JustPearlyThings - March 24, 2023


This Modern Woman Was Not Shy About THIS


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Length

8 minutes

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209.99287

Word count

1,768

Sentence count

153

Harmful content

Misogyny

11

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Hate speech

7

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In this episode we discuss the difference between a virgin and a non-virgin when it comes to sex, and why a virgin should or shouldn t be the one to have sex with you. We also talk about our own experience with losing our virginity and how we dealt with it.

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00:00:00.000 I would I'm quite open-minded with both no no they're the exact same one has one
00:00:05.820 has sexual experience when you have to teach who you're picking I feel like I
00:00:12.660 would just like the fact that a virgin hasn't kind of has no baggage you pick
00:00:18.760 virgin okay you be virgin yeah I guess next okay what about you me I'm not gonna
00:00:23.760 lie it doesn't matter how many bodies you got as a man men are very they like
00:00:30.000 to experience a lot of things in life so if you're looking for a virgin good
00:00:34.020 luck in it so you're looking for the guy that's not a virgin no I'm looking for a 0.98
00:00:39.000 guy that can treat me good in it that can give me what I need experience to do
00:00:43.020 that right yeah I'm not going for a man I never said I would go from okay I'm
00:00:47.860 asking you guys guys are the exact same one a sexual experience one doesn't who
00:00:51.480 you pick in I'm picking the one with sexual experience thank you I don't have
00:00:55.020 time to teach no sorry so we can we can teach each other new things but I'm not
00:01:01.900 right
00:01:04.020 the basics everyone knows that no because you know what I'll go back to the basics
00:01:14.040 But virgins watch porn, so they'll be knowing something. 1.00
00:01:16.600 Say corn, say corn. 1.00
00:01:18.100 No, but do you know what though?
00:01:19.320 Corn is not even close to sexual inter-coron.
00:01:23.520 It's not even close because you watch corn.
00:01:25.320 My point is they see something and know something.
00:01:27.460 So they don't know nothing.
00:01:29.880 No, because every woman's hoo-ha is different. 1.00
00:01:33.440 Of course, that's what I tried to say.
00:01:34.760 If you look into corn, you're going to see a woman 1.00
00:01:38.640 with like, you know, perfect hoo-ha, a perfect da-da-da-da.
00:01:42.440 But then when you see a woman, like a normal woman, 1.00
00:01:45.000 a working woman every day, you know, she doing her thing. 0.99
00:01:47.340 You look at her and it's not even close
00:01:48.640 to what you see on the corn and you're like,
00:01:50.820 hmm, I don't know if I want to do this, you know?
00:01:53.360 But then, you know what I'm saying?
00:01:54.960 You got to, my point is the virgin knows something. 0.99
00:01:57.440 They don't know nothing,
00:01:58.500 because the virgin's been watching corn. 1.00
00:02:00.320 Let me tell you something.
00:02:01.160 There is watching something and doing something.
00:02:04.080 Of course.
00:02:04.920 There's two different things.
00:02:05.920 But they don't know nothing.
00:02:07.080 Well, I can watch the NBA,
00:02:09.260 but that doesn't mean I know how to play basketball.
00:02:11.160 But you're going to understand rules.
00:02:13.500 You're going to...
00:02:14.500 Okay, you know, I'll use my own experience.
00:02:18.260 I was 16.
00:02:19.160 I had watched corn at 16.
00:02:21.460 I lost my virginity at 16.
00:02:23.440 When it came to time for me to lose my virginity,
00:02:26.220 I was nervous as hell.
00:02:27.520 Of course.
00:02:28.360 I don't know what the hell I was.
00:02:29.200 I was like, oh my God, she's coming.
00:02:30.640 And where's the condoms?
00:02:32.140 But I had all of that going.
00:02:34.100 And I'm like, wait, wait, wait.
00:02:36.960 What I'm trying to say is no matter how much corn
00:02:38.780 you've watched, being thrown into the situation
00:02:42.560 is a totally different thing.
00:02:44.120 So it doesn't matter how much corn you watch.
