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00:00:00.000 have you ever flirted with another guy in a relationship while you're in a relationship

00:00:05.200 well from when you're saying that putting certain pictures up is basically cheating

00:00:08.480 then i would have to say yeah yeah okay and did that did that really have to do with him

00:00:14.960 was he doing something wrong i would have to say yeah because obviously if i'm seeking

00:00:19.520 attention then it means i'm not getting attention from my mom okay okay so you did it to like get

00:00:23.600 back at him i wouldn't i wouldn't say as i get back but it's something that we crave as women

00:00:28.480 we need that attention and we need that if you're in a relationship it's something that your man

00:00:32.160 should be giving you anyway and if he's not giving it to you you're going to seek it elsewhere do you

00:00:35.920 think men should break up with women that do that yeah no he's like yeah tell me why because i think 0.99

00:00:43.360 if you want if your woman cheats on you to me it's done it's no coming back again it depends on on 0.94

00:00:47.760 her definition of cheating that's why i was saying about she has like no i'm saying i'm saying like

00:00:53.440 uh pictures no no no i think that we can work out yeah but to me that's the equivalent like you can

00:01:00.080 work out a picture no no i can work out a picture but i can't work out yeah sex with another man that's

00:01:05.440 like right but here's the thing about women you can't i i don't know it's always very weird because 0.67

00:01:13.040 if you think about it if you if your woman is doing something that is affecting the relationship

00:01:19.360 and you ask her to stop and she doesn't stop it immediately i don't think there's anything to work

00:01:23.600 out i mean pictures you can i think some people have been doing that for since they were like 14

00:01:29.120 it's become a habit it's not even like they're doing it for attention anymore it's become like uh

00:01:33.680 that's how they function social yeah it's become a it's a cloud yeah it's become something that

00:01:38.880 they've been doing all their lives so i think people just need to heal that's what i'll say before

00:01:43.520 you're getting a relationship just heal i think i think women i think we shouldn't heal yeah no no 1.00

00:01:50.400 yeah yeah yeah yeah i think this is yeah this is this is no no this is what i think um women like 1.00

00:01:58.880 got into therapy to like control men yeah and just tell them yeah and i think the women will send the 1.00

00:02:05.280 men to therapy to just confuse them now i'm not saying there's not exceptions i'm sure there's like

00:02:10.240 maybe it helped you personally but i'm just talking personal choice yeah yeah yeah well i'm not

00:02:14.960 again i'm not talking about you but i think in general when i hear the word trauma when i hear the

00:02:20.560 word um therapy i'm like red flag why right because it's women-led i think women are men really

00:02:28.480 shouldn't get like advice and like guidance from women i think that's your wife or your girlfriend's 1.00

00:02:35.200 job what's the point of being with them no i think the women should be guided by the men 0.99

00:02:40.320 i think like that goes back to the we're equal basically obey the woman should basically obey 0.98

00:02:45.840 she's getting it yes yes i don't i think like um because the thing is that what they would do and

00:02:51.760 this happens in a lot of christian like churches as they infiltrated the churches in the early the late

00:02:57.360 1800s early 1900s and basically like weaponized scripture and like rewrote scripture to like go

00:03:03.520 towards a more egalitarian model that's why they'll be like submit to you up to each other

00:03:07.600 all that it's like rewritten but you know what i went to ghana i was in ghana holiday and i actually

00:03:12.560 found out uh the ashanti tribe actually the queen went like the king has to go to the queen for advice

00:03:18.400 so they make sure that the queen is older than the king and actually that's so in ashanti tribe your wife 0.95

00:03:23.840 can't be your queen it has to be your older sister or your auntie someone that you can actually take

00:03:28.480 advice from so i wouldn't say do you think tribes like that like typically have stood the test of 1.00

00:03:33.920 time i mean across the world i mean where i mean with their habitat and how their cultural maneuvers

00:03:41.440 helped them i mean they they they still still no no i'm saying like like do you think it's common

