JustPearlyThings - This LIBERAL Lady Gets DESTROYED by The Panel

00:00:00.000 the time but a man can still go through all that shit and still struggle and go and build his life 0.98

00:00:04.880 back women don't have that same drive okay that is why going focusing on what i was trying to say 1.00

00:00:11.040 before right where it's like okay they went through all that financial stress so the men who are able

00:00:15.680 to succeed at getting custody right have to have like a ton of money right we're saying like they're

00:00:21.840 going can i just say something so as a lawyer i understand how this works now when you're saying

00:00:26.400 when he has all this money he can get custody that is not necessarily the case because at the end of

00:00:31.040 the day no i know i know about this and we see this it doesn't matter how much money he has

00:00:35.760 because the family courts are against men they say that they are for the the best interests of the

00:00:41.600 children are paramount but they have decided and it's written in law that the children should be

00:00:46.320 with the mother but doesn't matter how much money you have half the time it's not even about that

00:00:50.480 so would you have money would you get really wealthy guys there who are still trying to go

00:00:54.000 through this process so they're still yeah i get messages from them all the time yeah it's not

00:00:58.720 about how much money we have can't you guys see oh yeah story appochino has a lot of money but he

00:01:03.120 doesn't have custody it's not about money no okay but you guys don't understand or i maybe i'm not

00:01:09.280 communicating clearly like you okay you're literally saying like hey it's not about the money

00:01:14.400 there's people who even have a lot of money who fail yeah but the point is for the people who succeed

00:01:19.520 which we agree is a slim amount right they already have to have like an abundance of resources to

00:01:24.320 fight for so long to win so obviously those people go up or they or they just got a crack head mom

00:01:30.080 pregnant 0.80

00:01:34.080 but the point is if these men are going above and i mean no i'm serious a lot of the reasons they get

00:01:40.240 custody is because of crack head mothers yeah okay but the point is if you're gonna say like oh like you

00:01:45.680 know like these single men or you know single parent households are doing better than the

00:01:50.000 single women households it's because the men who are single parent households to begin with how would 0.95

00:01:54.240 we how would you just you go on for a while you don't really get to the point okay i'm about to get

00:01:59.520 to the point go ahead the point is that these single parent households to begin with are already giving

00:02:04.400 a bunch of money are going above and beyond in their children's lives so you're self-selecting for like

00:02:08.560 the best dads to begin with when it comes to this statistic how do you how do you know that because we

00:02:13.280 literally just went over how difficult it is no but i gave you another alternative i said or he got

00:02:19.280 a crack head mom pregnant well you guys are even agreeing but i'm saying i'm saying you're arguing so 0.80

00:02:24.080 strongly for something you don't seem to have a lot of experience in and i wonder like why you're

00:02:28.800 arguing so strong okay so question how do we come how do we know who's a better parent who raises kids

00:02:36.080 better by themselves well that's what i'm saying no so how do we how do we come to that conclusion well

00:02:41.280 according to you guys you guys were citing a study okay well i personally i would say anecdotally

00:02:46.800 you like studies you like studies right so i'm asking you yeah i would look at studies okay okay

00:02:52.800 so if the data is saying one thing that's that fathers have far better outcomes single fathers have

00:02:59.920 far better outcomes than single mothers okay that that criminals come from single mother homes that 0.99

00:03:06.560 people with mental disorders tend to come from single mother homes kids that drop out of school

00:03:11.520 come from single mother homes all of the big problems in society okay um the homeless tend to 1.00

00:03:18.400 come from single mother homes why is it that you only believe studies that suit you what do you mean i'm

00:03:24.240 not saying no no no because because because when it comes to a conclusion you don't like and so i say hey

00:03:30.320 let's believe the studies that single fathers are better than single mothers when it comes to raising 1.00

00:03:34.960 kids in every metric and when we look at the outcomes of the people in prison they're from

00:03:39.360 single mother homes when we when we look at the outcomes even like the homeless shelter down the

00:03:43.840 street i've been there i've talked i've talked to the guy asked him what what is the main reason for

00:03:48.320 this he's like multiple single mothers with multiple baby fathers that's that's what he tells me okay

00:03:54.080 so anecdotally and studies they're both telling me the same thing you only believe the studies that

00:03:58.960 benefit you no i'm literally explaining like why the results of that data might be the way they are

00:04:03.680 but this is what what you this is what the liberals do is they'll they'll say well it's because this

00:04:09.920 and then still find a way to defend the women right and then find a way to like make it fit

00:04:14.480 their narrative how did i what is it well because you said oh it's because they have money

00:04:18.480 that's that's why i'm saying you didn't agree that men and women should then get 50

00:04:22.080 custody because surely the solution to hearing all of that data would be

00:04:25.120 okay well the conclusion to that should be that the the law should be changed yeah you still said

00:04:30.000 that women should be the primary care no i'm saying that what should change is that men should 1.00

00:04:34.240 have the opportunity to care give for their child so that's so the law should change yeah the law should

00:04:39.360 change in favor of giving men like hey you they should be able to take time off work get paternal 0.83

00:04:44.800 leave be able to spend time with their children that's not custody yeah that's a different law that's

00:04:49.120 basically labor right so but we're we're specifically talking about a set of data that affects

00:04:54.160 custody law yeah and i'm saying that if that labor law changes then it'll be easier for men to argue

00:04:59.600 that they're also a primary care this is the point that pearl's making liberals tend to have this habit 0.98

00:05:04.320 of going outside of the area that we're referring to to try and fix the problem instead of saying huh

00:05:10.240 maybe if i look at the information in front of me and find a way to to create a solution a conclusion with

00:05:16.720 this set of information in front of me that will obviously cause a direct solution because it's

00:05:21.120 come from the data available in front of you what you're doing is you're looking at the information

00:05:25.280 here and going well now we'll just we'll try something from over here and see if it works

00:05:31.440 well because it's saying like oh no men should automatically have 50 custody when they're not

00:05:35.760 actually taking care of their child 50 of the time but see there's you're going to end up having

00:05:40.080 with neglected children but you're speculating no i'm not speculating the whole idea of the giving

00:05:44.560 custody to the primary caregiver is so what do you think would happen if a man if it was 50 let's just say

