JustPearlyThings - July 19, 2023


This Is Why Men NEED S3xual Experience

Hosted by
Hannah Pearl Davis
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Cinderella
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Length

8 minutes

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197.27

Word count

1,764

Sentence count

194

Harmful content

Misogyny

26

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Toxicity

8

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20

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In this episode, we talk about how a man can tell a good woman from a bad woman, and how a woman can be a good man. We also talk about polyamory and the benefits of being polyamorous.

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00:00:00.000 I think that honestly, if it's a high value man, most of the time he's going to know without all of that.
00:00:08.300 Honestly, most of the men nowadays, how does he know?
00:00:12.200 There is this, I don't know if it's the right word, but there is this aura.
00:00:17.060 There is this sense when you sit with a woman who you know is going to be respectful to you or not. 0.87
00:00:24.120 I honestly feel that.
00:00:25.680 You think that average men just know this?
00:00:27.920 Because you're talking about high value.
00:00:29.100 I mean, that's like 5% of men.
00:00:31.300 I know, but average men nowadays look at high value men's content more and more and more and try to see.
00:00:38.720 So you think, I'm just curious, you think men just know?
00:00:43.520 They don't just know, but they should get to a point to just know.
00:00:49.040 So how does he get to that point that he just knows?
00:00:53.280 Well, slowly, slowly, slowly, we're getting to a point where I think they need to go to certain parts of the world.
00:00:59.100 To know.
00:01:00.320 And certain parts of the world, they will just know that 90% of the women will not be like that. 1.00
00:01:06.120 Okay, so he needs to travel to...
00:01:08.320 Slowly, we're getting there.
00:01:09.320 He needs to travel somewhere else and then experience those women and then compare them to... 1.00
00:01:14.300 Exactly, exactly.
00:01:14.920 Okay, but for a guy that doesn't travel, like he stays in the West, because most, remember, most guys don't make a ton of money.
00:01:20.640 Like I think half of U.S. men don't have passports.
00:01:24.740 Yeah.
00:01:24.920 So most men aren't traveling like that.
00:01:27.020 So for a guy that's not traveling, how does he know?
00:01:29.260 Good woman versus bad woman. 1.00
00:01:30.620 I would say if you, if the first conversation with her is like, oh, so where are we going to dinner?
00:01:37.340 Are we having drinks?
00:01:38.540 This is not a right way to meet.
00:01:41.180 I think when you meet a girl, you should take her for coffee and that's it.
00:01:44.800 Even if you like her so much that you take on a coffee date and see what she's like and see if she's, I don't know, if she wants to continue the date and get you to buy her dinner.
00:01:58.260 Can a man know a good woman from a bad woman without experiencing a lot of women? 1.00
00:02:04.800 Not really.
00:02:05.860 Okay, so in order to identify, he has to what?
00:02:09.280 He, I would suggest that in his 20s, he dates as many women as he can.
00:02:15.340 That's what, that's what, okay.
00:02:16.760 Okay.
00:02:17.300 So, so how many women should he date?
00:02:21.580 As much as you can.
00:02:22.880 Yeah, as much as you can.
00:02:24.600 I'm not saying sleep with all of them.
00:02:26.920 Some guys have given numbers.
00:02:28.240 Date as many women as possible to tell the difference. 0.99
00:02:34.480 I read it.
00:02:34.840 Because again, remember, I just want to remind everybody of the stats.
00:02:37.540 One out of three women has an STD.
00:02:39.780 One out of three women has had an abortion.
00:02:42.500 38% of women or of kids are born into single parent homes, meaning 38% of the next generation has never seen a functioning marriage.
00:02:52.420 Average child, first child is before the average age of first marriage.
00:02:56.520 So the first kid, 26.
00:02:58.480 First marriage, 30. 0.77
00:02:59.820 Half of marriages will end in divorce.