00:03:46.720 for female-led societies no it's not a female-led it's not a female-led society just to the king the

00:03:51.840 king is to the king i'm talking about advice okay like if let's say another tribe came to invade

00:03:58.000 he the king doesn't take advice from anyone but the queen but the queen is older than the king

00:04:02.640 so they flip longer and i guess they have more um i don't know what women have special stuff the 1.00

00:04:07.920 women may embody the men wouldn't be i think our person the king has like if there's an invasion

00:04:17.200 the king doesn't he does not his generals he does no no no no advice he does consult with generals but to

00:04:23.360 make setting moves the only person that can that he goes to in private is the queen so the queen

00:04:29.840 says okay you know what i think you just have to in private to go and sleep with her brother it's a 0.99

00:04:33.840 sister that's what it's a sister it's a sister yeah you can't your wife is no your wife is no queen if

00:04:40.800 you are king in ashanti what how big is this tribe it's a shanti tribe i don't know anything about the

00:04:47.440 ashanti i don't i'm sorry yeah no it's fine it's fine i just i just know typically tribes that get

00:04:53.680 wisdom from women haven't stood the test no they i mean they have the whole carnal score no no no i'm 0.93

00:04:59.120 saying in general yeah yeah i understand that but what what i'm trying to say is we've seen women tear down 1.00

00:05:05.360 kingdoms if they were not smart there then they won't be able to manipulate kings to kill each other

00:05:09.600 if you go back to asian days you've got women actually finesse maneuvering and literally ruling 1.00

00:05:14.080 kingdoms they're more yeah they're more like manipulations and just they're more likely to wage war

00:05:19.920 anything bro no no no i'm talking about you know no men will kill each other over oh um i want this

00:05:26.720 piece of land like and men kill each other over anything so when people bring i'm talking about

00:05:30.800 kingdoms bro i'm talking about women actually kingdoms men kill each men invade kingdoms just 0.59

00:05:36.080 to go and steal iron just to go and steal stone like literally any that that's not i just think

00:05:42.320 that's not fair no no i feel what you're saying but what i'm saying is that though you can't say you

00:05:47.280 you can't seek advice from your wife i think if you trust her that's what you picked her to be your

00:05:51.920 wife then you should be able to in comfort yeah consult with her no one is saying you shouldn't get

00:05:57.200 advice what i was saying is like well she said she said you shouldn't she said you shouldn't get

00:06:02.160 advice from your wife and i'm saying that you picked her to be a wife for a reason so whatever that

00:06:05.360 reason is you should be able to go to her like listen i want to run the spy quickly what do you think

00:06:10.160 i just think of a boss like employee relationship like you might consult the employee but it's still

00:06:16.080 like is your boss really coming to you like that no but your partner is not it's not necessarily your

00:06:23.840 employee i don't think well when you say partner that's an egalitarian model feminists have like 1.00

00:06:28.880 ruined our language and once you hear it you cannot hear it because what does partner like what does

00:06:33.040 that symbolize partnership what is that what does that mean partnership doesn't mean you have to be

00:06:38.080 equal but you gotta be even look i think that's a big i think there's a difference between being even

00:06:42.240 and being equal i i don't think okay all right i think the men should be superior and the women are below 1.00

00:06:47.920 them i mean that could work but they have to be it has to be even the respect to be you they have to

00:06:53.920 be equal like for example like our thing what do you mean what do you mean look at our hands for

00:06:59.680 example right all our fingers right they're all different sizes but they're all equally respected

00:07:05.600 someone came and said which finger would you want to lose you said none but they're not even are they

00:07:11.760 and that's what i'm trying to explain you don't have to be equal to be even you can be you know

00:07:16.000 what i'm saying that makes sense so i think i think relationships that where you're keeping score

00:07:21.600 just don't work and when it's like we need to be even yeah but even i've seen i've seen what does

00:07:27.920 in a relationship even a relationship would be okay for example uh if i go outside and i'll hunt you

00:07:34.080 know what i got out there to hunt okay i come home i expect my wife to have made something cook something

