What Single Mothers MUST do to Get Remarried.
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Summary
If single mothers were serious about getting remarried, they would give custody to the father, not the mother. Why single mothers are not serious about remarrying, and why the father should have custody. Why single mother children turn out far better than those raised in a single mother home.
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nothing to the table and there's no benefit to raising another man's kids if single mothers were
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getting see were serious about getting remarried they would give custody to the father so now
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we have captain save a hose coming in the men that are just basically women coming in
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yeah um uh no way i wanted to find this one the last one i did oh if oh okay because i added i added in
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that if single where is this but there's a tweet and i said if single mothers were serious
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oh here we go okay all right seriously guys stop simping there's no benefit and single mothers bring
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nothing to the table there is no benefit to a man raising another man's kids if single mothers were
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serious about getting remarried they would give custody to the father now i don't know who this
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man is um i guess greek he sells organic baby formula which cool i guess he's got some kids all right
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don't know what his backstory is but typically and i want to i want to give you guys some what i've
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noticed typically the men that have this innate protection of women either had a a weak father or
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be a single mother or wife to single mother it's usually one of those three don't know who this is
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but if single mothers were serious about getting remarried they would give custody to the father
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if the last sentence doesn't prove this account is grifting you are simping to pearl so what i've
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noticed is the biggest simps and grifters accuse me of simping and grifting don't know who he is
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because they don't have a good argument instead of asking what did i say that was untrue what did i say
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that was what is what is not true about this statement they say pearl is a grifter blah blah blah and he's
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too stupid to understand what why i say this to two single mothers if a single mother says
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if a single mother says i want to remarry my goal is to get remarried and they were serious about
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the kids growing up in the best way possible and you have a single mother that is worth marrying let's
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just say it would be a single mother that believes in patriarchy a single mother that believes in
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true traditional values which means the man is the head of the household and therefore he should
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be making the decisions on the children so if single mothers were serious about getting remarried
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they would give custody to the father you should not take a woman seriously who did not give primary
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custody to the father unless that father is a crack addict or something crazy which why are you dealing
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with a woman who has a crack addict ex-husband okay not a good not a good deal he should have custody the
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kids turn out far better and it shows you that that woman is not vindictive and not spiteful and it is
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much easier for a man to come in when the mother only has the kids on weekends or every other weekend four
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days a month is a much easier sell as a single mother and the kids turn out better so my argument is
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if single mothers want to remarry i would say take marriage off the table and accept a long-term
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relationship because you're more likely to get that than marriage and second and second i would say
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give custody to the father so your kids don't turn out to be homeless crack addicts
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let him let the father make the decisions about the children and give him primary custody
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because it is going to be easier for you to get remarried or in a long-term relationship
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if you give the father primary custody and the problem is most of these men that come in and say
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i'm grifting simping whatever this they're too stupid to understand the statistics and the outcomes
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for kids that are raised in a single mother home
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um now i can't make you unignorant but i can try i can do my best
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um so my second question i had on twitter today so that that's my point in case as no don't ever date
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a single mother there are very few exceptions i would argue there's basically no unicorns
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but the few unicorns that there are would be okay giving custody to the father
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because that shows that she can submit to a guy's authority yes yes yes yes and it shows that she is
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not vindictive and not spiteful my second argument is don't ever date a woman that says she was abused
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men have way too much to lose they have way too much to lose in this culture
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it is it is it is it is too risky for men to date a woman that said she's been abused because you
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it is very uncommon that a woman is just a perfect angel and was not abusive at all
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um and he just he just got really mad and just started abusing her
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no no no not not not the norm not the norm so i what i say is men have too much to lose
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and do not date women that say they were abused bad idea they all say that pearl what i mean there's
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girls that don't say that okay so now that we started with my twitter my twitter beefs of the day
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we're gonna go on to um we're gonna go on to reacting to candace owens on bill maher yes
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i'm gonna give my commentary which i'm gonna be honest guys i'm not
