JustPearlyThings - April 26, 2023


This Woke Simp Cannot Accept This Fact


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Length

10 minutes

Words per minute

205.02298

Word count

2,215

Sentence count

288

Harmful content

Misogyny

15

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Hate speech

12

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In this episode, the brother and sister duo of the discuss the controversial topic of obesity and fat gain, and how society pressures women to look a certain way. They also talk about transgender identity and how it should be celebrated.

Transcript

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00:00:00.000 Okay, sorry.
00:00:00.500 There's two reasons.
00:00:01.500 One, they want more attention.
00:00:03.520 And the attention that they got and that God gave them wasn't enough.
00:00:06.800 So they say, let me go get surgery so I can get more attention.
00:00:09.780 Because it's pushed.
00:00:10.740 Wait, wait, wait, wait, wait.
00:00:11.900 I need you to wait for one second.
00:00:14.280 And the second reason is because they're lazy and they'd rather get a BBL than go to the gym.
00:00:18.720 I'm serious.
00:00:20.060 Like they would rather.
00:00:21.860 Nutrition is hard, right?
00:00:23.620 Nutrition is like the hardest part.
00:00:24.820 It's so hard.
00:00:27.580 Nutrition is hard.
00:00:28.560 Working out every day is hard.
00:00:30.840 Getting a surgery is a cheat code.
00:00:33.980 To your point now, I think that is why it's a good thing to celebrate uniqueness and differences.
00:00:38.520 Because otherwise everyone is pressurized to look the same way.
00:00:41.320 A certain way.
00:00:42.080 But my brother, look.
00:00:43.120 I've done personal training years ago.
00:00:45.020 Yeah, yeah, yeah.
00:00:45.680 You're a person training now.
00:00:47.020 Can you grow a bum?
00:00:48.740 Can you, you know, can you exercise and get the same bum as a BBL? 0.70
00:00:54.500 No, you can shape your bum.
00:00:55.580 You can shape your bum. 0.52
00:00:56.320 You can't grow your bum. 0.74
00:00:56.860 And you can lift it.
00:00:57.440 You can grow your glutes a bit.
00:00:59.100 A bit.
00:00:59.500 But it comes with body fat.
00:01:01.640 Right.
00:01:01.880 Okay.
00:01:02.240 So my point exactly is this world is pushing women in like front line to look a certain way, 0.64
00:01:10.940 to dress a certain way.
00:01:12.600 And it makes little girls like my daughter to look at them and think, I want to be like that.
00:01:17.120 I go down and reverse down.
00:01:17.920 If I don't look like that, then I'm a piece of shit.
00:01:20.740 And I'm not going to be desired by the demand that I want or whatever.
00:01:24.600 And that's a wrong narrative.
00:01:26.200 It's not right.
00:01:27.300 The men aren't asking for this though.
00:01:29.680 The men aren't asking for the Botox.
00:01:31.520 They're not asking for the BBLs.
00:01:33.300 They're not asking for the lip fillers.
00:01:34.940 Women just do that shit on their own. 1.00
00:01:36.760 And that's my point.
00:01:37.540 But that gets glamorized.
00:01:38.660 When I reverse this on like onto, yeah, you just said that society is pushing women to 1.00
00:01:44.520 do these things.
00:01:45.120 100%.
00:01:45.520 Right.
00:01:46.760 Then that's the reason why obesity shouldn't be on Instagram like that.
00:01:51.700 No, I hear you.
00:01:52.680 But what I'm saying.
00:01:53.860 It's the same thing.
00:01:54.620 No, but I'm talking about something different.
00:01:56.580 So I'm talking about the fact that a lot of these women. 1.00
00:01:59.700 He just made a really good point.
00:02:01.160 You should acknowledge that.
00:02:02.180 That was a really good point.
00:02:03.020 No, I understand.
00:02:04.220 But what she was doing online was self-love.
00:02:07.400 It had nothing to do with her body and how she looks.
00:02:10.240 And she wasn't like, oh, look at me.
00:02:11.720 I look like this.
00:02:12.540 She was just saying, look, I feel good or whatever she said.
00:02:16.200 But what I got from that video was self-love.
00:02:20.360 And a lot of people don't love themselves.
