JustPearlyThings - May 29, 2023


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On this episode of we have a very special guest Pearl on the show. Pearl is a woman that has been in the dating game for a long time and has been involved in the business of dating for a very long time. She has been dating since she was in her 20s and is now in her 30s.

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00:00:00.000 I feel like it's a two-way thing
00:00:02.020 You didn't hear what she just said
00:00:03.040 A husband has to come to her already 1.00
00:00:05.080 Exactly, so it's a two-way thing
00:00:06.560 So then why does the wife have to come? 1.00
00:00:07.540 So don't you think, well, it's a two-way thing
00:00:09.500 So if I'm, it's 50-50
00:00:11.780 And then you're both on the same page
00:00:13.420 That's different, of course I can do that
00:00:14.740 But if I'm not gonna do the most and you're doing the least
00:00:17.200 Okay, so I have a question
00:00:18.140 When you go on dates, who pays?
00:00:20.560 He does, but I will pay, I can pay
00:00:22.280 No, I didn't say you can pay, I said who pays?
00:00:24.680 The guy will
00:00:25.460 Okay, so why does he have to invest in you
00:00:27.840 Before you've slept with him?
00:00:29.140 But can I tell you something, Pearl?
00:00:30.200 Why, why, he has to, no, no, no
00:00:31.900 Like, we have to think about this
00:00:33.120 Why does he have to invest in you
00:00:34.620 Before you've slept with him?
00:00:35.640 But I've done that before to men
00:00:36.740 I've paid on first dates before
00:00:38.100 I've offered, like, you know
00:00:39.200 Because I have a kindness in my heart
00:00:40.400 Is that a, I've done it
00:00:43.240 Offered and done it
00:00:43.940 I'm not talking about what you have done
00:00:45.300 I'm talking about what typically happens
00:00:46.900 You're a pretty girl
00:00:47.820 I know these, I know these men pay for you
00:00:49.740 I feel like men, I feel like men
00:00:51.860 Are in a stereotypical mindset
00:00:54.800 Where they feel like they're the big, they're the big man
00:00:56.760 They have to be responsible for paying for a first date 1.00
00:00:59.440 And stuff like that
00:00:59.960 So I feel like that's why they do it automatically
00:01:01.520 Because men are traditional 1.00
00:01:03.040 Men are more, you're right 1.00
00:01:05.200 Men are in more traditional roles than women 1.00
00:01:07.620 So it's like the men are coming to you in a traditional role
00:01:10.840 They're taking you on a date
00:01:11.780 They're paying
00:01:12.360 But you're saying, I can't be a traditional woman for him
00:01:15.480 I can't give him wifely duties
00:01:16.740 When off the bat, before he even knows 0.98
00:01:19.440 If he's going to get sex from you 0.99
00:01:21.080 Which is what men want, right 0.99
00:01:23.200 He's paying
00:01:24.200 200 pounds, ain't nothing to a man
00:01:26.080 Let's be honest
00:01:26.940 200 pounds, ain't nothing to a man
00:01:28.600 Let's be honest
00:01:29.620 200 pounds, ain't nothing to a man
00:01:32.780 Hold on, hold on
00:01:33.700 Let me just, a show of hands here
00:01:35.580 Is 200 pounds, nothing to you guys
00:01:39.100 Raise your hand if 200 pounds is nothing to you
00:01:40.840 If the investment goes right, it's great
00:01:42.200 If it doesn't go right, it's a lot
00:01:43.840 Okay, okay
00:01:44.020 If one, is 200 pounds of nothing
00:01:46.360 So none of these men are men?
00:01:48.440 Of course they're men
00:01:50.340 But there's different calibers of men
00:01:51.640 Okay, they're not the right calibers
00:01:53.720 Yeah, what's the calibers?
00:01:54.560 Yeah, what's the calibers?
00:01:55.680 What's that about?
00:01:56.380 No, but I just
00:01:57.800 No, no, stand on your words
00:01:58.960 I have a certain type of man
00:02:00.340 Like I like a man that's, you know 0.87
00:02:01.820 I want a man that's like a leader in a high position
00:02:05.620 That can teach me
00:02:06.900 Because I want to be in that place too
00:02:08.220 And you're willing to show him nothing
00:02:10.640 No, listen
00:02:12.000 Like I said, 200 pounds ain't nothing to a man
00:02:14.500 You could show him everything
00:02:15.540 And he could possibly not be serious
00:02:18.420 Of you and be speaking to another girl 0.81
00:02:20.120 Or sleeping with someone else
00:02:21.020 And that's the only reason
00:02:22.580 Until I know that you're serious
00:02:25.480 I can surrender to you
00:02:27.340 Period
00:02:27.660 So you're not even respecting a man's pocket 0.92
00:02:29.060 On the first day?
