JustPearlyThings - Trad Woman NUKES The Panel With This Fact

00:00:00.000 I know I don't even think people should think like that of like why do you do

00:00:04.360 something why do you do something like at the end of the day if I go into the

00:00:07.420 middle of London and start beheading people does it matter why I did it

00:00:10.120 I don't think it matters why I think what matters is what is 0.51

00:00:17.120 I need the whole story I need like from that to start all the way to the end

00:00:20.000 that's you searching for meaning does that not mean that you're lacking meaning somewhere because

00:00:27.100 you're trying to find it in something else outside of yourself I wouldn't say I'm

00:00:30.920 lacking meaning no I'll just say I just like I need okay let me try and phrase this right

00:00:38.160 I just like somebody who can communicate I've had relationships where do you know what the 0.92

00:00:42.420 man can tell me you're being a dickhead and how do you take that yeah no wait but wait didn't you 0.52

00:00:49.920 say didn't you say earlier your first question is well why yeah that's exhausting to a guy that 0.98

00:00:55.040 means he has to like go back but that's the point is the point is it's like you're looking

00:01:01.220 for an argument when you do that like to a man's point of view but we just never hear this because

00:01:06.500 we don't really hear the man's point of view but that whole thing like that's exhausting it is

00:01:10.380 exhausting and it's why I'd rather just done it because if you can't communicate with me then

00:01:14.880 that's that's just that's my ick anyways and for me it's understanding communication you can't do

00:01:18.960 that with me okay when I hear when I hear chicks talk about communication it always and I'm telling 0.98

00:01:25.140 you just how it sounds to me um do exactly as I want and I need to tell you every time I'm irritated

00:01:31.760 otherwise there's going to be problems not really because then I wouldn't end up being with some of

00:01:36.960 the people that I have been with because I've I would say I've compromised with allowing certain

00:01:41.680 things like what I'm not willing to piss okay you you said it you said it that's the only reason

00:01:48.820 certain things but I would I would say I'm I'm willing to compromise with a man okay do you do

00:01:55.200 you feel like men have compromised on you yeah okay so it's like a mutual compromise oh yeah okay

00:02:01.740 say that okay okay well what about you ick icks so icks would be bad manners the way someone

00:02:08.680 holds themselves um how they treat others eating with their mouth open would be a massive 0.91

00:02:15.720 it that would be a no how about eating vegan food

00:02:19.700 i haven't done a lot of dating or anything I've only ever had long-term relationships really so I

00:02:30.460 don't have a major experience in my relationships I don't think arguing is a good thing I don't think

00:02:36.700 um so I you know in my last relationship I didn't argue or anything like that because

00:02:42.700 you know you're there to actually complement each other you're there to make each other's life

00:02:46.800 easier um advance you you want to actually you know your man advancing advances your life too

00:02:53.740 you guys didn't argue you guys didn't argue at all no until the end okay until the end

00:02:58.960 I was like I was like I was like you guys you should you should get married that sounds like

00:03:03.960 a great relationship yeah we were together for a long time okay yeah but no um to the end because

00:03:09.960 of situations and things that happened okay okay what about you ick um ick in general yeah just the

00:03:18.160 last ick the last time you were or the maybe you went on a date or two or you and you thought

00:03:22.900 that I can never see this guy again ever and this is the reason why I feel like so bad saying it

00:03:29.900 though but the last ick that I had was um someone asked me out for a coffee and he's like come and

00:03:37.900 meet me for a coffee so there I was happy to go meet him for a coffee and he turned up with his friend

00:03:42.900 so I was like what what's going on here who does that at the age we're at now right how old was he

00:03:51.900 how old was he he's my he's 30 he's 30 he's his mentality imagine so I was like shocked and I

00:03:57.900 thought nah this can't be real where's the camera honestly I did I think so I thought some of my

00:04:07.900 friends were setting me up and then I thought no he's he's not joking so the lady in star but am I

00:04:15.900 allowed to say that lady knows me there so she's like coconut mocha so look behind me and um he's

00:04:24.900 then gone and ordered his drink and his mates drink but I've got my app ready to pay and I'm like no way

00:04:30.900 am I paying for him and his mates coffee I swear to god I paid and left yeah I swear paid and left

00:04:41.900 I paid and left because yeah because listen it's my local I couldn't do that to myself it's my local

00:04:49.900 it was too shameful plus my points were nearly collected for my three new ones

