What Women Need To Attract High Value Men | Pearl Daily
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In this episode, I interview the people of London on the topic of abortion and how they feel about it. Also, I talk about why I think abortion should be legalized and why it s a cop-out.
Transcript
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We're going to get into the topic of the day, so give me a second, guys.
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To the Just Pearly Things YouTube channel, today I'm going to be interviewing the people
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of London, how they feel about this sign, abortion is a cop-out.
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We are in shortage London, so hopefully we can have some good discussions with people that
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Let's talk to the people of the people of London, let's talk to the people of London, see how
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I have a feeling they're not going to be too fond, but we're going to see how it goes.
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Okay, so I was waiting to do these interviews when this guy approached me, and he seemed
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Okay, these were the crazy ladies that I had on.
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Less than 1% of abortions are for, in the case of grape, we say grape on YouTube.
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So I'm not talking about the 1% of cases, I'm talking about the majority.
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The reason I think this is because 40% of women that get an abortion have had two or more
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So to me, it's saying you're not being responsible at this point, and they're not tracking the
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Also, if you have a comment, question, or concern, you can go to my website.
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Feel free to go onto the website, and I do read the chat there.
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When it first happens, or something like that, when there's a woman who's got single
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So with the people with like, well, they're rich, aren't they?
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They're just going to get it done illegally, are they not?
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And about the poor people, do you know what I mean?
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So only 8% of women below the poverty line get abortions.
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One out of three women that make $47,000 per year actually are getting an abortion.
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On top of that, in the U.S., Planned Parenthood, which is the number one provider of abortions,
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it's a racist organization started by a eugenicist.
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I just think for it to be illegal is complete regression.
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I just, in hindsight, I'm like, how did I not get punched in the face at least once?
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This is a common argument I hear, which is the my body, my choice.
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So I'm, I'm, I'm, I'm, I'm, so, so, you can, you can talk in a second, too.
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This would be the most annoying thing in street interviews.
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When you're having a conversation with one person, then another, usually a woman or a
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liberal guy, doesn't understand that I'm trying to finish this conversation.
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And they'll always, they'll always interrupt it.
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No, I believe, obviously, but people, so you believe life starts at conception?
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And by the way, hindsight 2020, this conversation's a waste of time.
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I got to tell you guys, I used to do pro-life debates and I've done shows on this.
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No group of people have ever said, you know what?
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You know, I just say, let's negotiate with them three months across the board.
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Let's get rid of this in Colorado, these crazy states, three months, done, deal, deal.
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I don't think it's right, but I've had enough of you.
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I think sometimes when you guys think I'm a doomer, you're like, Pearl, you're such a doomer.
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If you had the amount of conversations that go like this, where you're trying to convince women,
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hey, maybe don't kill your kid, please, and they're like, nah, nah, I really want to do that.
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You just see how, like, pointless that conversation is.
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These women are going to go on to abort, like, two or three kids.
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And I'm something like, my mom took me to Sarah Palin rallies.
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The same way I realized that the repeal, I don't want to say it on YouTube because I can't anymore.
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It's a way, you know, it makes the people that do it feel really good while getting nothing done.
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I know, and they'll always say, Pearl, Pearl, but we got Roe versus Wade overturned.
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You guys realize in Colorado, you can, there's women that have called abortion centers, and
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you can get abortions like two weeks before birth, a month, they'll do it.
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You know, I'm really happy, like, that makes us feel good.
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It sounds really good, but in all honesty, if a woman wants to abort her kid, she is going to do that.
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Nobody protesting outside of the abortion clinic is going to stop her.
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And what they'll always do is they show these women that they said, oh, this person stopped me.
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And then the abortion people do what the Christian people do, they offer them a speaking career
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where they get to make thousands of dollars profiting off of something that benefited them
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There was just a woman who had sex with a thousand men in a day.
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Now, I will say I do have my amazing Trump hat.
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I see Trump maybe slowing it down a little bit, but...
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Women have aborted an eighth of the world population.
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We would have a whole other city of London if it weren't for women's abortion.
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And they have the nerve to say that we are the less violent gender.
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I don't know how the pro-life people do this for like 20 years.
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And the earliest child to survive a pregnancy is 21 weeks.