00:02:30.040 Like I said, 200 pounds is nothing to a man
00:02:31.960 That has to be
00:02:32.700 You don't respect the money
00:02:33.780 Because you just said it's nothing
00:02:34.680 Because you're looking at it like
00:02:36.100 Unless he states he's not able to afford
00:02:39.140 To go on a date or whatever
00:02:40.140 No man is going to state anything
00:02:43.360 Man could have his last 200 pounds
00:02:45.020 Bro, you don't date when you're broke
00:02:46.200 No, no
00:02:46.840 You don't date when you're broke
00:02:47.800 Wait, one second, one second
00:02:48.160 You can't say that
00:02:49.220 Because man are dating when they're broke 0.75
00:02:50.560 Well, that would never be me
00:02:52.640 What do you mean?
00:02:53.500 200, if he doesn't want to spend 200 pounds on a date
00:02:56.100 Like what?
00:02:56.960 No, I mean
00:02:57.480 You need 200 pounds on a first date?
00:02:59.660 For what?
00:03:01.440 But that's
00:03:01.880 I didn't ask
00:03:02.960 No, you said
00:03:04.240 I didn't ask for it
00:03:05.880 No, you said 200 pounds ain't nothing to a man
00:03:08.620 To a man, yeah
00:03:08.940 And then when all of these guys said
00:03:11.620 No, that is something to me 0.99
00:03:12.900 You shat on them 0.99
00:03:14.140 You said they're not a high enough caliber of man 0.99
00:03:16.980 No, no, personally
00:03:17.820 But I'm saying
00:03:18.460 From my experience
00:03:19.740 People have paid
00:03:22.220 And I've been on dates
00:03:23.460 And I've never spoke to a person again after
00:03:24.960 And they've spent a lot of money
00:03:25.820 Do you know what I mean?
00:03:26.540 What I'm saying is
00:03:27.220 You're not valuing their time and money
00:03:29.500 Because you think that
00:03:30.640 Every single one of them
00:03:31.600 That's spending that money
00:03:32.380 Whether it's 100 pounds or 200 pounds
00:03:33.860 You think all of them have got it
00:03:35.220 There's some man that probably
00:03:36.260 Have taken you out on a date
00:03:37.040 And that's their last name
00:03:37.760 Probably, but I would never know
00:03:38.660 Exactly
00:03:39.100 So then
00:03:39.640 But you're still not respecting their money
00:03:41.200 I don't think about it like that
00:03:42.640 Exactly
00:03:43.120 Because you're still saying
00:03:44.760 That you can't give them too much
00:03:46.740 But they're spending 200 pounds on you
00:03:48.300 On a first date
00:03:49.060 But I don't think
00:03:49.960 The way guys go on
00:03:51.040 They act like money is nothing to them
00:03:52.420 And they're
00:03:53.100 Do you know what I mean?
00:03:53.780 So why would I be so conscious?
00:03:55.620 Unless I love you
00:03:56.660 And I know about your financial situation
00:03:58.240 It'll be completely different
00:03:58.960 Okay, but this is the thing
00:03:59.840 You're just not appreciative
00:04:00.840 Because you're saying
00:04:02.060 No, you're not
00:04:03.000 I'm listening to you speak
00:04:04.340 Does she come off appreciative
00:04:05.600 To anyone?