00:02:46.020 Well, my point is, you're acting like a virgin
00:02:47.660 don't know nothing.
00:02:48.500 We don't have to listen to you.
00:02:49.500 We don't have to listen to you.
00:02:50.500 You're a hypocrite anyway.
00:02:51.500 They know something.
00:02:53.000 They do know something.
00:02:54.120 I'll give you a story.
00:02:54.960 Whether they get in a situation,
00:02:56.120 they're nervous or not.
00:02:56.960 You haven't spoken much, bro.
00:02:57.800 Go on, go on.
00:02:58.640 Personally, when I lost my virginity,
00:03:01.500 I'm not going to lie to you, I was so embarrassed,
00:03:03.380 and it was so different from what I'd seen,
00:03:06.020 that I was completely turned off.
00:03:07.860 So there was nothing, nothing happened.
00:03:10.160 Nothing continued because actually, to be honest,
00:03:11.760 I was like, no, this isn't quite for me.
00:03:14.420 But then that also lets you know what you,
00:03:17.020 what you like actually want to have during sex,
00:03:19.700 like the persons, like what they're like,
00:03:22.500 their body, hygiene, all these things you don't even
00:03:25.100 take into account, smells you've never smelt before.
00:03:28.440 You don't understand these things until you actually
00:03:30.400 go to do it.
00:03:31.300 And if anyone has been on a corn set,
00:03:34.020 they'll tell you it stinks.
00:03:36.440 But you don't see that through the screen.
00:03:38.080 You can't smell through the screen.
00:03:39.220 So.
00:03:39.720 It don't always think.
00:03:40.560 See, baby, you got color, but I know that
00:03:42.960 because you respected your time.
00:03:44.520 Not everyone's like you.
00:03:45.660 You know what I mean?
00:03:46.560 I'm not saying that whilst.
00:03:48.020 No, but I'm saying, have you been on a corn set?
00:03:49.700 Of course not.
00:03:50.520 So how would you know?
00:03:51.760 Oh, you're talking about corn.
00:03:53.160 Do we not?
00:03:53.760 Oh, I thought you were talking, oh.
00:03:54.960 Yeah, I thought you just meant in general.
00:03:56.160 No, he said a corn set.
00:03:57.160 Oh, okay.
00:03:58.160 But I'm just, yeah.
00:03:59.800 I was just saying that, like, I haven't been on a corn set,
00:04:02.700 but from my experience, it's like, no, you don't realize
00:04:06.100 what you're getting into until you do it.
00:04:07.340 And as a man, it's so foreign to you that unless your partner
00:04:12.280 is someone who's like really engaging with you and open
00:04:16.520 to communication and actually is just happy for this first
00:04:19.020 experience to be open, it doesn't have to be good,
00:04:21.980 but just open, that's completely different.
00:04:24.380 Not different.
00:04:25.380 And what are women attracted to? 0.99
00:04:28.120 How many times do girls say we're attracted to confidence? 0.54
00:04:30.180 How is a guy going to have confidence if he has no idea what he's doing?
00:04:33.060 Yeah, but it's a thing like, there's a difference between being, like, an intermediate, not knowing, like, absolutely anything,
00:04:41.000 and just knowing a little bit enough to kind of get you started.
00:04:44.000 I feel like he's put virgins in this, like, box to say they don't know nothing at all.
00:04:49.940 Okay.
00:04:50.940 I'm not saying they're going to be the greatest,
00:04:51.940 and going to have the highest amount of education on the fact, but they're going to know something.
00:04:55.940 I just don't know if you've really interacted with virgins recently, because, like, I've gone to, do you know what a pickup artist bootcamp is?
00:05:05.880 So, it's like, basically, men will pay thousands of dollars to learn how to get laid.
00:05:08.880 One out of three men are either virgins or haven't had sex in the past year.
00:05:11.880 Correct.
00:05:12.880 It's very hard for men to get sex, and, you know, talking to some of these guys, like, a lot of them are kind of awkward, a lot of them are shy.
00:05:19.800 It's not like a guy that's charismatic, funny, like, most of them can't even get you into bed.
00:05:24.340 How the hell are they going to have confidence when they get you there?
00:05:26.740 That's the, I feel like that's the extreme example.
