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00:00:00.000 I'd like to go around and everyone say if you consider yourself a feminist yes no and then why 1.00

00:00:05.760 um I'd say no I'm not a feminist because I think I believe I'm in between I would say but I'll say

00:00:16.880 no because I don't think there's things that men can do and there's things that women can't do and 0.99

00:00:23.000 there's things that women can do and there's things that men can't do if that makes sense 0.99

00:00:26.100 so I feel that's why I'm in the middle and I'm still saying a bit of nah I'm not a feminist

00:00:31.660 okay um yeah me I'm I'm similar to Janay um I don't think I'm a feminist because I do believe that

00:00:39.940 I am like strong on like gender roles um so I do believe that um there's certain things that

00:00:46.540 a woman should do in a relationship there's certain things a man should do in a relationship

00:00:50.060 but I'm also like big on women empowerment I just don't feel like it collides yeah okay go ahead

00:00:58.040 I would say no um I don't really identify with anything that feminism stands for anymore 1.00

00:01:03.680 okay go ahead um yeah I'm sort of like in between I I would say I'm very much a traditional feminist

00:01:13.380 um not so much a modern feminist um I still have those traditional values and I feel like I do believe

00:01:21.540 in female empowerment I do believe in the movement of feminism um yeah okay go ahead yeah I would say

00:01:30.080 I'm sort of in between as well but it just gets a bit too technical I believe in them obviously opening

00:01:36.560 doors for women but it gets too technical for me so for me I'm in between as well this feminist role 1.00

00:01:42.540 okay I do not consider myself to be a feminist whatsoever a man and a woman has complete 0.86

00:01:49.180 different duties and roles they're not equal a man's purpose is to protect provide hunt and lead 0.80

00:01:55.940 and a woman's purpose is to nurture and reproduce as far as I'm concerned they are not equal 1.00

00:02:00.860 um I'm not a feminist um I'm very in tune with myself spiritually and I feel like everything in the

00:02:08.080 modern day world just really collides with my spirit so definitely not wow a whole room not one

00:02:14.520 feminist wow why do you guys think that is where has it gone too far 1.00

00:02:19.600 promiscuity is promoted I think that's too far I think for women having multiple sexual partners 0.98

00:02:31.400 is really bad for your mental health um it messes up your hormones biologically and also like even if

00:02:39.360 you're not technically sleeping with all of them what kind of person are you if you're just an object 0.71

00:02:43.960 on millions of people's screens and all that object is is your boobs and bum they're not really seeing you 0.73

00:02:50.720 for who you are and if you don't care about who you are enough to put that out there and all you want

00:02:55.940 to put out there is your body um then I think that shows that maybe there's something not quite right

00:03:01.940 inside that maybe you don't value in yourself so you only value the exterior part of yourself

00:03:07.620 do you guys know women that can sleep around and are genuinely happy doing it no I don't think I've 1.00

00:03:13.300 ever met one really no no one no so why do you think it's pushed so much if the outcomes aren't good

00:03:19.600 for women because I feel like people that people that maybe um this is just like from me watching

00:03:28.480 but I feel like people that maybe do sleep around a lot um maybe if they don't actually like know who

00:03:34.540 they are or like know what they stand for completely and they want to act like they're happy so they'll

00:03:39.960 tell people yeah this is what makes me happy this is what I do so you do it too so it's like let's it's

00:03:44.900 like some whole gang thing um like even amber rose for example this what is that thing she does 1.00

00:03:50.220 a nude walk oh slut walk yeah the slut walk oh wait okay oh yeah would anyone go to a slut walk anyone 0.99

00:03:57.500 here no okay continue yeah I'll go no I can't lie I would go for fun like to watch it I would do 0.99

00:04:03.580 interviews yeah that's exactly what I was gonna say I would go to like interview people and say you

00:04:09.140 know what is it but I don't think I would take part in a slut walk no yeah definitely no I don't 1.00

00:04:15.500 think so but yeah what I was gonna say about the amber rose um slut walk I feel like with feminism 1.00

00:04:20.900 now it's if you show your the more body you show the more empowered you are as a woman and I feel