00:04:06.420 No, no
00:04:06.960 I'm not an ungrateful person
00:04:08.520 Like, for real
00:04:09.000 Okay, but I'm listening to you speak
00:04:11.160 If I liked a guy
00:04:13.120 And I spoke to him on a level
00:04:14.260 And he came to me
00:04:14.860 And said
00:04:14.980 I can't even afford to take you out
00:04:16.200 In a certain place
00:04:17.060 I would not have a problem with that
00:04:18.360 Believe me
00:04:18.960 Believe me
00:04:19.960 But you just said
00:04:21.620 It ain't nothing to a man
00:04:22.940 And when all the guys
00:04:24.020 But the men are dated
00:04:24.780 Right, but I said
00:04:26.040 When all the guys in here said
00:04:27.140 No, that is something to me
00:04:28.340 To them
00:04:28.720 You said they're not
00:04:30.100 The caliber of man
00:04:31.440 You insulted them
00:04:32.580 No, not really
00:04:33.960 No, I said broke men don't date
00:04:36.800 That's what I said
00:04:37.740 Okay, so a man's broke
00:04:38.800 If he doesn't want to spend
00:04:39.800 200 pounds
00:04:40.600 No, no, no
00:04:40.620 Again, I'm from
00:04:41.620 I'm from a 1%
00:04:42.920 Like top earning family
00:04:44.380 Like broke men
00:04:45.580 Can just not want to spend
00:04:46.720 200 pounds
00:04:47.660 On someone they don't know
00:04:48.760 They don't have to
00:04:49.440 Yeah, but I don't ask for it
00:04:50.640 It's not that bad
00:04:51.080 But you know what
00:04:51.800 If a man really likes you
00:04:53.180 And he's into you
00:04:53.980 He will spend his last 200 pounds
00:04:55.520 On you
00:04:55.840 Without you knowing
00:04:56.680 But I would not have known that
00:04:57.740 Because they go on
00:04:58.440 Like they have money
00:04:59.100 And they go on like
00:04:59.860 Oh, like everything's fine
00:05:01.020 So
00:05:01.380 It's not like a man's 1.00
00:05:02.700 Going on like anything
00:05:04.100 Man's just not
00:05:04.800 We're not going to openly say
00:05:05.960 Oh, we're going to the dinner table
00:05:07.640 The bill comes
00:05:08.320 Oh, you know
00:05:08.820 I can't afford this
00:05:09.600 But some man
00:05:10.180 I've never been in a situation
00:05:11.380 You're never going to be in that
00:05:12.440 I've never been
00:05:13.080 So I can't relate to that
00:05:14.260 What's your name?
00:05:14.860 Royal
00:05:15.180 Royal
00:05:15.700 You're never going to be in that situation
00:05:17.320 Where a man's going to be at the table 0.91
00:05:18.380 And tell you
00:05:18.840 I had one guy say to me
00:05:20.740 Like go for coffee
00:05:21.900 And you know
00:05:22.540 I think he was testing me
00:05:24.460 But I was fine with that
00:05:25.320 Because I actually liked him
00:05:26.300 Like it's not an issue
00:05:26.960 I don't care about the money
00:05:28.220 No, he never
00:05:29.060 But he said that
00:05:29.720 You know
00:05:30.020 I'm not in a great position right now
00:05:31.820 And that's fine
00:05:32.300 Because I knew he was intelligent
00:05:33.380 And I knew that he was someone
00:05:34.660 I could build with
00:05:35.280 Because he's very smart
00:05:36.300 He just wasn't in the right place
00:05:37.660 At the time
00:05:38.120 Now I didn't have an issue with that
00:05:39.500 Unfortunately
00:05:40.080 It didn't work out
00:05:41.060 Why didn't it work out?
00:05:41.780 Well, he's Muslim 0.98
00:05:43.840 Bro, it's not about money
00:05:46.060 Like I'm not a shallow person
00:05:47.700 So please let's not do that
00:05:49.140 Like I know I'm not a shallow person
00:05:50.360 We're just repeating back
00:05:51.580 What you're saying
00:05:52.320 But I'm speaking from my own experience so far
00:05:54.400 I can't say anything else
00:05:55.540 But what I've experienced
00:05:56.300 There could have been
00:05:56.720 At least two of them
00:05:57.720 So I've never had a man
00:05:58.460 That's not been able to pay for something
00:06:00.060 That I'm aware of
00:06:01.080 And he has
00:06:01.780 I've never had that
00:06:02.320 That you're aware of
00:06:03.560 There could have been at least one man
00:06:04.880 That took you on that date
00:06:05.660 That was the last dime
00:06:06.640 Yeah, and I would never have knew
00:06:08.280 And I'm compassionate about that
00:06:09.880 I do respect that
00:06:11.940 But I
00:06:12.580 If you think broke men
00:06:14.140 Shouldn't date
00:06:14.700 Then should
00:06:15.080 Or then 0.99
00:06:15.540 Should fat women not date 1.00
00:06:16.960 What is going to happen? 0.99
00:06:21.720 I just don't know
00:06:22.460 If we have the same energy
00:06:23.320 Do you know what it is?