00:02:21.960 She wanted to say more about it.
00:02:23.060 I mean, do you understand what I'm saying?
00:02:24.440 It's self-love.
00:02:25.620 So if she's saying, okay, but again, to me, this goes to delusion.
00:02:29.560 If she says I look good and she clearly doesn't, that is narcissism.
00:02:34.400 If you say that I feel good and there's no way in hell that you can be that big and feel good, you're a liar.
00:02:41.240 You're a big liar, narcissistic and delusional. 0.84
00:02:43.820 You have a high visceral fat, which is going to cause a short shock.
00:02:47.240 For narcissism, you also have to want to control people.
00:02:50.920 You also normally hurt people.
00:02:52.440 It's not just having self-love.
00:02:54.380 And also when people are bullied and they are made to feel shit about themselves, actually that can lead to narcissism because they have to be the best all the time.
00:03:02.720 And they're not kind or good to other people.
00:03:04.760 This is why I'm here to tell them the truth so I can help them.
00:03:07.600 Just saying.
00:03:08.580 Say again. 0.87
00:03:09.240 This is why we're here to tell them the truth.
00:03:10.860 This is why I can help them.
00:03:12.140 Also, like, it might make, I said this before, it might make those minority people that can't help it feel better.
00:03:16.960 It's kind of like transgender, like not everyone or having different identities.
00:03:20.160 Not everyone probably does need to relate to a different identity, but I guess at least the minority that are probably born of the wrong chromosome.
00:03:27.540 But then look, that gets pushed more than obesity, though.
00:03:30.960 Yeah, that's a deep one.
00:03:31.960 That's a deep one.
00:03:32.960 Let's talk about that then because you want to accept transgender and stuff, but you don't want to, you know. 1.00
00:03:38.800 I don't want to accept that either.
00:03:40.120 They scare me a bit.
00:03:41.520 Yeah, but apparently it's accepted.
00:03:44.900 Apparently we can't say nothing to them.
00:03:46.540 We can't have an opinion.
00:03:47.660 Oh, I'll say something.
00:03:48.540 You know, so let's talk about it, please.
00:03:51.700 I want to do a panel.
00:03:52.440 I do want to talk about it.
00:03:53.340 I do want to do a panel with some transgenders, and I want to do a panel with just obese women so we can talk about these topics. 1.00
00:04:00.360 That would be very interesting.
00:04:01.700 Can you invite me, please?
00:04:02.520 Oh, I'll say this.
00:04:03.620 Yeah, yeah, yeah.
00:04:04.100 Yeah, please.
00:04:04.580 Can you invite me?
00:04:05.160 Yeah.
00:04:05.760 I'd love to be here to.
00:04:06.980 Yeah, so just pearlythings1, DM me if you know any in London.
00:04:11.500 I'm serious.
00:04:12.220 I want to do a panel.
00:04:12.860 I'd love to work with you guys.
00:04:13.800 Just transgenders, just fat people, and we can talk about these issues. 1.00
00:04:18.600 Some people, but it is the minority.
00:04:20.100 They're genuinely born with the wrong opposite chromosomes to their genitals, so that's completely understandable. 1.00
00:04:25.000 But I think, for example, I could be called a tomboy in some aspects when I was younger.
00:04:29.420 I could have some masculine energy, but I'm still a female.
00:04:34.700 But what makes you a female nowadays? 1.00
00:04:37.000 You know what?
00:04:37.740 Oh, God.
00:04:38.960 Let's talk about it.
00:04:39.960 Because nowadays, yeah, you can say you could be whatever you want.
00:04:43.600 Hey, I'm a starfish.
00:04:47.220 I'm a bird.
00:04:48.820 What are you going to say?
00:04:50.280 Do you get what I'm saying?
00:04:50.900 Do you know what I'm saying?
00:04:51.620 You can't say nothing.
00:04:52.300 You can't say nothing no more.
00:04:53.920 This is what I'm saying.
00:04:54.660 This world is delusional.
00:04:56.600 You can't say nothing, you can't have an opinion about nothing.
00:04:59.700 You contribute to it.
00:05:01.080 You absolutely contribute to it.
00:05:03.000 Oh, my gosh.
00:05:03.480 During this whole conversation, contributing.
00:05:07.120 How?
00:05:08.000 By begging up a fat woman and saying that she looks good when she doesn't. 0.99
