JustPearlyThings - August 16, 2023


This Is Why The Passport Bros EXIST

Hosted by
Hannah Pearl Davis
Mentioned
Pearl Sonora Vegas Tucson David Lana
This Is Why Women Shouldn't Vote The Hard Truth About FEMINISM

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Length

11 minutes

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226.75

Word count

2,578

Sentence count

330

Harmful content

Misogyny

23

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Toxicity

46

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Hate speech

17

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Summary

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On this episode of The Real Reel Podcast, we have a special guest on the show today. He is a fitness coach, personal trainer, and sex coach. He has been in the business for a long time and has been around the block in the fitness and sex game. He also has a background in law enforcement and has worked with some of the top law enforcement officers in the country. He is also a good friend of mine and I really enjoyed this episode.

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00:00:00.000 I was just like, I was walking down the street.
00:00:01.680 I would pay Pearl to do that. 1.00
00:00:03.720 Oh my God, that's what the, I got spanked today by one of those bitches. 1.00
00:00:07.440 I swear to God. 1.00
00:00:08.840 I will tell you that.
00:00:09.740 She gave me the, she was trying to give me the handcuff thing. 1.00
00:00:13.260 And I was like, this bitch spanks me when I walk by. 1.00
00:00:16.060 I'm like, what the fuck? 1.00
00:00:17.880 I've been assaulted. 1.00
00:00:19.220 So the question was, was your face like this or was like, whoa, come on now.
00:00:23.320 It's because Pearl looks harmless.
00:00:25.300 Like, they won't try that on me.
00:00:26.500 I'm like, don't even try it.
00:00:28.420 You're just like.
00:00:28.980 Men though, men need way more discipline in their life.
00:00:32.920 They have to get aligned.
00:00:34.100 Like I said, mind, body, and spirit.
00:00:35.360 It all starts with fitness, nutrition, getting dialed in with your, with, with your body.
00:00:40.400 Anytime you walk in a room, you see a man who's jacked.
00:00:42.200 You can trust that man right away.
00:00:43.720 Cause you know what takes discipline in a way of the discipline realm, because it takes a
00:00:48.280 lot of discipline to do that.
00:00:49.440 And then it stems out from there.
00:00:51.520 Correct.
00:00:51.780 There's a lot of immature douchey guys that are fit.
00:00:54.620 Correct.
00:00:54.980 But I use it as a method to lead into a mindset where if you have a vice like alcohol, like
00:01:00.700 porn, like drugs, like gambling, it all starts with a discipline where if you can be disciplined
00:01:05.500 for three months straight, six months straight, be dialed in, you can create a body of your
00:01:09.320 dreams.
00:01:09.740 And all of a sudden you start going, well, how do I actually stop the alcohol?
00:01:13.100 I just say, when you wake up every morning, you murder the old version of yourself and
00:01:16.020 you chase the elite version of yourself.
00:01:17.680 And then my whole thing was, as soon as I was able to heal myself from the porn, I don't
00:01:21.420 care about it.
00:01:22.080 I'll walk by Vegas.
00:01:23.340 One of these guys was like, you're going to Vegas?
00:01:24.920 I was like, dude, you're married.
00:01:25.760 I'm like, yeah, but you're talking to someone who doesn't even care about this stuff.
00:01:29.980 No, it doesn't.
00:01:30.400 The bottom line is, the bottom line is most 99% of guys coming to Vegas aren't going to
00:01:33.860 get any.
00:01:34.440 No, they're not.
00:01:35.360 They're not.
00:01:36.000 They're not.
00:01:36.440 But he's absolutely right.
00:01:38.140 He's absolutely right about that, though.
00:01:39.820 It's all about, it's about discipline.
