JustPearlyThings - This Is Why Simps Are The Enemy

00:00:00.000 what are what are some other red flags so you said frustration telling her no

00:00:07.040 greed okay read materialism okay shallowness

00:00:17.200 shallowness and how can a guy test i mean i guess shallowness and materialism you can kind

00:00:22.320 of see it's like it'll present itself it'll present itself and here's the problem though

00:00:30.000 i'm talking about things that are red flags and women these are actually red flags and men

00:00:35.520 yeah the fact of the matter is for every gold digger out there there's some guy in a jewelry

00:00:43.120 store buying her a tennis bracelet men reward women for that shallow materialism that's how 1.00

00:00:51.440 they bring them in and of course that creates more shallow women so it's a vicious cycle 1.00

00:00:56.560 um but that's one of the things i suggest men look for because if you think that she has an 1.00

00:01:03.680 attitude of entitlement about your money when you meet her just imagine what her attitude 0.95

00:01:09.520 about your money is going to be during a divorce right right that's so true so

00:01:18.400 what motivated you to become an advocate for men's rights and create a voice for men

00:01:23.600 i'm a guy that likes the underdog and i went most of my life not even knowing that men were underdogs

00:01:31.760 as a matter of fact i would i don't recall ever actually saying it but i would have considered

00:01:37.600 myself a feminist at one point when i was naive enough to think that women were the underdogs 0.95

00:01:45.760 once i woke up to that it just became a different underdog that i was pushing for

00:01:54.560 what do you think are the most pressing issues that men face today suicide is nearly at the at the top

00:02:02.640 of the list you know suicide rate for men is four times what it is for women right under that and

00:02:09.920 connected to that is the egregious rollback of civil rights that men experience in family courts

00:02:16.800 um their civil rights are just squashed and stepped on in star chamber like activity and that's a huge

00:02:25.680 problem which makes marriage a problem um other than that men's those things are stacked against men

00:02:36.560 all the rest of it i put on men their poor choices is their biggest challenge

00:02:40.720 they choose terrible women to bond with they make terrible financial decisions around women they 1.00

00:02:49.760 literally send their their ships against the rocks

00:02:52.480 um and it's very very hard to get them to stop

00:03:00.960 why why do you think like family court is so bad like it baffles like the more i've done the document

00:03:09.200 i really didn't understand why men wanted to get like didn't want to get married until i started doing

00:03:14.480 this stuff but it's so crazy to me when i hear their stories like one guy had a woman plotting to like

00:03:21.760 get him to hit her or get her to hit him and he shows me the text so like people think i make this

00:03:27.360 up and i'm like no i i saw the case files like i looked at them and literally she still got custody 1.00

00:03:33.760 like a woman that was plotting against her her husband trying to get him to abuse her and lied

00:03:41.840 about it in court said that he raped her and then also they proved that she was lying they still gave

00:03:48.240 her custody it's like why is it so lopsided i'll give you another example of this and then i'll get

00:03:54.960 back around to answering the question as best i can i worked with a lieutenant colonel air force lieutenant

00:04:01.520 colonel out of west virginia who was married to a borderline personality female very crazy at one 0.98

00:04:09.680 point he was trying to leave the home with his daughter and he was in an suv with her and the

00:04:16.560 wife jumps up on the hood of the car and starts smashing the windshield in with a coke bottle he 1.00

00:04:23.920 captured it on video to to show the court what kind of behavior he was dealing with and the judge

00:04:30.560 admonished him for violating her privacy and threw the video out of evidence

00:04:40.560 there's two reasons for this one is just a natural social bias that we have toward women rescuing women

00:04:48.560 family courts are a factory for damsels in distress and they play on our gynocentrism of the times and

00:04:59.120 women get preferential treatment the other thing is that it's money the courts tend to go after we find 1.00

00:05:07.520 that even female celebrities now that have a lot of money they're getting screwed over in family courts 1.00

00:05:13.920 out of tons of cash it's about the money the courts go after whoever has the most income 1.00

00:05:20.640 that's what they want and that's where their bread and butter is

00:05:23.600 well it's funny because they almost punish the men for doing the traditional thing which is to work

00:05:31.520 it's like we want the men that work and provide but if they work and provide then they'll say oh 0.51

00:05:37.200 you weren't with the kids enough it's like well not only that you you work and provide not only were

00:05:43.920 you not with the kids enough but you set up a lifestyle your work and provision becomes the excuse

00:05:50.560 for her to take it during the divorce i'm dependent on him i didn't have a career i stayed at home

00:05:57.520 and so i've become accustomed to this life and that becomes a rationale it's why it's one of the things

00:06:03.200 i bring up when men talk about starting traditional relationships and getting married

00:06:08.160 i want them to understand that when you arrive in family court your work to take care of your family

00:06:14.560 is the very thing they're going to use to take it from you after the marriage is over wow so how would

00:06:22.000 you is there is the legal system fixable like are there any laws that could be passed that would fix this

00:06:31.040 no i think short of cans of kerosene and and torches and pitchforks no i i don't think it's fixable i

00:06:39.520 think the family court is if you look into it uh into title 4d into just the the ramped corruption

00:06:49.520 what's that i don't know what title title 4d is part of the social security act and what basically it

00:06:55.120 boils down to is the courts get paid for collecting child support from the federal government family

00:07:03.440 courts are the only courts in the country that make a profit they actually make money because

00:07:11.120 they're getting paid to collect but guess what they're not getting paid to they're not getting

00:07:15.520 paid to enforce visitation so they largely ignore the complaints the money is in collecting child support

00:07:24.800 but why do they set it up like why do they set it up like that

00:07:28.720 i think it's all about the benjamins baby it's about the money

JustPearlyThings - July 31, 2023

This Is Why Simps Are The Enemy

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