JustPearlyThings - This is an ABSOLUTE RED FLAG

00:00:00.160 okay so byronique um when's the last time you were in a relationship

00:00:06.080 i say like 2020 was my last situation okay by the way you say you like white dudes like

00:00:12.000 am i your type or what i gotta i gotta feel you out i gotta get your vibe we gotta hang

00:00:20.000 out a little bit soccer you feel me but look wise yeah you got the pretty little blue eyes

00:00:24.560 yeah this is gonna be a a date the dating show finally got y'all a date let's go let's go okay

00:00:47.760 cool all right we'll uh talk after the show okay all right um you're single

00:00:58.960 how long have you been single uh like two almost three years okay um and we were actually

00:01:09.360 single too yeah and you're waiting till marriage yes so yeah you know yeah do the deed for religious 0.72

00:01:17.520 reasons or uh scoot the mic towards you please yeah honestly let's get it to the edge okay yeah

00:01:23.760 for religious reasons and are you christian catholic i'm catholic okay okay uh married

00:01:32.080 relationship and then pearl is in the bathroom okay um got a question but you're not really single

00:01:40.400 though right there's some dude come on there's some dude in the picture there's so many like

00:01:47.120 there's so many i'm just kidding i'm kind of kidding but i i mean yeah i'm single like fully

00:01:55.520 wait can you scoot i'm sorry just keep doing this scoot the mic that way but there we go um i look

00:02:00.000 better like this you said there's so many dudes how many guys are you talking to right now no i'm i

00:02:05.360 i was joking i was joking i'd honestly i'd honestly drop all of them for somebody in this room

00:02:12.960 who no no no no never mind oh you're you're you're by who would you who kiki this one oh kiki

00:02:23.120 and i have known each other forever this is my sister

00:02:26.800 what kiki and i have known each other for forever this is my sister you said someone in this room that

00:02:30.640 yeah i'm gonna let it remain a mystery you can figure it out who play eeny meeny miny mo

00:02:38.160 is she a roommate no but i i do i have already filmed content with every single girl that is a 0.98

00:02:44.800 roommate of mine is it is it blessing he's got a girlfriend dude no i'm not i would never hit on

00:02:52.720 a guy with a girlfriend that's where i draw the line i don't do that that's disrespectful stop the

00:02:57.040 cap is dead ass if they tell me they have a girlfriend i'm complete they're off they're 0.86

00:03:03.680 they're not no that's not me okay is it is it nick

00:03:11.360 i think that that's a yes wait is it is it i think i don't know i think i need some water

00:03:24.720 throw your friend under the bus we promise we wouldn't say anything we can't do that we'll 0.97

00:03:29.600 start having house fights again oh my god more than usual yeah okay is it a girl or is the guy

00:03:35.520 guy that's no fun if i tell you that then it limits it because there's so many women in here 1.00

00:03:42.640 so it's a chick no oh wait

00:03:49.200 is it nick it's nick his face is so red

00:03:56.480 this is first w but my name's l

00:03:58.800 hell he's not riding home with us why she's not coming home with us i don't care 0.65

00:04:08.480 nick is blushing right now i know so am i

00:04:13.760 um wait but how many guys are you dating right now i'm not i'm not like when's the last time you

00:04:18.080 you hooked up with a dude i don't know yeah i want you so badly but i'm so mad at saying no bro

00:04:32.400 okay last time i hooked up with a dude was like maybe like two days ago yeah

00:04:36.800 maybe two days ago yeah somewhere around 48 hours yeah okay um yeah but like i said drop them all for

00:04:44.880 nick was it we all leave and let you okay uh but this guy you recently hooked up with

00:05:06.000 are you going to continue seeing him or is it a one-time thing i don't even want to talk about it

00:05:11.760 dude these girls i don't even want to talk about it they're just gonna 1.00

00:05:17.280 fucking i don't even want to talk about it i really can't wait is it just four of you in the 0.94

00:05:21.600 house or is there no there's eight of us there's eight of us wait is there nine now oh there's nine

00:05:27.040 there's nine of us oh yeah there's nine of us yeah how did you all meet eight nine all different

00:05:32.480 kinds of ways do you each have your own bedroom or do you share yes we all have our own bedrooms

00:05:36.800 like a mansion or some shit yes in la where is it sherman oaks yeah sherman why would we say that 0.72

00:05:43.680 oops exposed that's why i just narrowed it down way too much there's too many hot females in that 1.00

00:05:49.360 house for us to say what sometimes i forget i'm talking to a lot of people yeah how do you guys live

00:05:54.320 with that many women not well hell for me no honestly okay it's it's been better we've almost 1.00

00:06:00.640 swung it's a merry-go-round of who's arguing with you yeah i mean it's been better who argues the

00:06:05.440 most with each other out of the four of you you know yeah those two but we're like sisters yeah me

00:06:10.400 we make up quicker than we argue you know what i mean like we're we've been on a good streak though

00:06:16.320 yeah this is the longest we've gone without arguing about anything to be honest which is

00:06:22.880 which is crazy dumbest stuff actually the stupidest like not even significant at all whatsoever the last