00:05:49.520 a hypothetical scenario i mean you're speculating we want to talk in fairyland let's go there so

00:05:53.360 let's say that men and women get custody 50 of the time right a man gets custody what do you think he's

00:06:00.000 going to do well i think what's no i think what's going to end up happening is that if we don't have

00:06:04.960 the proper labor laws to give them that space yeah their children are going to end up getting neglected 0.99

00:06:09.200 because the guy is still out there working i'm not saying oh how is it any different on the mom's side

00:06:13.280 what do you mean when is it working you said that mom still have to work anyway you said mom still

00:06:17.200 have to do labor in the house and out of the house what's the difference well the difference is

00:06:20.320 that like according to the data we have moms do do both of them men have a harder time acclimating 0.62

00:06:25.360 to that because we don't raise them to be you know proper caregivers if that was the case how is it that

00:06:30.640 children from single father homes do better than children from single mother thank you as i said

00:06:34.400 there's already a selection bias if women are such great caregivers why are they the most likely one to 1.00

00:06:39.920 kill their own child yeah i mean like literally 90 if it's a parent that kills the kid 90 of the time

00:06:46.880 it's the mother and let let's let's take it like wait wait wait wait wait wait so so let's and see 0.89

00:06:52.160 do you see you did it again who's more like who's a better parent who's more likely to to kill the

00:06:57.040 kid that's a bad thing right we agree that's bad we want the kids alive well okay let's look at the

00:07:01.920 moms and look at the dads okay it's the moms not good well there has to be a reason and then then she 0.52

00:07:06.800 makes up some reason well yeah i'm sorry is it not true that women are more likely to have the child

00:07:12.160 so that's not a reason to kill your child no no seriously seriously seriously seriously like the

00:07:19.040 mental gymnastics you do around simple no seriously seriously seriously you did this about africa now 0.99

00:07:24.560 you're doing i can't believe you were actually supporting women killing their children just

00:07:28.560 because when did i say that you just did it now literally did not say that no no see see it's not

00:07:33.520 what you said no don't twist it she didn't say that no no relax okay she made the argument that

00:07:39.200 the reason why women are more like because they have it more because they have even more so just 1.00

00:07:43.120 because you have the kids yeah also doesn't that then support that men and women should have 50 0.96

00:07:47.280 custody because if your whole point is that more well we we just acknowledge that women kill children 1.00

00:07:52.480 more more than men right okay because i'm saying that's because they have them more so surely that's the

00:07:56.480 reason why they should have them less and the laws should be changed so that men have just as much 1.00

00:08:00.320 custody as women i'm saying if it's 50 50 you're probably going to see similar rates of men killing

00:08:04.880 their children so let's see so let's make it i mean we're probably going to so yeah but because we don't

00:08:10.880 know let's just let women kill their kids 100 of the time now what i'm arguing for is literally to give 0.96

00:08:19.040 men the ability to be able to primary care give for their child without getting punished i get what you're 0.97

00:08:24.880 advocating for i'm just saying i don't think that's the way to solve a problem is to take

00:08:28.720 outside issues and make that solution to a problem that's in front i think when we see it we get what

00:08:34.560 she's arguing because the reality is when women are the primary caregivers in divorce and they are 0.98

00:08:39.920 given custody what you're saying doesn't make sense by saying that the men when they have the kids they

00:08:44.720 won't be able to make time for their kids because the woman still now on her own has to provide for the 1.00

00:08:50.640 kids so she's still going to neglect the kids well the problem that point is mute it doesn't make 1.00

00:08:56.720 it's not new it is we live in a society where we train women from a young age to do both no we don't 0.98

00:09:02.960 no we don't more than women wait wait wait wait wait wait wait but you you just agreed earlier that

00:09:09.360 women are messy and don't know how to cook um they know how to cook and clean more than men do 1.00

00:09:15.040 what what what now i'm not having that i'm not having that i'm not having that i'm not having 1.00

00:09:20.320 that i'm not having that you see some of you girls with your dirty jaws that you leave around with 1.00

00:09:23.840 your dirty phone how dare you how dare you you goes up nah nah seriously seriously 1.00

00:09:28.400 wait let me say something respectful i accept that i accept that i'm like cooking your 1.00

00:09:31.840 shit man no i can cook she's just right nah nah nah see what is it i think i think one of the 0.99

00:09:36.640 things is this right back to what we're saying if we're obviously rather than making it like 0.99

00:09:40.640 like it's just anecdotal like if we're going by the reviews so to speak there's a certain element

00:09:45.200 of you just accepting that currently this is what the review is indicating it's not about even

00:09:49.920 necessarily you arguing against the review or giving a reason why the reviews might you know be

00:09:54.240 projecting the you know these stats it's just about okay right is that what the review says okay fair

00:09:58.160 enough and obviously let's look at the review and educate ourselves in it because the risk is

00:10:02.480 like making this generalized statement in defense of obviously the point you're trying to make

00:10:07.840 it doesn't make you make the point easier you get it yeah i'm just trying to like put a context

00:10:13.120 for what these statements might mean because if we take a statement without like any context whatsoever

00:10:18.240 you can come up with a million different but these are reviews these are reviews conducted

00:10:22.720 these are reviews but didn't you just make a statement that has has is purely speculation when you

00:10:28.160 said that if we give 50 50 custody we will see an increase in men well i said possibly right um and that's

00:10:36.720 why i'm trying to advocate for things that i know historically have worked i know that countries

00:10:41.280 in like finland sweden um denmark they have instituted policies where men have parental leave

00:10:46.720 where they're able to take care of their children and that leads to a higher quality life for all

00:10:50.880 so that's why i'm advocating for what i'm advocating for but you don't mean you don't mean in a custodial

00:10:54.960 sense though and that's what that's what i'm struggling okay if you really believe what you're saying

00:10:58.640 that's what you're advocating for why do you have a counter argument against men having custody of the kids 1.00

00:11:03.360 oh no i think what is it i think nobody should have automatic custody so i don't think the

00:11:08.080 woman should have a higher divorce rate than here thank you okay well they let me go back but

00:11:14.960 a higher quality of life i'm not sure by what you mean by here do you mean the us or uk or what

