This is The Most Spineless Panel EVER
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Summary
In this episode, the team discuss the weight crisis in the world of women in the modern world and how it affects them mentally, physically and emotionally. We also discuss the role of a grown adult in society and the impact it can have on our mental health.
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this point it's getting it's like you want us to comment on her you want us
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to comment on her weight and we're saying we're not doing that like it's
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not a lie like we're saying that we we rate the way that she came in with that
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energy and it's not the first her weight wasn't the first thing that I noticed
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because the video was her face and her neck and her shoulders so why would that
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be the first thing that I saw it was the energy that she was giving and in this
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day and age you don't see that many people with confidence I see so many
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women with a delusional confidence that's like so if you walk in a room with a
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hundred thousands of was of her hmm what what what what advice would you give to
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them I'm just saying advice wise like what if there was to be like if I was
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actually put in a position where I had to tell me something that that that could
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motivate me tell me something that could help me with my with my lifestyle what
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what what advice would you give to them I think it's important that they're
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warned and informed about that but surely they are like everyone knows yeah they're
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adults they're not children they understand what they're doing to their
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bodies they're overweight they surely they understand that how would they
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understand if everyone lies to them through life no genuinely like if they go
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through life and this is the reactions they get how would they really
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understand because we're humans and we're individuals and who cares no but
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I'm saying so so I'm saying if everybody reacts the way you guys reacted how would
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they know but if we're talking about health issues and how they know what's
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affecting their bodies they're grown adults they must understand regardless of
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what reactions they are getting they know as adults what they're doing to their
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bodies it's got nothing to do how would they know if nobody tells them why but how do we know
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like how would they know how would you know what I think it's through education
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like probably how would they get calories on menus now how would they get educated if
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everybody lies we know there's like obesity pandemics through the news through
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education most women they're surely they would have gone to school and they know how the body works
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and you're saying that how would she get better if everybody is fine with her being like that
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and that's the problem as women we go through life everybody lies to us they don't tell us
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like they don't tell us that geriatric pregnancy starts at 35 you have so much time they don't tell
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us that yay you're not worth as much as a single mother like to the dating market they don't tell us
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that hey when you're fat you're not valuable like people don't when people don't aren't as attracted
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to you when you're overweight like they just lie like we go through society and everybody lies to
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women instead of just telling us what it is you can be valuable outside your weight though I wouldn't lie
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if I need gym and my arms smelling I want somebody to tell me my arms smelling to be honest
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the only thing I don't want anybody to lie to me I do think it's a bit ridiculous is like
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I don't know it's like the western world is just greedy in so many different senses that that
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annoys me a little bit like but then that's like places like America the portions they do and stuff
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I do think it's important that the government do inform people and they do make steps because
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it is a bit out of hand do you think it's like I think it's more on the people like to inform each
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other like I genuinely think if you really care about someone you're honest with them and I I think
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it's like easier to just say oh you go girl instead of saying hey no get on the track do you genuinely
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believe that these people do not understand what they're doing and it is all based on reactions from
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other people I think I want to take all right you don't know me you met me today I'm telling you
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like I'm just making a stupid scenario I'm gonna have sex with this girl tonight and I feel really
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good about myself that I shouldn't wear a condom right this girl has been around having sex with
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other men right but I feel good in myself that confident enough I may not get anything I'm gonna
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have sex without condom would you say go that's not that's not the point that I'm saying I'm saying
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as so okay it's supporting the cause it's supporting the cause and also we're talking about
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mentally and physically as well but you are responsible for your own actions regardless what
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anybody says to you you as a grown man are responsible for your own actions no matter who
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is saying whatever to you whatever advice you are responsible same way she is responsible for her
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while I agree with that you didn't say to me that because you feel good no problem as long as you
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feel good go ahead and do what you have to do as long as you feel good go ahead and do what you have
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to do because that's not the point that I was actually discussing at the time I was I up the
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question that I asked is do you actually really think that she doesn't understand what she's doing
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to herself being a responsible an adult I don't know about a responsible adult but being an adult
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understanding the the consequences of her actions nobody point do you think she doesn't understand
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the harm same way nobody point is our reaction to it that's what I'm trying to get to is our reaction
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to it your reaction to me but would be what because we reacted to her we said that she feels confident
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she feels good and that's all you care about now I want your reaction what would your reaction be to