00:06:28.880 time we really got into an argument was about my baby daddy yeah yeah because it was my friend yeah

00:06:34.640 did you hook up with him too no but he didn't eat me out but that's as much as i let him go

00:06:42.880 that's a hookup i love how he's watching this he is watching right now does that not count as a hookup

00:06:50.000 i mean it wasn't like he could have gotten me pregnant too so i consider that a win

00:06:53.600 that was the one-time drunk thing for them and then they started being very good friends after

00:06:59.200 that so yeah and it was completely platonic after that that happens sometimes wow okay

00:07:05.120 how do you go you straight you straight you strive for me to be so brutally honest and i'll do it i'll

00:07:10.240 put myself on blast i'm not afraid of it i appreciate it like i own my own shit that's one thing 0.80

00:07:14.560 pearl did you have something no i just can't imagine like going from that to being like platonic

00:07:19.280 friends i think you can it works yeah no 100 i mean when you don't when you don't have like that

00:07:25.280 sexual connection with someone it just kind of it honestly like ruled it out for both of us and it

00:07:30.960 just made us more of just like okay you're the homie i do not believe that men and women cannot be

00:07:35.680 friends especially in that close proximity i have a lot of men and women can be friends if you're not

00:07:39.840 attracted to each other so i have a question do you think it's disrespectful if you are dating

00:07:46.960 someone new and you have someone around that you've hooked up with before yes i think it depends

00:07:54.080 yeah i think it one depends on the comfortability of you and in your relationship if it's something

00:08:01.360 new then like if that's a boundary for the other person then that should be something that's

00:08:05.760 communicated and respected both ways but if if you were if you are like you can't go out to a club

00:08:14.000 and then get mad at your girlfriend or your boyfriend or whatever situation you're in if

00:08:18.800 there's somebody that they're that they've hooked up with or been attached to in the past there because

00:08:23.600 that's not i think she means like choosing to keep someone in your life hanging out with them

00:08:29.840 and stuff like that you've hooked up with in the past even though you're in a committed relationship

00:08:33.760 yeah i don't know i think that's a hundred percent yeah i think it's just i think it's disrespectful

00:08:38.560 to the partner if it's if that's like something that's discussed between the two of you i mean

00:08:42.400 that's i don't it really is so circumstantial that it's hard to like say yes or no

00:08:48.560 yeah that's that's each relationship i just kind of think of things from like a guy's point of view so

00:08:52.880 i'm thinking if i'm a guy and i'm like looking to date a girl like why would i want to date a girl

00:08:56.160 that has a bunch of dudes around that have like ate her out or effed her well i don't isn't that 0.98

00:09:01.120 isn't that kind of a red flag no a hundred and ten percent if that's like something like

00:09:06.160 like i said i'm single for a reason like and but sometimes like you know people stay friends with

00:09:12.480 their ex you know their ex sometimes they have like a ex like marriage i think that that could be

00:09:18.480 but yeah like you know sometimes a friendship remains like i mean i think it really depends like

00:09:24.560 on the nature of the relationship like is there really a friendship after though i think

00:09:28.640 or is it codependency or is it yeah what is it i think it really does depend on the situation

00:09:33.200 because one of my exes we are like not attracted to each other anymore at all on any level whatsoever

00:09:39.120 but i love this person so much as the person that he is and like we are just very good friends like

00:09:44.880 i've met his current girlfriend and like she's very aware of the situation and like i respect their

00:09:49.440 relationship 100 i feel like it's very different when you like move on yeah but if you had a boyfriend who

00:09:54.720 said the same thing about one of his friends would you feel comfortable with him hanging out with

00:09:58.240 her yeah okay okay maybe i think it does depend on the situation because i've categories men don't

00:10:03.120 see that they i don't think that that's i don't think that's a thing for men i think it's on or off

00:10:07.040 that's that's the only way they view it so they're just waiting they're just waiting but it's

00:10:10.720 just like that i think it's just like that with women too like it's like an on and off switch 1.00

00:10:16.720 i think for me personally if i'm in like a friendship with a guy and i've hooked up with them before it

00:10:22.400 like el said it rules it cancels out that kind of like i feel like every guy and girl friendship

00:10:28.000 has some kind of level of sexual tension yeah that's yeah i agree with you that's so i think

00:10:32.960 once that is like ruled out and it's like okay i am not yeah i do i do have some guy anymore

00:10:39.280 at all i think you can genuinely have a good friendship i'm not saying that that's the only

00:10:44.080 way to have a good friendship but i think that that is like you can still be friends with somebody

00:10:47.760 that you've slept with before interesting word okay let me get a couple of the chats let's get

00:10:54.400 caught up here akira thank you for the five gifted everyone who's watching on twitch by the way um

00:10:59.760 unfortunately we can't shout anybody out because our uh what's that can somebody fix that peeping

00:11:04.000 hello just unplug the monitor i guess just from the back that should hopefully fix it all right guys

00:11:11.680 scuffed as usual uh yeah shout out to everyone on twitch go to twitch.tv slash whatever drop us a prime

