This is an ABSOLUTE RED FLAG
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The Dating Show finally got y'all a date and the guys finally got a date! Join us as we find out what happened on the first date and get to know the guys on the dating show.
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okay so byronique um when's the last time you were in a relationship
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i say like 2020 was my last situation okay by the way you say you like white dudes like
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am i your type or what i gotta i gotta feel you out i gotta get your vibe we gotta hang
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out a little bit soccer you feel me but look wise yeah you got the pretty little blue eyes
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yeah this is gonna be a a date the dating show finally got y'all a date let's go let's go okay
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cool all right we'll uh talk after the show okay all right um you're single
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how long have you been single uh like two almost three years okay um and we were actually
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single too yeah and you're waiting till marriage yes so yeah you know yeah do the deed for religious
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reasons or uh scoot the mic towards you please yeah honestly let's get it to the edge okay yeah
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for religious reasons and are you christian catholic i'm catholic okay okay uh married
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relationship and then pearl is in the bathroom okay um got a question but you're not really single
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though right there's some dude come on there's some dude in the picture there's so many like
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there's so many i'm just kidding i'm kind of kidding but i i mean yeah i'm single like fully
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wait can you scoot i'm sorry just keep doing this scoot the mic that way but there we go um i look
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better like this you said there's so many dudes how many guys are you talking to right now no i'm i
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i was joking i was joking i'd honestly i'd honestly drop all of them for somebody in this room
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who no no no no never mind oh you're you're you're by who would you who kiki this one oh kiki
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and i have known each other forever this is my sister
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what kiki and i have known each other for forever this is my sister you said someone in this room that
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yeah i'm gonna let it remain a mystery you can figure it out who play eeny meeny miny mo
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is she a roommate no but i i do i have already filmed content with every single girl that is a
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roommate of mine is it is it blessing he's got a girlfriend dude no i'm not i would never hit on
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a guy with a girlfriend that's where i draw the line i don't do that that's disrespectful stop the
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cap is dead ass if they tell me they have a girlfriend i'm complete they're off they're
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they're not no that's not me okay is it is it nick
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i think that that's a yes wait is it is it i think i don't know i think i need some water
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throw your friend under the bus we promise we wouldn't say anything we can't do that we'll
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start having house fights again oh my god more than usual yeah okay is it a girl or is the guy
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guy that's no fun if i tell you that then it limits it because there's so many women in here
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hell he's not riding home with us why she's not coming home with us i don't care
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um wait but how many guys are you dating right now i'm not i'm not like when's the last time you
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you hooked up with a dude i don't know yeah i want you so badly but i'm so mad at saying no bro
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okay last time i hooked up with a dude was like maybe like two days ago yeah
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maybe two days ago yeah somewhere around 48 hours yeah okay um yeah but like i said drop them all for
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nick was it we all leave and let you okay uh but this guy you recently hooked up with
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are you going to continue seeing him or is it a one-time thing i don't even want to talk about it
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dude these girls i don't even want to talk about it they're just gonna
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fucking i don't even want to talk about it i really can't wait is it just four of you in the
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house or is there no there's eight of us there's eight of us wait is there nine now oh there's nine
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there's nine of us oh yeah there's nine of us yeah how did you all meet eight nine all different
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kinds of ways do you each have your own bedroom or do you share yes we all have our own bedrooms
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like a mansion or some shit yes in la where is it sherman oaks yeah sherman why would we say that
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oops exposed that's why i just narrowed it down way too much there's too many hot females in that
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house for us to say what sometimes i forget i'm talking to a lot of people yeah how do you guys live
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with that many women not well hell for me no honestly okay it's it's been better we've almost
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swung it's a merry-go-round of who's arguing with you yeah i mean it's been better who argues the
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most with each other out of the four of you you know yeah those two but we're like sisters yeah me
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we make up quicker than we argue you know what i mean like we're we've been on a good streak though
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yeah this is the longest we've gone without arguing about anything to be honest which is
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which is crazy dumbest stuff actually the stupidest like not even significant at all whatsoever the last
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time we really got into an argument was about my baby daddy yeah yeah because it was my friend yeah
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did you hook up with him too no but he didn't eat me out but that's as much as i let him go
