JustPearlyThings - Traditional Woman Roasts Delusional Bimbo

00:00:00.000 what do you think feminist stops women from having a man to a certain degree yeah i mean as i'm the 1.00

00:00:07.200 young lady over there said that you know if you're in a relationship with um someone is kind of all

00:00:11.840 about knowing what each other like and you know and they won't make each other tick and you know

00:00:17.520 um if you truly um love each other or the other person you try and like you know make time to

00:00:23.440 kind of communicate about certain things and try and have an understanding and um you know if and

00:00:30.080 if after that things are not then you know what to do um basically so um yeah yeah i mean i'm not

00:00:36.480 really in the feminist expert but you know um yeah okay so now we're gonna react to which one do i 1.00

00:00:46.080 want to do first you know i'm gonna do the one with me in it king can you pull that one i just

00:00:51.440 this is a fun clip of mine so this is from this is like over a year ago i think this is before i

00:00:58.800 got to england wow you look different yeah that sort of sort of space but back he's he's immediately like

00:01:12.720 i want let's celebrate like i want to take you out and i'm like oh how many how many dates have

00:01:17.840 you guys gone on one okay yeah we went on one right before i left that was our first first date

00:01:24.080 as a date go ahead sorry so now we'll go i guess on a second one and see what but he's kind of short

00:01:31.520 he's only like five nine oh that's you're you're what like five nine right i'm five eight that's tall

00:01:37.440 enough right not really you know manifesting a tall man one of the other guys i'm talking to is six foot

00:01:42.960 seven oh wow yeah um and we'll be going out soon it's just a matter of like scheduling we just

00:01:52.400 haven't been able to like link on the schedules we both work a lot oh there's another guy who i just

00:01:59.280 made this whole ticket tick tock about who was like all about me asking me out calling me all these pet

00:02:04.960 names my love and all this and then we're talking and i was like oh you have the vaccine right and he was

00:02:10.640 like no i was like you're not vaccinated and you want to go out with me i'm like i'm not going out

00:02:14.960 with you you're not vaccinated what do you expect me to be kissing you you're not vaccinated i'm like

00:02:18.720 oh really oh i wouldn't care i would care in too many arenas where you have to be vaccinated like i

00:02:25.440 work at a yoga studio where we're requiring proof of vaccination that's right right now holding all

00:02:29.760 laundry i own all these music festivals where they're requiring proof of vaccination and to me it's so

00:02:35.200 much deeper than just like do you or don't you it's about that like i don't want to have

00:02:39.040 that debate with you right like clearly if we don't view it the same way we're not in alignment

00:02:45.280 right so would you not would you not date someone that was different than you like politically

00:02:50.560 no i wouldn't what are what are your standards like what are your requirements for a guy

00:02:55.440 i mean politically i definitely want us to have the same view you know i'm a black woman right so

00:02:58.960 i'm not going to date a white republican that would just be a headache like why would we do that to

00:03:02.800 ourselves we wouldn't have the same friends we wouldn't travel in the same circles and we don't 0.97

00:03:07.680 view this the world the same way so i want to use the world the same as me and even if you're not black

00:03:13.120 but you're white and you like get and understand the black struggle fine that's fine um but yeah i

00:03:19.200 definitely want them to have the same political views as me because it's just why bother and having

00:03:23.440 those arguments okay i'm just going to turn into a fight later yeah no so what like what else um

00:03:33.840 well i have to have a car this other guy who didn't have the vaccine he didn't have a car i was like how

00:03:37.600 are you coming to take me out you don't have a car you know i'm not driving anywhere yeah

00:03:42.320 no that's like minimum requirement you have to have a car um i've also realized that i want someone

00:03:46.960 that has like some sort of creative or like job and entertainment like i have um you have to be

00:03:54.240 very ambitious because i am very ambitious i want to be able like you know we'll spend our days or

00:03:59.040 whatever separately and then at the end of the night i want us to be able to come together and talk about

00:04:02.800 all of the exciting things that happen in each of our lives right like okay this other guy was like