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you know my my expertise is more around family law and the court system
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but it'll be interesting to see candace owens on bill maher let's let's pull it up
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i actually think that trump out of office for good reason well was a good thing for your show
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because it allowed you to it's not about my show candace that's insulting no no no no
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sorry i don't believe in that i don't believe in chips i think we've established tonight we've
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all got our own we've all got our own we've all got our own we've all got our own things
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hello who is hiding in my hi this is awesome this is actually a really sick man cave how are you
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my husband has one it's not a man cave because i'm not a husband it's a man cave it's not it's a
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nightclub yeah but men need caves even if they are don't have wives no no i think they do this is a
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nightclub you don't hear it oh i see you're with you see how that's gynocentric a man cave why does
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a man need a cave in his own house anyways i've been with child for three years i've been pregnant for
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three years i've had a baby in 2021 this is like my permanent state now i'm basically an elephant
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you do know that science knows what causes this now i do they know i actually have been trying
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to figure it out for the last three years because it feels like it's a medical condition so you're
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like having irish twins literally i have a two-year-old a one-year-old and this one's due in
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november i've been pregnant for three years so i think it's gonna be weird i'm not pregnant anymore
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i'm gonna be like i don't know what to do with myself what's what and what's that like when you're
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always pregnant honestly it's gotta be rough it's not i think i feel like everyone has this like
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cultural understanding of pregnancy and i think a lot of women play it up cultural no i feel like
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there's this this alien annoying on you from the inside yeah but it's like it's not that big of a
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deal i gotta be honest with you it's like for some women obviously you can look at them and you can
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tell which ones are having what looks like an allergic reaction right um and they have a rough go
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with it but some people just do pregnancy pretty easily and i'm one of those people that just kind of
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like it doesn't really change anything so you're just going to keep going no i wanted to do it all
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back to back because i didn't want to be i don't know when parents do but like we had a kid and we
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waited five years to the next one like who wants to like restart and take out all the bottles and i
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just was like if i'm getting pregnant i'm just going to have all of my kids back to back right and
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then one yeah i think it's genius so you do believe in birth control you're not doing i actually
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don't believe in birth control no you're just doing it the catholic way just like whatever
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happens my husband's so catholic like beyond he's but then you catholic catholics 12 kids i know it's
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dangerous of course it is it's completely dangerous and stupid i'm on your side well what are you gonna
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do trick them and take birth control yeah it's just i don't know catholics they have a lot of kids this
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is just yes i didn't choose this life that was a thing when i was a kid really where did you grow up
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new jersey okay yeah you definitely saw some 14 kids catholic yeah for sure sure but they were
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happy but you don't want you don't want that to be you i do kind of i kind of want a school bus yeah
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yeah like my colleague matt wall she's got six kids i feel i'm naturally competitive
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oh my god yeah i know it's really bad well it's bad i'm very very competitive so i feel like now i might
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just have six kids just seven just to beat them it's really bad definitely bad for the planet let's
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not get into that right away bad to the planet oh my god i mean kids are bad for the planet well
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what everything they're pretty eco-friendly actually adults are bad for the planet well
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they're not ego-friendly in the sense that they're gonna have kids and you know
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you're just making more people who are using resources you know people who argue about planets
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and you know elon musk i don't understand his whole thing about like we should have more people it's like
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there's room of course there's room it's not about room it's about resources we don't have
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the resources we have the room we just don't have i read just the other day where the uh what do they
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call the groundwater we've already like sucked out all the groundwater that we can possibly use they're
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not there's just not enough rain falling for like all your kids it's all about you candace thank you
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so this guy knows the perfect amount this man's an expert on on rainfall
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in his let me let me get this straight i just want to understand the argument
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all right it's interesting because i've just kind of read this whole book debunking all of that
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which i feel like in two years you're going to have a totally different perspective on all of that
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because i've i've seen your growth and where you were a few years ago to where you are now
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and you know elon musk i think is probably pretty educated about the planet well resources uh do you