00:07:40.160 so we both have okay even chores well do you quit wouldn't it then be very uneven today

00:07:47.760 well i don't know because because like like for example i mean in 1800 they got eight kids now they

00:07:54.480 get 1.4 so when that like because isn't that the one thing we do bear children actually not every guy

00:08:03.040 wants kids i suppose some guys who don't really care about kids no but like there's some guys who really

00:08:07.440 also in some different vibe okay yeah you're right i want kids but i know some guys right now bro it's

00:08:12.640 not for me i'm like well i think when the government you know takes your kids from you and gives them to

00:08:17.840 the woman it's like a tough yeah but but i'm saying in general wouldn't it just be like if we're gonna go

00:08:23.840 off of even like for example the average man makes more than the average woman but the average woman's 0.98

00:08:29.120 fatter than the average man we're gonna go like it starts with looks right yeah yeah i mean if you look

00:08:36.560 at the severe obesity stats it's like women are like double i mean i'm not i'm not justifying

00:08:42.240 nothing i'm just saying that you know respect can be even across but you don't have to be equal

00:08:47.840 also um i think we've been going at the women but the reality is in truth it's not just the women

00:08:54.480 that have this issue everyone has the issue men men today don't even know what they are meant to be

00:08:58.560 doing in a marriage and that's the fact the truth is the reason why um gender roles work is because 1.00

00:09:05.520 when a woman is taking care of the kids building the home that should be her primary focus how can 1.00

00:09:10.640 she do that and still be making decisions for the family it doesn't make sense that is the role of 0.98

00:09:15.280 the man the man is meant to protect provide and come with the decision making yeah women look for 1.00

00:09:20.960 leaders yeah but she doesn't have to decide though i'm not saying that i'm not i'm not going

00:09:24.640 at you i'm just making a general point on what is happening in society today so it's not just the

00:09:28.560 women that have the problem yeah women obviously don't want to play their part to a large extent 1.00

00:09:34.080 there are still very good women out there but to a large extent women are like trying to be men 1.00

00:09:38.000 and men also are trying to be women so it's like but it plays with the traditional part of it where

00:09:43.920 true marriage is meant to be traditional and most women these days but yeah but it's it's just 1.00

00:09:49.440 interesting because when we talk about like um women making decisions like this wasn't even argued 1.00

00:09:54.960 about a hundred years ago that's my point yeah the traditional part of it is meant to be traditional

00:09:59.760 but the majority of women these days are not traditional i'm gonna read super chats for a 1.00

00:10:04.880 second and then i'm gonna go to the next one also guys i've been tweeting where you can submit

00:10:11.600 questions for the panel on twitter so make sure you follow my i say i always put the title of the show

00:10:18.960 so make sure you follow my twitter or super chats okay dr david baker um according to nop 2017 of

00:10:27.040 men who cheat 56 percent are one-time cheaters 28.5 percent cheat twice and 15 percent are serial

00:10:34.880 cheaters most times it can't it can be worked out that's the other thing i was thinking about it if

00:10:39.120 only 15 percent of men are serial cheaters like i literally was thinking about this why has every

00:10:44.560 woman dated a serial cheater like it's like we almost search for it yeah they're looking for it

00:10:52.720 it's something where they may have cheated once and then they they build up something in their mind

00:10:57.200 that every time they go out they're cheating and therefore they're soon but they don't actually

00:11:00.640 know for a fact yeah that's true we make up stories yeah it's like for whatever easily for what i think

00:11:06.080 that's why social media messes us up so much like i don't think we're meant to deal with that like many

00:11:10.640 problems like i think that's why we get like the abuse like that's always what women say like all yeah 1.00

00:11:16.720 because it's just like in our ear all the time okay um horace davis uh cheating means breaking rules to

00:11:23.440 achieve a goal a woody a woman's body changes for a man where a man is the same or better with many 0.94

00:11:29.280 sex partners righteous polygamy polygamy is a cure in this society c matherson um these women need to 0.99