00:05:29.240 No, it's not, it's not extreme.
00:05:30.740 I feel like not all virgins are like that.
00:05:31.740 No, no, but this is the thing, like, it's not extreme.
00:05:33.740 If men can have sex, they will. 1.00
00:05:36.240 I feel like that's on a more niche market of men.
00:05:38.960 I feel like most men, most men are not that nervous.
00:05:42.900 Hang on, hang on.
00:05:43.900 And you know why she thinks that, Pearl?
00:05:45.400 Because you're dealing with the top 20% of men.
00:05:47.200 Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah.
00:05:48.600 And so what happens is, right, the top, you've been dealing with the top 20% of men all of your life.
00:05:54.200 80% of men you don't even know exist.
00:05:57.200 80% of men that you walk in, you go Starbucks, you walk down the street, they're doing the, I don't know, the stacking the shelves in Tesco's.
00:06:05.840 You don't even, but hang on, but hang on, you don't acknowledge that.
00:06:10.860 Because the thing is, he may have had something about him that put him in the top 20%, maybe he was tall, maybe he was handsome, whatever it was, right?
00:06:17.360 The top 20% of men you've been dealing with all your life.
00:06:19.960 80% of men you haven't been dealing with.
00:06:21.460 So when you say men are X, Y, and Z, you're talking about... 0.66
00:06:24.960 Let me ask you, let me ask you guys a question.
00:06:26.960 How many people do you think are over 6 foot?
00:06:29.560 Not the majority.
00:06:30.560 Very low.
00:06:31.560 I can't see any nowadays.
00:06:33.560 Very low.
00:06:34.560 Give us a percentage.
00:06:35.560 Give us a percentage.
00:06:36.560 I'm going to say about...
00:06:37.560 45?
00:06:38.560 45?
00:06:39.560 45%.
00:06:40.560 Too high.
00:06:41.560 That's too high.
00:06:42.560 30%.
00:06:43.560 30%, 30%, 30%, 30%, 25%.
00:06:45.560 30%, 25%.
00:06:46.560 15, 20%.
00:06:47.560 15, 20%.
00:06:48.560 I would say 10.
00:06:49.560 10.
00:06:50.560 I never meet guys that are...
00:06:53.160 The guy that you showed me, the guy that you showed me looked tall.
00:06:55.160 5'8".
00:06:56.160 He's short.
00:06:57.160 Really?
00:06:58.160 5'8".
00:06:59.160 But you know what?
00:07:00.160 I rate it though.
00:07:01.160 I rate short guys because they have so much confidence.
00:07:04.160 I love it.
00:07:05.160 You've got to give it to them, but I would never...
00:07:07.160 Do you know what I mean?
00:07:09.160 Stay over there, mate.
00:07:10.160 I personally don't mind.
00:07:11.160 No, if you're not...
00:07:12.160 No way.
00:07:13.160 For me, height is my height.
00:07:14.160 Height is a big, big, big thing for me.
00:07:16.160 Because I want to wear heels.
00:07:17.160 I want to be a...
00:07:18.160 How tall are you?
00:07:19.160 I'm 5'9".
00:07:20.160 Okay, so how tall does a guy have to be?
00:07:22.160 He has to be 6'2", at least.
00:07:24.160 At least 6 foot in it, at least.
00:07:25.160 You're 5'2", though.
00:07:26.160 Do you know what I mean?
00:07:27.160 Because I can't be with a guy that's shorter than me.
00:07:29.160 It just makes me feel like I'm the man.
00:07:30.160 I'm a tall guy.
00:07:31.160 Go on, I don't mind.
00:07:32.160 What if he's...
00:07:33.160 Because I'm 6 foot and I don't mind if a guy is pretty muscular, it's okay.
00:07:37.160 He can handle you, innit?
00:07:38.160 I feel like if a guy is shorter and he's muscular, I don't care.
00:07:41.160 No, I can't do that, you know?
00:07:42.160 You take like a 5'10 guy, muscular guy?
00:07:44.160 No.
00:07:45.160 Yeah, I've gone for guys shorter than me before.
00:07:47.160 Maybe that's because there's only 15% of males that actually...
00:07:53.160 I'm in the top 1% of height for, like, females. 1.00
00:07:55.160 For females, yeah. 1.00
00:07:56.160 I can't be that...
00:07:57.160 Picky, yeah.
00:07:58.160 She's a stallion, though. 0.59
00:07:59.160 I'm not gonna go down to, like, 5'5", but 5'10?
00:08:02.160 I'm 6'2", I don't have that problem.
00:08:04.160 I've done 5'5".
00:08:06.160 100%, same.
00:08:07.160 My height is not an issue.
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00:08:12.160 And we are demonetized on a daily basis on this platform.
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