00:05:11.840 I'm just glorifying how she perceives herself.
00:05:15.940 It's a different...
00:05:16.900 Let me just ask you a string of questions.
00:05:19.620 Do you genuinely believe she feels good?
00:05:21.620 Genuinely.
00:05:22.160 I genuinely feel she feels good.
00:05:23.500 Okay.
00:05:24.000 That's how she feels.
00:05:24.900 Even if it was for 30 seconds.
00:05:26.100 If she feels that way, then that's how she feels.
00:05:28.840 I can't judge that.
00:05:29.980 Emotionally.
00:05:30.760 You think you can feel good at that weight?
00:05:32.520 I don't know.
00:05:33.380 I haven't been that weight.
00:05:34.260 She feels good emotionally.
00:05:34.840 But if she feels happy within herself, good for her.
00:05:37.380 Good.
00:05:37.660 Do you understand?
00:05:38.560 You think she's genuinely happy?
00:05:39.720 We don't know.
00:05:40.120 Who knows?
00:05:40.440 We have no idea.
00:05:41.380 Who knows?
00:05:42.160 That's what she's presenting us.
00:05:43.780 Who are we to lie or lie?
00:05:45.340 Discredit it.
00:05:46.100 Come on.
00:05:46.980 Sorry.
00:05:47.560 Can I see that video one more time?
00:05:49.080 Yeah, go ahead.
00:05:49.620 If you guys want to know.
00:05:50.000 One more time.
00:05:52.020 What if she has some guy... 1.00
00:05:53.140 She probably does have guys going after her. 1.00
00:05:55.380 Like, some guy.
00:05:56.620 There's always a simp somewhere.
00:05:59.300 Yeah.
00:06:04.620 Turn on the...
00:06:05.940 How many views did you have?
00:06:06.940 Damn, I'm good.
00:06:08.380 How many views?
00:06:09.820 I did today.
00:06:12.020 Do you ever...
00:06:12.640 One.
00:06:13.120 One.
00:06:13.240 Do you ever get dressed and just be like...
00:06:16.160 Okay.
00:06:16.720 And what are people saying in the comments?
00:06:20.800 Can't read this.
00:06:21.680 This is on Twitter.
00:06:23.100 I'd have to see...
00:06:23.940 You'd have to go to her original TikTok to see her comments.
00:06:26.640 This is conservative Twitter.
00:06:27.740 Damn, I look good.
00:06:30.560 I did today.
00:06:32.780 She said...
00:06:33.540 Do you ever get dressed and just be like...
00:06:36.020 Damn, I look good.
00:06:37.120 She's very pretty.
00:06:39.200 Do you know what?
00:06:39.920 Can I just say what she's saying, yeah?
00:06:43.160 I feel that, you know...
00:06:45.160 You might have your days where you don't feel good.
00:06:47.660 Or you may, you know...
00:06:48.880 Like, you don't have a haircut.
00:06:50.360 Get her hair done or nails done or whatever. 0.88
00:06:52.560 Maybe today she felt good.
00:06:54.220 Like, she got her hair done.
00:06:55.500 She got her nails done.
00:06:56.460 She got a nice little dress on.
00:06:57.960 She got her makeup on.
00:06:59.140 She feels better than she usually does.
00:07:01.340 So, good on her.
00:07:02.640 You know what I'm saying?
00:07:03.560 That's all I can say.
00:07:04.280 She said she looked good.
00:07:05.320 You want to know why I get...
00:07:05.940 That's what she thinks she does. 0.97
00:07:07.700 She thinks she looks good to herself.
00:07:09.640 Okay, okay, okay.
00:07:09.880 And that's good for her.
00:07:10.740 But here are you.
00:07:11.800 See, you can't even...
00:07:12.580 You can't even lie.
00:07:14.000 I'm not...
00:07:14.560 It's like...
00:07:14.640 She thinks she looks good.
00:07:16.200 You can't even say she looks good.
00:07:17.660 So, you know it's not true.
00:07:18.960 Yeah, but...
00:07:19.440 But it goes by...
00:07:21.380 It goes by preference.
00:07:22.520 So, when I was doing the chart,
00:07:24.320 she's not my preference.
00:07:25.480 It doesn't mean that I'm discreet in how she feels.
00:07:28.600 Right, but she... 1.00
00:07:29.200 I might not be attracted to white women, Asian women. 1.00
00:07:32.020 It doesn't mean that they're not beautiful.
00:07:33.160 It's just my perception of how I feel, how I see.
00:07:36.720 You know what I'm saying?
00:07:37.480 But 100% of the people in this room said they wouldn't date obese.
00:07:41.040 But that's a different question.
00:07:42.780 So, you know that it is not...
00:07:45.620 Like, the world does not accept her.