00:11:20.080 are you sure yes okay one percent 45 percent us uk regardless right we know that people there

00:11:27.360 is you can't say regardless she just gave you a fact you can't do that they have a higher quality

00:11:31.840 of life no but the thing is yeah are you telling okay does finland have a higher quality of life than

00:11:36.880 the united states and then uk i've never i don't i don't speak up right now no no but this is this is the

00:11:42.400 difference between me and you i'm not going to search about the quality of life in finland of a place

00:11:48.080 i've never been to but see you you go this is what the nerds do they go on their phone and they think

00:11:52.880 they know something about a country but you've never you're not going to know until you've been

00:11:56.800 there okay and i'll tell you i'll tell you this i'll tell you this i grew up with nannies from around

00:12:00.480 the world okay so i grew up with a nanny from russia or nanny from south africa uh my dad hired

00:12:06.560 people from india so i grew up like super from people around the world and they would always come to

00:12:11.280 america and they would say you americans think you know everything because you see us in the media

00:12:17.120 you you see it like you google stuff and you think you know what it's like to be from there

00:12:22.240 and my point is you can't really know until you talk to the people that are from the place and

00:12:26.720 actually go so do you want to take a trip with me to finland that'd be amazing no i think no literally

00:12:35.040 i think i think that would be very tiring it's cold do you want to take a trip um i don't know i i

00:12:42.000 schedule a trip to finland i i honestly and i'll schedule a separate one and then we can come back

00:12:46.160 with our anecdotal evidence no you should really schedule schedule a trip to nigeria that's where you

00:12:49.760 should go yeah sure no no i'm being real with you yeah you should literally go to nigeria literally

00:12:54.640 go to nigeria and go to somebody's place and boil some water and to and you know and go to the

00:12:59.040 springs go to camp yeah listen because because only by doing that will you get a level of education

00:13:04.160 it's going to open you up more it's going to you know i'm trying to say it's not it's not going to

00:13:06.880 do nothing to hurt you but literally if you really believe in what you believe in come to africa

00:13:11.440 because i promise you this if you come to africa yeah you might even want to come back here that's the

00:13:15.840 truth of the mouth well some of the richest some of the richest people in london are from nigeria

00:13:19.280 aren't they there you go but but why are we why are we getting lost in the weeds in this whole

00:13:23.120 argument i mean isn't it clear that what happens when couples split up or what happens after divorce

00:13:28.800 needs serious review i mean isn't that the bottom line of this because like you know i i'm listening

00:13:32.880 to all this stuff you guys are saying i've also got another anecdotal evidence but a very good friend

00:13:36.560 of mine is currently going through something very very similar to this you know he's got arrested is

00:13:41.520 you know having no access to his kid there's all this going on you know his ex taking away

00:13:46.400 and stuff like that and it's like that i mean it does seem that there's enough of these anecdotal

00:13:50.640 examples out there to to say at the very least surely the whole system needs to at least be examined

00:13:57.200 you know and then what comes from that well i guess we'll see right but it does seem like

00:14:01.680 i think you said it actually like default custody for the woman should should no longer be the case

00:14:06.080 i think absolutely you know um we're going into the weeds about this stuff i think we're

00:14:11.280 getting derailed for the point a little bit somehow yeah i just i guess my main point i was trying to

00:14:16.240 make is that i don't think it should automatically go to the woman i should i think it should go to the

00:14:20.640 primary caregiver i think men should have the ability and opportunity to be able to do that without

00:14:25.680 getting punished i actually have a question i'm gonna i'm gonna use a dog in this example okay so me and you

00:14:31.920 we're besties we get a dog right now if i pay for the dog doesn't it make sense that i have authority

00:14:39.680 i get to keep the dog if i pay for everything even if you watch the dog while i'm at work well like

00:14:44.480 what you said before money isn't everything right no i'm i'm asking so well yeah so do you think do you

00:14:51.200 think you should take the dog and i should pay you to take the dog no i and i know i know i know babies are

00:14:57.200 different but i'm just i i i'm using a different yeah just to you know prove a point but go ahead

00:15:02.560 yeah the problem is like to make the analogy closer to our current reality you have like me who's

00:15:09.840 working also paying part for the dog and then also taking care of the dog while another person is just

00:15:14.800 working right so that's when it becomes a lot more complicated why do you think women work um i think 1.00

00:15:20.560 women work because our current economic situation does not make it possible for a lot of women to be 1.00

00:15:25.680 single mom okay so okay okay i have a i have a question how much money do you think you need

00:15:30.960 to raise a child oh it depends where you live okay so what like how much um i what what would go into

00:15:39.040 raising a child but if you want to raise a good child i would say um you need to be able to provide

00:15:45.200 basic necessities good education okay how much does it cost i don't know i don't i'm not oh and this is

00:15:52.400 what yeah i'll read supers in a second but but this is where like it's going back to it's like

00:15:58.000 we argue so much that the women are working because they have to when most people haven't really done 0.99

00:16:04.160 research most people don't have kids they've never done any research on what it takes to raise a kid

00:16:09.120 and from my experience um from like the stay-at-home moms that i know this is just what they tell me

00:16:15.840 is that it doesn't take near as much money as people think you just can't go on any trips you have to

00:16:20.800 you pass down clothes you have to make food from scratch you have to live very frugally and most

00:16:26.800 people don't want to do that for the sake of the kids well now um i i did a show where i like broke

00:16:32.800 down a budget because i was really curious about this because i kept hearing um and the and the truth

00:16:37.440 of the matter is poor people have more kids so i i do think they're kind of it's really just propaganda

00:16:43.120 to make you not want to have children um and i i would also say i i think women um don't want to go 0.95

00:16:49.600 down in lifestyle for children i think we have a selfish generation of women that wants makeup 1.00

00:16:55.200 they want botox they want fake hair fake nails fake eyelashes and all that stuff trips trips trips

00:17:02.880 yeah trips five times a year and i don't think most women um nowadays were raised to live in a small 1.00

00:17:10.480 apartment or a small house not really go anywhere just stay at home with the kids i don't think

00:17:15.440 most women want to put in the work to homeschool children which is an option and that does eliminate 1.00

00:17:20.480 a lot of the costs that you're talking about and i've talked to women that actually have done this