00:04:07.680 well i'm not rich i'm a regular guy and i was like that's fine but like i'm not a regular girl

00:04:12.720 like i'm i'm not so like if you are going to date me like either you have to be able to handle that

00:04:18.560 or you yourself also must not be like regular like i don't think like just an average person

00:04:24.320 like that to be boring okay so

00:04:29.120 is there like do you care okay would you be cool with a guy that makes less money but he's very he's

00:04:33.440 a hard worker like he's ambitious yeah okay so like if he was making like let's say he just started

00:04:40.880 his own business but he makes 45 000 a year would you date him he wouldn't be able to afford my

00:04:45.840 engagement ring i'm getting an eight karat cushion cut vintage engagement ring if you make 45 000 a

00:04:51.520 year it would take you what four years no eight years to afford but how much i don't know anything

00:04:58.160 about rings how much how much is that about two hundred thousand dollars girl you want a two hundred 1.00

00:05:02.880 thousand dollar are you insane my ring has to sparkle from across the street like that's

00:05:09.280 you get blind people that's so superficial that's like so superficial but it's about so much more 0.97

00:05:15.280 than that it's about the fact that you can afford that right i go to yoga with this girl there's an

00:05:19.120 eight karat diamond engagement ring yeah the weed company and drives an audi so it's about more than

00:05:24.720 just it's about the fact that you can afford that okay well i'm just thinking like

00:05:28.800 you're gonna miss out on a lot of guys because i'm telling but not not in a good way not in a good

00:05:36.400 way i'm telling you like my dad would if my mom asked for that from my dad my dad would have told

00:05:42.400 her to go find a new boyfriend because there's no way in hell he was going to spend two hundred 1.00

00:05:46.480 thousand dollars on an engagement ring and that's no and that's a multi-millionaire in the top

00:05:53.120 half a percent who had ten kids my mom never he built he said he's built to the becoming that

00:06:00.080 he wasn't that originally right he wasn't well he was making like six figures in his early 20s

00:06:05.520 oh nice so so any any women woman with half a brain would think this is a good this is a good 1.00

00:06:11.520 but my dad's like he's good with money he's not like like to me that's like such an unwise investment

00:06:16.960 to spend 200k diamonds appreciate oh my god no no oh my god no that's like i would rather put that

00:06:28.320 in a college fund for our kids or like yeah they'll have that too but this just sounds like not like

00:06:35.840 real to me you know really yeah i don't know for me like i told you like my my status is going up like

00:06:42.880 i just did a music festival where i made 30 grand over the yeah in one weekend you know what i mean

00:06:47.360 like i need somebody who can be on that level right but the problem is like guys don't care about your

00:06:51.760 money right there i i know but it doesn't like you know like i'm just i think you're gonna miss out on

00:07:00.080 a lot of guys with like this like to me these are like crazy high standards so today i listened to my

00:07:06.800 dating coach she said you do not get your expectation you get your minimum standard

00:07:12.880 um is your dating coach married yes and she has a baby and her wedding ring is at least five

00:07:20.320 carrots yeah and her man is rich and she doesn't even have to work okay you know what herself makes 1.00

00:07:25.680 like 30 to 50 grand a month coaching women in love i mean good luck if that like works for you i just

00:07:33.600 like to me that sounds like a 200k engagement ring like i think like guys are gonna hear that and be like

00:07:41.840 no no no you just have to have the man who's okay with maintaining you right with maintaining you

00:07:48.960 right like you can be high maintenance but if you are dating a man that is okay with maintaining you

00:07:53.120 you're fine you're not high maintenance then you're just on their level okay but i'm i'm just thinking

00:07:58.560 like like i i know but those guys that are making like like that amount of money like

00:08:05.760 yeah like i think they typically want like the young like 21 22 year olds

00:08:14.880 i don't think so maybe what i'm 30 so i'm not that old i'm actually an age to be wiped up by somebody

00:08:24.480 who's like in their 40s and like ready to be serious and start popping out babies a 21 year old unless you're

00:08:29.600 kylie jenner is realistically too young to be like popping out kids like you're too young

