JustPearlyThings - October 31, 2023


Tyrese Gibson Shuts Down His Ex Wife


Episode Stats


Length

9 minutes

Words per minute

171.98228

Word count

1,695

Sentence count

124

Harmful content

Misogyny

27

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Toxicity

26

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Hate speech

21

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Summary

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Samantha Lee had no problems getting divorced from Tyrese. Everything seemed good. And now she s having second thoughts and regretting her divorce. She went out there and dated again and realized the grass may not be greener on the other side.

Transcript

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00:00:00.000 And we see this in real time.
00:00:01.700 You know, Samantha Lee had no problems getting divorced from Tyrese. 1.00
00:00:06.880 Everything seemed good.
00:00:07.980 She thought it was the right decision.
00:00:09.320 And last week, we covered that it, in fact, was not good.
00:00:13.740 And now she's having second thoughts and regretting her divorce.
00:00:16.960 She went out there and dated again and realized the grass probably is not going to be greener
00:00:21.800 on the other side.
00:00:23.020 She puts out a video saying that she regrets it.
00:00:25.840 And let's see Tyrese's response.
00:00:28.620 The truth about the matter is that if I had different people in my ear at that time,
00:00:35.540 I would not have made that decision.
00:00:36.760 Look, man, I was not going to respond to this video of my ex has now gone viral.
00:00:46.180 She is loving it.
00:00:48.020 Congratulations.
00:00:48.920 You went viral again over something else that you said because you're trying to build up
00:00:53.140 your YouTube page and get your followers up.
00:00:55.560 Listen, man, listen, if you had people in your ear that influenced you into leaving your
00:01:03.640 husband and your one-year-old child, your innocent one-year-old child, we both were divorcee
00:01:11.340 kids, grew up in toxic environments, torn in between our old family, new family, stepfather,
00:01:18.920 stepmother.
00:01:19.880 That's a life that we both lived.
00:01:22.380 And you packed up a one-year-old, put a COVID mask on top of the rain cameras, and I was
00:01:34.780 literally in an airplane on my way home to fight for my marriage and my family.
00:01:40.760 You're heartless.
00:01:41.920 And it's been three years.
00:01:46.480 I've moved on.
00:01:47.960 I'm with Zellie.
00:01:50.060 You moved on.
00:01:52.180 I don't even want to tell niggas the first nigga you started dating when we broke up because 1.00
00:01:57.000 you're going to go viral from that.
00:01:58.500 If I were to tell niggas who you started dating as soon as we broke up, you would go viral 1.00
00:02:06.040 from that.
00:02:06.820 All you want is attention.
00:02:08.480 You want Facebook followers.
00:02:10.380 You want Instagram followers.
00:02:12.160 You're trying to be a life coach, and you're trying to get niggas to drink the Kool-Aid. 1.00
00:02:16.500 You fucking with a real one right here. 0.98
00:02:19.440 So, a couple things that are interesting about this clip. 0.99
00:02:24.840 So, he says, if people were to know who you dated right after me, you would go viral.
00:02:31.060 So, I'm assuming it's some high-profile guy that we know that would never commit to her,
00:02:35.920 that she probably thought she could get commitment from, and probably did what men tend to do with 0.95
00:02:43.200 single mother divorcees, which is pass them on to the next. 1.00
00:02:47.980 Sorry, guys.
00:02:48.760 This is how men think, and you can shoot the messenger, but guys, I interview thousands
00:02:54.000 of men.
00:02:54.860 They typically think that divorcees are for fun only. 0.75
00:02:58.560 They don't see them as a long-term option, and the data supports this.
00:03:03.300 Most single mothers never remarry, ever. 1.00
00:03:07.440 Most can't even get a guy to live with them again. 0.98
00:03:10.280 That is the future.
00:03:11.660 This woman is asking for $20,000 a month to raise a child. 1.00
00:03:15.300 What on earth do you need $20,000 a month for?
00:03:18.760 I bet he would be fine with $2,000.
00:03:20.460 That should cover all expenses, even $3,000.
00:03:23.660 I bet you he would even do $5,000.
00:03:26.260 That can get you a one-bedroom apartment in pretty much any major city.
00:03:30.540 And I even think that's a bit extreme.
00:03:33.600 I think if you choose to leave a marriage, then you should have a plan to financially support
00:03:39.740 yourself and the child the rest of your life.
00:03:42.580 No, I do not think that you should be able to depend on the guy that you are no longer
00:03:48.360 giving anything in return to.
00:03:50.720 I believe that is legal robbery, and I think women that are legally robbing men should be 1.00
00:03:57.760 treated as such.
00:03:59.060 Criminals.
00:04:00.080 Criminals.
00:04:01.360 The third thing he pointed out is that her mother was in her ear.
00:04:05.980 And ladies, this is a tough pill to swallow. 1.00
00:04:10.320 A lot of your mothers do not want to see you succeed. 0.97