00:06:24.160 I feel like beauty
00:06:24.860 Is in the eye of the beholder
00:06:25.860 So
00:06:26.260 Money is in the eye of the beholder
00:06:27.800 Sorry
00:06:28.120 Beauty is in the eye of the beholder
00:06:29.540 Period
00:06:29.860 So there's a guy
00:06:30.720 That might be attracted
00:06:31.460 To an overweight woman 1.00
00:06:32.360 Money is in the eye of the beholder
00:06:34.460 Um, listen
00:06:35.920 Money
00:06:36.280 Money is in the eye of the beholder
00:06:37.580 Listen
00:06:37.820 If you have
00:06:39.240 If your mentality is above average
00:06:40.760 And you're broke 1.00
00:06:41.420 I fuck with you 1.00
00:06:42.460 Because I know you've got potential 1.00
00:06:43.860 And that we can build together
00:06:44.940 We can be power couples
00:06:45.960 But what is potential?
00:06:47.380 It's money later
00:06:48.220 Like that's all it is
00:06:49.440 Potential is money later
00:06:50.780 No, no, no
00:06:50.840 It's more about like
00:06:51.780 Life
00:06:52.220 Just God
00:06:52.880 Okay, okay
00:06:53.260 If you meet brokey
00:06:55.020 At 25
00:06:55.680 And you're with him
00:06:56.800 For five years
00:06:57.560 He's still brokey 1.00
00:06:58.480 Unemployed
00:06:59.420 What?
00:07:00.140 You're staying?
00:07:00.760 Say that again, sorry
00:07:01.460 Brokey
00:07:01.980 He meet a brokey guy 1.00
00:07:03.160 25
00:07:03.700 And he's unemployed
00:07:05.060 And now
00:07:05.460 He's 30
00:07:07.220 You're still with him
00:07:08.380 He's unemployed
00:07:08.880 Are you staying or going?
00:07:10.180 Uh, no
00:07:10.680 Because you're not pushing me
00:07:11.460 To my limit
00:07:11.880 No, I wouldn't
00:07:12.960 What, five?
00:07:13.440 You wouldn't ride out five years?
00:07:14.600 If he is unemployed
00:07:15.700 And broke for five years
00:07:16.700 And doesn't want to make a move
00:07:17.680 I can't be with you
00:07:18.780 How long does it take
00:07:19.420 To create a proper business
00:07:20.440 And be successful in life?
00:07:21.420 If you're unemployed
00:07:22.480 Not doing nothing
00:07:23.440 Girl, I don't
00:07:24.740 I don't think you should
00:07:25.780 Like don't let
00:07:26.360 I forgot I'm unemployed
00:07:27.700 For five years now 0.74
00:07:28.860 What the hell?
00:07:29.160 No, not unemployed 0.88
00:07:30.480 I said unemployed
00:07:31.400 Oh, you said I didn't play
00:07:32.360 So if he's stagnant
00:07:34.440 I'm with you
00:07:35.640 But my
00:07:36.100 My point is
00:07:38.140 You're lying
00:07:38.920 Like it's lying
00:07:40.180 Yeah, you're just lying
00:07:41.420 Why?
00:07:41.720 Because you're like
00:07:42.320 Oh, if he has the right mentality
00:07:43.720 I don't care about money
00:07:44.740 Okay, but I said
00:07:45.640 Like all that ambition
00:07:47.320 Translates to 0.90
00:07:48.260 Is money later
00:07:49.060 So when women say 1.00
00:07:49.840 Oh, I don't care about money
00:07:50.980 Yes, it does
00:07:52.260 Because women 0.99
00:07:53.540 Women do leave 1.00
00:07:54.900 If the men don't make enough money
00:07:56.640 If women out earn the men 0.99
00:07:58.200 They leave
00:07:58.840 The average woman 0.99
00:07:59.540 But I feel like
00:08:00.360 The average woman 0.99
00:08:01.420 Will leave
00:08:02.180 But you are the average woman 1.00
00:08:04.080 I mean the average mindset woman 1.00
00:08:05.540 The average mindset woman 1.00
00:08:06.700 You have the average mindset
00:08:07.520 No, I don't
00:08:08.140 I don't
00:08:08.600 I definitely don't
00:08:09.460 I definitely don't
00:08:10.220 You just said that
00:08:11.020 And everyone tells me I don't
00:08:12.240 I'm different
00:08:12.700 You just said that
00:08:13.800 No, I'm telling you
00:08:14.800 You're
00:08:15.240 I promise you
00:08:16.640 Okay, what makes you different?