00:08:37.120 yeah i mean that's just i'm sorry the 200 000 like that's crazy to me

00:08:43.040 that's like oh my gosh i cannot believe that's crazy

00:08:49.280 someone that can make that amount of money in a shorter period of time like somebody who would say

00:08:53.840 a musical artist right a music producer somebody who's in entertainment somebody who's on a tv show

00:08:58.960 somebody who does like concerts and tours that amount of money isn't the same to them you know what

00:09:07.120 i mean what do you what do you mean like say i was dating somebody like a g easy right okay he makes

00:09:13.520 150 000 minimum for a show minimum that's what he makes in a show yeah so if he does a couple shows

00:09:19.840 the 200 grand to him he won't even feel it no but like this is something coming from someone like

00:09:26.080 i've been in a relationship with a guy that was worth over a million like i but i would never in

00:09:31.520 a million years ask him to spend 200k on a ring like to me that's like that's almost like entitled

00:09:37.920 like i'm not entitled to his money i i mean here's the thing if i can afford it myself i will i would

00:09:46.640 want you to be able to get it for me right yeah get it myself wow oh my gosh that's just

00:09:54.000 yeah i guess like we kind of probably have different like views on like spending habits

00:09:57.920 because to me i'm like i would even if i had the money i would never spend that on a ring

00:10:04.240 but i'm also not that much of a jewelry person right so it's like you're not going to need to

00:10:07.840 be buying me diamonds for every anniversary or jewelry all the time like get me my ring

00:10:14.160 and that's it i don't really need much else sorry so haha so um when i first started

00:10:24.000 i didn't think people like that existed to be honest until i was on my life so i want to know

00:10:29.360 does anyone expect a 200 000 engagement ring anyone not not when my hair looks like that

00:10:36.240 her hair is literally pick e like someone needs to comb it out properly and she's talking about a 0.99

00:10:43.200 200 000 ring she needs to know how to take care of herself and actually look like 200 000 before 1.00

00:10:48.880 she opens up her teeth to say i want a 200 000 ring it's like second of all why does your ring even need 1.00

00:10:54.640 to cost that much is that what marriage is about and this is the reason why a lot of girls are really 1.00

00:10:59.280 struggling in relationships because their meaning of marriage and companionship is completely

00:11:03.680 it's completely clouded it's wrong and did you see her talk about one value she wanted him to have

00:11:08.960 like one character trait i didn't hear i heard rapper entertainer i heard ring like no she's not looking

00:11:16.240 on the right direction you know i think and not to be read or anything but i don't think the ballers

00:11:20.800 even want her she does not look on point i'm sorry to say that like you have to look the part in order

00:11:26.240 to attract the part so i feel like she's extremely delusional sorry to say sis does anyone think

00:11:32.480 yeah what do you think of her dating coach she said she had a dating coach that told her you're

00:11:37.360 you you raise your standards right what do you guys think of that i think her dating coach is setting

00:11:42.000 her up

00:11:45.760 that dating coach should have told her to brush her hair before she comes and says 1.00

00:11:51.360 i think in in the sense of like having a dating coach to begin with shows that she doesn't really know

00:11:58.080 what she really wants from a relationship and i feel like if you're going to go into a relationship

00:12:03.200 you need to know what you want before you even get into it because that's i feel like a lot of

00:12:08.400 relationships don't last because you get people just getting together and then they don't look at

00:12:14.640 their values or and then it comes out maybe later on and then you know it falls apart to be honest i don't

00:12:21.280 think she really wants a relationship from what i've heard like i i don't think she wants something 0.98

00:12:26.080 serious i don't think she wants to be valued and respected in her relationship i mean you know

00:12:31.040 have one thing a 200k ring that's not even the issue like the whatever she was saying that doesn't 0.93

00:12:37.360 make any sense like you know it's fine to date whatever rappers you know actors just date whoever

00:12:44.240 you want to date but then don't have this type of expectations from as many of you know i was just

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JustPearlyThings - April 27, 2023

Traditional Woman Roasts Delusional Bimbo

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