JustPearlyThings - April 15, 2023


This LEADS To The Destruction Of Modern Men


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11 minutes

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208.9182

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2,302

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219

Misogynist Sentences

13

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10


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00:00:00.000 The one client that basically, um, he built the whole, you know, financial situation.
00:00:05.080 The wife was staying home with the kids and he came home one day early from work and his
00:00:09.920 wife was with another guy and you know, the guy was like running out the back door or
00:00:13.560 whatever.
00:00:14.040 But what's interesting is that she ended up getting the whole house, like almost full
00:00:18.000 custody of the kids and like totally ruined his life, but he didn't do anything wrong.
00:00:22.040 Right.
00:00:22.420 Just the way the system is set up.
00:00:23.700 And that doesn't mean like, oh, everyone needs to go MGTOW now and don't ever get married.
00:00:27.240 But that really like calls into question here.
00:00:29.880 That was not even something he did.
00:00:32.380 You know, he didn't do anything wrong, but the courts are going to side with the woman
00:00:35.000 in most cases in the Western world.
00:00:37.020 Yeah.
00:00:37.200 And that's, it's hard because there's not really a way to avoid it out here.
00:00:42.820 Cause even the guy that I talked to the other day, he wasn't legally married.
00:00:46.280 It was just, you don't even need to be married.
00:00:49.400 Like it's just, it's so easy.
00:00:51.380 Like as soon as you go through the doctor, like that day, they will send you to like,
00:00:56.540 the, do you know someone that's happened to?
00:01:01.100 Yeah.
00:01:01.600 That's why I, tell me, tell me what happened.
00:01:04.000 Um, so I know somebody that was in, just in a normal relationship, no problem, whatever,
00:01:11.480 but they needed housing.
00:01:13.900 Yeah.
00:01:14.760 Like there's nothing to do with a partner.
00:01:16.860 So they just created their own partner in the head, got into a refuge.
00:01:22.820 No way.
00:01:23.800 Waited a year, was in temporary housing and then got into a flat.
00:01:28.940 So they even need like any type of evidence?
00:01:30.220 You don't need evidence.
00:01:31.940 Like now, nowadays they're cracking onto it more, but I know back then it was easy.
00:01:37.920 If you, if I said I'm in a, they don't even need to know the guy.
00:01:40.880 Like if I just, and I literally, they don't need to be a fake person and I'm not saying
00:01:45.400 like, I haven't done that or live at home.
00:01:47.200 I'm just saying an example, right?
00:01:48.760 People, but that's how easy it is in the UK.
00:01:51.980 Like people take advantage of the system.
00:01:54.740 So.
00:01:55.040 Yeah.
00:01:55.240 The number of abuse allegations increased, uh, 200% when they implemented that law.
00:02:00.840 I think it was 2013.
00:02:01.800 Um, so yeah.
00:02:03.900 It's like, you're getting it.
00:02:04.760 You're getting it.
00:02:05.360 You're getting it.
00:02:06.200 Yeah.
00:02:06.460 Not saying that that doesn't happen though.
00:02:08.100 I'm not being sensitive, but I'm just being real.
00:02:10.980 Do you guys think, okay, if the roles were reversed and we had those repercussions for being
00:02:15.320 with men, would you change your behavior?
00:02:18.360 I, I wouldn't talk to anyone.
00:02:19.860 You wouldn't talk to anyone.
00:02:21.020 You know what's funny?
00:02:21.720 I think.
00:02:22.540 I'm, I'm curious.
00:02:23.360 I haven't heard from you yet.
00:02:24.460 So I want to hear.
00:02:25.320 Eggshells.
00:02:25.780 I would be walking on eggshells.
00:02:27.500 I would be so paranoid.
00:02:28.600 It'd be paranoid to the point where it's like, it's not even a point in talking to anyone.