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that's a hookup i love how he's watching this he is watching right now does that not count as a hookup
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i mean it wasn't like he could have gotten me pregnant too so i consider that a win
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that was the one-time drunk thing for them and then they started being very good friends after
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that so yeah and it was completely platonic after that that happens sometimes wow okay
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how do you go you straight you straight you strive for me to be so brutally honest and i'll do it i'll
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put myself on blast i'm not afraid of it i appreciate it like i own my own shit that's one thing
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pearl did you have something no i just can't imagine like going from that to being like platonic
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friends i think you can it works yeah no 100 i mean when you don't when you don't have like that
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sexual connection with someone it just kind of it honestly like ruled it out for both of us and it
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just made us more of just like okay you're the homie i do not believe that men and women cannot be
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friends especially in that close proximity i have a lot of men and women can be friends if you're not
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attracted to each other so i have a question do you think it's disrespectful if you are dating
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someone new and you have someone around that you've hooked up with before yes i think it depends
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yeah i think it one depends on the comfortability of you and in your relationship if it's something
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new then like if that's a boundary for the other person then that should be something that's
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communicated and respected both ways but if if you were if you are like you can't go out to a club
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and then get mad at your girlfriend or your boyfriend or whatever situation you're in if
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there's somebody that they're that they've hooked up with or been attached to in the past there because
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that's not i think she means like choosing to keep someone in your life hanging out with them
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and stuff like that you've hooked up with in the past even though you're in a committed relationship
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yeah i don't know i think that's a hundred percent yeah i think it's just i think it's disrespectful
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to the partner if it's if that's like something that's discussed between the two of you i mean
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that's i don't it really is so circumstantial that it's hard to like say yes or no
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yeah that's that's each relationship i just kind of think of things from like a guy's point of view so
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i'm thinking if i'm a guy and i'm like looking to date a girl like why would i want to date a girl
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that has a bunch of dudes around that have like ate her out or effed her well i don't isn't that
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isn't that kind of a red flag no a hundred and ten percent if that's like something like
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like i said i'm single for a reason like and but sometimes like you know people stay friends with
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their ex you know their ex sometimes they have like a ex like marriage i think that that could be
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but yeah like you know sometimes a friendship remains like i mean i think it really depends like
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on the nature of the relationship like is there really a friendship after though i think
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or is it codependency or is it yeah what is it i think it really does depend on the situation
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because one of my exes we are like not attracted to each other anymore at all on any level whatsoever
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but i love this person so much as the person that he is and like we are just very good friends like
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i've met his current girlfriend and like she's very aware of the situation and like i respect their
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relationship 100 i feel like it's very different when you like move on yeah but if you had a boyfriend who
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said the same thing about one of his friends would you feel comfortable with him hanging out with
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her yeah okay okay maybe i think it does depend on the situation because i've categories men don't
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see that they i don't think that that's i don't think that's a thing for men i think it's on or off
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that's that's the only way they view it so they're just waiting they're just waiting but it's
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just like that i think it's just like that with women too like it's like an on and off switch
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i think for me personally if i'm in like a friendship with a guy and i've hooked up with them before it
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like el said it rules it cancels out that kind of like i feel like every guy and girl friendship
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has some kind of level of sexual tension yeah that's yeah i agree with you that's so i think
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once that is like ruled out and it's like okay i am not yeah i do i do have some guy anymore
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at all i think you can genuinely have a good friendship i'm not saying that that's the only
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way to have a good friendship but i think that that is like you can still be friends with somebody
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that you've slept with before interesting word okay let me get a couple of the chats let's get
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caught up here akira thank you for the five gifted everyone who's watching on twitch by the way um
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unfortunately we can't shout anybody out because our uh what's that can somebody fix that peeping
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hello just unplug the monitor i guess just from the back that should hopefully fix it all right guys
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yeah sorry guys it's a little hard to run the show because our monitor's gone it's uh scuffed so
