JustPearlyThings - August 29, 2023


Triggered Woman Gets Kicked off the show


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Length

10 minutes

Words per minute

195.69434

Word count

2,018

Sentence count

2

Harmful content

Misogyny

7

sentences flagged

Hate speech

3

sentences flagged


Summary

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In this episode, we talk about what is the ideal weight for a woman who has a kid and how much weight she should be in order to achieve that ideal weight. We also talk about body shaming women and why we should stop body shaming men.

Transcript

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00:00:00.000 but you know okay um all right if a girl has a kid how many letters does she go down 0.96
00:00:08.400 b c i don't really want to d
00:00:15.600 she's off the charts okay okay i'm gonna personally say a kid puts you
00:00:23.120 down to a c or a d i'm my gut is telling me d it's d wow yeah that's real sad
00:00:29.520 oh it's really sad who thinks that's generous all right all right so so i'm not thinking it
00:00:33.120 i'm just saying a and you have a kid are you down to a b raise your hand i just you're down to a c
00:00:39.440 raise your hand a c or raise it all right d raise your hand all right i say d three d's okay
00:00:50.960 sorry i think it's gonna be easy i think it's gonna be easier now we have the ideal and we're
00:00:57.920 gonna say like what everything brings you down to okay so what how how much does being 20 pounds
00:01:06.000 overweight bring you down um an a goes down to uh with 20 pounds 20 pounds overweight that's not that
00:01:14.960 much it's actually a lot but modern women think it's not a lot but yeah you would have been considered 1.00
00:01:20.480 like 20 pounds would have been considered crazy 50 years ago but some people we live in this delusion
00:01:25.360 but what if some people are like like like they go to the gym and they like they build muscle muscle
00:01:30.640 they should eat less no but like you know like we weigh more if we have muscle and we like we're
00:01:35.520 talking about overweight we're not talking about yeah but you could be bmi overweight no but that's
00:01:39.680 not fact no no but that's what they say like if if you if you go to the gym that's not true because i
00:01:44.400 i ever since i got back in the gym i've actually weighed less but not everyone will look bigger
00:01:53.120 but those are exceptions muscle doesn't weigh as much as fat yeah but what if you
00:01:58.080 all right and bulk and it's literally science right let's just no they they this is propaganda yeah
00:02:04.480 actually all you have to do is look up okay um we're gonna we're gonna go through this because i really
00:02:10.240 um you guys do the metric scale is that here all right so do you guys do centimeters yeah yeah all
00:02:20.400 right so okay wait i'm trying to pull this up so centimeters and this is the thing kevin because a lot
00:02:29.280 of we live in delusion because the men accept it from us because we're so bad but like um it doesn't
00:02:36.240 make it like not reality but yeah so um it looks like um if you're four if you're five three 160
00:02:47.600 centimeters as a chick a healthy bmi is i think you have to be it looks like under 70 kgs does that sound
00:02:59.600 right how much is that in pounds i only know pounds um i'm trying to see wait wait i will fight
00:03:05.680 wait five seven that's doable the green the normal way is green so five seven is yeah one fit you have
00:03:16.720 to be under 150. yeah to be in shape so 20 pounds overweight i think honestly i think 20 pounds brings
00:03:25.120 you down depends on how you carry it but i'm gonna say one maybe two that's my gut what do you what
00:03:33.120 do you guys think who thinks it brings you down to a b probably yeah b yeah all right we'll do b we
00:03:40.880 can do b okay we can do b all right 40 pounds where does that bring you to a c or a d
00:03:49.760 c c c i'm just gonna go in 20s see it's like funny are you guys uncomfortable i feel so uncomfortable
00:04:02.480 right i don't want to talk about yeah i just think it's i hate it but we could do this with men and
00:04:07.440 it would be so easy we are just degrading men as well why is that any better just because you're gonna
00:04:13.680 just like i just don't like body shaming anyone that doesn't mean you need to degrade them score
00:04:19.120 them on a board okay you don't think we should shame bad choices no i think it's rude as fuck to sit 0.82
00:04:24.080 and put things on everything should we shame already what you wrote is should we shame men from being
00:04:28.400 criminals you're not writing that on the board though are you that's the thing we do them you've
00:04:33.520 already put d as a kid yet when you get married to someone so the minute you have a kid with someone
00:04:38.160 you're married to now you're a d are you are you trying to misunderstand or are you dumb no it's just 0.66
00:04:42.640 rude what so you're telling me you're not degrading women you've literally got grades on a board
00:04:46.480 degrading them degrading anybody let's let's live in reality um we're talking about a kid bringing it
00:04:52.400 into a marriage not one that you create all right so we got 20 40 pounds a kid 100 pounds would be e
00:05:01.680 obviously i think that would be a u that's well i got rid of it yeah that's also a grading system
00:05:07.280 here but yes unmarkable yeah and not every man's even going to agree with what you're writing on
00:05:13.040 the board because everyone's got a preference we're going to ask them we're going to ask them
00:05:16.640 in a second they're going to come in that's the whole world in this room isn't it well i mean no
00:05:22.160 it's not this well many why are you so upset what's because it's horrible you're literally degrading
