the child always feels like an outside looking in so that's on the women though 1.00

00:19:42.420 i don't even think that's on the man that's seven that's 17 irresponsible women that's one 1.00

00:19:47.140 irresponsible man yeah if anything i think that shows that women would rather share a successful the 1.00

00:19:52.820 guy than have then keep a guy that they actually would be faithful to them i think guys are going to

00:19:57.540 start doing that when they reach a certain plateau of success it's they said that tate has like i just

00:20:03.860 saw something online like that he has like 10 kids do you believe that i'm not surprised he hasn't

00:20:09.140 denied kids he says i wouldn't come on here and say i had kids but he doesn't actually say he doesn't

00:20:14.020 have kids so maybe you know his smart mind is probably keeping him out the light yeah yeah yeah

00:20:20.500 would you want lots of different mothers for your children 1.00

00:20:24.740 blood seed boy boy boy boy i want i would like you know if i wanted a big family then i wouldn't

00:20:29.700 be against it i don't necessarily want a huge huge family because i've got a lot of brothers and

00:20:33.620 sisters anyway well you can't have seven seven kids to one woman no that's a lot man am i even gonna

00:20:39.380 want that pump i'm after i don't even know i'm joking i'm not joking about this would you ideally like

00:20:46.500 one baby mother or several ideally uh one wife or maybe one mother of a child like you and your

00:20:53.620 children would you like them to come from one mile one or several as i said like if for three yeah i

00:20:58.900 think three is manageable in one home oh you don't have a headache can it freeze manager so three in one

00:21:04.580 home and then like two in another if i wanted ten then i'd split them i would i would speak to them

00:21:09.940 and be open and say all right cool let's let's give you a rest yeah yeah that's his rotation

00:21:18.580 what would you guys do oh you're hard you can't i know but i wouldn't like i well like i like my

00:21:26.020 um my grandfather he has loads of kids like 15 kids and stuff so um i've me personally part part of

00:21:33.380 the reason i got married i didn't really want to do all that i wanted to have kids when i was married

00:21:37.300 i didn't want all this just like kids everywhere or whatever um i just think negative because

00:21:43.460 ultimately like when the fathers were moved there's problems so i've always wanted to to be married

00:21:48.660 and have kids within marriage and it's just better for the kids in general so that's my priority

00:21:53.540 i agree with that too yeah it's it's interesting because i see both sides because like on one hand

00:21:58.900 that was so common in all of history you know it's interesting that men can't marry multiple

00:22:06.260 like i don't know here can they legally marry more than one person no it's a christian country

00:22:10.820 but it's interesting because they could still be baby mamas so it's like they might as well get the 1.00

00:22:15.140 legal benefits i don't really like i wouldn't go that route so it doesn't affect me but it's just

00:22:20.180 interesting how one is paid one is paid and one can't i mean they get paid you know csa how does that

00:22:27.540 work if you've got loads of kids loads different families this is a certain amount split up between

00:22:31.620 i just know in the uk you you get a cert you get i don't know if they still do it but at one point

00:22:37.860 you got free housing if you had a kid and you're incentivized like if there's you get more either

00:22:43.620 money from the government or child support if you have multiple dads you're actually incentivized yeah

00:22:47.780 they actually like pay you to have multiple babies it's a full-time job we have um auntie jenny she 1.00

00:22:57.300 comes on the show i don't know if you guys have seen her but she even said that like people would

00:23:00.900 want to move out of their parents house so they would have a kid back in her day yeah and they'd 1.00

00:23:04.740 get them again they would give them a flat and stuff if they got pregnant i mean you gotta do like about 1.00

00:23:10.100 a couple weeks at the ymca but after that smooth sailing wow i'm curious so you you know a decent

00:23:15.060 amount do you know um like how the laws disadvantage men when it comes to marriage you seem to be

00:23:20.100 familiar yeah if you were a man would you man would you get married today um if i wasn't religious

00:23:25.460 like if i had no religion no no i would never get married i wouldn't get married at all if uh with

00:23:29.620 religion i always say i would need to because it wouldn't be a marriage if it wasn't ordained by

00:23:34.020 god but if i didn't have any religious i still don't understand why people who aren't religious get

00:23:37.940 married men or women i don't understand why non-religious people get married i don't understand it at all 1.00

00:23:43.860 where you don't believe in god and you don't i think it needs to be anything spiritual but you're

00:23:48.580 then getting married in a church it really confuses me what makes marriage useful to a non-religious

00:23:53.700 person i'm i'm actually curious what is it it's the social status i think yeah i don't agree with

00:23:59.700 that i don't agree with the social status at all what are you religious uh i've been brought up

00:24:04.740 religious but i'm not actively religious what made you want to get married um yeah to be honest i had

00:24:10.900 it didn't really have a lot to do with religion but um i think it's more to do with traditions rather

00:24:16.340 than no religion so she isn't religious but her family is muslim so um just just having babies just

00:24:23.940 isn't really a thing and it's the same in my family we just don't have babies for jokes