00:01:41.400 It's about becoming the best version of yourself.
00:01:42.720 It's about chasing, chasing excellence. 0.99
00:01:44.080 However, if guys also want to get pussy, they've also got to study that side of things. 0.96
00:01:49.560 They've got to make sure their game is on point. 0.98
00:01:50.760 That's what I'm saying about the end.
00:01:52.020 They've got to make sure their wrist is on point.
00:01:53.480 Because if it isn't, you know, because sometimes guys think, okay, I'm just going to get, you
00:01:57.700 know, I'm going to get ripped.
00:01:58.800 I'm going to get money.
00:01:59.900 I'm going to get blah, blah, blah.
00:02:01.380 And the women are just going to come to me. 1.00
00:02:02.720 But unfortunately, the world that we live in, you know, you need to have a bit of that edge
00:02:06.360 to you as well, don't you?
00:02:07.520 100%.
00:02:07.840 You know, and you're in a great position, man, because you've obviously, you know, you're in a position
00:02:12.140 that many guys would envy because you've met.
00:02:14.440 Yeah, but the biggest problem is selling coaching on dating is easier because guys, like you 1.00
00:02:17.780 said, all men want pussy. 1.00
00:02:19.080 But the thing is, to convince someone who is, say, skinny, fat, or overweight, or someone 1.00
00:02:22.420 who just wants to level up in life, to be like, hey, the only way that you can actually achieve
00:02:26.280 that is if you really, truly want to change.
00:02:28.420 You can't force somebody to eat clean for three months straight, six months straight.
00:02:31.980 You have to want it. 1.00
00:02:33.040 And in a society of weak men, all I do is sit on Instagram, look at AI girls, jerk off 24-7, 1.00
00:02:38.480 don't want to go out and date in the real world. 0.99
00:02:40.320 Then you get women, like you women in here, are just like, there's no guys out there. 0.97
00:02:44.000 Yeah.
00:02:44.320 There's no guys, because all the girls want the better guys. 1.00
00:02:46.780 You're right, though.
00:02:47.480 It's about wanting it, isn't it?
00:02:48.740 That's to make any change in your life. 0.97
00:02:50.620 It's about, do you have that fucking strong desire to have the thing? 0.96
00:02:53.620 And a lot of guys don't. 0.96
00:02:54.540 And even with the dating stuff, right?
00:02:56.000 You'd be amazed.
00:02:56.720 Women don't either. 1.00
00:02:57.720 Women don't want bad health either. 1.00
00:02:59.860 How can a guy interact with a woman without a legal consequence? 1.00
00:03:05.500 What the fuck? 1.00
00:03:07.160 Boom. 1.00
00:03:08.080 Wait.
00:03:08.620 You don't have to ask me that question.
00:03:09.640 I just have the one wife, so I don't have to worry about anything.
00:03:11.420 He's good.
00:03:11.840 He's good.
00:03:12.920 I'm blessed.
00:03:13.720 I'm blessed.
00:03:13.900 But even men with wives have legal consequences all the time. 0.99
00:03:18.860 I said, too, I was like, babe, I would never shit on you. 0.84
00:03:20.740 Why? 0.97
00:03:21.000 I don't want to deal with the BS involved in divorcing and all that.
00:03:23.880 Yeah, yeah, yeah.
00:03:24.340 But I'm saying, like, like, I think, you know, a lot of times we go on to the men for walking
00:03:30.160 away from women, but it's like, there's no way for them to interact with women without 1.00
00:03:34.440 there being a legal consequence.
00:03:35.720 For example, there are men that get kicked out of gyms for looking at women.
00:03:40.260 Did you see that story about...
00:03:41.480 Then the trans can come into our locker rooms on the flip side. 1.00
00:03:45.380 Did you see that article about that dude who was blind and he was looking at a woman 0.98
00:03:50.560 and she was like, oh, my God, you're so creepy.
00:03:53.540 And she complained he got kicked out of the gym.
00:03:55.680 He was actually blind.
00:03:57.180 But you know what's funny?
00:03:57.940 I said that to a guy.
00:03:59.080 I said that.
