JustPearlyThings - April 09, 2023


This Is the MOST ACCURATE Definition of A Modern Woman


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9 minutes

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1,797

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169

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Misogyny

20

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Toxicity

8

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What is a modern woman? What does it mean to be one? Is it a woman who wants to have her cake and eat it too? What is it like to be a modern day woman and why does it matter?

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00:00:00.000 So my question to you guys, because you guys asked me this this weekend, what is a modern woman?
00:00:07.280 And so start there, go around and then, yeah.
00:00:10.720 I would say that a modern woman is a woman that wants to have her cake and eat it. 1.00
00:00:17.440 Personally, I think.
00:00:19.480 Why do you think that?
00:00:21.420 To me?
00:00:21.940 Yeah.
00:00:22.940 Because I noticed that whenever there's like these debates and stuff, they pick all the
00:00:27.920 things that they want that benefits them.
00:00:32.060 And then when the coin's on the other side and you've got to the benefits of a man, what 0.94
00:00:35.560 like roles that the man play, the women all of a sudden have an argument against it. 1.00
00:00:39.920 And it's like, you're never consistent with your arguments.
00:00:42.980 It's like it keeps changing and changing.
00:00:45.420 So they pick bits from each.
00:00:48.040 Why's he laughing?
00:00:49.500 No, because I was thinking, I saw this funny meme where it's like, it showed like the most
00:00:54.620 blue haired, like pink feminist, right? 1.00
00:00:56.680 And she's like raging out in the streets. 0.98
00:00:58.140 But the second she's in a burning building, she's like, oh, the innocent woman, who needs 1.00
00:01:01.460 the man to help her?
00:01:02.320 Because like, that's what she was, that's what I was like, yeah, it's so funny.
00:01:08.720 I think a modern day woman is someone who doesn't necessarily, who takes on roles that 0.97
00:01:16.560 is maybe for a man, but is, but most of the time is due to circumstances, you know, a lot
00:01:24.720 of the time it's due to circumstances.
00:01:25.880 I don't think any woman actually wants to be a modern day woman. 1.00
00:01:28.960 Agreed.
00:01:29.540 Yeah.
00:01:30.400 Interesting.
00:01:31.380 Circumstances.
00:01:32.300 Yeah.
00:01:32.500 I think it's hard to say, but I think for me, a modern day woman is someone who wants
00:01:40.080 to do what they want, when they want, and doesn't want to feel guilty for it.
00:01:45.660 Okay.
00:01:46.020 That's fair.
00:01:47.200 Mm-hmm.
00:01:47.540 I think a modern day woman is a woman who has the freedom to choose to, um, to indulge
00:01:56.720 or go down routes that maybe weren't available to her before.
00:01:59.960 Mm-hmm.
00:02:00.840 Um, but I, I think, I think a shift happens when her priorities change, but then sometimes,
00:02:09.220 you know, actions have consequences.
00:02:11.720 And I think sometimes they're not always aware of what those consequences are.
00:02:15.720 I feel like you want to talk about something specific.
00:02:19.900 This is general.
00:02:21.000 This is just general.
00:02:22.160 It's general.
00:02:23.020 The warm-up right now.
00:02:24.080 Oh, um, a modern day woman for me is a woman that works hard, but in her working hard, it 1.00
00:02:33.180 may give her a sense of entitlement. 0.98
00:02:35.020 Mm-hmm.
00:02:35.660 Um, and a modern day woman may not even necessarily be a woman at birth.
00:02:39.920 You know, big facts.
00:02:41.300 Big facts.
00:02:43.420 Serious.
00:02:44.580 Serious.
00:02:45.720 And did you, did you go?
00:02:46.780 Yeah, yeah.
00:02:47.040 I agree with Paris.
00:02:48.080 I think a modern day woman is somebody who, um, wants to have her cake and eat it. 1.00
00:02:52.580 I think she's extremely lost, um, and confused in what she wants.
00:02:57.360 I think only when it benefits her does she, because we want to work, but then at the same
00:03:04.600 time, we don't want to work.
00:03:05.600 We want somebody to look after us.
00:03:07.440 Yeah, that's why I said it's due to circumstances.
00:03:09.720 Not always, not always circumstance.
