JustPearlyThings - August 30, 2023


This Is Why Most Women Get Cheated On


Episode Stats


Length

9 minutes

Words per minute

180.35286

Word count

1,656

Sentence count

3

Harmful content

Misogyny

26

sentences flagged

Hate speech

15

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Summary

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In this episode, we discuss why women should not sleep with anyone else and why men should choose what they want from a woman. Women should choose a man who is faithful to them and not a woman who sleeps with other women.

Transcript

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00:00:00.000 because if you're treating a girl properly she's not the reason the reason women get typically get 1.00
00:00:06.160 cheated on is they shoot too high man over here sorry i think it's a mental thing because you
00:00:15.420 know if because i'd say most men are unable to cheat yes i don't think you don't realize this
00:00:20.180 because you want all you know you can just need to go below your level no no no no no if all the
00:00:25.960 women are looking up no one's looking down this is what you're not men do because you're calling
00:00:29.380 these girls hoseland you didn't pay attention to my diagram how do you know someone's equal 1.00
00:00:36.720 equal to you i'm on about a man yeah the ring okay but commitment all right so what is the solution
00:00:43.240 here for people that the solution here is that for women not to sleep with anyone and then guys need
00:00:57.660 to actually pick what they want instead of saying oh what you just said what do most men want from
00:01:05.000 women so and who controls it yes we so you control what happens that's what i'm saying yes i agree
00:01:15.340 that women are the gatekeeper of course of course but all not all men are the same a man still be
00:01:21.840 married to one woman why do you want sex apart from the fact that it's pleasurable and stuff okay
00:01:32.560 you want it because you get validation from it but if you are with a girl that you really like why do
00:01:37.720 you need validation from the outside why do women need validation from instagram why do women need 1.00
00:01:45.320 validation with a million wait wait wait let me ask all the ladies in the real question right 1.00
00:01:49.680 have you in have you gotten attention from guys you had no interest in yes or no
00:01:53.720 that is different because it is uncontrollable hold on let me learn let me learn do we know do we know
00:02:00.280 that hold on do we know that some girls enjoy attention even from men that they're not interested 1.00
00:02:05.040 in yes or no yeah right yeah so we know this right so if we know right that women can enjoy 1.00
00:02:11.940 attention from men that they're not interested in right for men replace attention with sex yes
00:02:16.940 men can enjoy i'm sorry having sexual intimacy with someone i know hold on i'm not listen 0.84
00:02:22.260 it's not different for women it's not different for men it's not different for women i understand
00:02:28.960 no because there is a thing called self-control are you just cavemen there you can't control
00:02:33.400 yourself what i'm saying is i understand it's difficult to understand because you're looking
00:02:39.100 at it through a female lens but what i'm trying to articulate to you is that the same way that it
00:02:43.540 can feel good to get attention because it gives you validation right the same way it can get feel
00:02:48.080 good to get attention from guys you have no interest in from everyone then because a man's going to feel
00:02:52.800 i would take these complaints seriously if all the women the wives if i could tell the difference 1.00
00:03:12.520 between wives and mothers and single women i would take these complaints seriously but i'm sorry
00:03:17.660 most women have open instagrams most women dress provocatively you cannot tell the difference 1.00
00:03:23.860 between a wife and a mother and a single chick nowadays you see no but you can't really tell 0.90
00:03:28.900 the difference between a wealthy and a poor man depending on how they dress it's the same thing
00:03:33.160 it's how you perceive that person and i'm telling you i know this better than anybody because i have
00:03:39.120 interviewed hundreds of women on the show and i am telling you no and i it's not a certain type when
00:03:45.480 it's 600 700 eight i've talked to more people than everybody in this room and i can't tell who
00:03:51.740 the women on the couch that come in that have children and the ones that don't they look exactly 1.00
00:03:56.940 the same and it used to be a time it used to be a time where wives and mothers looked different than
00:04:03.200 the single chick because their men were loyal at that time men are loyal to girls you guys aren't
00:04:11.240 listening because the the only reason that met you that you have men that aren't loyal because
00:04:16.300 you're you're shooting too high there's a man on your level that will be faithful to you
00:04:21.300 you just don't want it you just don't want you just don't want the guy who's going to be faithful
