This Modern Man NEEDS To Be SCHOOLED
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Summary
In this episode, the guys talk about the differences between men and women when it comes to sex. Are men better in bed than women? Is sex better when it's a one night stand, a threesome, or a one-night stand, etc.? Do you prefer a guy that you guide through sex or a guy who you have to guide through it?
Transcript
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actually i have a question has a guy ever been bad in bed and have you ever thought of someone else
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no i've never thought of someone else but i've been have you ever thought that it was bad
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yeah and how would you know it was bad because i've had others that were better exactly excuse
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me what you like can i comment all right but how would you know what you like if you didn't know
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any different because surely like if you let's just so if you like how everyone likes to be
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pleasured differently so if they're you wrong you just guide them through it oh like this is what
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i would prefer if you could do that and you work as a team do you want a guy that you have to guide
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through it i mean yeah because you get to know each other's body would you prefer a guy that
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you had to guide through it or would you prefer a guy that knows what he's doing i think i'd guide
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to be honest like what okay the best sex you ever had was it a guy who knew what he was doing or a
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guy you had to guide through it a guy who knew what they was doing well the best sex i ever had
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yeah it was when i flipped the girl upside down yeah in my arms i dashed her on the bed easy as bro
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she loved it it's not like she oh do this birkin do that birkin oh please don't do this do this
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way did that way like allow yourself bro are we talking about one night stands as a man you need
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to know what you're doing bro easy as whether it's your one night stand whether it's your average
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girlfriend you need to know you need to know what you're doing about it you know what i'm saying
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hold on hold on there's a there's a point that i interesting point that i think that everybody
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skipped over nobody nobody commented on it she said the fact that if a man slept with 80 80 people
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that you might be the one you should think i swear he was agreeing with that bro no no what did pearl
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say beginning no i did not agree with that the beginning of the show pearl said oh if a guy slept
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with 200 guys i like i wouldn't think that he'd be willing to settle down for me you see the mentality
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difference when a woman slept with 200 bodies she's looking like oh the man should be like okay well
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he should believe that i'm ready to settle down because he's that special he's that one but the
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woman's perspective from pearl was if a man slept with 200 bodies i don't think he'd be willing to
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settle down so you see the mentality difference and how it matters nobody everybody skipped over that
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fact that's right but it doesn't repulse me like the same way like guy when guys hear a high body
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count in general it repulses them and and you've all you all know that innately because you also most of
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you said you've lied about it i think i think wait wait wait and so and so that but for me it's
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like it doesn't repulse me i'm just like the odds are not in my favor but you know bro yeah i'm talking
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about the expectation right a girl that slept with 80 guys oh you're like bergen's talking about yeah
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yeah you're saying your guys the expectation is he should understand that i'm giving my attention and my
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loyalty my sexual exclusivity to him and by doing that he should understand that he is the one but
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from a woman's perspective i don't think it would like you said from your perspective i don't think
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that it's the same it's a it's a complete difference i'm curious what i don't understand what you just
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said bro do you know if i'm with a girl i don't understand what i just said if i'm with a girl and
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she stepped with 200 men and she's let's say loose like that it could be whatever it is but when she's with
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me it's completely different why but why because she would respect the love that she has for me and
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it'll be different that's how it works it's not that's how it works if you're gonna judge a girl
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i'll be surprised if you don't get a divorce bro i'm i'm just going to go with a girl that has 200
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bodies bro be with a girl that's a virgin and you will see what happens i'm just being i'm just being
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real what's gonna possibly happen if i'm a virgin what's gonna happen there's a few things possibly
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happen if i get married to a virgin it doesn't it doesn't make it you're you're saying whether
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a girl's a virgin or not makes who they are that's completely false that's that's what you are saying
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that baffles me about you it's like i could give you numbers on it and no no wait wait you you wait
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it's like i could give you numbers on it let's say virgins are better choices for wives
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virgins have worse outcomes and there are multiple studies from different places around the world
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and you still have the same opinion it's like weird to me no i think you could find statistics
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anywhere personally um and i think at the end of the day when it comes when it comes to real life just
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anecdotally every situation is different and we can all agree on that stop just anecdotally you know
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that the the women that sleep with more people um you know they don't have happy relationships you
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you know and this is the thing you can say this is why i think like men like you to be honest like
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respectfully but it's like you lie to women and you act like because because you guys always do this
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you say you don't care but the woman you guys pick is never that you know guys don't pick
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whore you guys don't that's you just assuming no because i see it i see it happening i see it
