JustPearlyThings - July 08, 2023


Transformed Wife's VIEW of ADULTERY in Marriage


Episode Stats

Length

10 minutes

Words per Minute

185.82089

Word Count

1,992

Sentence Count

1

Hate Speech Sentences

7


Summary


Transcript

00:00:00.000 i was even tweeting like recently about cheating and i was saying like you should work through
00:00:04.320 cheating if you can like i'm not for it right but adultery in marriage yeah yeah like um i was
00:00:11.920 saying that that should be the goal right that should the goal should be to work through it
00:00:16.400 because i hear about the men whose wives haven't slept with them in years i know and so it's like
00:00:23.280 a lot of times they'll cheat but it's like well what did you i mean i i don't want to sound like
00:00:29.280 i'm condoning it but what did you expect like well that's why we're not supposed to drive deprive each
00:00:34.480 other in the bible because our lack of self-control god warns men and women not to derive your spells
00:00:40.160 your spouse because of lack of self-control but i had a woman she was my bible study leader and her
00:00:44.800 husband had an affair and she had three children and she had determined she was going to win her
00:00:49.840 husband back so even she remembers one time even helping him wash his car and waving goodbye as he
00:00:54.000 went off to his girlfriend but she fought she fought by loving him praying grace upon him she
00:00:59.440 won him back it took him a year after they were together he finally apologized i have other women
00:01:04.880 i've mentored who've won their husbands back after adultery and they went on to mentor do premarital
00:01:11.840 counseling at our church for years and had a great marriage until he died and other other women who've
00:01:18.720 won multiple women i know who have won their husbands back after that the men have had affairs and
00:01:23.760 they have wonderful their husbands are thankful that they didn't you know divorce them and destroy
00:01:28.880 their family they want they don't want to destroy their children's lives because that destroys children's
00:01:33.600 lives divorce does i think i saw a tweet i i just started seeing your tweets a week or two ago but you
00:01:39.520 said something that divorce should never happen and i say divorce should never ever take place between two
00:01:45.680 believers in jesus christ never ever it should never happen in anyone unless there is you know
00:01:52.720 physically if if of the man or the woman is i know a woman who is completely physically abusive to her
00:01:58.960 husband throw thing throw things at him and beat him and he had to leave her you know and in cases on
00:02:05.840 those cases i can completely see or a man who is an unlike a one woman fought for her marriage he he for
00:02:13.760 she he was having an affair and he loved this other woman and he ended up moving in with her and he finally you
00:02:20.080 know i think he divorced her yeah he told her he divorced her and you know she let him go and
00:02:27.120 and she can remarry now because she was abandoned and he's remarried but and she fought so it doesn't
00:02:33.360 always work you know all marriages can't stay together for those couple of reasons and sometimes
00:02:39.920 they're just abandoned these women i know who their husbands just abandoned them not for an affair
00:02:46.240 or anything but or the wife multiple men have mentored my husband's been their husbands just their
00:02:52.400 wives just abandoned them for no reason just leave them and um i'm sorry god no yeah it's just tragic
00:03:00.800 yeah well i mean there's exceptions to every rule right so i wasn't even saying like there's no
00:03:06.320 exceptions but it's like okay what we have today isn't marriage it can't be marriage if the average
00:03:12.000 marriage is eight years so i was like you know for the people that believe in divorce you guys should
00:03:17.520 just stick to the relationships the living in with each other so the people that really don't believe
00:03:22.640 in divorce can do the real marriage thing because now it's like you have a whole movement of men that
00:03:27.840 are going their own way and i actually i understand it because with the way the laws are the way they are the
00:03:34.560 women have so much leverage in a marriage and we can leave over anything and there's no guarantees for the guy
00:03:40.720 i know so president reagan is the one who instituted no-fault divorce which is sad i'm just
00:03:48.560 you know and he was we thought a good president but he also gave the the um most liberal birth abortion laws
00:03:57.600 but yeah um yeah it's it's really sad but you know like me i i teach truth and everyone wants
00:04:05.840 me to give the exceptions to everything submit to your husband everything you know don't you know stay
00:04:11.360 married and tell life to your to your part i just want to teach you know the rules you guys you're
00:04:17.360 learning all the exceptions everywhere else just let's let's let's go with truth and try to stick with
00:04:21.760 truth you know thank you thank you god thank you it's like i'm so tired of hearing about every
00:04:29.040 exception what about this this this and i'm just like okay can we talk about the rule
00:04:34.240 so just like i said i've only seen you for the last two weeks i didn't really know you but saying that
00:04:40.400 women who aren't married should not give marriage advice and women who don't have children but you've
00:04:46.080 still anybody who's lived in this world has lived around good marriages and bad marriages you've
00:04:52.000 seen what makes marriages work what doesn't make marriages work you've seen what what child