00:04:15.440 They want to see you just as miserable as them so you can be her emotional tampon the 0.96
00:04:21.880 rest of her life because a lot of your mothers have failed again and again and again in 0.92
00:04:27.420 relationships, and they do not want to see you succeed.
00:04:31.620 There are mothers that are simultaneously telling their daughters that they love them
00:04:37.480 and support them while trying to ruin their marriage.
00:04:40.260 This is common.
00:04:41.420 I would say this is more common than it is not.
00:04:45.040 And the thing is, a lot of these mothers are bitter because they're old and they don't 0.95
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00:06:15.280 So guys, a lot of times I hear about the gender pay gap, and I was actually having a conversation
00:06:20.020 with someone this weekend, and it was a feminist, of course, talking about, oh, I'm so oppressed. 1.00
00:06:27.320 My life is so hard.
00:06:28.620 There's all these reasons women are not paid as much, and I'll say this. 0.57
00:06:33.120 Women are not paid as much because they're lazy. 1.00
00:06:35.360 They don't want to do the hard jobs, and they love to bitch and moan even though they do 1.00
00:06:39.720 less work. 0.71
00:06:41.000 Women want a work-life balance, which is totally fine, but what comes with a work-life balance 1.00
00:06:46.380 is less pay.
00:06:48.160 Women love to take vacations. 1.00
00:06:50.300 Women love to spend money they don't have and then cry about it later. 1.00
00:06:54.720 Women are terrible at negotiating. 1.00
00:06:56.240 And women tend to have easier jobs. 1.00
00:06:59.220 So there was a woman that was on TV that found out live on air that she was not being paid, 0.99
00:07:05.300 and the men were.
00:07:06.120 Let's pull it up.
00:07:06.560 I'm sorry you're so exhausted to be paid to go on air.
00:07:09.820 I'm not paid!
00:07:10.660 That is the moment that that woman realises that that man has been paid £200 to go on
00:07:15.540 TV and debate her, and she has not been paid anything to debate him.
00:07:19.340 And the entire debate was sparked by the Lawrence Fox incident, which was sparked by an argument
00:07:24.560 over the gender pay gap.
00:07:26.400 And he's like so adamant that she'll have been paid.
00:07:28.680 He's just like, oh, I'm so sorry that you're so exhausted being paid to come on TV and debate
00:07:33.100 people.
00:07:33.400 And she's like, I'm not being paid.
00:07:35.320 Are you being paid?
00:07:36.320 I have never seen the foundations of a debate justify the need for the debate in that way.
00:07:44.300 Please go and watch that entire video. 0.95
00:07:46.440 It's just ridiculous. 0.96
00:07:48.420 It's funny because her gut reaction, the feminist gut reaction, is that they must be paid differently 1.00
00:07:54.860 because of gender. 1.00
00:07:57.200 Well, maybe it's because you're just dumber. 1.00
00:07:59.620 Maybe you don't offer as good of commentary. 0.99
00:08:02.120 Maybe you're not as well known.
00:08:03.780 There are many reasons why one person gets paid and another doesn't.
00:08:08.180 As someone that runs a show, that actually thinks these things through, I might know that
00:08:13.540 person A will bring me 10,000 viewers and person B will bring me 2,000 viewers.
00:08:19.020 There are some people that get more value just by coming on the show than the show gets from
00:08:23.920 them. 0.99
00:08:24.740 And what modern women do is they bitch and they cry and they moan later instead of just negotiating 1.00
00:08:30.500 better and working harder. 1.00
00:08:32.300 Women wanted to be in a man's world. 1.00
00:08:34.060 So I say be in it, be in it and fight for your pay. 0.99
00:08:37.480 And if you're not going to do that, please do not bitch, cry and moan about being on TV. 0.99
00:08:42.200 You are a commentator. 0.96
00:08:44.660 Being a commentator is one of the best jobs on the planet.
00:08:48.240 I love being a commentator.
00:08:50.020 It is much easier than, say, a plumber, a trucker, or a factory worker.
00:08:55.160 And so many times women are entitled to more and more pay, even though they have a significant 1.00
00:09:00.520 advantage in the space.
00:09:02.080 It is much easier to blow up as a commentator as a woman than as a man. 0.81
00:09:06.580 The men typically have to work their whole lives to get to a point where the women are typically 1.00
00:09:11.160 given that up front.
00:09:12.360 I don't make the rules.
00:09:13.860 I just tell you what they are.
00:09:15.500 Look at the Daily Wire, for example.
00:09:17.900 The younger people, Brett Cooper, Candace Owens, they're both phenomenal.
00:09:21.740 They're both amazing commentators.
00:09:23.720 But to act like they had to do as much work as, say, Ben Shapiro, Andrew Klavan, and Matt
00:09:31.880 Walsh is just, it's lunacy.
00:09:34.280 It's absolute lunacy. 0.97
00:09:35.760 And it's okay.
00:09:36.440 We all have our strengths and weaknesses.
00:09:38.560 That's okay.
00:09:39.600 I'm not hating on anybody for it.
00:09:41.880 But what I am hating on is women that are given an advantage in a field. 1.00
00:09:46.200 And then you're going to cry about it later.
00:09:48.440 Quit crying and maybe just learn to negotiate better.