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So, you're aborting children that hypothetically could survive on their own outside the womb.
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Do you think that child that was going to be born, like the life that it's going to live,
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And then isn't that actually being cruel to this child that would be born?
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My question is, do you believe that poor children are less valuable?
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They're just not going to have a good value of life.
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So, why should I put a child on this earth that's going to not have a good quality of
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life when I could give it a good quality of life when I'm prepared in the future?
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One, the majority of abortions are with women that make over $47,000 per year.
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I don't, when you're firing back at these facts, I don't, they don't mean anything.
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You're not a person, like, do you earn $47,000 a year?
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Because to me, I don't think you should be having sex if you can't afford a child.
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And if you are, if you are, then why, why can't you get an IUD?
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IUD, plan B, it's, God, they're just so retarded.
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Is this what it's like in a relationship for you guys, where you're arguing with your girlfriend
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But I don't want these women to burn the streets down.
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But this is a common argument I hear, which is we talk about exceptions rather than the rule.
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I think, can I, can I finish, can I, can I, can I, can I, can I finish my sentence?
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I just, I just like to understand, like, why you believe what you believe.
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Like, the people that are against it, do you not understand their point of view?
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Richard says abortion is used as birth control.
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Saying no to abortion is saying no to birth control.
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But, again, the pro-life people, they're wasting their time.
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And I can say this because I wasted my time with this conversation.
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And I've even talked to the women that, like, regret their abortions.
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All I'm saying is it's very mad convenient that you magically regret it now.
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The same way it's mad convenient that the women magically regret the OnlyFans now.
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It's really convenient that you're making a career off of this after you benefited from having it.
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It's kind of like, you know, when the Wolf of Wall Street guy came back.
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But do you guys really want him managing your finances?
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Like, imagine if he started speaking out about, like, ripping people off and saying that's totally wrong.
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But for some reason, like, conservatives, when it's a woman, they have no problem putting them as the speakers when they benefited from the crime.
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And then they blame the doctors and not the women.
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But I'm saying when you take that to the extreme, it doesn't make sense.
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Oh, it's so easy to, like, God, these women are so crazy.
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If you want to see the full video, it's on the website, theaudacitynetwork.com.
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We have a couple we're still uploading, but you can see all the street talks we did.
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I had this one, which was feminism is a hate group.
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I was really hoping to get somebody that did one policy, because to me, we are equal.
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Like, to me, in 2022, I don't think we need feminism, because I don't think there's anything
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Well, I would disagree with that, and I think, I don't know where the conversation would go
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Because I have had, like, you know, when they say that we're going to regret and change
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So today is January 20th of 2025, and it is the inauguration of the 47th President Donald
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And I was thinking about the first time Trump was inaugurated, and it just feels a little
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In 2016, you know, no one really wanted to attend Trump's rallies, and really, you were
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There are plenty of powerful people also attending his inauguration.
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All different cultures, all different types of people, and I was looking at the list of
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powerful men that were at the event, and it really got me thinking, what are the commonalities
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of the women that these powerful men end up with, and how did they get the women that they
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Now, when I think about men in general, I think of two different IQs that they have.
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Somebody that gets things done, somebody that, you know, invents things, whatever, you know,
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Then there's the second type of IQ, and I look at this as a woman IQ.
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Now, this is the ability to, for example, avoid bad situations with women.
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Someone with a high woman IQ is going to be a Leonardo DiCaprio.
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He has been a womanizer for, like, 30 years, no false accusations, no alimony, no pregnancy
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Someone with a low woman IQ gives women the benefit of the doubt, so they don't use protection.
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They're the type to get for a woman to, you know, steal a kid off of them, falsely accuse
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them, the guy with a high woman IQ is going to be, you know, he's going to have cameras
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He's going to have thought through ways to protect himself.
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The other thing that men with high woman IQ have is the ability to get what they want
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Now, this doesn't mean that someone with a high woman IQ doesn't get rejected as Leonardo
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does, but Leonardo says, I want to date young, hot, 20-year-olds.
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A guy with a low woman IQ is not going to be able to do that.
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If Leonardo tomorrow said, I want to be married, I bet he could pull it off because he has a
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Now, he did, you know, to be fair, he did get into a little bit of trouble, right, with
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Another guy with a high woman IQ is LeBron James.