00:17:25.520 um and i think it's a lot more possible the numbers that i've gotten from women that do this 0.87

00:17:30.800 um and i'm i'm not claiming to be an expert on budgeting for kids but this is just from talking

00:17:35.120 to the people that do it um she said around 45 55 000 what you can do is you can get an apartment

00:17:42.960 um outside of the city or a small like townhouse or something and then your husband commutes and he's

00:17:49.360 gone a lot and it sucks but you're home you're raising the kids yeah i think most women don't just want to 1.00

00:17:56.320 raise a bunch of children okay okay but there there no no no no no no no no i need sorry you're here 0.81

00:18:01.360 you're here here my show um so you said just want to raise a bunch of children just and like i just

00:18:06.960 want to point that out because it shows the mentality of modern women when it comes to children they 0.99

00:18:12.000 don't want to just raise children they want to raise good children they want to raise children who are

00:18:16.800 going to have a good quality of life and they want to raise children that don't have to worry about

00:18:20.960 living correctly so children that ride around in their mom's range rover and piss off to bali twice a

00:18:24.960 year they're better children than the kids like me who grew up on buttons and you know mom and dad were

00:18:30.480 you know screaming at each other some weekends but other weekends they were getting along and

00:18:34.480 you know we had a roast on sunday we couldn't afford to go out to bloody the shard every other weekend

00:18:38.880 like did you have your mom and dad at home i had my mom and dad at home my mom was at home full time

00:18:43.280 because she didn't have to go to work because she didn't get her hair and nails done every other 1.00

00:18:46.080 week and my dad only only see this is the generation we live in um my dad is on 40k a year he's a tram

00:18:51.680 driver in south what do you mean that's good on top of that i could tell that you had both your parents

00:18:55.600 i just just when you said it i was just like yeah but you can always i mean you can tell the people

00:19:00.000 and my dad on 40k a year which is let's not let's not ignore the fact in this country like

00:19:06.320 that is on the upper scale like yeah that's good and i'm not i'm not ignorant to the fact that i

00:19:11.280 have lived a very blessed and sheltered life however if we're going to talk about you know

00:19:14.720 quality of life yeah i would agree most women have this this idea that they they want to be able to 1.00

00:19:20.720 to have all these things and then they go to work but like the truth is from my personal experience

00:19:24.720 my dad has always been in you know normal we're working class family he has 40k a year he looks

00:19:30.560 after me and my mum like i'm i'm not a bad kid just because i don't have parents who both work high

00:19:38.080 end jobs in the city and and we we have a household income of 200k a year and you know a lot of people

00:19:44.000 make the argument oh well if you have more money you can create better memories for your child but

00:19:48.800 kids don't care if we are sat on a ride in butlins or if we're at the top of a skyscraper in dubai

00:19:55.520 we don't know the difference so the argument that you know to raise better children it comes down to

00:20:01.680 to quality of life through through money i just think i call but how do you even equate the fact

00:20:07.040 that because for you to have that quality of life obviously the both parents have to work both parents

00:20:12.080 have to be out of the house most of the time so but you you you look at that as a better quality

00:20:16.880 of life when the kids have less time with either of the parents than when they have more time with

00:20:21.600 their mom at home but they might have less money yeah a lot of the friends that i have where where

00:20:25.440 both of their parents working had um you know things like child minders and that and they don't

00:20:29.280 spend as much time with with their parents and and you know what like i'm so close with my parents

00:20:34.960 and and we literally you know tell each other everything and like that we can only do that because we

00:20:40.320 we have the time to spend with each other and it goes back to the point i was saying earlier you

00:20:43.520 know the more money you have the more problems you have and you know parents who are earning much more

00:20:48.480 money like sure they might be able to buy their kids more presents and take them on more holidays but

00:20:53.280 they can't sit and have a chat with the kids really because they've got more problems on them so christine

00:20:57.360 so for me yeah like like my dad because he was diplomat he spent his whole life flying across the

00:21:02.960 world i didn't like it's only now to be honest with you to be fair he's flying back to cameroon in the

00:21:07.120 morning because he's always spending his life half here and half over there he just

00:21:10.160 comes he doesn't he just comes because of us to be honest with you prefer his time over there

00:21:14.320 and it's like the sacrifice that him and my mother had to go and do is not a sacrifice that

00:21:19.680 to be it's a sacrifice that many first generation african people did this they came over and they

00:21:24.320 you know whether not one person was here while the other person was there and they did sacrifice just

00:21:27.760 so that the kids could have a start and you know i'm trying to say to you and that's something i

00:21:32.640 wouldn't do personally i wouldn't want to be away from my for my wife and obviously for my kids but

00:21:37.040 these sacrifices that people do it's for the greater good that it becomes it's bigger than

00:21:41.440 there's a big difference between people making that kind of sacrifice for the sake of their

00:21:44.800 children having a better life and people who grew up like me and and had pretty much everything to

00:21:50.320 still then say like i need 200k a year and we should both work to give my kids a good quality of

00:21:56.080 life like i know but my dad made good money but when i grew up it was never about money see if i think

00:22:00.560 about money that's because of my outside influences my dad was never was about education was about doing

00:22:04.880 certain things if i think about money and getting money and jewelry and stuff that is not what i was

00:22:09.200 raised upon yeah that is my this is why i say men raise better kids because even back in my country

00:22:14.720 all the rich people's kids i knew that had good fathers yes they were rich but they didn't grow up

00:22:20.160 rich their parents made sure they kept the money away from them they were raised like regular kids they

00:22:26.320 had to play on the streets they had to even pass down clothes even though their parents were rich

00:22:30.560 king it's only sorry sorry but it's only now i understand what my dad did if he said to me was

00:22:35.920 my dad the millionaire i'll tell you no but come to africans he spent millions of pounds in africa

00:22:40.000 of his money right building roads building schools building villages doing so many things like um

00:22:45.200 houses left right and center i have houses all over cameroon because of what my dad did right

00:22:50.240 and it takes a very unselfish man to go and do this my dad has done so much for so many people

00:22:56.080 and it's like when we speak about money and money and money even me myself even yeah even me myself

00:23:03.680 when i look at some of the things that i like and what i'm attracted to this is not what i was raised

