JustPearlyThings - This Red-Haired Feminist Got DESTROYED For Saying THIS

00:00:00.000 do feminists crave destruction yes explain right here just uh we started off the show with 1.00

00:00:06.160 destruction ask me the question and then you'll see okay um so she said you said yes why yes

00:00:12.480 because the whole point of feminism is to eradicate the importance of men and i don't see anything as 1.00

00:00:17.920 destructive as eradicating the importance of men in society that's a simple way to put it what do

00:00:23.840 you think i agree with what she's saying a hundred percent did you actually agree or you're just

00:00:28.560 trying to get to the next person no i agree with what she's saying i think that a lot of i think

00:00:33.360 the term feminism has been almost changed in modern day time and made into almost like women need to 0.99

00:00:41.120 overpower men and women need to take over the world kind of energy i hear that no i don't agree okay

00:00:50.560 what do you think um feminism is made to empower women and show men the importance of women in 1.00

00:00:59.680 society what's the importance of women in society what what's the importance of women in society we

00:01:06.240 are society that's not that what's your importance what's your role in society if it's so important

00:01:13.280 if you're that's the point of empowering you what's your role well i'm not being funny um without

00:01:23.040 where would the world be without women like where would you you've come from a woman you've learned 1.00

00:01:29.440 most of what you've growing up who brought you up was it your mother or your father who's who's so

00:01:34.800 who's got core duties why do men go so hard so the importance of a woman is motherhood no not just

00:01:42.640 motherhood come back to me i have to think about it but women you seem pretty set in stone on that i 1.00

00:01:50.080 think we just saw feminism in real time you said that it's in our role is really important and then 0.62

00:01:56.240 you just said motherhood which is that existed before the feminist movement motherhood has always 1.00

00:02:00.640 been important yeah it's always been respected all right you're right and it's pinnacle how do you

00:02:05.440 think the world's going to continue to go on without motherhood we agree so would you be here if you 1.00

00:02:09.360 didn't have a mother we agree 100 exactly so what is the feminist movement done to prove that

00:02:14.240 well the feminist movement if you're talking about what um what's it what's going on now the 0.96

00:02:20.800 empowerment all this girl boss thing that's going on right now no that's modern feminism that's what 1.00

00:02:26.400 it's evolved to but feminism in itself is made to make the world see the value they used to plan 1.00

00:02:33.040 assassinations in the early 1900s or feminists well um yeah there's terrorist groups that men and women

00:02:42.480 you know it's equality isn't it women can be terrorists too true that's why i think feminism 1.00

00:02:49.200 in my opinion is the problem when people want to label things you don't want all of the same things

00:02:55.600 we're all very different women we have different experiences different careers different ones so if

00:02:59.600 you start saying feminism you start labeling everybody it's a problem because a black woman's 1.00

00:03:04.000 freaking experience is not the same as a white woman so we our feminism doesn't look the same 1.00

00:03:08.080 so when everybody's saying oh women empower yourselves we can't empower ourselves the same way

00:03:11.680 some women work some don't so we have a mother some women are not mothers he's like don't put me

00:03:15.920 under the same what is a black woman what does that have to do with feminism it has to do with feminism 1.00

00:03:19.760 because for example for me just knowing the difference between my empowerment and the empowerment of

00:03:25.680 my white girlfriends it's very different i have bigger struggles to overcome so when somebody's

00:03:30.160 telling me oh feminism empower yourself we're all the same no we're not we're quite different the same

00:03:34.560 way that i don't believe that racism is actually something that many people should be speaking on

00:03:39.200 because even that black experience is totally different depending on where you're from what class

00:03:43.600 you come from so women are not all the same just because we are women this is like everything you're

00:03:47.840 saying is why people think that feminists are just chatting because like what does racism 1.00

00:03:51.600 feminist so i don't really care and i brought feminism as a as a comparison point because i'm

00:03:56.000 just trying to explain that when you put people in the same bag every single time it causes problems

00:04:00.880 so you don't actually get to understand what the genuine problem is and you start saying oh

00:04:04.400 we want this but then you don't know what it's victim mindset yeah it's it's having a victim mindset

00:04:09.200 i'm black i'm a woman i need empowerment i need this to move forward no it's not a victimization it's a fact

00:04:14.160 because i know i live that experience you may not and on top of that i'm also an immigrant so i already know

00:04:18.960 that my experience is different so when i'm talking about empowerment and you're an immigrant

00:04:22.560 that's there's a lot of ways you're victimizing yourself i'm not victimized i'm empowering myself

00:04:26.240 because i'm a g i made it through the problem i don't really care about whether or not it was a

00:04:30.000 situation but that's wokeness you empower yourself by victimizing yourself no i empower myself by

00:04:34.240 understanding that perhaps i may have a bigger hill to climb so i'll train harder it's what you're

00:04:39.200 leading with though it's certainly what you're leading with your race your gender and your and your

00:04:44.080 immigration of course you're leading with that is that your identity and understand that when i'm a

00:04:48.480 feminist too what about what you've done in the world instead of all these other things okay then 1.00

00:04:52.560 why not leave with those i'm an educator as well okay and i understand the difference between me

00:04:56.640 going into that that job versus other people i work with different types of racism what i'm trying to