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LeBron James for years has, there's been rumors that he has side chicks in every city.
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I think we can probably assume that, but no cheating scandal has come out with definite
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There is no way that a guy that high profile has kept his dating life outside of his wife
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private for this long without having a high female IQ.
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Now, when it comes to male players, I find there's two different types.
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There's men that are naturals at it and men that have to learn it.
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The men that are naturals usually have an uncle or a dad that taught them this stuff.
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Now, the thing is, most relationships are on the woman's terms, not the man's terms.
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Like, if we're going to go the standard dad in America, it's going to be a simp.
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It's going to be a simp that's afraid of his wife.
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Now, so most men are this, most men are going to have to learn this.
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So the way men start off is they have a tendency to, they have a tendency to have no sex with
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And you know, men are a lot more altruistic than women.
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Men really, even the players, unless they're like really high up, like top 5%, they usually
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When they're in high school also, clarifying that, and they'll say, ladies, let's date.
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And the women say, nah, I'm going to go to college and do better.
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Now, these are men that are not selected for short term relationships or long term relationships.
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Now, usually men try to do things the right way because they have morals.
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You know, they usually don't set out to be womanizers.
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It's just, it's like, it's their problem solving.
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So he'll find a girlfriend, usually in high school or college, try to do things the right
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It's usually no fault of his own other than he just has a low woman IQ.
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And women aren't punished as quickly for having a low male IQ, or like a male IQ, right?
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They're not, if a woman isn't that good at being charismatic with men or charming, it doesn't
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You know, it won't be till mid to late 20s where that starts to catch up with her.
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He either gets dumped or he marries his college or high school sweetheart, blue-pilled until
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she divorces him and learns a harsh lesson about women, the divorce court and paternity
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You've just ruined, you know, men are interesting.
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When they have nothing to lose, when a woman has taken everything from them, for some reason,
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they just get a little hotter because they don't give a F any.
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Like, there's nothing like a guy with nothing to lose anymore.
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Unless he just has a really low woman IQ, then he'll just keep signing up for torture again
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They no longer want to deal with women and they're content on their own.
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And, you know, when you start giving the energy of, I don't care if you're, you literally could
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Women just have a tendency to want to stay more.
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So in order to demonstrate this, I made a fun little slideshow.
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Now, we've talked about the modern woman life cycle.
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Now, we're going to go through the modern male dating life cycle.
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This guy, if he cleaned up a little bit, got in shape, he could be a decent looking guy.
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So they go from this, they find a woman, usually in her late 20s, ready to settle down.
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Now, the key is, a man, we're going to go through the wives today.
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And we're going to pay attention to which men didn't make it to the player phase.
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So, again, Michelle and Barack, they met when she was, they were both in law school.
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And when they're in law school, you know, the important thing is that the woman meets him
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And a lot of times, the guys over here try to virtue signal to these guys, right?
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So they'll say, because they have to get sex somehow, it's like super obvious.
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And these guys are like, you couldn't even get these hoes.
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You know, this is kind of the psychology behind it.
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Then, the best relationships are the ones women want.
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We all knew that JFK was screwing Marilyn Monroe.
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And some men hit their player phase while they're married.
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But he's kind of slept around the entire marriage.
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Michelle Obama said that she hated Barack for a decade.
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And you look at the results of the men who never graduated from the relationship phase and the way their wives treat them.
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I don't say this in a happy way, but, you know, Conor McGregor's wife, he had a grape charge.
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I forgot this couple's name, but they've been married like 50 years, same thing.
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Then you have the rich men that are the targets.
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Now, the rich men that are targets, they're men that went from, they were still in the relationship phase.
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And they become targets because, like, Jeff Bezos was married for, like, 20-something years.
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Predatory women know that they have a low female IQ, and they think it is time to pounce because that man does not know how valuable he is.
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And they'll fall for the easy tricks, like the 90-day rule falls on men with a low female IQ.
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Men with a high female IQ know she's just not that into you.
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Now, some powerful men that have low female IQs are successful, powerful men that insist on marrying multiple times.
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They still don't look into the women that they're dating.
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They say, trust women, you're immoral if you don't trust your woman.