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happening let my man here pick a skirt get married to have kids of her and let's see how it ends up
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i think the fact that he's using the term of skit is already it's already your class listen listen
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so i think is that a british i don't actually know that it means someone's a ho
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listen bro listen for one time bro no when i when i when i say skirt i mean a ho
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jonathan so you're basically saying that i'm a ho pretty much
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i mean by a skirt is yeah a girl a guy that sleeps with a lot of girls jonathan
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no a girl that sleeps with a lot of guys that's a skirt jonathan
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so what if the guy so say it's the other way around then and the guy sleeps over with over a hundred
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he's a homemaker so why is it not the same thing a guy can never be a hoe because this
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plan a guy can never be a hoe they're praying just about bro bro let him finish
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it's a yes or no hey let him finish let him finish i'm mad i didn't know you was on a like
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two like this bro like i'm mad who's a decent guy that would marry a virgin like a normal guy
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not married i'm not living in the 19th century i'm not living in the 19th century
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okay okay let him finish go ahead cool listen bro cool so a guy yeah when we think about
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guys we think about them cool they're a bit like they look at other girls this and that
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when you think about a girl from the asian times she stays to one why is it always about girls though
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why can't we aim it on men he's the world the world doesn't care if you do what's easy it is
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easy as a woman to get sex i could walk down the street and say have sex with me and there'd be 10
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takers it's not that much but but but a man it's hard for him to get sex wait the world looks up to
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what's hard it doesn't reward what's cool and because it's easy for a guy to say get sex yeah
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like it's not valued if he has sex or not because it's easy but for a girl if she protects her energy
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protects her like having sex with other guys that makes them more valuable you understand because
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everyone wants you and when you like disappear from that then you're going to be more valuable
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because everyone wants you but you're not having it i agree but when a guy every like not everyone
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wants him you know i'm saying but if you can get into the circles that can get him to have a lot of
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pussy then he's valuable as well jonathan it's not the opposite you know i'm saying you said that
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you don't agree with um us calling women hoes but if a hoe is someone that slept with a lot of people
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what else would you call it no because it's only referred to the female like it's cool if if that's
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what a hoe is then cool men hoes as well simple as a man can't be a hoe
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guys stop wait yeah we're 50 super chat oh 50 super chat okay guys stop interrupting
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okay thank you um i forgot even what i was asking um yeah so wait why do you why do you find that
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offensive because i think you were i was actually wasn't talking i was talking i was wait i wasn't
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talking to you i was talking to her because you're the one that said it yeah sorry what was what did
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you say um you said that you think it's like offensive when men call women hoes so i'm asking
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why because why should we have a name for what we do but when men say men if a guy if a guy's a plumber
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you call him a plumber right yeah i know but it because i've mentioned that i've slept i've got a high
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count and i'm sitting right next to you it feels like it's aimed at me it's not though it's not but it
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feels like that listen listen like you prefer what's your preferences guys what's your preference
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like rich tall handsome their personality they've got yeah strong let's say he's like a waiter yeah
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he's a broke boy waiter someone that's power he's got a personality he's not powerful you know
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i'm saying he's nobody no one knows him no one respects him you don't go for him right you go for
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the strong guy do you know what i'm saying that has experience that got us rich he's strong you know
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i'm saying same with us we go for girls that are inexperienced that have no body count except from
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us and you can't you can't blame us for that yeah you can't blame us for that i've just never
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looked at it in that way do you know what i'm saying because you have preferences we have preferences
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and then when we call you a ho like same way as you calling the guy i want to go yeah he's a broke
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boy well you might find that offensive same with us same with us same with us i mean they put it in
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the media i don't want no scrub like you can call a guy broke in the media
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you stop talking so i oh i'm watching bro you have to talk talking over me but i don't
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talk to whoever you do it don't stop talking so that's when i started talking you guys actually
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both keep interrupting him i'm gonna let you go exactly anyway you made me forget what i was gonna
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say giovanni i'm gonna win anyway yeah a girl that's a skirt we can call them a skirt in peace just like
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a girl can call a broke boy broke and a guy that works in madonna's like ah you know what i'm saying
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easier now don't start talking about girls of 100 plus body count now i can't be asked for it
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because the the thing is whenever guys have a standard it's like women shame them for it
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i mean once you see this it's kind of hard to unsee it it's like because if a guy says he wants a girl
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that's thin what do we call him fat phobic i've never heard of that you've never heard of fat phobic
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no it's the first time i've heard it oh okay okay um but if a guy wants if a guy wants a girl that