00:03:11.320 I would say experience more than circumstances.
00:03:14.020 Mm-hmm.
00:03:14.640 Mm-hmm.
00:03:14.880 I think a lot of modern day women, um, base their beliefs on what's happened in the past 0.97
00:03:21.660 that has nothing to do with them.
00:03:23.700 Oh, other people's.
00:03:24.920 Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah.
00:03:25.820 But that's life anyway.
00:03:26.880 Everyone on Instagram bases their beliefs on other people's problems.
00:03:29.460 Exactly.
00:03:30.060 Yeah.
00:03:30.380 I think as well, we're in like an era now where it's really conflicting information about
00:03:34.680 what a woman's meant to like be. 1.00
00:03:37.480 Yeah.
00:03:38.160 We've got certain role models in like the entertainment industry that are pushing this
00:03:43.620 whole like, um, what's the word?
00:03:46.940 Liberating lifestyle.
00:03:48.660 Yeah.
00:03:48.840 Like you can do what you want and they're not talking about the consequences of it.
00:03:52.200 Um, and then you've got like maybe like your grandparents' era where they're teaching
00:03:55.800 you all traditional values.
00:03:56.800 So it's a big, it's very confusing.
00:03:59.680 I think if you're stuck between that, it's like, you're almost like, what, what do I
00:04:04.080 follow?
00:04:04.460 This is what everyone in the world outside of my family home is telling me.
00:04:07.960 And then if I look at like traditionally what's happening, it's completely different.
00:04:12.660 But those, um, those women that sing all those songs and everything, they don't practice 1.00
00:04:17.640 what they preach.
00:04:18.280 Oh yeah, I know.
00:04:18.900 So true.
00:04:19.600 But in terms of like the videos and stuff and what they're wearing and everything hanging
00:04:25.860 out, like they're doing that.
00:04:28.900 That's not the truth for me personally.
00:04:31.280 I don't, even though as a celebrity quote unquote, you have to also be realistic that
00:04:35.940 you take on that responsibility or that knowledge that you do influence people.
00:04:40.100 But I feel like as an individual, you shouldn't let those people influence you.
00:04:44.300 You should have a mind of your own.
00:04:45.300 Yeah, but I think that's, I was going to say, I think that's, that's a bit of the double
00:04:50.600 standard that you want to be in the limelight.
00:04:53.820 And with that comes the responsibility to influence, but then you don't want to be held
00:04:59.040 responsible for your influence.
00:05:01.220 True.
00:05:01.460 Yeah.
00:05:01.600 And also where women are of an age, of an older age. 1.00
00:05:06.160 So I think that's easier for us to say.
00:05:08.060 But if you're a younger girl, like say 12, 13, listening to this and growing up with this,
00:05:11.780 this is, this is all you know.
00:05:13.100 Yeah.
00:05:13.420 But the likes of some of those girls who put those songs out, they don't let their kids 1.00
00:05:16.860 listen to it.
00:05:17.560 Yeah.
00:05:17.940 So as a parent, I'm a parent.
00:05:19.720 I wouldn't let my children, like for instance, my children don't watch TV during the week.
00:05:23.020 I control what they do and how often they watch it.
00:05:25.700 That's good.
00:05:26.120 And there definitely is an element of control, but still like, there's only so much control you
00:05:29.760 can have a parent, I'm also a parent, and I know that when my child, my child goes to
00:05:33.060 school, I have no control of what's going on.
00:05:35.400 Have you ever, have you ever thought about like homeschooling because you can't, yeah.
00:05:39.680 Oh my God, yes.
00:05:40.320 Because I, I've always thought that like the schools are so bad.
00:05:43.240 And where I'm from, Chicago, they took away grades.
00:05:46.520 What?
00:05:46.800 They took away, yeah, they took away grades.
00:05:48.440 Recently.
00:05:49.060 Is it just passed or fell?
00:05:50.640 I don't know.
00:05:51.220 My mom just told me they took away grades, but Chicago's, Chicago's known for having like 1.00
00:05:54.880 shit schools. 0.99
00:05:55.840 Like that's what we're, and I'm like with the, the schools, I'm like, I almost don't 0.99
00:05:59.760 even want.
00:06:00.340 I don't agree with that at all.
00:06:01.660 And the thing is, you don't know what they're teaching your kids at school, you know, or