00:03:59.540 I said that.
00:04:00.460 Oh, he was blind?
00:04:01.320 Oh, my God.
00:04:02.560 I said that to a guy and he's like, oh, I know, like, three guys that happened to it.
00:04:08.220 It's like, you start to get, like, messages.
00:04:10.380 Like, when you start doing what I do, you just get so many messages of guys saying, like,
00:04:13.460 I had this interaction, this interaction. 0.99
00:04:15.120 There is a lot of shit that happens. 0.99
00:04:16.860 I think, I mean, I don't know, touch wood, man. 1.00
00:04:19.480 I mean, the problem, we've got certain places are bad.
00:04:22.140 Certain places are bad.
00:04:22.520 I have a solution.
00:04:23.540 Hold on.
00:04:24.060 Hold on.
00:04:28.520 There you go.
00:04:30.000 Certain places are really bad for this.
00:04:31.620 I mean, obviously, we're in London, so you've got that.
00:04:33.660 You've got the United States.
00:04:34.840 I mean, super woke, all that kind of stuff.
00:04:36.440 There are other countries where this stuff is less prevalent.
00:04:39.280 I will say in A-market cities, the big cities in the U.S., it's really bad.
00:04:42.580 That's why I tell men, when they're asking about where I should meet women, don't date 0.98
00:04:46.400 women in A-markets. 0.99
00:04:47.220 Yeah, for sure.
00:04:48.060 I agree.
00:04:48.600 My girl's from a C-market, a little town, right? 1.00
00:04:50.780 Yeah.
00:04:51.160 And so, I don't know what your philosophy on that.
00:04:52.960 So, I was talking about regional dating overseas, no big cities.
00:04:55.780 When you're coaching men on dating, I'm going to lead it with you, Troy.
00:04:59.340 When they're asking where do you meet women, what are you saying to them?
00:05:02.100 Because I'm finding in big cities, it's a lose-lose situation.
00:05:05.320 Yeah.
00:05:05.680 So, what are your thoughts on smaller towns, cities?
00:05:08.780 I think the best places that we find, because we go internationally quite a lot.
00:05:12.100 So, say we're in Poland, you've got Warsaw, which is the main city.
00:05:14.520 Overseas.
00:05:15.100 Overseas.
00:05:16.280 Overseas, but even within a country.
00:05:18.080 So, Warsaw is the capital city, main city, and it is really great for dating.
00:05:21.460 Poland.
00:05:22.080 Yeah.
00:05:22.440 But, equally, what's quite good is to go to the second city, or even the third city in
00:05:27.540 the country.
00:05:28.080 You know?
00:05:28.380 Because it's less...
00:05:29.460 More traditional.
00:05:30.460 It's more traditional.
00:05:32.820 It's less passive.
00:05:33.380 Oh, you look like you have something.
00:05:34.160 Are you saying Western women aren't the best? 0.98
00:05:39.540 Are you saying American women aren't the number one pick? 1.00
00:05:42.800 Listen, listen, listen, I ain't shit. 1.00
00:05:45.300 If I was a man, I would... 1.00
00:05:46.480 I'm a fucking Western woman, I ain't shit. 1.00
00:05:48.220 You know what I'm finding out? 1.00
00:05:49.760 It's the NATO-based countries where the...
00:05:53.060 What does that mean?
00:05:54.180 The NATO-based countries are the ones who are the most corrupt, and the ones who have 1.00
00:05:58.940 the most sex, and the most westernized, that are the most fucked up. 1.00
00:06:01.980 Oh, so thank you. 1.00
00:06:02.040 The philosophy.
00:06:02.700 So, if you go to Eastern Europe, or you go to Asia, or you go to South Central America,
00:06:06.840 you have a better opportunity as a man to find a traditional woman.
00:06:09.620 Well, just mentally, like, nah.
00:06:13.560 David's got to run.
00:06:14.440 He's got to catch a flight.
00:06:15.500 Thank you, brother.
00:06:16.080 I appreciate it.
00:06:16.880 Thank you.
00:06:17.660 If anybody's coaching, hit me up on Instagram, at DavidFishchuk.
00:06:20.260 I'd love to help you get disciplined, mind, body, spirit. 0.99
00:06:23.080 Become one of the freaking men who's not addicted to the freaking porn, the drugs, the alcohol, 0.99
