JustPearlyThings - October 29, 2023


Trad Woman NUKES The Panel With This Fact


Episode Stats

Length

9 minutes

Words per Minute

178.87349

Word Count

1,699

Sentence Count

1

Misogynist Sentences

1

Hate Speech Sentences

3


Summary


Transcript

00:00:00.000 I know I don't even think people should think like that of like why do you do
00:00:04.360 something why do you do something like at the end of the day if I go into the
00:00:07.420 middle of London and start beheading people does it matter why I did it
00:00:10.120 I don't think it matters why I think what matters is what is
00:00:17.120 I need the whole story I need like from that to start all the way to the end
00:00:20.000 that's you searching for meaning does that not mean that you're lacking meaning somewhere because
00:00:27.100 you're trying to find it in something else outside of yourself I wouldn't say I'm
00:00:30.920 lacking meaning no I'll just say I just like I need okay let me try and phrase this right
00:00:38.160 I just like somebody who can communicate I've had relationships where do you know what the
00:00:42.420 man can tell me you're being a dickhead and how do you take that yeah no wait but wait didn't you
00:00:49.920 say didn't you say earlier your first question is well why yeah that's exhausting to a guy that
00:00:55.040 means he has to like go back but that's the point is the point is it's like you're looking
00:01:01.220 for an argument when you do that like to a man's point of view but we just never hear this because
00:01:06.500 we don't really hear the man's point of view but that whole thing like that's exhausting it is
00:01:10.380 exhausting and it's why I'd rather just done it because if you can't communicate with me then
00:01:14.880 that's that's just that's my ick anyways and for me it's understanding communication you can't do
00:01:18.960 that with me okay when I hear when I hear chicks talk about communication it always and I'm telling
00:01:25.140 you just how it sounds to me um do exactly as I want and I need to tell you every time I'm irritated
00:01:31.760 otherwise there's going to be problems not really because then I wouldn't end up being with some of
00:01:36.960 the people that I have been with because I've I would say I've compromised with allowing certain
00:01:41.680 things like what I'm not willing to piss okay you you said it you said it that's the only reason
00:01:48.820 certain things but I would I would say I'm I'm willing to compromise with a man okay do you do
00:01:55.200 you feel like men have compromised on you yeah okay so it's like a mutual compromise oh yeah okay
00:02:01.740 say that okay okay well what about you ick icks so icks would be bad manners the way someone
00:02:08.680 holds themselves um how they treat others eating with their mouth open would be a massive
00:02:15.720 it that would be a no how about eating vegan food
00:02:19.700 i haven't done a lot of dating or anything I've only ever had long-term relationships really so I
00:02:30.460 don't have a major experience in my relationships I don't think arguing is a good thing I don't think
00:02:36.700 um so I you know in my last relationship I didn't argue or anything like that because
00:02:42.700 you know you're there to actually complement each other you're there to make each other's life
00:02:46.800 easier um advance you you want to actually you know your man advancing advances your life too
00:02:53.740 you guys didn't argue you guys didn't argue at all no until the end okay until the end
00:02:58.960 I was like I was like I was like you guys you should you should get married that sounds like
00:03:03.960 a great relationship yeah we were together for a long time okay yeah but no um to the end because
00:03:09.960 of situations and things that happened okay okay what about you ick um ick in general yeah just the
00:03:18.160 last ick the last time you were or the maybe you went on a date or two or you and you thought
00:03:22.900 that I can never see this guy again ever and this is the reason why I feel like so bad saying it
00:03:29.900 though but the last ick that I had was um someone asked me out for a coffee and he's like come and
00:03:37.900 meet me for a coffee so there I was happy to go meet him for a coffee and he turned up with his friend
00:03:42.900 so I was like what what's going on here who does that at the age we're at now right how old was he
00:03:51.900 how old was he he's my he's 30 he's 30 he's his mentality imagine so I was like shocked and I
00:03:57.900 thought nah this can't be real where's the camera honestly I did I think so I thought some of my
00:04:07.900 friends were setting me up and then I thought no he's he's not joking so the lady in star but am I
00:04:15.900 allowed to say that lady knows me there so she's like coconut mocha so look behind me and um he's
00:04:24.900 then gone and ordered his drink and his mates drink but I've got my app ready to pay and I'm like no way
