JustPearlyThings - This FEMINISTS Thinks Women Should Give Their Partners This

00:00:00.000 you know so yeah what do you guys think that you need to bring to the table in order to be

00:00:05.680 a long-term 20-year girlfriend or wife and is there a difference um i think

00:00:17.440 stability if you know you're stable within yourself mentally financially

00:00:23.600 every lee okay then then i feel like that's all that matters and likewise for the man if he's

00:00:30.960 stable enough to be in a relationship and to accommodate that financially mentally physically

00:00:35.680 whatever way emotionally then that's that's what so do you mean when you say stability like

00:00:42.560 financially stable yeah as a girl you should be financially stable okay don't don't just depend

00:00:47.840 everything on the man you know don't expect because when you expect things you could let

00:00:52.000 get let get let down sorry well i agree with that okay yeah definitely in a relationship

00:00:59.360 um you also need to have your own funds behind you you can't rely on a man because then what

00:01:02.480 happens if that man leaves then if you're left with nothing men don't leave not typically

00:01:09.120 they always come back that's true no no fun fact what percent of the time do you think that women 1.00

00:01:14.800 divorce or that men divorce women i think a lot of the time it is women that leave thousand percent

00:01:19.760 what percent of the time do you think women leave maybe like 80 percent of the time yeah that's true 1.00

00:01:25.040 i think they're just when they're 70 to 80 yeah and what percent if you're college educated there's

00:01:31.040 only a 10 chance you're gonna get left yeah i do think as well like a stable stable relationship

00:01:36.800 you know bringing stuff to the table i think you need to just like have you have your priorities in

00:01:41.680 check you know again like be stable financially physically um you should be in shape be healthy

00:01:48.000 in shape yeah so fat people shouldn't find love of course they should they should most definitely

00:01:56.720 most definitely so so so you don't have to be in shape you shouldn't be like you don't have to be in

00:02:02.480 shape but at the end of the day health is wealth you know if someone is like really severely overweight and

00:02:08.080 there's people that are two severely overweight people and they're in love and like they don't

00:02:12.800 they don't do anything about their health how long are they going to live for oh my god

00:02:23.520 my dad told me not to date fat people because he said you have to take care of them later

00:02:28.000 oh my goodness they're gonna have health issues look at you're gonna live from 50 to 90 you want to be

00:02:33.120 yeah you're gonna be yeah obesity is like a serious issue so you should be in shape you should bring

00:02:39.280 that to it's okay that's okay i'm just i'm trying to i'm trying to write down a list and i'm just trying

00:02:44.800 to pin you down yeah i think you should look after yourself i think you know like it's important

00:02:49.120 to care for yourself and look after yourself you know a lot of the time like when people are like

00:02:53.760 really severely overweight and like obese and stuff it's because they're not looking after themselves

00:02:58.000 mm-hmm okay so it's harsh like you can call me fat phobic yeah but like yeah yeah it's okay yeah

00:03:06.400 we hate we hate fat phobia here yeah we don't stand for fat phobia at all yeah like i'm not against

00:03:11.680 fat people at all i used to be fat guys but like at the same time like i'm afraid of i'm afraid of fat

00:03:18.560 people really yeah i'm scared of them i'm fat phobic what i'm afraid of them yeah i'm like transphobic

00:03:37.040 too i'm all the phobics i don't even know that existed i did not know that existed yeah yeah i'm

00:03:42.240 terrified if you call someone fat they'll literally be like oh you're fat phobic they'll be like oh no

00:03:47.840 no it's not like i think the whole body positivity movement is really important but at the same time

00:03:53.680 if you're severely overweight people like it's your health at the end of the day normalizes obesity

00:03:59.280 i think it does i think it does and it's not it's not a good thing because your lifespan is going to

00:04:04.720 be shortened because you you don't look after yourself some people are overweight because of

00:04:09.120 health conditions and like certain medications stuff but that is a very small minority of people

00:04:14.560 so um back to the we need stability and in shape anything else financial stability i think

00:04:22.240 stability also mentally is really important obviously you can go through blips of your mental health like

00:04:27.840 during a relationship and your partner should support you mentally vice versa but um yeah to be in like

00:04:33.520 a healthy relationship i think like your mental health is something that you need to prioritize