00:07:47.600 But yet, you continue to lie to her.
00:07:51.140 And I think it's actually meaner to lie than to tell the truth.
00:07:55.560 I think it's meaner to push this stuff than it is to be honest with somebody.
00:07:59.700 Because if you're honest about a problem, we can fix it.
00:08:02.460 But you lie, and you lie, and you lie, and you know it's a lie.
00:08:06.440 And that's the crazy thing.
00:08:07.360 I've asked you guys different questions in different ways,
00:08:09.460 and you know it's not true.
00:08:11.420 But we're commenting on her weight.
00:08:11.720 I had two aunties that died from obesity, 0.93
00:08:13.620 so this is why I'm against it.
00:08:18.100 But obesity is not...
00:08:19.520 I think people need to be warned about...
00:08:21.740 It's not a theme.
00:08:23.560 It's not...
00:08:24.460 It's not something you should be promoting.
00:08:29.180 It's not something you should be supporting.
00:08:32.200 She thinks that she feels good.
00:08:35.920 But she doesn't.
00:08:37.540 She wants to feel good.
00:08:38.960 It's good that what she's doing for her mental health...
00:08:41.920 By the end of the day, she's only posting it on social media.
00:08:44.300 Just why...
00:08:45.380 Sorry.
00:08:46.580 Why do you think she's posting it on social media? 0.99
00:08:49.540 That's our question.
00:08:50.380 None of us would know.
00:08:50.980 None of us are in a position to know what's going on in her head.
00:08:53.720 Why did she post it on social media?
00:08:55.300 Why did she feel like,
00:08:56.520 OK, I'm going to post this on social media.
00:08:58.380 Because she felt good today.
00:09:00.400 That is it.
00:09:01.020 And that's what we're commenting on.
00:09:01.520 Full stop.
00:09:02.180 Do you think that's all...
00:09:03.340 That's why she posted it.
00:09:04.040 We're not commenting on her weight.
00:09:05.640 We are commenting on her reaction
00:09:07.540 to how she felt she looked good.
00:09:10.320 That's it?
00:09:10.740 That's it.
00:09:11.580 That's it.
00:09:12.180 We're not making a comment on whether we can see that she's obese, 0.82
00:09:15.440 whether we like obese people.
00:09:17.380 We're commenting that she felt good.
00:09:19.480 She expressed that.
00:09:20.560 And the level of confidence is something to be applauded.
00:09:23.480 OK, I have a question.
00:09:24.780 When you saw the video at first, did you notice her weight?
00:09:27.740 Of course.
00:09:28.420 Yeah.
00:09:28.660 OK, was it the first thing you saw?
00:09:30.460 Of course.
00:09:31.260 For me, of course.
00:09:32.540 It was the energy.
00:09:33.220 If we didn't hear what she said.
00:09:35.140 If we didn't hear what she said.
00:09:36.340 Yeah, of course.
00:09:37.020 Thank you for being honest, right?
00:09:38.620 It was the first thing you saw.
00:09:39.780 Of course.
00:09:40.200 OK, so you don't think it's lying to push this and say that's so great
00:09:45.380 when you know damn well it's the first thing you noticed?
00:09:48.680 Yeah, but it's like it's someone's opinion.
00:09:51.420 It's like I'm looking at the video and, yeah, we know she's overweight, 1.00
00:09:57.900 but I'm not looking and judging her appearance.
00:10:01.960 I'm actually appreciating how she stands for how she feels.
00:10:05.880 OK, so I have a question.
00:10:06.520 That's it.
00:10:06.900 I have a question.
00:10:07.380 You're not judging her appearance.
00:10:09.020 I'm not.
00:10:09.280 Could you tell if you found her attractive or unattractive?
00:10:12.220 I already said I don't.
00:10:13.060 I don't find.
00:10:14.000 OK, so that's a lie.
00:10:16.280 So you did judge her.
00:10:18.000 OK, so you did judge her appearance because you made a choice in your head,
00:10:21.840 attractive or unattractive.
00:10:23.480 And the weight was the first thing you noticed.
00:10:25.160 So you could say and this is why I'm saying like I hate lying because it's like we're
00:10:29.540 programmed to to not say what we're all thinking.
00:10:32.460 As many of you know, I was just banned on TikTok and we are demonetized on a daily basis on this
00:10:38.900 platform.
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