This Red-Haired Feminist Got DESTROYED For Saying THIS
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In this episode, we discuss feminism and the role of women in society and the importance of a woman's role in society. Do feminists crave destruction? What is feminism and why is it important for women to be empowered? What does it mean to be a feminist and what is the point of feminism?
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do feminists crave destruction yes explain right here just uh we started off the show with
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destruction ask me the question and then you'll see okay um so she said you said yes why yes
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because the whole point of feminism is to eradicate the importance of men and i don't see anything as
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destructive as eradicating the importance of men in society that's a simple way to put it what do
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you think i agree with what she's saying a hundred percent did you actually agree or you're just
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trying to get to the next person no i agree with what she's saying i think that a lot of i think
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the term feminism has been almost changed in modern day time and made into almost like women need to
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overpower men and women need to take over the world kind of energy i hear that no i don't agree okay
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what do you think um feminism is made to empower women and show men the importance of women in
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society what's the importance of women in society what what's the importance of women in society we
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are society that's not that what's your importance what's your role in society if it's so important
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if you're that's the point of empowering you what's your role well i'm not being funny um without
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where would the world be without women like where would you you've come from a woman you've learned
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most of what you've growing up who brought you up was it your mother or your father who's who's so
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who's got core duties why do men go so hard so the importance of a woman is motherhood no not just
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motherhood come back to me i have to think about it but women you seem pretty set in stone on that i
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think we just saw feminism in real time you said that it's in our role is really important and then
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you just said motherhood which is that existed before the feminist movement motherhood has always
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been important yeah it's always been respected all right you're right and it's pinnacle how do you
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think the world's going to continue to go on without motherhood we agree so would you be here if you
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didn't have a mother we agree 100 exactly so what is the feminist movement done to prove that
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well the feminist movement if you're talking about what um what's it what's going on now the
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empowerment all this girl boss thing that's going on right now no that's modern feminism that's what
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it's evolved to but feminism in itself is made to make the world see the value they used to plan
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assassinations in the early 1900s or feminists well um yeah there's terrorist groups that men and women
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you know it's equality isn't it women can be terrorists too true that's why i think feminism
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in my opinion is the problem when people want to label things you don't want all of the same things
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we're all very different women we have different experiences different careers different ones so if
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you start saying feminism you start labeling everybody it's a problem because a black woman's
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freaking experience is not the same as a white woman so we our feminism doesn't look the same
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so when everybody's saying oh women empower yourselves we can't empower ourselves the same way
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some women work some don't so we have a mother some women are not mothers he's like don't put me
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under the same what is a black woman what does that have to do with feminism it has to do with feminism
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because for example for me just knowing the difference between my empowerment and the empowerment of
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my white girlfriends it's very different i have bigger struggles to overcome so when somebody's
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telling me oh feminism empower yourself we're all the same no we're not we're quite different the same
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way that i don't believe that racism is actually something that many people should be speaking on
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because even that black experience is totally different depending on where you're from what class
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you come from so women are not all the same just because we are women this is like everything you're
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saying is why people think that feminists are just chatting because like what does racism
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feminist so i don't really care and i brought feminism as a as a comparison point because i'm
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just trying to explain that when you put people in the same bag every single time it causes problems
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so you don't actually get to understand what the genuine problem is and you start saying oh
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we want this but then you don't know what it's victim mindset yeah it's it's having a victim mindset
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i'm black i'm a woman i need empowerment i need this to move forward no it's not a victimization it's a fact
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because i know i live that experience you may not and on top of that i'm also an immigrant so i already know
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that my experience is different so when i'm talking about empowerment and you're an immigrant
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that's there's a lot of ways you're victimizing yourself i'm not victimized i'm empowering myself
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because i'm a g i made it through the problem i don't really care about whether or not it was a
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situation but that's wokeness you empower yourself by victimizing yourself no i empower myself by
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understanding that perhaps i may have a bigger hill to climb so i'll train harder it's what you're
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leading with though it's certainly what you're leading with your race your gender and your and your
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immigration of course you're leading with that is that your identity and understand that when i'm a
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feminist too what about what you've done in the world instead of all these other things okay then
