This Is Why Men Cheat
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Summary
In this episode, we discuss cheating in a marriage and how to deal with it. We also talk about why women should or shouldn t cheat on their husband and how cheating is a huge issue in today's society. We also discuss if women should be allowed to leave a marriage if their husband cheats on them.
Transcript
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And I think it's very rare to find a wife who's perfect.
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It's like, let's make sure we're clean and perfect before we break up.
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But it still doesn't give someone the right to cheat on you.
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It doesn't give him the right, but I'm saying men are human.
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I'm not saying they're animals, but I'm saying I think it's silly to tell women to leave every time you get cheated on.
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Because sometimes, I think, again, it's a generational thing.
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Women now, again, are more inclined to go, okay, I'm done with it because this man's cheated me.
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Because there's a thousand men who are trying to swipe into them, slide in their DMs because they have those options.
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Whereas back in the day, it was like, oh, no, no, it's my husband.
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I think it's really sad that in society nowadays that women think there's always something better.
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Whereas you can just work on establishing that.
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And I interview, like, I've heard stories of, like, moms where the mom left because she got cheated on.
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But, like, we were supposed to be virgins on our wedding days.
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If you think of the emotional distress of the woman that's going to have to stay with a man who's cheated on her,
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you have to constantly, day by day, go think, who's he texting?
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Well, in marriages, you're supposed to do hard things.
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And women back in the day didn't have the choice.
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They have an option to do better than they have done, to accept, to realize they expect and they deserve more than they can.
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I think if you commit, if you commit, if you commit into a relationship and you are married, one second,
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if you commit to a relationship and you're married, it's a contractual agreement that you have decided you and me, we're a team, that's it.
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And if someone breaks that, I do think it's, it's too easy nowadays to.
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Do you think men should break the marriage contract because we're not coming in as virgins?
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No, they choose to marry you knowing full fact that that might not be the case, right?
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Should men break the marriage contract if a woman gets fat in a marriage?
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So you said it depends on why she's getting fat.
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But essentially what you're trying to say is because some of the reasons why women get
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fat is actually because of their hormones sometimes.
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So what you're essentially saying is in a marriage, a man has to deal with a woman's
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So for instance, when she's on a period, we have to deal with all the bullshit that comes
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When she gets fat because of our hormones, we have to deal with that.
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But then you never think about the problems that men face with our own hormones, which
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So with the, so if he does cheat or whatever, if he is sorry for cheating and he really
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is making an effort to make it right, then I think you should probably try and make that
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work because you've already made this, it's through thick and thin, good and bad, all that
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But if he has said, okay, I cheated on you and now I want the, the, the, the woman I
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had an affair with to be my next girlfriend and I don't care about you, then what does the
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It's, I think like, and again, you know, studies can say anything, but the studies I've seen,
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it's like 50 to 70% of the time, it's a one to two time thing.
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So it's like knowing that the majority of, of cheating is a one time thing.
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I just think it's in our best interest to try to get through it.
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And especially, I think it's tough for guys nowadays because women walk around half naked,
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They should be able to, everyone should be able to, not naked, everyone keep your pants
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But I went to, I just went to Vegas and chicks had stickies on their boobs and they're walking
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around no top or in a thong and just sit, you know, that's how you naturally are.
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Like men have all of this testosterone, you know, that's a very tough.
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So you say women should be able to walk around naked and in the same breath, you're saying
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But in the same breath, you're also saying that that same man that should be faithful to you
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should be able to go out and accept the fact that every woman out there should just be
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If you go to a nudist beach, no one wants to have sex with any of them and they run around
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You think that the men don't want to have sex at nudist beach?
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I mean, maybe one or two of them, but they're all pretty like, I don't like seeing the naked
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Okay, okay, wait, wait, wait, wait, wait, wait.
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I want you to just logically think through this.
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You think that if the naked women went up to the men on the beach and offered them sex,
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All right, all right, I'm going to ask the question again.
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Do you think the majority of men, if a naked woman is in front of them and offering them
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You're actually talking about the niche type of people that go there for style of crazy.
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So, like, when I was in Barcelona and people were topless, I was like, God, this is amazing.
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As a guy, for the guys in the room, would it be distracting if women walked around naked?
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It would be distracting for, like, a minute and then I'll get used to it.
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I always find if I walk around and knock around like a guy, they don't even, like, it doesn't faze them anymore.
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Like, men are thrown sex at them all of the time.
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And it's like, my whole point is maybe we can have a little empathy for the men, but it's like, it seems impossible here.
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Like, there's, like, no empathy at all where we can kind of understand where they're coming from.
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Like, as King was trying to say as well, like, men produce 70 to 80 million sperm a day.
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And the reason that they do that is so that we can have a population on this earth and keep the world going.
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So, when we know that men have that biological reality, the same way that we have a biological reality to have estrogen and testosterone and to be moody and not moody and all of these different things, why can't we accept that that's a biological fact for them?
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And therefore, like Paul said, you know, obviously, the disrespect and all of these types of things, that's not okay.
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But if we can just accept the reality that men are sexual creatures for a reason, and that's why we're all here.
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So, if a man is going to cheat, why does it have to be the absolute end of the world?
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Because if we know the reality for men, then that's, it's likely that it's going to happen.
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The crazy thing is, the crazy thing is, in all of biology, like, if you look at different kinds of animals, the females have what you call, like, a mating strategy where they signal to the males whenever they want to mate.
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Now, when it comes to human beings, human beings are the only species where the women use their mating signals just to play around.
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So, literally, they dress half naked, and then they put red lipstick, and they say, we're doing it for ourselves.
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I don't mind if guys are looking at me like that.
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I don't mind if guys are looking at me like that.