JustPearlyThings - This Modern Man NEEDS To Be SCHOOLED

00:00:00.000 actually i have a question has a guy ever been bad in bed and have you ever thought of someone else

00:00:05.120 no i've never thought of someone else but i've been have you ever thought that it was bad

00:00:09.440 yeah and how would you know it was bad because i've had others that were better exactly excuse

00:00:15.040 me what you like can i comment all right but how would you know what you like if you didn't know

00:00:20.800 any different because surely like if you let's just so if you like how everyone likes to be

00:00:27.920 pleasured differently so if they're you wrong you just guide them through it oh like this is what

00:00:33.920 i would prefer if you could do that and you work as a team do you want a guy that you have to guide

00:00:38.400 through it i mean yeah because you get to know each other's body would you prefer a guy that

00:00:42.480 you had to guide through it or would you prefer a guy that knows what he's doing i think i'd guide

00:00:46.640 to be honest like what okay the best sex you ever had was it a guy who knew what he was doing or a

00:00:51.920 guy you had to guide through it a guy who knew what they was doing well the best sex i ever had 0.95

00:00:56.240 yeah it was when i flipped the girl upside down yeah in my arms i dashed her on the bed easy as bro 0.96

00:01:01.440 she loved it it's not like she oh do this birkin do that birkin oh please don't do this do this 1.00

00:01:06.720 way did that way like allow yourself bro are we talking about one night stands as a man you need

00:01:10.880 to know what you're doing bro easy as whether it's your one night stand whether it's your average

00:01:15.120 girlfriend you need to know you need to know what you're doing about it you know what i'm saying

00:01:19.760 hold on hold on there's a there's a point that i interesting point that i think that everybody

00:01:23.120 skipped over nobody nobody commented on it she said the fact that if a man slept with 80 80 people

00:01:30.080 that you might be the one you should think i swear he was agreeing with that bro no no what did pearl

00:01:35.920 say beginning no i did not agree with that the beginning of the show pearl said oh if a guy slept

00:01:41.040 with 200 guys i like i wouldn't think that he'd be willing to settle down for me you see the mentality

00:01:45.440 difference when a woman slept with 200 bodies she's looking like oh the man should be like okay well 1.00

00:01:50.720 he should believe that i'm ready to settle down because he's that special he's that one but the

00:01:55.040 woman's perspective from pearl was if a man slept with 200 bodies i don't think he'd be willing to 1.00

00:01:59.600 settle down so you see the mentality difference and how it matters nobody everybody skipped over that

00:02:04.800 fact that's right but it doesn't repulse me like the same way like guy when guys hear a high body

00:02:10.160 count in general it repulses them and and you've all you all know that innately because you also most of

00:02:15.280 you said you've lied about it i think i think wait wait wait and so and so that but for me it's

00:02:20.640 like it doesn't repulse me i'm just like the odds are not in my favor but you know bro yeah i'm talking

00:02:27.040 about the expectation right a girl that slept with 80 guys oh you're like bergen's talking about yeah

00:02:33.280 yeah you're saying your guys the expectation is he should understand that i'm giving my attention and my

00:02:40.240 loyalty my sexual exclusivity to him and by doing that he should understand that he is the one but

00:02:47.200 from a woman's perspective i don't think it would like you said from your perspective i don't think

00:02:50.800 that it's the same it's a it's a complete difference i'm curious what i don't understand what you just

00:02:57.280 said bro do you know if i'm with a girl i don't understand what i just said if i'm with a girl and

00:03:00.720 she stepped with 200 men and she's let's say loose like that it could be whatever it is but when she's with

00:03:05.440 me it's completely different why but why because she would respect the love that she has for me and

00:03:11.840 it'll be different that's how it works it's not that's how it works if you're gonna judge a girl 1.00

00:03:22.480 i'll be surprised if you don't get a divorce bro i'm i'm just going to go with a girl that has 200 1.00

00:03:26.640 bodies bro be with a girl that's a virgin and you will see what happens i'm just being i'm just being

00:03:31.200 real what's gonna possibly happen if i'm a virgin what's gonna happen there's a few things possibly

00:03:34.960 happen if i get married to a virgin it doesn't it doesn't make it you're you're saying whether