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think no no necessarily not if either are you if you think that we can somehow keep putting people
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on the planet which has a finite amount of resources oh look there's my zucchini that i gave to i was
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looking for that look at that thing did you grow that i i did and i gave it to uh vivek when he was
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here a couple of weeks ago he didn't take it yeah unless unless he took it and they put another one just
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like it in there but i don't think that let me see that can you hand me that thing i don't want
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to do you actually grow this yes it's actually a really big zucchini i i told him i said you were
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probably at the iowa state fair yeah and they this is probably the kind of thing that you i
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grow vegetables and i i just want to tell you because maybe he doesn't grow them that
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that's a very respectable zucchini would you like it i actually would i actually love zucchini
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so we remind you not to get pregnant right right
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fake or now you're going to leave it there it's going to wind up staying there again no it won't
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i won't leave it i actually love zucchini yeah it's fantastic yeah this is my favorite i actually
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did cucumbers this year and i got some pretty big cucumbers but they're wretched to grow
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okay they just kind of grow out it's almost a shame to have to cut into that but you do
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yeah you do you gotta yeah but um don't you not believe like in the moon landing so i'm supposed
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to believe you about climate i think it's so funny how people take well first off i know okay
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okay all right let me just all right all right hold on guys i'm sorry can we just let's just watch the
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moon landing video for a second here i'm not i'm not saying i don't believe in it okay i'm not i'm not
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i'm not saying i believe it or i don't believe it i'm just saying i could see why she's skeptical
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what i'm talking about with the climate stuff so i'm just going to go ahead and promote you're not
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the only one yeah well i mean i think you should probably realize like that there is in the same
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way that there are narratives i think you're now more awake to the climate hoax is one that funds
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trillions of dollars and okay we are not running out of space you could fit the entire world if you
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stacked it like new york city in dallas so fit i just said it's not about but the point is is that
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that the finally hurricanes are down the whole idea that every time it rains it's because you know
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something bad is happening is like it's it's okay what i will agree with you on is this
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the environmentalists do often lie because they have this idea uh this issue is so important and by
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the way it is so important that it's okay if we shade the truth to get people on our side and i don't
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agree with that i'm always every time matter well not every time what was your climate disaster
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growing up mine was mine was global warming they don't even say it anymore they don't say global
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warming no they don't no they say climate change they went from globally maybe not in your bubble
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but in the world they don't they went from global cooling to global warming they never were in global
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no one was ever talking it was one that's such a stupid talking point that you keep repeating it's
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a zombie lie it was one article in one magazine in one day one week in newsweek or something nobody was
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talking about global cooling yes we understand that the planet is always changing that's a different
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story there was there was a whole climate alarm alarmism via the ipc for global cooling no there
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wasn't there okay there was but do you believe people landed on the moon well let's just back that up
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because if you don't then i think that's i think that really see now he's bringing up something that
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doesn't have anything to do with the conversation because she was winning yes yes he is triggered
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that's a standard for this you are taking something that was a twitter you can't answer
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joke i'm going to answer your question but i'm just trying because i think you should add context
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because what you're doing now is you're jumping away from an actual meaningful discussion about
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climate change and the hoax that's surrounding it and making people fearful to have children
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and you're like going well didn't you once tweet when i said literally i said in the tweet
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it let's have some fun today what is one conspiracy theory that almost got you and that you think
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like could possibly be be real and i said the one that always gets me every time is the moon landing
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how come we haven't gone back so you're taking this one tweet where people then shared
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the things that they think that were not really serious or political on this long thread to now
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apply to a conversation about climate okay but just to be clear like people did land on the moon
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i don't know okay there we go i don't know i do know i just want to know why we didn't go back
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we did go back what did we go back what yeah to the moon with people on the moon okay i'm asking
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a serious question when when did we go when did we go back to people walking on the moon 69 okay
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july 20th 1969 yeah we went back like 10 more times who went back who walked on the moon america
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you know no but like what were the astronauts names educate me why the fuck remembers what the
