JustPearlyThings - October 25, 2023


This Makes No Senseā€¦


Episode Stats


Length

9 minutes

Words per minute

192.87415

Word count

1,864

Sentence count

1

Harmful content

Misogyny

19

sentences flagged

Hate speech

8

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Summary

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Is promiscuity a form of female empowerment or does it enhance sexual objectification? Is online sexualization of women a good thing or a bad thing? What does it mean to be promiscuous online?

Transcript

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Hate speech classifications generated with facebook/roberta-hate-speech-dynabench-r4-target .
00:00:00.000 is promiscuity a form of empowerment for young women and not just young women women of all ages
00:00:07.000 really and so I want to go around the room and I want to get all your guys thoughts is promiscuity
00:00:12.160 so being promiscuous whether it be sexual partners or whether it just be online is it a form of
00:00:18.260 female empowerment or does it enhance sexual objectification I'm going to start here and go 0.99
00:00:23.480 around um I mean I think it's defined differently you know I mean each woman in each different
00:00:28.640 generation can see something like being promiscuous differently yes it can be used as a form of art
00:00:34.700 to get attention uh in reality or you know be a certain way but I think it's now completely changed
00:00:42.180 with younger generations especially with social media coming on boards that has changed the game
00:00:46.420 completely because you can compare it to 50 years ago someone can be have a natural way with their
00:00:51.880 physicality with their words with their way of being now with social media I think it's become
00:00:58.060 it's become normalized in a sense I mean I don't agree with it or disagree with it I think it's a part
00:01:02.980 of a woman's nature um I come from a psychology background but it just kind of analyzing I think
00:01:10.680 it's within women's nature to naturally be like that in a way it's within women's nature to be 1.00
00:01:15.720 promiscuous but yes but not not in a way of sexualizing it because you're you're when we say
00:01:21.500 being promiscuous we instantly associate it being sexual sexual right can it be something that's
00:01:28.800 non-sexual being promiscuous well I think the definition of promiscuous specifically regards
00:01:34.360 sexual behavior right um so I mean do you want to elaborate on on what kind of behavior you're
00:01:39.900 talking about because yeah I mean it can I mean men can perceive it differently I guess women can
00:01:45.740 perceive it differently um there is that sexual connotation to it but the element of it being
00:01:52.080 over sexualized has changed recently so I mean yeah like I said I think women tend to do it it's become
00:01:58.980 normalized because of social media I don't agree with it but I think there's a nature there's something
00:02:03.580 within us that naturally is like that maybe it's for evolutional reasons or whatever what is it that
00:02:08.040 you don't agree with in what aspects so you said that promiscuity has been enhanced yeah what do I
00:02:15.200 not agree with it because it's become normalized and why do you think that's a bad thing uh I mean
00:02:21.820 it's it's a bad thing because a woman doesn't know what she's doing from a young age and can be put in 1.00
00:02:27.260 positions that she can be endangered maybe in on online maybe physically you know out if you're out in a 1.00
00:02:33.780 bar and you're flirting with a guy um things can escalate I don't think women really know what it 1.00
00:02:39.640 is themselves at a certain age point okay interesting we'll come back okay yes it's similar to what she
00:02:45.740 said um I think it's it's very much so who perceives what so women that like like to like you know with
00:02:52.260 a whole body confidence and so forth so a lot of the time people like to show like if especially if they
00:02:58.320 say they work out a lot and they want to show like their before and after pictures or they want
00:03:02.900 to show their bikinis or want to show their like their body like I think women tend to do that 1.00
00:03:07.560 because they want to show what they're proud of whereas if a woman's always posting photos of 0.90
00:03:12.220 themselves with you know their bums out and their bodies out men may may perceive that as what like a
00:03:17.900 oh she's you know trying to get a lot of male attention she's trying to over sexualize herself and 1.00
00:03:21.660 maybe that'd not be the case I mean I guess one could argue that do they have to share it on a public
00:03:26.240 Instagram profile if they're proud of it can't they just share it with their friends and family
00:03:29.500 I mean do you think that that comes into it at all or do you think that people should just accept
00:03:34.140 that people want to share that kind of thing I think if this was maybe like 20 years ago that
00:03:40.020 would have been yeah you keep that between your friends your family the ones that are close to you
00:03:43.280 but now social media has just taken over the world completely so even if you're going out for a
00:03:48.760 dinner you want to show the fries that you're eating people post that if you want to show
00:03:52.300 wherever you're staying people post that like everything's posted now so there's no sense of
00:03:57.460 privacy the only time someone's private is when they choose to be private but a lot of the time
00:04:02.500 people don't want to be private anymore why do you think that is why don't you why do you think I
00:04:06.440 just think that's just the way that that social media's kind of just made it especially for the