00:03:02.100 Average number of partners for a woman is between four and eight.
00:03:05.560 And that's self-reported.
00:03:08.680 So, you know, take that with a grain of salt.
00:03:10.520 But women have a 20% chance of being in a happy marriage if they have slept with more than five people. 0.93
00:03:15.520 So, yeah.
00:03:17.720 And if men get divorced, they can be financially ruined and their kids can be taken from them.
00:03:23.620 70% of women are overweight. 0.80
00:03:24.940 So, basically, there's a lot riding on them picking the right woman.
00:03:28.000 So I'm trying to give them a foolproof plan.
00:03:30.860 That makes sense.
00:03:31.780 There's a book that I read called Sex at Dawn.
00:03:34.500 And in this book, they were making a case, basically, for polyamory and polyamorous relationships, which I don't resonate with personally.
00:03:42.600 But I was trying to convince myself because everyone else seems to think that's a good idea except for me.
00:03:46.540 So I thought, well, I've got to read this book.
00:03:47.980 But at the end of the book, they had a very interesting fact about the olfactory sense, right?
00:03:52.940 Your nose.
00:03:53.560 Like, actually, we sniff each other out.
00:03:55.740 A woman can tell if a man will complement her differences genetically. 1.00
00:04:01.580 I've heard that.
00:04:02.340 Yeah.
00:04:02.500 But a woman actually can't if she's taking birth control. 1.00
00:04:06.120 Oh.
00:04:07.120 It's disabled.
00:04:08.020 But a man can actually sniff her out. 0.99
00:04:11.160 He can genetically identify through his olfactory sense, through his nose, whether or not she'll complement his genetic weaknesses.
00:04:19.120 So how does he know?
00:04:20.080 What does he have to smell for?
00:04:21.260 I don't know.
00:04:21.880 That's a good question.
00:04:22.840 I wish I knew.
00:04:23.440 That's what I was talking about.
00:04:24.040 But apparently, it's like a deep, very primal thing about attraction.
00:04:27.860 So maybe make sure she's not on birth control. 1.00
00:04:30.000 Yes.
00:04:30.400 Right?
00:04:30.660 For example.
00:04:31.980 Not.
00:04:32.500 On birth control.
00:04:34.020 I think that works both ways.
00:04:35.140 I wonder what percent.
00:04:36.760 Hold on.
00:04:37.240 I just want to look up because I'm curious.
00:04:39.700 What percent of women are on birth control? 1.00
00:04:43.680 Also, who here is on birth control?
00:04:45.320 Raise your hand.
00:04:46.340 No one?
00:04:46.760 Not anymore.
00:04:47.900 I mean, clearly, one out of three are having abortions. 0.97
00:04:50.140 I'm like, it can't be that high.
00:04:53.160 The majority.
00:04:55.540 Oh, 90% of women have used contraceptives throughout their reproductive years.
00:05:00.640 And have used more than one in their lifetime, 76%.
00:05:04.560 Wow.
00:05:05.780 Okay.
00:05:06.360 We just have a good room, I guess.
00:05:08.060 I'm going to add that to my stats.
00:05:09.700 Okay.
00:05:11.380 Sorry.
00:05:11.920 Can I just add one more thing that came to my mind?
00:05:13.980 Ask her about the family.
00:05:16.620 You know, sometimes I do understand that not all of the parents can stay together.
00:05:21.120 Of course, there are special situations.
00:05:24.320 But just see how she talks about her family.
00:05:27.420 What is her relationship like with her family?
00:05:30.260 And her dad, too, you know.
00:05:32.880 Nah.
00:05:33.560 I don't believe in that.
00:05:34.580 So, if a girl, even if a girl is not on good terms with her dad, but she disrespects him by talking trash to a guy, that's not a girl that you should marry. 0.97
00:05:44.540 Honestly.
00:05:44.980 And if, I don't think you can disagree with this, because there's no.
00:05:50.820 But even if you haven't got a great relationship with your, or your father's absent, it doesn't mean that the woman is going to be a wreck.
00:05:58.520 It's not necessarily true.
00:05:59.680 No, no, I'm not saying that.
00:06:00.020 I'm saying she shouldn't trash him.
00:06:02.240 Well, yeah, but why do we have the phrase daddy issues?
00:06:05.120 If it doesn't mean anything.
00:06:06.840 But some, most, well, not, okay.