00:23:07.680 upon no and when i when i take it away that's not who i am um and sometimes i have to remind myself like

00:23:14.080 try like why do you want these things do you really want because my dad doesn't want these things it's

00:23:19.040 not what he cares about like if i buy him something he doesn't he wants you know what you tell me buy him a

00:23:23.600 book that's what he'll tell me who say i want some books i want some stuff get me some stuff back for

00:23:28.960 back home for the kids that's what he'll say to me and it's just sometimes when i think well i get

00:23:32.160 this consumerism and this it wasn't from my father i was raised majority by my mother but i think i think

00:23:38.240 back in the day i say back in the day like maybe 80s 70s maybe early 90s you know there was much more

00:23:43.520 of a sense of just getting on with it you know what i mean just pulling yourself up by the bootstraps you

00:23:47.680 know we can have a windy day at the rainy beach in britain yeah yeah the eggs the egg sandwiches

00:23:53.040 with the sand in it keep buggering on yeah yeah well that's what you know that's what it was like

00:23:57.120 when i was growing up you know we go to the we go camping in cornwall we go to the beach and you 0.99

00:24:01.120 know all that shit and and that was great but our people and let's face it women you know our women is 0.99

00:24:08.560 keen to to take that on now you know i mean i've certainly i've certainly dated women in the past and 0.99

00:24:13.120 they've been like you know when you talk about you know children and stuff like that they'll be

00:24:17.280 like oh yeah but i'd have to get i'd have to get down these to look after them do you know what i

00:24:19.840 mean and they're kind of saying it half jokingly but what they mean is they want to maintain that

00:24:23.600 lifestyle that they've got now you know they can party they can go out they can have a good time

00:24:27.040 they can wear nice clothes and then oh yeah i want the kids but you know and there's nothing wrong with

00:24:31.520 admitting that you want that but the problem that i see time and time again with women of our generation

00:24:37.200 is that they try and justify it morally they try and justify wanting all the things like this is

00:24:43.680 the problem i i encounter with liberals all the time is like you know no one is necessarily shaming

00:24:49.760 you for for wanting this you know i call it the ranger over lifestyle like if you want that just admit

00:24:56.400 that you're more selfish and you do want that but don't try and make the argument that it's like

00:25:00.240 for a better quality for the kids and better memories i think that's bollocks it's just bollocks

00:25:05.360 it's not effective and even think of the number one expense is rent so if you're divorcing you're

00:25:11.440 paying two rents cheaper to keep her and you know i'm gonna add to that as well you see to support

00:25:19.040 what you're saying a little bit right so i was a young parent so i too believe okay yeah you know

00:25:24.160 because i came from poverty it's like oh yeah now make sure the christmas trees are the hoodies presents

00:25:28.720 and make sure this make sure that i did that for my do you think my kids remember that they don't remember

00:25:32.800 that my son remembers when i fixed his bike with him or when i done some random stuff with him and

00:25:38.160 i had to i it took me to get older i think hold on a minute they don't remember no tree for the

00:25:42.880 presents you know holidays to the bike it don't resonate to him he just remembers i when i spent

00:25:47.600 time with my dad like real time yeah that's all he remembers when dad picked me up from school

00:25:51.760 when dad told me whatever he doesn't remember none of that stuff and i wish i somebody told me that

00:25:55.600 earlier because i would have put all that money in savings instead for his future but i was pressured by the

00:26:00.880 the prescription of society that to be a dad i respect you need to give your kids all of this

00:26:05.120 other stuff and i did all of that and i thought you know he was doing the big presents at christmas

00:26:08.800 picture that's the whole point is like like kids just want you there yeah that's it and like that's

00:26:16.720 why i say i think it's selfish when women get divorced because all a kid wants is both of their parents 1.00

00:26:22.960 that's all that's all you could talk about fringe cases of abuse sure it happens but in general most men are

00:26:29.920 good fathers most men want to be in the kids lives most men love their kids more than anything

00:26:36.960 and to like minimize that by by saying they don't do enough housework really well it's like it i just

00:26:43.440 think is a bit disingenuous and it doesn't show how important dads are well that's why i keep going

00:26:49.760 back to this topic of like parental leave because you guys are right you know what kids want is to spend

00:26:55.280 time with their mother and father and if the father has to always you know be the provider gets

00:27:00.800 punished for providing either you know by the courts or by not being able to spend as much time with the

00:27:05.520 kids i think that's unfair so that's why i keep going back so i i disagree with you because i just

00:27:11.200 don't see that as a solution because i don't think women will the dad will get parental leave and the 1.00

00:27:17.120 women will be yes i'm so happy and i will not divorce my husband like uh guys just asking for

00:27:24.240 the men when you give women what they want do they typically reward you 0.98

00:27:31.920 or they realize they don't want it

00:27:35.280 and so this is this is the real problem is women being selfish and leaving that's the real problem 1.00

00:27:41.600 because at the end of the day you could say oh parental leave this the biggest drawback and set

00:27:47.440 back a kid can have in life is not having their dad around that is there's a reason we have phrases

00:27:53.600 like daddy issues moms don't do it the same way we can't especially young boys because men just don't 1.00

00:28:00.800 respect women like they do other men they don't want to listen to women i don't even think women should 1.00

00:28:04.880 teach other men to be honest like like in a teacher role i just don't think it works because men like

00:28:10.800 there there's an underlying like threat of violence with men and it just i i just think men are more

00:28:17.200 structured men are more disciplined you know men are the one that are going to fix your car they're

00:28:21.520 going to screw in a light bulb and women think they're god's gift to the earth because they can 1.00

00:28:25.440 load up a dishwasher it's like it's like the stuff that guys do i think is a lot more complicated

00:28:33.200 i don't know i think we got room buzz we got dishwashers well like we have vacuum cleaners

00:28:39.120 like like men build all this stuff to make our lives easier and we still complain i think um what

00:28:46.400 is it again it goes back to how our society is currently manufactured because you can say like

00:28:52.320 oh you know women are choosing to um work and do the household chores but again why are women choosing 1.00

00:28:58.240 to work it's not because of selfish reasons a lot of it goes back i have i have a question

00:29:02.720 i have actually the reason why society is the way it is is because women chose to work 1.00