00:03:38.960 a girl's a virgin or not makes who they are that's completely false that's that's what you are saying

00:03:47.680 that baffles me about you it's like i could give you numbers on it and no no wait wait you you wait

00:03:54.400 it's like i could give you numbers on it let's say virgins are better choices for wives 1.00

00:04:00.400 virgins have worse outcomes and there are multiple studies from different places around the world

00:04:07.440 and you still have the same opinion it's like weird to me no i think you could find statistics

00:04:12.160 anywhere personally um and i think at the end of the day when it comes when it comes to real life just

00:04:17.280 anecdotally every situation is different and we can all agree on that stop just anecdotally you know

00:04:24.080 that the the women that sleep with more people um you know they don't have happy relationships you 1.00

00:04:29.760 you know and this is the thing you can say this is why i think like men like you to be honest like

00:04:34.480 respectfully but it's like you lie to women and you act like because because you guys always do this

00:04:41.040 you say you don't care but the woman you guys pick is never that you know guys don't pick 0.74

00:04:45.520 whore you guys don't that's you just assuming no because i see it i see it happening i see it 0.91

00:04:51.120 happening let my man here pick a skirt get married to have kids of her and let's see how it ends up 1.00

00:04:57.440 i think the fact that he's using the term of skit is already it's already your class listen listen

00:05:03.040 so i think is that a british i don't actually know that it means someone's a ho

00:05:08.880 listen bro listen for one time bro no when i when i when i say skirt i mean a ho 0.92

00:05:14.080 jonathan so you're basically saying that i'm a ho pretty much 0.53

00:05:18.160 i mean by a skirt is yeah a girl a guy that sleeps with a lot of girls jonathan 1.00

00:05:33.280 no a girl that sleeps with a lot of guys that's a skirt jonathan 1.00

00:05:35.920 so what if the guy so say it's the other way around then and the guy sleeps over with over a hundred

00:05:40.880 he's okay it's not the same thing

00:05:42.080 he's a homemaker so why is it not the same thing a guy can never be a hoe because this 0.99

00:05:46.640 plan a guy can never be a hoe they're praying just about bro bro let him finish 1.00

00:05:51.600 it's a yes or no hey let him finish let him finish i'm mad i didn't know you was on a like

00:05:56.320 two like this bro like i'm mad who's a decent guy that would marry a virgin like a normal guy

00:06:01.840 not married i'm not living in the 19th century i'm not living in the 19th century

00:06:05.360 okay okay let him finish go ahead cool listen bro cool so a guy yeah when we think about

00:06:11.920 guys we think about them cool they're a bit like they look at other girls this and that

00:06:16.160 when you think about a girl from the asian times she stays to one why is it always about girls though 0.99

00:06:20.800 why can't we aim it on men he's the world the world doesn't care if you do what's easy it is 0.98

00:06:27.440 easy as a woman to get sex i could walk down the street and say have sex with me and there'd be 10 1.00

00:06:32.320 takers it's not that much but but but a man it's hard for him to get sex wait the world looks up to 0.93

00:06:39.280 what's hard it doesn't reward what's cool and because it's easy for a guy to say get sex yeah

00:06:45.120 like it's not valued if he has sex or not because it's easy but for a girl if she protects her energy

00:06:49.200 protects her like having sex with other guys that makes them more valuable you understand because

00:06:54.000 everyone wants you and when you like disappear from that then you're going to be more valuable

00:06:58.800 because everyone wants you but you're not having it i agree but when a guy every like not everyone

00:07:03.840 wants him you know i'm saying but if you can get into the circles that can get him to have a lot of 0.93

00:07:07.520 pussy then he's valuable as well jonathan it's not the opposite you know i'm saying you said that 0.99

00:07:11.920 you don't agree with um us calling women hoes but if a hoe is someone that slept with a lot of people 1.00

00:07:17.760 what else would you call it no because it's only referred to the female like it's cool if if that's 0.99

00:07:22.800 what a hoe is then cool men hoes as well simple as a man can't be a hoe 1.00

00:07:31.200 guys stop wait yeah we're 50 super chat oh 50 super chat okay guys stop interrupting