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Men are statistically more likely to remarry with a 35.1% remarriage rate than women who remarry at a 19.4% rate.
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So, then we get into the next topic, and this is something that divided the manosphere.
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Now, the definition of a high-value man is something that is strongly contested.
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Now, a lot of people will say you cannot be a high-value man if you don't have a specific set of morals.
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I don't like to use morality as a measurement because whose morals is number one, and how do we determine who's moral enough to be in the high-value man category?
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For example, Trump has been married three times.
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There are soldiers that are trained to kill people.
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Some people would say that they're both immoral.
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But, if you guys want to make high-value men a moral law, you certainly can, but not on this show.
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Now, when I'm speaking about high-value men, usually it is a guy that makes a certain amount of money, has a certain level of looks, has a certain level of status.
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Now, there is a distinction between men in the corporate world and the public sector versus men in the entertainment business.
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Men outside of entertainment work really, really long hours and do not have the same ability to balance multiple women, especially on the way up to where they want to be.
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Now, do these guys still hire escorts sometimes?
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Especially the more you get into the city, the more of this stuff you're going to see.
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The more in the country it's a little bit less, it still exists.
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But, a lot of these guys see juggling multiple women as a headache.
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Now, they don't always cheat if they are working a lot because cheating is too much and not worth the outcomes or the risk.
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Successful men use a cost-benefit analysis calculator and sometimes the cost of cheating is not worth the benefit.
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For example, Conor McGregor, men will see that and think, you know what, this is too much of a risk.
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They do not always cheat if they never graduated to the player phase.
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So, if men go from sexless to relationship phase to player phase and they don't get to the player phase, they don't have the skills to attract multiple women.
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And so, the women that would come to them, it's not really for who they are, it's because they're targets.
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Some of them still do fall, but, you know, we'll get into that later.
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Also, there's a certain level of attractiveness they want to achieve.
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But, there is a level of charisma that they just don't want to take the time to learn.
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Now, conservative women and liberal women are really not that different.
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But, conservative women are slightly lower risk, at least for image.
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You know, like, Stephen Crowder got completely screwed by a pretty blonde woman from the suburbs.
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But, you know, the high-value men aren't going to deal with the colored hair.
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They're not going to deal with the ratchet, the protest behavior.
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So, conservative women are slightly lower risk.
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And, they have a higher chance of ending up with one of these guys than a liberal woman.
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The traits of a conservative woman translates to what a man would be in Trump's circle would want.
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Conservative women have a tendency to be more feminine, respectful, agreeable, religious, Christian values-based, family-focused, and with married parents.
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Now, again, you guys know that my position on this is that it's not much of a difference, but it's slightly lower.
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Now, high-value men that marry young are targets before and after a divorce.
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Now, again, if they have a low female IQ, high-value men that marry young take the biggest risks out of all the types listed.
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The current divorce rate for first marriage in the United States is around 51%.
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That means that for every high-value man that found a wife that supported him in the beginning, believed in his vision, and stayed with him until he became successful,
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there is another one that gets taken to the cleaners in divorce court.
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One factor could include that if the high-value men that married young in a productive marriage are not.
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Many are putting up with a whiny whale of a woman because it is cheaper to keep her.
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The high-value man that is a target for a gold-digging hoe is the type of guy that is smart in business and intelligence but has low social awareness and social skills.
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The men that are going to get got in every way when it comes to interacting with women.
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If they do get married without the social skills, their wives are going to be able to run circles around them.
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We're going to show you guys examples, but you see this all the time.
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Their wives will only stay with them long enough to get divorced and take half their assets.
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Then every other woman the man meets will be with him for his resources unless he takes the time to learn the skills.
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The high-value man that is a player is your stereotypical alpha male, the type of man that literature and TV shows are written about.
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These men put their purpose in their business first.
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They understand that women are only able to thrive while minimizing the risks of dealing with women.
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These men tend to get younger, hotter women and have a true understanding of what is really going on.
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Or they get a conservative woman that's willing to get on their program.
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Now, women that marry players and retire players treat their husbands better than the women that married them young.
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Women that are married to players know that their husband can and will replace them.
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So they think twice about the out-of-pocket-ish.
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Women that married young may have a husband that can replace them, but many think that he'll never have the balls to do it, and many don't have the balls to do it.