00:29:07.360 it's not society it's not the other way it's not the way you said it it's actually because women 1.00

00:29:12.160 chose to work that society became the way it is now why did women choose to work because they were 1.00

00:29:16.560 tired of sitting at home okay why were they tired of sitting at home i mean go and ask them

00:29:22.880 also the the majority of women who who push the whole you know women want to get into workforce weren't 1.00

00:29:27.760 the women who were you know happy at home the idea is always like oh well women were housewives at 1.00

00:29:35.040 home and they were getting beaten by their husbands so they wanted to go out and work so they could

00:29:38.720 fight for themselves all of this actually like the feminists uh didn't have husbands didn't have 1.00

00:29:43.520 children they were just bitter single women who couldn't get a man so they're like all right let's 1.00

00:29:48.800 just go out make no money because no man wants the majority of women the majority of women did not want 1.00

00:29:53.680 to work they actually didn't like you're saying i think it was a minority of women who were 1.00

00:29:57.280 pushing this agenda i think it was i reacted to a video recently and it was in like the 70s i think

00:30:02.880 and they were asking the majority of women um on the street like uh so what do you think of the 1.00

00:30:07.920 women's liberation movement and they're all like yeah i think the women who are doing it are a bit 0.99

00:30:12.880 nuts but you know each to their own because women were like that we were we will always tend to go 1.00

00:30:17.680 you know each to their own um and even one of the women actually said i think it's all gotten a bit too

00:30:22.640 extreme and she was saying it's it's women punishing other women because they were saying look we 1.00

00:30:26.960 we don't want to work the majority of women didn't want what happened but because when you 1.00

00:30:31.280 have and we're seeing it now when you have a small minority that has a very loud voice

00:30:36.320 things can get very messy and i hope everyone is aware of the minority that i'm referring to but we

00:30:41.840 are seeing it now where a minority of people with very loud voices scream these things loudly and it

00:30:47.680 changes history suddenly things you know that they say has happened is what happened but you know why that

00:30:52.880 is that's because the minority right the majority allowed a minority to do it because of all manner

00:30:58.240 of reasons because they don't want to be cancelled they don't want to speak out yeah they don't want

00:31:01.440 to be politically incorrect but what happens is is is you become complicit in your silence because you

00:31:06.640 allow it to happen and guilt by omission yeah and it's like you know women see women need to take back 0.57

00:31:13.520 their spaces and take control it's not for me as a man to do this and i know what you're talking about

00:31:17.120 about and women need to take back their spaces and take control and the only reason we've gotten this 1.00

00:31:21.760 far is because so women speak about the patriarchy but it's the same patriarchy that's allowed this 1.00

00:31:26.800 thing to happen do you do you realize that right yeah it's so and this can only this can only happen

00:31:31.040 because men are in control yes fully sorry sorry i mean you're so good no no no go go go go it's fine

00:31:40.560 okay uh wait what did you say your dad did for a living he's a tram driver tram driver i have a question

00:31:45.360 and he made 40 000 he makes makes 40 what did he start at do you know um so he started as an

00:31:51.600 apprentice in uh phillips when he was 17 um he worked there for about 20 years until margaret factor

00:31:59.280 shut down all the factories and then he lost his job but we won't get into that um and then he went

00:32:04.240 straight into being a tram driver for another 20 years and he is now 67 he should have retired a couple

00:32:08.960 of years ago but guess what the man's still working because he wants to make sure that me and my mom are okay

00:32:12.800 um what so what did he what did he start at roughly do you know oh so back then oh i mean when my dad

00:32:20.800 was 17 we're talking maybe the 60s early 70s uh like i guess today i guess today an apprentice maybe

00:32:30.000 between i would say 19 and 22k a year okay do you think most women would stay at home go on zero trips 1.00

00:32:39.200 and and submit to the authority of a man for 19 to 22k a year no no i don't think enough to provide

00:32:46.640 you guys literally just admitted if 40k was like the what is it the number you guys no that's what she

00:32:51.360 said she she that's what but she said that she makes that he makes today yeah but and it is but but

00:32:56.480 but yeah so so what happens what happens is people men make more money over time so women would know

00:33:04.320 okay in our early years he's not going to make a ton of money but he's going to make more so the

00:33:09.360 average guy peaks at his income peaks in his 50s so his income peaks at 55. so so but the the thing is

00:33:16.720 and they might know that okay i might have to work in our early 20s but we can save some money and then

00:33:22.640 have kids yeah it seems to me that the old thing of like oh we'll strive together we'll grow together

00:33:27.440 and you know we'll go through the hard times it seems like it's gone you know like i just can't

00:33:35.600 see that flying anymore really you know why do you think why do you think that is well because i don't

00:33:41.200 know because because people well women's expectations people's expectations have been risen so high 0.98

00:33:45.920 because of instagram and because of advertising culture and pop culture you know pop culture in

00:33:49.600 general movies tv whatever you know i just don't think the average woman is going to accept the kind 0.99

00:33:54.960 of lifestyle that you you would get on 20k to be honest you know and it's like they have to pay

00:33:59.280 for themselves somehow you know what i mean so it's like they'll say oh we can't afford this but i'm

00:34:05.360 like you how do you how do you eat now but there's also availability of the dating marketplace as well

00:34:10.000 i don't believe it's all about money i don't i genuinely don't believe that the dating thing i think

00:34:13.760 riz is extremely important i don't think it's all about money how having said that of course if the

00:34:17.680 girl is she's dating this bloke he's on 20 grand a year and she's like looking around and she's getting

00:34:21.520 some dms on instagram and there's some bloke with the ferraris like sliding into her dms is she going 0.98

00:34:26.000 to be potentially swayed by that if he's decent looking probably do you know what i mean it's

00:34:31.200 like it's not i also think like everybody does way too much now so it's like so you so you meet a

00:34:36.720 girl get a number oh sorry get instagram social media go look on social media you're gonna see

00:34:40.400 she's in marbella you're gonna see she's gone to dubai you're gonna see she's gone to cancun you're 0.63

00:34:44.880 gonna go see that you she's literally been everywhere right and a lot of the time she's done this done these

00:34:49.760 in relationships so for like paris so basically she's been getting her back blown out in tropical