00:04:30.900 am I paying for him and his mates coffee I swear to god I paid and left yeah I swear paid and left
00:04:41.900 I paid and left because yeah because listen it's my local I couldn't do that to myself it's my local
00:04:49.900 it was too shameful plus my points were nearly collected for my three new ones
00:04:53.900 that was a big ick for me and some of my friends were like that's really shallow what was it shallow or
00:05:04.900 it's not at all because I felt so violated and disrespected in that instance of him just showing up with his
00:05:11.900 friend in the first place yeah it's not one masculine trait like it wasn't it wasn't like a business meeting or something
00:05:17.900 no no no no imagine no it was like he brought him for coffee too no and I have a company so if it was a
00:05:23.900 company setting I no I know I paid I I had so I was embarrassed I was embarrassed I was embarrassed
00:05:33.900 she just wants to exit yeah I had to take the lead I left but weird I am ultimately quite bossy
00:05:40.900 though like I was gonna lead on to if it was a meeting a business meeting fair enough I'm used to
00:05:45.900 sitting on board with all people and buying the coffee that's all right I don't mind that but
00:05:50.900 he was asking me out to get to know me that's why I was shocked they even bought a friend
00:05:56.900 did he did he mention that at all why the guy was there
00:05:59.900 he just completely lost over the situation
00:06:03.900 no no no he did to be fair they're not he wasn't from the area right to be fair and he was like my
00:06:09.900 friends um I was like why have you why have you brought your mate and he's like oh he was just you know
00:06:14.900 in the area and I was like oh it was getting worse how did you meet him so we was talking for like
00:06:21.900 I would say about a year or two on Instagram we met yeah we so we met through other friends and
00:06:27.900 yeah it continued through Instagram so I'd say Instagram relation
00:06:30.900 wow two years leading up to this date
00:06:33.900 exactly
00:06:34.900 can you imagine
00:06:35.900 you will never get that time back
00:06:36.900 exactly
00:06:37.900 wow
00:06:38.900 time is a currency boy
00:06:39.900 to be fair in all fairness it was an invested time on my part but I'm just saying in general for like about two years we had been in communication and hadn't met up in person so when it come to that time I was so upset like I couldn't believe but that was an ick
00:06:55.900 hit me off
00:06:56.900 hit me off
00:06:57.900 hit me off
00:06:58.900 hit me off
00:06:59.900 hit it dog
00:07:00.900 hit it
00:07:01.900 hit it
00:07:02.900 yeah that was mine
00:07:03.900 what about you last ick
00:07:04.900 uh the inability to lead
00:07:07.900 yeah
00:07:08.900 what is like can I have an example of that
00:07:12.900 not buying the coffee
00:07:14.900 I like I it's about what I like my obviously this is about me so I like a man a masculine man that's not intimidated by somebody else or the next person next week you're into me I want to feel your aura your presence around me because I'm clearly I'm into you and I'm all about you and I don't need
00:07:39.900 you to be all about me like drooling on me but I feel your presence energy energy and if I don't feel that it's just such a you don't have to do the grandest gestures but the lead like in a restaurant not being able to open the menu yes you're getting to know me but what would be nice and what would be good is after you've gotten to know me I would like you to place my order
00:08:08.900 I think that's what my man should be able to do
00:08:11.900 okay so the inability to do that is a big ick
00:08:14.900 okay so you if he doesn't place your order then
00:08:17.900 I want a traditional man so if you're not traditional you're in it
00:08:20.900 okay do you think you're traditional
00:08:22.900 100%
00:08:23.900 okay what makes you traditional
00:08:25.900 probably no no let me take that back
00:08:27.900 let me go to 78%
00:08:33.900 okay what makes you traditional
00:08:36.900 I have a lot of traditional values I was born and raised in a different country so my morals compass is a little bit more different and then people that were born and raised more West
00:08:48.900 okay
00:08:49.900 so like I'm just gonna say that
00:08:50.900 like what
00:08:51.900 like what
00:08:52.900 I'd like
00:08:53.900 to be a homemaker
00:08:55.900 I absolutely love family the traditional I'm saying traditional okay older way
00:09:03.900 old school older way
00:09:06.900 because the traditional when you go and saying the word tradition it means something from before
00:09:10.900 right so it's an older way
00:09:12.900 today's traditions are different
00:09:14.900 yeah because of the way the world is
00:09:16.900 okay we can't so therefore if I could in the ideal world when things are all rosy and it goes my way
00:09:24.900 okay I have like my five or six kids and my husband and yeah