JustPearlyThings - What Single Mothers MUST do to Get Remarried.

00:00:00.000 nothing to the table and there's no benefit to raising another man's kids if single mothers were 1.00

00:00:05.760 getting see were serious about getting remarried they would give custody to the father so now

00:00:14.240 we have captain save a hose coming in the men that are just basically women coming in 1.00

00:00:22.000 yeah um uh no way i wanted to find this one the last one i did oh if oh okay because i added i added in

00:00:36.720 that if single where is this but there's a tweet and i said if single mothers were serious

00:00:44.960 oh here we go okay all right seriously guys stop simping there's no benefit and single mothers bring 1.00

00:00:51.920 nothing to the table there is no benefit to a man raising another man's kids if single mothers were 1.00

00:00:58.080 serious about getting remarried they would give custody to the father now i don't know who this

00:01:03.360 man is um i guess greek he sells organic baby formula which cool i guess he's got some kids all right

00:01:15.840 don't know what his backstory is but typically and i want to i want to give you guys some what i've

00:01:22.160 noticed typically the men that have this innate protection of women either had a a weak father or

00:01:29.760 be a single mother or wife to single mother it's usually one of those three don't know who this is

00:01:36.480 but if single mothers were serious about getting remarried they would give custody to the father 1.00

00:01:41.360 if the last sentence doesn't prove this account is grifting you are simping to pearl so what i've

00:01:46.880 noticed is the biggest simps and grifters accuse me of simping and grifting don't know who he is

00:01:53.600 because they don't have a good argument instead of asking what did i say that was untrue what did i say

00:02:00.080 that was what is what is not true about this statement they say pearl is a grifter blah blah blah and he's 0.99

00:02:09.120 too stupid to understand what why i say this to two single mothers if a single mother says 0.98

00:02:17.520 if a single mother says i want to remarry my goal is to get remarried and they were serious about 1.00

00:02:25.120 the kids growing up in the best way possible and you have a single mother that is worth marrying let's

00:02:31.600 just say it would be a single mother that believes in patriarchy a single mother that believes in 0.91

00:02:38.560 true traditional values which means the man is the head of the household and therefore he should 0.98

00:02:44.560 be making the decisions on the children so if single mothers were serious about getting remarried 1.00

00:02:50.560 they would give custody to the father you should not take a woman seriously who did not give primary 1.00

00:02:57.600 custody to the father unless that father is a crack addict or something crazy which why are you dealing

00:03:05.520 with a woman who has a crack addict ex-husband okay not a good not a good deal he should have custody the

00:03:15.280 kids turn out far better and it shows you that that woman is not vindictive and not spiteful and it is

00:03:22.880 much easier for a man to come in when the mother only has the kids on weekends or every other weekend four 0.84

00:03:30.480 days a month is a much easier sell as a single mother and the kids turn out better so my argument is

00:03:39.120 if single mothers want to remarry i would say take marriage off the table and accept a long-term 1.00

00:03:47.040 relationship because you're more likely to get that than marriage and second and second i would say

00:03:53.760 give custody to the father so your kids don't turn out to be homeless crack addicts

00:04:03.200 let him let the father make the decisions about the children and give him primary custody

00:04:10.400 because it is going to be easier for you to get remarried or in a long-term relationship

00:04:17.760 if you give the father primary custody and the problem is most of these men that come in and say 0.99

00:04:24.080 i'm grifting simping whatever this they're too stupid to understand the statistics and the outcomes 0.99

00:04:32.080 for kids that are raised in a single mother home 1.00

00:04:37.840 men should be giving custody 0.92

00:04:39.600 um now i can't make you unignorant but i can try i can do my best

00:04:49.920 um so my second question i had on twitter today so that that's my point in case as no don't ever date

00:04:57.200 a single mother there are very few exceptions i would argue there's basically no unicorns

00:05:03.760 but the few unicorns that there are would be okay giving custody to the father

00:05:11.920 because that shows that she can submit to a guy's authority yes yes yes yes and it shows that she is 0.96

00:05:19.680 not vindictive and not spiteful my second argument is don't ever date a woman that says she was abused

00:05:26.880 men have way too much to lose they have way too much to lose in this culture 0.70

00:05:37.440 it is it is it is it is too risky for men to date a woman that said she's been abused because you

