JustPearlyThings - July 15, 2023


This Question Got the Panel Speechless


Episode Stats

Length

9 minutes

Words per Minute

204.17616

Word Count

1,910

Sentence Count

2

Misogynist Sentences

23

Hate Speech Sentences

16


Summary


Transcript

00:00:00.720 all right if a man were to get a maid a prostitute and a cook what would the man need a woman for
00:00:10.720 to cuddle
00:00:13.920 to listen to him and to speak to him and to be a companion and to grow together that's the
00:00:20.960 prostitutes i do that with prostitutes now i'm sorry i'm not too involved in the business
00:00:27.520 yeah what what services is he buying is it the girlfriend experience yeah this is a high-end
00:00:34.240 prostitute this is like the the epitome well i don't know i mean like maybe perhaps his wallet
00:00:42.080 is getting a bit heavy so he could get a woman in to help him lighten the load a bit oh she like she
00:00:47.040 could work no no she'll spend his money like he's actually physically struggling yeah he's obviously
00:00:54.480 rich he's got a maid a prostitute on girlfriend experience and she's high class okay so yeah he
00:01:00.400 just needs a woman in there what was that phrase you used earlier dispersing the money i love that
00:01:06.160 that is so women like just dispersing the money i'm going to the high street i'm gonna help you darling
00:01:11.120 money disperse it's like confetti isn't it beautiful so what what would you do to compete so you go
00:01:18.480 you i know this is a hypothetical he's got all those things what are what are you like what are you
00:01:23.360 going to do to like this is your dream guy no i i want to be doing those things for a man i love so
00:01:29.920 if i went and you know i loved a man and he had a prostitute and a maid and a cook and he was like
00:01:36.320 i'm happy with them if you can add more then come in i'd be like no i want to do those jobs i'll go and
00:01:41.600 find some man who wants me only yeah let your man lead he wants his prostitutes i'm challenging him
00:01:52.000 what about you um so if a guy has um what what can a woman bring if he has a maid a prostitute and a
00:01:59.280 cook yeah i think i answered this all the things to do with the emotion and emotional side and support
00:02:04.640 and friendship and companionship and uh actually telling him yes i agree with you or no i disagree with
00:02:10.480 you and let's build this path together simple as that but teamwork teamwork absolutely everything's
00:02:16.800 to do female or male is everything to do with the teamwork a family especially a family i could give
00:02:22.880 you a family i can make this house a home i'm also your outlet because men get frustrated who you're
00:02:28.960 going to turn to hey you don't have to pay this to come on my shoulder and cry i'm here for you baby
00:02:34.240 i'm gonna be your backbone i think everybody needs a backbone so if i could ask you that as a woman hey let
00:02:38.800 me do it and if you get paralyzed i will pay this and i will look after you because this is what
00:02:43.680 family is for what do you think listen i know guys that that live like that and um you know but for me
00:02:51.600 it's it's you can have these people in your life but it's not authentic the connection is not authentic
00:02:57.760 you mentioned companionship it's it's it's chemistry it's open heart relating with someone and and when
00:03:04.320 you've got that with a with a woman that that it's amazing you know can i say one thing i do remember
00:03:11.920 my rebuttal of women right now let me just say what was that i don't even remember it was about
00:03:16.960 society when you were like oh lawyers you know you can't pay a woman to after 30 to stay in the work
00:03:22.640 field right yeah and it all comes down to society it's a true point that yes we had this discussion that
00:03:29.280 the older woman is when she has a baby the more likely fertility goes down the baby could come out with you
00:03:34.000 know all types of issues and stuff like that so women do leave the workforce at 30 because society
00:03:39.280 puts that pressure on them to say you need to be married have your children and all that by at
00:03:44.640 least 35 and 35 years old society does not tell you that biology does yeah you're at risk for
00:03:50.720 geriatric pregnancy yeah no society is going like they're doing everything they can to help with this
00:03:55.520 issue but society gives you free mother nature's kind of cruel society gives you free birth control
00:04:01.120 and abortion so i i don't think society but they're also they're also putting resources into ivf and
00:04:07.760 you know facilities to care for like now they're changing that narrative the funny thing is if a
00:04:13.280 woman and it's well and it's also you have less sexual market like you you're less um attractive to
00:04:18.880 guys the older you are i mean that just is what it is like you're i think women you i think women age uh
00:04:25.520 beautifully i think that's how you look after yourself yeah i think like a lot of your options
00:04:30.080 the dating app data is really clear it's it's half of your options are gone by 30 from the time you're
00:04:34.880 18 to 30. half of your options i think that that women can age beautifully but like you know you don't
00:04:41.760 stay as hot and and even and even even even just from a fertility point of view if you're if you're 35