00:34:55.280 destinations no that's the truth of the matter she has she's been going on when a girl goes on 0.97

00:34:59.920 holiday with a partner they're going and having a lot of sex lots of sex crazy sex you know drunken 0.99

00:35:06.160 sex drug-fueled sex pap pap pap pap on on the beach on the sand clapping cheeks listen do you know 0.99

00:35:12.160 i'm saying this is because as a man when we look at that we know already what that means who's taking 0.99

00:35:17.520 that picture oh oh you oh you went oh you went with a time understand no you didn't let's not do

00:35:21.840 that so a lot of times when a man starts dating a woman the expectation is so high because they've

00:35:26.480 done they've done everything already and i think this is important because it just keeps relating

00:35:32.080 what we say to men guys if you're not on your purpose don't be dating it's only gonna exacerbate

00:35:36.160 the problems that you currently have right i suggest for the younger men i suggest for the younger

00:35:40.800 men go out there get on your purpose put your head down i know it feels like you know you

00:35:46.160 know everything's happening right now but trust me it's all about compounding it's not happening

00:35:50.320 right now it's it's gonna happen later on in life and then we tell younger men right and then the

00:35:54.240 same woman as we talked about before that are ignoring you when in their teens and their early 1.00

00:35:58.560 20s because they want the older guys with the big cars and all they want to do all these things now

00:36:02.800 these are women gonna line up because they're gonna end up becoming baby mamas in their 30s and 1.00

00:36:06.480 gonna be outside and they're gonna be ones that want to see you but guess what at that point you don't

00:36:09.680 have to see them you can there's already a fresh batch of and you can pick the women in their 20s and

00:36:13.920 they're gonna be online saying oh these older men only want these younger girls because they want

00:36:17.840 to manipulate no they're just trying to make it fair it's never ever been fair because and this is

00:36:22.160 and this is the thing about about about some you know some things play to women double standards 1.00

00:36:26.960 something things play to men in the prime of your life we call it 18 to 28 when you know this is when

00:36:31.440 you get your proposal this is when the world bends for you if you choose not to secure a man and get

00:36:37.280 out of there that's your own fault that's your own fault yeah i agree i think i think the experience

00:36:41.040 this thing is absolutely right though because i remember tristan tristan tate was talking about

00:36:44.800 this and talking about money and he said um it's not necessarily it's not the money necessarily per

00:36:50.240 se that women won it's not like every woman is this hard and gold digger but it's a bit like look

00:36:55.360 we i've got this amazing car i can take we can drive across italy we'll get on a yacht blah blah blah

00:36:59.920 it's just that experience is more fun like is she gonna rather have that or go down to greg's and have 0.69

00:37:04.640 a coffee and a fucking you know steak bait right you know so it's kind of and we we've had the 0.93

00:37:11.200 expectations raised so high because of instagram and what our mates are doing what people on reality 0.90

00:37:14.800 tv is doing and all that sort of stuff so um i'm gonna read super chats for a second so sorry sorry

00:37:21.360 sorry to the chat i know i know you guys have been bothering me about these for a while okay um but

00:37:27.120 thank you for the super chats the super chats are gonna guys you want to know what king looks like

00:37:31.360 right you want to you want to see what can you want to get king a camera right right he good looking

00:37:37.440 guy right everyone yeah yeah don't think yeah everyone donate to get king a camera okay desmond

00:37:47.440 pixie i don't agree with a lot of your opinions but i enjoy the way you express your opinions on these

00:37:52.720 podcasts 90 frito pie can you ask arguing women if she ever sat down and had a talk with her dad about

00:37:59.920 his life if so what did she learn his struggles his dreams etc robert um women farmed these factories 1.00

00:38:05.760 made farming obsolete wait women farmed then factories made farming obsolete to earn a living 1.00

00:38:13.200 um daniel int good job pixie keep joining um don't give up um black up so when men take time off to care

00:38:22.560 for their kids will women take on 50 of the finances um moon-pilled rash we know the answer is 1.00

00:38:29.680 no like why are you asking the stupid questions sorry um okay um moon-pilled rational optics this is 0.94

00:38:36.560 why rollo deals in what is not of what should thanks pearl and troy um eric mrs something thank you for 0.99

00:38:43.120 the super chat 90 frito pie finland sweden ha mostly white people right interesting point liberal why don't 1.00

00:38:49.520 you say africa chris to the delusional girl in the middle have you ever seen girls argue stupid stupid 0.97

00:38:55.280 points and go viral on the show congrats this is you today 90 free tip pie um my earlier super chat is 0.99

00:39:02.320 for tiered-eyed liberal also my friend's uh baby mama accused him of essay but stopped when the court

00:39:08.720 asked for proof still has to pay child support i i've had guys you don't even understand i used to think

00:39:15.200 women were just i think we're just completely different and then i started reading court documents i'm 1.00

00:39:21.840 going to tell you what happened i started reading court documents and i and i saw this happen so many

00:39:27.360 times where the woman tries to falsely accuse a man um i had one guy that actually uh there was printed

00:39:35.280 out texts of the girl saying talking to her friend because they they got it in the affidavit and she was

00:39:41.920 texting her friend and her friend says you have to get him to hit you oh yep so she was trying to get

00:39:48.320 and guess who got primary custody the primary caregiver what do you know even when they're bat 0.96

00:39:54.880 shit crazy they don't care and honestly stuff like this is why i can never advocate for marriage even 0.65

00:40:01.280 though i believe in marriage i believe in two-parent households i i think it's like you know you hear 0.99

00:40:07.440 story after story after story after story these same stories from people that don't know each other

00:40:12.640 people from different countries that have the same story people from different parts of the world

00:40:21.280 that have the same story and it's like how many stories to have to come forward of men getting

00:40:27.280 absolutely ruined men in the media getting ruined where we can't say that maybe this isn't anecdotal

00:40:34.480 maybe the men actually have a point here but you never hear the same argument from liberals about the

00:40:39.520 whole me too movement you never hear it ever and and it's funny because i could you know just show

00:40:45.120 of hands from the guys and girls why not do you know someone that's been falsely accused do you know

00:40:50.800 someone that had their lives ruined in divorce there you go and this is this is i could do this in pretty