00:05:48.080 are next you typically attract what you are

00:05:51.600 it is very uncommon that a woman is just a perfect angel and was not abusive at all

00:06:01.280 um and he just he just got really mad and just started abusing her

00:06:09.920 no no no not not not the norm not the norm so i what i say is men have too much to lose

00:06:18.400 and do not date women that say they were abused bad idea they all say that pearl what i mean there's

00:06:26.960 girls that don't say that okay so now that we started with my twitter my twitter beefs of the day

00:06:34.720 we're gonna go on to um we're gonna go on to reacting to candace owens on bill maher yes

00:06:43.440 i'm gonna give my commentary which i'm gonna be honest guys i'm not

00:06:50.800 as political as say

00:06:54.160 you know my my expertise is more around family law and the court system

00:06:59.520 but it'll be interesting to see candace owens on bill maher let's let's pull it up 0.67

00:07:04.640 i actually think that trump out of office for good reason well was a good thing for your show

00:07:09.120 because it allowed you to it's not about my show candace that's insulting no no no no

00:07:14.800 sorry i don't believe in that i don't believe in chips i think we've established tonight we've

00:07:18.480 all got our own we've all got our own we've all got our own we've all got our own things

00:07:27.440 hello who is hiding in my hi this is awesome this is actually a really sick man cave how are you

00:07:34.560 my husband has one it's not a man cave because i'm not a husband it's a man cave it's not it's a

00:07:40.560 nightclub yeah but men need caves even if they are don't have wives no no i think they do this is a

00:07:45.200 nightclub you don't hear it oh i see you're with you see how that's gynocentric a man cave why does

00:07:52.000 a man need a cave in his own house anyways i've been with child for three years i've been pregnant for 1.00

00:08:00.800 three years i've had a baby in 2021 this is like my permanent state now i'm basically an elephant

00:08:04.240 you do know that science knows what causes this now i do they know i actually have been trying

00:08:08.720 to figure it out for the last three years because it feels like it's a medical condition so you're

00:08:11.920 like having irish twins literally i have a two-year-old a one-year-old and this one's due in

00:08:17.440 november i've been pregnant for three years so i think it's gonna be weird i'm not pregnant anymore

00:08:22.080 i'm gonna be like i don't know what to do with myself what's what and what's that like when you're

00:08:26.080 always pregnant honestly it's gotta be rough it's not i think i feel like everyone has this like

00:08:31.520 cultural understanding of pregnancy and i think a lot of women play it up cultural no i feel like

00:08:36.560 there's this this alien annoying on you from the inside yeah but it's like it's not that big of a

00:08:41.920 deal i gotta be honest with you it's like for some women obviously you can look at them and you can 1.00

00:08:46.080 tell which ones are having what looks like an allergic reaction right um and they have a rough go

00:08:51.520 with it but some people just do pregnancy pretty easily and i'm one of those people that just kind of

00:08:55.280 like it doesn't really change anything so you're just going to keep going no i wanted to do it all

00:09:01.040 back to back because i didn't want to be i don't know when parents do but like we had a kid and we

00:09:06.240 waited five years to the next one like who wants to like restart and take out all the bottles and i

00:09:11.040 just was like if i'm getting pregnant i'm just going to have all of my kids back to back right and

00:09:15.280 then one yeah i think it's genius so you do believe in birth control you're not doing i actually

00:09:20.960 don't believe in birth control no you're just doing it the catholic way just like whatever

00:09:25.040 happens my husband's so catholic like beyond he's but then you catholic catholics 12 kids i know it's 1.00

00:09:31.520 dangerous of course it is it's completely dangerous and stupid i'm on your side well what are you gonna 0.99

00:09:37.680 do trick them and take birth control yeah it's just i don't know catholics they have a lot of kids this 0.99

00:09:42.640 is just yes i didn't choose this life that was a thing when i was a kid really where did you grow up

00:09:50.160 new jersey okay yeah you definitely saw some 14 kids catholic yeah for sure sure but they were

00:09:58.480 happy but you don't want you don't want that to be you i do kind of i kind of want a school bus yeah

00:10:03.760 yeah like my colleague matt wall she's got six kids i feel i'm naturally competitive