00:04:25.020 and that's the truth because it's true guys on their level do the girls on their level
00:04:29.700 i want to drop a little bit of knowledge on you guys there's something that a lot of people have
00:04:33.400 failed to point out we keep talking about sex as if sex is what men used to pick wives sex isn't
00:04:38.920 what men used to pick wives the one thing men used to pick wives is something i know most of you
00:04:43.000 men on this couch cannot give to a man which is submission oh to be submissive to a man
00:04:48.040 i will be submissive to the right man if you're saying that women can't tell um who's successful
00:04:58.260 and who isn't has any of you like dated a homeless man yeah but guys lie though
00:05:02.160 and have any of you guys say the homeless girl i don't get it i guarantee i guarantee there's a man
00:05:11.240 somewhere that slept with a homeless person guaranteed 1.00
00:05:12.900 no i guarantee are you telling me that happened that's disgusting people sleeping women in the 1.00
00:05:17.520 trap i want to ask the guys i want to ask the guys all right would you guys would you guys wife
00:05:22.500 a chick that was making minimum wage yep but she was a 22 year old virgin that would be ideal 1.00
00:05:28.400 that's the difference that's why i'm not looking for a virgin like that
00:05:33.200 because that's not what the woman brings to the table 1.00
00:05:35.280 i want to go with this i want to go with this what what do women bring to the table in 2023 1.00
00:05:42.640 um do we 2023 it depends what kind of women we're talking about i don't know the average woman 1.00
00:05:48.400 even good women in 2023 do they bring purity are they virgins yes or no 1.00
00:05:53.120 mostly no okay okay wait we're just gonna do yes or no okay okay do you have they typically slept
00:05:58.240 around or not slept around i would say yes slept around okay do they bring youth the average age
00:06:03.700 first marriage is 31 do they bring youth fertility well if it's 31 then no no okay okay okay so the
00:06:11.720 average that's because the whole system is messed up wait wait no the average woman the average 1.00
00:06:16.400 woman has 1.4 children does the average woman bring children 1.00
00:06:20.360 200 years ago a guy could get a wife and get seven kids out of it but who wants now he gets 1.4
00:06:32.340 why do we yeah because women are waiting so long and then we lose our eggs so no well it's because 1.00
00:06:38.120 women again we shoot too long but this is wrong because we're telling women to just settle for 1.00
00:06:45.700 whatever we get how is that right no no we're not saying settle i'm saying get what you deserve and
00:06:50.780 i'll give you an example you're your tv presenter right like that's why you said that earlier okay
00:07:03.260 yeah so there is a girl that has a similar job to you she was um 39 and she went viral this year
00:07:09.600 saying she wouldn't date a bus driver okay so a woman has a job talking into a microphone and i do this 0.99
00:07:15.840 right i don't think i'm better than a guy with an average job and she was snickering at the thought
00:07:21.340 at 39 years old of dating a bus driver is it really settling dating a bus driver when he marries her
00:07:29.720 he probably doesn't get kids out of it but he could marry a 22 year old jobless chick and have a whole 1.00
00:07:36.100 family so who's settling for him and this is the problem what it's personal it's her own choice
00:07:43.840 it's her choice and it's and it's depending on the lifestyle you have to think women go after 1.00
00:07:48.840 a lifestyle because that was how it was centuries back we would pick the the eligible bachelor who
00:07:55.240 could give us security but they always say no they had no they had lower standards of living
00:08:01.680 yeah no no no i disagree no back then this is this is how you guys spread propaganda that's very wrong
00:08:14.820 the people the women that went after high class men typically came from high class families or they 0.95
00:08:20.600 were very beautiful that was those are the kind of women that got high class men the rest had to 1.00
00:08:25.980 settle for the average joe down the street and had to work on farms with their husbands and build 1.00
00:08:31.020 themselves to get into that upper class and i would argue it's not it's it's not your choice for
00:08:36.260 commitment it's your choice for sex but not for commitment yeah it's the guy's choice you have
00:08:40.240 to convince him to commit to you you don't have to say yeah though so it's still 50 50 50 i have to
00:08:46.680 say yeah i'm saying you have to be good enough i'm just gonna marry you because you're real
00:08:50.240 word like we we tell we show our hand based on our language and even the worst even the word that
00:08:55.360 she shouldn't have to settle when most women are overweight most women aren't virgins and most women 1.00
00:09:00.340 that get married are old the idea that we're settling for the guys when really the guys are settling
00:09:05.420 for us because in 2023 modern women offer less than ever before 1.00