00:05:28.080 women on a board what what's nice about that what's this going to do for anyone what is degrading 1.00
00:05:33.440 make them make better choices putting them next degrees and bringing them down it will hold them
00:05:37.360 accountable it will hold them accountable so they make better choices we'll show them that actions
00:05:41.440 have consequences because if you're going to someone on your level like that you're all preaching
00:05:44.800 on podcast they're not going to matter about this i have a question is it better that the world
00:05:49.280 tells them through their through the outcome but they're not going to because if you're settling for
00:05:53.520 people on your level they're not going to start grading you on a board are they they don't think
00:05:57.520 they're prestige they'll do it mentally they won't do it on a board mentally you can whine about
00:06:01.920 it all you want but this is how men think you're not whining it's rude it's actually rude it's reality
00:06:05.200 no but it's funny because you're on a relationship podcast like it doesn't mean you need to
00:06:10.880 degrade no i'm saying like what else would we be talking about not putting nets to grades you can
00:06:14.800 say what i'm saying bring them down and what your preference is you don't need to start grading
00:06:18.080 women because all the women watching this are now thinking what grade am i because if someone's 0.99
00:06:22.000 wrote it on a board but this is how it happens this is reality like men and women i said oh
00:06:26.400 i'll shut up it's fine carry on we've we've tried to have the conversation we've had conversations
00:06:31.760 about this does it mean you need to grade people can i make my point we've tried to have a conversation
00:06:36.240 and you still didn't get the point this is called a visual exercise this is not going to make me
00:06:39.920 understand your point degrading women then that just means that you're you know you're all just
00:06:44.080 against like it's horrible horrible to be a part of i'm not gonna lie i'm just going to be real what
00:06:49.920 you're doing right now you're just trying to be emotional to derail the conversation if you're
00:06:53.200 emotional because you're degrading women if you don't want to be part of it you can get up and
00:06:56.960 leave you don't have to like no i said i wouldn't you ask no one is forcing you to sit here but what
00:07:03.440 you're no but you asked for my opinion did you not yes and then you could say you don't have anything
00:07:07.120 to say but if you don't if you and i did then i would still ask my opinion but you're still trying
00:07:10.560 to derail the conversation you can just say well i'm not gonna say i'm not the only one who said it's
00:07:14.800 horrible so yeah that's fine but you you keep trying to you keep trying to do my point is you
00:07:19.600 keep trying to derail the conversation why don't you just go if you don't like it just go it's
00:07:23.520 as simple as that all right um so next we're gonna do what was it what were we gonna do it was kids
00:07:35.280 all right how if a girl isn't submissive how much does that bring her down probably to like a d 1.00
00:07:40.160 a d yeah like that that attitude how much i'm over this like i'm just wondering d d d she's
00:07:49.600 starting to get it what do you guys think i think it's a c because it's an average of i mean based
00:07:56.400 on man preference so it's a c i can't wait but this is all but this is all men this is all through
00:08:02.400 preference so it's like we can think that but some guys won't think we're gonna ask the guys what they
00:08:07.280 think in a second so we're just we're just trying to make it simple who thinks c raise your hand
00:08:11.680 a bad attitude brings you down to a c are you asking girls yeah girls girls raise your hand i'm
00:08:16.160 i'm actually gonna say like a c because apparently if you're hot it's fine it's not what we said i don't
00:08:22.240 i don't know if you're listening but all right i say d i said occasionally not by and large but they
00:08:27.840 get divorced later anyway because they just make their husband's life miserable and then they get yeah so
00:08:32.080 i'm gonna pick c all right c what do you think c or d a d d d c c if i compare her attitude to this 0.99
00:08:39.600 board i would say e to be very honest i like you all right we're gonna go down to d just i think it's
00:08:48.080 like an average if you picked an yeah this is an f actually i got rid of the e 0.92
00:08:52.720 all right no no domestic skills where does that bring her down to 1.00
00:09:06.640 no i'm gonna say a b yeah me too yeah she can learn that's what i don't know i feel like this
00:09:13.440 that's a big thing for someone i could be wrong i'd say like a again a cd cd okay yeah if you can't cook
00:09:20.480 or do you all look after a house or some of those kind of domestic things good point it's just not
00:09:25.360 gonna what do you think hmm yeah i agree see yeah okay what do you think can you define it
00:09:32.160 cooking cleaning looking after a home domestic skills like are you neat are you tidy can you
00:09:38.880 you can't do that then you're definitely in the e that's like that's the same you have really
00:09:45.520 changed all right no she's been absorbing everything trust me i like the growth she's like
00:09:50.560 you know church the men are proud
00:09:55.760 i said b she said b she said c you say you say uh i think that's an average of a c right would you yeah
00:10:02.800 okay oh that's been way too nice that's way too nice way too nice they're not going to agree with
00:10:08.080 us pal yeah but that's what you lot are saying we're going to get our chances yeah i think it's
00:10:12.720 we're going to we're going to do for men after yeah yeah we're going to rate the men but it's going
00:10:16.720 to be a lot quicker because i think