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why not leave with those i'm an educator as well okay and i understand the difference between me
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going into that that job versus other people i work with different types of racism what i'm trying to
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say is i'm not trying to make this about racism i'm simply making a comparison to explain but you did
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no no no you certainly did and let me tell you why because i'm making a comparison so it's an analogy
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to explain another problem when you put everybody in the same basket it doesn't work that's why feminism
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doesn't work it's not a good thing because i don't relate to feminists because the problems are not
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just caused by gender the problems are caused by these other factors that you're talking about
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yes but it's caused by so many different things there's different elements to it so don't box
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me in so that's why i don't think feminism is good you neglect the people that actually do
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need empowering and i don't think it's fair to say that she shouldn't lead with her race and
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all of these things because when you look at us the first thing you do see is my race if i am a tv
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presenter you're not going to look at me it's the first thing i see when it's the first thing you say
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when i see you i see a woman i don't see a black girl maybe that's just you but the majority you're
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gonna already have this stigma of me because here's the problem with you doing that i say this with
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love but if you have that top of mind all the time you're gonna suppress yourself but that's literally
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that's life like that's gonna you're gonna suppress yourself we can't change it and that is like that's
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like me assuming that y'all are gonna hate me because i'm a straight white male why would i think
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that about you guys when we could just get along so i don't understand like why are you being so
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challenging when i said because i hate to hear it coming out of your mouth because it's a poisonous thing for you to think
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next to a feminist and i'm saying whatever your empowerment movement is is not the same as mine
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so don't actually label me to be in that situation and say oh women want oh i'm not labeling you i'm
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simply telling you what exactly what you said no no no no exactly what you said what do you think
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about feminine i said i'm black i'm an immigrant all this that's literally what you just said okay let me
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rephrase it so you can understand it please so essentially if i stand next to a feminist yeah for
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example a white woman i don't relate to you because i'm black okay wait wait wait let me finish
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can i finish you're about to say i can't box myself in with you because i'm black that's not
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what i'm saying say it then what i'm saying is i am not the same woman as you what i want and what
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i see to be empowerment is not the same whether it's culturally whether it's racially whether it's
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professionally academically personally whatever we are all very different women cannot be boxed into
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the same box because we're not the same because you're different races because of different
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experiences as women so you're making an anti-feminist you're you're making an anti-feminist
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document but you want to have other you want to have other things to complain about i've got i've
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got a lot of victim balance yeah i know the things that are not right and i know the things that are
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right it's not just black and white there's gray areas in the middle that's why i mentioned for
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example things like race is a gray area in the middle that makes it say oh yeah feminism may not
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actually be as accurate as people are saying that is why people come across feminists and they don't
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know what they want because one wants this the other one wants this and the other one wants this
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because they are different and that is why feminism in my opinion is destructive and i don't think
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she's playing victim i think she's just acknowledging a serious issue in society
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what is racism yes are we gonna act like racism doesn't exist yeah it doesn't racism is not a
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problem that's how they keep people broken at the bottom and arguing about nothing and thinking that
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they're victims all the time it's not it's not a problem when you believe it your existence okay my
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point is your existence is a sum of your beliefs and your thoughts and if you're always thinking
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that i'm a victim because i'm black i'm not a feminist because of this i'm an immigrant then
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you know what's going to happen you're going to stay poor you're going to stay unhappy and you're
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going to see racism everywhere at a certain level of wealth and at a certain level of status people
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never discuss things like race people never discuss like i'm an immigrant so it was hard you just
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want to get to the next point yeah that's why racism is a problem winner winners only see green
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because the truth of the matter is like i own a business right i have a bunch of employees
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if somebody turns up and does their job and they're profitable for my company i cannot afford to
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give a about their race religion hair gender any of that stuff because it's too hard to find people
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that work really hard so a great example of that is lebron james has been in the nba for years because
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he puts out motherfucking results okay and he's not worried and he's not worried and living oh i'm black i
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can't play in the league but you could say that for any i know plenty of successful young black men
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and one thing i have a super big heart for is i play college football and i cannot stand to see
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people put those young men in a box and tell them from the jump that they are not going to have a