This Was A Tough Question For The Panel
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In this episode, we talk about feminism and what it means to be a feminist in the modern day world. We discuss the role of women in society, what feminism means to us and how it affects our mental health. We also discuss the dangers of promiscuity and the impact it can have on our hormones.
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I'd like to go around and everyone say if you consider yourself a feminist yes no and then why
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um I'd say no I'm not a feminist because I think I believe I'm in between I would say but I'll say
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no because I don't think there's things that men can do and there's things that women can't do and
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there's things that women can do and there's things that men can't do if that makes sense
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so I feel that's why I'm in the middle and I'm still saying a bit of nah I'm not a feminist
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okay um yeah me I'm I'm similar to Janay um I don't think I'm a feminist because I do believe that
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I am like strong on like gender roles um so I do believe that um there's certain things that
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a woman should do in a relationship there's certain things a man should do in a relationship
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but I'm also like big on women empowerment I just don't feel like it collides yeah okay go ahead
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I would say no um I don't really identify with anything that feminism stands for anymore
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okay go ahead um yeah I'm sort of like in between I I would say I'm very much a traditional feminist
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um not so much a modern feminist um I still have those traditional values and I feel like I do believe
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in female empowerment I do believe in the movement of feminism um yeah okay go ahead yeah I would say
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I'm sort of in between as well but it just gets a bit too technical I believe in them obviously opening
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doors for women but it gets too technical for me so for me I'm in between as well this feminist role
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okay I do not consider myself to be a feminist whatsoever a man and a woman has complete
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different duties and roles they're not equal a man's purpose is to protect provide hunt and lead
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and a woman's purpose is to nurture and reproduce as far as I'm concerned they are not equal
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um I'm not a feminist um I'm very in tune with myself spiritually and I feel like everything in the
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modern day world just really collides with my spirit so definitely not wow a whole room not one
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feminist wow why do you guys think that is where has it gone too far
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promiscuity is promoted I think that's too far I think for women having multiple sexual partners
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is really bad for your mental health um it messes up your hormones biologically and also like even if
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you're not technically sleeping with all of them what kind of person are you if you're just an object
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on millions of people's screens and all that object is is your boobs and bum they're not really seeing you
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for who you are and if you don't care about who you are enough to put that out there and all you want
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to put out there is your body um then I think that shows that maybe there's something not quite right
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inside that maybe you don't value in yourself so you only value the exterior part of yourself
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do you guys know women that can sleep around and are genuinely happy doing it no I don't think I've
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ever met one really no no one no so why do you think it's pushed so much if the outcomes aren't good
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for women because I feel like people that people that maybe um this is just like from me watching
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but I feel like people that maybe do sleep around a lot um maybe if they don't actually like know who
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they are or like know what they stand for completely and they want to act like they're happy so they'll
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tell people yeah this is what makes me happy this is what I do so you do it too so it's like let's it's
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like some whole gang thing um like even amber rose for example this what is that thing she does
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a nude walk oh slut walk yeah the slut walk oh wait okay oh yeah would anyone go to a slut walk anyone
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here no okay continue yeah I'll go no I can't lie I would go for fun like to watch it I would do
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interviews yeah that's exactly what I was gonna say I would go to like interview people and say you
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know what is it but I don't think I would take part in a slut walk no yeah definitely no I don't
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think so but yeah what I was gonna say about the amber rose um slut walk I feel like with feminism
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now it's if you show your the more body you show the more empowered you are as a woman and I feel
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that there's so much more to that and it's like they try and talk for all women as a whole when really
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this is your opinion so even in dating now it's like men they'll come and talk to you in a certain
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way like you're a feminist already like they just think you're a feminist I don't know I don't have to
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explain it but yeah do you think older women sabotage younger women yeah yeah yeah I I feel like going
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back to what we were just talking about as well like I feel like women are trying to compete with men
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and I think that is literally where the problem is we are trying to compete with men why is it okay
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for a man to sleep with loads of women but it's not okay for me and actually do we actually enjoy
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that like we have to actually ask our ask ourselves like do we actually enjoy casually giving our body
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like that and you know because we have emotions and we you know we feel things and like for men it's
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different they can go and do that and have zero emotion whereas with women it's completely different
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and we can't you know deny that so is it though like do you actually think like do you actually
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well most of my friends I feel like you know they tell me stories and they sleep with someone and they
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get attached like so you don't think men do or do you think they're just better hiding their emotions
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because of like no they don't because I think so no I I men can literally go and do that and have
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zero emotion they can do that and and they're programmed to be like that whereas why are we
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trying to compete with that but I but just because someone's programmed to be like something I don't
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feel like they're being completely open and saying like they can just go and sleep around with anyone
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and they don't feel any like I don't believe that I actually I don't think they've got to the root of
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the problem of why they can do that because that's not humane but but the thing is like when many
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have money power and status they do do it so it's like it's a trend for a man is Chris Brown like
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saying stop no of course they're loving it don't sleep with me of course they're loving it but I feel
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like there's effects that is just it's not attached to okay you're sleeping with loads of people this
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is why you feel like that I thought they might feel type of ways but they're not attaching it to oh
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could I'm just going around sleeping with loads of women because I've got loads of male friends and I
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see the after effect that it has with them sleeping with loads of women but they won't actually
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admit it yeah they won't actually admit it or pinpoint it on that but I think that sort of goes
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back uh that sort of goes back to like the whole peer pressure with men and maintaining this image of
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like you know when you become successful and you have money the girls come with it and I feel like a lot
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of men are trying to force that and that's probably why your friends are feeling some type of way
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afterwards because they're doing something but maybe they don't really want to be doing it
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but also I'll be real like when men obviously sleep around their body's not going to change
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if a woman sleeps around your body's a temper your body's going to change it's going to adapt to
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whoever you're sleeping with so that's where you know I mean I'm saying like okay the levels of women
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and men financially are like the same but like following being full of fashion like it's like
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you're the mean like you're you're lowering your standards and your body changes like women we're
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very we all adapt to a man well not me but you know I'm saying as for men they just know I mean
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they can go around do what they're doing honky dory their body's not going to change a woman's body
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does change do you know I mean you're a key so yeah very true yeah very true and I feel like as
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women we we just have a lot more to lose and that there's a lot more at stake for us so that's why we
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are naturally going to be very you know picky and selective and you know I pride myself in being
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selective and you know not giving my body freely to just anyone like
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do you think you guys could respect a guy um and follow his lead if you make more money than him
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I don't mind like in terms of finances it doesn't make a difference to me
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yeah I wouldn't mind if my partner made more money