00:24:28.260 so i like it's just uh is that if you are gonna you know commit to someone you should commit to

00:24:33.700 them properly right you know it might not work and all the rest of it and divorce and all these

00:24:37.780 other things but the intention is that yeah yeah i think that i can't just i personally just wouldn't

00:24:42.980 feel comfortable having just kids with loads of different women and i think that negatively affects

00:24:48.020 the kids a lot let me ask you this you know um i'm sure your marriage is going smoothly if for

00:24:53.780 whatever reason it didn't and you got divorced would you be opposed to having any more kids

00:24:58.100 potentially yeah interesting i don't like the idea of like uh the

00:25:12.500 like i know someone for example and they were married and now and they have kids together and

00:25:16.260 now they've broke up or whatever divorced and um he's gone to like start another family and i

00:25:20.980 understand it because of his age but i think that i don't know i don't know i i don't know

00:25:27.460 i don't maybe if the future because maybe that will determine i wouldn't get mad again i wouldn't

00:25:31.700 get mad that's how i kind of that's how i kind of look at the nick cannon thing because you think

00:25:36.340 all right yeah 12 is a bit extreme and whatever and obviously he's got like his health underlying

00:25:40.100 conditions which might play a part into it but if you were in a situation and you gave it all you

00:25:46.500 got married you've done it the right way x y and z and you still and you got it just didn't work out

00:25:50.340 yeah while you were still young and then you get with someone new love of your life and you

00:25:54.340 thought cool and she ain't got no kids and she wanted kids you that you know i mean it can happen 1.00

00:25:58.660 like that you can go the whole way so unless that means he's doing it purely for her and that's even

00:26:03.300 worse because then oh you're doing it purely for somebody else you don't want it that's no different

00:26:08.500 to having an abortion yeah would you be against the kids but nick cannon don't you think it's weird

00:26:12.500 that he's just submitting to every woman you get dates you know it'd be interesting i'm just thinking

00:26:17.940 it would be interesting to see because i would imagine what most of the one parent household data

00:26:22.180 is like what one parent isn't involved in their lives so it'd be really interesting to see

00:26:27.220 what the data would say for like because i think nick cannon is involved in all of his kids lives so it

00:26:33.220 would just be interesting yeah i wouldn't recommend that yeah you know but again i just have a hard

00:26:39.860 time telling the world how to be and throughout all of history it's been multiple women for 1.00

00:26:44.100 a small select group of men so i just i'm not one to tell the world how to be it just is what it is

00:26:49.540 i wonder how mariah carey feels about his behaviors because she's like i don't understand why people 0.64

00:26:53.780 will say that it's like like respectfully it's none of her business but it's just a

00:26:58.020 is it because of who she is yeah you can't deny her stasis and then being associated with a bunch

00:27:02.900 of baby mamas it must be feeling away like she went from him to a billionaire that she was engaged 0.99

00:27:07.700 and he went from her to a bunch of baby mamas i don't think it's the game did she get married no i

00:27:13.940 think that did she no she ended up getting with her dancer her backup dancer or something yeah i think 0.99

00:27:18.660 i was like wow that's interesting it's the same so she got engaged to the billionaire and then she

00:27:25.460 cheated with a background dancer oh my so like giselle that's the cycle yeah the cycle's a real

00:27:30.340 thing isn't it when are we going to stop looking up to like celebrity couples yeah please when they

00:27:35.540 stop influencing us the point is that celebrity couples show what goes on in the real in real

00:27:40.660 society because when you see like okay let's take let's take johnny depp and amber heard you know you

00:27:45.460 could say oh that's a celebrity couple that's toxic but if that happened to a money with a man with power 0.99

00:27:49.860 money and status what happens to the average guy like maybe the guy getting cheated on maybe he just makes

00:27:54.500 80k a year 70k you're like he doesn't have to have as much money but the point is like the girl will 0.98

00:27:59.140 still cheat with your with her personal trainer and hit like and hitting i think that was good it

00:28:03.780 highlighted how many women hit men yeah yeah the hitting was really bad in that yeah yeah and the 1.00

00:28:10.420 other thing is he could only defend himself because of who he is yeah that happens like you're saying to

00:28:14.100 everyday guys yeah that's yeah like i've had i've done so many interviews with people where it's like

00:28:19.540 the girl abused me for like oh my gosh i had this one guy he was so sad he told me this story where

00:28:25.140 this girl was abusing him for years and like nobody believed him oh and then it was like he finally

00:28:30.420 left and then he was the bad guy like his whole friend group like painted him out to be the worst

00:28:35.220 person ever i had another guy he she was abusing him like um and then she left and took half and took the 1.00

00:28:43.860 kids it's so horrible that can happen even when she cheats though yeah and then i guess women like 1.00

00:28:49.140 women always say why did she cheat what do you mean why did she cheat yeah it's awful

00:28:54.660 hearing hearing all this yeah anyone who's single is probably just thinking

