JustPearlyThings - July 08, 2023


What Men Want For MARRIAGE

Topics
sexual purity
Hosted by
Hannah Pearl Davis
Mentioned
Lori
Non Traditional Women Want A Traditional Man Why DIVORCE Should Be ILLEGAL

Episode Stats


Length

10 minutes

Words per minute

167.03

Word count

1,807

Sentence count

144

Harmful content

Misogyny

23

sentences flagged

Toxicity

13

sentences flagged

Hate speech

12

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In this episode, Beth Moore talks about her controversial blog post about virgins, tattoos, and why she thinks women should be virgins even if they ve slept around a ton and have tattoos. She also explains why she doesn t think women who have tattoos should have them.

Transcript

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00:00:00.000 So you also had a very controversial quote where you said, men want debt free virgins
00:00:08.500 without tattoos.
00:00:09.440 Yes.
00:00:10.440 That was a blog post that went viral about, it was in 17, 2017 or 18, I don't remember
00:00:18.280 of it.
00:00:19.280 The minute I published that thing, it went wild, wild.
00:00:24.620 I went upstairs and told Ken what I'd done.
00:00:28.960 Lori, I even told one of my sons, he goes, mom, but it started a good conversation.
00:00:41.820 But what was shocking was so many Christian women coming out against me, like, what about 1.00
00:00:49.900 women who aren't virgins? 1.00
00:00:51.220 It's like, what about young women who are virgins? 0.73
00:00:55.140 Don't you want me warning them?
00:00:57.360 And then I even really, I didn't even really, and it was a woman who had been writing me
00:01:00.960 who suggested that title.
00:01:03.060 And she didn't have the tattoos.
00:01:04.060 I had the tattoos.
00:01:05.560 But men, that's what really, most men do want that.
00:01:09.060 What men want a woman who has slept around a ton, who is covered with tattoos, who has 0.98
00:01:14.220 a ton of debt?
00:01:15.220 To me, that was just like common sense.
00:01:17.480 But common sense is flowing out the window.
00:01:19.360 I got nailed from everywhere, except for a lot of big magazines and Good Morning America.
00:01:25.260 They want to interview me.
00:01:26.060 And I didn't want it because I knew they were just going to, although I probably, I could
00:01:28.620 stand on my own two feet.
00:01:29.760 I know against anybody, but a woman from USA Today contacted me and she said, I agree with 0.69
00:01:37.060 you.
00:01:38.060 I want to interview.
00:01:39.060 I said, okay.
00:01:40.060 So we had a great interview.
00:01:41.060 It was a great article that she wrote up on me.
00:01:43.060 Great.
00:01:44.060 She got fired shortly afterwards, but, but, but anyway, um, yeah, so what'd you want to ask
00:01:51.780 about it?
00:01:52.780 Oh, I wanted to know what prompted this and what, because a woman was writing me, a woman
00:01:59.620 was writing me and asked, she wrote me frequently.
00:02:03.060 And I was just talking about what college does to women, you know, so, cause college gets 1.00
00:02:08.620 women sexually active and it, and it debt, and then the tattoos are exploding and they 1.00
00:02:16.140 just get so gray and ugly as you age. 0.99
00:02:18.200 So ugly, full of toxins. 0.94
00:02:20.060 They're not healthy for you.
00:02:21.780 Um, so, I mean, it's just, you see these women with them all over their bodies and my
00:02:28.340 sister had happened to, I was like, no, ah, I tried.
00:02:32.400 Every time I go home, I'm like, I will pay.
00:02:35.120 I will pay you money to take these off.
00:02:37.220 I will pay.
00:02:38.520 She's so stubborn.
00:02:39.520 She won't do it.
00:02:40.520 Yeah.
00:02:41.520 None of my children wanted to do any of that.
00:02:43.020 They never, I think they knew what our answer would be.
00:02:45.520 They knew as well.
00:02:46.520 My mom was so mad. 0.97
00:02:49.240 She was like, do not once they're an adult, they go do what they want, but I know that
00:02:56.280 women who have slept around, who had debt and who have tattoos can have fabulous marriages 1.00