00:06:26.480 and focus on, I don't know, sticking with one woman that isn't freaking corrupt. 0.99
00:06:30.580 The ones that actually understand that maybe women shouldn't vote in all situations, 0.97
00:06:33.100 because the world is crazy.
00:06:34.840 So, I do agree with you with a lot of that.
00:06:36.420 My wife says the exact same thing.
00:06:38.020 I was actually driving back home, and I saw the only Black Lives Matter sticker that
00:06:41.280 was still left was a white liberal woman in the car. 1.00
00:06:43.420 Oh, of course.
00:06:43.680 Just saying.
00:06:44.380 Right on, bro.
00:06:45.140 Love you guys.
00:06:45.900 Have a great night.
00:06:46.460 Take care.
00:06:46.740 Take care.
00:06:47.200 She's so pretty.
00:06:48.360 Thank you so much.
00:06:49.140 Also, if you wear that anywhere, take a pic, tag me.
00:06:51.480 100%, bro.
00:06:52.380 All right, guys.
00:06:52.980 Have a wonderful evening.
00:06:54.680 Hashtag Pearl made me wear it.
00:06:57.380 I gave one to my Uber driver.
00:06:59.520 Did you really?
00:07:00.400 Yeah, I totally did.
00:07:01.280 I was like, do you think women are smart enough to vote? 1.00
00:07:03.660 And he was like, yeah.
00:07:04.680 And I'm like, we're not.
00:07:05.500 Here you go.
00:07:05.960 So back to this topic, you're telling me overseas and all these other cultures and societies.
00:07:15.060 Well, so a lot of guys that I work with, I know, came out of London.
00:07:19.880 And London's a great city, very big, very international.
00:07:22.260 There's a lot of people, you know, beautiful women there, whatever. 1.00
00:07:24.160 But as far as a dating proposition is concerned, a lot of guys will end up traveling.
00:07:27.780 Okay, so a lot of guys, where they will go will be the former Eastern European countries,
00:07:32.340 the former Soviet Union countries.
00:07:34.020 Right.
00:07:34.400 And Latin America.
00:07:37.120 And somewhat places like Southeast Asia as well.
00:07:40.480 But I'm not really.
00:07:41.780 I sent like 30 guys over to Colombia so far.
00:07:43.920 Mate, Colombia is, so many guys' problems would be solved by getting on a plane and going
00:07:48.920 to Colombia, man.
00:07:49.720 It's crazy.
00:07:50.400 I have a question on that.
00:07:51.340 A five star.
00:07:52.400 No, no.
00:07:52.860 And three of them now are in these long term relationships.
00:07:56.160 Have you lived in Colombia?
00:07:56.460 It's worked out great.
00:07:57.620 Yeah.
00:07:58.020 Yes.
00:07:59.020 It's phenomenal. 0.99
00:08:00.840 That's fucking crazy. 0.99
00:08:01.500 I have a question on that. 0.99
00:08:02.980 None of the U.S. Colombian girls.
00:08:05.320 Does it have to be overseas for like Colombia's place?
00:08:09.160 No, no, no, no.
00:08:09.440 I was like, you can find country, like small towns, like within a state.
00:08:13.480 And so, like, I feel like it's.
00:08:15.000 I am from a country, like small town.
00:08:17.340 I grew up in Acton, California.
00:08:19.420 And it's very small, very country.
00:08:21.160 Everybody had property.
00:08:22.320 Like, we understood responsibility.
00:08:24.380 We had traditional values because it was smaller.
00:08:27.100 It wasn't like, we didn't really venture out and go into the cities unless we were going
00:08:30.500 to the beach.
00:08:31.080 Okay.
00:08:31.380 So, you have to do the import where, like, my girl was born in Sonora, Mexico.
00:08:36.680 And then she came here when she was eight.
00:08:38.180 In what?
00:08:38.860 Sonora.
00:08:39.700 Sonora is like the border.
00:08:41.300 It's a state of Mexico.
00:08:42.300 I'm mad that he said it like that.
00:08:43.660 It's a state that's south of Arizona.
00:08:47.340 Right?
00:08:47.840 But she came here.
00:08:48.960 And then Tucson is like a tumbleweed town.
00:08:51.100 There's nothing there.
00:08:51.980 Oh, yeah.
00:08:52.460 It's like.
00:08:53.420 If you drive on the freeway and you drive on the freeway, hey, we're in Tucson.