00:10:09.120 oh my god yeah i know it's really bad well it's bad i'm very very competitive so i feel like now i might

00:10:16.000 just have six kids just seven just to beat them it's really bad definitely bad for the planet let's

00:10:20.720 not get into that right away bad to the planet oh my god i mean kids are bad for the planet well

00:10:27.760 what everything they're pretty eco-friendly actually adults are bad for the planet well

00:10:31.760 they're not ego-friendly in the sense that they're gonna have kids and you know

00:10:35.200 you're just making more people who are using resources you know people who argue about planets

00:10:44.240 and you know elon musk i don't understand his whole thing about like we should have more people it's like

00:10:51.680 there's room of course there's room it's not about room it's about resources we don't have

00:10:56.080 the resources we have the room we just don't have i read just the other day where the uh what do they

00:11:02.560 call the groundwater we've already like sucked out all the groundwater that we can possibly use they're

00:11:08.480 not there's just not enough rain falling for like all your kids it's all about you candace thank you

00:11:18.240 so this guy knows the perfect amount this man's an expert on on rainfall

00:11:24.640 in his let me let me get this straight i just want to understand the argument

00:11:37.680 if we have too many children

00:11:42.480 there won't be enough rainfall

00:11:45.760 all right it's interesting because i've just kind of read this whole book debunking all of that

00:11:53.920 which i feel like in two years you're going to have a totally different perspective on all of that

00:11:58.000 because i've i've seen your growth and where you were a few years ago to where you are now

00:12:03.840 and you know elon musk i think is probably pretty educated about the planet well resources uh do you

00:12:11.200 think no no necessarily not if either are you if you think that we can somehow keep putting people

00:12:19.120 on the planet which has a finite amount of resources oh look there's my zucchini that i gave to i was

00:12:25.440 looking for that look at that thing did you grow that i i did and i gave it to uh vivek when he was

00:12:32.640 here a couple of weeks ago he didn't take it yeah unless unless he took it and they put another one just

00:12:38.400 like it in there but i don't think that let me see that can you hand me that thing i don't want

00:12:42.640 to do you actually grow this yes it's actually a really big zucchini i i told him i said you were

00:12:46.720 probably at the iowa state fair yeah and they this is probably the kind of thing that you i

00:12:51.840 grow vegetables and i i just want to tell you because maybe he doesn't grow them that

00:12:58.320 that's a very respectable zucchini would you like it i actually would i actually love zucchini

00:13:02.880 so we remind you not to get pregnant right right 1.00

00:13:05.520 fake or now you're going to leave it there it's going to wind up staying there again no it won't

00:13:09.120 i won't leave it i actually love zucchini yeah it's fantastic yeah this is my favorite i actually

00:13:13.040 did cucumbers this year and i got some pretty big cucumbers but they're wretched to grow

00:13:17.840 okay they just kind of grow out it's almost a shame to have to cut into that but you do

00:13:21.360 yeah you do you gotta yeah but um don't you not believe like in the moon landing so i'm supposed

00:13:26.240 to believe you about climate i think it's so funny how people take well first off i know okay

00:13:30.960 okay all right let me just all right all right hold on guys i'm sorry can we just let's just watch the

00:13:40.560 moon landing video for a second here i'm not i'm not saying i don't believe in it okay i'm not i'm not

00:13:47.040 saying that but i mean

00:14:07.920 like does this look real to you

00:14:09.920 i'm not saying i believe it or i don't believe it i'm just saying i could see why she's skeptical

00:14:34.720 what i'm talking about with the climate stuff so i'm just going to go ahead and promote you're not

00:14:38.560 the only one yeah well i mean i think you should probably realize like that there is in the same

00:14:45.200 way that there are narratives i think you're now more awake to the climate hoax is one that funds

00:14:50.240 trillions of dollars and okay we are not running out of space you could fit the entire world if you

00:14:54.720 stacked it like new york city in dallas so fit i just said it's not about but the point is is that

00:14:59.920 that the finally hurricanes are down the whole idea that every time it rains it's because you know

00:15:04.320 something bad is happening is like it's it's okay what i will agree with you on is this

00:15:10.880 the environmentalists do often lie because they have this idea uh this issue is so important and by

00:15:19.120 the way it is so important that it's okay if we shade the truth to get people on our side and i don't