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me do your thing it's none of my business knowing that it could be if you feel good if you feel good
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about yourself knowing the risks if you know if you as a grown man if you know the risks of what
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you're getting yourself into you it is none of my business to be telling you what you should or
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should not do if it makes you feel good and you're coming to me and say I feel really great about this
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and if you see me so like posting that kind of thing all over social media like you wouldn't feel
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like why is he posting all over social media it's not good for the world so what so what were you
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trying to say yeah wait wait wait so what you're trying to say is if you're not talking about this
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if you're talking about this woman yeah you're trying to say that she should
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let me just rephrase let me just ask you a question yeah in kind of what you're saying yeah
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maybe I might be wrong but correct me if I'm right yeah if I'm wrong yeah are you saying that
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because she's obese she should hide herself and she should she should feel oh I should feel every
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bit disgusting as much as people think that not at all and I'm not saying that she should hide
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herself no no no but I'm saying because she's out there glamorizing herself feeling good about
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herself yeah but there's people that are going to be very negative and trying to pin her down into a
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position where she should hide herself lock herself and never come out and see the day of light
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because she's so fat but you correct me if I'm wrong as well you correct me if I'm wrong as well
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it's not what she did but she could do it in a different way where it could become more positive
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and how so she's just she could how how she could start a journey that's going to help herself get
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better which is going to motivate others just like her to get better based on that you don't know
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what she's doing you don't know who she is yeah but there's a lot like her out there no but what I'm
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saying you're right but you're missing a point she's motivating people to love themselves she's
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showing you that no matter how you look how dark you are white you are how hairless you are how
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armless you are whatever the hell you are no no but let's be real yeah I feel good forget all that
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yeah I feel good yeah I feel good look I could say that I'm an attractive man I can say that you may
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disagree you may disagree but I feel that I'm I'm attractive I feel good why would I let anybody
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else tell me different man to get it man to man yeah let me go back to the scenario that I brought to
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her man to man are you gonna tell me do what you have to do me personally as a man I wouldn't
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because me as a man I'll look out for you I mean because some people because you know the risk
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right I know the why are we taking that risk as a positive but I'm looking at it as a different
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form of positivity it's not her appearance it's her inside it's her spirit but we're talking about
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the insides no no but we're looking at it visually physically I'm looking I'm listening to her
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her spiritually we are you know saying to everybody audience that I feel good and that's not no there's
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no shame in that sorry that is the inside as well it is it physically is in there in very sorry in a
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very risky condition so the same way you will tell me bro I do advise you to do that because you know
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it risky it's the same way I'll advise her not to do the same yeah but and you wouldn't like me to go
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promoting out to others yo ask all my brothers listen feel confident in yourself feel good on
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yourself go out there have sex with no condom I think the question is though would you guys
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encourage your friends to see that there could be a better quality of life and because if this
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is dualistic we're talking about two different points because we we appreciate that she's
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encouraging everyone whoever you are to feel good about yourself and that's important
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no we don't want to but yes we'd also want to encourage someone in a caring way I just said
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I brought you so now you're in the same way I said I feel good about myself I feel very confident
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in doing this you're comparing to do it without but you're comparing an action to somebody that
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actually is telling you how they feel that's completely no I'm just telling you I feel good
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about it yeah of course but you're not you're missing a point you're gonna do an action I think
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you're missing the point actually no no no he's making he's making their point no I don't how can
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I how can respectfully I don't understand your point reason being is because you're you're saying
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you feel good that's great yeah but you're also pointing out a very big uh uh uh curveball here
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you're saying you want to have sex with a girl unprotected because you feel good the intention
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is not good but how you feel I can't I can't tell you how you feel was wrong because how you feel
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but I can tell you that what you're about to do isn't a good idea that's my advice I love what
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I'm saying no that's the same energy that we want to have for her yeah but she's not saying that she's
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not asking to lose weight she's just saying I feel good the way I look she didn't say she felt good
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she said I look good and that's her feeling good no no and she said I look good but we listen to what
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she said she said I look good but she says I look good because she thinks she looks good that means
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she feels she looks good but so good but that also means that she's going that's also mean that
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she's going to continue doing what she's doing probably probably not you know and posting it and
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bringing awareness to just seeing people who look like her to be like her yeah but it brings awareness
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to show that you can love yourself however however you look it doesn't matter you know that's what I
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can say she said I was just banned on tiktok and we are demonetized on a daily basis on this platform
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