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00:00:00.000 this point it's getting it's like you want us to comment on her you want us

00:00:06.000 to comment on her weight and we're saying we're not doing that like it's

00:00:10.440 not a lie like we're saying that we we rate the way that she came in with that

00:00:16.440 energy and it's not the first her weight wasn't the first thing that I noticed

00:00:19.740 because the video was her face and her neck and her shoulders so why would that 0.79

00:00:23.160 be the first thing that I saw it was the energy that she was giving and in this

00:00:27.000 day and age you don't see that many people with confidence I see so many

00:00:34.620 women with a delusional confidence that's like so if you walk in a room with a 1.00

00:00:38.400 hundred thousands of was of her hmm what what what what advice would you give to

00:00:45.480 them I'm just saying advice wise like what if there was to be like if I was

00:00:51.840 actually put in a position where I had to tell me something that that that could

00:00:56.700 motivate me tell me something that could help me with my with my lifestyle what

00:01:01.680 what what advice would you give to them I think it's important that they're

00:01:04.920 warned and informed about that but surely they are like everyone knows yeah they're

00:01:08.700 adults they're not children they understand what they're doing to their

00:01:11.760 bodies they're overweight they surely they understand that how would they

00:01:15.700 understand if everyone lies to them through life no genuinely like if they go

00:01:20.120 through life and this is the reactions they get how would they really

00:01:22.820 understand because we're humans and we're individuals and who cares no but

00:01:26.440 I'm saying so so I'm saying if everybody reacts the way you guys reacted how would

00:01:30.940 they know but if we're talking about health issues and how they know what's

00:01:34.820 affecting their bodies they're grown adults they must understand regardless of

00:01:39.540 what reactions they are getting they know as adults what they're doing to their

00:01:44.480 bodies it's got nothing to do how would they know if nobody tells them why but how do we know

00:01:49.820 like how would they know how would you know what I think it's through education

00:01:54.320 like probably how would they get calories on menus now how would they get educated if

00:01:59.600 everybody lies we know there's like obesity pandemics through the news through

00:02:04.840 education most women they're surely they would have gone to school and they know how the body works 1.00

00:02:09.700 and you're saying that how would she get better if everybody is fine with her being like that

00:02:16.020 and that's the problem as women we go through life everybody lies to us they don't tell us 1.00

00:02:20.520 like they don't tell us that geriatric pregnancy starts at 35 you have so much time they don't tell

00:02:25.340 us that yay you're not worth as much as a single mother like to the dating market they don't tell us 1.00

00:02:29.980 that hey when you're fat you're not valuable like people don't when people don't aren't as attracted

00:02:34.300 to you when you're overweight like they just lie like we go through society and everybody lies to

00:02:38.840 women instead of just telling us what it is you can be valuable outside your weight though I wouldn't lie 1.00

00:02:43.580 if I need gym and my arms smelling I want somebody to tell me my arms smelling to be honest

00:02:47.220 the only thing I don't want anybody to lie to me I do think it's a bit ridiculous is like

00:02:52.720 I don't know it's like the western world is just greedy in so many different senses that that

00:02:58.920 annoys me a little bit like but then that's like places like America the portions they do and stuff

00:03:03.800 I do think it's important that the government do inform people and they do make steps because

00:03:08.380 it is a bit out of hand do you think it's like I think it's more on the people like to inform each

00:03:13.900 other like I genuinely think if you really care about someone you're honest with them and I I think

00:03:20.160 it's like easier to just say oh you go girl instead of saying hey no get on the track do you genuinely

00:03:25.960 believe that these people do not understand what they're doing and it is all based on reactions from

00:03:34.740 other people I think I want to take all right you don't know me you met me today I'm telling you 0.99

00:03:42.140 like I'm just making a stupid scenario I'm gonna have sex with this girl tonight and I feel really 0.99

00:03:48.680 good about myself that I shouldn't wear a condom right this girl has been around having sex with 0.99

00:03:54.060 other men right but I feel good in myself that confident enough I may not get anything I'm gonna

00:04:00.320 have sex without condom would you say go that's not that's not the point that I'm saying I'm saying

00:04:05.840 as so okay it's supporting the cause it's supporting the cause and also we're talking about 0.76

00:04:11.840 mentally and physically as well but you are responsible for your own actions regardless what

00:04:17.340 anybody says to you you as a grown man are responsible for your own actions no matter who

00:04:23.820 is saying whatever to you whatever advice you are responsible same way she is responsible for her

00:04:29.380 while I agree with that you didn't say to me that because you feel good no problem as long as you

00:04:36.320 feel good go ahead and do what you have to do as long as you feel good go ahead and do what you have

00:04:41.340 to do because that's not the point that I was actually discussing at the time I was I up the

00:04:45.740 question that I asked is do you actually really think that she doesn't understand what she's doing

00:04:50.980 to herself being a responsible an adult I don't know about a responsible adult but being an adult

00:04:56.320 understanding the the consequences of her actions nobody point do you think she doesn't understand

00:05:01.700 the harm same way nobody point is our reaction to it that's what I'm trying to get to is our reaction

00:05:06.560 to it your reaction to me but would be what because we reacted to her we said that she feels confident

00:05:12.920 she feels good and that's all you care about now I want your reaction what would your reaction be to

00:05:18.480 me do your thing it's none of my business knowing that it could be if you feel good if you feel good