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okay we have a chat here from to tolu alimi thank you all right this one's okay last show a few
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panelists when asked well i think it was one panelist but when asked what advice they'd give to women who are
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physically abused in relationships said the the partner should stay in the relationship and endure
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curious your takes brian and pearl and the rest of the panel too okay yeah this is like went crazy
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viral on twitter and a couple other places yeah first off the clip the short clip that mel posted uh
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i i don't know if she edited it or if it was somebody else uh was like cut it was pretty heavily cut up
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um mld was saying that you should endure i'm not even sure if he said like i think he was talking about
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in general but like because she threw in well what should you do in divorce and then she threw in this
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other stuff about abuse i mean point blank period mike my take is if you're being abused whether emotionally
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physically whatever it may be but your question is physically abused like get out like end the
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relationship get divorced like don't stay um however they decided to like crop in like chase and then
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they cropped in mary and then john and then they put i didn't even say anything during that entire segment
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and they put me in the segment and then like people are thinking every single one of us like they showed
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our face in the segment oh okay that we co-signed on his endure statement which is not true if you're
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in an abusive relationship like marriage relationship whatever uh that's pretty justifiable extremely
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justifiable reason to leave and get out go ahead pearl yeah when i watched the full clip i was actually
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really surprised because i didn't really take it that that's what he meant but when they cut it up like
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that it just seemed like he said something he didn't say but that's what a lot of these like reactions
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and i'll say this as a content creator like a lot of the reaction channels will take clips to like
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put you out of context and like say things that you didn't say and kind of like it's really dishonest
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honestly and mel the destiny's uh wife it was her clip that she made which i think is pretty
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disingenuous because if you watch the whole thing i think mld got a little like he was fucking seven
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white claws deep too look if he i'm not i'm not going to co-sign what he said disavow
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disavow but like it sounded like to me like they were asking about divorce in general and he was
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saying endure endure and then like somewhere through that he she brings up uh physical abuse and so
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well and so i kind of look at this question a little differently because my question is like what
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is the abusive situation i need specifics and like the reason i need specifics is women cry abuse for
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everything and we've actually lost the meaning of abuse like if you go to and i know this because i
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i'm doing a divorce documentary and so i'm actually interviewing men that are in the process of getting
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like absolutely wrecked by divorce and a lot of them have had false allegations put out against them
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and a lot of those um basically what the feminists do is they expand the definition of abuse to include
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things like coercive control financial abuse and even physical abuse a lot of times like girls don't
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talk about how they hit first and most abusive situations are mutually abusive meaning they're both
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hitting each other and so a lot of times what girls will do is they'll say oh i'm being abused but
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they don't talk about how she hit him first like i had a girl on the show say i was physically abused and
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i used to just believe women like i genuinely i would always just be like oh i'm so sorry but then you
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start asking questions and it's it baffles me how women like turn the situation of them like being
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abused when they aren't like this one girl she came on my show she said i was physically abused i said okay
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tell me the situation what exactly happened he she refused to leave his house she refused she like so
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she's trespassing on his property saying i'm not gonna leave and he pushes her out of the house
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is that abuse no or another thing that girls do is they'll they'll edge a guy on like i saw a clip of a
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dude of a girl um basically making fun of a guy for having a dead son and he hit her who abused too
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and that's like the other side of this that we don't talk about is that a lot of times like the
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feminists or whatever will try to get a gotcha question because they'll say oh if you're in an
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abusive marriage but like i know the ins and outs of this because i interview the men that are falsely
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accused and this is so common and it's so common so and the one thing that guys should know is if a
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girl says she says she was abused and she didn't file a police report like because in family court
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you don't need evidence to accuse someone of abuse you need no evidence and and and in um criminal
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court you do so it's more like it's more likely true if it's in criminal court if it's real abuse
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yeah i mean you should leave but my issue is like a lot of times it's not actually real abuse what
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they're talking about and they don't talk about the other side where a lot of times the girls
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