00:04:28.060 that there's so much more to that and it's like they try and talk for all women as a whole when really

00:04:33.760 this is your opinion so even in dating now it's like men they'll come and talk to you in a certain

00:04:40.700 way like you're a feminist already like they just think you're a feminist I don't know I don't have to 1.00

00:04:44.800 explain it but yeah do you think older women sabotage younger women yeah yeah yeah I I feel like going 1.00

00:04:53.480 back to what we were just talking about as well like I feel like women are trying to compete with men 1.00

00:04:58.280 and I think that is literally where the problem is we are trying to compete with men why is it okay

00:05:03.820 for a man to sleep with loads of women but it's not okay for me and actually do we actually enjoy 0.99

00:05:09.680 that like we have to actually ask our ask ourselves like do we actually enjoy casually giving our body

00:05:17.460 like that and you know because we have emotions and we you know we feel things and like for men it's

00:05:23.720 different they can go and do that and have zero emotion whereas with women it's completely different 1.00

00:05:28.940 and we can't you know deny that so is it though like do you actually think like do you actually

00:05:35.600 well most of my friends I feel like you know they tell me stories and they sleep with someone and they

00:05:43.360 get attached like so you don't think men do or do you think they're just better hiding their emotions

00:05:48.680 because of like no they don't because I think so no I I men can literally go and do that and have

00:05:55.600 zero emotion they can do that and and they're programmed to be like that whereas why are we

00:06:01.040 trying to compete with that but I but just because someone's programmed to be like something I don't

00:06:06.180 feel like they're being completely open and saying like they can just go and sleep around with anyone

00:06:11.080 and they don't feel any like I don't believe that I actually I don't think they've got to the root of

00:06:15.980 the problem of why they can do that because that's not humane but but the thing is like when many

00:06:19.880 have money power and status they do do it so it's like it's a trend for a man is Chris Brown like

00:06:25.580 saying stop no of course they're loving it don't sleep with me of course they're loving it but I feel

00:06:31.520 like there's effects that is just it's not attached to okay you're sleeping with loads of people this

00:06:36.740 is why you feel like that I thought they might feel type of ways but they're not attaching it to oh

00:06:41.180 could I'm just going around sleeping with loads of women because I've got loads of male friends and I 1.00

00:06:45.680 see the after effect that it has with them sleeping with loads of women but they won't actually

00:06:49.880 admit it yeah they won't actually admit it or pinpoint it on that but I think that sort of goes

00:06:55.140 back uh that sort of goes back to like the whole peer pressure with men and maintaining this image of

00:07:01.200 like you know when you become successful and you have money the girls come with it and I feel like a lot

00:07:06.900 of men are trying to force that and that's probably why your friends are feeling some type of way

00:07:13.100 afterwards because they're doing something but maybe they don't really want to be doing it

00:07:17.560 but also I'll be real like when men obviously sleep around their body's not going to change 0.91

00:07:24.220 if a woman sleeps around your body's a temper your body's going to change it's going to adapt to 1.00

00:07:28.320 whoever you're sleeping with so that's where you know I mean I'm saying like okay the levels of women 1.00

00:07:35.820 and men financially are like the same but like following being full of fashion like it's like

00:07:43.540 you're the mean like you're you're lowering your standards and your body changes like women we're 1.00

00:07:49.500 very we all adapt to a man well not me but you know I'm saying as for men they just know I mean

00:07:56.540 they can go around do what they're doing honky dory their body's not going to change a woman's body 1.00

00:08:01.540 does change do you know I mean you're a key so yeah very true yeah very true and I feel like as

00:08:08.440 women we we just have a lot more to lose and that there's a lot more at stake for us so that's why we

00:08:14.340 are naturally going to be very you know picky and selective and you know I pride myself in being

00:08:23.040 selective and you know not giving my body freely to just anyone like

00:08:28.260 do you think you guys could respect a guy um and follow his lead if you make more money than him

00:08:35.640 subconsciously I do

00:08:38.280 I don't mind like in terms of finances it doesn't make a difference to me

00:08:44.540 yeah I wouldn't mind if my partner made more money

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JustPearlyThings - August 10, 2023

This Was A Tough Question For The Panel

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