00:04:58.240 raising practices work which don't and i don't see why you're completely disqualified
00:05:03.760 for saying don't get divorced you know i'm not giving you a step-by-step of what
00:05:10.240 it's difficult submit to your husbands yeah i'm not married but when i'm married i want to submit
00:05:16.560 to my husband i probably won't do it perfectly but i know that it's got to be the right way you know
00:05:22.640 i'm my favorite person on the internet now you can have me hold you accountable once you get married
00:05:28.560 yeah like and this is the thing i don't pretend to like do it perfectly but it's just like
00:05:34.880 yeah and like i'm just i'm not blind and i see what it does to men that live their whole
00:05:39.760 lives with like a quarrelsome wife it's terrible and if i didn't find this content i like i probably
00:05:45.840 would do the same thing like i'm thankful i found this stuff when i'm 26 and not 36 right
00:05:52.640 so now you're going to start going to a solid biblical church and find a godly man huh
00:05:58.000 yes yes no i wanna um i'm catholic so i like i like the catholic church well i know that i know
00:06:07.200 some catholics who seem to be strong believers um like abby johnson and matt walsh they they speak
00:06:14.880 more like a true believer in jesus christ and a lot of christians they're reading your bible
00:06:19.680 talking about jesus christ a lot and um so i know catholics who are definitely i don't believe in a
00:06:24.960 lot of the doctrine of catholics because you don't need to go to a priest because jesus christ is our high
00:06:29.680 priest mary was just a fallen sinful uh woman who needed a savior she birthed the savior of the world
00:06:37.200 you know some of their doctrines i don't like but i know i've known catholics through the years who
00:06:42.400 actually did read their bibles study their bibles know god's word and um love the lord jesus christ
00:06:48.640 very much so just start reading your bible start in the book of john read a couple chapters every well
00:06:54.880 no read genesis you have the first three chapters of genesis foundation of how god created us read
00:07:02.080 genesis and then go to john and read to the end of this bible a couple chapters a day and you know
00:07:08.000 find a catholic church that teaches scripture if you can find one i just switched my shows i just i used
00:07:16.720 to be so much better about going to church till i started these shows i would do them on saturday
00:07:21.360 nights but i just switched it so i could start go because i went when i was home this time i was
00:07:26.480 like i missed church i did when you're going home i'm moving home in the fall so i move in with the
00:07:33.520 parents i'm very excited i'll still no well i was until uh march so i might do a tournament here or there
00:07:42.160 but no um this has to be my last season it was too much i just can't do it all
00:07:47.600 yeah get married start having babies yeah i i'm trying i'm trying and then you can go from
00:07:56.320 experience in your experience as you become a wife and mother and a homemaker i'll still believe it
00:08:04.400 sorry go ahead i i share a lot of my recipes and homemaking on my instagram that's where all my
00:08:11.200 recipe and on my blogs i have a lot of recipes too so i don't i'm so busy teaching women
00:08:18.080 to be submissive and not deprive their husband sexually and be chaste and modest and all that
00:08:23.360 with making quiet spirits that that takes a lot of time well thank you so much for coming on um
00:08:31.280 right now you're one of the most based women on the internet base just based thanks um any where
00:08:40.800 where can the people find you um the transform wife i'm on all the social media platforms as
00:08:47.040 the transform wife in fact i went on tick tock um several months ago i wasn't gonna go on tick tock
00:08:52.800 but a man just oh no they need your voice on tick tock so i have quite a few videos on there i don't
00:09:00.480 follow anyone i don't do anything on tick tock but make my three little minute videos then i put them on my
00:09:05.920 youtube and someone wrote me i went on to tick tock and you can't believe how many people speak
00:09:10.880 wickedly about you i go oh really you know what at least are spreading the truth i don't care if
00:09:16.480 how the truth is spread like the debt-free virgin so many people found me through that you know and
00:09:21.600 now this marital rape thing which is so sad um that i don't do not promote that but they say i do
00:09:27.520 but you know a lot of people are just seeing truth of what i teach they don't like it a lot of
00:09:32.400 people but that's you know truth is not easy too it's against what our culture teaches and believes
00:09:40.720 i just smile i'm like tick tock i just i'm like no don't don't i know i've been kicked
00:09:48.960 off of there like five times i know but i i you know what i've already had one two one one taken
00:09:56.800 they won't allow it and another one they kept the silence off but i killed it and they put the
00:10:00.960 silence back on it was like i it was titled a little talk about sex it's like they're gonna
00:10:06.320 take the sound off that when what i i'm sure there's just plenty of garbage on tick tock
00:10:11.120 and it's like a little talk about tick tock from old grandma and they're gonna take that off
00:10:16.560 like i'm gonna do something kinky or anything it's just like oh brother oh well they don't like truth
00:10:22.320 no they don't oh well thank you so much um guys make sure you like the video on your way out
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