00:02:32.500 I would just do me focus on me.
00:02:34.240 If someone comes my way, they come my way.
00:02:35.720 I wouldn't even go out looking for people because I would be so scared of what could
00:02:40.040 come from it legally.
00:02:41.340 Some guys, um, put ring all over their apartment.
00:02:45.820 So they can't say that anything that was consensual, like wasn't consensual.
00:02:51.240 Yeah.
00:02:51.480 But then wouldn't that be, um, like they're recording it without your consent.
00:02:56.300 I have no idea if that's legal.
00:02:57.860 You can't record sex acts.
00:03:00.140 That's where they draw the line.
00:03:01.240 Right.
00:03:01.440 So like, I advise clients to have like, you know, at least a camera outside your house
00:03:05.580 or in situations where it is legal.
00:03:07.000 So you can show, I actually spoke to a lawyer about this because I, cause I've been sleeping
00:03:11.160 with a lot of girls.
00:03:12.020 I said, how do I protect myself?
00:03:13.320 And he said, oh, just send a text.
00:03:14.460 Did you have a good time?
00:03:15.220 I said, that's not guaranteed.
00:03:16.400 They're going to respond even if they did.
00:03:18.280 Right.
00:03:18.760 So an objective empirical account that shows like this person's leaving on good terms and this
00:03:22.820 and that.
00:03:23.480 I've never had any accusation luckily with, with all these girls, but I have plenty
00:03:27.800 of clients that have.
00:03:28.660 And a lot of the times, like I mentioned before, it's because the person cheated and
00:03:32.200 then they just want to save the marriage.
00:03:33.620 And it's like, you know, there's no consequence for doing that really if the girl is lying,
00:03:38.380 which is unfortunate.
00:03:39.300 I think just proceed with caution is what I would say.
00:03:44.600 And, you know, just, yeah, just like, I don't know, like in some countries it's a bit more
00:03:50.220 strict.
00:03:51.100 I feel like even though the UK might say some of these things, I haven't actually heard
00:03:56.460 them until today.
00:03:58.020 Can I just say something also?
00:03:59.940 So I think also in the West, and it's naturally, right?
00:04:04.900 A lot of, a lot of men go after these type of women and they, they like them.
00:04:11.220 It's attractive.
00:04:12.100 These type of women that will, how would I say the word?
00:04:16.760 Crazy.
00:04:17.600 No, no, no.
00:04:18.460 They will F them up.
00:04:20.360 Oh, okay.
00:04:20.800 Yeah.
00:04:21.040 Yeah.
00:04:21.260 Because they're attractive.
00:04:22.580 They're sexy.
00:04:23.620 They're whatever it is.
00:04:24.440 But you don't understand, you turned around, like you created that monster.
00:04:29.220 Women have to be looking that certain way, wait, that certain way, blah, blah, blah.
00:04:32.840 She needs to da-da-da.
00:04:34.900 And then this woman become your worst enemy because this woman is a gold digger.
00:04:39.160 She has to keep maintaining her looks, her, you know, going out every night in these type
00:04:45.360 of restaurants.
00:04:46.180 And she will use you and abuse you.
00:04:48.180 But we, men, most of the time are attracted to these type of women and they complain about
00:04:52.860 what these women do for them, but they don't honor a lot of nice girls that they don't
00:04:58.140 look like 10 out of 10.
00:05:00.000 It's the same in reverse too, right?
00:05:01.040 Like women, women don't want a nice guy.
00:05:02.620 A hundred percent.
00:05:03.460 It's, it's natural.
00:05:04.680 People are just attracted to drama.
00:05:06.500 Exactly.
00:05:07.280 It is attractive.
00:05:08.160 I also, I also think that men, you, you really don't know what someone's going to do when
00:05:13.560 they're, when they're scorned, when they're pissed off.
00:05:16.000 And I think you can see a different side of people when there's a breakup.
00:05:20.120 But that's what I'm saying.
00:05:21.000 And that's the thing.