00:06:05.140 like how they're treating your, long ago, I was like at this leisure center and I saw
00:06:10.440 they were like shuffling in a bunch of like five and six year olds.
00:06:14.060 And the way they spoke to these kids was like so atrocious.
00:06:17.240 I was like, oh my God, if their parents were here, like if I was their parent, I'd be like,
00:06:21.500 don't speak to my kid like that.
00:06:23.300 You know?
00:06:24.380 I wish I had the time to homeschool, but as a modern day woman, I don't.
00:06:28.820 Yeah, I have to work.
00:06:30.200 I'll be honest though.
00:06:30.840 Even if I was like a traditional, I know what my skillsets are and I don't think teaching
00:06:35.560 is one of it.
00:06:36.320 So I wouldn't deceive to think I would be good at teaching.
00:06:38.760 I definitely couldn't do math.
00:06:40.120 Yeah.
00:06:42.820 Straight fail.
00:06:43.460 Well, when there's such a small, like young age, everything is learning, you know, like
00:06:48.780 even the trips, the grocery shop, it's learning, you're teaching them how to be like, if there's
00:06:53.260 a line, you're teaching them how to be patient or be a good citizen.
00:06:57.020 Even confidence building, like, okay, you pay for it.
00:06:59.360 There's so much learning in everything.
00:07:01.080 It's just that we are conditioned to think learning is in a classroom, just four walls
00:07:04.420 and there's so much more than that.
00:07:05.440 There's like a thing called world schooling.
00:07:08.780 I don't really know much about it, but I guess you just take your kid out into the world.
00:07:12.880 You're like, here's the world, learn.
00:07:16.340 You all had to start somewhere.
00:07:18.040 So there was, the world had to have been a classroom at one point.
00:07:21.220 Yes.
00:07:21.900 Yes.
00:07:22.180 What do you think, Eddie?
00:07:23.740 What's a modern day woman? 1.00
00:07:25.200 Well, he's not remembered me, yeah? 0.79
00:07:28.720 I think he's got to hit the nail on the head though, but I think a modern day woman is selfish. 1.00
00:07:34.560 I think a modern day woman, like you said, wants to have a cake and eat it. 1.00
00:07:39.360 Modern day woman, it lacks accountability. 1.00
00:07:41.840 What? 0.97
00:07:43.160 Modern day woman hates men. 1.00
00:07:44.820 No.
00:07:45.420 Listen, Eddie, you're getting quite comfortable back there, you know?
00:07:48.620 Yeah, I don't like the fact that you're back there.
00:07:50.620 Come do me something.
00:07:52.880 No, I just want to say, I want to be looking at you.
00:07:54.820 Exactly.
00:07:55.960 With chest.
00:07:56.820 Say it with your chest, Eddie.
00:07:58.480 With chest.
00:07:58.960 But no, yeah, I just think a modern woman is the things I mentioned. 0.70
00:08:02.820 Quite problematic.
00:08:05.340 The main source of the problem to modern day relationships.
00:08:08.400 Oh my God.
00:08:10.240 My man came with the heat, you know?
00:08:12.020 And it's quite detrimental to society by and large.
00:08:15.320 I had a very similar answer on the show.
00:08:18.540 You did.
00:08:20.620 I practiced it.
00:08:24.160 She rehearsed the lines.
00:08:25.480 I believe that.
00:08:26.500 I have it.
00:08:26.880 I have it. 1.00
00:08:27.420 A delusional, narcissistic, self-entitled feminist who shits on men for her poor choices. 1.00
00:08:32.760 And she was so happy when she said it. 1.00
00:08:34.220 She was so proud.
00:08:35.980 You know, I was practicing in my dressing room.
00:08:38.880 Because everyone came to get ready.
00:08:40.420 I was already ready.
00:08:41.260 That was all I had to do.
00:08:42.260 I was just banned on TikTok.
00:08:46.640 And we are demonetized on a daily basis on this platform.
00:08:50.920 If you want to help, please consider sending a super thanks below.
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00:08:59.200 Here's to hear what I've learned.
00:09:00.800 And then he continues.
00:09:01.800 If you want to help, please don't if you want to let it away.
00:09:04.040 I would like to see the like button.
00:09:04.740 And then he can save it.
00:09:05.900 And then the one that's done.
00:09:06.540 And he is a close one.
00:09:07.460 And what I want to do is like my friend which made you want.
00:09:08.380 I want to listen to me.
00:09:09.640 So she don't seem to be this.
00:09:10.640 I want to look steady.
00:09:11.740 And this is like L.
00:09:13.940 And with me, Brady.