00:08:17.840 Because I'm just
00:08:18.880 I feel like I'm very deep
00:08:20.360 And I've just learned
00:08:22.260 I've really taken time out
00:08:23.640 To study life
00:08:24.480 And to understand
00:08:25.320 How life is
00:08:26.640 How old are you?
00:08:27.500 I'm 32 now
00:08:28.420 Okay
00:08:28.880 Last month
00:08:29.980 So I feel like
00:08:30.780 I've taken time out
00:08:32.140 To go inwards
00:08:34.080 And to learn about life
00:08:35.140 And to just, you know
00:08:36.320 Be more
00:08:36.900 Not logical
00:08:37.480 But be more on point
00:08:39.600 I don't know how to explain it
00:08:40.520 But I don't think
00:08:41.360 My mindset's average
00:08:42.260 I don't think I'll ever be average
00:08:43.720 And I really believe in myself
00:08:45.260 So I'm a different
00:08:45.940 You're 100% average
00:08:48.480 You're a comedian
00:08:49.180 No, I'm not
00:08:50.540 No, she's a comedian though 0.54
00:08:51.740 No, no, no
00:08:52.240 Look at me
00:08:52.620 Look at me
00:08:52.960 Dead serious
00:08:53.560 Average
00:08:54.340 And that's not an insult
00:08:56.220 I think I'm an average chick
00:08:58.380 I don't think you are
00:08:59.240 Because I even said
00:09:00.240 Before I came on the show
00:09:01.180 She's a badass 1.00
00:09:02.480 She's built all this
00:09:03.520 See, you're lying again
00:09:04.460 Why are you lying to her?
00:09:05.000 Romeo, didn't I say that to you?
00:09:06.240 I've been talking about that stuff
00:09:07.460 Before I met you
00:09:08.360 But I'm saying
00:09:10.460 Like the way you speak
00:09:11.620 Okay, I'm telling you
00:09:12.940 I've met women
00:09:13.660 With a top 10%
00:09:14.880 Do you know how many women 1.00
00:09:15.720 I speak to?
00:09:17.020 Hundreds
00:09:17.380 Hundreds
00:09:18.060 And I'm saying
00:09:18.980 Like I've met women 0.99
00:09:19.680 With a top 10%
00:09:20.440 20% mindset
00:09:21.320 I'm not saying
00:09:21.860 It's horrible
00:09:22.720 But I'm saying
00:09:23.280 An average chick 1.00
00:09:24.200 When it comes to mindset
00:09:25.220 Do you know what I think?
00:09:26.140 I just think
00:09:26.520 I don't think money
00:09:27.920 I don't think money
00:09:29.220 Is important
00:09:29.920 So it's nothing to me
00:09:31.200 But see
00:09:31.460 You've contradicted yourself
00:09:32.580 Like 20 times
00:09:33.540 In this conversation
00:09:34.200 It's very chaotic
00:09:35.660 To like speak to you
00:09:36.920 Like it's very chaotic
00:09:38.000 Because I don't really
00:09:38.780 Understand what you're saying
00:09:39.720 Okay
00:09:40.020 Because on one hand
00:09:41.020 You kind of
00:09:41.960 We're speaking down
00:09:43.200 To the men in the room
00:09:44.060 Because they don't want
00:09:44.560 To spend 200 pounds
00:09:45.460 On a date
00:09:46.020 Then you're saying
00:09:46.880 Money is nothing
00:09:47.720 Do you see how
00:09:48.180 That's confusing?
00:09:48.520 I mean money is nothing
00:09:49.020 So paying 200 pounds
00:09:50.120 What is that?
00:09:50.840 I don't
00:09:51.180 That's fine
00:09:51.820 Okay
00:09:52.140 It's nothing
00:09:52.840 Because they said
00:09:54.420 I don't appreciate it
00:09:55.220 And I do
00:09:56.040 But it's not
00:09:56.560 I don't think about it
00:09:57.920 Because money is money
00:09:58.960 It's what it is
00:10:00.180 Because you don't
00:10:00.780 That's what I mean
00:10:01.600 Okay
00:10:02.100 Do you get what I'm saying?