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astronauts names were that's a big it's a pretty big deal to walk on the moon the first guy and then
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after that yes who else walked on it i don't remember the name she is uh that woman she
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she's destroying him right now destroying him like another dozen yeah are you we okay a lot of other
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dozen humans walked on the moon yes americans all americans it's the earth flat guys
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no no no no no that's stupid but why would they fake
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no no we landed on the mood but why did they get so mad about it like why did this why does everyone
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think that's so stupid to even ask oh no no okay we don't remember we kept going back uh
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apollo 13 was the one they made the movie about that was the one they aborted but that was after
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we had landed apollo 11 i think was i'm not talking about space missions i'm talking about actual people
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yes landing on the moon and walking on it first of all it's it it is an impressive scientific feat it's
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not out of the realm of like how could that possibly happen it's only 250 000 miles away they had figured
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out enough to be able to do it even with these shitty computers that they had in 1969 um yes it's
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risky and we did lose people doing it um but we did do it i mean plainly i mean the idea that you could
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think that this was some sort of hoax i i'm sorry but it colors everything else i'm just saying that
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like i'm just not like you're i feel like you're just trying to find this one i've never talked
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about this on my show you're literally talking about one funny tweet it's relevant it's really
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it's relevant that you won't say no absolutely people walked on the moon it's relevant i i feel
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that he is so condescending he's like um he looks like one of the like liberal hippie dudes from
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like the 70s you can kind of spot them out when they're older like the um i don't know when you
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start to look at people as like archetypes you kind of see things differently so i want to i'm
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i'm going to show you guys something so like when i see um um wait hold on so like when i see let's say
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i'm this girl that was reacting to me the other day well i'm trying to think of someone like
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you are finding an angle here to try to talk about something that i've never talked about
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on my podcast i've never talked people on on a debate on college you you probably had a producer
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dig up what you thought someone said pearl no chance we landed on the moon pearl you're incredible
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love what you do and wish the world would listen to you i'm listening thank you greg thank you
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i'm just saying like i'm not sold on it i'm not because the way they react the way they react to the
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moon landing is the same way they react when you question anything about history like oh women had
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to have been impressed and then they can't really tell you why they had to have landed now i'm not
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even saying they didn't but why are we so close i'm an open-minded gal where there's no most absurd
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tweets like there's no way you it's out like you're saying it's out there even articles about this it's
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so obscure that it's like it's like literally i mean it said like let's have some fun what are some
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of the things that what are some conspiracy theories that you read that you have questions
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about and i was like the moon landing first of all i promise you there is no production on this show
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it's a pretty niche thing of all the things i talk about and i known for but there wasn't even an
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article written about this about me i wasn't planning to talk about it so it's like how did you get
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here because you saw it on twitter i got here somehow i knew it but how because it's out there
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because i've read it in my wikipedia like it's like it's so obscure it's so niche that i'm just like
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curious i don't i don't think that's the case because i think i read it in the vanity fair article
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about you no no no no that's what i mean it's not even relevant for like it's i've never ever had
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a single person sit down and ask me this question well then i've just like america a service because
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we find the baseline of your thinking i'm sorry but that is relevant that you don't think men
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landed on the moon no i just said i would like i first off what i specifically said was you don't
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know i want to know why and i think even elon musk said this in his time piece you guys don't believe
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in dinosaurs are are dinosaurs not real are who is hold on guys i need to get them to
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okay just came about it yeah i think he did he did address it in his uh time i think he probably
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believes it but i'm just not interested in this topic i heard okay i wanted to say this rumor
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that i heard about bill maher now i'd like to say this is a rumor this is a rumor i swore that corn
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star came up and said that she slept with bill maher i'm like pretty sure it was like um she used to
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do podcasts with britney renner i'm like pretty sure like at all so it's just like you just came in
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so fiery about something that i am not known for but what i meant like why is he i mean like i could
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do the same argument i mean aren't you he's talking about how her
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getting pregnant is bad for the planet i mean isn't screwing a porn star bad for everyone you sleep
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with after and give super gonorrhea to do you know what i mean like that was like an obscure tweet of