00:04:50.800 uh you're hitting geriatric pregnancy most of the time ivf fails so even if you do ivf after the age
00:04:56.720 of 35 it's probably gonna fail so this idea that we like sell women like we yeah i really don't see
00:05:02.320 i really don't see that they say have all your together by 35 if anything they lie to us and say
00:05:07.200 you have all the time in the world when you don't if you if you're single by 30 as a woman you are more
00:05:12.480 likely to not ever get married or have children than to get married and have children well that's depressing
00:05:19.280 the more we're speaking the more i think i'm a man no but i think about i think nowadays the society
00:05:25.520 is letting you like with people like janet jackson and who else just had a baby old like they're
00:05:29.680 starting to show us that by 50 you can still conceive no but celebrity but celebrities are
00:05:34.960 why would you want celebrities are not you though or they're not the average person yeah so it's like
00:05:39.760 well look at jlo and be like jlo got married at 50 but you're not jlo you know what i mean it's like
00:05:46.240 it's like like the average chick is not going to have jlo results right the average chick is not
00:05:52.160 going to have these ivf you have no idea we we have celebrities that come out all the time and say
00:05:57.680 they couldn't have children like jennifer aniston yet we still focus on the ones that could when
00:06:03.120 really maybe we should put jennifer aniston as the face of the ones that couldn't that cut in yeah
00:06:07.600 i mean it's one of those things where society is trying to tell us now women you can freeze your age
00:06:11.520 you could do this if you really want to have you know children society has to pick do you want us
00:06:16.800 to be traditional or do you want us to be no the women have to pick because the women have all the
00:06:21.120 power we have the most sexual leverage first so we're born with with i don't know what a beauty
00:06:27.680 right we have beauty fertility youth men have to become the things that are valuable to us money status
00:06:34.080 looks i mean look i mean looks is but getting like a woman can just be thin and have an amazing body
00:06:39.280 a guy has to work years to get a good body right lift do all that stuff and so it's like women if
00:06:46.720 we have to go first because we're the ones that have to get married young then we have to stop
00:06:50.480 making women feel bad for whatever decision they make if you stop making women feel like you can't
00:06:54.800 make it you can't make anybody feel anything like like shame it comes from within like i i think shame
00:07:00.400 comes from god i think i think shame comes from god i actually don't think nobody can make anybody feel
00:07:05.440 shame you either say things and you feel a certain way or you don't but think about it most people
00:07:09.600 don't like to be judged right the average person doesn't like to be judged it makes them feel some
00:07:13.680 type of way so to duck judgment what do you do you do things that you may not want to do or that you
00:07:18.960 you know feel like you have to do just so you won't be judged if we if we lived in a judgment free no i
00:07:24.880 actually women women respond really well to social shame i actually think we need more judgment not less
00:07:31.200 and i think it would protect women in the long run because we see the rate of women on antidepressants
00:07:35.360 over the age of 45 if you don't have children it's like one in three are on antidepressants the
00:07:40.640 results of women that like when we're we have when we're more promiscuous and we end up alone
00:07:45.600 it's negative for women but the problem is we have no social shame or stigma from women sleeping around
00:07:51.680 and making poor choices that result in us single and and i actually think women respond very well women
00:07:57.760 have shown that they respond very well to social shame but they sit there and they try to make a
00:08:02.240 woman feel like you're not a woman or they they give the narrative of you're not a woman you're not
00:08:08.000 good enough of a woman if you don't have a kid if you don't have a family that's what you were put
00:08:12.560 here for instead of just being like well choice what's your choice do you want a kid everybody
00:08:17.280 everybody has a choice but i do think over a certain age if you don't have children like the
00:08:21.760 world kind of will ask you why and but why is that right though what's about gay couples why
00:08:30.560 it's not about right or wrong it's about the way like you know we can call it we can say it's not
00:08:36.080 right but the fact of the matter is people will look at you a certain way as a woman if you don't
00:08:41.680 have kids by a certain age so we gotta stop that we gotta stop no i disagree i because i don't think
00:08:46.880 it's good for society um for women to not have children and it's not good for women it's not
00:08:52.720 good for us oh i guess if we're trying to get back to being feminine yeah but not everybody we could
00:08:58.800 go for two two results here we could say what's good for society children replacing the population
00:09:05.760 that's good for society or if we want to be or if we want to be completely selfish let's just say okay
00:09:11.440 let's do what's good for us as women