JustPearlyThings - June 07, 2023


This Modern Woman Is CONFUSED


Episode Stats


Length

7 minutes

Words per minute

204.49782

Word count

1,561

Sentence count

1

Harmful content

Misogyny

15

sentences flagged

Hate speech

12

sentences flagged


Summary

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In this episode, we discuss the value of sex and why women should not have sex with virgins. Why does sex matter to women and why do men not want to have sex? Why is sex even a thing? Why do men want to be in a relationship with someone who s not a virgin?

Transcript

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Misogyny classifications generated with MilaNLProc/bert-base-uncased-ear-misogyny .
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00:00:00.000 they don't smart man doing fine i feel like we're smart i feel like we're beating the dead
00:00:03.740 also at this point yeah yeah i just want to know like what your routine of self-worship
00:00:07.820 is like do you do you look at yourself in the mirror should i tell you the truth right
00:00:11.180 okay hold on whoa whoa whoa whoa whoa you just said hold on wait wait wait did you just
00:00:16.720 say every woman here is a pick me more or less not you oh no no hold on hold on wait 0.82
00:00:22.340 wait wait wait wait how is how is understanding how the other species operates and how what
00:00:30.900 they value what they want how is understanding them a pick me when we always say well wait
00:00:35.960 wait wait wait when we always say that they need to understand women they need to understand 1.00
00:00:39.660 women it's like how are you supposed to be in a relationship with someone you when you
00:00:44.840 get in a relationship with friends you try to understand your friends who and you want
00:00:48.680 them to understand you so you can grow that relationship so you can be the best friend
00:00:52.640 they have in that relationship how are you going to be one-sided and say oh we don't need
00:00:56.820 to understand men we don't need to know this about men they need to understand us and how
00:01:00.900 we operate and that's a pick me if we try to understand how they operate to be able to
00:01:05.720 have a good relationship to not be single at 40 with 12 kids to not die alone with a dog
00:01:11.020 how is that a pick me well fucking said because you think that they're understanding or they're 0.95
00:01:17.680 like are they not human no no of course they're human but you think that it is like it's truth
00:01:25.600 it's gospel it's like determining the facts like i i cannot accept that you think those what's true
00:01:33.340 what's true like what's gospel you you saying that oh um certain women don't deserve certain things 1.00
00:01:42.320 like because that's their perspective and their understanding we all must now accept that as it's
00:01:49.360 it's choice it's choices have consequences and if you and if you choose and if you choose to make
00:01:54.240 certain decisions the consequences that most men will not want to court you and the ones that do you
00:01:59.040 will not like so do you you believe that every single woman should be courted i do why you think
00:02:04.720 they're entitled to that yeah so then do you believe because we're talking about equal equal
00:02:08.400 exchange you right so if you believe all women deserve to be courted why do men not why are men
00:02:14.800 not entitled to sex at the end of it at the end of being courted well yeah if a man calls you why
00:02:21.040 is it guaranteed sex is a person's life sex the point of sex is actually to bring life into the world
00:02:28.400 okay but it's been reduced the value of sex is far more than courting no i i personally it's
00:02:36.720 it's women in the 19th women women women women stop over talking me you've done it so many times
00:02:42.080 the show you need to stop doing it women in the 1950s deserve to be courted because they were virgins 1.00
00:02:46.960 why on earth would a man court a girl that's not a virgin nowadays when you've given it to other men for 0.76
00:02:51.200 free why like i said at the beginning if the point of it is to have good sex someone who's already had
00:02:58.160 sex it's probably going to give you better sex than a virgin yeah yeah that makes sense let me ask 1.00
00:03:05.360 you a question yeah you see what you said there like wait wait but then wouldn't he want it now
00:03:11.120 no no so then why would he court her wouldn't he date her
00:03:20.640 why would he wait for that okay and then i will say
00:03:22.960 what he could go down the street and talk to rebecca and then i will say who's down now and
00:03:28.800 then i will say who's also 25 years old without 12 kids yeah go down the street and talk to rebecca