00:08:57.740 Oh, cool.
00:09:00.280 So, here's how sheltered it is.
00:09:02.900 I meet her on Instagram indirectly.
00:09:05.040 She had a food pic.
00:09:06.240 I'm like looking at food, right?
00:09:07.480 Like, guys, don't like hot chicken.
00:09:09.420 Six pics.
00:09:10.020 Like, here's another dude.
00:09:11.880 Anyways, we started interacting.
00:09:13.360 And when I started getting to know her, she's, you know, she didn't really know what I did.
00:09:16.900 I said, I do this or that.
00:09:17.960 She's like, oh, you do pretty well.
00:09:19.040 I said, yeah, I do over six figures.
00:09:20.560 She goes, what's six figures mean?
00:09:22.440 Oh.
00:09:23.280 I'm like, winner, winner, chicken dinner, right?
00:09:26.460 Because I'm like.
00:09:27.300 High quality woman.
00:09:28.240 She had no idea because in Tucson, nobody makes that.
00:09:31.480 And over there, it's very, you know, traditional.
00:09:34.460 Her mom raised her to be a good wife. 1.00
00:09:35.920 Her dad's like, when we get married, you make sure you cook for your husband, all this stuff.
00:09:39.300 And here's the other thing.
00:09:40.720 Ready for this?
00:09:42.860 Five is average.
00:09:43.660 She was cute. 0.89
00:09:44.360 Six.
00:09:44.740 And as she became with me and I elevated her game, she became six, seven, and eight, right?
00:09:48.740 Nice.
00:09:49.180 Because, you know, she got around.
00:09:50.420 But here's the other thing she didn't do.
00:09:51.780 She didn't expose herself to external negative input.
00:09:55.340 Like, she said, I don't want to go to the club with these girls. 1.00
00:09:57.280 I don't want me to go to the club with them.
00:09:58.240 I don't want to do that.
00:09:59.040 And here's what I did.
00:10:01.480 I said, you know what?
00:10:02.320 You don't want to go hang out with your girls.
00:10:03.840 Go.
00:10:04.100 I don't want to.
00:10:04.680 I want to be with you.
00:10:05.460 Yeah.
00:10:06.000 I told her, go ahead. 0.83
00:10:07.260 Yeah, yeah.
00:10:07.780 I gave her the.
00:10:08.740 I took.
00:10:09.320 I don't want to say take the leash off, but I gave her the expansion to do what she wanted. 1.00
00:10:12.860 Yeah.
00:10:13.080 And if she hung herself, she hung herself.
00:10:15.360 Now, I'm going to shift gears because me and Lana talked about this earlier.
00:10:18.680 My friend and my confident, my battle buddy, we buttheads a lot, but we love each other off the set.
00:10:25.240 We really do have like a love-hate relationship with life.
00:10:28.520 Let me tell you that.
00:10:29.160 But we have one thing in common that we all think.
00:10:32.620 Women should influence it. 1.00
00:10:34.020 Women should influence it. 1.00
00:10:35.840 I totally agree with that.
00:10:36.880 But here's the thing.
00:10:38.280 That Warner Brothers cartoon with the sheepdog and the coyote, and they battled all day.
00:10:43.260 Yeah.
00:10:43.520 And the coyote tried to get the sheep.
00:10:46.240 The coyote tried to get the sheep.
00:10:47.740 Yeah.
00:10:47.900 And I was the sheepdog protecting the sheep, right?
00:10:51.980 And then all of a sudden, they clocked out and they were friends.
00:10:54.640 That's me and her.
00:10:55.420 Yeah.
00:10:55.620 So here's a question.
00:10:56.840 Pearl.
00:10:56.940 So what were you battling about before, though?
00:10:58.180 It's just dynamics in relationships, dating, you know, whatever.
00:11:01.900 We're good friends, but, you know, when you, you know. 0.99
00:11:04.000 You disagree on some shit. 0.99
00:11:05.140 We have very friendly disagreements. 1.00
00:11:07.820 Okay.
00:11:08.220 So we will have heated discussions, but we'll be like, no, what the, no, it's not like that.
00:11:12.380 Yeah.
00:11:12.840 Yeah, yeah.
00:11:12.920 Yeah.
00:11:13.140 Yeah.
00:11:13.480 Yeah.
00:11:13.640 Yeah.
00:11:14.220 Yeah.
00:11:20.200 Yeah.
00:11:20.540 Yeah.
00:11:20.720 Yeah.
00:11:21.980 Yeah.
00:11:22.100 Yeah.