00:05:21.640 It's not that like women are worse than men or men are worse than women, but it's that
00:05:26.680 women are given the tools to destroy men if they so want to.
00:05:31.300 Yeah.
00:05:31.600 It would be so interesting to see what type of world we'd be living in when that's been
00:05:35.740 reversed.
00:05:36.440 Yeah.
00:05:36.680 Well, I mean, you could go back a hundred years ago.
00:05:38.860 It wasn't the, no fault divorce started in the nineties, seventies.
00:05:44.060 I don't remember, but a hundred years ago, it wasn't like that.
00:05:46.860 Or look at the East.
00:05:48.420 Yeah.
00:05:48.540 But see, that was one of the problems.
00:05:50.300 Cause when men did have that power, society saw some men as abusing it.
00:05:55.040 So, you know, there was a natural sense, you know, to kind of balance it.
00:05:59.460 But like I said, it's just the pendulum has gone too far.
00:06:01.680 And I think what's happened is people have just lost their balls.
00:06:04.080 People are not courageous enough to say enough.
00:06:07.020 You know, men and women come together and say, it's enough.
00:06:09.200 It's gone too far.
00:06:10.240 Everybody is suffering.
00:06:11.900 How can we do it together?
00:06:12.680 And we've created this polarized world where everyone's on each other's back.
00:06:16.380 You know, men against women, black against white, rich against poor.
00:06:18.720 And no one's come together and say, what kind of society do we want to live in?
00:06:22.720 And how courageous do we need to be to create it?
00:06:25.340 It's not going to be perfect.
00:06:26.440 And there's always going to be losers, but we need to create this because everyone's suffering.
00:06:29.640 But no one's doing that.
00:06:30.880 And it feels like society and the powers that be have created this.
00:06:34.020 Like what you just said, Pearl.
00:06:35.000 I mean, the fact that you've got rumble on standby just shows.
00:06:37.380 There's a lot of, I know you have a lot of your detractors and a lot of your hates.
00:06:40.980 I get it.
00:06:41.300 But there is something really important about what you're trying to say.
00:06:44.560 Same way Kevin Samuels, God rest his soul.
00:06:46.840 There's a lot of stuff that people are trying to say, but the minute they say it, they're
00:06:50.160 shut down.
00:06:50.940 But we need to hear these point of views.
00:06:52.680 How can we say it when there's so much things coming out?
00:06:56.280 Like now you have to think of it, well, not in my world, but now it's not just male and
00:07:02.680 female.
00:07:03.740 There's like all the in between.
00:07:05.360 There's all of this intersectionality going on.
00:07:07.580 So how can we even say everybody stop and let's do it this way or let's try to do it.
00:07:14.260 We can't because we've got to think of this one, this one, this one and this one.
00:07:17.880 Do you know what it is?
00:07:18.280 It's almost like the majority of people are sensible thinking, but people are scared.
00:07:21.780 And I think we're letting the agenda be run by the fringes.
00:07:24.700 It's a minority.
00:07:25.180 It's a minority of people.
00:07:25.560 You're talking about intersexual people.
00:07:27.840 Like what percent of people are even trans or heishi, whatever the hell it is.
00:07:33.320 It's like what, one, two percent of the population and we all have to cater to them?
00:07:37.240 Yeah, the kids in the schools, that's how it's, well, not in the real world, but I feel like on social media, that's what they're catering to.
00:07:45.460 It's like in the schools, I'm scared to, you know, have my kids go to actual school.
00:07:52.340 I'll homeschool my kids if by the time I have children, there's certain because I don't want them to think that's okay.
00:07:59.380 I don't want them to think, yeah, I don't want them to, like, for example, like Peppa Pig, right?
00:08:04.040 This one sounds so random, but about two months ago, I saw on Peppa Pig, they changed it.
00:08:09.740 It was like same sex sort of thing.
