This Is Why Men NEED S3xual Experience
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Summary
In this episode, we talk about how a man can tell a good woman from a bad woman, and how a woman can be a good man. We also talk about polyamory and the benefits of being polyamorous.
Transcript
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I think that honestly, if it's a high value man, most of the time he's going to know without all of that.
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Honestly, most of the men nowadays, how does he know?
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There is this, I don't know if it's the right word, but there is this aura.
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There is this sense when you sit with a woman who you know is going to be respectful to you or not.
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I know, but average men nowadays look at high value men's content more and more and more and try to see.
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So you think, I'm just curious, you think men just know?
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They don't just know, but they should get to a point to just know.
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So how does he get to that point that he just knows?
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Well, slowly, slowly, slowly, we're getting to a point where I think they need to go to certain parts of the world.
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And certain parts of the world, they will just know that 90% of the women will not be like that.
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He needs to travel somewhere else and then experience those women and then compare them to...
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Okay, but for a guy that doesn't travel, like he stays in the West, because most, remember, most guys don't make a ton of money.
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Like I think half of U.S. men don't have passports.
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So for a guy that's not traveling, how does he know?
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I would say if you, if the first conversation with her is like, oh, so where are we going to dinner?
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I think when you meet a girl, you should take her for coffee and that's it.
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Even if you like her so much that you take on a coffee date and see what she's like and see if she's, I don't know, if she wants to continue the date and get you to buy her dinner.
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Can a man know a good woman from a bad woman without experiencing a lot of women?
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He, I would suggest that in his 20s, he dates as many women as he can.
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Date as many women as possible to tell the difference.
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Because again, remember, I just want to remind everybody of the stats.
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38% of women or of kids are born into single parent homes, meaning 38% of the next generation has never seen a functioning marriage.
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Average child, first child is before the average age of first marriage.
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Average number of partners for a woman is between four and eight.
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But women have a 20% chance of being in a happy marriage if they have slept with more than five people.
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And if men get divorced, they can be financially ruined and their kids can be taken from them.
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So, basically, there's a lot riding on them picking the right woman.
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And in this book, they were making a case, basically, for polyamory and polyamorous relationships, which I don't resonate with personally.
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But I was trying to convince myself because everyone else seems to think that's a good idea except for me.
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So I thought, well, I've got to read this book.
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But at the end of the book, they had a very interesting fact about the olfactory sense, right?
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A woman can tell if a man will complement her differences genetically.
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But a woman actually can't if she's taking birth control.
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He can genetically identify through his olfactory sense, through his nose, whether or not she'll complement his genetic weaknesses.
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But apparently, it's like a deep, very primal thing about attraction.
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I mean, clearly, one out of three are having abortions.
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Oh, 90% of women have used contraceptives throughout their reproductive years.
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And have used more than one in their lifetime, 76%.
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Can I just add one more thing that came to my mind?
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You know, sometimes I do understand that not all of the parents can stay together.
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So, if a girl, even if a girl is not on good terms with her dad, but she disrespects him by talking trash to a guy, that's not a girl that you should marry.
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And if, I don't think you can disagree with this, because there's no.
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But even if you haven't got a great relationship with your, or your father's absent, it doesn't mean that the woman is going to be a wreck.
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Well, yeah, but why do we have the phrase daddy issues?
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A lot of people that have daddy issues, and we don't know who they are.
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I'm one of them, but I'm not a disrespectful person to men.
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Well, yeah, we're not talking about you, but in general, like.
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Like, I think if you've never, if you've never seen a healthy relationship, how would you know how to do it?
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Like, if I've never seen anyone ride a bike, how would I learn to ride a bike?
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If it was common, then why do half of relationships end in divorce?
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And why is the older generation known for being so unhappy in their marriages?
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They don't actually get to find a deeper meaning.
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If women swipe right on dating apps, which is the most superficial, only 5% of the time,
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and men swipe right 50% of the time, who's more superficial, men or women?
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One out of three men are either virgins or haven't had sex in the past year.
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One out of three men are either virgins or haven't had sex in the past year.
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Yeah, so it's, like, 20% of men are fucking all the girls, essentially, in their 20s.
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Like, basically, like, women typically go for looks in their 20s.
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Women pick, like, when women, this is the first time in history where women have been the sexual selectors.
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But now this is the first time where women have been 100% in control of reproduction because we have birth control.
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And it's funny because the more freedom women get, the more we screw the same people in our prime, which is, like, 22 to 24.
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And they said, when do you find women most attractive?
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So, when women have the most choice, it's interesting because we pick non-monogamy.
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And women react out of emotion, solely out of emotion a lot of the time, which is why you see so many women sleeping with so many men and making decisions on the spot that aren't responsible, like abortion.
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So, if the majority of women are going for men that's not monogamous, then why do they fight for a man to be monogamous?
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They see a man, obviously, because they're going for the top 20% or whatever, which they know is, they can tell that he gets a lot of girls or whatever.
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So, they want to try and lock down that one man so you don't.
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I mean, I think that's like every girl's, you know, what Cinderella was sitting at home and the prince like came and picked her out of all the princesses.
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They want to say I was the one who changed him.