JustPearlyThings - August 29, 2023


What Women Bring to the Table in 2023


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Length

10 minutes

Words per minute

204.418

Word count

2,187

Sentence count

3

Harmful content

Misogyny

41

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Hate speech

18

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Summary

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In this episode, we talk about what women should and shouldn t settle for and why they settle for what they get. We also discuss why women should not settle and why men should never settle for anything less than what they bring to the table.

Transcript

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00:00:00.000 i want to drop a little bit of knowledge on you guys there's something that a lot of people have
00:00:03.760 failed to point out we keep talking about sex as if sex is what men used to pick wives sex
00:00:08.960 isn't what men used to pick wives the one thing men used to pick wives is something 1.00
00:00:12.480 i know most of you men on this couch cannot give to a man which is submission oh to be
00:00:17.280 submissive to a man i will be submissive to the right man if you're saying that women can't tell
00:00:27.440 um who's successful and who isn't has any of you like dated a homeless man yeah but guys lie
00:00:35.840 and have any of you guys date a homeless girl i don't get it i guarantee i guarantee that the
00:00:41.280 man someone that slept with a homeless person guaranteed no i guarantee are you telling me
00:00:45.040 that happened that's disgusting people sleeping women in the trap i want to ask the guys i want to ask 1.00
00:00:49.600 the guys all right would you guys would you guys wife a chick that was making minimum wage yep but 1.00
00:00:55.760 she was a 22 year old virgin that would be ideal yep there you go see that's the difference that's 1.00
00:01:01.040 why i'm not looking for a virgin like that because that's not what the woman brings to the table 1.00
00:01:05.600 and we don't know what the role did and manipulated i want to go on this i want to go with this
00:01:10.400 well what do women bring to the table in 2023 um do we 20 23 yeah what kind of women we're talking 1.00
00:01:16.880 about i don't know the average woman even good women in 2023 do they bring purity are they virgins yes or no 1.00
00:01:22.800 no mostly no okay okay wait we're just gonna do yes or no okay okay do you have they typically slept
00:01:28.640 around or not slept around i would say yes slept around okay do they bring youth the average age of
00:01:34.080 first marriage is 31 do they bring youth fertility well if it's 91 then no no okay okay so the average
00:01:42.320 but that's because the whole system is messed up wait wait wait no the average woman the average 1.00
00:01:46.720 woman has 1.4 children does the average woman bring children 1.00
00:01:52.800 i'm like 200 200 years ago 200 years ago a guy could get a wife and get seven kids out of it
00:02:00.400 but who wants now he gets 1.4 why do we yeah because women are waiting so long and then we lose our eggs 1.00
00:02:07.120 so no well it's because women again we shoot too high but this is wrong because we're telling women to 1.00
00:02:15.040 just settle for whatever we get how is that right no no we're not saying settle i'm saying get what you
00:02:20.400 deserve and if you can't get what you're sleeping with so what does she deserve a homeless man no no 1.00
00:02:28.640 i'll give you an example you're you're a tv presenter right like that's why you said that
00:02:32.960 earlier okay so there is a girl that has a similar job to you she was um 39 and she went viral this
00:02:39.680 year saying she wouldn't date a bus driver okay so a woman has a job talking into a microphone and i do this 1.00
00:02:46.240 right i i don't think i'm better than a guy with an average job and she was snickering at the thought
00:02:51.760 at 39 years old of dating a bus driver is it really settling dating a bus driver when he marries her
00:03:00.320 he probably doesn't get kids out of it but he could marry a 22 year old jobless chick and have a whole 1.00
00:03:06.560 family so who's settling for him and this is the problem what it's personal it's her own choice
00:03:14.320 it's her choice and it's and it's depending on the lifestyle you have to think women go after a 1.00
00:03:19.600 lifestyle because that was how it was centuries back we would pick the the eligible bachelor who
00:03:25.520 could give us security but they always say no they had no they had lower standards of living
00:03:31.920 yeah we've seen that we've seen women settle no no no i disagree no back then 0.94
00:03:41.680 and this is this is how you guys spread propaganda that's very wrong the people the women that went
00:03:46.720 after high-class men typically came from high-class families or they were very beautiful that was
00:03:53.120 those are the kind of women that got high-class men the rest had to settle for the average 1.00
00:03:57.760 joe down the street and had to work on farms with their husbands and build themselves to get 1.00
00:04:02.560 into that upper class and i would argue it's not it's not your choice for commitment it's your
00:04:07.440 choice for sex but not for commitment yes it's the guy's choice you have to convince him to commit
00:04:11.760 to you you don't have to say yeah though so it's still if i mean not really i have to say yeah
00:04:17.360 no i'm saying you have to be good enough i'm not just gonna marry you because you're rich
00:04:20.640 even the word like we we tell we show our hand based on our language and even the worst even the
00:04:25.200 word that she shouldn't have to settle when most women are overweight most women aren't virgins and 1.00
00:04:30.240 most women that get married are old the idea that we're settling for the guys when really the guys 1.00
00:04:35.200 are settling for us because in 2023 modern women offer less than ever before yeah you as a person 1.00
00:04:46.640 and you have to say well what am i bringing to the table and then you can decide women have all these
00:04:51.600 jobs that are pretty useless it's either like no offense but like talking into a microphone
00:04:56.560 that doesn't build society i'm actually a journalist as well journalism doesn't build society and make
00:05:03.520 it run it's nice it actually exposes a lot of the corruption in this world and a lot of things that
00:05:08.720 you guys don't know about okay we don't care like if if it wasn't for journalists you guys wouldn't even
00:05:13.680 be aware we don't care now and and women have these hr jobs they have the all these jobs in society 1.00