00:03:01.820 when they repent and they're new creatures in Christ.
00:03:04.540 And they become godly submissive wives. 0.69
00:03:06.940 I know they can have great marriages. 0.87
00:03:09.060 That post was written to young women who have not gone that route because there's a lot of
00:03:15.740 scars going that route and a lot of harm done to women. 0.99
00:03:18.700 And, and it's, uh, if you want a good godly man, it's a lot easier to get a good godly
00:03:23.260 man if you haven't slept around and have tattoos and debt.
00:03:26.380 So, but I, you know, I, a lot of things I write offend a lot of people.
00:03:31.900 Well, yeah, what's the alternative?
00:03:35.020 Tell them to sleep around, get tattoos, get a ton of debt.
00:03:38.380 Like, I know people will say this to me and they'll be like, you're not a virgin.
00:03:45.260 I'm like, I'm so I'm not, but it's still a better route.
00:03:47.900 Like I'm not married.
00:03:49.020 Like it's a better route to go, to go that way.
00:03:52.700 You know?
00:03:53.100 And it's funny.
00:03:53.660 I had a cousin who was homeschooled. 0.98
00:03:57.580 And I thought they were so nuts.
00:03:59.100 Her parents, I was like, when I was a kid, I was like, they're homeschooling them. 0.98
00:04:03.180 They're like, they're so sheltered, all this stuff.
00:04:07.740 You know, she's married with two kids right now. 1.00
00:04:09.980 So I'm like, you know, honestly, like the parents knew what they were doing.
00:04:13.500 Yep.
00:04:14.380 She trained, they trained them up in the ways of the Lord, the good ways.
00:04:17.660 God created us and his ways are best for us.
00:04:21.820 He created us to be mothers.
00:04:23.420 Look at our bodies, breasts, wounds, monthly periods, eggs, ovaries, fallopian tubes, hormones.
00:04:32.300 We were created to have children and men were created to give them, to give what we need to
00:04:38.860 have children.
00:04:39.420 You know, I mean, it's just, it's so obvious to anyone who has eyes to see, but feminists tried 1.00
00:04:45.100 to convince women otherwise, you know, that, that no, we were created for the workforce. 1.00
00:04:49.900 We weren't created for marriage and having children, you know, like they were deceived.
00:04:55.420 So I am going to give you a couple of phrases I have heard on my show.
00:04:58.860 We're going to close it off with this.
00:05:00.380 I'm going to, I want to give your, this is going to be so funny, your response.
00:05:04.540 All right.
00:05:05.660 Okay.
00:05:05.900 So women tell me, I need a man who can handle me. 1.00
00:05:09.100 Yikes.
00:05:12.780 She's not going to be, have a good marriage.
00:05:14.780 No, she needs a man who she's going to love and adore and reverence and submit to.
00:05:19.900 That's how we that switch handle me.
00:05:22.540 Oh, good luck.
00:05:24.460 Good luck finding a man who wants to handle you.
00:05:26.860 I mean, it might look really cute at first cause she's cute and bubbly or whatever, but
00:05:32.460 long-term that's a terrible, terrible, terrible term.
00:05:36.620 Okay.
00:05:36.940 So other women they'll say, who cares about body count? 1.00
00:05:41.420 Men that care about that are just insecure.
00:05:49.660 No, they're not insecure.
00:05:53.740 They don't like thinking of a woman being with a bunch of different men and
00:05:58.860 comparing and the things I've heard from young women who had slept with what they knew that I
00:06:06.460 just had no, I was a virgin when I got married that I had no clue of, you know, I was like, Oh, 0.96
00:06:10.380 garbage, you know, it's experiment with each other, learn from each other. 0.90
00:06:16.460 They do care. 0.95
00:06:17.100 Most men, I don't know about most men actually in these days and age where everything is so
00:06:21.900 corrupted.
00:06:22.940 I would still say most men still want women, virgins or women who have not slept around that 1.00
00:06:28.380 much, you know, because it, the STDs, the infertility risk factor, abortions,
00:06:37.180 women suffer so much more from fornication than men do because of the way that we're built. 1.00