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Or don't want to go through the work of finding another.
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You can tell where a man is at in the life cycle by how his wife talks about him in public.
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Michelle Obama, for example, wrote a book saying that she hated Barack Obama for 10 years.
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You will also see these women say that their husbands are useless without them.
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Women do not disrespect players in public, and if they do, they are replaced.
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Women do dump players at times, but usually it's because they can't handle the stress and loss of control.
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Players are not going to put up with you acting up, and players are going to put with their needs above yours.
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Meaning that that's where you get the women that lost themselves.
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Women that marry players do not disrespect them in public.
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They dress modestly and don't flirt with other men.
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How many men are afraid to smoke in their own house?
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Players don't have this problem because, again, they see women as replaceable.
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They stand behind their men instead of in front or beside.
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Now, I want to show you the difference between, we've shown this video before,
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but between the way J.D. Vance's wife talks about him versus the way Melania talks about him.
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It's very obvious he didn't graduate into the player phase.
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Now, again, some men are naturals, but usually the men that are naturals,
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they're going to get the hottest girl in their high school or the hottest girl in their college, right?
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Ladies and gentlemen, please welcome Usha Vance.
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When I was asked to introduce my husband, J.D. Vance, to all of you, I was at a loss.
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What could I say that hasn't already been said before?
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After all, the man was already the subject of a Ron Howard movie.
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J.D. has shared much of his life through his own eloquent words.
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In his book, Hillbilly Elegy, during his Senate campaign, and now as a sitting United States senator.
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It occurred to me that there was only one thing to do.
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To explain from the heart why I love and admire J.D. and stand here beside him today.
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And why he will make a great vice president of the United States.
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I met J.D. in law school when he was fresh out of Ohio State, which he attended with the support of the GI Bill.
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Remember, players don't get friend-zoned first.
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I mean, who wouldn't want to be friends with J.D.?
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He was then, as now, the most interesting person I knew.
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A working-class guy who had overcome childhood traumas that I could barely fathom to end up at Yale Law School.
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A tough Marine who had served in Iraq, but whose idea of a good time was playing with puppies and watching the movie Babe.
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The most determined person I knew with one overriding ambition.
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To become a husband and a father and to build the kind of tight-knit family that he had longed for as a child.
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I grew up in San Diego in a middle-class community.
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With two loving parents, both immigrants from India, and a wonderful sister.
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That J.D. and I could meet at all, let alone fall in love and marry, is a testament to this great country.
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It is also a testament to J.D., and it tells you something about who he is.
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When J.D. met me, he approached our differences with curiosity and enthusiasm.
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He wanted to know everything about me, where I came from, what my life had been like.
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Although he's a meat-and-potatoes kind of guy, he adapted to my vegetarian diet.
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The men that are players, the woman adapts to him because they have the fear of being replaced.
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Is Trump going to go on a vegetarian diet for Melania?
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This is going to be the second in charge for Commander-in-Chief.
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I wouldn't put them as probably will divorce, but I wouldn't be shocked if they did.
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But I wouldn't put them as a super, like, the worst relationship I've seen, but we'll keep going.
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Before I knew it, he'd become an integral part of my family.
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Like, if you see pictures of him when he was younger to now, like, he's kind of hot now, you know.
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It's not really necessarily about money or status.
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It's why you see men that are, like, drug dealers.
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And some suburban white girl will be dating this literal drug dealer.
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The JD I knew then is the same JD you see today.
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And you'll see the more modern women, they usually meet in law school.
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That, like, you're going to see Michelle Obama.
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Again, because the women got them before they were successful...
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And they don't have any fear they're going to leave...
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Like, they don't see them as the person they are now.
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And his goals in this new role are the same that he has pursued for our family.
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It's safe to say that neither JD nor I expected to find ourselves in this position.
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But it's hard to imagine a more powerful example of the American dream.
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for the trust you've placed in him and in our family.
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And this is the issue the trads are going to have.
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The traditional conservatives keep telling people to marry young.
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Hell no, we don't want to sign up for that when we hear.
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So, very often the proposal story is you know the girl's going to say yes.
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You rappel from a helicopter down a mountainside
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which is inside an Indiana Jones treasure chest