00:05:20.800 that really who pushed this in the first well again this is why this is why i don't think women 1.00
00:05:25.520 should vote don't men not care about what a woman does the problem is when women get more choice we 0.99
00:05:32.480 choose poorly we just don't make good choices because in the last hundred years we've had the choice to be
00:05:36.800 anything we've all chosen to be horrors okay hold on a second hold on a second but we get told we are
00:05:42.640 lazy we get told we're lazy if we decide to just go right you know what i want the soft life okay but
00:05:47.920 then if someone's trying to kill it in their career no it's lazy it's useless okay i'll tell you why the
00:05:53.120 soft life is lazy i actually agree because women will look on instagram they'll see something about 0.98
00:05:58.160 like homemaking and be like wow i really just want to be a homemaker and live on a farm but what do we do
00:06:04.720 what do we do can you listen for two seconds i want to hear it okay so like look at a look at a
00:06:10.160 video of a day in the life of like an amish chick those women like this is what they used to do 100 1.00
00:06:15.280 200 years ago wasn't just sitting at home doing nothing you served the men that was so you're saying
00:06:21.040 women should have good jobs no because men sit and say they don't care what a woman does as long as you 1.00
00:06:26.160 can make a sandwich and you sit at all the guys okay listen i asked guys this on a first date if a
00:06:31.600 girl said i don't know much but i'll do whatever you say oh no please yes
00:06:53.680 that's my point see what you just said there no no no you see what you just said there that's that is
00:06:57.440 what you like say to each other we don't say that you say so you say that you say oh you're
00:07:01.920 a doormat for serving your husband we don't say that yeah other women sabotage your relationship 1.00
00:07:06.640 were you not just saying that like yeah 45 minutes that other women will try and sabotage your 1.00
00:07:10.720 relationship yeah yeah single women are you a doormat because you're serving your husband well if man 1.00
00:07:15.040 doesn't make you than their standards then they're gonna get women like that because they're gonna be 1.00
00:07:19.040 like oh my god you're amazing i'll serve you but a girl that's got something about herself she
00:07:22.640 doesn't want to be a doormat it's not necessarily about standard it's about some people know what
00:07:28.880 role they want to bring to the relationship but you can play that role without being like oh i'll
00:07:32.400 just do nothing because then you're saying that you're lazy so which one is it should you work should
00:07:36.160 you not i actually want to point something out about female nature whenever we have something for 0.97
00:07:41.040 ourselves we're very selfish with it where men if they build something they want to share it with
00:07:45.600 women where for women we want it as a backup plan because the minute men leave they don't give a 1.00
00:07:51.520 they don't want to share women are the ones leaving they leave 80 of the time why do they
00:07:55.440 leave they leave because they're stupid they incentivize too as well financially there's also 0.69
00:08:00.960 a massive financial incentive to you know one of no i'm serious one of the first and i can't i
00:08:05.360 can't remember the exact phrase but basically one of the top reasons is irreconcilable differences
00:08:12.720 that's what people put in court because they don't want to sit and list their life story it's not
00:08:16.560 because there isn't a big thing they don't want to sit and say slept with my sister this is the
00:08:20.480 thing you don't actually know what you're talking about and it's really obvious because women are 1.00
00:08:24.800 incentivized to put as much in court as possible so they can get more for their children because
00:08:29.600 they're usually the ones with the children so why are you going to want the money to have no money
00:08:33.200 while you're with the kids see this is why i know you don't know what you're talking about so it's
00:08:36.640 basically the reason the way the law is written it punishes men for doing the right thing if a guy
00:08:42.320 protects and provides for his family which is what he's supposed to do and what we typically want
00:08:46.720 fathers to do then he doesn't get his kid because he didn't spend as much time but why is that and
00:08:52.080 we look at the data and we look why because when women got power we voted for policies that 0.99
00:08:56.640 discriminated against men but why women have this emotional way of thinking that they can impose
00:09:05.440 anything on them and they would agree because if men took society society would be so much different 0.97
00:09:10.400 and nobody would be uh submissive and nobody would agree on any set rule or i don't know any so she's 0.89
00:09:17.040 right then isn't it yeah yeah and that's what you're saying you're going to be convinced to do whatever
00:09:20.880 you want it's not women's fault it's the society's fault it's not my society just balance it because 0.96
00:09:26.560 not society i mean as far as i'm concerned society is made up of women there are women in society as 1.00
00:09:31.360 well guys i'll explain it to you so even like phrases that you guys are even phrases you guys are saying
00:09:37.280 like on the show like there's stuff that you guys have said that i know is propaganda campaigns
00:09:42.080 like that you guys literally just repeat and women we just literally repeat propaganda because in the 0.99
00:09:46.400 early 1900s what they did was they developed propaganda and they realized basically um here
00:09:52.400 is the sad story and if you don't agree with this sad story you're this and something bad and then women
00:09:58.800 do what you want they either buy the product they either vote for this politician or they um what is it
00:10:06.160 buy the product vote for the politician there's like a third one but they basically developed
00:10:10.080 propaganda campaigns so what they they basically use women as a tool to control society and we are 1.00
00:10:16.240 a source of two tax incomes in a household rather than just one yeah so if you think on the broader
00:10:22.240 spectrum you would understand why everything happens yeah and even in the adam and eve like what
00:10:27.520 what was adam's you know baby what was adam's like worse than he listened to his wife
00:10:31.840 and it just shows what happened and i don't say this to be mean but i just think like when women are 0.98
00:10:38.480 inherent nature's chaos like for whatever reason i don't know why