00:10:02.740 I understand
00:10:03.900 I understand what I'm saying
00:10:04.540 Okay
00:10:04.740 I know
00:10:05.600 I'm sorry
00:10:06.000 I understand what you're saying
00:10:07.220 I just don't think
00:10:07.820 You understand how it sounds
00:10:09.100 And it sounds really unappreciative
00:10:11.200 Then it is what it is
00:10:12.920 I can't change my opinion
00:10:15.820 It is what it is
00:10:16.580 Can you spend 200 pounds
00:10:17.900 Every night
00:10:18.660 On dinner
00:10:19.240 On yourself?
00:10:20.040 Me?
00:10:20.380 I spend a lot of money
00:10:21.100 Not every night
00:10:22.160 On yourself?
00:10:22.920 No I can't
00:10:23.520 Why?
00:10:24.180 Because that's irresponsible
00:10:25.740 But money is nothing
00:10:27.640 I invest my money
00:10:28.540 Money is nothing
00:10:29.160 I invest my money
00:10:30.160 I invest money
00:10:31.320 So what about the man
00:10:33.200 That invests money
00:10:33.800 That's his business
00:10:34.200 I didn't ask him to take me out
00:10:35.460 And take me to a place
00:10:36.160 That cost 200 pounds
00:10:37.040 I didn't ask for that
00:10:37.860 So what you're saying
00:10:38.520 So it's not my problem
00:10:39.360 You don't care about the man's money
00:10:40.680 The thing is
00:10:41.100 Well I don't ask for money
00:10:43.220 I don't ask a man for money
00:10:44.160 I've never asked him
00:10:44.800 I've never had a man
00:10:45.680 Well I've had a long time relationship
00:10:47.800 Where we live together
00:10:48.400 But I've never relied on a man 0.94
00:10:49.840 For anything
00:10:50.340 In my whole entire life
00:10:51.440 So wait
00:10:52.000 Can I ask you a question?
00:10:53.400 Okay so
00:10:53.920 Alright
00:10:54.600 You've never been proposed to
00:10:58.160 Not really
00:10:58.780 Not like that no
00:10:59.840 Okay
00:11:00.240 Okay
00:11:00.620 So if you were
00:11:01.880 If you had this amazing mindset
00:11:03.940 You're 32
00:11:04.920 Do you have kids?
00:11:06.860 No
00:11:07.120 Okay so
00:11:08.100 Do you know
00:11:08.460 Your chance is below 50%
00:11:10.300 Of having a child?
00:11:11.640 Possibly
00:11:12.000 But
00:11:12.200 If you're single at 30
00:11:13.640 Your chance is like 40%
00:11:15.340 Of having a kid
00:11:16.060 So you're more likely
00:11:16.640 To never have children
00:11:17.600 That's statistically
00:11:18.220 And at 30
00:11:18.840 And at 32
00:11:19.660 That means you're three years away
00:11:20.840 From geriatric pregnancy 0.79
00:11:22.140 Whoa
00:11:22.660 Like so that means
00:11:23.700 If you're single today
00:11:24.580 You've got to find a guy
00:11:25.640 In three years
00:11:27.220 To agree to marry you
00:11:29.020 And agree to get in a long term relationship
00:11:31.940 Marry you
00:11:32.540 And then have a kid
00:11:33.280 Or just get pregnant
00:11:34.400 So
00:11:35.780 So
00:11:36.120 The odds
00:11:36.680 Statistically
00:11:37.360 Statistically
00:11:38.160 Right right
00:11:38.580 Statistically
00:11:39.320 Statistically
00:11:39.940 Okay okay
00:11:40.820 Okay
00:11:41.340 Based on
00:11:41.880 So
00:11:42.360 And based off of
00:11:43.600 So the last
00:11:44.500 You've been dating
00:11:45.060 Since what
00:11:45.500 You were 18
00:11:46.140 No
00:11:47.040 Well yeah
00:11:47.740 Okay so
00:11:48.760 So 10
00:11:49.520 12
00:11:50.040 14 years
00:11:51.340 You've been unsuccessful
00:11:52.340 Wow
00:11:53.100 Right
00:11:54.460 Yeah
00:11:55.100 So
00:11:55.420 You're single
00:11:56.280 Right
00:11:56.740 And I'm not claiming