00:06:43.900 And so, and emotional, the emotional attachment, the heartbreak, it's like I said, God can transform
00:06:52.940 anybody, but men are taking a lot bigger risk if they marry a woman with a high body count. 1.00
00:06:59.020 Being able to have children and
00:07:03.020 them being faithful to them because if they've been promiscuous outside of marriage, see me,
00:07:07.580 I've only had sex with a man for 43 years almost. 0.99
00:07:11.260 The thought of having sex with anyone else is disgusting. 0.92
00:07:15.180 You know, I just can't even fathom because I, I've only had it with one. 0.94
00:07:18.300 I remember on my honeymoon night thinking,
00:07:20.540 man, I'm glad I'm married to this man.
00:07:22.300 I would not want to just, this is not just something you just slip into. Oops, you know,
00:07:28.940 I'm glad I'm married to this man and we can learn this, learn this together, you know,
00:07:34.060 and, and that's how it should be on your honeymoon night. You're both awkward.
00:07:38.620 But yeah, women who have slept around a lot, have a, it prepares them for divorce 1.00
00:07:45.820 because they'll fall into an affair. I've had men flirt with me and kind of go after me since I've
00:07:51.420 been married, but I had no desire to want to have sex with them or have an affair.
00:07:59.180 No desire. So it's a, it's a virginity. Sexual purity is a protection for marriage. 0.85
00:08:07.180 And I saved myself. My mom told me one thing. She didn't teach us a lot about purity or anything.
00:08:12.460 She wasn't, I wouldn't say she was a godly woman at all, but she said, you want to be able to stand 0.89
00:08:16.540 before the man that you want to marry and say, she told me this when I was like 12 or 13,
00:08:21.260 I've saved myself for you. I thought, yeah, I do. And so I did.
00:08:26.060 That was all she had to say. And that was all I, I, she didn't take me to purity camps and
00:08:31.420 talk to them. Like, but it was, well, it was a sex fornication was rampant when I was in high 0.83
00:08:37.420 school too. Cause I was in high school in the seventies after the sixties, sexual revolution. 0.85
00:08:41.660 So it was rampant. All my friends were sleeping with their boyfriends, but it just never appealed
00:08:44.700 to me. But why do I want to do that? I just had an ick. It was an ick factor to me.
00:08:51.180 So that's a fallacy. No, it, it, the chances of having a faithful wife with a woman with a high 0.99
00:09:02.300 body count is very slim. I'm sure there's statistics that prove that. So, um,
00:09:10.380 another one, you know, another phrase is I don't cook. I don't clean.
00:09:15.740 Let me tell you how I got this ring. And then, you know, they list some sexual acts
00:09:25.180 is a popular song that the teenagers are singing nowadays.
00:09:31.500 That's so sad. Yeah. They're actually marrying these women without who don't know how to cook, 1.00
00:09:39.020 who don't know how to act just because of what they do to them sexually.
00:09:41.740 Yeah. Whoa. I'll just remember. We had one girl who my younger son was dating one time. She came over
00:09:51.260 and we're all eating around the table and she goes, I don't even know how to cook. I don't,
00:09:54.860 I don't want to cook. And right then and there, my son just thought, nope, not for me. No,
00:10:01.900 but, um, that those marriages aren't laid on a good foundation at all. That's because,
00:10:08.780 because you know what women are very sexually available to men before marriage. It seems like
00:10:14.060 to get the man, but from my husband, mentoring men from my scene, they become not sexually available
00:10:21.500 after marriage. They use it as a manipulation tactic because they're not good women. They don't 1.00
00:10:26.940 have integrity or morals. They're just going to get a man because of how they give them sex, you know? 1.00
00:10:32.460 So, um, so they're going to use that. They're going to use that power against their husbands 1.00
00:10:37.420 once they get married. So men don't marry like that.