00:28:57.540 relationships that's why that's why i'm against the division side of things because it puts people

00:29:03.540 off and really if you want a good society we should actually teach people how to be good with each other

00:29:07.860 rather than point out i mean i just think that's the feminine point of view but it's like from 0.94

00:29:13.300 like guys have had to see media saying men are trash for years and then it's like whenever we have a

00:29:17.860 conversation about what the women are doing the women have to come in and say oh but it's not all 0.99

00:29:22.020 women but this this this and this like what about men what about men but it's like we've had the

00:29:26.020 conversation about men for years i mean we had i don't got no scrubs like that was on that was a front

00:29:32.340 i know but we also had i get bitches in the club and this that and the other and we've had that 1.00

00:29:42.500 you know you know that's a little disingenuous though because you know it's not the same you know

00:29:46.180 you know it's i'm not a feminist i'm not like a oh anti-men or anything like that but i am anti 0.57

00:29:51.780 both red pill and feminists become being anti-men because it's synonymous it's almost synonymous 1.00

00:29:57.780 i mean red pill is just the study of human behavior red pill is anti-women though it's not 0.94

00:30:02.740 anti-women because even if i if you read the comments left by red pill men it can never be a

00:30:08.660 rational debate it will never be like i disagree with this it's like tell her where's her makeup

00:30:12.260 from where's like that and it's like so angry where you can't have rational conversations with

00:30:16.420 red pill men you can i'll watch these comments today i mean i think that sounds that sounds like a

00:30:21.380 you problem because i have rational conversations on the red pill side i have rational conversations with

00:30:26.340 red pill men and if they were anti-missogynistic stop interrupting me stop interrupting me and if

00:30:30.420 they were anti-misogynistic then i would have an issue but they're not but you you say that you

00:30:35.300 speak their language very few men will say pearl where's your ring very few men will say well they

00:30:39.220 do it all the time what are you talking about wrong wrong wrong i was just on an interview yeah i was

00:30:44.900 grilled for two hours straight by a freaking blue pill beta i'm talking about red pill no no listen listen

00:30:52.100 to me what i'm saying i've had conversations with red pill guy anti-marriage guy anti this this this

00:30:57.700 this guy never had an issue the only issue i've ever had and and got grilled on this that stuff was by

00:31:03.620 blue pill dude exactly what my point is red pill men will never come for you because you speak their

00:31:08.340 language but if you try and tell them rational debates and give them logical answers that aren't

00:31:12.740 regurgitated kevin samuel videos or anything they'll come for you they really will and that's what it's not

00:31:18.020 constructive that's not true because when i started i wasn't red pill i have two i have i have i have

00:31:24.260 two years i have i have two years worth of videos the first time i watched kevin samuels i did not say

00:31:31.300 nice things about i was not a fan and i never had issues with misogyny i never had issues with

00:31:37.060 like women haters i just had the only thing they they debate is ideas i mean i mean they might troll

00:31:42.900 you a little bit if anything you won't experience it because you don't speak no no no no no

00:31:48.260 you're not listening to what i'm saying when i started on youtube i did not agree with everything

00:31:55.940 i had many as i said 20 000 20 000. now you're on i have more now what's your point what's your point

00:32:03.860 but you you keep moving the goalposts because you said you speak their language i said when i didn't

00:32:08.420 speak their language i had no issue so it's a you problem because even even when i when i did not

00:32:13.780 speak their language i had no issues well i can speak from my experience when i say any video that

00:32:18.580 agrees with men like if i say women shouldn't dress like this or feminism is this i'll get the men 0.99

00:32:24.020 raving reposting moment you call them out and say no no also men need to do this just to create a

00:32:29.860 rational balanced dialogue they turn into the male equivalent of feminists where they lose all their 1.00

00:32:35.700 rationality and become emotional and they'll start making personal remarks the exact same thing

00:32:40.180 they accuse women of doing they go to being personal when they don't have a logical argument

00:32:43.940 does the comment section roast you sometimes yeah but it doesn't bother me that they roast me they

00:32:48.980 can say whatever they want but the reality is it only happens when i don't talk their language

00:32:53.460 and they have a display the same emotional dysregulation as a feminist they claim to hate 1.00

00:32:58.740 the feminists that say i hate we're men all men are trash the red pill men when you don't speak their 0.62

00:33:03.540 language it displayed the exact level of femininity irrationality and personal remarks that we are

00:33:09.620 always told that women do i mean i just think it's silly to go on the internet and not expect to get

00:33:14.100 bad comments no like so so on both sides yeah on both sides so it's like did you get hate comments does

00:33:19.860 that does that mean the whole red pill movement when i've when i i'm the one who knows all of the

00:33:24.500 people that lead the space i'm the one who's met them you're you're basing your experience as many of

00:33:28.580 you know i was just banned on tick tock and we are demonetized on a daily basis on this platform if you

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JustPearlyThings - October 25, 2023

This Feminist DESTROYED Everyone On The Show After Hearing This

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