00:04:53.900 that was a big ick for me and some of my friends were like that's really shallow what was it shallow or

00:05:04.900 it's not at all because I felt so violated and disrespected in that instance of him just showing up with his

00:05:11.900 friend in the first place yeah it's not one masculine trait like it wasn't it wasn't like a business meeting or something

00:05:17.900 no no no no imagine no it was like he brought him for coffee too no and I have a company so if it was a

00:05:23.900 company setting I no I know I paid I I had so I was embarrassed I was embarrassed I was embarrassed

00:05:33.900 she just wants to exit yeah I had to take the lead I left but weird I am ultimately quite bossy

00:05:40.900 though like I was gonna lead on to if it was a meeting a business meeting fair enough I'm used to

00:05:45.900 sitting on board with all people and buying the coffee that's all right I don't mind that but

00:05:50.900 he was asking me out to get to know me that's why I was shocked they even bought a friend

00:05:56.900 did he did he mention that at all why the guy was there

00:05:59.900 he just completely lost over the situation

00:06:03.900 no no no he did to be fair they're not he wasn't from the area right to be fair and he was like my

00:06:09.900 friends um I was like why have you why have you brought your mate and he's like oh he was just you know

00:06:14.900 in the area and I was like oh it was getting worse how did you meet him so we was talking for like

00:06:21.900 I would say about a year or two on Instagram we met yeah we so we met through other friends and

00:06:27.900 yeah it continued through Instagram so I'd say Instagram relation

00:06:30.900 wow two years leading up to this date

00:06:33.900 exactly

00:06:34.900 can you imagine

00:06:35.900 you will never get that time back

00:06:36.900 exactly

00:06:37.900 wow

00:06:38.900 time is a currency boy

00:06:39.900 to be fair in all fairness it was an invested time on my part but I'm just saying in general for like about two years we had been in communication and hadn't met up in person so when it come to that time I was so upset like I couldn't believe but that was an ick

00:06:55.900 hit me off

00:06:56.900 hit me off 0.96

00:06:57.900 hit me off 0.96

00:06:58.900 hit me off 0.99

00:06:59.900 hit it dog 1.00

00:07:00.900 hit it 0.87

00:07:01.900 hit it

00:07:02.900 yeah that was mine

00:07:03.900 what about you last ick

00:07:04.900 uh the inability to lead

00:07:07.900 yeah

00:07:08.900 what is like can I have an example of that

00:07:12.900 not buying the coffee

00:07:14.900 I like I it's about what I like my obviously this is about me so I like a man a masculine man that's not intimidated by somebody else or the next person next week you're into me I want to feel your aura your presence around me because I'm clearly I'm into you and I'm all about you and I don't need

00:07:39.900 you to be all about me like drooling on me but I feel your presence energy energy and if I don't feel that it's just such a you don't have to do the grandest gestures but the lead like in a restaurant not being able to open the menu yes you're getting to know me but what would be nice and what would be good is after you've gotten to know me I would like you to place my order

00:08:08.900 I think that's what my man should be able to do

00:08:11.900 okay so the inability to do that is a big ick

00:08:14.900 okay so you if he doesn't place your order then

00:08:17.900 I want a traditional man so if you're not traditional you're in it 1.00

00:08:20.900 okay do you think you're traditional

00:08:22.900 100%

00:08:23.900 okay what makes you traditional

00:08:25.900 probably no no let me take that back

00:08:27.900 let me go to 78%

00:08:33.900 okay what makes you traditional

00:08:36.900 I have a lot of traditional values I was born and raised in a different country so my morals compass is a little bit more different and then people that were born and raised more West

00:08:48.900 okay

00:08:49.900 so like I'm just gonna say that

00:08:50.900 like what

00:08:51.900 like what

00:08:52.900 I'd like

00:08:53.900 to be a homemaker

00:08:55.900 I absolutely love family the traditional I'm saying traditional okay older way

00:09:03.900 old school older way

00:09:06.900 because the traditional when you go and saying the word tradition it means something from before

00:09:10.900 right so it's an older way

00:09:12.900 today's traditions are different

00:09:14.900 yeah because of the way the world is

00:09:16.900 okay we can't so therefore if I could in the ideal world when things are all rosy and it goes my way

00:09:24.900 okay I have like my five or six kids and my husband and yeah

JustPearlyThings - October 29, 2023

Trad Woman NUKES The Panel With This Fact

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