00:04:39.920 anything what should women bring to the table um what should women bring to the table 1.00

00:04:47.440 themselves because every woman is different so you should not in general in general yeah 1.00

00:04:54.000 in general what she means is like your true self your true self of who you really are exactly 0.93

00:05:00.720 in general that's true that's true but if you're a loser yeah what is your definition of a loser 0.86

00:05:05.520 coming back to what i'm about to say do not compare me to the next woman or the woman coming 0.96

00:05:10.640 after me because i am different there's only one you yeah there's only one yeah so i should be

00:05:14.320 being myself and what i have to offer throughout my 22 years okay so what do you have to offer from your 22

00:05:19.920 years that's a lot we're gonna be here all day so we'll come back to that okay can i just give me

00:05:36.080 three cool three things knowledge wisdom and understanding period done

00:05:39.920 okay okay um go ahead you know what same here like i said i bring a lot table but i'm gonna be a bit

00:05:52.960 more specific freakiness is very important okay a freakiness all right i would say but yeah no i'm

00:06:01.120 if we're actually being serious obviously yeah i'm serious about that but i'm actually being serious

00:06:06.720 um it would be um my mindset i think i've got a really like good elevated type of mindset and i

00:06:13.840 think that what do you what do you mean by elevate no elevated means a lot of kids no no no no no

00:06:18.880 as in like motivation like my energy that i'm quite i have like a good drive and a motivation i'm

00:06:24.240 quite positive optimistic so the people around me and in my circle can feed off my energy and they can

00:06:29.600 all win in life that's what i'm okay so you have you have high energy and you're driven that's what

00:06:34.480 i mean by like okay that's what you should okay yeah so i'm just i'm trying to write this down okay

00:06:39.280 yeah it's really anything else i would say um i'm good at everything

00:06:45.440 okay can we can we name one okay um oh obviously we all know i can sing dance act sing dance act um um

00:07:08.320 i'm smart as well i'm good at balancing stuff not balance up in my head i mean multitasking

00:07:12.880 yeah multitasking i can balance a lot i can't do that like i can yeah like okay for example i'll take

00:07:20.000 example for a long time obviously when i was i was 19 so obviously last year i just finished sixth form

00:07:25.440 but throughout my i started doing music when i was like 16 actually so i started music when i was 16 17

00:07:31.360 18 but throughout that process i was still in full-time education so it was hard to obviously

00:07:35.600 balance like i'll do like a sold out show with like and have like my manager and like see biz there

00:07:40.880 and then i have to be dragged onto like the table and being told it was hard balancing what all i

00:07:45.200 wanted to do was fly so again balancing is important and i still got the way that might by end of it so

00:07:51.200 yes okay so we'll give you okay okay so i'm just gonna read back to what what you guys said if there's

00:07:59.600 anything you think that there should be added just let me know okay uh being financially stable in

00:08:05.360 shape mentally stable um i wrote themselves like knowing yourself i think that was what i wrote okay

00:08:11.840 knowledge oh oh that was you you bring yourself okay knowledge wisdom understanding freakiness um

00:08:20.960 driven high energy singing dancing acting and multitasking

00:08:24.800 like your individual talents and it's also you need to be securing yourself as well you need to

00:08:30.640 love yourself that's the most important thing that's what you bring to our table security self-love that's

00:08:36.160 the most self-love okay yeah okay can i add something um this is just my personal opinion by the way

00:08:42.320 i feel like having a source like my my source is god my source is spirituality my source is my intuition

00:08:50.400 so as long as you have a source then that would yeah add to oh no she means she means like a belief

00:09:00.160 like a belief like a belief like a common belief like believing in guidance yeah yeah yeah yeah like

00:09:05.120 religion yes that's true not necessarily religion not religion not religion not religion not religion

00:09:11.520 spirituality spirituality i believe in god though not religion okay okay so stability financial

00:09:22.240 stability in shape mentally stable bringing yourself um knowledge wisdom understanding freakiness driven

00:09:28.080 high energy singing dancing acting multitasking spirituality secure my question my question my question

00:09:38.000 what do you what my question as many of you know i was just banned on tick tock and we are demonetized

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JustPearlyThings - June 03, 2023

This FEMINISTS Thinks Women Should Give Their Partners This

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