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like it started with let's have some fun and it was in a joking manner and suddenly you're like
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how could you not believe the moon landing and i'm like the energy is like a little my apologies and i
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i i don't want this to be adversarial no it was just surprising if we hadn't got onto global warming
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well that's something i actually believe so i'm okay to have this topic but i i connected it to that
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because it was like okay but i'm in the public sphere talking about that i've had experts on my
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show talking about like gregory whitenstone talked about his book about the climate change hoax i care
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deeply about that because of the implications and how the climate change hoax and the trillions of
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dollars that are basically disappearing for things like paris accord agreement like i'm not very much
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on record and but and sincere not to beat it not to beat a dead horse but if you think the moon landing
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is a hoax it colors my view of what you think of the global warming being a hoax yeah so now he's
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attacking the person well if you have that opinion you must be wrong what about what she's saying is
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untrue that's what we got to focus on okay but i never said the moon landing is a hoax well you said
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name one conspiracy theory no no i asked you point blank got you i said i don't know anything about
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i don't know anything about i can't even debate you you're sitting here telling me that 12 men have
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gone to the moon since i don't know anything about it and so i keep a very i think that if there's one
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thing that people will say about me is i don't come into conversations about things that i don't
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know so i'm not going to sit here and pretend to be an expert on the moon landing but on things that
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i actually know who's read about everything i'm willing to because i don't care would you read about
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i literally don't it says it's it's to me would you read utterly inconsequential for the work that i
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do yeah i would that's why i said fun thread tell me this like we were like tell me what's one
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conspiracy theory that you believe that we can look into i mean we really should pull the tweet because
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it's it's weird that you're at that you're making this so severe as if i was like on a talk show
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debating the moon landing and so what i'm saying is i've never cared about because it's a because
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it's an undebatable topic completely like if you want to you're making it debatable i don't think
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anyone watching this will think that i made this topic debatable i think you've made this very
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debatable all i told you was i sent a funny tweet and it's a pretty obscure tweet that's never been
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how's life in nashville nashville's real right nashville is a real place and i love nashville
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it's really great yeah it's it's interesting i was just in austin texas and i feel like austin
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and nashville are the two places where the liberal diaspora shall we call it liberals who want to get
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away and i certainly understand why i live here in california it is a ridiculous state that drives
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you insane i totally get it i'm too dug in here to make a change and where else would i find club
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random but i get it i feel like those are the two places they go they go to austin and they go to
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nash yeah and it's annoying they ruin they ruin a state and then conservatives are like all right
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we're gonna go and fix this state so we went to vegas we went to florida and we went to tennessee
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and now the liberals just have to come with nashville yeah because you're not really out in the sticks
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i mean austin's a pretty liberal town and any city is blue right okay so you're out of like
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the fire but you didn't go to the frying pan am i is that about right um yeah that's pretty much it i
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mean for us we were also between texas and tennessee for sure we were probably between chattanooga
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and dallas and we decided on nashville because i think a lot more opportunities were happening there
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was a lot of la people coming starting studios daily wire moved their studio from la to nashville
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so it felt like the right place and i think at that time i was having kids so you you sort of
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naturally crave the suburbs when you have kids obviously like the whole and also new york by the
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way if i was a parent well first of all it would be there'd be unholy hell if i was a parent because
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probably we're going to be on the same page on this some of the stuff that goes on in the schools
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is just so cray cray and i would not be able to keep my mouth shut about it so i'm sure a state like
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tennessee does not have i wonder if she homeschools her kids laws that some of the blue states do where
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like you you're the the parents are not allowed to be notified by the school they're pro actually
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prohibited if the kid changes their gender like they say that would be outing the student to a
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parent right outing is a word we even use in connection with a parent shouldn't everything be
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out to the parent yeah i'm sure i'm singing from your hymnal now am i allowed to have an opinion on
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this or i know i'm just i'm just trying to make up for my faux pas with the moon i just don't care
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i'm just being honest i don't care about that as many of you know i was just banned on tick tock
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