00:06:08.900 A lot of people that have daddy issues, and we don't know who they are. 1.00
00:06:11.680 I'm one of them, but I'm not a disrespectful person to men.
00:06:14.060 Like, I'm not.
00:06:14.980 Well, yeah, we're not talking about you, but in general, like.
00:06:17.860 It's your dad, no matter what.
00:06:19.400 Like, I think if you've never, if you've never seen a healthy relationship, how would you know how to do it?
00:06:23.800 Exactly.
00:06:24.340 Like, if I've never seen anyone ride a bike, how would I learn to ride a bike?
00:06:27.320 I feel like it's common sense.
00:06:29.000 I feel like it's, like, morality.
00:06:31.080 If it was common, then why do half of relationships end in divorce?
00:06:34.940 And why is the older generation known for being so unhappy in their marriages?
00:06:38.680 Because men pick women based off the surface. 0.99
00:06:41.580 They don't actually get to find a deeper meaning.
00:06:44.860 If women swipe right on dating apps, which is the most superficial, only 5% of the time, 1.00
00:06:49.140 and men swipe right 50% of the time, who's more superficial, men or women?
00:06:53.060 Women. 0.81
00:06:53.740 But most women are hoes. 1.00
00:06:55.300 For real.
00:06:55.840 No, for real, for real.
00:06:56.700 They are.
00:06:58.260 No, that's incorrect.
00:06:59.900 One out of three men are either virgins or haven't had sex in the past year. 0.98
00:07:01.980 I feel like a lot of women sleep around. 1.00
00:07:03.640 One out of three men are either virgins or haven't had sex in the past year. 0.99
00:07:06.940 Wow. 0.99
00:07:07.660 I think a lot of women sleep around. 1.00
00:07:09.820 So, I'll tell you.
00:07:10.460 A lot of women do sleep around. 1.00
00:07:12.120 I do think that.
00:07:13.940 What?
00:07:14.020 You're saying we're the same set of men? 0.99
00:07:14.960 Yeah, so it's, like, 20% of men are fucking all the girls, essentially, in their 20s. 0.99
00:07:18.800 And then when women hit 30, they'll expand it. 1.00
00:07:21.240 Like, basically, like, women typically go for looks in their 20s. 1.00
00:07:24.740 Women pick, like, when women, this is the first time in history where women have been the sexual selectors. 1.00
00:07:30.040 So, like, historically, think about it. 0.99
00:07:31.780 You had to get along with the dude or you die.
00:07:34.000 Like, they would pick you.
00:07:35.260 You wouldn't pick them.
00:07:36.500 But now this is the first time where women have been 100% in control of reproduction because we have birth control. 0.79
00:07:41.340 We're in control of abortion. 0.68
00:07:42.740 So, we are 100% in control of who's born.
00:07:44.920 And it's funny because the more freedom women get, the more we screw the same people in our prime, which is, like, 22 to 24. 1.00
00:07:51.340 They surveyed men between, like, 20 and 80.
00:07:53.560 And they said, when do you find women most attractive?
00:07:55.520 It's, like, roughly 22 to 24.
00:07:57.200 All the ages think that.
00:07:58.560 So, when women have the most choice, it's interesting because we pick non-monogamy. 1.00
00:08:03.840 And we tend to go for looks.
00:08:06.620 And women react out of emotion, solely out of emotion a lot of the time, which is why you see so many women sleeping with so many men and making decisions on the spot that aren't responsible, like abortion. 1.00
00:08:18.220 Yeah.
00:08:18.400 So, if the majority of women are going for men that's not monogamous, then why do they fight for a man to be monogamous? 1.00
00:08:24.480 I mean, I think they want him to be, but.
00:08:26.280 So, they want to change the man, basically.
00:08:28.320 They see a man, obviously, because they're going for the top 20% or whatever, which they know is, they can tell that he gets a lot of girls or whatever.
00:08:35.900 Yeah.
00:08:36.560 So, they want to try and lock down that one man so you don't.
00:08:39.080 Yeah.
00:08:39.660 Okay.
00:08:39.940 I mean, I think that's like every girl's, you know, what Cinderella was sitting at home and the prince like came and picked her out of all the princesses.
00:08:49.400 Exactly.
00:08:49.840 They want to say I was the one who changed him.
00:08:52.540 They've been selling us this dream forever.
00:08:54.560 Exactly.
00:08:56.080 Exactly.