00:04:10.580 younger generation that's all they know so like people that may be the like the early 20s to late
00:04:16.240 late 20s early 30s they understand that social media wasn't a massive thing when I was five or six
00:04:22.220 years old how old are you again sorry 23 23 so I don't think social media was a massive thing
00:04:26.920 till I was maybe like 13 14 15 yeah I'm the same age as you yeah I'd say about this so around that
00:04:32.400 age it became a massive thing but whereas the children now at the age of five six all they know
00:04:38.740 is social media tick tock this and that youtube whatever so from that age onwards that's all they're
00:04:43.700 gonna know is just post this post that especially with parents giving that to them at a young age
00:04:48.360 which is just privacy starts from a young age so okay yeah I would personally need first of all
00:04:55.780 the definition of this word because I don't understand what it is uh so to to be promiscuous
00:05:01.280 um is to be sort of very sexually out there um so for example oh there we go we've got the
00:05:08.220 definition great king is on it today I can't even say that word promiscuity having or involving many
00:05:15.000 sexual partners not restricted to one sexual partner or few sexual partners not restricted
00:05:19.740 to one class sort or person all right and what was the question again so is promiscuity female 0.84
00:05:26.960 promiscuity specifically does it promote female empowerment or does it promote sexual objectification
00:05:34.060 of women well I think that's a difficult question especially in our society now to response if it's 0.99
00:05:43.720 right or not I will not do that tonight but what I will say is that in um
00:05:49.980 in a biologic way or scientific way it tends to be more destructive for women to have this kind of 1.00
00:05:59.200 behavior but at the end of the day you are you you do what you want what you feel is make you happy
00:06:06.680 um if we just ask me the question one more time so promiscuity female promiscuity does it promote 1.00
00:06:22.640 female empowerment or does it promote the objectification of women all right so essentially
00:06:29.360 is female promiscuity good or bad for women so look if you want to feel empowered by throwing your 0.99
00:06:35.000 cheeks around do your thing that's entirely up to you I'm not going to judge my only problem with
00:06:42.900 calling it female empowerment is you get to the point where you want to be loved by somebody 1.00
00:06:50.920 you want to have good relationships if you've been throwing your cheeks around
00:06:55.960 and a person turns around to you and says hey
00:06:59.260 I don't want you because you threw your cheeks around 1.00
00:07:04.100 what if you're deeply in love when you don't care no you're not gonna you're not gonna wife you
00:07:09.080 you're not gonna wife you hold all right that's that's that's but there are men that have done
00:07:13.120 that there are men that are wifed a porn star for example oh that's you know how long does that last 0.96
00:07:18.860 well I don't know I'm just I'm just throwing it out that because obviously men prefer a woman
00:07:22.940 that are let's say less sexually active whatever which makes sense and I agree with that ideology
00:07:28.540 but the reality of today is a whole different story and so what do we do why because I don't
00:07:33.280 know society is a bit fucked up it has been for years and years and years and each generation 0.98
00:07:37.580 keeps getting worse so here we are having this conversation you know as I said if you feel like
00:07:44.020 throwing around your cheeks yes it's female empowerment do your thing body count matters 1.00
00:07:50.340 has nothing to do with me just don't be upset if the man that you want to court says hey I don't
00:07:57.700 want a million bodies that's it don't be upset why is it that guys care so much about body count
00:08:06.100 about promiscuity what is it that that's a turn off because a key that can open many doors
00:08:14.020 it's a master key preach to get it let that one sink in right there oh okay but if it's the other
00:08:22.500 way around it's just it's just a shit lock if any key can open it's a shit lock no I think you're
00:08:27.300 defining that it's different it's different it's different for women and men like you can't
00:08:33.220 like you always look at a woman's body count and I don't know what it is but that body count 1.00
00:08:38.420 actually does matter on on a woman's part for men it's different in it is it just the thought of 0.97
00:08:43.860 that woman that you're seeing or dating or interested in the fact that they've been with
00:08:47.860 so many men is that just off-putting just another man having her hands on her is that what it is
00:08:52.260 is that like a thing that you think about are you are you fighting are you fighting for women
00:08:55.940 i'm asking questions so quick question are you fighting around because obviously you're pushing
00:08:59.220 back against us are you fighting for women to throw their cheeks around no I'm not but I want to
00:09:03.140 understand that the male psyche behind that do you throw your cheeks around well serious endeavor
00:09:08.900 that's a private question oh god damn it but did you see this is my problem so yeah you're obviously 0.65
00:09:17.220 saying oh yeah it's fine no I'm not saying it's fine you're not saying it's fine I'm not listen
00:09:22.260 you're not saying it's fine I'm not saying it's all right but I'm trying to understand it
00:09:25.860 I think she's trying to pay devil's advocate to see how strong your story is yeah exactly
00:09:29.700 is that what we do how strong your justification is because what do you mean my justification is
00:09:35.460 literally if you want to throw cheeks around I get what you're saying I completely hear what you're saying