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00:11:22.240 yeah sorry guys it's a little hard to run the show because our monitor's gone it's uh scuffed so

00:11:26.400 okay we have a chat here from to tolu alimi thank you all right this one's okay last show a few

00:11:38.160 panelists when asked well i think it was one panelist but when asked what advice they'd give to women who are

00:11:43.840 physically abused in relationships said the the partner should stay in the relationship and endure

00:11:51.200 curious your takes brian and pearl and the rest of the panel too okay yeah this is like went crazy

00:11:57.120 viral on twitter and a couple other places yeah first off the clip the short clip that mel posted uh

00:12:08.320 i i don't know if she edited it or if it was somebody else uh was like cut it was pretty heavily cut up

00:12:17.200 um mld was saying that you should endure i'm not even sure if he said like i think he was talking about

00:12:25.440 in general but like because she threw in well what should you do in divorce and then she threw in this 0.95

00:12:30.720 other stuff about abuse i mean point blank period mike my take is if you're being abused whether emotionally

00:12:37.120 physically whatever it may be but your question is physically abused like get out like end the

00:12:43.040 relationship get divorced like don't stay um however they decided to like crop in like chase and then

00:12:50.560 they cropped in mary and then john and then they put i didn't even say anything during that entire segment

00:12:55.760 and they put me in the segment and then like people are thinking every single one of us like they showed

00:13:00.960 our face in the segment oh okay that we co-signed on his endure statement which is not true if you're

00:13:07.600 in an abusive relationship like marriage relationship whatever uh that's pretty justifiable extremely

00:13:14.800 justifiable reason to leave and get out go ahead pearl yeah when i watched the full clip i was actually

00:13:20.720 really surprised because i didn't really take it that that's what he meant but when they cut it up like

00:13:25.920 that it just seemed like he said something he didn't say but that's what a lot of these like reactions

00:13:29.680 and i'll say this as a content creator like a lot of the reaction channels will take clips to like

00:13:34.560 put you out of context and like say things that you didn't say and kind of like it's really dishonest

00:13:40.080 honestly and mel the destiny's uh wife it was her clip that she made which i think is pretty

00:13:47.120 disingenuous because if you watch the whole thing i think mld got a little like he was fucking seven 0.94

00:13:53.200 white claws deep too look if he i'm not i'm not going to co-sign what he said disavow

00:13:59.280 disavow but like it sounded like to me like they were asking about divorce in general and he was

00:14:05.200 saying endure endure and then like somewhere through that he she brings up uh physical abuse and so

00:14:13.600 well and so i kind of look at this question a little differently because my question is like what

00:14:19.200 is the abusive situation i need specifics and like the reason i need specifics is women cry abuse for 0.98

00:14:24.960 everything and we've actually lost the meaning of abuse like if you go to and i know this because i

00:14:31.120 i'm doing a divorce documentary and so i'm actually interviewing men that are in the process of getting

00:14:35.520 like absolutely wrecked by divorce and a lot of them have had false allegations put out against them

00:14:40.320 and a lot of those um basically what the feminists do is they expand the definition of abuse to include 1.00

00:14:44.960 things like coercive control financial abuse and even physical abuse a lot of times like girls don't 1.00

00:14:50.640 talk about how they hit first and most abusive situations are mutually abusive meaning they're both

00:14:56.880 hitting each other and so a lot of times what girls will do is they'll say oh i'm being abused but 0.99

00:15:01.600 they don't talk about how she hit him first like i had a girl on the show say i was physically abused and

00:15:06.400 i used to just believe women like i genuinely i would always just be like oh i'm so sorry but then you

00:15:11.120 start asking questions and it's it baffles me how women like turn the situation of them like being 1.00

00:15:18.080 abused when they aren't like this one girl she came on my show she said i was physically abused i said okay

00:15:23.120 tell me the situation what exactly happened he she refused to leave his house she refused she like so

00:15:29.920 she's trespassing on his property saying i'm not gonna leave and he pushes her out of the house

00:15:34.480 is that abuse no or another thing that girls do is they'll they'll edge a guy on like i saw a clip of a 1.00

00:15:39.920 dude of a girl um basically making fun of a guy for having a dead son and he hit her who abused too 0.87

00:15:47.440 and that's like the other side of this that we don't talk about is that a lot of times like the

00:15:51.360 feminists or whatever will try to get a gotcha question because they'll say oh if you're in an 1.00

00:15:55.280 abusive marriage but like i know the ins and outs of this because i interview the men that are falsely

00:15:59.840 accused and this is so common and it's so common so and the one thing that guys should know is if a

00:16:05.120 girl says she says she was abused and she didn't file a police report like because in family court

00:16:10.240 you don't need evidence to accuse someone of abuse you need no evidence and and and in um criminal

00:16:16.160 court you do so it's more like it's more likely true if it's in criminal court if it's real abuse

00:16:21.440 yeah i mean you should leave but my issue is like a lot of times it's not actually real abuse what

00:16:27.680 they're talking about and they don't talk about the other side where a lot of times the girls 0.74

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JustPearlyThings - May 27, 2023

This is an ABSOLUTE RED FLAG

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