00:05:26.100 about yourself knowing the risks if you know if you as a grown man if you know the risks of what

00:05:31.880 you're getting yourself into you it is none of my business to be telling you what you should or

00:05:36.500 should not do if it makes you feel good and you're coming to me and say I feel really great about this

00:05:40.180 and if you see me so like posting that kind of thing all over social media like you wouldn't feel

00:05:45.580 like why is he posting all over social media it's not good for the world so what so what were you

00:05:50.500 trying to say yeah wait wait wait so what you're trying to say is if you're not talking about this

00:05:55.040 if you're talking about this woman yeah you're trying to say that she should 0.67

00:05:58.500 let me just rephrase let me just ask you a question yeah in kind of what you're saying yeah

00:06:05.620 maybe I might be wrong but correct me if I'm right yeah if I'm wrong yeah are you saying that

00:06:09.860 because she's obese she should hide herself and she should she should feel oh I should feel every 0.87

00:06:15.760 bit disgusting as much as people think that not at all and I'm not saying that she should hide

00:06:19.740 herself no no no but I'm saying because she's out there glamorizing herself feeling good about

00:06:24.440 herself yeah but there's people that are going to be very negative and trying to pin her down into a 0.98

00:06:29.860 position where she should hide herself lock herself and never come out and see the day of light

00:06:34.540 because she's so fat but you correct me if I'm wrong as well you correct me if I'm wrong as well

00:06:41.320 it's not what she did but she could do it in a different way where it could become more positive

00:06:47.160 and how so she's just she could how how she could start a journey that's going to help herself get

00:06:52.940 better which is going to motivate others just like her to get better based on that you don't know 0.97

00:06:58.960 what she's doing you don't know who she is yeah but there's a lot like her out there no but what I'm

00:07:03.060 saying you're right but you're missing a point she's motivating people to love themselves she's

00:07:10.720 showing you that no matter how you look how dark you are white you are how hairless you are how 0.98

00:07:17.400 armless you are whatever the hell you are no no but let's be real yeah I feel good forget all that

00:07:27.220 yeah I feel good yeah I feel good look I could say that I'm an attractive man I can say that you may 0.81

00:07:34.620 disagree you may disagree but I feel that I'm I'm attractive I feel good why would I let anybody

00:07:42.160 else tell me different man to get it man to man yeah let me go back to the scenario that I brought to

00:07:46.580 her man to man are you gonna tell me do what you have to do me personally as a man I wouldn't

00:07:52.660 because me as a man I'll look out for you I mean because some people because you know the risk

00:07:58.680 right I know the why are we taking that risk as a positive but I'm looking at it as a different

00:08:03.940 form of positivity it's not her appearance it's her inside it's her spirit but we're talking about

00:08:08.820 the insides no no but we're looking at it visually physically I'm looking I'm listening to her

00:08:13.040 her spiritually we are you know saying to everybody audience that I feel good and that's not no there's

00:08:19.940 no shame in that sorry that is the inside as well it is it physically is in there in very sorry in a

00:08:29.700 very risky condition so the same way you will tell me bro I do advise you to do that because you know

00:08:36.520 it risky it's the same way I'll advise her not to do the same yeah but and you wouldn't like me to go

00:08:43.160 promoting out to others yo ask all my brothers listen feel confident in yourself feel good on 0.88

00:08:48.640 yourself go out there have sex with no condom I think the question is though would you guys

00:08:52.120 encourage your friends to see that there could be a better quality of life and because if this

00:08:58.820 is dualistic we're talking about two different points because we we appreciate that she's

00:09:02.420 encouraging everyone whoever you are to feel good about yourself and that's important

00:09:05.420 no we don't want to but yes we'd also want to encourage someone in a caring way I just said

00:09:13.060 I brought you so now you're in the same way I said I feel good about myself I feel very confident

00:09:17.840 in doing this you're comparing to do it without but you're comparing an action to somebody that

00:09:23.600 actually is telling you how they feel that's completely no I'm just telling you I feel good

00:09:27.440 about it yeah of course but you're not you're missing a point you're gonna do an action I think

00:09:31.440 you're missing the point actually no no no he's making he's making their point no I don't how can

00:09:35.840 I how can respectfully I don't understand your point reason being is because you're you're saying

00:09:42.040 you feel good that's great yeah but you're also pointing out a very big uh uh uh curveball here 0.93

00:09:47.660 you're saying you want to have sex with a girl unprotected because you feel good the intention 0.98

00:09:53.600 is not good but how you feel I can't I can't tell you how you feel was wrong because how you feel

00:10:00.980 but I can tell you that what you're about to do isn't a good idea that's my advice I love what

00:10:06.740 I'm saying no that's the same energy that we want to have for her yeah but she's not saying that she's

00:10:11.580 not asking to lose weight she's just saying I feel good the way I look she didn't say she felt good

00:10:16.400 she said I look good and that's her feeling good no no and she said I look good but we listen to what

00:10:22.820 she said she said I look good but she says I look good because she thinks she looks good that means

00:10:27.460 she feels she looks good but so good but that also means that she's going that's also mean that

00:10:31.240 she's going to continue doing what she's doing probably probably not you know and posting it and

00:10:35.540 bringing awareness to just seeing people who look like her to be like her yeah but it brings awareness

00:10:41.600 to show that you can love yourself however however you look it doesn't matter you know that's what I

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JustPearlyThings - April 26, 2023

This is The Most Spineless Panel EVER

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