00:08:11.740 And I don't have a problem or whatever with same sex or lesbian or whatever, but my child seeing that and say, like, a mummy and a mummy can't have a baby.
00:08:22.960 Like, that's the reality.
00:08:23.900 Well, it's like, why do they need to know?
00:08:25.500 Why do they need to know?
00:08:26.400 That they're so innocent.
00:08:28.240 Like, they're just, if they want to, exactly, like, now it's more like force, force.
00:08:33.380 Not saying that I'm against anything, no.
00:08:36.140 I'm just saying now it's more pressure.
00:08:38.480 And it's popular.
00:08:39.520 Yeah, and it's a trend.
00:08:40.980 It's a trend to be bisexual.
00:08:42.400 There's so many girls I know, especially, like, our age group, like, 21, it's like, yeah, I'm bisexual.
00:08:48.360 Like, it's a trend, you know, so.
00:08:51.880 So, guys, what is more important to you when looking at a guy?
00:08:59.380 Money or looks?
00:09:02.300 I have a third one, I'm not going to lie.
00:09:04.160 Yeah, I've got a third one as well.
00:09:05.880 Yeah, same.
00:09:06.400 You've got to pick one of the two looks.
00:09:07.980 Money.
00:09:08.820 Money?
00:09:09.640 Yeah.
00:09:10.540 No, but if I say money, it's going to sound like I'm a gold digger.
00:09:14.520 Don't worry about that.
00:09:15.260 No, don't be watching it.
00:09:16.200 I think you're authentic and that's a problem with people and they're not authentic.
00:09:18.540 You know what, yeah?
00:09:19.000 I'm going to be real.
00:09:19.940 Let me keep it real, baby.
00:09:21.820 Money.
00:09:22.560 Money.
00:09:23.520 Yeah.
00:09:23.880 Same.
00:09:24.440 Money?
00:09:24.820 Yeah.
00:09:26.060 Money.
00:09:26.960 Money.
00:09:27.260 Shoot.
00:09:27.820 Money.
00:09:28.260 Actually, I think I changed my mind, you know.
00:09:30.080 Wait.
00:09:30.840 No, but.
00:09:31.380 Looks ain't going to pay the bills, baby.
00:09:33.660 And they're not going to pay the bills.
00:09:35.000 That's it.
00:09:36.360 Yeah, you're so right.
00:09:37.300 After what I've been through, money.
00:09:39.160 Money.
00:09:39.500 Definitely.
00:09:39.780 So, if you were advising guys, would you tell them to get their money up first or their fitness if they only
00:09:45.300 had time for one?
00:09:46.640 Fitness.
00:09:47.500 Oh, sorry.
00:09:48.560 No money.
00:09:49.620 Fitness.
00:09:49.900 I'm just curious if the results you guys have seen are the same.
00:09:53.460 What's interesting for me, like, I was bringing this up on the King Riches podcast yesterday,
00:09:57.020 is that I've had tons of broke clients that spent the last of their money on my training
00:10:01.440 and got rock star level results.
00:10:04.240 Like, just getting tons of girls living at home, like, doesn't matter.
00:10:07.940 Like, I've found that money is very, very, very, like, almost irrelevant.
00:10:11.660 Really?
00:10:12.040 As long as the guy's not living in poverty.
00:10:13.380 I know online, like, everyone thinks.
00:10:15.040 Yeah, that's so true.
00:10:15.520 There's, like, so many Red Pill creators that are, like, get the bag and all this stuff.
00:10:19.200 But in practice, that's total BS.
00:10:22.060 But don't you think money makes a guy more confident and more, like, he's worthy for...
00:10:27.840 I get the other side of the coin, though.
00:10:28.920 I get a lot of, like, millionaire clients.
00:10:30.380 I was telling you before the show, a billionaire client.
00:10:33.240 And they're just trying to lead with that.
00:10:35.300 So they're like, I'm just going to pick her up in the Ferrari.
00:10:37.500 I think show the house.
00:10:38.620 Yeah, yeah, yeah.
00:10:39.180 A guy being in touch with his masculinity is what makes him attractive.
00:10:42.460 And he doesn't need money for the reason.
00:10:43.560 But we were given that option.
00:10:44.700 As many of you know, I was just banned on TikTok.
00:10:48.580 And we are demonetized on a daily basis on this platform.
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