00:05:02.080 say is i'm not trying to make this about racism i'm simply making a comparison to explain but you did

00:05:06.400 no no no you certainly did and let me tell you why because i'm making a comparison so it's an analogy

00:05:11.120 to explain another problem when you put everybody in the same basket it doesn't work that's why feminism 1.00

00:05:16.160 doesn't work it's not a good thing because i don't relate to feminists because the problems are not 1.00

00:05:20.720 just caused by gender the problems are caused by these other factors that you're talking about

00:05:23.680 yes but it's caused by so many different things there's different elements to it so don't box

00:05:27.280 me in so that's why i don't think feminism is good you neglect the people that actually do 1.00

00:05:31.040 need empowering and i don't think it's fair to say that she shouldn't lead with her race and 0.97

00:05:35.440 all of these things because when you look at us the first thing you do see is my race if i am a tv

00:05:39.200 presenter you're not going to look at me it's the first thing i see when it's the first thing you say

00:05:42.080 when i see you i see a woman i don't see a black girl maybe that's just you but the majority you're 0.94

00:05:45.520 gonna already have this stigma of me because here's the problem with you doing that i say this with

00:05:49.120 love but if you have that top of mind all the time you're gonna suppress yourself but that's literally

00:05:53.840 that's life like that's gonna you're gonna suppress yourself we can't change it and that is like that's

00:05:57.520 like me assuming that y'all are gonna hate me because i'm a straight white male why would i think

00:06:01.360 that about you guys when we could just get along so i don't understand like why are you being so

00:06:05.440 challenging when i said because i hate to hear it coming out of your mouth because it's a poisonous thing for you to think

00:06:10.480 next to a feminist and i'm saying whatever your empowerment movement is is not the same as mine 1.00

00:06:15.280 so don't actually label me to be in that situation and say oh women want oh i'm not labeling you i'm

00:06:19.920 simply telling you what exactly what you said no no no no exactly what you said what do you think

00:06:24.080 about feminine i said i'm black i'm an immigrant all this that's literally what you just said okay let me

00:06:30.800 rephrase it so you can understand it please so essentially if i stand next to a feminist yeah for 1.00

00:06:36.000 example a white woman i don't relate to you because i'm black okay wait wait wait let me finish

00:06:40.240 can i finish you're about to say i can't box myself in with you because i'm black that's not

00:06:43.600 what i'm saying say it then what i'm saying is i am not the same woman as you what i want and what

00:06:48.240 i see to be empowerment is not the same whether it's culturally whether it's racially whether it's

00:06:52.320 professionally academically personally whatever we are all very different women cannot be boxed into

00:06:57.280 the same box because we're not the same because you're different races because of different

00:07:00.960 experiences as women so you're making an anti-feminist you're you're making an anti-feminist 1.00

00:07:04.800 document but you want to have other you want to have other things to complain about i've got i've

00:07:09.760 got a lot of victim balance yeah i know the things that are not right and i know the things that are

00:07:14.720 right it's not just black and white there's gray areas in the middle that's why i mentioned for

00:07:19.120 example things like race is a gray area in the middle that makes it say oh yeah feminism may not 1.00

00:07:23.600 actually be as accurate as people are saying that is why people come across feminists and they don't 1.00

00:07:27.600 know what they want because one wants this the other one wants this and the other one wants this

00:07:31.440 because they are different and that is why feminism in my opinion is destructive and i don't think 1.00

00:07:36.800 she's playing victim i think she's just acknowledging a serious issue in society 1.00

00:07:40.800 what is racism yes are we gonna act like racism doesn't exist yeah it doesn't racism is not a

00:07:46.720 problem that's how they keep people broken at the bottom and arguing about nothing and thinking that

00:07:50.160 they're victims all the time it's not it's not a problem when you believe it your existence okay my

00:07:56.960 point is your existence is a sum of your beliefs and your thoughts and if you're always thinking

00:08:02.000 that i'm a victim because i'm black i'm not a feminist because of this i'm an immigrant then

00:08:06.000 you know what's going to happen you're going to stay poor you're going to stay unhappy and you're

00:08:09.840 going to see racism everywhere at a certain level of wealth and at a certain level of status people

00:08:14.480 never discuss things like race people never discuss like i'm an immigrant so it was hard you just

00:08:19.120 want to get to the next point yeah that's why racism is a problem winner winners only see green

00:08:23.360 because the truth of the matter is like i own a business right i have a bunch of employees

00:08:26.960 if somebody turns up and does their job and they're profitable for my company i cannot afford to

00:08:30.800 give a about their race religion hair gender any of that stuff because it's too hard to find people

00:08:36.560 that work really hard so a great example of that is lebron james has been in the nba for years because

00:08:41.760 he puts out motherfucking results okay and he's not worried and he's not worried and living oh i'm black i 0.84

00:08:47.040 can't play in the league but you could say that for any i know plenty of successful young black men

00:08:51.600 and one thing i have a super big heart for is i play college football and i cannot stand to see

00:08:57.280 people put those young men in a box and tell them from the jump that they are not going to have a 0.64

00:09:01.520 good shot at life just because they're black 1.00

JustPearlyThings - August 29, 2023

This Red-Haired Feminist Got DESTROYED For Saying THIS

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