00:03:33.840 and have and have sex with her straight away and whatnot and then decide what it is that you're 0.74
00:03:39.120 looking for are you actually looking for someone who's going to raise your home and raise your children
00:03:44.800 and look after your home properly and if you are then you should take time to look at that person
00:03:52.080 look at their values understand them properly and spend time and money on them without sex
00:04:01.920 sorry how does eliminating sex get you to that end how does eliminating sex get you there i think i think one
00:04:08.800 uh sex does like um it it fogs judgment for women not men i think so me as a woman yeah so so i'm
00:04:18.240 talking from a woman's perspective because but i'm asking you i'm asking you from their point of view 0.91
00:04:23.200 i don't know men's point of view we're telling we're telling you but you're saying you don't care though
00:04:28.400 from men's point of view why on earth would they court you if you're not a virgin why would they wait for
00:04:33.120 sex when it's not even guaranteed at the end spend money when it's not nothing is guaranteed to them
00:04:38.960 exactly because you're saying you're saying that you're saying that has the most value the fact
00:04:42.880 that the matter is a man is spending his time energy and resources that he has to attain to get the
00:04:48.160 pussy why is the any more valuable let me make a point based on what i said earlier you said for 0.54
00:04:54.880 example that all we're meant to be called great i said to you earlier if a woman is devaluing 1.00
00:04:59.840 herself and disrespecting herself and i'm sure you know girls i know girls that just are out there 0.99
00:05:04.240 and they're married yes they're out there wait yeah wait anyways your world again let me finish my
00:05:10.560 point your world is so let me finish my point so as i was saying so those women that are disrespectful 1.00
00:05:16.560 to themselves and just throwing themselves out there like i said a man can tell a wife material
00:05:20.960 you can tell you can take on one first day doesn't mean you have to call her and take her out take her 1.00
00:05:24.560 out take her out what are you doing with her you should know from that first initial reaction i 0.96
00:05:29.520 should know all right cool what's this person about do i actually like this person spend your
00:05:34.320 time asking the the right questions if that's what your goal is only men that actually want a 1.00
00:05:39.360 woman they'll ask the right questions if they just want to have sex with they're just going to take 1.00
00:05:42.160 you out and have sex if a man is not going to stay right yeah but most women do that nowadays you're 1.00
00:05:47.200 saying you don't but we all know women out there that just give it out and that's the point so most 0.76
00:05:51.280 women don't deserve going simple as unless you put your value up if a man spends his resources his time and 1.00
00:05:57.920 energy on you over time you owe him sex at the end of that no you absolutely owe him sex you owe him 0.81
00:06:02.960 six you're putting a value on sex and it does not you you're the one who just said it was the most
00:06:07.520 valuable thing it is there's no value for it but that's right you're contradicting yourself no no no
00:06:12.720 it's price if you if it's a price you can't if it's a price i don't i truly believe you don't know
00:06:17.520 where the you are right now i believe you don't know where you are i believe you dug a hole so deep
00:06:22.560 you can't get out you're trying to fight you're trying to scratch yourself to go deeper and deeper i don't
00:06:26.400 think you know where you are okay wait super super chat really quick i read i read it's making
00:06:31.040 no reason i read that wait wait wait wait stop stop okay um james ryan do you only keep these people on
00:06:37.840 the show for content all her tics show that she is not going to listen and will never listen because 0.99
00:06:41.680 she already has an established position it's a social media trap and you have to be what your
00:06:46.400 audience wants okay that's it can i can ask a question is there any older women who have the same 1.00
00:06:51.600 mindset as you none that you know no there isn't no so you know you said a lot of your whole friends
00:06:58.240 are married right are there any women who may be more like you are they married as well or what
00:07:04.320 results are they getting yeah actually i have some friends like me that are married that are married as
00:07:08.800 well okay lucky i was just a bridesmaid at one wedding okay so as many of you know i was just banned on
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