00:07:38.880 okay thank you um i forgot even what i was asking um yeah so wait why do you why do you find that

00:07:45.840 offensive because i think you were i was actually wasn't talking i was talking i was wait i wasn't

00:07:49.680 talking to you i was talking to her because you're the one that said it yeah sorry what was what did

00:07:53.120 you say um you said that you think it's like offensive when men call women hoes so i'm asking 0.95

00:07:57.280 why because why should we have a name for what we do but when men say men if a guy if a guy's a plumber

00:08:05.120 you call him a plumber right yeah i know but it because i've mentioned that i've slept i've got a high

00:08:10.560 count and i'm sitting right next to you it feels like it's aimed at me it's not though it's not but it

00:08:15.760 feels like that listen listen like you prefer what's your preferences guys what's your preference

00:08:20.320 like rich tall handsome their personality they've got yeah strong let's say he's like a waiter yeah

00:08:26.320 he's a broke boy waiter someone that's power he's got a personality he's not powerful you know

00:08:30.640 i'm saying he's nobody no one knows him no one respects him you don't go for him right you go for

00:08:35.760 the strong guy do you know what i'm saying that has experience that got us rich he's strong you know

00:08:40.640 i'm saying same with us we go for girls that are inexperienced that have no body count except from 1.00

00:08:46.080 us and you can't you can't blame us for that yeah you can't blame us for that i've just never

00:08:50.640 looked at it in that way do you know what i'm saying because you have preferences we have preferences

00:08:54.480 and then when we call you a ho like same way as you calling the guy i want to go yeah he's a broke 0.97

00:08:59.360 boy well you might find that offensive same with us same with us same with us i mean they put it in

00:09:05.360 the media i don't want no scrub like you can call a guy broke in the media

00:09:27.840 you stop talking so i oh i'm watching bro you have to talk talking over me but i don't

00:09:32.240 talk to whoever you do it don't stop talking so that's when i started talking you guys actually

00:09:38.000 both keep interrupting him i'm gonna let you go exactly anyway you made me forget what i was gonna

00:09:42.240 say giovanni i'm gonna win anyway yeah a girl that's a skirt we can call them a skirt in peace just like 1.00

00:09:48.560 a girl can call a broke boy broke and a guy that works in madonna's like ah you know what i'm saying

00:09:55.040 easier now don't start talking about girls of 100 plus body count now i can't be asked for it

00:10:00.320 because the the thing is whenever guys have a standard it's like women shame them for it

00:10:05.040 i mean once you see this it's kind of hard to unsee it it's like because if a guy says he wants a girl

00:10:08.400 that's thin what do we call him fat phobic i've never heard of that you've never heard of fat phobic

00:10:14.320 no it's the first time i've heard it oh okay okay um but if a guy wants if a guy wants a girl that

00:10:20.880 he says isn't a hoe it's like then we shame him for saying that she's a hoe if a guy if a guy says he 0.93

00:10:25.440 wants a girl that that's like whenever guys say they want have a standard it's like women always 1.00

00:10:30.400 shame him for it i think it's perfectly acceptable for guys to be like do you know what you slept with

00:10:36.080 bad girls that's kind of hoish but we have to be as men understand that it's the same back if you 0.94

00:10:42.000 step before that she sucked that money okay i'll address that wait wait but that's not 0.81

00:10:46.720 that's what you're saying it's not equal you're not saying it's equal between men and women that's 0.92

00:10:49.840 what you're saying because it's not because men why is it not equal between men and women

00:10:53.520 jesus christ i understand what you mean

00:10:56.560 you're not letting me finish okay you're gonna have to go if you keep doing that okay um no because

00:11:02.560 it's not the same it's like what women want from men and what men want from women is not the same so you

00:11:06.560 same so you can say oh it should be equal but it's not and like no girl is sliding into drake's dm

00:11:12.640 saying oh i wonder what his body count is they don't give a but no guy is either no guys messaging

00:11:20.160 beyonce going what's your body count no one's saying that men aren't doing that either yes they do

00:11:26.080 men do care when it comes to relationships there's just a study that came out from girls that have been 0.87

00:11:30.320 on only fans saying that 75 of them have had issues from doing only fans men do care about purity