00:40:57.360 much any panel um i i actually i went so far guys in my research that i i started asking uber drivers

00:41:04.400 okay uber drivers i just started asking them about their lives i just started doing deep dabs do you

00:41:09.360 know how many uber drivers are uber driving because they lost their job during a divorce and were

00:41:14.560 financially ruined guys it's so common a lot of guys uber eats like a lot of guys have these jobs

00:41:21.280 because one guy i talked to had a high paying job working in um electricity or some something like

00:41:28.960 that he made six figures he made a lot of money he did super well and i don't i don't say this to be

00:41:33.760 doom and gloom but it's like you can only get so many stories of the same thing happening

00:41:39.200 so he works in electricity right uh some really high stress job his wife makes one phone call

00:41:46.320 kicks him out of the house she'd already been to a women's shelter who advised her to accuse him of 0.99

00:41:51.040 abuse right then on top of that he the covet pushed his court date off for a year and a half hadn't seen

00:41:57.120 his kid in a year and a half because she wouldn't let him had to pay child support every month a year

00:42:01.360 and a half later do you know what happens they give her the child because she was the primary

00:42:05.920 caregiver he hasn't been in the life for a year and a half and this is the funny games that the

00:42:11.360 court system plays it's these gotchas it's like damned if you do damned if you don't um the men 0.99

00:42:17.200 that were there more than the mother they weren't providing for their families the men that weren't

00:42:21.760 there uh didn't get their parental leave i guess and this is the problem it is the whole system and

00:42:27.200 is women's way of like thinking it's like when women infiltrate um a system for whatever reason 1.00

00:42:32.640 we just we we're so emotional we just ruin a lot of these systems it's like if women left work hr would 0.99

00:42:39.040 disappear tomorrow men men aren't the ones going to hr it's women and i don't know why we're like this 0.99

00:42:44.960 this isn't to hate on women but to understand we have a nature when we get mad it's like we we just do

00:42:50.480 certain things not every woman acts on it not not every woman will but it to act like these are like

00:42:56.640 fringe cases is the most delusional thing i've ever heard in my life we have men with money power

00:43:03.600 status the same thing happens to them the exact same thing like if a woman's not happy with tom brady

00:43:10.000 who the hell is she going to be happy with um so yeah like you're gonna i've had 100 i've had men send

00:43:18.240 me ring camera footage of women neglecting their children and they still get custody like it and a

00:43:26.400 lot of these fathers do everything right there's nothing they can do and it completely ruins the

00:43:32.160 entire system because it changes the way we interact because again you know men are at the whims of women 0.99

00:43:38.800 and it's really unfortunate and this is why you should get your women shouldn't vote t-shirt today

00:43:43.040 yeah or the sex to me okay um what you you advocate for what is that what you joke yeah yeah um okay

00:43:51.680 okay um all right so my earlier okay middle couch is a perfect example of the type of woman who'll be 0.99

00:43:57.520 adopting cats no peace just argumentative for argument's sake please um robert m is the wig middle

00:44:03.760 couch scroller what if a woman is a multi-millionaire but was very secretive about it would a man feel less

00:44:08.960 manly or valuable when he discovers that his wife earns more after marriage do you think

00:44:15.520 i don't think they would care i wouldn't i'll be happy

00:44:19.920 imagine she said oh you know what i just wanted to just keep that low because i wanted you to

00:44:23.120 marry me for who i was you know what i'll be like you know what i wish you trusted me but 0.98

00:44:26.560 girl we're not gonna get divorced all right all right for stinky armpits women pearl please look up 1.00

00:44:32.640 women-led civilizations and let's point out the common factor compared to men-led civilizations um 0.99

00:44:38.720 daniel uh pixie is a product of third way feminism doug mpa pixie is showing that american 1.00

00:44:44.240 white liberal women are the most dangerous demographic on the planet so hateful and spiteful 1.00

00:44:48.720 u.s americans apologize for her behavior she's a demon daniel there's some that were for you 1.00

00:44:56.000 there's some that were for you don't worry there's more daniel um pixie has been going to several

00:45:01.440 podcasts trying to find support and validation for the wrong views taking l's everywhere and still

00:45:05.760 refuse to learn black ops take away all the benefits of divorce like the right to half a 0.84

00:45:11.120 man's wealth and alimony also take away child support and make child custody 50 50 except for

00:45:16.320 those who wave the 50 50 rights and women will stop leaving marriages i'd go so far i would just give

00:45:21.280 men custody off the bat i i'm here for the for the sake of the children give the men custody but

00:45:28.320 you know that that would what you propose to be better than what we have now okay bro horse horse davis um

00:45:34.720 send seeds seeds produce of the kind children belong to men uh beaten beaten cheeks ask pixie this are 0.88

00:45:43.280 women in the west depressed if a man sleeps with a trans woman is he gay what what he's definitely in 0.98

00:45:50.560 the closet okay um are women in the west depressed um it depends on what metric okay so yes or no um yeah 0.57

00:46:00.480 certain ways okay we'll come back to this the savvy ninja a high value man is a man women want to be 0.97

00:46:06.320 with and man envy and want to be there's plenty of things outside of money that are highly valuable

00:46:11.120 enter black dragon um value has little to do with money and everything to do with integrity respect

00:46:16.560 honor wisdom ability leadership accountability responsibility skills and confidence all of

00:46:21.040 which money can't buy but acquire through hard work zero follow-up many parts of the u.s

00:46:25.520 have third world problems um pixie is just another privileged was westerner speaking for others 0.60

00:46:31.920 daniel or or kay every part of africa is better than kensington adam sutton poverty

00:46:40.800 adam sutton poverty stats are a fiction to justify embezzling taxpayer money they say a third of

00:46:46.960 children go hungry in the u.s because a third qualify for food stamps but many live on those farms yeah 0.97

00:46:52.320 and that's what i started to learn and this is why i just started to lose so much faith in stats guys

00:46:57.280 because this is they'll manipulate and i'll give you an example you know they consider people in poverty

00:47:04.000 ones that have television sets as many of you know i was just banned on tick tock and we are demonetized

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JustPearlyThings - October 11, 2023

This LIBERAL Lady Gets DESTROYED by The Panel

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