This Only Fans Model Got TRIGGERED When Pearl Said THIS
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Summary
In this episode, I'm joined by my good friend, Leila, who is a content creator, influencer and social media influencer. We talk about how she got her start on social media, how she built her audience, her plans for the future and what she's looking forward to in the future.
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of us yeah we'll be retired by them i'm not gonna look much different in five years though do you
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know what i mean so it's like uh i like invest most of my money now so like see like obviously
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i do in the next five years want twitch to become like a bigger thing i don't expect people to like
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have 20 000 viewers in the next right but my thing is you guys are gonna live to be like let's just
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assume we all live to be 85 90. yeah yeah okay 85 so it's like what does the second half of your
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life look like lying on a beach enjoying the sunshine but yeah but so i'm just curious if
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you guys have a plan like save this much to get this much money to retire like so yeah right now
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i'm looking to buy my mama a house cash outright because she's been for a lot and obviously then
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renting out the house to her until obviously she gets elderly she doesn't have to worry about anything
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that's all her done and then in that case well i can't have kids myself so i can't physically
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leave houses to children or anything like that but i want to make sure that people around me are okay so
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that my brother and his girlfriend they're looking for a house i would love to be able to have all of
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those there so the people that i love could i could buy houses outright they live in those and then
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obviously it gets passed on to maybe my brother's kids you know okay so you want to invest in real
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estate yeah um and obviously have the production and all the fun stuff that i really want to do you
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can do that up until whenever okay um what about you um so i actually kind of stopped my only funds
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a couple of months ago because i actually make more on tick tock now doing street interviews than i
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did on only find on tick tock yeah the ad rates are so oh no so i get paid by brands to do interviews
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and it's like ugc as well um so yeah and yeah i stopped only funds two months ago because i was making
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more on tick tock you can't get paid that much then because i get paid to do brand stuff and i get
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like only i feel like street interviews is like where it's up though yeah but i've done street
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interviews and i've get paid from brands like brands they they give you good money but it's
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nowhere near as good as only fans well i just got my first five figure deal which i've had five
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figure deals but only fans still doesn't top hey easy girls easy you guys make money you guys make money
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i only ever did tame content so i only ever did bikini and lingerie no no i've never i've never
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done a threesome on only funds no so i only do like bikini and lingerie content on there that's
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what i did that's why because i knew that i always wanted to go into something else i mean i did make
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good money better than what i would have made in a regular job do you regret doing that now that you
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know you could make money with the interviews no because i feel like that helped me to build my
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platform in the first place so i wouldn't be doing what i am now without doing that the algorithm kind
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of picks you up can i ask leila why did you choose not to go nude what was the decision maker um because
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i always knew that maybe i would want to do something else and i know that there's a stigma and that that
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can impact you and also i don't know whether i would want to go back into psychology either okay so
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you're saying there's long-term consequences into the short-term gain for the money um potentially maybe
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but i mean i was always mindful of that most people don't know the difference you're an only
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fans girl regardless of what you do most people don't know the difference yeah like if you see
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something you're an only fans girl they will think that you sleep with everybody you have so much
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porn on there and everything you would have to explain yourself to every single person that knows
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about you i mean i don't feel like i have to explain myself to anyone so i mean i have i have numbers on
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that what what percent of men do you think discredit a woman for a long term based on having an only
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fans oh like every every single person i think it's that men love being with only fans girls you know
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the amount of guys that i wanted to i need a number what percent uh 70 80 80 80 i'd say 90. i'd say
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about 90. yeah like 80 percent 85. like 95. that's 70. yeah i'm like for discrediting for a long term
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yeah yeah i'd say like 90 percent yeah you guys are all good good guesses 90 90 percent of us yeah
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so knowing that do you guys just like expect to like live the rest of your life by yourself or do
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you expect to get married um i don't really care that much um no i mean it's not a bad thing i think
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the thing is is that like you know i know that cucks exists so worst case scenario i could have a cup
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it really doesn't matter if i really wanted a man that badly but i'm bisexual i could have anyone
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okay like if i really want so your your feeling is that they're lying and like most no no i don't
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think they're lying i really don't okay but the thing is is that at the end of the day is that
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most people will be with you if they want to be with you regardless of whatever um but usually not
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true yeah but usually they will be with you and then as soon as you break up with them i know many men
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that have been in love with a chicken they find out one thing about her yeah exactly no but this
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is that they don't dump them most guys will lie so they'll get with you and then and then they'll
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be like i love the fact that you do any fans i love it and then then as soon as you have an issue
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or a problem that's when they're like you're a dirty whore and i'm like oh but you fucked me
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so that's your problem like most guys experiences like the opposite because i've dated guys long-term
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relationships who have said i would never go out with somebody like in the adult industry and then
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they meet me and then we end up being in together for a long time and they accept it because it's me
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as a person that they like love yeah and i feel like the type of guy that i would want would be able
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to look past that exactly yeah but but 90 90 aren't looking past that okay well i'm saying
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10 percent yeah i'll play devil's advocate on two on two sides so one i i don't know if it counts