00:11:37.040 they do okay but well i will say that we can both agree only fans is the kind of thing that where

00:11:42.560 people have been exploiting themselves to an un-average degree can you not agree what makes you think 0.81

00:11:48.240 that bro bro are you one only fans are you earning fans showing your butt and your hips i'm a manager 0.67

00:11:52.640 bro what are you are you one of the only fans showing your body what have you got to say about it bro 0.62

00:11:56.640 i'm saying are you one only fan showing your body i'm a manager and i understand what the girls 1.00

00:12:00.480 going through tell me what you're saying no but are you doing tell me what you're saying i'm i'm saying

00:12:03.920 are you saying what are you saying if you listen you're here so he's he's telling you that he he

00:12:08.960 manages girls that do only fans all right what are you trying to say no 100 but that's completely

00:12:13.040 irrelevant what are you saying then bro it's easy brother you're just shouting bro i can't

00:12:16.400 what are you saying go to the next question please what are you saying about only fans girls i don't

00:12:20.880 understand i think he was asking you a question all right what's he asking me that's what i don't know

00:12:24.560 thank you i i would say would you do only fans but if you're a manager why would i do only fans i

00:12:30.000 might go is there a market for guys i think the answer is there's not just girls that do it listen 0.97

00:12:36.720 cool there's a market for everything right yeah the majority of the market for only fans is for girls

00:12:41.600 jonathan there's more lonely girls the guys are there jonathan there's not too many lonely girls

00:12:45.840 jonathan there's too many lonely guys that's why the market's big for women that do only fans 1.00

00:12:50.560 not for guys taking guys are still gonna watch only fans yeah would you say i said guys in a

00:12:56.880 relationship can still watch only fans i'm not talking about it that's why you just i'm saying

00:13:01.040 there's a bigger audience for girls that do only fans than men that do only fans but there's still

00:13:04.720 an audience for men so what you're trying to say bro that girl what are you trying to say that's what

00:13:08.720 we're trying to figure out what did you ask me i'm trying to say would you do only friends

00:13:12.880 i'm not why would i do only friends bro just asking you a question but why would i do only

00:13:17.040 friends we just keep going you're telling me the same thing for a guy to do only fans and

00:13:21.840 a girl to do anything it's the exact same thing it's a platform the same way the same way i use

00:13:27.200 instagram and you use instagram mistakes do you think if i surveyed 100 men and 100 women and said

00:13:32.800 is body count important that it would be equal i think it would depend on where you do the survey

00:13:37.040 if you want to be technical if you want to be technical if you want to be technical depending

00:13:44.160 on what country depending on what age please don't say no i'm saying and i remember earlier

00:13:49.200 when i said please don't say it depends i need a yes or a no that makes it black i need yeah i need

00:14:00.000 do you think it would be equal yes or no what does it depend on this one bro yeah yeah go on yeah you

00:14:05.040 think you would it would genuinely is this survey going around the world you said i can't say the

00:14:09.600 world we can do around the world then if it's around the world then probably no no i would say

00:14:15.760 no okay so you don't think this is disingenuous because you're trying to act like men and women

00:14:21.200 are equal we're not equal no we're not i'm not saying that we are but that's what we're striving

00:14:25.600 for do you not want to be equal but no you don't want to be equal to men then i think that's a bit

00:14:31.200 if i wanted to be equal to men then i would want to be a man it's like women will say they want 1.00

00:14:35.520 equality but they're not lining up to do the hard jobs i think you deserve i think you deserve respect

00:14:41.200 without for you being a woman you don't have to be a man to to be entitled to that person no i think

00:14:46.720 that respectable people get respect i don't think everyone deserves respect yeah no do you think i

00:14:52.720 deserve respect i think if you're respectful you get respect back if you're disrespectful then you get

00:14:57.600 disrespect back but i don't think it's like just deserved i'll be polite you're polite i'll be

00:15:01.920 polite back yeah but i don't think it's like like i think respect is earned it's how you treat others

00:15:08.480 you should expect to have that back whatever it is

JustPearlyThings - August 10, 2023

This Modern Man NEEDS To Be SCHOOLED

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