00:15:24.480 agree with that i'm always every time matter well not every time what was your climate disaster

00:15:29.440 growing up mine was mine was global warming they don't even say it anymore they don't say global

00:15:33.440 warming no they don't no they say climate change they went from globally maybe not in your bubble

00:15:37.440 but in the world they don't they went from global cooling to global warming they never were in global 0.98

00:15:43.360 no one was ever talking it was one that's such a stupid talking point that you keep repeating it's 0.96

00:15:48.320 a zombie lie it was one article in one magazine in one day one week in newsweek or something nobody was 0.99

00:15:56.880 talking about global cooling yes we understand that the planet is always changing that's a different

00:16:02.240 story there was there was a whole climate alarm alarmism via the ipc for global cooling no there

00:16:06.880 wasn't there okay there was but do you believe people landed on the moon well let's just back that up

00:16:13.680 because if you don't then i think that's i think that really see now he's bringing up something that

00:16:18.080 doesn't have anything to do with the conversation because she was winning yes yes he is triggered

00:16:24.000 that's a standard for this you are taking something that was a twitter you can't answer

00:16:29.200 joke i'm going to answer your question but i'm just trying because i think you should add context

00:16:32.720 because what you're doing now is you're jumping away from an actual meaningful discussion about

00:16:37.680 climate change and the hoax that's surrounding it and making people fearful to have children

00:16:41.840 and you're like going well didn't you once tweet when i said literally i said in the tweet

00:16:46.960 it let's have some fun today what is one conspiracy theory that almost got you and that you think

00:16:52.640 like could possibly be be real and i said the one that always gets me every time is the moon landing

00:16:58.480 how come we haven't gone back so you're taking this one tweet where people then shared

00:17:03.200 the things that they think that were not really serious or political on this long thread to now

00:17:08.400 apply to a conversation about climate okay but just to be clear like people did land on the moon

00:17:13.600 i don't know okay there we go i don't know i do know i just want to know why we didn't go back

00:17:19.440 we did go back what did we go back what yeah to the moon with people on the moon okay i'm asking

00:17:25.840 a serious question when when did we go when did we go back to people walking on the moon 69 okay

00:17:30.800 july 20th 1969 yeah we went back like 10 more times who went back who walked on the moon america 0.58

00:17:36.800 you know no but like what were the astronauts names educate me why the fuck remembers what the 0.74

00:17:40.720 astronauts names were that's a big it's a pretty big deal to walk on the moon the first guy and then 0.81

00:17:46.800 after that yes who else walked on it i don't remember the name she is uh that woman she 1.00

00:17:59.440 she's destroying him right now destroying him like another dozen yeah are you we okay a lot of other

00:18:06.640 dozen humans walked on the moon yes americans all americans it's the earth flat guys 0.99

00:18:11.280 is the no no no that's stupid no but i mean 1.00

00:18:24.320 no no no no no that's stupid but why would they fake 1.00

00:18:30.880 no no we landed on the mood but why did they get so mad about it like why did this why does everyone 1.00

00:18:37.760 think that's so stupid to even ask oh no no okay we don't remember we kept going back uh

00:18:47.040 apollo 13 was the one they made the movie about that was the one they aborted but that was after 0.97

00:18:52.560 we had landed apollo 11 i think was i'm not talking about space missions i'm talking about actual people

00:18:57.120 yes landing on the moon and walking on it first of all it's it it is an impressive scientific feat it's

00:19:03.040 not out of the realm of like how could that possibly happen it's only 250 000 miles away they had figured

00:19:09.920 out enough to be able to do it even with these shitty computers that they had in 1969 um yes it's

00:19:16.240 risky and we did lose people doing it um but we did do it i mean plainly i mean the idea that you could

00:19:24.800 think that this was some sort of hoax i i'm sorry but it colors everything else i'm just saying that

00:19:30.320 like i'm just not like you're i feel like you're just trying to find this one i've never talked

00:19:34.560 about this on my show you're literally talking about one funny tweet it's relevant it's really

00:19:38.720 it's relevant that you won't say no absolutely people walked on the moon it's relevant i i feel

00:19:46.720 that he is so condescending he's like um he looks like one of the like liberal hippie dudes from