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unless you like had a kid or you got married you know what i mean like none of this like counts
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unless you're the wife right yeah second thing men do cap about what they'll accept i've had guys come
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on the show and say i would not accept this that you know and then you see behind this well that's the
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thing like like yeah like like the 90 of guys i don't know where the poll came from yeah yeah
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like it's easy for a guy to have a standard behind a keyboard yeah right yeah it's very very very
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different for a man to have a standard in real life when he's got zero options so most guys have zero
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so working working in the porn industry um a corn shoot i even did it
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what percent of guys do you think would accept it just like from because you probably would marry a
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cool yeah yeah because you i'd imagine you know most of them were married yeah most of them get
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married it's like that's my that's kind of my point like it doesn't like we can sit here and
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pontificate about like oh what men find acceptable what men yeah put up with i'm telling you i'm just
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going to be honest i'm telling you i've seen it most men will end up married that's not that's not
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that's not actual marriage that's not actually do you do you know why i believe it because i mean
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a hundred years ago uh 85 of women were virgins so men do adapt to the market they do yeah yeah
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yeah but thanks to sterling's point like 90 of nine i'd say 90 of the time in the corn industry
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that's not really marriage though they're probably having sex with multiple partners if your marriage
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is a definition of marriage very often it's probably not a religious marriage it's a civil marriage
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yeah but they will but they will be together long term and they will very often have kids
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yeah okay and live happily ever after and what about them that's questionable
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i don't think that's the case that's all that matters they'll be probably ending divorce and i have
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daughters that do anything no that's that's completely like not not right that that's just
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a misconception what about the people the content creators that do it together like the couples
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that are doing yeah look at that adam 22 guy right now they're just greedy but they're not doing it
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together they're doing it with other people that's not what you mean it's only if there's someone else
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in the room with you i mean there's a million people watching it they might as well be in the room
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yeah no i think it's different no that's i would disagree with you there but i'd say that's
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that's exhibitionism yeah there are so many people who are into what you just said there where like
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if it's like a couple making of content and you said there's like a million people in the room
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watching it whatever maybe maybe maybe to you guys it's not but to me this that's that's that might as
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well be like cuck holding to me yeah so so like when you get married like obviously it's like whatever
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people are into yeah but when you get married you want to make sure that everything's like secret
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i bet you're into some real freaky shit definitely she's looking at me like i hate you
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it's okay you don't have to say anything you don't because obviously not everyone's an exhibitionist
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thing is we we work we work in the sex industry so we see the reality of this we see the reality of
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people's desires that they will never admit to is there a happy marriage is there a happy marriage in
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the sex industry no the amount of people who are married no not even just the people who are doing
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who are actually the creators the amount of people who come to you who are married and they will say
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my wife won't let me do this can we reenact this and i feel like this is where only fans
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helps i i personally do not enjoy speaking to people who have girlfriends because i don't like
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the aspect of upsetting a woman i don't like that i've had girls message me before i've had this girl
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once who messaged me and said my boyfriend constantly compares me to you i'm like i'm sorry
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and i'll say this to you earlier and i was like i'm sorry like that is a shitty man like i don't even
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know him but it's having that safe space i think some people still don't have the intelligence to have
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the communication with their partner to say i'm into this are we can we try this can we try this and i think
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this is where only fans comes hand in hand because some some people don't want to communicate their
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deepest darkest desires and where they're behind a screen and they don't figure out with that with
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their boyfriend a lot of people will go to their partner and say i'm into this and their partner
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i don't want anything to do with that so then they'll come to people like us or they go to other
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sex workers escorts things like that and then they'll go
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so i need you to do this because my wife won't do it let's be honest every person on earth watches
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porn oh yeah everyone are you lying not everyone absolutely lying but they do but most they do most
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most men but not i'd say there's a movement now but the reason why the percentage of people
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you're going to project that because you guys do it yeah i mean i don't want to i'll counter that with
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one statistic yeah like where does porn hub rank in terms of like the most trafficked websites on the
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planet massively for sure for sure not even that but but then i think there are a lot of there are a
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lot of women i think women have been ashamed for for watching it i think now that i do it i watch it
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less because yeah do you um so what's your exit plan my exit plan yeah i thought i love the porn industry
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at the adult industry absolutely i don't want to leave it nobody there's no reason why you think
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you could do it at 70. why not he could he no no no dude dude dude can't like you can do this
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listen yeah i know there's a guy how did how did you exit uh covet happened sugar daddy
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like what made what made you stop covet happened uh everything stopped work like everyone all the work
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shut down yeah i i was getting all these dms from guys who wanted like help like oh my i'm coming too
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quickly you are getting premature ejaculate like erectile dysfunction blah blah and i started helping
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them out because my background is like chemistry and pharmacology and so i was able to like plug
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that kind of together do you tell them that porn is a reason why they uh you know i didn't understand
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the ramifications that it had on the male brain and the dopamine receptors until i started hearing
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