00:11:58.140 To be the all
00:11:58.860 Like I know everything
00:11:59.780 But I'm saying
00:12:00.280 How can you say
00:12:01.580 You're in the top
00:12:02.300 Like you have this amazing mindset
00:12:04.080 If no men have picked your mindset
00:12:05.840 And it's not looks
00:12:07.260 You're pretty
00:12:07.680 My mindset changed at age 28
00:12:10.020 So before that
00:12:11.020 I was a different person
00:12:11.780 To who I am now
00:12:12.260 So you've had
00:12:12.920 Four years ago
00:12:13.540 Okay so you've had
00:12:14.400 Four years to try out this mindset
00:12:16.320 I haven't been dating
00:12:17.700 And okay
00:12:18.640 I've been going through stuff
00:12:19.680 Okay so
00:12:20.740 And you've been
00:12:21.240 You've been going through
00:12:22.300 Things so you've been
00:12:23.220 Accumulating more trauma
00:12:24.040 But I've been in one relationship
00:12:25.060 Kind of
00:12:25.840 Okay okay
00:12:26.480 Where you were problematic
00:12:28.400 I don't think that
00:12:29.960 Because he's still on my phone
00:12:31.440 To this day
00:12:32.040 So I must not have been
00:12:32.760 That problematic
00:12:33.180 Okay 0.93
00:12:33.480 For sex 0.73
00:12:34.440 And like I don't think 0.95
00:12:35.260 You realize
00:12:35.720 No no no
00:12:36.480 But hold on 0.98
00:12:38.040 I'm not easy to have sex 0.96
00:12:39.040 I'm really really 0.97
00:12:40.480 Biggie
00:12:41.320 I'll be acting stush 1.00
00:12:42.160 Did he have sex with you? 0.99
00:12:43.580 Not straight away 0.97
00:12:44.460 No 0.76
00:12:44.660 Did he ever have sex with you?
00:12:46.440 Yeah 1.00
00:12:46.800 He's back for sex 0.99
00:12:48.000 Okay 0.99
00:12:48.660 It's like
00:12:49.140 This is how men 0.99
00:12:50.240 This is how men 0.99
00:12:51.160 No
00:12:51.360 Poe makes things worse
00:12:52.280 No
00:12:52.560 Okay
00:12:53.140 No no
00:12:53.780 I'm telling you girl
00:12:54.540 This is how guys see it
00:12:55.720 Like I've talked to so many dudes
00:12:57.220 If they've had sex with you once
00:12:58.620 But he can figure out the girls
00:12:59.720 He's got money 1.00
00:13:00.700 Maybe he liked having sex with you 1.00
00:13:02.620 Okay 1.00
00:13:02.960 Yeah cause my pussy's tight 1.00
00:13:04.100 Wow 1.00
00:13:05.100 Okay
00:13:05.680 Okay
00:13:06.140 Is this
00:13:06.540 No
00:13:08.240 I'm telling you really
00:13:11.100 You're in the danger zone
00:13:12.800 Can I just say
00:13:16.500 It wouldn't take three months
00:13:17.760 To come to a decision
00:13:18.660 On this one
00:13:19.460 And you're so lovely
00:13:22.140 Honestly
00:13:22.500 You have so much going for you
00:13:23.980 I really like you
00:13:24.940 Thank you
00:13:25.400 But don't say things like that
00:13:26.960 Like what?
00:13:28.180 What's that?
00:13:29.060 Right?
00:13:29.500 Keep it for yourself
00:13:30.640 I'm playing around
00:13:31.920 I'm just like
00:13:32.420 That's my current song
00:13:33.260 I don't think you understand
00:13:36.160 Okay okay
00:13:36.620 How is a husband
00:13:37.500 Gonna hear that?
00:13:38.340 Yeah
00:13:38.540 You just damped your trances
00:13:40.000 Even more
00:13:40.560 But I'm not her
00:13:41.320 But I'm not her
00:13:42.340 Because loads of men 1.00
00:13:43.280 Now know your pussy's tight 1.00
00:13:44.740 Wait wait wait wait 1.00
00:13:45.380 As many of you know
00:13:46.460 I was just banned on TikTok
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00:13:50.320 On a daily basis
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