00:11:36.720 get used to sharing a man because to be honest most average men won't have anything to do with them

00:11:42.000 fs claire um men shouldn't try to lead they will listen to what they feel like fight you when they

00:11:47.920 don't and undermine you for not leading the way they would let them uh spend their life looking for

00:11:53.600 the one that guy sounds like and anyway let me not even say what i was gonna say girl go say it go say it 0.99

00:12:04.400 like an idiot grow horse davis um the devil is a feminist why didn't the serpent talk to adam 1.00

00:12:15.120 c matherson um shy roney in the house um boundless guardian no real men are going to put their hand 1.00

00:12:22.640 on women full stop there's no good reason for a man to hit a woman regardless of what she says or does 0.85

00:12:28.000 men and women are different we can't hold them till the same standard i would agree 1.00

00:12:32.240 if if i would actually a hundred percent agree with that if we admitted that men and women are

00:12:40.160 not equal and men are superior but i think as long as the laws and society are treating us as equals

00:12:47.120 it's equal rights equal lefts that's my opinion on it little uzi um women will cry about abuse or 1.00

00:12:54.080 women will cry about men abusing women but won't go to the police but will go online and tell everybody 0.99

00:12:59.520 else to make them handle it just to find out she's lying in the end um she's getting shot or 1.00

00:13:04.960 destroying the man's life matt butcher guys go ahead and bust your ass to provide and see it go 1.00

00:13:10.240 unappreciated the more you ask um the more you provide the more they want it never ends ask me how 1.00

00:13:16.560 i know matt butcher guys go ahead and bust your ass to bro you said the same thing twice um fs claire 0.99

00:13:23.600 interrogation questions are great until she gets mad then your vulnerability will be thrown in your face and 0.99

00:13:28.800 used to insult you don't do it dr david baker math time uh 23.5 percent of divorces include include

00:13:35.520 a claim of abuse 50 of domestic violence is non-reciprocal 70 is female um 45 of the divorce

00:13:44.400 rate is 45 percent um a maximum of 1.6 percent of men are one-way abusers that includes the expanded

00:13:53.520 definition and false claims c matherson it's not it it is entirely not okay that most women are not

00:14:00.800 virgins fs claire this is why we are walking away we are afraid of women but we must protect ourselves

00:14:06.560 from accusations um when she is mad and our lives are destroyed if they could be crushed by an accusation

00:14:13.520 alone what would they do um see matherson pearl asked the women how much more they expect men to

00:14:21.920 take in the age of promiscuity um for 45 or 42 46 and 2 kanye has to pay billionaire kim kardashian

00:14:32.160 200k a month in child support a man's career is for family a woman's career is for herself and to 0.98

00:14:37.440 remain independent matt butcher thank you for putting male and female relationships back on track

00:14:42.800 that the rest of nature follows into it intuitively don't f with mother nature you will lose keep

00:14:48.000 working on your reading skills pearl um c matherson your personalities are not attractive those women 1.00

00:14:54.800 want us to settle for nothing um tondal are you sam hype girlfriend c matherson they expect us to be

00:15:00.880 okay with an old ran through overweight street woman uh matherson quality women are one percent 1.00

00:15:06.800 quality men are 80 percent c matherson women expect traditional men like our grandfathers 0.98

00:15:14.080 while giving us lenna the plug results um uh therese kind modern women bring other men's kids 1.00

00:15:21.840 enter black dragon uh my 21 year old brings peace sex loyal oh i read that one yesterday that's from

00:15:27.680 yesterday uh let me refresh it real quick guys also make sure you're liking the video guys a like is free 0.64

00:15:34.080 that is the most important metric that youtube uses to push out these streams uh bro horace davis

00:15:40.320 pearl your thought process is sexy jm thank you jmd 749 tell the guy in the baby blue hat that the thumb

00:15:51.280 is king you cannot hide any tools and do anything without it stop simping dude oh wow

00:15:56.640 look it they roast everyone it's not

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