00:19:53.840 like the 70s you can kind of spot them out when they're older like the um i don't know when you

00:20:01.840 start to look at people as like archetypes you kind of see things differently so i want to i'm

00:20:06.480 i'm going to show you guys something so like when i see um um wait hold on so like when i see let's say

00:20:14.960 i'm this girl that was reacting to me the other day well i'm trying to think of someone like

00:20:32.080 oh wait let me let me find it hold on guys

00:20:37.280 you are finding an angle here to try to talk about something that i've never talked about

00:20:42.720 on my podcast i've never talked people on on a debate on college you you probably had a producer

00:20:49.360 dig up what you thought someone said pearl no chance we landed on the moon pearl you're incredible

00:20:55.360 love what you do and wish the world would listen to you i'm listening thank you greg thank you

00:21:00.160 i'm just saying like i'm not sold on it i'm not because the way they react the way they react to the

00:21:07.440 moon landing is the same way they react when you question anything about history like oh women had 1.00

00:21:15.600 to have been impressed and then they can't really tell you why they had to have landed now i'm not

00:21:20.720 even saying they didn't but why are we so close i'm an open-minded gal where there's no most absurd

00:21:28.320 tweets like there's no way you it's out like you're saying it's out there even articles about this it's

00:21:33.360 so obscure that it's like it's like literally i mean it said like let's have some fun what are some

00:21:39.680 of the things that what are some conspiracy theories that you read that you have questions

00:21:44.000 about and i was like the moon landing first of all i promise you there is no production on this show

00:21:50.080 it's a pretty niche thing of all the things i talk about and i known for but there wasn't even an

00:21:54.560 article written about this about me i wasn't planning to talk about it so it's like how did you get

00:21:58.640 here because you saw it on twitter i got here somehow i knew it but how because it's out there

00:22:05.200 because i've read it in my wikipedia like it's like it's so obscure it's so niche that i'm just like

00:22:09.600 curious i don't i don't think that's the case because i think i read it in the vanity fair article

00:22:14.000 about you no no no no that's what i mean it's not even relevant for like it's i've never ever had

00:22:19.360 a single person sit down and ask me this question well then i've just like america a service because

00:22:23.920 we find the baseline of your thinking i'm sorry but that is relevant that you don't think men

00:22:30.560 landed on the moon no i just said i would like i first off what i specifically said was you don't

00:22:36.800 know i want to know why and i think even elon musk said this in his time piece you guys don't believe

00:22:42.080 in dinosaurs are are dinosaurs not real are who is hold on guys i need to get them to

00:23:01.600 okay just came about it yeah i think he did he did address it in his uh time i think he probably

00:23:08.400 believes it but i'm just not interested in this topic i heard okay i wanted to say this rumor

00:23:12.560 that i heard about bill maher now i'd like to say this is a rumor this is a rumor i swore that corn

00:23:19.280 star came up and said that she slept with bill maher i'm like pretty sure it was like um she used to 0.99

00:23:28.000 do podcasts with britney renner i'm like pretty sure like at all so it's just like you just came in

00:23:36.720 so fiery about something that i am not known for but what i meant like why is he i mean like i could

00:23:42.720 do the same argument i mean aren't you he's talking about how her 0.96

00:23:50.960 getting pregnant is bad for the planet i mean isn't screwing a porn star bad for everyone you sleep 0.77

00:23:56.480 with after and give super gonorrhea to do you know what i mean like that was like an obscure tweet of 0.97

00:24:02.560 like it started with let's have some fun and it was in a joking manner and suddenly you're like

00:24:08.800 how could you not believe the moon landing and i'm like the energy is like a little my apologies and i

00:24:14.800 i i don't want this to be adversarial no it was just surprising if we hadn't got onto global warming

00:24:19.520 well that's something i actually believe so i'm okay to have this topic but i i connected it to that

00:24:25.360 because it was like okay but i'm in the public sphere talking about that i've had experts on my

00:24:29.680 show talking about like gregory whitenstone talked about his book about the climate change hoax i care

00:24:33.520 deeply about that because of the implications and how the climate change hoax and the trillions of

00:24:38.000 dollars that are basically disappearing for things like paris accord agreement like i'm not very much

00:24:41.680 on record and but and sincere not to beat it not to beat a dead horse but if you think the moon landing