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he says isn't a hoe it's like then we shame him for saying that she's a hoe if a guy if a guy says he
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wants a girl that that's like whenever guys say they want have a standard it's like women always
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shame him for it i think it's perfectly acceptable for guys to be like do you know what you slept with
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bad girls that's kind of hoish but we have to be as men understand that it's the same back if you
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step before that she sucked that money okay i'll address that wait wait but that's not
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that's what you're saying it's not equal you're not saying it's equal between men and women that's
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what you're saying because it's not because men why is it not equal between men and women
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you're not letting me finish okay you're gonna have to go if you keep doing that okay um no because
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it's not the same it's like what women want from men and what men want from women is not the same so you
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same so you can say oh it should be equal but it's not and like no girl is sliding into drake's dm
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saying oh i wonder what his body count is they don't give a but no guy is either no guys messaging
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beyonce going what's your body count no one's saying that men aren't doing that either yes they do
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men do care when it comes to relationships there's just a study that came out from girls that have been
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on only fans saying that 75 of them have had issues from doing only fans men do care about purity
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they do okay but well i will say that we can both agree only fans is the kind of thing that where
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people have been exploiting themselves to an un-average degree can you not agree what makes you think
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that bro bro are you one only fans are you earning fans showing your butt and your hips i'm a manager
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bro what are you are you one of the only fans showing your body what have you got to say about it bro
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i'm saying are you one only fan showing your body i'm a manager and i understand what the girls
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going through tell me what you're saying no but are you doing tell me what you're saying i'm i'm saying
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are you saying what are you saying if you listen you're here so he's he's telling you that he he
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manages girls that do only fans all right what are you trying to say no 100 but that's completely
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irrelevant what are you saying then bro it's easy brother you're just shouting bro i can't
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what are you saying go to the next question please what are you saying about only fans girls i don't
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understand i think he was asking you a question all right what's he asking me that's what i don't know
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thank you i i would say would you do only fans but if you're a manager why would i do only fans i
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might go is there a market for guys i think the answer is there's not just girls that do it listen
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cool there's a market for everything right yeah the majority of the market for only fans is for girls
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jonathan there's more lonely girls the guys are there jonathan there's not too many lonely girls
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jonathan there's too many lonely guys that's why the market's big for women that do only fans
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not for guys taking guys are still gonna watch only fans yeah would you say i said guys in a
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relationship can still watch only fans i'm not talking about it that's why you just i'm saying
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there's a bigger audience for girls that do only fans than men that do only fans but there's still
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an audience for men so what you're trying to say bro that girl what are you trying to say that's what
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we're trying to figure out what did you ask me i'm trying to say would you do only friends
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i'm not why would i do only friends bro just asking you a question but why would i do only
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friends we just keep going you're telling me the same thing for a guy to do only fans and
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a girl to do anything it's the exact same thing it's a platform the same way the same way i use
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instagram and you use instagram mistakes do you think if i surveyed 100 men and 100 women and said
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is body count important that it would be equal i think it would depend on where you do the survey
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if you want to be technical if you want to be technical if you want to be technical depending
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on what country depending on what age please don't say no i'm saying and i remember earlier
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when i said please don't say it depends i need a yes or a no that makes it black i need yeah i need
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do you think it would be equal yes or no what does it depend on this one bro yeah yeah go on yeah you
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think you would it would genuinely is this survey going around the world you said i can't say the
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world we can do around the world then if it's around the world then probably no no i would say
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no okay so you don't think this is disingenuous because you're trying to act like men and women
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are equal we're not equal no we're not i'm not saying that we are but that's what we're striving
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for do you not want to be equal but no you don't want to be equal to men then i think that's a bit
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if i wanted to be equal to men then i would want to be a man it's like women will say they want
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equality but they're not lining up to do the hard jobs i think you deserve i think you deserve respect
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without for you being a woman you don't have to be a man to to be entitled to that person no i think
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that respectable people get respect i don't think everyone deserves respect yeah no do you think i
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deserve respect i think if you're respectful you get respect back if you're disrespectful then you get
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disrespect back but i don't think it's like just deserved i'll be polite you're polite i'll be
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polite back yeah but i don't think it's like like i think respect is earned it's how you treat others
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you should expect to have that back whatever it is