This Is Why Men Don't Fight For Custody
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Summary
In this episode, we talk about abortion, child support, and child support in the modern era. We also discuss the abortion crisis in America and the abortion epidemic in the United States, and what we should do about it.
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but if i'm honest sorry i'll just finish my point quickly um i don't think abortion rate
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will drop i think that legal abortions will drop because obviously they won't be available which
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means more women are going to have medical side effects from procuring illegal abortion drugs
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they're going to be more sick women more dying women i think women more women in jail i think
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women might think twice before maybe sleeping with the whole football back alley i think i think i
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think one out of three abortions is a lot back alley abortions have existed since the dawn
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i understand and you know i think we should punish people that get those i think that should be
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illegal too you know that the prosecution rate for all crime in general is pretty abysmal right
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it's just it's it pays to be a criminal we can we can make the can i just say um an unpopular opinion
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um amongst women uh but i have heard it time and time again from men which is you know that breakups
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are harder for men than it is on women and the reason is because women are the ones with the choice
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so women choose who they sleep with like we have more choice where so if we say no unless you're
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graped we say no and that's it men have to beg and date and take us and woo us and do this and that and we
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are the ones that we're the only ones that know when we're ovulating too you can only get pregnant like
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five days a month yeah but we also know if we're on birth control or not a lot of women lie about it
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yeah yeah yeah they do they do and we also can he can't make you take a plan b
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mm-hmm so it's like we have all these choices so before i get attacked by women i'm not saying that
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i'm not saying that like you know do better i'm just saying that i've i've been told from many men
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and i was thinking yeah you're right they're not like whoever we have slept with women
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we unless it's been some you know a different situation um in a normal situation we know we're the ones
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that have said okay okay like come to mind it's always on the woman so the woman has the last say
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in sex and we know when we're on we know when what we're taking we know what we're so it's like
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if you're going to have sex with i mean sorry sex uh if you're gonna sleep with someone and then you
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you uh not on the pill he's not wearing a condom you're not on anything and you still don't go
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and get the morning after pill or you don't whatever you and then go oh i'm pregnant
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like damn i think i'm shocked how did that happen i know i like and now i'm in this situation
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right that's that's what i say it's because we have all of these choices to prevent these things
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like yet we will still say but men when i bring this up you just said something that made me think so
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if you if women get the last say in during intercourse do you think women should get the
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last say when it comes to if they have an abortion or not um see i've spoken about this a lot i don't
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i think it might show up on that one that was actually my next question yeah
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like serious it is um i think that the that if the the partner has an issue i think if the woman
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says i want an abortion and the boyfriend is like i don't want an abortion
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then i would say for the woman to go and do it that's okay but what if they both agreed to have an
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abortion and then the woman decides okay i'm going to keep the baby now i know many of those
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i know many of those type of women is she wrong for doing that i think uh
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well you know what's interesting women have the right not to be mothers but men don't have the
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right not to be fathers because a woman can get an abortion say i don't want to be a mother but a man
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can't opt out of child support or he goes to jail or gets his assets seized in this country yeah
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yeah that's not in that angle the way how you that's actually like but then you're complaining
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that some people are pro-life you can't really have a complaint from both sides if you're pro-life
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then you're gonna want women to do that right you can't criticize women for both things it's like
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no no i actually i would ban child support actually yeah yeah yeah i would say i would say i would
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say make supports for the child yeah well i would if women were just if women were really just spending
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child support on the child i might support that but yeah she's like you know yeah child support
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and 500 i mean maybe you make a lot of money you're an internet person you know but for the
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average guy that's a lot in a month 500 bucks a month but you think that's a lot for sustaining
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a child i mean i think i think if you can afford the child you should have custody of it so if she
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can't afford the child give it to the dad but the reason that the dad can't afford it is because
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he's at work all the time and how can you look after a kid well that's my point it should be his
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responsibility so if he wants to let the mom watch it on when he wants her to then custody is a thing
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right you can fight for it's really not a thing here it's it's they only get custody 10% of the
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time so so 50 50 well the reason they don't is because they go broke doing it and a lot of um
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a lot of lawyers advise them not to i mean i've interviewed guys that like go through this it's not an
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easy process i think the reality is it's very hard to sustain that because if you're a man and
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you're working full time um it's not worth to fight it unless you're willing to work less or lose
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your job or do a different job like so when you're looking at it from this perspective one of the two
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has to work and if you're the one with the better job you're going to opt out of that as a choice
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well i i just don't think you should be rewarded for making a poor choice so i i think you know if
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you can if you can let's let's not make it a kid let's make it a dog if i can afford a dog then i
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get the dog why why should you why should you get the kid if you can't afford it and it's like
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it's like it's like it's almost like it's almost like punishing it's way right it's almost like
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punishing men for doing the right thing they're supposed to work they're doing the right thing
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and now we're punishing them and saying no you can't have the kid because you're working but a kid
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needs more than just money that's the point right you need to be it's the caring it's the upbringing
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okay okay well then if we're going to put the kid first then the dad should definitely get it
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because single father homes produce better children than single mother homes thank you you
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want to know what that is right because the men that do take it on have the capabilities to be that
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i mean i mean that's the reason that usually really rich that's the reason that the left gives but you
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just said it's not about money and now you're saying it's money because if you already have the
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money then you don't have to work you have the time so that's that's not true there's good rich
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parents there's good poor parents i think that's a really i agree with that that's not the same
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i think she likes to conflate a lot of things i don't think most of the fathers that raise their
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kids on their own are rich i actually think it's the opposite because more time more often than not
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if uh if a man is rich he he can have the mother take care of the kid the mother doesn't have to work
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he doesn't have to be with her that's what would usually happen being a man knowing a lot of men
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that are in that situation i know that's what usually happen most of the men that raise kids on
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your own are struggling of course it's a struggle for both just like a lot of women are struggling as well
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but i just asked my my my my whole point is it's not equal so it's like if we my whole point is it's
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not equal so it's like okay if we if if the feminists the left whatever want abortion to be legal
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then then why then then let the men not be fathers too the thing is like so i'm not too sure like
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honestly i'm not i'd really like to know the type of men that you're speaking about because the women
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that i know of whether i know of them personally or i've heard of her they're single mothers
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like they're begging their father they're begging their baby father for money towards like summer
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camp for the kids because these dads think that their the mother's whole life should revolve around
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the children when he does the bare minimum like i said before why can't she have a life
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it's like why did she why did she open her legs for him my thing is women have all the choice when
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it comes to sex it is not hard for us to get sex