00:24:46.880 is a hoax it colors my view of what you think of the global warming being a hoax yeah so now he's

00:24:53.840 attacking the person well if you have that opinion you must be wrong what about what she's saying is

00:25:02.720 untrue that's what we got to focus on okay but i never said the moon landing is a hoax well you said

00:25:09.040 name one conspiracy theory no no i asked you point blank got you i said i don't know anything about

00:25:14.960 i don't know anything about i can't even debate you you're sitting here telling me that 12 men have

00:25:17.760 gone to the moon since i don't know anything about it and so i keep a very i think that if there's one

00:25:22.560 thing that people will say about me is i don't come into conversations about things that i don't

00:25:26.880 know so i'm not going to sit here and pretend to be an expert on the moon landing but on things that

00:25:31.840 i actually know who's read about everything i'm willing to because i don't care would you read about

00:25:36.000 i literally don't it says it's it's to me would you read utterly inconsequential for the work that i

00:25:40.000 do yeah i would that's why i said fun thread tell me this like we were like tell me what's one

00:25:44.560 conspiracy theory that you believe that we can look into i mean we really should pull the tweet because

00:25:48.560 it's it's weird that you're at that you're making this so severe as if i was like on a talk show

00:25:52.720 debating the moon landing and so what i'm saying is i've never cared about because it's a because

00:25:57.200 it's an undebatable topic completely like if you want to you're making it debatable i don't think

00:26:02.960 anyone watching this will think that i made this topic debatable i think you've made this very

00:26:06.400 debatable all i told you was i sent a funny tweet and it's a pretty obscure tweet that's never been

00:26:11.040 how's life in nashville nashville's real right nashville is a real place and i love nashville

00:26:18.000 it's really great yeah it's it's interesting i was just in austin texas and i feel like austin

00:26:25.120 and nashville are the two places where the liberal diaspora shall we call it liberals who want to get

00:26:34.000 away and i certainly understand why i live here in california it is a ridiculous state that drives 0.92

00:26:39.840 you insane i totally get it i'm too dug in here to make a change and where else would i find club 0.55

00:26:47.600 random but i get it i feel like those are the two places they go they go to austin and they go to 0.80

00:26:55.200 nash yeah and it's annoying they ruin they ruin a state and then conservatives are like all right

00:27:02.000 we're gonna go and fix this state so we went to vegas we went to florida and we went to tennessee

00:27:07.280 and now the liberals just have to come with nashville yeah because you're not really out in the sticks

00:27:14.320 i mean austin's a pretty liberal town and any city is blue right okay so you're out of like

00:27:22.320 the fire but you didn't go to the frying pan am i is that about right um yeah that's pretty much it i

00:27:29.040 mean for us we were also between texas and tennessee for sure we were probably between chattanooga

00:27:35.600 and dallas and we decided on nashville because i think a lot more opportunities were happening there

00:27:41.200 was a lot of la people coming starting studios daily wire moved their studio from la to nashville

00:27:46.080 so it felt like the right place and i think at that time i was having kids so you you sort of

00:27:50.400 naturally crave the suburbs when you have kids obviously like the whole and also new york by the

00:27:56.240 way if i was a parent well first of all it would be there'd be unholy hell if i was a parent because

00:28:02.080 probably we're going to be on the same page on this some of the stuff that goes on in the schools

00:28:08.400 is just so cray cray and i would not be able to keep my mouth shut about it so i'm sure a state like

00:28:14.000 tennessee does not have i wonder if she homeschools her kids laws that some of the blue states do where 1.00

00:28:19.760 like you you're the the parents are not allowed to be notified by the school they're pro actually

00:28:28.480 prohibited if the kid changes their gender like they say that would be outing the student to a

00:28:36.080 parent right outing is a word we even use in connection with a parent shouldn't everything be

00:28:40.960 out to the parent yeah i'm sure i'm singing from your hymnal now am i allowed to have an opinion on

00:28:46.240 this or i know i'm just i'm just trying to make up for my faux pas with the moon i just don't care

00:28:51.840 i'm just being honest i don't care about that as many of you know i was just banned on tick tock

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JustPearlyThings - October 29, 2023

What Single Mothers MUST do to Get Remarried.

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